I would pay folding money to see her affect a thick accent, put on a prosthetic chest like Selma Blair in A Dirty Shame, and give us a new Irish Comic character named Tig O'Biddies
29:12 I love the open discussion regarding honesty. I wish I never learned to lie and was encouraged to by my parents. I will definitely read the book Tig recommended.
Martha Beck is a great author for this topic. Being an ex-Mormon with loads of intelligence and courage, her understanding about honesty is based in growing up in a shockingly dishonest religion -- much of it manifested as subtle ways of lying by omission and covering up secrets -- largely to protect themselves and defend the "One True" religion. You have likely heard it said, "You are as sick as your secrets." She is from Utah, and in the 90s she rebelled against the Mormon church, as well as her family - who didn't want to hear or accept her truth, such as speaking up about being sexually abused by her upstanding and well-known scholarly father. She left the church back then, and chose to share her truth as an author. The Mormon faith is based in lies, yet the LDS church preaches about honesty as one of its highest values. It is insane how much high demand religions can gaslight and live a bunch of lies, while completely justifying constant dishonesty -- mostly justified by their belief that God speaks directly to their prophets and other leaders . I truly believe so much of it is embedded in the system, that many Mormons seem to not acknowledge - or even be conscious of their lying much of the time.
36:51 - So true. I just started telling the truth about my mental health: "Thank you for thinking of me, I am struggling a bit and want to come." - Then I try. If I still can't make it out of the house off the couch, I tell the truth without causing concern. "I'm sorry that I'm missing out. Thank you for your grace, but I'm staying home." -The true blue friends will understand. Be careful not to take advantage, like I did in my 30s. I'm a recovering addict too, and relapsed on Xanax in my 30s. Funny thing: when they keep asking, I keep trying - and end up having a great time!
Happy Birthday Handsome Fortune and Mae! Tig, not fogotten.. a happy day to you! 🎉 Thanks for the laughs in a scary, troubling time in our Country. I am sick after yesterday’s SCOTUS ( a.k.a. Scrotum) ruling. I needed ya’ll today. Grateful for your comedic greatness!
Omg and can we please note the connection of starting the pod about being in PERGATORY when Dante’s Inferno is literally the structure of Martha Beck’s book about integrity. Pergatory is a whole ass stage in her book.
Happy Birthday Fortune! I told my daughter from as early as she could understand that she can tell me anything, that I may not always like the truth, but I can deal with the truth. It’s lies that I cannot tolerate. The hard part is then having to follow through with that when your daughter tells you the *absolute* truth about *absolutely* everything…some things that you’d maybe rather not know!😂 It’s worth it though, there was nothing that she didn’t/doesn’t feel safe to tell me. Obviously the same respect has to be given in return, so I’ve always been very honest with her. There are always going to be certain things that it’s not appropriate to tell young children for their own safety/wellbeing or that they’re just too young to be able to understand, but honesty is definitely the best policy!😂
I can't be the only non driver living in ineligible CA who still sits through the All State commercial? HAPPY BIRTHDAY FORTUNE MARIEEE!!! 😀#stayhandsome
Hey handsome Mae... just wear a wig!! They have great human hair wigs pretty cheap, and they look awesome!! This way, there is no damage to your hair.😁👍🏻
My favorite part of these podcasts is listening to the “Allstate “commercial when you have to read the fine print….cracks me up each time. I may actually switch to Allstate 👻
Hey Handsome! Love y’all individually & collectively on this podcast 😊 Where can I donate a t-shirt I picked up decades ago? It reads, “Ladies, this is as handsome as I get” with an old school black hair comb graphic above the text. White tee, black font. I want to be sure it gets directly to one of you. *Might even be a merchant item* Thanks! Keep it handsome.
Tig- ..."i still dont really feel.like that is a big stunt", faltering a bit!...😄lol!...oh fortune, dont listen to them!😄❤...happy birthday to fortune and may!❤
In the Allstate Ad, Mae's hair looks a bit darker. Probably just lighting, but it makes me think they would look really good with light sandy brown. Its giving Dean from Gilmore Girls/golden retriever energy. Very little cowboy.
Being polite is not the same thing as lying. You can tell people the truth and still be polite. I think the happy medium is being able to give it to them straight without voicing it like an asshole. Just like some situations call for brutal honesty. They are called that because the truth itself is brutal. It's not permission for the teller to get brutal. In mature communication you can hit that balance which also makes it easier for the recipient to not get defensive. I also do say, "just seeing this" sometimes cuz I respect people enough to let them know I wasn't ignoring them. I don't do it with people I AM ignoring. That too doesn't have to be a lie. It's etiquette that changes depending on the audience.
I don't have crushes on celebrities. If I do have a crush at any time it's on someone I've met in real life, and it's always unexpected. Like, I ain't out looking for a liking.
Chip convo is giving me life. Oregano chips (lays etc makes them but tsakiris is the most delicious) are the greatest chip you’ll ever eat! Put it on the list!!! (also today’s pod popping up on my YT feed genuinely is a balm for a Tuesday AM grappling with SC / sad times for democracy hangover, so in all earnestness thank you handsomes for being you and doing this xo)
I love you all so much. I am currently sitting outside in July in New England wearing shorts AND a hoodie. BECAUSE! I am fine with slathering my legs in bug spray, but I hate it on my upper body. Also, it's 77F/24C so this is fine. Shorts and hoodies is the best!
100% of people who responded to Mae's poll said no to brown hair. But how many of their total followers actually voted? Yes, I'm nit-picking the statistics 🙃
I haven’t finished the episode yet, but did they really miss the opportunity to add “in our pahnties” when they’re hanging out on the pontoon?!? Can’t say that I blame them, but I did keep waiting for it 😂😅
Maybe Fortune would like the Herr's brand ketchup chips because they are like Ruffles. I love Lay's the most but I'm literally eating Herr's ketchup chips right now because I'm in the US and that's all I can get my hands on
The clenching of the b-hole thing during a lie detector test gives a reading that you are lying in response to every single question, so there's no baseline. The results are unusable.
I’m with you Tig. In the past I’ve been a blunt person. I also am a people pleaser. About age 45 I just stopped, It takes too much energy and unnecessary to lie. What do they say? F$@& ‘em’ if they can’t handle the truth.. heehee
Why do I have a feeling that Mae smokes more than "just one" cigarette a day? I get it, I only smoke 3 a day, and it's a way to escape and be alone and kinda just be a bit rebellious because I don't have the energy to be really rebellious any more. Even though I know it's terrible. But it's all I have right now I feel like.
Get 20% OFF @honeylove by going to www.honeylove.com/HANDSOME! #honeylovepod
Please have Avgi Saketopoulou and Ann Pellegrini on to talk about their book Gender Without Identity.
The Shoulder Rolls made me LAUGH. Thanks, Handsomes! And, Happy Birthday, Fortune!
🎉Hey Handsomes!! I’m taking my son (21 w Autism) for our First ESCAPE ROOM!!!Thanks for the Inspiration, Mae! We LOVE ALL Y”ALL ❣️❣️🥰🤗🦋
7 minutes in heaven…”How do you get in there? What is it?” 🤣🤣🤣
Tig doing the Honeylove ad was the greatest!
I would pay folding money to see her affect a thick accent, put on a prosthetic chest like Selma Blair in A Dirty Shame, and give us a new Irish Comic character named Tig O'Biddies
Watch One Mississippi she totally does just that 😂😂
@@reeseraines5136this is top tier comedy and you aren’t getting the credit you deserve for coming up with it
Tig giving her all for the Honeylove ad was probably my favourite bit 😂
Happy birthday Fortune!
Just so y'all know, it's no longer Taco Tuesday.... it's Handsome Tuesday!
@bandysma8476 you know what, you're right.
29:12 I love the open discussion regarding honesty. I wish I never learned to lie and was encouraged to by my parents. I will definitely read the book Tig recommended.
Happy birthday fortune Marie!!! 🎉🎉🎉
I love this episode so much. Thank you always for such a engaging way of discussing things that can be difficult to talk about x
QUESTION FROM ARNOLD!!!!!!
Martha Beck is a great author for this topic. Being an ex-Mormon with loads of intelligence and courage, her understanding about honesty is based in growing up in a shockingly dishonest religion -- much of it manifested as subtle ways of lying by omission and covering up secrets -- largely to protect themselves and defend the "One True" religion.
You have likely heard it said, "You are as sick as your secrets."
She is from Utah, and in the 90s she rebelled against the Mormon church, as well as her family - who didn't want to hear or accept her truth, such as speaking up about being sexually abused by her upstanding and well-known scholarly father. She left the church back then, and chose to share her truth as an author.
The Mormon faith is based in lies, yet the LDS church preaches about honesty as one of its highest values. It is insane how much high demand religions can gaslight and live a bunch of lies, while completely justifying constant dishonesty -- mostly justified by their belief that God speaks directly to their prophets and other leaders .
I truly believe so much of it is embedded in the system, that many Mormons seem to not acknowledge - or even be conscious of their lying much of the time.
Love you guys! Happy Birthday, Fortune!!🎉
That's why I avoid sailors 😆😂 love y'all and I laugh so loud, I scared my cat!
Just ordered Martha Beck, The Way of Integrity - thanks Tig! Great discussion today ladies! I love you all! 😘
Happy birthday, Fortune!🎉
Thank you all for my weekly happy time.
Happy blessed birthday Fortune Mary!Be well ,healthy and funny!! 🎉 Blessings from Quebec🎉🎊
I just could watch every single episode over again
yay kelly clarkson 🎉❤😊
I love this podcast so much!!
Happy Birthday Fortune 🎉💖💐
Bless her pretty little lady heart! Loved circle back to the WiFi lie!! 11 minutes in podcast heaven!! 🎉😅😅😅😅
36:51 - So true. I just started telling the truth about my mental health: "Thank you for thinking of me, I am struggling a bit and want to come." - Then I try. If I still can't make it out of the house off the couch, I tell the truth without causing concern. "I'm sorry that I'm missing out. Thank you for your grace, but I'm staying home." -The true blue friends will understand. Be careful not to take advantage, like I did in my 30s. I'm a recovering addict too, and relapsed on Xanax in my 30s. Funny thing: when they keep asking, I keep trying - and end up having a great time!
That survivor party sounds so great!
Happy Birthday Handsome Fortune and Mae! Tig, not fogotten.. a happy day to you! 🎉 Thanks for the laughs in a scary, troubling time in our Country. I am sick after yesterday’s SCOTUS ( a.k.a. Scrotum) ruling. I needed ya’ll today. Grateful for your comedic greatness!
This SCOTUS will be the death of the United States!! Absolutely disgusting. Vote BLUE!! 💙
Fortune - we share the same birthday!! That’s awesome. Happy Birthday to you!! 🎂😘
Happy Canada Day and happy Fortune’s birthday y’all!
I had a rough night and morning . Seeing HANDSOME pop up, I audibly yelled "YAAAY"
HAPPY BIRTHDAY FORTUNE!! 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
Tig thank you so much for recommending Martha Beck’s book. It’s so good. I may start it again as soon as I am finished.
Omg dying!!! Thanks so much - I needed this😅
Omg and can we please note the connection of starting the pod about being in PERGATORY when Dante’s Inferno is literally the structure of Martha Beck’s book about integrity. Pergatory is a whole ass stage in her book.
Happy Birthday Fortune!! 🎉 interesting Mae facts this episode
Happy Birthday Fortune!
I told my daughter from as early as she could understand that she can tell me anything, that I may not always like the truth, but I can deal with the truth. It’s lies that I cannot tolerate. The hard part is then having to follow through with that when your daughter tells you the *absolute* truth about *absolutely* everything…some things that you’d maybe rather not know!😂 It’s worth it though, there was nothing that she didn’t/doesn’t feel safe to tell me. Obviously the same respect has to be given in return, so I’ve always been very honest with her. There are always going to be certain things that it’s not appropriate to tell young children for their own safety/wellbeing or that they’re just too young to be able to understand, but honesty is definitely the best policy!😂
Happy Birthday, Fortune!
Only podcast that I laugh out loud.
I’m so glad we did not have to wait long for the is Mae wearing shorts question 😂
I can't be the only non driver living in ineligible CA who still sits through the All State commercial? HAPPY BIRTHDAY FORTUNE MARIEEE!!! 😀#stayhandsome
I live in Canada and do not drive and same LMAO
@@luizajobim6542 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Happy Birthday Fortune Marie 🥳!
"Oh my God, you are the Maria Bamford of my dreams" would be Tig's highest compliment. ❤me too, Tig, my crush on you grows with every podcast.
Hey handsome Mae... just wear a wig!! They have great human hair wigs pretty cheap, and they look awesome!! This way, there is no damage to your hair.😁👍🏻
Happy Birthday Fortune! The part of telling the truth hit hard for me!
Funny when they say Thomas is still alive, his window didn't pop up in the corner! 😂😂
Thanks for another great Tuesday morning!
“Podcast from heaven” and “yea ghost” 😂
The shoulder flow in the first few seconds was everythiny
I love how this question sparked this discussion
My favorite part of these podcasts is listening to the “Allstate “commercial when you have to read the fine print….cracks me up each time. I may actually switch to Allstate 👻
I had the exact same experience watching Red Shoe Diaries through fuzz. 😂
Hey Handsome! Love y’all individually & collectively on this podcast 😊 Where can I donate a t-shirt I picked up decades ago? It reads, “Ladies, this is as handsome as I get” with an old school black hair comb graphic above the text. White tee, black font. I want to be sure it gets directly to one of you. *Might even be a merchant item* Thanks! Keep it handsome.
7/11 minutes in heaven
Tig looks at fortune and Mae like they are learning something g she already knows. It’s precious.
Tig- ..."i still dont really feel.like that is a big stunt", faltering a bit!...😄lol!...oh fortune, dont listen to them!😄❤...happy birthday to fortune and may!❤
About out to Kelly Clarkson for a FABULOUS question! Great podcast you handsome gals 👏👏👏
Yes, I would totally listen to this podcast in heaven ; )
I bought The Way of Integrity book, after hearing Tig talking about it!
I really look forward to Tuesday mornings now! ~Monica B.~
Love you guys. Greetings from Germany
In the Allstate Ad, Mae's hair looks a bit darker. Probably just lighting, but it makes me think they would look really good with light sandy brown. Its giving Dean from Gilmore Girls/golden retriever energy.
Very little cowboy.
Omg yes
Yeah, they’ve been slowly stripping the blonde out
Yo! Fortune and I share a birthday, different years. Happy birthday Fortune 🥳
Being polite is not the same thing as lying. You can tell people the truth and still be polite. I think the happy medium is being able to give it to them straight without voicing it like an asshole. Just like some situations call for brutal honesty. They are called that because the truth itself is brutal. It's not permission for the teller to get brutal. In mature communication you can hit that balance which also makes it easier for the recipient to not get defensive.
I also do say, "just seeing this" sometimes cuz I respect people enough to let them know I wasn't ignoring them. I don't do it with people I AM ignoring. That too doesn't have to be a lie. It's etiquette that changes depending on the audience.
Fortune! I’ll be your friend in Toronto!! 😊❤
If Mae was going to dye their hair brown, it would have to be a rich, darker brown. That might create some cool contrast.
Agree! I think it’ll be sexy 😜 They can always change it back after the show! 🤎💛
A really dimensional chocolate brown would look incredible with their complexion and eyebrows.
@@ahoytherekaty Yes! That would look great!
I don't have crushes on celebrities. If I do have a crush at any time it's on someone I've met in real life, and it's always unexpected. Like, I ain't out looking for a liking.
Don't forget: Mae has to motorboat Fortune on the pontoon 😂 19:15
Happy birthday!
Can't you wear a wig? These days, wigs are very natural looking.
Ohhh yeah good point! 🧐👏
Or do a temporary color
I thought the same thing!!
@@FreshmenThesisAnother great suggestion.
Chip convo is giving me life. Oregano chips (lays etc makes them but tsakiris is the most delicious) are the greatest chip you’ll ever eat! Put it on the list!!! (also today’s pod popping up on my YT feed genuinely is a balm for a Tuesday AM grappling with SC / sad times for democracy hangover, so in all earnestness thank you handsomes for being you and doing this xo)
✍️🏻 *Survivor birthday added to bucket list* 🐚🏝🏴☠️
good question from Kelly.
Y’all. I’m sitting here watching Winnie the Pooh with my kids and I just realized that Piglet sounds EXACTLY like Old Shrimp Nose.
Martha Beck's book is included with premium on Spotify!!
The way of integrity. By, Martha Beck
The book Tig recommended.
I love you all so much. I am currently sitting outside in July in New England wearing shorts AND a hoodie. BECAUSE! I am fine with slathering my legs in bug spray, but I hate it on my upper body. Also, it's 77F/24C so this is fine.
Shorts and hoodies is the best!
I am shocked that Tig does not have a reciprocating crush on Stephen Colbert😮😂
Yeah ❤first to comment to say that I think, no, that I know this is the BEST thing since sliced bread!!❤
Tig! You said you are going to be in omaha july 13th?!? How? Where? The funny bone? I need to know your website says nothing. Help!
100% of people who responded to Mae's poll said no to brown hair. But how many of their total followers actually voted? Yes, I'm nit-picking the statistics 🙃
Love from Arkansas ❤
Ketchup potato chips are the best! Why can’t we get them in the states? (Though I hear that they sell them in the Midwest)
I love this podcast so much!!! Just curious…Is it just me or has Tig’s teeth looked bluish the last few episodes?
Love the pickle chips 🤤
Does it have to be brown hair? A strawberry blond would look great on you Mae.
7:16 Fortune if you need a massage while you're in Toronto, hit me up 😁
I haven’t finished the episode yet, but did they really miss the opportunity to add “in our pahnties” when they’re hanging out on the pontoon?!?
Can’t say that I blame them, but I did keep waiting for it 😂😅
🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤
Hey Fortune - try hickory sticks !! Canadian chips
I’ve always wanted to ask Mae Martin if their appearance on Taskmaster was anything similar to what Survivor might feel like?
Maybe Fortune would like the Herr's brand ketchup chips because they are like Ruffles. I love Lay's the most but I'm literally eating Herr's ketchup chips right now because I'm in the US and that's all I can get my hands on
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The clenching of the b-hole thing during a lie detector test gives a reading that you are lying in response to every single question, so there's no baseline. The results are unusable.
Not to harsh the vibes but is the coffee ethically sourced?
🔥🔥🔥
I really need Keri Russell to know about Tig's crush
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“I never been invited to horny parties” Ha!
Maybe I'm the only one, but i think Mae would look great as a brunette!
I’m with you Tig. In the past I’ve been a blunt person. I also am a people pleaser. About age 45 I just stopped, It takes too much energy and unnecessary to lie. What do they say? F$@& ‘em’ if they can’t handle the truth.. heehee
I think it’s so funny that ALLstate is not accepted in all states
Why do I have a feeling that Mae smokes more than "just one" cigarette a day? I get it, I only smoke 3 a day, and it's a way to escape and be alone and kinda just be a bit rebellious because I don't have the energy to be really rebellious any more. Even though I know it's terrible. But it's all I have right now I feel like.
Who won