'Do unto others...' I think is the quote here. I frequently get called a gentleman by others and its something I work hard to maintain. There is no higher compliment for a man in my (humble) opinion! And, contrary to the current world view, in my experience, ladies love it when you step aside to let them enter a room first, sit down first and hold their chair, open car doors...it makes them feel good - which I guess answers the end point of your video. Y
I agree Yoric, you should always try and be the best person you can be, politeness and curtesy cost nothing to you and means a great deal to others. Well said Yoric 🙂👍
Good afternoon squire! I'm all for impeccable manners, which is one aspect which seems to be lacking in this current generation more than at any other time. I greet people in the street and in shops, just a 'hello', 'please' and 'thank you'. But I find it a very rare occurrence to be acknowledged. Some people take manners as a weakness, or look at you like you've just stepped off an alien spaceship. I'm ex military and also worked as a doorman for several years. But I've always retained my manners in public, no matter what the situation or what people think of me. Manners maketh man.
Sadly Gavin you are correct, people don't seem to have and patience with one another and lack the basics when it comes to manners, nowadays. Manners costs nothing and gives everything in compliments to others🙂
To be honest, I find that amongst the more matures in facebook groups of interest, there are many, many, who lack both respect and manners, in fact they are simply bloody rude and arrogant. So it is certainly is not restricted to just the younger generations. And there are gaps of course but generally I find manners in lots of younger ppl. Probably not the school kids etc in the streets, but everyone is invisible to them, as they were to us when we were kids. But indeed there are those that need a slap as stated .
That's an interesting observation. I can see how people might use humour as a defence mechanism to deal with uncomfortable situations or to mask their own insecurities. It's a way for them to protect themselves, even if it means laughing at someone else. It can be hurtful when you're on the receiving end of such behaviour, but understanding the underlying reasons can sometimes help in not taking it personally. Often, their laughter is more about their own issues than anything to do with you. In situations like these, it's important to maintain your own self-worth and confidence. Remember, you have control over how you react, and choosing to rise above it can be empowering. Surrounding yourself with supportive and understanding people can also make a big difference.
We hope you enjoy the video🙂
Perfect. Thank you!
Great Video! 👍
You are a True Gentleman, sir!
Keep the videos coming!
Thank you kindly for your lovely comments🙂
Decent human behaviour is crucial for the collective sanity of this world.
glad you enjoyed the video🙂
Never be afraid to pay someone a compliment where one is due. They will always remember you for it.
Absolutely, well put John🙂👍
Thank you, good sir!
You are very welcome, glad you enjoyed the video👍🙂
'Do unto others...' I think is the quote here. I frequently get called a gentleman by others and its something I work hard to maintain. There is no higher compliment for a man in my (humble) opinion! And, contrary to the current world view, in my experience, ladies love it when you step aside to let them enter a room first, sit down first and hold their chair, open car doors...it makes them feel good - which I guess answers the end point of your video. Y
I agree Yoric, you should always try and be the best person you can be, politeness and curtesy cost nothing to you and means a great deal to others. Well said Yoric 🙂👍
Hold yourself to account and present to the world how you would like the world to be
good words👍
Good afternoon squire! I'm all for impeccable manners, which is one aspect which seems to be lacking in this current generation more than at any other time. I greet people in the street and in shops, just a 'hello', 'please' and 'thank you'. But I find it a very rare occurrence to be acknowledged. Some people take manners as a weakness, or look at you like you've just stepped off an alien spaceship. I'm ex military and also worked as a doorman for several years. But I've always retained my manners in public, no matter what the situation or what people think of me. Manners maketh man.
Sadly Gavin you are correct, people don't seem to have and patience with one another and lack the basics when it comes to manners, nowadays. Manners costs nothing and gives everything in compliments to others🙂
To be honest, I find that amongst the more matures in facebook groups of interest, there are many, many, who lack both respect and manners, in fact they are simply bloody rude and arrogant. So it is certainly is not restricted to just the younger generations. And there are gaps of course but generally I find manners in lots of younger ppl. Probably not the school kids etc in the streets, but everyone is invisible to them, as they were to us when we were kids. But indeed there are those that need a slap as stated .
I think we can all be gentlemen, ladies and men both.
Hi there, it doesn't take much effort and gets better results 👍🙂
Nice looking man!
Hi Julian and thank you for your comment, glad you enjoyed the video👍🙂
...interesting, people protect themselves by laughing at you.
That's an interesting observation. I can see how people might use humour as a defence mechanism to deal with uncomfortable situations or to mask their own insecurities. It's a way for them to protect themselves, even if it means laughing at someone else.
It can be hurtful when you're on the receiving end of such behaviour, but understanding the underlying reasons can sometimes help in not taking it personally. Often, their laughter is more about their own issues than anything to do with you.
In situations like these, it's important to maintain your own self-worth and confidence. Remember, you have control over how you react, and choosing to rise above it can be empowering. Surrounding yourself with supportive and understanding people can also make a big difference.