Divesh - The RED Flag 🚩 | We BROKE UP 💔Twice Before Marriage 😳

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  • Before getting married we (Divesh and Vishakha) Broke up not Once BUT TWICE.
    Yes, you heard it Right. We wanted to share our break-up story on how it has made us stronger with each passing year.
    Reason Behind our LOVE-Break Up story. Watch the full story to know more.
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  • @Audes208
    @Audes208 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +422

    I came here from Instagram 💀

  • @veshakasolankie
    @veshakasolankie 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +192

    The thing i noticed that u guys are calm as in you both listen quietly and calmly to each other while talking..!! Without interrupting n letting other person to complete the converse

  • @sumanmahapatra9435
    @sumanmahapatra9435 หลายเดือนก่อน +91

    In short as they say, “IF ITS MEANT TO BE, IT WILL HAPPEN!!!”

  • @hetvisavla8530
    @hetvisavla8530 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    I am so glad there is content out there which doesn’t make relationships look like a magic. It requires work, patience and constant introspection. This relatable content was much needed. ❤

  • @ShifaMuheen
    @ShifaMuheen 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +40

    What I got to know is , a relationship isn't a package of good memories only, both of us have to grow together ❤ and can change each other ❤

  • @sunidhi..agrawal
    @sunidhi..agrawal 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +106

    How dare you call divesh a red flag 😂😂
    He is the sweetest cutest 😂😂
    You both are cutest

  • @HariBabu-le1mc
    @HariBabu-le1mc 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Thier maturity 🤌🏻the way they live with each other 🧿

  • @venkateshb4464
    @venkateshb4464 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

    Its takes a lot for any person to firstly accept all their mistakes, understand it and work on it really really happy to know such people exist and getting aware of your traumas and emotions and working on it for your partner is the purest ka purest form of love felt really happy seeing this !

  • @tanayabhagde9263
    @tanayabhagde9263 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Turning from a red flag to green is wht girls need ❤ I really appreciate bisu for giving efforts for your relationship n divesh for meet her expectations🎉 n not letting bisu to settle down for less🎉❤all the love for you guys ❤

  • @aditilodhi1236
    @aditilodhi1236 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    The fact he admits she took efforts shows respect and acknowledgement. Which is rare!

  • @divyabhowte1921
    @divyabhowte1921 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +134

    Hello guys... I am doctor.. Found your channel randomly in TH-cam.. And you guys are genuine... I am in love with u guys😊

    • @spandanareddy364
      @spandanareddy364 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

      doctor bolne ka zaroorat nahi tha!

    • @ashwiniist
      @ashwiniist 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      We really don't care what you do for a living madam.

    • @sunidhi..agrawal
      @sunidhi..agrawal 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      Haa wahi doctor mention karne ki kya zaroorat thi😂😂😂

    • @allenite_0987
      @allenite_0987 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      She earned it and i dont think you all should judge it 😐 so shut up all @sapandanareddy364 @ashwiniist @sunidhiagarwal5142

    • @sinhaha
      @sinhaha 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@@spandanareddy364 haa. Mehnat lagti hai. Flex karegi woh💀

  • @ashmitachettri193
    @ashmitachettri193 หลายเดือนก่อน +32

    The way you guys say sorry for interrupting each other 🥹🥺

  • @MamtaThakur-x3r
    @MamtaThakur-x3r 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    Im totally relate to u cuz my bf has told me “ you’re boring “ i can feel u how traumatized it was ❤

  • @subhangisahoo5981
    @subhangisahoo5981 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +38

    Mature relationships always grab my attention and I had to appreciate uh guys ..god bless you ❤

  • @rishabhanand172
    @rishabhanand172 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    I just want to say that "Rome was not built in a day" Same goes for relationships, we see the perfect couple in both and some others too we might see around us. But, we must also take into account that no relationships are perfect but the couple in them makes it perfect. Kudos to you both to publicly address this and people who are fresh in their relationships can take a lot from your experience. Invest yourself and try and understand your partners point of view if he/she says or reacts in a certain way. Once you have done that then it would be easy to retrospect the issue and work on them better. So yeah, perfection comes only after multiple failures and not as a miracle.

  • @sada.nupoor
    @sada.nupoor หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    The point you said of savings, represents two different types of people here coming from a middle class family I could relate to both Divesh and Vishakha & I feel savings are of much much important for the days where you have some financial breakdowns and definately after saving a particular amount every month rest can be spent on your shopping aur any thing you desire to buy.

  • @shriyabisht3879
    @shriyabisht3879 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    To be very very very honest... I am just a teen in a relationship... And the best part is both of us get motivated by seeing you both and knowing your story..... Thank you so much for thiss😊❤

  • @vaishnavigupta4132
    @vaishnavigupta4132 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Hats off to this man for accepting everything so gracefully and beautifully ❤ he is indeed a green flag now 💚

  • @amanjain4375
    @amanjain4375 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    It seems not only Divesh changed but Bissu you too had to change a lot..How did that acceptance came ? We would like to know that..
    Also, I would like to say you guys are absolute cutiess..❤❤ Love your content 😍

  • @sakshiphadke9039
    @sakshiphadke9039 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    11:00 loved it 😂😂❤❤ the way bisu was looking at devish

  • @SushmitaMondal_1234
    @SushmitaMondal_1234 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I saw the full video but anyone noticed devesh is continuously see her queen 👑❤

  • @angrygaming422
    @angrygaming422 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Itna sab hone ke baad bhi you both never give up on your love that's a good part of your love story i really like it ❤💕

  • @dunanibeena2610
    @dunanibeena2610 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    "Aaye tah Eidi Na tah Rozzoo" saying in Sindhi..

  • @muskanjais-mp
    @muskanjais-mp 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Di this is my current situation and idk main ky kruu but mujhe give up nhi krna I m trying my best to save this relationship and efforts m apni trh se de rhi hu 🥺

  • @SanjanaDeori-tq3bj
    @SanjanaDeori-tq3bj หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Who has come to see from inta 😂😅

  • @mahimagupta711
    @mahimagupta711 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    3:47 pause ki hu..ja rhi hu sara saman lekr ane 😌

  • @RitupurnnaDas
    @RitupurnnaDas หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I just tell u both of us u two are so sweet, cute 😢❤u two are awesome 😎❤❤❤

  • @ankitashukla9816
    @ankitashukla9816 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I came from insta n just binge watching all your videos at 2am 😂😂 but you guys are love

  • @vidushigupta_
    @vidushigupta_ หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    oh my my I've also been in a relationship since 3 years in the starting days I though my partner is toxic but as we started to talk about the problems I figured out that I'm a narcissistic and my partner was also egoistic and we worked on it because we wanted to date each other and this is the one thing I can relate with you guys.
    Love you both ❤

  • @vishalhotwani664
    @vishalhotwani664 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I totally relate to divesh on not apologizing due to the problems going around and not ego. Realized this very late but it will always stay as a learning.... Much love guys❤

  • @ginni0062
    @ginni0062 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    I really loved when women are so in love..... whenever Divesh spoke about his struggle she subtly smiled and admire him....God bless you guys ❤️❤️🧿🧿

  • @nishipandey2187
    @nishipandey2187 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The most mature couple out there❤

  • @TehseenMukadam
    @TehseenMukadam หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Following u guys from insta to here has been a worth it guys...May God bless you both with endless years of love and togetherness....Thing that dragged me here is the bond u guys have..it gives me a reminiscence of my bond with my partner...would really want to know how u guys spoke about ur relationship at ur home and how u guys convinced ur parents being from different zones...would love to know that...

  • @anuuu4084
    @anuuu4084 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    I can see their therapy sessions.. Their therapist did a good work.

  • @misspiyali22
    @misspiyali22 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The same thing that "You are very boring and I feel so bored with you" Said to me.. I was also shattered but after much crying I kicked out that person..

  • @naina4218
    @naina4218 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Watching 2:42 while having yellow chilla with RED 🍅 chutney. 😂 I really appreciate you guys for sharing your story. Once again, Divesh became greener after this as he wanted to change and still wants to make every effort to be together 😊 But Vishakha! I can imagine the efforts you might have put, the patience you have. I understand the video can't make us realise that but I can totally relate to you and understand what it means to stay in that sane and patient stage. ❤❤ Sending good vibes to you both 🧿🧿🌈🌈

  • @tishimehta3010
    @tishimehta3010 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    She has so beautiful mesmerising eyes ❤

  • @Girl_From_Hills15
    @Girl_From_Hills15 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Going through it 😢

  • @sreemoyeeganguly734
    @sreemoyeeganguly734 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Such a great vdo.

  • @taherhussain4719
    @taherhussain4719 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I really appreciate sharing your journey and showing what really it takes from both sides to be a perfect couple

  • @eshagusain9718
    @eshagusain9718 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    i think devesh came first to say sorry

  • @anushkaishere
    @anushkaishere หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I found this randomly nd i already knw you guys gonna be my favourite 😍 ❤

  • @Hustlingenthusiast
    @Hustlingenthusiast หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I just love Bisu more now 😅❤

  • @aditijaiswal__07
    @aditijaiswal__07 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Waiting for the next episode so desperately! ❤

  • @SakshiBobade-900
    @SakshiBobade-900 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    The cutest couple I've ever seen ❤💟

  • @ishakewat2508
    @ishakewat2508 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    Related maxxxxx with Divesh!
    I think I have sabotaged my relationships and friendships because I'm constantly surrounded by drama and chaos and calmness sort of scares me. How did you work on that? Please say!!!!
    Also loved how you explained your baggage without villainizing your family or friends! Because that is exactly what I feel rn. People can be a bad influence or they can be toxic but it's all an experience which teaches us something.
    (Why are everyone's problems deeply rooted in childhood traumas 😭)
    Eagerly waiting for your next video :)

    • @VishakhaAndDivesh
      @VishakhaAndDivesh  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Cannot wait to share more videos 🥹❤️ lots of love you guys ✨

  • @harjasleengill
    @harjasleengill 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Make a video on emphasizing savings and it's important to save money in a relationship

  • @garimatiwari5890
    @garimatiwari5890 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    The way you guys explained the way of lifestyle of eachother is just impeccable ❤❤

  • @lmaolife1681
    @lmaolife1681 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Breakup huya hain. Isiliye dekhne agyei 💀

  • @arpita1223
    @arpita1223 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Woaahhh! I understand sooo much after hearing you guys. Coz the position you both were in back then I'm in a similar position rn but now it makes so much more sense. I'm really grateful to you both that you guys opened up about your issues. Its does take a lot of courage. I just hope you guys stay happy together for manyy years ahead ❤

  • @snehaprasad3160
    @snehaprasad3160 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I saw you on Instagram...and truely liked your chemistry...and then cane to TH-cam...wnd found this video.. lovely watching you gu❤s . really a

  • @inkbykrati
    @inkbykrati 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    You guys are really genuine in this world, lots of love and God bless you guys for being true ❤️🧿

  • @anubhamishra6759
    @anubhamishra6759 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    She can change is you Statement got true 💗🥹

  • @sunidhi..agrawal
    @sunidhi..agrawal 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    Divesh ko kaha se order Kiya
    Link bhejo🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 was the best one

  • @harshadagaikwad5275
    @harshadagaikwad5275 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I am more interested knowing how did you guys got back together again after breakup

  • @Thec.akehouse21
    @Thec.akehouse21 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    The way admire each other is just visual representation of love ❤❤❤❤❤ you both guys one of my fav couples which i look as a perfect couple for instance ritesh Genelia, harsh bharti and u cutiess divesh and vishaka.....way brother called bissu is just fab ❤pin my comment

  • @RGitsmyPOV
    @RGitsmyPOV หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Bisu you❤ always girls hi efforts leti hai

  • @rajneetarai4314
    @rajneetarai4314 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Wow... thank you guys... learned new things in life today ❤

  • @HealingHooman4616
    @HealingHooman4616 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I think they are the ones for whom therapy actually worked and that too in sync ❤❤❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉 you guyssss so cute... Also guys you can have your own Wattpad story ❤❤❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @AashikaBudhathoki-wx4ly
    @AashikaBudhathoki-wx4ly หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    When it is written from god whatever it happen you will still be together forever😊❤

  • @nancyb593
    @nancyb593 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Seriously🙄 ap ise red flag kehte ho. Madam fir to ap jante hi ni ki red flag husband actual mai hote kaise h.
    Divesh u really a sweetest and genuine person👏👏👏👏👏👏

  • @shru5549
    @shru5549 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    ohh guyss i know you both since 2021🥺💛and im just so happy for all the love and appreciation you are getting..you deserve this and moree💝💝love and only love to u both forever❤

  • @ashwini6810
    @ashwini6810 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    Hara jhanda thing in the last part is a meme material😂😂

  • @Mansi-ol6zi
    @Mansi-ol6zi 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Loved the journey so far, excited for more❤

  • @bitubaruah1504
    @bitubaruah1504 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Just love your videos😭I download your videos, when the video ends it feels so sad. Your videos are so awesome that it feels like it shouldn't end🤌🏻

  • @vandanaagarwal2338
    @vandanaagarwal2338 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    So much love and learning ❤🥺

  • @pariyadav3883
    @pariyadav3883 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Wowww.....u guysss are amazinggggg❤❤❤❤❤❤🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩...

  • @Miaa2324
    @Miaa2324 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    So vishakha di was basically "I can fix him" kinda girl😂

  • @harshadagaikwad5275
    @harshadagaikwad5275 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Please yaar next episode bhi upload karo...jaldi se

  • @ankitmalik1962
    @ankitmalik1962 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Bhai aaj ek hari sabzi hai. Patta gobhi green. 🥦

  • @mahathivenkatapadma6400
    @mahathivenkatapadma6400 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    May be vishaka realised and came to divesh

  • @anwithisside
    @anwithisside หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    OMGGG!!!! I came to watch this video from insta and it was so funnn i just love you guys andd your reelss❤

  • @dnadisaster8091
    @dnadisaster8091 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I'm divesh where is my vanshika 😂🥸

  • @VishXShorts
    @VishXShorts หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Lots Of Love Bhaiya And Didi❤🎉🫡

  • @Vshukla9526
    @Vshukla9526 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    You guys r my fav....❤

  • @SimranKaurGogia
    @SimranKaurGogia 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I’m having Chakli and Thumps up!!!

  • @chaturboi4433
    @chaturboi4433 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I appreciate you both you guys are really cute ❤

  • @tanyasingh5121
    @tanyasingh5121 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Blessings to both of you😇
    And girl u are blessed that u have got such a nice man❤
    Every man don't understand these things.

  • @anjali-cm6tg
    @anjali-cm6tg 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Okay bisu and divesh I would say you one thing I am in relationship frm 3 years and tbh I’m in a same condition as you rn my partner has alot of ego but he loves me and the same thing which was with divesh is with him I can understand him the first brkup we had was last year during ganpati and the second brkup after 4 months and this the 3rd time we had brkup 3 weeks ago we were fighting continuously for 4 months in between we tried to solve things as well but we couldn’t after that we had brkup and it’s been 4 days we’re in talking stage again and today before watching this video I had a conversation with him and I said him that I don’t want to stay with you because I’m not feeling like you’re taking efforts for me and he was shattered and I saw him crying for the second time in my life journey of 3 years with him and I hang up call obviously he was in so much ego frm 4 months which shattered me somewhere I was not able to deal things and that hurted me alot and I’m not able to understand anything rn he’s in Kolkata tomorrow he’s coming back frm Kolkata I hope he clear out things and apologies to me as he said somewhere when I saw your video rn no matter what the situation is I want to end my relationship to marriage like this❤

    • @Gauri_Gaikwad.
      @Gauri_Gaikwad. 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      What did he say? Update us !

  • @harwanibhoomika16
    @harwanibhoomika16 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Aai ta eid na to rujo this is dailog my mom always used to say 😅

  • @shafiarizvi1228
    @shafiarizvi1228 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I am divesh, divesh is me 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

  • @antra9271
    @antra9271 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    You guys are just so amazing !!! I can watch your videos & reels for the whole day without getting bored ❤❤❤❤ and in just 25 minutes you gave me so many lessons on how to make a relationship work. You guys are couple goals for everyone. Wish you a happy life. 💫💝

  • @sweezeldsouza1145
    @sweezeldsouza1145 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I really think it was Divesh who came back first 😄

  • @deepakpathak9297
    @deepakpathak9297 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thanks for your experience learned a lot

  • @siddhishinde5164
    @siddhishinde5164 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Honestly, as audience, we are learning a lot of things of relationships because we all gone through such situations or going through such situation and we don’t know what to do how to do it and how to handle it because sometimes person is not in that sense or in that stage to do mature things when it comes to emotional relationships, et cetera. Thank you so much for bringing this in front of us, especially this side of your relationship personally for me. It is very helpful. Thank you so much and lots of love to you.❤️🧿

  • @ShreyaSharma-p8b
    @ShreyaSharma-p8b หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Bro you Guy’s are awesome 🧿

  • @_ai.henna_
    @_ai.henna_ 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    For me they are my roses, they making me happy... Waiting for more videos from uhh guys...
    Love from my side ❤️
    Looks awesome together 🤩

  • @anjaliparmar7415
    @anjaliparmar7415 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Somewhere is really related 😂😂😂
    Just to know how you control divesh ego
    Like how it's was possible to say we are not together at that time we're you both want to be together
    It's a personal request how bisu clam herself when he was soooooo egoistic person
    Lots of love you my fav couple ❤.
    Love you both 😊

  • @asharikabaruah1377
    @asharikabaruah1377 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Relationship is not always bed full of roses..it's obvious there lots of stages where we feel like being shattered totally in a relationship ..but the main part that really matters is how calmy you handle the situation and how mature you are to find the solution to the problems.. i have not skipped a bit in this video because it is so interesting that the past you people are describing and now agreeing to your faults and feeling more comfortable telling all this infront of us is a deed of trust and love ❤..lots of love my favourite couple 💝and always manifesting a love life like you 🧿❤️

  • @Rupali11991
    @Rupali11991 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Plz share about yr family divesh bhaiya 🙏

  • @shreyasrivastava3241
    @shreyasrivastava3241 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Plz upload the next video soon plzz eagerly waiting for it.... lots of love ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @ankitatripathy9818
    @ankitatripathy9818 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I came here from insta and watching this at 4 15 am😂

  • @arpitapriyadarshini3216
    @arpitapriyadarshini3216 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Omgggggggg loved it 😭❤️

  • @gitanjali5775
    @gitanjali5775 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Fights nok jhok happen everywhere ofc
    😂❤Both of u made equal efforts relationship and choose to love and live it everyday with a awesome audience
    Ignore haters guys we love u ❤
    Love how both projected each other's feelings

  • @ashmitachettri193
    @ashmitachettri193 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I just like you guyss🩷🥺mujhe bhi chahiye aisa relationship

  • @mtc5829
    @mtc5829 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Why am I watching this at 2 am

  • @sakshidua098
    @sakshidua098 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Yaar please upload next episode❤

  • @billusmommy
    @billusmommy 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    SECOND PART PLEASEEEE🎀😭

  • @eliya_jadhav_vlogs
    @eliya_jadhav_vlogs หลายเดือนก่อน

    Aapki ye break up wali story dekh ke Mera dimag dard kar ne laga a...re kitna suspense rakhte ho😤😤😤😤😤😤😤😤😤😤😤😤😤

  • @Nilanjana-gv4pi
    @Nilanjana-gv4pi 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Past divesh me fr😅