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  • @lmjones.9060
    @lmjones.9060 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +599

    Probably one of the most humble defendants i've ever seen

    • @NellieKAdaba
      @NellieKAdaba 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      I agree.

    • @christopherramon-reid2000
      @christopherramon-reid2000 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +41

      It’s almost heartbreaking 💔 👍

    • @slosauss
      @slosauss 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

      Oh my goodness I really just want to reach out and kiss his face! I hope he finds love and compassion in his future!❤

    • @ygpwnxd_xd752
      @ygpwnxd_xd752 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@slosauss👍👍👍

    • @constancestinger5976
      @constancestinger5976 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Such a sweet guy. 🙏

  • @MrsRobinson9468
    @MrsRobinson9468 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +556

    I honestly think Judge Milan was really nice and compassionate this episode

    • @thedopemom7697
      @thedopemom7697 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

      Perhaps the 1st episode that she didn’t raise her voice

    • @mrsyvetta2181
      @mrsyvetta2181 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@thedopemom7697which I am happy especially with this vet that has ptsd

    • @korposumo669
      @korposumo669 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      Hell.. she read that paperwork.. she knew what she was dealing with😂

    • @MrsRobinson9468
      @MrsRobinson9468 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      @korposumo669 I'm sure she does. I am just stating how I liked how gentle and soft she was. I really enjoyed it.

    • @Ryan-pm4fk
      @Ryan-pm4fk 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      With some exasperating plaintiffs/defendants raising one's voice can become necessary.

  • @Jacky-Poo
    @Jacky-Poo 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +449

    You can see the therapy working in this man. Honest, accountable and understanding.

    • @gongzilla527
      @gongzilla527 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      I thought that too. His progress is really showing and shining through.
      I hope he continues to improve and find the peace he deserves.
      🙏🏿👍🏿💯

    • @natecharleston64
      @natecharleston64 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      I agree,..but unfortunately,I just gotta admit,the pain I see in his eyes as well,I genuinely feel for him,I pray he continues to heal.

    • @mitulu74
      @mitulu74 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Yes it breaks my heart... he will soon heal and find the LOVE he so deserves

    • @kb957
      @kb957 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@gongzilla527how would you possibly ever know his progress or if it’s even working if you don’t know him..

    • @ChelNoelle
      @ChelNoelle 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Sorry I think he’s bs-ing and using ptsd as an excuse.

  • @Meg-my3un
    @Meg-my3un 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +295

    Dude has deep issues, however, he is an honest man - very admirable. I hope he finds his person.

  • @ljfire100
    @ljfire100 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +283

    PTSD is very real amongst our veterans, we owe them so much more than a monthly stipend.

    • @calvincoffee305
      @calvincoffee305 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      ABSOLUTELY

    • @righttoouropinionthanks4710
      @righttoouropinionthanks4710 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      Yes!!! The Govt seems to use our beloved servicemen & women & then throw them away when they are done serving!! SHM!!!😢

    • @lisasmith742
      @lisasmith742 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Same thing my husband said

    • @charliefleming3251
      @charliefleming3251 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      @@righttoouropinionthanks4710 Its even more evident in that fact when you factor in people who use graves for photo shoots. Its a shame that both alive and deceased, veterans are used and disgarded.

  • @trafficjam.
    @trafficjam. 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +191

    Judge toned it down today! Nicely done...honest man too!

  • @tiffanyr3218
    @tiffanyr3218 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +148

    First time I ever felt bad for a defendant 😭

  • @Southern_gentleman.
    @Southern_gentleman. 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +79

    My younger brother is a veteran and he suffers from PTSD. This episode made me tear up because I can see my brother in this gentleman. I pray he’s doing great, today

  • @shanellraquel
    @shanellraquel 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +220

    Such a sweet man . Praying for him !

    • @brittanyn5415
      @brittanyn5415 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Yeah right the messiest ones act like him

    • @royaltylordprinceshamiyah1229
      @royaltylordprinceshamiyah1229 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      THE MOST HIGH NOT HEARING THAT.

    • @carlenethomas4400
      @carlenethomas4400 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      @@brittanyn5415 I guess you've been with messy men. Girl bye!

    • @Cubanflowers
      @Cubanflowers 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      @@brittanyn5415 hi.. so messy men. are all being held captive by mental..healths problems?.... fyi.. this 'messy' man as you call to him.. has battled his demons and won.. he is now a counselor.. and business. owner.. which proves.. the only thing constant in this life.. is change!... be blessed

    • @michelehoneywood3521
      @michelehoneywood3521 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I bet she thought he was sweet until she moved in with him.

  • @miryoa786
    @miryoa786 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +101

    This man was broken and I pray he will find what he needs.

    • @kayshawnsimmons5585
      @kayshawnsimmons5585 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      I hope he stops trying to date until he is healed

    • @paulhjort4085
      @paulhjort4085 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      They both need a relationship with Jesus and let God send the one He has for them, don't move in!!!✝🙏

  • @MADISON-bz9pe
    @MADISON-bz9pe 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +97

    I absolutely love the way the judge handled this one..

    • @thairican6759
      @thairican6759 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @simpleman3009
    @simpleman3009 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +145

    I feel bad for this guy him crying got me he's a lonely guy hope he finds happiness

  • @Tjthegreat901
    @Tjthegreat901 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +55

    Father God wrap your hands around this man….

    • @princessjagdeeppanesar5283
      @princessjagdeeppanesar5283 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Amen and heal and protect him.

    • @benmartinez1267
      @benmartinez1267 หลายเดือนก่อน

      he needs real help and not promises from a fairy tale. if you are going to claim god(s) then show demonstrable evidence.

    • @princessjagdeeppanesar5283
      @princessjagdeeppanesar5283 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@benmartinez1267 what are you talking about? God is real.

  • @Cerys1102
    @Cerys1102 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +42

    This was one of the most real and grounding episodes I think I've ever seen

  • @sandylane5498
    @sandylane5498 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    This episode literally had me in tears. I'm so glad the judge was civil and kind to him. I pray that he finds the joy in life he so richly deserves. Thank you for your service, sir! 😢❤🙏

  • @sybilwhite1259
    @sybilwhite1259 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +41

    She is very fortunate he was as humble and honest as he was😮

  • @amandavaull6198
    @amandavaull6198 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    Judge Milan was so sweet & kind, and very sensitive to the situation yet still gave them a little hard truth. I love her!

  • @Catloudan
    @Catloudan 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +47

    I feel really bad for the defendant. Bless him.

  • @shellwilliams6306
    @shellwilliams6306 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

    Thank you for your service my dear. We will be praying for you. You started off strong acted strong and still are strong. Always remember that. God bless❤🙏

  • @lynnboyd33
    @lynnboyd33 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    Man, I just want to put my arms around this man and give him a big bear hug. It really got to me near the end when he was wiping a tear away. I really hope he is getting the help he needs from is doctor.

  • @harmonynature1418
    @harmonynature1418 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I looked on Facebook & was glad to see the defendant seems to be doing well. He has special needs son to whom he’s caring for💕. I wish him well & pray God continues to provide for him & his son🙏🏽.

  • @ISayToMyself
    @ISayToMyself 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +117

    The defendant mentioned being lonely. Maybe he can have a service dog. They are a comfort and it helps to have one who you are accountable to. I wish him well.

    • @bongoikno4994
      @bongoikno4994 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Man want a woman

    • @Cubanflowers
      @Cubanflowers 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      hi.. he wants a lover.. and human contact..not a dog... !.. wow.. i wonder... if you are a ?????.. because those people.. seem to always mistake dog..for lover... be blessed

    • @Chaoktarukto
      @Chaoktarukto 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      ​@@CubanflowersDogs ain't lovers, but they do make you feel better. I'd absolutely agree.

    • @mymobilebuddy4392
      @mymobilebuddy4392 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Great Idea.

    • @mymobilebuddy4392
      @mymobilebuddy4392 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Cubanflowers Don't have a dog. You don't deserve one.

  • @quantaydagoat5795
    @quantaydagoat5795 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +29

    Now hear me out. She said she went over his house on his birthday to make him food and to sign a promissory note. Why she didn’t get her stuff that day 🤣🤦🏽

    • @mama2flythesidehustlequeen164
      @mama2flythesidehustlequeen164 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      It's his birthday. She probably didn't want to ruin his day

    • @BTURNER1961
      @BTURNER1961 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@mama2flythesidehustlequeen164 I don't think him 'gifting' her a $1300 promissory note was designed to make him happy;

  • @FranckYound
    @FranckYound 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

    This was heartbreaking. I can not imagine what he went through🙏🏿

  • @RoyalPurpleStar
    @RoyalPurpleStar หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Aw…he was wiping away tears. Makes me sad. Hope he’s since found happiness.

  • @catoniacleveland2845
    @catoniacleveland2845 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I felt so bad for the defendant especially when he started to shed tears he was so honest and the judge had so much compassion for him 😢 God bless him

  • @RuthyVilla
    @RuthyVilla 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +42

    No matter how old you get always take things slow ❤️

  • @buttarain27
    @buttarain27 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    That little girl behind Harvey at 1:03 just looks fed up and disgusted af...lol.

    • @SMH-v1q
      @SMH-v1q 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I would be, too. I’m sure she’s bored of standing there 😂

    • @Mac-lm7cm
      @Mac-lm7cm 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Lmao 😂

  • @thedopemom7697
    @thedopemom7697 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    Pray He’s doing well❤

  • @elybeanz4500
    @elybeanz4500 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +79

    I don’t know what made the plaintiff think she can just leave without telling him and then come back later like “Oh I forgot some stuff can I come back and get it”. No! Stick to your cowardly behavior and grab everything as soon as you leave!

    • @mymobilebuddy4392
      @mymobilebuddy4392 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      This break-up probably hurt him very deeply. You have to have the same goals. You have to have the same morals.

    • @pinkdream-g6f
      @pinkdream-g6f 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      That's not how that works. But the judge already made that clear and you clearly didn't learn.

  • @Fluffyy808
    @Fluffyy808 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    Omgoodness. The tear he wiped away.🙏🏾

  • @tiffanym4262
    @tiffanym4262 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +35

    Praying for this young man… GOD PLEASE HEAL HIM!

  • @deborahlee1865
    @deborahlee1865 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    God bless and heal Mr. Sterling. I hope and pray he finds his queen. He is so respectful and truthful.

  • @vickisotomayorleroy6147
    @vickisotomayorleroy6147 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    God bless the defendant 🇺🇸

  • @Jake-xu1ts
    @Jake-xu1ts 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Man, I want to hug that guy… Good bless this man

  • @tratrazy1633
    @tratrazy1633 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Thank you, Mr Sterling, for your services. May you continue to heal 🙏🏾

  • @queenbee3828
    @queenbee3828 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    He has PTSD , sis best to be glad she didn’t get pounced! At the end of the day, don’t milk your condition to sidestep your responsibility! Pay sis

  • @elijahjames8837
    @elijahjames8837 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

    If I was a producer of this show I'd pay for the damages and see if we could help him get help.

    • @kenny2006sp
      @kenny2006sp 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Isn’t he already in therapy?

    • @BloodNote
      @BloodNote 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@kenny2006spyes he is

    • @Cubanflowers
      @Cubanflowers 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@kenny2006sp hi.. and today he is a counselor!.. he battled his demons and won... i pray for him to be with continued strength!.. be blessed

    • @none2951
      @none2951 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That what these shoes do already 😂 in exchange for coming on the show the show pays the judgement

    • @elijahjames8837
      @elijahjames8837 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@none2951 I would still do more. This guy is a shattered mess besides they probably could write it off as charity

  • @author_tiffany_dionne
    @author_tiffany_dionne 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I appreciate JM compassion towards the defendant despite him being wrong.

  • @gsignaturemessage
    @gsignaturemessage 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

    8:55 brother in the suit had wanted to be interviewed so had and Harvey did not make eye contact 😂

    • @ItsAtone
      @ItsAtone 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      He way dying for his debut.

    • @antoinetteriley3022
      @antoinetteriley3022 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I have yet to see him actually interview anyone black. He goes to everyone but them. I think it's happening too often to be an oversight on his part.

    • @Kadezya
      @Kadezya 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I noticed that as well​@@antoinetteriley3022

  • @michelehoneywood3521
    @michelehoneywood3521 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I am not fooled by his soft spoken demeanor. He is unstable!!!

  • @Ginaaaa555
    @Ginaaaa555 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +56

    I know the plaintiff not trying to act like the app is Vip only 😂😂

    • @Fluffyy808
      @Fluffyy808 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Comment got me screaming!

    • @kamwilliams5541
      @kamwilliams5541 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      “You have to meet certain criteria”…..girl bye 😂

    • @schuylercolley5920
      @schuylercolley5920 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Right then when JM says wut is the criteria.... alive, she simply says yeah lol, well that's a pretty vast criteria 😅

  • @alex-sv8to
    @alex-sv8to 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +87

    Plaintiff is in the right for the money but is as heartless as they come. She ditched him while he was at an appointment for his mental health. Then she went over on his birthday to get him to sign a promissory note knowing he is fragile. Hope karma has a good one for her.

    • @deandraaa_
      @deandraaa_ 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

      To avoid an altercation people who have gone thru what he has can snap at any given moment … and she left before an unfortunate incident occurred .. Again they did not know eachother well enough. Because this should of been addressed and she did not want to choose between her work so she left took what she can and came back the next day it’s not like she came back weeks or months later she is clearly with in her rights ! So o get it he been thru shit but that also in itself is a lot to put up with so they were both very kind and reasonable I’d u ask me .

    • @alex-sv8to
      @alex-sv8to 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      @@deandraaa_ I get everything you stated and have been through a breakup with someone unstable who tried to shoot me. She should have gotten all her stuff and left with zero contact ever again. Plaintiff did not handle this properly and definitely made a situation that could have made him snap. Do you really think a birthday visit for a promissory note was going to go smoothly? She knew going in something was wrong. I still stand by saying she is a heartless individual that has no for thought or concerns except for herself and she even executed her exit with extremely poor judgement.

    • @deandraaa_
      @deandraaa_ 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      @@alex-sv8to to say she is heartless is far fetched .. like u guys are letting emotions cloud judgement the man is Very fragile she was extremely kind she went their for the rest of her stufff he put out what he felt , she said wait their’s more and he said I don’t care and even recorded it yet did not give her all her stufff that same night .. so she decided to come back and say fine I can’t get my stuff at least sign this promissory note and pay me what it’s worth .. and he didn’t … like u guys are making excuses!! And ok let’s go offf what he claiming he contradicts himself by saying he wanted everything that reminds him of her gone yet he didn’t throw out EVERYTHING, he kept what He wanted which was gotten thru her so the memories / things are forever going to be attached TO HER !! Notice she didn’t bash him or get out herself she was calm and you can tell she felt terrible ….BUTTTTTTT HE COULD OF GAVE HER ALL HER THINGS THAT NIGHT OR PAID THE MONEY HE STILL WAS ORDERED TO PAY !! .. like he is not a total victim,, he has red flags and at least she seen it and left he still is unable to deal with separation healthy and u cause are overtly justifying his mental condition, when he clearly did it out of spite .. yet kept the expensive items ( electronics sh bought) 😑 I sympathize but he was definitely trying to overtly play on it and I seen right thru him

    • @tylamapp5317
      @tylamapp5317 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      ​@@deandraaa_i agree. We don't what he put her through. Sure he's been through a lot and displayed a calm demeanor but he's also on tv. I wouldn't go so far as to say she deserves karma like the other lady bc thats totally pushing it. I agree with you, they both moved entirely too fast.

    • @debrawalker2414
      @debrawalker2414 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I agree

  • @mikalatrice7962
    @mikalatrice7962 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    She went over to make dinner for him but had him sign a promissory note about getting her stuff now how did the judge miss that one

  • @PrimoTenore
    @PrimoTenore 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    man man man... JM we love this side of you...... comments did me proud for the most everybody is supportive....

    • @mitulu74
      @mitulu74 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That part.
      Very very important I enjpy when JM is kind & empathetic.

  • @42031x
    @42031x 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    the defendant is very brave to talk about such personal stuff that explained a lot of why he was there. I hope is doing okay.

  • @kimberly-gm9nq
    @kimberly-gm9nq 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I can see the deep pain in his eyes😢

  • @NoemiV
    @NoemiV 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    When he tears up 😢

  • @natashadaniels4599
    @natashadaniels4599 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    I feel so bad for defendant but right is right praying for continued healing for him 🙏🏾

  • @patriciamartin761
    @patriciamartin761 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    PTSD is a life changing condition. I was diagnosed from the trauma I experienced as a child after the death of my father.

  • @GenXtraShann
    @GenXtraShann 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    thank you sir for your service

  • @JAAulde
    @JAAulde 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Wow, all my best to the defendant 🥺

  • @louiseseaman9812
    @louiseseaman9812 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    My heart goes out to this young man, PTSD is nothing to play with, he was so humble, never just move in with someone after 3 weeks not a smart move at all

  • @SpanishRockstar
    @SpanishRockstar 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    She should’ve gave him a talk before leaving tbh.

  • @ambervallerio2816
    @ambervallerio2816 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    You can tell the defendant is a truthful and kind man. The judge was really kind to him. Respect to her. I hope he is feeling and doing much better today. Ty for your service my friend 💓

  • @michelehoneywood3521
    @michelehoneywood3521 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    It can be deadly for a woman who want to leave a relationship!!!

  • @Dann-d4b
    @Dann-d4b 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    She knew he had ptsd smh and move in that fast. All the nice stuff she saying about him but leaving seriously smh

  • @williamyoung5353
    @williamyoung5353 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    She should had set him down and talk to him because that right there the way she left him it shattered his heart and I felt his pain all the way I FELT IT WE ALL NEED TO PRAY FOR HIM

  • @stevelozano9523
    @stevelozano9523 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I felt so bad for the defendant for how he felt and what he's been through and continue to go through. I thank him for his service and for a better future as well as a person he deserves. I know what hes going through.

  • @Jgip34
    @Jgip34 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    She cooked him dinner to coerce him into signing the promissory note. That should have been thrown out.

  • @barbaraness4507
    @barbaraness4507 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    The advice that the judge gave to the defendant was very good, and I hope he remembers it. PTSD can be from almost anything, and pretty much anyone can say they have it to some degree. Although it may lead to a person doing irrational things it’s not a good defense for breaking the laws.

  • @lulusgm1
    @lulusgm1 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    I love her accent

  • @straykittsco.950
    @straykittsco.950 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This man looks so young to have been in the military in 1986!

  • @sheriwilliams5027
    @sheriwilliams5027 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    🇺🇸❤️🙏🏽imma wish the both joyful lives and Brother thank you for your service🇺🇸❤️🙏🏽

    • @velvetvel9763
      @velvetvel9763 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I LOVE THE STATEMENT YOU MADE 👏👏👏

  • @EDub-en9yw
    @EDub-en9yw 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Poor guy I think he needs a friend more then a lover right now . Maybe someone who has free time like him . He just trying to get through his issues .

  • @kimberlyadorno280
    @kimberlyadorno280 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

    I applaud the defendant for seeking out mental help. I can't say I know what he's experiencing with his PTSD, because mine is due to a different type of trauma, not battle caused. But it's not an easy thing to deal with sometimes, even with psychological help.
    I think they both handled things poorly. Both made bad decisions and I'm glad things didn't turn out worse.

    • @ccserinak
      @ccserinak 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Nicely said. I agree.

    • @BloodNote
      @BloodNote 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I agree with you. I also have the same disorders he has. Not caused by battle but abuse. So I get it. I pray he learns to heal after this.

    • @AlenaReed-by5sd
      @AlenaReed-by5sd 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ❤💯

  • @DJMookieJukebox
    @DJMookieJukebox 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    He is one the most Honest persons I’ve ever seen on People’s Court.

  • @pcalderon6765
    @pcalderon6765 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    JM was so kind and soft spoken.

  • @adriennef4637
    @adriennef4637 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Wow, Sterling is a good man. You can see it in his eyes and aura. I have ptsd as well and I have so much compassion for him❤

    • @AlenaReed-by5sd
      @AlenaReed-by5sd 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Reach out to him, maybe strike up a nice friendship!

  • @kamwilliams5541
    @kamwilliams5541 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    Good evening jury!

    • @sheriwilliams5027
      @sheriwilliams5027 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      🇺🇸❤️🙏🏽hey🇺🇸❤️🙏🏽

    • @DamianWard96
      @DamianWard96 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Good evening fellow juror!!! I am going to ignore the person below bashing our fandom name, because it is just that... regardless of the actual structure of the court system 😂

  • @HighPriestess33
    @HighPriestess33 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    She was playing with his emotions smh

  • @redgurl60
    @redgurl60 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    That man is broken. I feel immense sympathy for him, and pray he was able to find happier and healthier times.

  • @evocharbonneau856
    @evocharbonneau856 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    The defendant is an absolute sweetheart.

  • @amandamatheny3675
    @amandamatheny3675 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    i'm going to add to what Harvey said. He's right that moving in with someone within a few weeks or even a few months is insane, but on top of that even if you know each other for years, you still don't know what it's like to live with that person. Best way to deal with that is to spend a night or two here and there with them and eventually bump it up to a few nights and then maybe a week or two and see if you can handle them in small doses. It won't be completely foolproof but you will see more of what they are like to live with and it will give you a better idea if you want to make it a long-term thing.

    • @salihahwilliams1453
      @salihahwilliams1453 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I totally agree ! Cause no matter how many years you’ve known someone even tho a couple weeks is crazy! You never truly know what it’s like living with someone. Their habits your habits . Vet people before moving in

    • @rosej5029
      @rosej5029 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That wife in France is finding out AFTER FIFTY YEARS OF MARRIAGE (let alone 3 weeks of just living 2 gether) her husband is not who she thought he was! Google it if you don't know what I'm talking about!

  • @Melanatedsoul_46
    @Melanatedsoul_46 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I’ve never cried from watching People’s Court until now😢 Very humble man

  • @ayana188
    @ayana188 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    not sure why everyone is feeling so sorry for him , she made the best decision for herself. Glad no one got physically hurt

    • @shawnmisslady
      @shawnmisslady 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Why we shouldn’t feel bad for him? This man put everything on the line for this country!!!

    • @CMarie_B
      @CMarie_B 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I dealt briefly with a man who was an old friend, but later reconnected. Tried to start a relationship with him, as he was a newly retired vet, Lt Colonel who told me he suffered from PTSD. He was so up and down, and would get highly upset at the slightest things. He was highly insensitive as well He was quite bossy and he ended things abruptly. I'm thankful he left!!

    • @Myaa.luvvv7
      @Myaa.luvvv7 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Nobody said she shouldn’t have left that doesn’t mean we’re heartless bitches that doesn’t feel sorry for the guy.

  • @jessicaflagella31
    @jessicaflagella31 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I just want to hug this man 😔

  • @chelseablack
    @chelseablack 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

    Wow, she really took advantage of him when clearly he's going through stuff.

    • @peacheskong2245
      @peacheskong2245 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      How did she take advantage of him?? It didn't work, she left and that's really all there is to it. To his credit, the defendant is honest about what he feels however this does not excuse that his response to the breakup wasn't entirely correct, like the judge said, he needs to learn to cope with that and not make hasty decisions.

    • @chelseablack
      @chelseablack 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@peacheskong2245 he's going through some clearly disruptive mental health issues. He was vulnerable.

  • @Bebedollie
    @Bebedollie 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    If u are struggling with any kinda mental illnesses it's not wise to get into a relationship let alone let a random person u meet online live with u. Come on Sir . I can sympathize with u having ptsd but that's no excuse to throw her stuff away.

  • @Pinkblueflowerlady
    @Pinkblueflowerlady 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    He should’ve found someone like him that was retired. Maybe not someone that had a job and didn’t have time to spend with him.He seems like a nice person..

  • @lynnboyd33
    @lynnboyd33 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I feel for this gentlemen. He seems very up front and honest...if they had only waited a lot longer, to take the plunge. I truly hope that he...and she, can find their soul mates, and this time be much smarter about when they shack up!

  • @danielmunson5451
    @danielmunson5451 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    He seems so sweet! 😊

  • @aprilforever215
    @aprilforever215 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Aww you can tell he’s a sweet guy. He’s just got a lot going on in his head. I thank him for his services he’s done for our country ❤

  • @ryans413
    @ryans413 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    For a sec I thought the guy was just being lazy not wanting to work but you can’t really function until you get a handle on your PTSD. I hope the guy gets it resolved.

  • @suraceryan
    @suraceryan หลายเดือนก่อน

    What a nice man. Respectful, calm and honest. She was nice too. Thank you for your service my man. Hope the best for you both.

  • @jamesbrantley8105
    @jamesbrantley8105 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    So I actually have empathy for her. He probably dumped alot of dark deep emotions on her. You just got to be friends with folks.

  • @barbarapaton4005
    @barbarapaton4005 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Wish the defendant all the best

  • @diva70smusic
    @diva70smusic 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    I think both people moved too fast. Somehow, I think the plaintiff moved too fast for him and he became attached too quickly.
    I also think she was too selfish to recognize his struggles. She just wanted to be able to say "I got a man" to her friends. But then she works 14 hour days. Who does that?!?!?
    The defendant was a very honorable man, though. He didn't lie, get angry, exaggerate, or act a fool. He was straightforward with his answers, no bull.
    I commend him for taking the steps he needs to heal. Our service men and women who have served during conflict never come back the same people who left.
    We need to as individuals and a country, honor, celebrate and help these wounded warriors. You can tell by this man's demeanor that he is a good person. May God bless him and all of our servicepersons.

  • @KimSoMe00
    @KimSoMe00 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I hope he’s continuing to heal.

  • @chrisdavid3510
    @chrisdavid3510 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    With technology nowadays you can get to know someone in a weeks what it used to take a month.

  • @TVK520
    @TVK520 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Very compassionate Judge… seems like he’s really struggling and you can see the pain in his eyes. God Bless both of them. He admitted that he was wrong and just saw it wrong back then. PTSD for our servicemen and women is a real problem.

  • @ninosimone
    @ninosimone 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    He is wrong for throwing her stuff out

    • @AlenaReed-by5sd
      @AlenaReed-by5sd 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Yes, should have at least donated to a homeless shelter or Goodwill or something! Winter coats are always useful to someone in need.

  • @kirkhammet1516
    @kirkhammet1516 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I really doubt this guy has PTSD furthermore I really doubt he even served in the military. He didn't answer the question right or somebody that was really in the military

  • @emilybible7488
    @emilybible7488 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    the way the little girl says ridiculous is killing me

  • @alicemazzucco2345
    @alicemazzucco2345 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I really can't say she's wrong, I meet my husband 3 days before I moved in,it was in 98 and week before Halloween 3rd day I seen him I moved in, we got married in 2003 but been together for 26 years. So sometimes u can meet the right one. He also had a 6 year old I had a 1 year old. Both lived with us. I'm so happy and greatful I meet my husband. 😊

  • @bhornannawindeedeigh5007
    @bhornannawindeedeigh5007 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Oh my Goodness... at 14:16 I noticed what looks like a golden-orangey crown above the defendant's head. It's the lighting and the paneling and the courtroom- the whole thing - but the image stopped me and just made me feel such love and compassion for this man, a Veteran, having to deal with his service and all that hardship, in addition to reinventing yourself to try to continue standing tall, proud and courageous and continue being an honorable, contributing member of society - with it's completely different set of rules. I don't know... I just admire this man. I hope to my Higher Power that he never gave up or gave in. I thank him for his service. Big love. ❤

  • @michelleharper2940
    @michelleharper2940 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Bless him! My heart hurts watching and listening to him 😞 I love our veterans! RIP dad, I am proud that you are forever a Marine ❤💙

  • @sweetcandykane1
    @sweetcandykane1 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I wish I could hug him🤗🤗🤗🤗

  • @LeeLatoyaAlleyne-e6q
    @LeeLatoyaAlleyne-e6q 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    He looks amazing for his age… I would love to meet him ❤️

  • @porkchopjp
    @porkchopjp 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    he needs to work on himself... he does not need a relationship

    • @bongoikno4994
      @bongoikno4994 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      People work on themselves better when someone loves them

    • @Cubanflowers
      @Cubanflowers 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      hi.. he has.. and was able to battle his demons and win.. he is now counselor and business owner... be blessed