Adult Film Star And A 32-Year-Old Virgin Discuss Sex

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  • @lofibrat898
    @lofibrat898 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14460

    Her: I lost my virginity at 14.
    Me: *14. Currently cleaning my room so I can get a hamster HAHA*

    • @b1njjj95
      @b1njjj95 4 ปีที่แล้ว +316

      LOLLLL right? When I was 14 I was more concerned about pampering my guinea pig. 😂

    • @toxicqueen5777
      @toxicqueen5777 4 ปีที่แล้ว +158

      Unfortunately I lost mine at 10 and not out of want

    • @lofibrat898
      @lofibrat898 4 ปีที่แล้ว +131

      Toxic Queen
      Oh no :( thats horrible Im so sorry

    • @toxicqueen5777
      @toxicqueen5777 4 ปีที่แล้ว +145

      Lofi brat it’s alright the person who did it is now on his way to prison and I live with my mom and things are better

    • @Square_Bubble
      @Square_Bubble 4 ปีที่แล้ว +78

      Did you get the hamster

  • @user-xb3dp9ob6u
    @user-xb3dp9ob6u 5 ปีที่แล้ว +33379

    Cudos to the virgin for ditching the guy because he didn't have a condom. That's called self-respect and self-care

    • @africanbrudda5089
      @africanbrudda5089 5 ปีที่แล้ว +116

      Елеонора Ѓорѓиевска didn’t like ur comment because it was at 69

    • @user-xb3dp9ob6u
      @user-xb3dp9ob6u 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      @@africanbrudda5089 😂😂😂😂

    • @TheGregatron3000
      @TheGregatron3000 5 ปีที่แล้ว +136

      Even for myself as a guy I still put it on the condom.

    • @user-xb3dp9ob6u
      @user-xb3dp9ob6u 5 ปีที่แล้ว +133

      @@TheGregatron3000 well good for you. Better safe than sorry

    • @Enigma.j35
      @Enigma.j35 5 ปีที่แล้ว +75

      Right always wrap it unless you know she’s 100% clean

  • @sweartocrab
    @sweartocrab 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8526

    Perfect excuse: "I haven't lost my virginity because I never loose. "

    • @nameless7910
      @nameless7910 5 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Lauren Docherty hell yeah

    • @vesperlynd2000
      @vesperlynd2000 5 ปีที่แล้ว +89

      The spelling of lose is incorrect

    • @NinaMosley7
      @NinaMosley7 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      lose*

    • @iiTzLurks
      @iiTzLurks 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I seen that online bro

    • @randomlysavage298
      @randomlysavage298 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      crazyazzbeech 🤣😭😭

  • @woozean
    @woozean 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2053

    Alternate title: experienced bi and virgin bi talk about sex while flirting

    • @tylerf9879
      @tylerf9879 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      Fax

    • @kloudboy3787
      @kloudboy3787 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      I think your profile pic makes this comment even better

    • @Teme44
      @Teme44 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      😹😹😹

    • @gboykin5208
      @gboykin5208 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      BAHAHAA

    • @lattelynni
      @lattelynni 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Accurate as hell 🤣

  • @luxurypetscz
    @luxurypetscz 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18043

    I love that the blond lady is so confident about never having sex. it's important for women in their 20s who think there's something wrong with them for being virgins.

    • @santiv4
      @santiv4 5 ปีที่แล้ว +65

      Lucie Pospichal she's 32

    • @luxurypetscz
      @luxurypetscz 5 ปีที่แล้ว +329

      @@santiv4 i know... There are women who are 20 or even like 17 who think being virgin makes them weird

    • @AnimeGirl-rt2qi
      @AnimeGirl-rt2qi 5 ปีที่แล้ว +73

      I feel that way too but I'm fine now I'm 20 I feel like it's normal.

    • @Colestercamps
      @Colestercamps 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Lucie Pospichal well it dose make you kind weird .....

    • @halfmoonmari9482
      @halfmoonmari9482 5 ปีที่แล้ว +63

      @@Colestercamps how tf tho?

  • @teddygrande5564
    @teddygrande5564 5 ปีที่แล้ว +19509

    The virgin lady is the most pleasant woman i’ve ever seen

    • @iliketaewithkookiejam3504
      @iliketaewithkookiejam3504 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Who is the guy in your dp ?

    • @writerpaulina
      @writerpaulina 5 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      @@iliketaewithkookiejam3504 i think it's Mark from GOT7

    • @Momo11191
      @Momo11191 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Writer Paulina yeah he is

    • @bwd5900
      @bwd5900 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Iliketae withkookie&Jam army!!!

    • @bwd5900
      @bwd5900 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Kpop is world💜

  • @tiddies2870
    @tiddies2870 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9199

    "been a virgin my whole life, ahaha."
    what

    • @omarkhamis523
      @omarkhamis523 5 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Is your profile Pic from mean girls. Lmao

    • @kachiggamynibba9797
      @kachiggamynibba9797 4 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      When she said that I was questioning my intellect

    • @tussled1
      @tussled1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      Well you can become a BAV (Born again virgin) if you go without sex for 7 years. Blew my mind when I found this out.

    • @marianar.9966
      @marianar.9966 4 ปีที่แล้ว +50

      @@tussled1 it doesn't make sense.

    • @isaiahmartinez1355
      @isaiahmartinez1355 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      man up no it’s Rihanna 🤦🏽‍♂️💀

  • @alexandrak4180
    @alexandrak4180 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4508

    32 year old looking like 25. That's why she looks amazing and doesn't have a man by her side.

    • @lisaknight217
      @lisaknight217 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I for

    • @omgKESO
      @omgKESO 4 ปีที่แล้ว +121

      She looks 50

    • @isaiahmartinez1355
      @isaiahmartinez1355 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Kestrel SC just because she’s big smfh?

    • @MEGA.CHUNGUS
      @MEGA.CHUNGUS 4 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      They both look amazing and that's because they're happy and being their genuine selves.

    • @criticaltweaker4393
      @criticaltweaker4393 4 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      Looks amazing? Shes obese.

  • @shahnaniganman
    @shahnaniganman 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5778

    For everyone wondering what the pink triangle is “A pink triangle has been a symbol for various LGBT identities, initially intended as a badge of shame, but later reclaimed as a positive symbol of self-identity.”

    • @dricardkr
      @dricardkr 5 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Thx!

    • @BugCityUSA
      @BugCityUSA 5 ปีที่แล้ว +238

      more specifically it was the symbol used to identify gay folks who were imprisoned in the concentration camps during the holocaust - a Very heavy meaning symbol that the lgbt+ community has reclaimed

    • @lemonjuice1564
      @lemonjuice1564 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@BugCityUSA after that, ACT UP the first activist organisation against aids, which consisted mostly of gay people, used the symbol in a positive way for the first time. This and other groups like that is part of the reason we have effective aids treatments today 😊

    • @mariaolkinuora10
      @mariaolkinuora10 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      is it a tattoo?

    • @mariuskarlsen1802
      @mariuskarlsen1802 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Shaheer Maqbool disqusting

  • @s.tagerius2514
    @s.tagerius2514 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7220

    There is nothing wrong with being a virgin. Society should stop stigmatising it.

    • @TH-eb7ob
      @TH-eb7ob 5 ปีที่แล้ว +119

      Simon Tagerius Society stigmatized everything. Do what I've done and just stop caring.
      It's like, don't be a virgin but don't have sex with more than one (two max) man either. Lol

    • @gordonfoundhislambsauce
      @gordonfoundhislambsauce 5 ปีที่แล้ว +115

      For real. The girls in my high school asked me if I've had sex yet and i told them no. They looked at me as if I was an old woman🙄

    • @asooomm66
      @asooomm66 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      TheRandomDooDoo /RM's future Wife girl dont be ashamed of that, its all you and thats what you want

    • @OwenRhodri
      @OwenRhodri 5 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      The problem is actually the people who fantasise about virginity and the innocence (some of them paedophiles). If virginity wasn't such a badge then it would be less of a fetish.

    • @Kyurick88
      @Kyurick88 5 ปีที่แล้ว +68

      I'm a 30 y/o virgin and never seen as a bad thing. I'm not religious, I'm not wanting for the right one, I'm not asexual, it's just never felt the urge have sex or even a boyfriend. I'm just enjoying myself ☺️

  • @delailalavender3876
    @delailalavender3876 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1991

    I like how the one named Jane is not the virgin

  • @MuppetMollyStarGleek
    @MuppetMollyStarGleek 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2555

    I was 20 when I lost my virginity. I was the first girl (or even person) she ever kissed. Married her four years later. My best friend and the love of my life.

  • @rosebailey7671
    @rosebailey7671 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10265

    jane looks like an older Halsey

    • @katysmee7018
      @katysmee7018 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Rose Bailey omg yea

    • @Madicelesti
      @Madicelesti 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Right!!
      Small ytber🤠

    • @GloryRae
      @GloryRae 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      yes she does !!

    • @mentiaier9708
      @mentiaier9708 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Omg uncanny resemblance!!!! Freaky! She is gorrrrgeous!!! Can’t stop looking at her

    • @munawarshaheen3690
      @munawarshaheen3690 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      M7ytin

  • @shiyanj2184
    @shiyanj2184 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5844

    "My name is Jane Jupiter" *Pause video* - *Opens new tab*

  • @rachelstoltman7282
    @rachelstoltman7282 5 ปีที่แล้ว +892

    tbh it was kinda really touching/deep when the adult film star said it's fun for people to see you naked and the virgin said "what's that like?"

  • @xxkellyrose2527
    @xxkellyrose2527 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1037

    they almost seem like sisters, or like 2 versions of one person

    • @cfaz6763
      @cfaz6763 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      What a beautiful comment. 😍

    • @jadelian8624
      @jadelian8624 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Agree. They are both very nice and beautiful women. I watched this when it first came out and now watched again because of TH-cam recommendation😂. I forgot most questions and answers, but still remember the two wonderful women.

    • @randomcommenter7170
      @randomcommenter7170 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Especially because of the hair styles.

    • @5954ldydi
      @5954ldydi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yes it amazing when two people can have a conversation while being respectful of each others life experience. It's even more so when they both find common ground. Truly amazing!

    • @sarahdimas857
      @sarahdimas857 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      That's what I thought too!

  • @itzel.510
    @itzel.510 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2204

    🎶”IM AN ADULT VIRGIN”🎶

    • @hunterstackpoole7028
      @hunterstackpoole7028 5 ปีที่แล้ว +91

      The feminists are taking over

    • @user123xyz8
      @user123xyz8 5 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Teen Memes I love everything about this

    • @AnimeGirl-rt2qi
      @AnimeGirl-rt2qi 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Saaame

    • @raymanreal
      @raymanreal 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      This deserves to be in a museum

    • @shapedsilver3689
      @shapedsilver3689 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I was low key looking for this comment

  • @sammantacuevas120
    @sammantacuevas120 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5433

    2 dudes talk about this
    *MAKE IT HAPPEN SISTERS*

    • @dedaveful
      @dedaveful 5 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      James? Is that you shista?

    • @pipips2866
      @pipips2866 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Sammanta Cuevas **shishters

    • @ThePrimarySolution
      @ThePrimarySolution 5 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Please god stop with the sisters crap. James Charles is NOT a good representative of our gay community

    • @dedaveful
      @dedaveful 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@ThePrimarySolution Speak for yourself. just because your salty doesnt mean its ok to spread hate. that is not a good representation of the gay community.

    • @ThePrimarySolution
      @ThePrimarySolution 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@dedaveful it's *you're

  • @beatricep6815
    @beatricep6815 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3003

    As a 22 years old virgin myself I feel really comfortable watching this. I don’t even know if I should be proud or not.
    I haven’t done it because
    1. I didn’t have a long term relationship yet, a relationship where I know for sure the dude will not ditch me after.
    2. I’m kind of scared of what I’m gonna feel in that very moment. Like, what am I suppose to say? To do? To FEEL??
    3. I’m so self conscious. I know I don’t have the perfect body. I actually hate my body if you ask me. I’m fine with my comfy clothes on, but as soon as I kind of show some skin my anxiety kicks in. I’m just thinking that maybe that person that I’m about to do it with will say something rude about my body.
    This is the first time I admitted that I’m a virgin. I feel like, if I will tell someone they’ll laugh and start saying awful things about me being a virgin at 22. Some people are just so cruel when it comes to virgins and I know that because I’ve seen it happen to others.
    I’m feeling kind of relieved that I finally said it.
    EDIT: thank you everyone! i’m glad you’re all so nice and that some of you shared your stories. to the other ones? please stop being rude, horrible towards me and others and don’t be such little keyboard warriors. thank you.

    • @ashleyjoramo4381
      @ashleyjoramo4381 5 ปีที่แล้ว +120

      There's nothing wrong with being a virgin at 21. You just haven't met the right person yet. And when you do, they will love every part of you no matter how you look!❤❤

    • @nelileen1656
      @nelileen1656 5 ปีที่แล้ว +106

      Honestly same I’m 18 and so afraid of anyone seeing me naked that I won’t even start talking to a guy , because like if you have a cute little relationship when you’re 14 you might not get into having sex right away, but I feel like at 18 it’s almost like expected

    • @eliseghattas1528
      @eliseghattas1528 5 ปีที่แล้ว +73

      im 16 and i know im still super young but the pressure around having sex and being "grown" is so heavy. like all my friends have had sex tons of times and i feel lame for being a virgin. ive never even dated anyone:(

    • @madalynno9329
      @madalynno9329 5 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      @@eliseghattas1528 Same here actually! I'm 16 as well. Although honestly... It's not something I'm worried about. Just not interested in doing anything like that, plus I'm way too self conscious.

    • @maddiesander4786
      @maddiesander4786 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      That’s so awesome 👏 way to go I to haven’t find a guy that’s decent enough half the time they only want one thing etc and it’s ridiculous my old friends use to make fun of me for silly things like not sleeping 💤 around etc and it hurt 😔 me I felt so embarrassed 😳 like I ahou be dating a lot of guys and that I should be but I wanna so me and I have found way better friends now it’s so sad 😭 society is these days

  • @omnium_gatherum
    @omnium_gatherum 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2035

    The fact that people were going around telling her that "no guy will wait" is so messed up and flat out wrong. MOST guys won't wait. But there are a select few who aren't dating you FOR sex. If he truly cares about you and loves you he realizes that your body is your own and he should not expect you to do something you don't feel comfortable with. If he truly cares about you and loves you for YOU, he'll respect your desire to have sex or to wait but will still want YOU. He'll respect you period. For a man who truly wants you, it won't be about the sex. It'll be about YOU. If he doesn't want to be with you unless you have sex with him, then YOU were never really his desire. No woman or man should feel pressured to have sex EVER. That should be YOUR choice and you should never be guilt tripped for what you choose to do with YOUR body. If someone can't understand that, then why the heck would you want to be with someone like that anyway??

    • @ShellyS2060
      @ShellyS2060 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Alex Lomeli ❤️💖❤️💖

    • @majorten-toes3906
      @majorten-toes3906 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I waited about 7 months for my first

    • @killua6794
      @killua6794 5 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      My brother waited 8 years until him and his wife got married, they were 14 and 16 when they met, now they're happily married and trying to have kids ❤️

    • @omnium_gatherum
      @omnium_gatherum 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@ShellyS2060 💗💗💗💗

    • @omnium_gatherum
      @omnium_gatherum 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@killua6794 love that!!

  • @sydvaca
    @sydvaca 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4738

    ok but is it just me or is there chemistry between them??
    edit: when she joked about going to makeout they weren't joking!!

    • @Akitten84
      @Akitten84 5 ปีที่แล้ว +173

      Syd Vaca not just you LOL I was thinking, hey maybe they should hook up because that might be the best thing for a virgin.. someone who knows what’s up.

    • @jakerekrut4540
      @jakerekrut4540 5 ปีที่แล้ว +55

      Syd Vaca when she said dreams about “ hot stuff “ she pointed at her

    • @jenniferwooten6554
      @jenniferwooten6554 5 ปีที่แล้ว +144

      Low key I hope they hooked up!

    • @samanthacoombe336
      @samanthacoombe336 5 ปีที่แล้ว +50

      Not just you girl! Came to comments to see if anyone else noticed!

    • @LaDyLuCk2900
      @LaDyLuCk2900 5 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      Yeah I was definitely picking up on that too. Would be cute if they started seeing each other after that

  • @darkanddandy6898
    @darkanddandy6898 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2659

    I'd be really intrigued to see this kind of conversation between two dudes

    • @Michelle-xt2jz
      @Michelle-xt2jz 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      ^^^

    • @danielaquimbayo6937
      @danielaquimbayo6937 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Totally!!

    • @thivz6630
      @thivz6630 5 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      Do guys even have these kinda conversations 🤣

    • @santiv4
      @santiv4 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Thivz girls dont either but watch the video

    • @mf-ws3cj
      @mf-ws3cj 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I have conversations like this a lot with my friends ^ this is the kinda thing we discuss

  • @drummerchick1414
    @drummerchick1414 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2294

    I hope they hooked up. That would be the perfect end to this story 😂

    • @shirosh809
      @shirosh809 4 ปีที่แล้ว +52

      that's what i thought the whole video "i hope something happend!"

    • @kiera__willow7660
      @kiera__willow7660 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Same!

    • @NiaGameZ
      @NiaGameZ 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Fr

    • @midnightmoth6261
      @midnightmoth6261 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      I just liked this comment and it was so satisfying to watch the counter go from 999 likes to 1 k likes. Congrats🎉

    • @Drewless
      @Drewless 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      No they don't match , one is obese

  • @sophiehare2348
    @sophiehare2348 5 ปีที่แล้ว +550

    Whoever told her "Guys wont wait" doesn't know what they're talking about. My dad waited till marriage, my mother didn't

    • @maryleen657
      @maryleen657 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      sophie hare he was probably uglier lol

    • @helliswar
      @helliswar 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      The real man 'not male' he can wait anytime and he only find his happiness in his other soul , we are not animals we have a balance of thinking , sex is one of the best things in humans life but after sex the issue starts xD
      Search about , post nut syndrome
      I love how our body (man) act after ejection

    • @nvnax
      @nvnax 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Giulia Fern ayeee like you then

    • @xandercostas1190
      @xandercostas1190 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Giulia Fern that’s kind of rude

    • @a1yssaa
      @a1yssaa 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Giulia Fern like you!

  • @ZombieLeo94
    @ZombieLeo94 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3300

    Im kinda proud of the 32 year old virgin for some reason.
    Like she had a choice to lose it
    But she chose not to
    That is self control y'all

    • @Jackie-li1kj
      @Jackie-li1kj 5 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Anne Sunil Stephen did you even watch the video?

    • @laytheunicorn5432
      @laytheunicorn5432 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Eh well she wants to lose it but then again I guess she has so many fears about it that it stops her...

    • @my_face_is_gone8955
      @my_face_is_gone8955 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Na fam, if she had a healthier lifestyle and diet. She could get laid.

    • @taylorsandy1550
      @taylorsandy1550 5 ปีที่แล้ว +59

      bob jones that’s rude

    • @Zaron_Gaming
      @Zaron_Gaming 5 ปีที่แล้ว +47

      @@my_face_is_gone8955 she is choosing not to. Is that so hard to believe? That people can decide that their hormones aren't that important. She already admitted she is scared and that's a sign of great knowledge of who you are

  • @maddy280899
    @maddy280899 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2863

    the fact her necklace isn't centred with her tattoo is lowkey giving me anxiety

    • @linao5189
      @linao5189 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Ikr!!

    • @jenniferkassir
      @jenniferkassir 5 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      madalena omg didn’t notice her necklace. Now I have anxiety haha

    • @florencecoderre425
      @florencecoderre425 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Omg came here looking for this comment

    • @mollymeissner348
      @mollymeissner348 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      i just noticed it right before i saw this comment

    • @remhenshaw4313
      @remhenshaw4313 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same girl

  • @bigdaddy2816
    @bigdaddy2816 4 ปีที่แล้ว +140

    Well how is someone gonna say “No one wants to sleep with a Virgin.” When we all start off as one? It doesn’t make much sense

    • @charlesmacvicar1944
      @charlesmacvicar1944 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Like when people say they hate kids

    • @bigdaddy2816
      @bigdaddy2816 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Charles Macvicar I hate kids that’s exactly what my mom tells me 🤣🤣

  • @ChronicleEpicGamer
    @ChronicleEpicGamer 4 ปีที่แล้ว +657

    The virgin lady looks so beautiful omg

    • @salepgjiza3071
      @salepgjiza3071 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Chronicle Epic Gamer shes fat lol( im just kidding... how can someone be so beautiful not only in the outside bit even emotionally)

    • @kaitlynengelland2723
      @kaitlynengelland2723 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      How she looks like shes 50

    • @Isabella-un7is
      @Isabella-un7is 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Kaitlyn Engelland Someone’s projecting

    • @kathi6367
      @kathi6367 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Ikr? And her voice is somewhere between soothing and sexy

    • @Drewless
      @Drewless 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She's not beautiful because she obese, that's why she's stills virgin because she's fat

  • @jona2055
    @jona2055 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11321

    0:13 Hi I'm Jenna I am 32 years old and I have a basketballgame TOOMOOOROOOOOOOOW

    • @rivkathegreat
      @rivkathegreat 5 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      😂😂😂😂😂😭😭😭😭😭😭

    • @Outoff00129
      @Outoff00129 5 ปีที่แล้ว +246

      When she said ".. and I'm a Vir... I was expecting - VIRGO 😂

    • @eriquezaite
      @eriquezaite 5 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      where im pointguard i got twogedndngds

    • @chuyh5247
      @chuyh5247 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      im deadddddttt

    • @etnfan385
      @etnfan385 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      😂😂😂😂😂

  • @daneekaplan4284
    @daneekaplan4284 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5175

    HOW do you not date? Your personality is SO attractive and engaging and you are gorgeous

    • @emptyrax
      @emptyrax 5 ปีที่แล้ว +125

      @@blood7078 dude... shut up

    • @leonoraauer2159
      @leonoraauer2159 5 ปีที่แล้ว +93

      @@blood7078 so you think just because someone is a "little heavier" means nobody wants to date them?

    • @masagolob3215
      @masagolob3215 5 ปีที่แล้ว +105

      I guess she just has high standards. Finding the guy who is worth of her is hard. Not everyone deserves her!

    • @alanawozniak5430
      @alanawozniak5430 5 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      @@blood7078 that is so freaking rude! Just shut the hell up

    • @vascovaz8672
      @vascovaz8672 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      well i wouldnt date her

  • @milaas5
    @milaas5 4 ปีที่แล้ว +189

    She is confident about being virgin, ok, but she have a very common fear: being judged about her body, this is so sad because, no one in the world should be embarrassed about their own body.

  • @sofiaalsaraygi6985
    @sofiaalsaraygi6985 5 ปีที่แล้ว +539

    “Clears history”

    • @kittyjadhav4841
      @kittyjadhav4841 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Sweetsofia 18 ahaha same

    • @adamadid5861
      @adamadid5861 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I gotta clear it for sure cuz i just looked her up

  • @janessadudley9794
    @janessadudley9794 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2101

    I thought her tattoo was a necklace for half of this video

    • @babydoll3906
      @babydoll3906 5 ปีที่แล้ว +217

      janessa dudley I thought it was like a sticker or a piece of paper

    • @nancyanacassus6959
      @nancyanacassus6959 5 ปีที่แล้ว +68

      I thought it was a sticker

    • @pipips2866
      @pipips2866 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Oof

    • @witchmoonstone444
      @witchmoonstone444 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Maybe it’s a cover up tattoo? Either way it’s pretty cool

    • @13din
      @13din 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Omg I loled

  • @laurenricard7088
    @laurenricard7088 5 ปีที่แล้ว +729

    I love how they talk to each other... really nice and polite and respectful of the other one's life choice, without any judgement. They looked like really sweet girls!

  • @mrlunafish
    @mrlunafish 5 ปีที่แล้ว +192

    being a virgin as a non religious person, I just love this vid. you are both BEAUTIFUL and AMAZING and I just love you both. I don't comment unless I truly feel it. You are both amazing, I thank you for the great vid

  • @likiee
    @likiee 4 ปีที่แล้ว +137

    Her using her virginity like ''now ur 26 ur still a virgin'' is me using the fact that i never had a bf to shame myself for 26 years.. But now i finally have one

    • @ginnundso
      @ginnundso 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I hope you're happy though!

    • @maura_the_rose
      @maura_the_rose 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      waited for the right person!

  • @isseume
    @isseume 5 ปีที่แล้ว +948

    As a 24 y/o virgin who has been thinking a lot about her virginity lately, I feel comforted after watching this.

    • @kdgurl94
      @kdgurl94 5 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      same here! Im the same age, and when I tell people, Im not rushing it, they are weirdly confused.

    • @quenotedariayo
      @quenotedariayo 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same

    • @WADAPBITCH71
      @WADAPBITCH71 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same age, same thoughts

    • @MsDivale
      @MsDivale 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I think this is very much a US-thing. To put so much pressure and morals into such a beautiful but in no way mandatory channel of projecting yout feelings... where I come from, sexuality is about trust, passion, love, warmth, care... There are no models pushed onto us like the chewing gum thing. Stay safe, just be yourself in the moment and both your hearts will show you the way.

    • @isseume
      @isseume 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@MsDivale Interestingly enough, I'm Latin American but since we tend to be somewhat influenced by the American culture and everything that we absorb from the media, I agree. Thank you! That last sentence really spoke to me.

  • @chinirios
    @chinirios 5 ปีที่แล้ว +708

    I just turned 25 and I’m still a virgin. I need an emotional connection to be intimate with another person and I never found someone that I feel confident enough to do it. I feel kinda relieved that I'm not the only one.

    • @What___ever
      @What___ever 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Chini I’m 21 and same here

    • @Ausbrahdave
      @Ausbrahdave 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      People make it in to a way bigger thing then what it is.

    • @Luvcook
      @Luvcook 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      No rush, take your time!!

    • @mdb2879
      @mdb2879 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Me too. I am demisexual

    • @caseanful
      @caseanful 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      17584604298 add me on WhatsApp let's be friends you sound cool

  • @elisaquintero5692
    @elisaquintero5692 3 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    I was told by a girl once that “you NEED to have sex with a guy, otherwise he won’t date you, guys like sex so that’s what you have to do” and the embarrassment i felt for her was so extreme, like, why would anyone think that?

  • @jessiemacdonald3436
    @jessiemacdonald3436 3 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    Kinda disturbing how the comment section is “Omg they’d be so cute together” and some comments are “They’re like sisters”

  • @unleashingpotential-psycho9433
    @unleashingpotential-psycho9433 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1231

    Greatest intro ever “wait is he in you?”

    • @isacrps
      @isacrps 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      *D A D D Y*

    • @isacrps
      @isacrps 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Angelo Ramos 💀

  • @oldhead2854
    @oldhead2854 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7137

    i feel like men get judged for being a virgin more then women

    • @margaritam.9118
      @margaritam.9118 5 ปีที่แล้ว +551

      Old Head
      Yes, but for a man it’s easier to hide their virginity, as you guys don’t have any anatomical signs of it.
      If I’ll bleed like a pig and cry, he’ll probably know, right?

    • @oldhead2854
      @oldhead2854 5 ปีที่แล้ว +115

      Greta M. yeah true its just social norm wise

    • @niania1599
      @niania1599 5 ปีที่แล้ว +375

      Margarita M. You shouldn’t bleed after sex ever. If you bleed it’s because you weren’t aroused enough before penetration. The idea that sex leads to pain or bleeding is what causes a lot of girls to avoid having sex out of fear and it’s a stigma that we need to get rid of.

    • @AnimeGirl-rt2qi
      @AnimeGirl-rt2qi 5 ปีที่แล้ว +151

      Yeah it's true but girls are preyed on for being a virgin

    • @caitlin8056
      @caitlin8056 5 ปีที่แล้ว +62

      Niamh Reynolds what about the hymen breaking?

  • @gotthewholesquadlaughing6219
    @gotthewholesquadlaughing6219 4 ปีที่แล้ว +473

    So nobody is going to talk about that upside down triangle on her chest

  • @bigdave8651
    @bigdave8651 5 ปีที่แล้ว +158

    Anyone that's still a virgin at 32 should be proud. Nothing to be ashamed off or pore self doubt upon yourself. They are both lovely women having an intelligent conversation. They naturally seemed like to co-host of a talk show or radio/podcast. If I had a daughter (grown son, yay) I would definitely share this with her. Two good points of view.

    • @alexanderroach6869
      @alexanderroach6869 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      David Hooker Shutup simp you got a whole ass green lantern profile picture. Virgin.

    • @edee.
      @edee. 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Alexander Roach what?! What is wrong with you?

    • @snailart9214
      @snailart9214 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@alexanderroach6869 green lantern is my fave shut up lol

    • @onezappyboi3977
      @onezappyboi3977 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Alexander Roach How tf is he a simp for giving a great explanation, something gone up your ass today?

  • @bethcooper8650
    @bethcooper8650 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4322

    Did they choose girls with similar names who looked kinda similar on purpose...?

    • @poisoned_city_lights
      @poisoned_city_lights 5 ปีที่แล้ว +47

      I don't think so because they both have had separate videos on BuzzFeed

    • @xfreyax1556
      @xfreyax1556 5 ปีที่แล้ว +141

      plot twist: theyre sisters

    • @moonlace1560
      @moonlace1560 5 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      Probably, to show they aren't that different.

    • @cazzawee
      @cazzawee 5 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      they don't look similar... they got short hair that's about it lmao

    • @bethcooper8650
      @bethcooper8650 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      cazzawee I guess they’re not super similar same lipstick tho and similar nose piercings

  • @saintsweetsubs
    @saintsweetsubs 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2960

    I'm cannot imagine losing my virginity at 14 and yet I respect her.
    EDIT: I'm actually really surprised at the amount of ppl who lost their virginity and 14. But then shouldn't be cause the 14 year olds in my school are selling Viagra..

    • @MIYIAUQ
      @MIYIAUQ 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Stop being a punk

    • @thevillagehiddeninthehood1573
      @thevillagehiddeninthehood1573 5 ปีที่แล้ว +137

      CiTYLiGHTS 😤 Stop pressuring people into sex!

    • @kawaiipotato1870
      @kawaiipotato1870 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I'm just looking forward to that but me and my boyfriend are in a long distance relationship so its not that easy...

    • @fluffemsgoesmoo
      @fluffemsgoesmoo 5 ปีที่แล้ว +178

      14 year olds shouldnt be having sex anyway lol

    • @heyhru5908
      @heyhru5908 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Is it really that hard to imagine? I’m 14 and in a friends with benefits kinda relationship with someone

  • @sourpluspatch5903
    @sourpluspatch5903 4 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    The virgin lady looks like someone i can rely on and someone i could trust with all my secrets

  • @leahsglamgossip
    @leahsglamgossip 5 ปีที่แล้ว +763

    both of these women are gorgeous wow. and the virgin is so funny and has a super sexy voice haha! i hope she gets everything she wants

    • @Karina-hk4vy
      @Karina-hk4vy 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thats sweet of you say these worlds (:

    • @rahulsak8255
      @rahulsak8255 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      +918158084709

    • @rahulsak8255
      @rahulsak8255 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Karina-hk4vy +918158084709 iam sexy boy

  • @anaherrera3698
    @anaherrera3698 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2722

    Chewed up piece of gum ?! What the heck

    • @Akitten84
      @Akitten84 5 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      Ana Herrera I’ve heard that before, not in my personal experience, but I’ve heard that said from people who go to “educate” teens about sex. SMH

    • @anaherrera3698
      @anaherrera3698 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Akitten84 humanity 🤦🏻‍♀️

    • @karebear78
      @karebear78 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lol I know right!

    • @maeve6363
      @maeve6363 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Ana Herrera I heard of this before and I was outraged

    • @legzfalloffgirl5148
      @legzfalloffgirl5148 5 ปีที่แล้ว +50

      They use tape too. Once it sticks to one person it loses its adhesive and thus its value... People are not gum or tape

  • @veronique319
    @veronique319 5 ปีที่แล้ว +206

    The chewing-gum part reminded me of Jane the Virgin where Jane has the scrumbled flower instead!

  • @justkristal7170
    @justkristal7170 5 ปีที่แล้ว +234

    9:57 shooting het shot aaaaawwwww

  • @jannecolon3334
    @jannecolon3334 4 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    “Alright well were gonna go make out”
    I loved that 😂
    Honestly, i ship it. They look so comfortable talking abt there stuff they would actually make such a cute couple

  • @Sofiegirl00
    @Sofiegirl00 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2447

    Wow the story of my life being a virgin forever

    • @mydogwearssunglasses7052
      @mydogwearssunglasses7052 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      ARMY

    • @Sofiegirl00
      @Sofiegirl00 5 ปีที่แล้ว +52

      Wild Pacino Well atleast i am not taking my time commenting negativity on other people’s preferences

    • @B0513M
      @B0513M 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Wild Pacino you’re not wrong

    • @Drayonis
      @Drayonis 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Just don't shoot anyone please? #incel

    • @Sofiegirl00
      @Sofiegirl00 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Drayonis I am not an Incel nor violent so i wont be doing that

  • @jazyjas3937
    @jazyjas3937 5 ปีที่แล้ว +97

    The virgin woman is amazing. She has such a great aura and postive energy! Seriously, nothing to be insecure about!

  • @anastasiabeaverhausenleslie
    @anastasiabeaverhausenleslie 5 ปีที่แล้ว +182

    Wait both her parents are conservative Christians and they became supportive about it when they found out?! How?!?!?

    • @colouredlioness2199
      @colouredlioness2199 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Doesn't sound like the full story.

    • @namdo5103
      @namdo5103 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      realistically, it was a lot tougher than it sounds

    • @iiTzLurks
      @iiTzLurks 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      My mom a Christian and she dont care if i lose my virginity or not you guys act like Christians dont like sex etc lol

    • @porshabrown5777
      @porshabrown5777 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      your boi tacotastic 강진혁 八郎 They’re supportive of her being a porn star

    • @kirsteneobrien
      @kirsteneobrien 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I have to agree with you on this one. I’ve always had a high libido. The main reason I’ve waited as long as I have is because I love God more than the idea of having sex with someone who doesn’t like or respect me enough to marry me first. Faith without obedience is worthless. This is an interesting video but behavior/comments like that give Christians a bad name 👎🏻.

  • @aikonography
    @aikonography 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This was 2 yrs ago, I wonder how she is right now. The 32 yr old virgin. She’s so smart and confident. ❤️

  • @niya7163
    @niya7163 5 ปีที่แล้ว +328

    I was staring at the triangle through most of the video 😂

    • @tfbwenjoyer
      @tfbwenjoyer 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I was staring at what's under the triangle 😂

    • @majorten-toes3906
      @majorten-toes3906 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      "Triangle"... sure. We all know we stared at what it's pointing to.

  • @sarasthoughts
    @sarasthoughts 5 ปีที่แล้ว +762

    Honestly I see them together so much idk I ship it

    • @mocha5349
      @mocha5349 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Like roommates who become best friends

    • @LaceFX
      @LaceFX 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Plot twist they are perf for each other

    • @natashafigueroa9198
      @natashafigueroa9198 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Me tooooooo

  • @tssnmm
    @tssnmm 4 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    Both ladies seemed so nice that you can't even stereotype them. They are just.... people.

  • @PhuongNguyen-bm1yn
    @PhuongNguyen-bm1yn 3 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    Her: i lost my virginity at 14
    Me: 15. Crying bc mom refused to get me a kitten

  • @jacquelinesmith9897
    @jacquelinesmith9897 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6313

    Does she seriously have a red triangle tattooed on her chest ? 🤔

  • @isabeauwolf562
    @isabeauwolf562 5 ปีที่แล้ว +157

    I had my first time at 23. My husband waited 3 years while we were dating and he was my first after we got married. He had more experience so he knew what he was doing, teaching me what to do or telling me to trust my instincts, answering my questions.

    • @rnshi
      @rnshi 5 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      To find someone who loves and respects you, someone you equally love and respect, to have goals and values and morals and quirks that each other can love, and then on top of that NOT have sex for 3 years...talk about a miracle. You are blessed!

  • @hanawarida3660
    @hanawarida3660 5 ปีที่แล้ว +447

    Dang, Buzzfeed making good content for once.

    • @bob-qg4vk
      @bob-qg4vk 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      The clown series. Change my mind.

  • @pervysage4934
    @pervysage4934 5 ปีที่แล้ว +883

    "I tried to wait", lost virginity at 14. what? *confused*

    • @TheTable000
      @TheTable000 5 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Oh you are pervy sage !!!

    • @bridgetb3958
      @bridgetb3958 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      i died as well😂😂😂😂And then she said that its fun people seeing you naked am not trying to judge but its not fun to be seen naked she just has no choice😂😂😂

    • @rebeccaflores9284
      @rebeccaflores9284 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Pervy Sage well sometimes ppl have plans to wait but when things happen and sometimes they’re peered pressured and feel like they have too and there plan to wait gets messed up

    • @bunnyboy3200
      @bunnyboy3200 4 ปีที่แล้ว +67

      Y’all, or she’s actually just comfortable being naked and lost her virginity at 14 because she made the choice to. I’m glad you guys are talking about your opinions, I think that’s good, just don’t put words in someone else’s mouth or invalidate them just because you don’t feel the same way. I’m not trying to hate on anyone or be rude to anyone, I just wanted to say this to you all.

    • @nvnax
      @nvnax 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Bridget B I mean she’s just comfortable

  • @emluvmovieslife
    @emluvmovieslife 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1118

    OMG! I had the "chewed up piece of gum" spiel when I was in high school, too. We can't keep teaching children about sex this way with these "metaphors" because it's so demeaning and unhelpful.

    • @legzfalloffgirl5148
      @legzfalloffgirl5148 5 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      People are not gum.

    • @thepaperlulu
      @thepaperlulu 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      We had the “tape” talk. As in you are a piece of tape and the more people you are intimate with the less sticky you become and won’t be able to stick with a relationship. 🙄

    • @recoil53
      @recoil53 5 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      It's meant to be demeaning & unhelpful as a way of controlling people. Religious/social conservatives find to perfectly viable to spread myths, misinformation, and lies to try to get everybody to act the way they want.

    • @meltingstream3385
      @meltingstream3385 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Paper Lulu I like that one

    • @thepaperlulu
      @thepaperlulu 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Melting Stream I don’t see why. It’s just a terrible guilt set upon young people that they should just stay with their first relationship.. if I had done that I would be with a horrible manipulative man, and missed out on a wonderful husband I have now 🤷🏼‍♀️.

  • @heighton7206
    @heighton7206 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4357

    I think they’re attracted to each other .. awww 😍😍😍

    • @eustacia03
      @eustacia03 5 ปีที่แล้ว +371

      I'm glad I'm not the only one who thinks this. I hope they go have a lovely date.

    • @heltamanoban2766
      @heltamanoban2766 5 ปีที่แล้ว +65

      i think that too

    • @chloewhitesell417
      @chloewhitesell417 5 ปีที่แล้ว +164

      Yeah no I don’t see.

    • @bellathebookworm5156
      @bellathebookworm5156 5 ปีที่แล้ว +66

      I ship it tho

    • @nine9od
      @nine9od 5 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      They scissored for sure

  • @GeeaRCee
    @GeeaRCee 5 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    The shipper in me hopes that she's finally not a virgin after this because I ship them both so much. Look at them having such an amazing conversation, time, chemistry, and bond.

  • @1.21Jigawatts
    @1.21Jigawatts 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This was actually lovely. Wonderfully civil and insightful discussion. I came into this expecting a hyper-edited "debate".

  • @altmaris_
    @altmaris_ 5 ปีที่แล้ว +465

    It's actually really interesting to hear that there are a lot of similar concerns between "virgins" Im 27. Havent had sex yet. But for me it's more that I feel I have bigger things to worry about, like uni and work and other nonsexual/nonromantic relationships. Idk. Just on the scale of importance, having sex just isn't a priority for me.

    • @Jorj1
      @Jorj1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      clicktheswitch skrub

    • @altmaris_
      @altmaris_ 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@Jorj1 lmao whatever my dude

    • @paligoldberg
      @paligoldberg 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      im 24, also a virgin and OMG I think the same way, right now my career, work and my goals in life are more important. I'm not going around looking for someone to have sex , if it happens it happens if not, idc 🤷🏻‍♀️

    • @rachel1996xxx
      @rachel1996xxx 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Are we like the same person?

    • @abbygardner9821
      @abbygardner9821 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I LOVE this! I love the way you put this! I definitely agree with this. Much respect.

  • @cin9663
    @cin9663 5 ปีที่แล้ว +920

    That’s gonna be me 32 and virgin

    • @Adrianthegreat1
      @Adrianthegreat1 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sad

    • @annoyingmusiclover1936
      @annoyingmusiclover1936 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Adrian Rogers why? It was her choice that she wanted to do.

    • @iphone202020220
      @iphone202020220 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@annoyingmusiclover1936 No, It's clearly not her choice. She is a land whale.

    • @annoyingmusiclover1936
      @annoyingmusiclover1936 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Viewing I’m talking about the person that said it would be sad. It is not

    • @adriiirichards7176
      @adriiirichards7176 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Kinda sad 😂

  • @animefanatic33
    @animefanatic33 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ok, honest to God, this is my favorite video ever!! I love how both ladies were honest and open about their experiences. Both ladies were super respectful with each other and super understanding with one another despite their differences and I LOVE it~!! Bravo Buzzfeed~!! BRAVO

  • @Panndia
    @Panndia 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Loved this. It was really cool seeing someone (especially someone so beautiful) who is going through the same struggles as me. 27 and still a virgin and at this point all the reasons I was waiting don’t make sense to me anymore, but now there’s the new obstacle of trying to explain to a guy your seeing that you’re a 30 year old virgin (and no you don’t want to stay that way, and no he’s not tempting you away from God or anything). So far hasn’t been an obstacle I’ve been able to overcome. It’s just nice to know you’re not alone

  • @ryos5168
    @ryos5168 5 ปีที่แล้ว +797

    I will give my left arm for them to go on a date

    • @devinman00
      @devinman00 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Ryo S no you won’t

    • @amandagaskill7609
      @amandagaskill7609 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Not me

    • @AliumMoAnn
      @AliumMoAnn 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Why your left arm? lol

    • @morganrooke3104
      @morganrooke3104 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      me too

    • @77devon
      @77devon 5 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      if that's you in your picture I'd give my left arm to go on a date with u

  • @bwubbity
    @bwubbity 5 ปีที่แล้ว +150

    “You guys are making out, that’s so nice”
    She’s precious. 💕
    *lowkey ships them*

  • @bigeyesbiglies3196
    @bigeyesbiglies3196 4 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    I lost my virginity pretty late for today’s ‘standards’, I was 22, with a guy who I barely knew (We were on few dates) and few years later I still regret that I didn’t do that with someone who I actually loved.
    If you feel like that’s not the right time or right person just don’t do it.

  • @arrib528
    @arrib528 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    These two women are gems! They're so open and non judgmental. Not to mention both are stunning. For both I hope they continue being their true selves and living their best lives!

  • @alyssaholmes2135
    @alyssaholmes2135 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2046

    Lol jane the virgin (like if you know the series )

    • @kaibaker8037
      @kaibaker8037 4 ปีที่แล้ว +54

      Random Videos I almost liked until I saw the parenthesis

    • @dimentiapatients2633
      @dimentiapatients2633 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Kai Baker hahah that’s actually halarious

    • @Luvcook
      @Luvcook 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      It's a good series!!!

    • @gameroy8435
      @gameroy8435 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Ahhhh Gina Rodriguez is way too hot

    • @damndoublehomicide5425
      @damndoublehomicide5425 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Omg I love that show

  • @somerflowers
    @somerflowers 5 ปีที่แล้ว +170

    I really hope that she finds someone who will calm the fears she’s carried all these years with her. You deserve to feel as amazing as you are sister!! How you’re still single is beyond me! Gorgeous! 😍🙌🏼😍

  • @katoratic
    @katoratic 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This helped me so much. I love this definitley boosted my confidence

  • @lx-kc9sq
    @lx-kc9sq 4 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    Jane, the not-so-virgin.

  • @izzywoods794
    @izzywoods794 5 ปีที่แล้ว +158

    I loved this. Two different people, each equally respectable and beautiful

  • @kiarastephanie
    @kiarastephanie 5 ปีที่แล้ว +488

    Nothing wrong with being a virgin I am also a virgin at 26.

    • @AndreEZPxD
      @AndreEZPxD 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Me too n_n

    • @moyesimmons2736
      @moyesimmons2736 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Yeah keep it until marriage

    • @amandagaskill7609
      @amandagaskill7609 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Nothing wrong with it but I couldn't do it. Sex feels too good lol

    • @Ferbbie
      @Ferbbie 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Hey girl! Same! Waiting for the right person!!

    • @sanketpatil279
      @sanketpatil279 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Just Smash already

  • @ladylala0251
    @ladylala0251 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    They’re both so accepting and I love that. Two completely different stories and no shame !!!!

  • @Emily-pl1js
    @Emily-pl1js 4 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    I can see their chemistry it is so cute.

  • @Kpop_Metalhead
    @Kpop_Metalhead 5 ปีที่แล้ว +377

    Its really about being comfortable in your own body & when you are ready to have sex.
    I lost my virginity late in life but it was when I was ready. I was ready to try diffrtent things so I did. Thete is no shame in waiting.
    There are men out there who will wait, who are chill, who are great teachers, who like big girls.
    Just work on your confidence girl. Love youself before tryimg to love anyone else!

  • @Kryptongurl84
    @Kryptongurl84 5 ปีที่แล้ว +214

    I am 34 and I lost my virginity at 21. I waited until I was ready mentally and willing to deal with the consequences if anything happened. I am so very proud of myself for waiting and not just giving it up to the first guy I met.

    • @hottyloxie
      @hottyloxie 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Same...

    • @BigBri7647
      @BigBri7647 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm curious about why you're proud of that? I'm not looking for a row, I'm genuinely curious.

    • @hottyloxie
      @hottyloxie 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@BigBri7647 why not? Their nothing wrong with losing you're virginity at 21. Why would someone be proud of having sex at 16 or 14 ? That's so young.

    • @transamgal1996
      @transamgal1996 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I lost mine weeks away from turning 21 to a man 11 years older. Now we're getting married ❤

    • @hottyloxie
      @hottyloxie 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@transamgal1996 ❤️❤️❤️ good for u Don't need to sleep with lots of people.

  • @gero3838
    @gero3838 4 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    "A version of Halsey that didn't continue her career doesn't exist she wont hurt you"
    :

  • @Hallorania1
    @Hallorania1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +155

    I mean 4 female Ghostbusters? The feminist are taking over...
    🎶I'M AN ADULT VIRGIN🎶

  • @malinlundstrom2189
    @malinlundstrom2189 5 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    I lost my virginity at 28 yrs old and I was her. Literally! I never saw this then but thank you for portraying this side. Shows that you're never alone and it's nothing to be ashamed about!

  • @Porceliankitty
    @Porceliankitty 5 ปีที่แล้ว +250

    My fear is being someones fetish too... I look very young and I am short, I sometimes get mistaken for a middle schooler or high schooler. And I had this one instant (online thankfully) where this guy told me if I would age play with him, and he said i looked so so young, that i'm perfect for it.... So yeah. I hope some day, someone will only see me as a woman and not a fetish. And some people so seem me as a woman, it's only a matter of time on who I let get close in a romantic sense.
    I have this co-worker who found interest in me recently, but he's going awfully fast and kind of grooming me intensely, and it does make me weary.... but I want to give it a try, and see if he does see me as a woman or just a step away from thinking about his ex-fiance, and because i'm "cute"... I dunno. I'm just so unsure about what's going on, I am only 20 and this is my first shot at the world.

    • @instantsadramen
      @instantsadramen 5 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      I understand. Honestly if someone gets a little too excited that you look young , do not do anything with them .

    • @majorten-toes3906
      @majorten-toes3906 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      That is so deeply disturbing oh my goodness. I am so sorry about that. Honestly, from what I have read so far, you seem like a really nice and sweet person. I guarantee you will meet a non-pedophile that sees a great woman, ya know?

    • @lelytran1468
      @lelytran1468 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I also have this same fear. I think that it's important that the other person respects your decisions and sees you as an individual rather than the "cute and innocent" character or "pet" (which I've experienced) that the person wants you to be.

    • @mars8425
      @mars8425 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Fez Paladin why

    • @JGallardoOntheMove
      @JGallardoOntheMove 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      As you said -- you're 20! Live a little! The world is a big and interesting place, there's no need to rush, take your time, never limit yourself into that little hole.

  • @user-bq2br5wb1b
    @user-bq2br5wb1b 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    i love that they were able to have an open conversation and didn’t belittle each other for their sexual/non sexual endeavors it’s really nice & sweet that they were able to talk about this with no judgement and throughout the video embraced each other (in like an acceptance type sense) it’s really sweet )):

  • @parulrajwanshi3282
    @parulrajwanshi3282 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    It’s such a lovely conversation, that two people are talking about such relevant stuff in such an evolved yet super chill manner. Always more about the attitude than the content in any talk ya. Wish we all picked up the worst topics with such an attitude and the world would be better on a few days

    • @parulrajwanshi3282
      @parulrajwanshi3282 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Also you both rock girls. Maintain this attitude always, love :))

  • @Sam_Typhlosion
    @Sam_Typhlosion 5 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    I'm a 39 year old man and I'm still virgin and single.. I'm just saving myself for marriage..

    • @amx4289
      @amx4289 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Looks like ur gonna be all dry up for your man, sad

    • @Really_Roby
      @Really_Roby 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Have you pursued anyone?

  • @gc2009able
    @gc2009able 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    This was so lovely! They're both so wonderful and friendly and open, and the way they carry themselves and communicate really blends their inner and outer beauty together well. Great conversation, both of you, thank you for sharing with us!

  • @kyutiefam1718
    @kyutiefam1718 5 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    "I'm an Adult Virgin" lol😂 but all jokes aside she's a chill person and she's really pretty and she can do what ever she wants

  • @x_edith_x3828
    @x_edith_x3828 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    When Jane said “what’s that like?” That really hit different 🥺

  • @linjingshui
    @linjingshui 5 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    One of the most beautiful conversation ever from Buzzfeed. More like this please!

  • @jinochil5940
    @jinochil5940 5 ปีที่แล้ว +90

    They're both so beautiful WTF

    • @madalynno9329
      @madalynno9329 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @Levi Rajda Yes they are. Are you blind? They are both gorgeous 😂

  • @subclangor
    @subclangor 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This conversation is important. Grats to the creators for sharing.

  • @MerelMystery
    @MerelMystery 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Such a wholesome conversation 💕