hi Melody, thank you for sharing your vulnerability - I've heard many words from people who have overcome this season, or never really had a period of waiting. You've bravely provided a different sort of comfort as someone who is also in a season of waiting, and your message has a impacted me in a different way. Thank you so much. All blessings to you.
“It’s painful to not know how much longer I’ll have to wait to see that promise fulfilled in my life” I feeeel youuuu. I’m only 21 atm but I have this desire for almost my whole life as well :(( and it’s hard cuz yk you can’t rlly do anything but just prepare yourself when your in your early 20s 🤌🏼🤌🏼 love this testimony and sharing. I never type this much in comment hahahah.
My sister was much like you. She had to wait until she was 33 before she met her husband. I now have a wonderful niece I adore. I’m still single, but I’m okay with it especially because I get to be auntie. 😊💕
Thank you for your affirmation of the role of mother. Thank you for appreciating the importance of every mother while most of the people look down upon them nowadays.
God bless you my spiritual sister. I hope you will find that special person God has prepared for you. But maybe instead of waiting, you need to take a step towards faith and seek out the person you like.
Thank you for sharing. I totally understand how you feel. I EXPERIENCED THAT When I was 40 and still single years ago. I cried to the LORD to give me a husband who can love me like Jesus. God is FAITHFUL. HE heard my cry. Later God gave me a godly and handsome hubby. We have been married for over 10 years now. My hubby is good. He always encourages me to seek more JESUS as my spiritual bridegroom. That intimate relationship with our heavenly bridegroom, JESUS will transform us to be more like HIM. Your song touched my heart. you are a true worshipper. I do believe GOD heard your cry through your song. HE is preparing your prince for you and bringing you both together in HIS time.
Psalm 56:8-9 - "You number my wonderings; put my tears into Your bottle; are they not in Your book? When I cry out to You, then my enemies will turn back; this I know, because God is for me." Thank you for sharing. My prayer for you is as you learn to be holy (and single), God's good plan of marriage and parenthood will come on you, all in HIs yes and amen!
I am just feeling sad about not getting pregnant after waiting and praying for more than 15 years. Now, the simple desire seems almost impossible to come true… Yes, I always want to be a mom just like you.. I am constantly asking God the same question over and over again and expecting to have any answer at all. Maybe God uses the video to answer me in a way…
Thank you Melody for reminding me how important and meaningful it is being a mom. I feel so much better after crying every time, meaning I am gonna live loooong lol.
I could resonate your point. You are so great to speak out the pain of waiting that many single ladies go through. How important the faith we have when the unfulfilled promise is still on the way....
Thank you for sharing your vulnerability. We grieve for something which we have lost. I think yours is more of a desire not yet realized. Your disappointment can be God’s appointment. Enjoy your single life while it lasts. All moments are beautiful in His time. 🙏
For me, it's the pain of hope deferred... mixed with the fear of having it at the same time.. Funny thing is Naomi wanted Ruth to find 'rest' by getting married. I didn't know getting married is a form of rest to women. So im in the pain of not having it, and fear of the pain of having it. Lol. But thx for bringing out tots tat we can only hide at d dark corner of our hearts. Like your expression!
Thank you Melody for sharing the pain in your heart. I totally understand, I’ve been single for years and still single. I have two married friends who can’t have children because of medical reasons, they cried every Mother’s Day.
While you are waiting patiently , be also ready to accept singleness, if it should come to that. God will make a way, and He only wants the best for you.
Melody HWANG be thankful if you are single. Marriage is a big responsibility. And in this end time of the beast system what good is there having children to subject them to the mark.? And JESUS SAID, WOE to those who are pregnant and to those who are nursing babies in those days. Matt 24:19.
Wow you totally speak up for what I want to express. We are fast approaching to the end of the Age of Grace and have limited time here. Look at this world, it's full of wars, rumours of wars, pandemic and injustice everywhere. I don't think it is wise to bring a child to this world at this moment going down to the start of the tribulation. Please everyone, think for the children not yourself when you want to be a parent, take a look of the world as it is now, what if the kid does not like this evil world? How come people want to bring and force a person to be here and put it in their bucket list of life just because they want to be a parent? It is so one sided.
I don't know...I think even Christians can be too absorbed by the world. Life is short, before you know it, you will be in God's presence. Don't worry about marriage and having kids too much. Didn't Paul even preach, when you are married, you will need to worry about your spouse's needs. I would paraphrase it to "all married people or people who want to get married basically are saying, I got too much time, I want more trouble and I don't want to spend all my time worshiping God along!" I think as humans, 99% of the human race can't escape the worldliness. If Jesus is so good, why not go to Him sooner? Why bother to try linger around the world?! Humans are just confused, especially most so-called Christians. There is actually no point in this life. The whole point of life is hopefully you are chosen by God first and you would embrace the salvation. That's about it. All the enjoyment we would do on earth could be done to glorify God. But that's all for nothing. Everything else is meaningless. If when death comes, you are not saved, nothing matters.
Hey sweet lady, pls know that you are an amazing lady. I admire your openness and vulnerability in your videos about your life. I praise lord for a sister like you, a positive influencer, a messenger, a worshipper, a fellow in Christ. Watching your worship and sharing, I saw a lot of myself too. Which makes me feeling not so alone.. Blessings to you Melody, I hope the special brother would be awaken and come to you very soon. Love you lots. 💕💕
放空自己的慾望，主帶領前程。主比我們知道我們❤❤❤
Melody, 你的美，是从内里散发出来的，越爱主就越漂亮！祝福你，上帝必然为你预备最好最适合你的另一半。
hi Melody, thank you for sharing your vulnerability - I've heard many words from people who have overcome this season, or never really had a period of waiting. You've bravely provided a different sort of comfort as someone who is also in a season of waiting, and your message has a impacted me in a different way. Thank you so much. All blessings to you.
You are so sweet my girl….If you trust Him … for sure He will provide!!! No worries girl!!
Thanks for being so real and honest Melody! Bless you, gal! May God bring your knight in shining armour soon! 🙏🏻
“It’s painful to not know how much longer I’ll have to wait to see that promise fulfilled in my life” I feeeel youuuu. I’m only 21 atm but I have this desire for almost my whole life as well :(( and it’s hard cuz yk you can’t rlly do anything but just prepare yourself when your in your early 20s 🤌🏼🤌🏼 love this testimony and sharing. I never type this much in comment hahahah.
祝福妳未來另一半是全速的在預備自己來遇見妳！
Thank you Susan 😭❤️
謝謝妳讓我們看見了一個美好的榜樣，透過不斷地敬拜，讓上帝為妳帶來安慰和盼望！
謝謝Melody的分享，非常寶貴的信息。我結婚快五年一直在祈求孩子，沒有預備就掉下眼淚來。謝謝你的安慰，你在主流文化面前呼喚母性光輝的勇氣讓我敬佩。
謝謝Melody你真誠的分享，相信神有更好的預備。因為我在將近23歲的時候開始單身持續七年，一直在禱告等候神為我預備伴侶，七年來有徬徨，有掙扎、灰心和失望（我一個人在國外）。後來在30歲的時候認識我現在的丈夫，今年我們已經結婚七年，一直都沒有懷上BB，等候了四年（前3年在過二人世界），往後待續懷着順服平安的心等候。姊妹神的意念高過人的意念,神的道路高過人的道路！
其实我们都是天父的小孩，做错事都希望被原谅
每當Melody開始敬拜就感受到神滿滿恩膏的同在，相信神為Melody預備必是超乎所求所想的
Jesus is coming! SOON! Sooner than you think! He is your Groom! 🙏💕
祝福友闻和你们全家，为你,我女儿和所有寻求婚姻的姐妹和弟兄祷告，求天父预备敬虔爱主的另一半弟兄和姐妹，让天父的家里满了敬虔的后代，奉主耶稣的名祷告！阿门！
我也覺得我會活很久，因為我也哭很多。 謝謝妳的分享和觀點，@6:25 Melody妳太美麗了
我覺得我們一定會活得很久😆❤️😘
愿主大大赐福Melody有美好的婚姻和家庭！
请问：平时有线上的敬拜团契可以参与吗？
谢谢Melody！你真是勇敢又真实的女生！真棒！等候耶和华的必不至羞愧🙏 祝福你！
谢谢你这么真诚的分享。我现在在面对这个情况，常常感觉没有盼望，没有希望。但我不敢和家人分享，也没勇气和朋友说。Lord, we need your comfort and we need you to be with us in this season of waiting.
求神给你安排最好的弟兄，你非常美丽可爱，我相信神会给你最好的安排！小朋友自然会有的。谢谢你的分享！
Melody謝謝妳的感動分享，我也是在過程中，持續仰望主，相信神會為我們開路。
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好可惜，很想聽完整段影片，但只懂中文，真的很無奈耶。
我結婚七年了😌但我和先生一直還沒有孩子😌 雖然知道上帝有祂的時間，但看著身邊的人一個個當爸媽，自己內心多少也有難過。
My sister was much like you. She had to wait until she was 33 before she met her husband. I now have a wonderful niece I adore. I’m still single, but I’m okay with it especially because I get to be auntie. 😊💕
I feel I am a loser 😢
Thank you for your affirmation of the role of mother. Thank you for appreciating the importance of every mother while most of the people look down upon them nowadays.
我單身時好像也有這種痛，只是...有家人可以分享真好
雖然說這樣的議題似乎是姐妹們心中在意的，但我想說，其實弟兄們也在意。
弟兄們雖然沒辦法懷孕，但是想要成為父親的念頭……多多少少也是會有的。
或者，退一步來說，是一個想成立家庭的念頭。
有時候，看到身邊的同學（無論哪個階段都是）有家庭了，有小孩了，
看著自己還沒有辦法進入婚姻，進入家庭，心裡頭說不著急是騙人的。
偏偏就是沒機會，或是沒辦法有把握進入下一個階段，唉……
God bless you my spiritual sister. I hope you will find that special person God has prepared for you. But maybe instead of waiting, you need to take a step towards faith and seek out the person you like.
Thank you for sharing. I totally understand how you feel. I EXPERIENCED THAT When I was 40 and still single years ago. I cried to the LORD to give me a husband who can love me like Jesus. God is FAITHFUL. HE heard my cry. Later God gave me a godly and handsome hubby. We have been married for over 10 years now. My hubby is good. He always encourages me to seek more JESUS as my spiritual bridegroom. That intimate relationship with our heavenly bridegroom, JESUS will transform us to be more like HIM. Your song touched my heart. you are a true worshipper. I do believe GOD heard your cry through your song. HE is preparing your prince for you and bringing you both together in HIS time.
謝謝Melody 真摯的分享跟歌聲,溫暖跟醫治了我的心。不管遇到何種情況，神都是我們的醫治者，保護者，我都要持續的來讚美他！
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Melody 謝謝你的分享，作為一個35歲仍然單身等待那個應許的姊妹，我完全感受到你的感受和痛苦，謝謝你讓我覺得不孤單，這樣的痛苦，掙扎，一次又一次⋯⋯仍然地等待，仍舊讚美和感謝！
阿門❤
只能说，祂值得我们百分之百的信心
祝福每个优秀美好的Melody
Psalm 56:8-9 - "You number my wonderings; put my tears into Your bottle; are they not in Your book? When I cry out to You, then my enemies will turn back; this I know, because God is for me." Thank you for sharing. My prayer for you is as you learn to be holy (and single), God's good plan of marriage and parenthood will come on you, all in HIs yes and amen!
I am just feeling sad about not getting pregnant after waiting and praying for more than 15 years. Now, the simple desire seems almost impossible to come true… Yes, I always want to be a mom just like you.. I am constantly asking God the same question over and over again and expecting to have any answer at all. Maybe God uses the video to answer me in a way…
原來會有人為此如此傷痛~原來不太會難過也是種祝福
之前有過的是生氣啦~哈哈!!
Thank you Melody for reminding me how important and meaningful it is being a mom. I feel so much better after crying every time, meaning I am gonna live loooong lol.
I could resonate your point. You are so great to speak out the pain of waiting that many single ladies go through. How important the faith we have when the unfulfilled promise is still on the way....
人生好像滿多類似的狀況，好像那些不經意受的傷，通常都是在發現傷口後開使疼痛，保留多一些關注在那些疼痛上，或許就又更多的認識自己一點點~
或說那些好像很偶然的情緒，但其實一點都不偶然，忙碌的社會讓我們忽略太多了，那些好像真的是勇敢，卻是用忽視堆砌而成的....
說太多了XDDDD 但還是要說........黃牧師根本優秀~！！！！！！！
世界環境會一直改變，我們的心也會跟著晃啊晃，但唯有神的應許永遠明確且不改變，抓對了盼望才不會害怕~
I UNDERSTAND YOUR PAIN, I AM WITH YOU TOO
May GOD's guidance and blessing be with all those who love GOD.
昨天刚刚再一次碰到了这个痛，今天就看到了这个。。。
Thank you for sharing your vulnerability. We grieve for something which we have lost. I think yours is more of a desire not yet realized. Your disappointment can be God’s appointment.
Enjoy your single life while it lasts. All moments are beautiful in His time. 🙏
謝謝！
謝謝！
已婚3個孩子的，也會孤單流淚
For me, it's the pain of hope deferred... mixed with the fear of having it at the same time..
Funny thing is Naomi wanted Ruth to find 'rest' by getting married. I didn't know getting married is a form of rest to women. So im in the pain of not having it, and fear of the pain of having it. Lol.
But thx for bringing out tots tat we can only hide at d dark corner of our hearts.
Like your expression!
may this song comfort many painful souls, praise him in the hard time!
Thank you Melody for sharing the pain in your heart. I totally understand, I’ve been single for years and still single. I have two married friends who can’t have children because of medical reasons, they cried every Mother’s Day.
我也認識一個男生一樣守身、為著神還沒應允的禱告而痛苦
While you are waiting patiently , be also ready to accept singleness, if it should come to that. God will make a way, and He only wants the best for you.
謝謝Melody 的影片，讓我回想到當初30歲左右也因想要孩子想要家庭在掙扎，如同妳說的疼，記得我天天跪在床前，因剛信 主不懂如何禱告，就照著禱告手冊為婚姻禱告，整整禱告一年也在其中經歷很多次 主奇妙引領的經歷， 主也照祂的應許賜下為我預備的弟兄，現在已有3個健康美麗的寶貝孩子，真的是感謝讚美 主的恩典， 神是又真又活滿有恩典憐憫的 神！願主賜福Melody 的婚姻，在 主美好的時候成就！阿們🙏
不是年輕, 離婚後仍有人問及可有再婚的想法, 但聖經告訴我們, 結婚或是單身都可以是祝福, "單身路上的祝福"一書值得一看
單身路上的祝福：聖經的單身觀（第二增訂版）
The Blessings of Singleness: Biblical View on Singleness (Expanded Edition)
作者：楊詠嫦 (Maureen Yeung Marshall)
我已婚也還在等待孩子來💕
Melody HWANG be thankful if you are single. Marriage is a big responsibility. And in this end time of the beast system what good is there having children to subject them to the mark.? And JESUS SAID, WOE to those who are pregnant and to those who are nursing babies in those days. Matt 24:19.
Wow you totally speak up for what I want to express. We are fast approaching to the end of the Age of Grace and have limited time here. Look at this world, it's full of wars, rumours of wars, pandemic and injustice everywhere. I don't think it is wise to bring a child to this world at this moment going down to the start of the tribulation. Please everyone, think for the children not yourself when you want to be a parent, take a look of the world as it is now, what if the kid does not like this evil world? How come people want to bring and force a person to be here and put it in their bucket list of life just because they want to be a parent? It is so one sided.
I don't know...I think even Christians can be too absorbed by the world. Life is short, before you know it, you will be in God's presence. Don't worry about marriage and having kids too much. Didn't Paul even preach, when you are married, you will need to worry about your spouse's needs. I would paraphrase it to "all married people or people who want to get married basically are saying, I got too much time, I want more trouble and I don't want to spend all my time worshiping God along!" I think as humans, 99% of the human race can't escape the worldliness. If Jesus is so good, why not go to Him sooner? Why bother to try linger around the world?! Humans are just confused, especially most so-called Christians. There is actually no point in this life. The whole point of life is hopefully you are chosen by God first and you would embrace the salvation. That's about it. All the enjoyment we would do on earth could be done to glorify God. But that's all for nothing. Everything else is meaningless. If when death comes, you are not saved, nothing matters.
我諗關鍵是孤獨感及絕望感
先找到孩子的父亲吧，一步一步来。
Hey sweet lady, pls know that you are an amazing lady. I admire your openness and vulnerability in your videos about your life.
I praise lord for a sister like you, a positive influencer, a messenger, a worshipper, a fellow in Christ.
Watching your worship and sharing, I saw a lot of myself too. Which makes me feeling not so alone..
Blessings to you Melody, I hope the special brother would be awaken and come to you very soon. Love you lots. 💕💕
謝謝Melody這麼真實 溫暖的分享 讓我知道自己在仰望神 尋求婚姻的路上不孤單
謝謝你好勇敢地說出這種心情跟痛很正常 提醒我不要因為等得很累 傷心就自我定罪 像你說的 難過的時候就哭一哭沒關係🤭 眼淚擦乾再繼續讚美神
你真的好美麗 可愛 又閃閃發亮 求主祝福你和跟我們一樣 正在等待婚姻 孩子 家庭的姊妹🧡
耶和華以勒