Sometimes you don’t know what it will be like. it seems great at first but after a while the loneliness and stress of not knowing if they’ll come home or not can get to you. My husband went on two tours. the second he came home after hitting an IED which killed one of our friends and severely injured him and three others. That takes a toll on you.
she had managed to handle it for 10 years. i dont excuse her actions she should have talked to him about it and had an adult conversation. but she did know what she was getting into and managed to handle it for a long time. but like all things, you can only take so much.
Most military couples get married at 18 right before the husband deploys hence this couple being depicted as together for 10 years but still look young. Neither have any way of predicting what the next 10 years would look like or feel like or think that after 10 long years, your husband would still rather stay in than get out like most want to and plan to by that time. It’s very easy for people like you say things like this but I doubt you were able to envision or plan out your entire future at 18, let alone get married to your newly enlisted husband that you don’t know you’ll go the next 10 years spending more time apart from, worried sick about than with him. Military wives are very strong women that sacrifice a lot and deserve more compassion, understanding and respect than they get.
literally. i do feel for her but a when a man is in the military, his career becomes his life but i do feel like if she had just told him how he was feeling then maybe this time around he would’ve stayed without having to be poisoned. im shocked but not surprised he ended up understanding
@@venustotsdon’t forget too is that many men that serve wanna be something! They don’t wanna be the same person they were outside, I think the captain would’ve applied for delta force if he wanted too as well
I mean, to be fair to her, he shouldn't be married then. If his life is over there, fighting, being on the field, then it's cruel for him to torture her with a promise or coming back home someday to start a family. They may love each other, but if his life is in combat, he shouldn't drag her into it without care or thought.
No, it’s THEIR life! They got married, signed up to live out life together! That comes with an obligation to do what’s best for both people, even when it requires sacrifices.
She could have gotten support from the "Wives of Rangers" (or service men at the base he was with. I have a friend who's son-in-law finished his career with the Navy, while still pretty young. They had 2 kids while he was in the service. I think they were maybe 6 & 11 or 12 when he got out.
@@335chr Did she? I thought she just wanted a way to keep him out of dangerous combat? Like I said still wrong, but that doesn't sound like malice to me
@@335chr If she didn't care what happened to him she would just straight up kill him. I guess there can be malice in her actions, but not caring about what happens to him? I don't think so.
oh wow the show actually called it what it is, even when it's a woman doing it to a man it's still domestic abuse, most shows don't want to call it that though so props to this one for that, it's a message that needs to be known more
@@ajbhuiyan4589 without once having a conversation with him about the fact she wanted him home and why; she even admits that she didn’t talk to him because “ what good would talking do?” Which means she doesn’t even think that her husband would’ve understood her.
@@SnakeRoadComicsOfficial3677 Not really, just references military bases. Which isn't saying much since there's a bajillion of them. Could have said San Diego for example, and that probably refers to the Marine Recruiting Depot there. But to answer the question, Georgia is home to one of the major Ranger bases. But you could be ranger qualified not in a ranger unit or just in a random base somewhere anyway.
@@SnakeRoadComicsOfficial3677 Meaning Ft Benning which is one of the basic training camps, he probably was stationed at Benning for a little bit before he got deployed
She should’ve divorced him instead of poisoning him. No reason for 7 deployments but if he’s trying to live his dream and it actively mentally harms you, leave. Don’t ruin his dream for your sake.
Wow. Now this one is crazy. Making your own husband diabetic to keep him out of service, because you missed him and were afraid of losing him?!? Wow just wow! You just lost him lady by doing that!
Dang... if this had continued on, she could've ended his life and she'd be in jail for something far WORSE than poisoning him. Diabetes can kill if left unchecked. While I understand him wanting to continue to serve and her wanting him home, what she did was still wrong. Good episode. 👍🏻
Ouch... that one's rough, yo. Ngl, I think the captain here needs to be evaluated to see why he puts so much of his self-worth on being a soldier. That's looking pathological right there. Wife still needs to face consequences for what she did too, but given the bit there at the end, I don't think she will. At least not from her husband. Legal might be another matter, even if he doesn't press charges.
Toxic masculity, I think. Men are often raised to believe their only worth is in if they are brave and strong and can get things done, if they can take risks. Very seldom do they consider the feelings of others on this matter. Not out of malice. They haven't been TAUGHT to consider them and if you point this out to them, it often causes either a meltdown or a whole shift in perspective. He's got some blame, for sure. If he hasn't missed her for ten years, enough to say "okay, maybe this was good enough!" then something's wrong with him.
@@ElvenAngel Agreed, though I think it goes beyond even that for this guy. I haven't seen the show, but I suspect he has a family history of military service, maybe going back several generations. I've seen similar attitudes to this from people who've been raised in that life. It's literally all that some of them know, even raised to believe that they can never be anything else from the time they're young children.
Domestic violence is charged by the state not the victim. They press charges for victims because a lot of the time they are coerced/manipulated/etc. There are a lot of mitigating factors at play in this specific situation, so in real life i'm not sure if she would actually get jail time. I suspect they would indeed charge her with domestic violence, but would require her to get psych evaluations/do therapy/maybe sit in a psych hospital for awhile and get on medication. Putting her in prison wouldn't really make much of a difference in the long run. Especially since her husband's job was actually extremely dangerous and could have caused her trauma in it's own way. Imagine having paranoid worries about the person you love dying on a regular basis. The problem is it's not an irrational worry, it's not like being afraid of spider bites. Can cause a lot of mental health issues.
@@ElvenAngel Or maybe it was just his dream job and he's worked up a good position/history there. Perhaps he doesn't want a medical issue to cost him 10 years of his life because of something he can't control. Maybe he's worried that his entire source of income and benefits that he's been working towards will all be stripped away on a whim. The best thing early veterans have going for them is a fight with the VA over basic life benefits and a small departure check that leads to a deadend job at 40 years of age, of course he'd be upset. You're so quick to assume "toxic masculinity" as if he couldn't have any reasons behind his emotions (such as financial stability and the entire course of his life so far), and acting as if there wasn't that entire last scene where she admits she didn't even try to have a conversation because she was too selfish to endure any hardship whatsoever. She chose to poison him over it instead of confronting him because she didn't want to deal with that discussion, because she wanted to rob him of any choice in his own life in order to live out her own selfish desires.
This is something both of them should have sat down and spoke over. Yes it's his life, he has served a long time. He needs to take her worry into account as well as she needs to understand his drive to do what he plans with his life. Communication is vital on both ends.
I seen this and a different one where a teen athlete is so determined to be what they wanted in life, they don’t see any other way to live without that. If they can’t do that dream they always want, they think life is over and there is nothing else for them to do. It’s sad to me to see people who live like that and think they can’t do anything else in life besides what they have only ever done
They can find a medium, military housing, transfer.sure its hard when they're away but it helps when yoy know other military wives,join a support group etc
She got her husband sick because she wants her home and she thinks her husband's better off sick then dead because she's so protective over him and now she's going to prison for what she's done.
Knowing how pretty much everyone sent over seas never return the same, always come back with mental or physical issues, I can see why she would be too worried for him. I still don’t agree with how she went about things though, but I can understand why she would worry and rather him not die or become worse off due to service injuries. Plus with how horrible those who return get treated when they need help, ya.
I'm glad someone else sees this too and isn't joining the rest of the comments in slating her for what she did.. Yes what she did was wrong and she shouldn't take his career choice away from him, however the army is minimum 4 years, home for 6 weeks a year and they said in the show he has been gone for 10 years, so most of the relationship he is gone, so no kids, no time together, no date nights. Basically he shows up every now and then and like she said the fear of him dying haunts her and gives her regular nightmares.. Which obvs nightmares most night for 10 years can turn anyone physcopathic. They can't have a normal relationship when he is overseas for 10 years of their relationship and he wasn't ready to leave anytime soon either she could have spent at least another 5 years alone. I don't agree with what she did at all, but personally I would have left, I can see why she made a dumb decision, and why she wanted to be with him so much, he may as well have been a friend with how much she spends time with him.
My great grandpa was a guerilla fighter in the Philippines, trying to fight the Japanese. When the Japanese army left, my grandpa was already 8 years old. He wasn’t an official soldier, but he was a soldier either way. Being deployed doesn’t mean you stop being a soldier. You will always be a solider.
I live in a military family, we know what it's like to serve and we know what it's like to marry those who are in service. What she did was unacceptable on all accounts
When I understood he had blood sugar problems, and saw him rush to get up, I literally said to myself; *TIMBEERRR!* I dont have diabetes or any blood sugar problems, but I knew he'd pass out.
This goes to show how powerful love can be No matter how someone did something to their significant other to keep them home they were still willing to be with them. Shows what live for each other can be
I get her perspective, I was active army, wanted to make a career of it, but it was tearing my wife apart every time I was gone. Wife or Army? I picked wife. Some wives can handle it, some can’t, better to just be honest about which one you are.
She should be lucky she isnt in jail on top of being divorced. That is so abusive and controlling to drug him and sabotage his future just because she couldn't handle what she signed up for. The fact he chose to forgive her despite betraying his trust so severely, she'd better make it up to him. Even though its a show, i just wish they explored that aspect of the conflict.
I’ve been registered nurse 38 years then takes too much prednisone to spike your blood sugar but they should’ve noticed on the A1c that it was an acute case which doesn’t make sense considering his lack of physical anomalies.
She just should have divorced. Seven tours is rediculous...the guy is mentally ill. 10 years is too long to worry about losing someone because they are married to war
Gosh, the amount of people who believe this is real life and not a TV show produced by Dick Wolf is painful. Honestly, I’m from the UK and even I know it’s a show.
Or they know it is a show; but still want to discuss what it would mean in a real life situation, or say what their reaction would be if it happened to them in real life, or how it supposably happens in real life.
They know it's a show. What's sad is that people can't see the comments and realize it. How did any of the discuss books in school.... "You know it's not real right, it's just a book you know"
@luthen4464 Depends. If she’s going to the back of a police car, she needs to be searched and cuffed. That’s SOP. If they’re compliant, you can do all of that once they’re at the car.
"You can understand why I did what I did?" And what was that? Giving him a drug he didn't need so it'd show up as a disease he didn't have? If it was me we'd be done. Immediately.
I don't know how in US, but after 10 years and 7 tours shouldn't he be eligible for better position that can allow him to be closer to his wife and finally have children?
@@abuhurairah6268That’s an extremely dumb take. If you can’t handle the fact that your spouse will be deployed then you shouldn’t have married them. He was not neglecting her, he was doing his duty. She is an abuser who could have killed her husband.
She's his wife. Unless he specifically said 'I don't want my wife to know' they are free to discuss things with her. Especially when he gets knocked out cold by falling over.
If she's in the room and he consents, they can discuss it with the wife. If he's incapacitated and she has medical power of attorney, they can discuss with the wife. She's free to bring to the doctor's attention anything as the wife is not bound by HIPAA. however, as someone who's had yearly HIPAA training, there isn't an exception that spouses are fine to discuss medical issues. Still requires patient consent.
I know not to question the medicine in these shows too too much, but just because somebody has an instance of very high blood sugar doesn't mean that they're diabetic... I'm guessing they may have run some other tests off screen? But there are a lot of medical issues that can cause high blood sugar episodes without it just being diabetes.
Y’all in the comments talking about divorce, I understand why he didn’t leave her. When it comes to matters of the heart, it’s not so easy to just walk away.
Men think TWICE before you get married, especially if you’re in a career, where you’re going to be gone a lot. I personally would just recommend dating. Then once you get out, then get into a serious relationship, then you’ll be home more.
? Dude, she displays the classic signs of insanity. I can understand she was ignorant enough to not understand there could be serious medical side effects to poisoning her husband. However, she was genuinely surprised that she might go to jail. That means she never considered she might face consequences. That is the symptom of delusion, which in turn is a symptom of the criminally insane.
Well she was the one dumb enough to put up with Willing to be with a military guy And dumb enough to Be willing to be with Him every single minute of every single day When she decided to start dating and then marry him It's really her own fault for worrying so much Because in the end it's either he comes home permanently or he doesn't And the military can Sue her and arrest her For damaging property
it's selfish, the idea that you don't want to worry anymore so you poison them. If you can't handle it, then call the whole thing off and date a person who isn't in the military. You may not agree with the whole idea of war/military, but that doesn't mean you get to make your own morals.
I don't see why. The character quite literally did something that's irreversible to her husband to prevent him from deploying, which is highly illegal. People call that the character deserves to be arrested... and she should be. Yeah, this is a show. So what? If this had happened irl, then people would be calling the same thing for the offender.
Honestly, huge respect to the captain for staying committed to his relationship despite how angry he was with her. He saw that she meant no harm and didn't want to hurt him, but still was understandably angry.
Now tbh i get why she did it but don't get me wrong it doesn't justify her actions she did do wrong but, she did miss her husband and being separated from someone who u love all so much is very difficult because you don't know if their cheating, or they may not return home, i think there could've been better ways to explain to her husband then pretty much having to drug her husband up so much to the point of getting diabetes 😢 he just wanted to serve his country
Diabetes is troublesome. No fun being itchy and smelly. Not good going blind and losing limbs. Fatal renal failure is scary. Not here to scare anybody. Just being factual.
I don’t agree with what she did at the end, but she probably has been giving him signals for probably at least half like she said he’s on his seventh deployment that’s not the most he should be slowing down and thinking about his partner very well know this probably not the first time she’s actually given signs that she wants him home she probably has been Asking for probably three or four deployment ago she would like to have more time with him for him to stay home and he’s probably just been putting it off and putting it off and delaying versus addressing elephant in the room. It might be a multiple things might be why he don’t stay since he said he didn’t wanna have a family while he’s away, and he didn’t wanna have to stay home and have a baby with her and he didn’t want one probably didn’t want one right now and also it might be depending on who he really is if he’s career military, where he wants to go up and rank and make it his career instead of having to come out and actually find you know civilian job which is quite hard enough as it is in this economy or there could be something totally different that is wrong and I don’t think he would do it, but you never know he might have a partner in the military might not want to leave even though he has a loving wife at home it’s like damn you do and damned if you don’t and those situations where you love your wife at home, but she might have feelings for this other person in the militaryyou trying to have your cake and eat it too. It doesn’t mean he doesn’t love his wife, but maybe she doesn’t you know meet all your needs that you think you do. There’s a lot of ways that can be interpreted from this episode.
Don’t date someone military affiliated if you can’t handle them being away from home.
Sometimes you don’t know what it will be like. it seems great at first but after a while the loneliness and stress of not knowing if they’ll
come home or not can get to you.
My husband went on two tours. the second he came home after hitting an IED which killed one of our friends and severely injured him and three others. That takes a toll on you.
Thats so easy to say, but nobody ever knows how they're going to feel or respond to something until it happens.
@@thisisaperson660 that's when you communicate, and not, you know, unknowingly force them into being diabetic
she had managed to handle it for 10 years. i dont excuse her actions she should have talked to him about it and had an adult conversation. but she did know what she was getting into and managed to handle it for a long time. but like all things, you can only take so much.
Most military couples get married at 18 right before the husband deploys hence this couple being depicted as together for 10 years but still look young. Neither have any way of predicting what the next 10 years would look like or feel like or think that after 10 long years, your husband would still rather stay in than get out like most want to and plan to by that time. It’s very easy for people like you say things like this but I doubt you were able to envision or plan out your entire future at 18, let alone get married to your newly enlisted husband that you don’t know you’ll go the next 10 years spending more time apart from, worried sick about than with him. Military wives are very strong women that sacrifice a lot and deserve more compassion, understanding and respect than they get.
gotta love how Dr Charles says just enough to get the point across to her. Doesn't even need to say "or you can."
Dr Charles is a great Psychiatrist
Even if you wanted him home you have to understand that was his life
literally. i do feel for her but a when a man is in the military, his career becomes his life but i do feel like if she had just told him how he was feeling then maybe this time around he would’ve stayed without having to be poisoned. im shocked but not surprised he ended up understanding
@@venustotsdon’t forget too is that many men that serve wanna be something! They don’t wanna be the same person they were outside, I think the captain would’ve applied for delta force if he wanted too as well
I mean, to be fair to her, he shouldn't be married then. If his life is over there, fighting, being on the field, then it's cruel for him to torture her with a promise or coming back home someday to start a family. They may love each other, but if his life is in combat, he shouldn't drag her into it without care or thought.
No, it’s THEIR life! They got married, signed up to live out life together! That comes with an obligation to do what’s best for both people, even when it requires sacrifices.
She could have gotten support from the "Wives of Rangers" (or service men at the base he was with. I have a friend who's son-in-law finished his career with the Navy, while still pretty young. They had 2 kids while he was in the service. I think they were maybe 6 & 11 or 12 when he got out.
Just gets up and leaves his dinner that's dedication
Lmao
It's a movie scene.
@@honor9lite1337 no really??
they were just carrots lol
breakfast actually
That would be a instant divorce for me. Doesn't matter if she didn't due it out of malice. What she did is still wrong.
Facts
But she did do it out of malice
@@335chr Did she? I thought she just wanted a way to keep him out of dangerous combat? Like I said still wrong, but that doesn't sound like malice to me
@@CrazyAnimeGamer2 Yes because she hurt him to get what she wanted and didn't care what happened to him
@@335chr If she didn't care what happened to him she would just straight up kill him. I guess there can be malice in her actions, but not caring about what happens to him? I don't think so.
If she wanted him home all she had to do was talk to him, NOT poison him, potentially killing him in the process.
I am surprised he didn't say he was going to file for divorce.
they're getting really good with the grey areas i swear
The mark of a soldier is ultimate loyalty, even to those who would poison and endanger them. Especially them, in fact.
He should not stay with her because she is not safe to be around.
She's a good girl.
@@lukewalker6646 it's not that deep
oh wow the show actually called it what it is, even when it's a woman doing it to a man it's still domestic abuse, most shows don't want to call it that though so props to this one for that, it's a message that needs to be known more
I like it when shows tell us that men aren’t always the abuser in situations like this. Women & children can be abusive, too. Anyone can be an abuser.
I'm delighted to find like-minded thinkers around here.
@@kyliechristina234 Yeah, it’s hard to find someone who shares your beliefs sometimes.
lol its not abuse
Staying with someone who poisoned you, this is wrong, not love.
She did it to keep him off combat duty
She drugged him with prednisone
Which means, no matter how you word it, that she may do it again in some other circumstance to get her way.
it IS love
@@ajbhuiyan4589 without once having a conversation with him about the fact she wanted him home and why; she even admits that she didn’t talk to him because “ what good would talking do?” Which means she doesn’t even think that her husband would’ve understood her.
Okay, I’m a military nerd. “You’re a long way from Georgia.” They didn’t need to include that line, but I’m happy they did!
I'm guessing it's a military jargon.
@@SnakeRoadComicsOfficial3677 Not really, just references military bases. Which isn't saying much since there's a bajillion of them. Could have said San Diego for example, and that probably refers to the Marine Recruiting Depot there. But to answer the question, Georgia is home to one of the major Ranger bases. But you could be ranger qualified not in a ranger unit or just in a random base somewhere anyway.
@@SnakeRoadComicsOfficial3677 Actually, no. He said he was an Army Ranger. Ranger school is 30 minutes away from where I live at Fort Moore.
@@SnakeRoadComicsOfficial3677
Meaning Ft Benning which is one of the basic training camps, he probably was stationed at Benning for a little bit before he got deployed
This is what happens when you don't communicate and commit to walking the same path together.
I thought “oh i watched this already” then i see this was posted 24 MINUTES AGO
reupload
@@camdaman1 yea i realised that… 😅
@@SwedishWarthunderPlayer with a little extra footage at the end lol
lepo ime baki
Strong husband, he is. Despite what she did to him, he still loves her
It’s getting really out of hand 💀
She should’ve divorced him instead of poisoning him. No reason for 7 deployments but if he’s trying to live his dream and it actively mentally harms you, leave. Don’t ruin his dream for your sake.
Wow. Now this one is crazy. Making your own husband diabetic to keep him out of service, because you missed him and were afraid of losing him?!? Wow just wow! You just lost him lady by doing that!
7 tours is a very long time to be away from your family, people (especially women) can act irrationally like this
Dude. You're only proving her right.
@@DonoZeek How???? That makes no fucking sense. Either way you CANT just give someone diabetes
Captain Jackson was gone for 10 years in combat so she decided to drug him with prednisone
i like her lol
Yeah the double standard. If he did anything similar he would be straight to jail. There wouldn’t be any questions.
Ah yes the double standard 7:00
@@rockythewerepuppy2253the double standard is that it won’t go to trial and on the rare chance it does she won’t go to jail
Well this is the world we live in.
@@dwaynedcosta8313 cry about it
Dang... if this had continued on, she could've ended his life and she'd be in jail for something far WORSE than poisoning him. Diabetes can kill if left unchecked. While I understand him wanting to continue to serve and her wanting him home, what she did was still wrong.
Good episode. 👍🏻
“I knew what I was getting into”
*Poisons her husband*
I LOVE THE PHYCIATRIST in this series, his movies are amazing, THE KING in ready to rumble is my favorite YOU CRUSHED MY BUTTERFINGER BABY HAHA
Instant fail on her part. She can never be trusted again.
That woman is extremely lucky her husband is a good guy, and not one to beat her for what she did.
Ouch... that one's rough, yo. Ngl, I think the captain here needs to be evaluated to see why he puts so much of his self-worth on being a soldier. That's looking pathological right there. Wife still needs to face consequences for what she did too, but given the bit there at the end, I don't think she will. At least not from her husband. Legal might be another matter, even if he doesn't press charges.
Toxic masculity, I think. Men are often raised to believe their only worth is in if they are brave and strong and can get things done, if they can take risks. Very seldom do they consider the feelings of others on this matter. Not out of malice. They haven't been TAUGHT to consider them and if you point this out to them, it often causes either a meltdown or a whole shift in perspective. He's got some blame, for sure. If he hasn't missed her for ten years, enough to say "okay, maybe this was good enough!" then something's wrong with him.
He definitely did overreacted to being psychologically evaluated.
@@ElvenAngel Agreed, though I think it goes beyond even that for this guy. I haven't seen the show, but I suspect he has a family history of military service, maybe going back several generations. I've seen similar attitudes to this from people who've been raised in that life. It's literally all that some of them know, even raised to believe that they can never be anything else from the time they're young children.
Domestic violence is charged by the state not the victim. They press charges for victims because a lot of the time they are coerced/manipulated/etc. There are a lot of mitigating factors at play in this specific situation, so in real life i'm not sure if she would actually get jail time. I suspect they would indeed charge her with domestic violence, but would require her to get psych evaluations/do therapy/maybe sit in a psych hospital for awhile and get on medication. Putting her in prison wouldn't really make much of a difference in the long run. Especially since her husband's job was actually extremely dangerous and could have caused her trauma in it's own way. Imagine having paranoid worries about the person you love dying on a regular basis. The problem is it's not an irrational worry, it's not like being afraid of spider bites. Can cause a lot of mental health issues.
@@ElvenAngel Or maybe it was just his dream job and he's worked up a good position/history there. Perhaps he doesn't want a medical issue to cost him 10 years of his life because of something he can't control. Maybe he's worried that his entire source of income and benefits that he's been working towards will all be stripped away on a whim. The best thing early veterans have going for them is a fight with the VA over basic life benefits and a small departure check that leads to a deadend job at 40 years of age, of course he'd be upset.
You're so quick to assume "toxic masculinity" as if he couldn't have any reasons behind his emotions (such as financial stability and the entire course of his life so far), and acting as if there wasn't that entire last scene where she admits she didn't even try to have a conversation because she was too selfish to endure any hardship whatsoever. She chose to poison him over it instead of confronting him because she didn't want to deal with that discussion, because she wanted to rob him of any choice in his own life in order to live out her own selfish desires.
This is something both of them should have sat down and spoke over. Yes it's his life, he has served a long time. He needs to take her worry into account as well as she needs to understand his drive to do what he plans with his life. Communication is vital on both ends.
I seen this and a different one where a teen athlete is so determined to be what they wanted in life, they don’t see any other way to live without that. If they can’t do that dream they always want, they think life is over and there is nothing else for them to do. It’s sad to me to see people who live like that and think they can’t do anything else in life besides what they have only ever done
I get wanting your husband home but causing an illness is so wrong and absolutely not the right way to go about things! She should honestly be in jail
Will you give me diabetes too?
She should be in jail
Trust me, she's going to jail.
It’s a ✨ show ✨
@@CajunReaper95 way to go captain obvious
@@CajunReaper95learn what a thought terminating cliche is
@@TimberlakeTigerGirl i hope you go to jail
"I wanted him home and safe". Peaches he's not safe on Prednisone
Wait, Prednisone causes diabetes????? I take it for my RA. I recently lowered my dose due to compromised immunity with knowledge of my doc, of course
They can find a medium, military housing, transfer.sure its hard when they're away but it helps when yoy know other military wives,join a support group etc
Sick or dead
Id rather be dead than diabetes
Ive seen what it does to family and friends and it would just be a terrible existence for me
She got her husband sick because she wants her home and she thinks her husband's better off sick then dead because she's so protective over him and now she's going to prison for what she's done.
Knowing how pretty much everyone sent over seas never return the same, always come back with mental or physical issues, I can see why she would be too worried for him. I still don’t agree with how she went about things though, but I can understand why she would worry and rather him not die or become worse off due to service injuries. Plus with how horrible those who return get treated when they need help, ya.
I'm glad someone else sees this too and isn't joining the rest of the comments in slating her for what she did.. Yes what she did was wrong and she shouldn't take his career choice away from him, however the army is minimum 4 years, home for 6 weeks a year and they said in the show he has been gone for 10 years, so most of the relationship he is gone, so no kids, no time together, no date nights. Basically he shows up every now and then and like she said the fear of him dying haunts her and gives her regular nightmares.. Which obvs nightmares most night for 10 years can turn anyone physcopathic. They can't have a normal relationship when he is overseas for 10 years of their relationship and he wasn't ready to leave anytime soon either she could have spent at least another 5 years alone. I don't agree with what she did at all, but personally I would have left, I can see why she made a dumb decision, and why she wanted to be with him so much, he may as well have been a friend with how much she spends time with him.
This is......wow. If a spouse or sibling did this with me, the trust is gone. Done. But this has given me a fear of prednisone now.
Why would he be desperate enough to stay with his wife who poisoned him? She could have killed him 😮
My great grandpa was a guerilla fighter in the Philippines, trying to fight the Japanese. When the Japanese army left, my grandpa was already 8 years old. He wasn’t an official soldier, but he was a soldier either way. Being deployed doesn’t mean you stop being a soldier. You will always be a solider.
I live in a military family, we know what it's like to serve and we know what it's like to marry those who are in service. What she did was unacceptable on all accounts
Mmaann that's crazy to do something like that to a solider
When I understood he had blood sugar problems, and saw him rush to get up, I literally said to myself;
*TIMBEERRR!*
I dont have diabetes or any blood sugar problems, but I knew he'd pass out.
Don't have blood sugar problems, but I do have low blood pressure. Lol.
I saw his face and said the same thing. Lol.
This goes to show how powerful love can be
No matter how someone did something to their significant other to keep them home they were still willing to be with them. Shows what live for each other can be
He should've filed for divorce.
Im here after 9 minutes of upload
I Will watch even if its night
Honestly I would divorce if my spouse did that to me
Sadly no spouse
I get her perspective, I was active army, wanted to make a career of it, but it was tearing my wife apart every time I was gone.
Wife or Army? I picked wife.
Some wives can handle it, some can’t, better to just be honest about which one you are.
What a man. My husband would be the same way!
She should be lucky she isnt in jail on top of being divorced. That is so abusive and controlling to drug him and sabotage his future just because she couldn't handle what she signed up for.
The fact he chose to forgive her despite betraying his trust so severely, she'd better make it up to him.
Even though its a show, i just wish they explored that aspect of the conflict.
I take prednisone daily. I wonder how much you have to take in order to have such symptoms.
I’ve been registered nurse 38 years then takes too much prednisone to spike your blood sugar but they should’ve noticed on the A1c that it was an acute case which doesn’t make sense considering his lack of physical anomalies.
She just should have divorced. Seven tours is rediculous...the guy is mentally ill.
10 years is too long to worry about losing someone because they are married to war
It's clear that he derives his identity and self-worth from being a soldier. That is sad actually.
Mrs. Jackson is classic. Just wants what's best for her. Not what he wants. He should run. Fast.
Her condition will manifest into something worse.
Surprised he didn’t divorce
Bro. Was talking to him just out of the question or something?
I don't think the doctor at the end agreed with him about staying with her lol 😅
My one question is will the poisoning be permanent
No, once he's off preds, his numbers will start to go back to normal.
Gosh, the amount of people who believe this is real life and not a TV show produced by Dick Wolf is painful. Honestly, I’m from the UK and even I know it’s a show.
Welcome to America, man. 😅
Or they know it is a show; but still want to discuss what it would mean in a real life situation, or say what their reaction would be if it happened to them in real life, or how it supposably happens in real life.
They know it's a show. What's sad is that people can't see the comments and realize it.
How did any of the discuss books in school....
"You know it's not real right, it's just a book you know"
They know, but where else can they channel their "if the roles were reversed" rage at women..
6:49 to prevent a problem that is happening right now
She’s betrayed him. Has she ever thought he didn’t want to be around her?
Why marry her then? Why talk about having kids?
Swap their genders and they'd be calling him an abusive monster as he's taken out in handcuffs
Dude it’s a fucking show- in reality it could’ve happened the same way as it would happen to a man
You do know that she got arrested for this right?
She voluntarily turned herself in. There’s little need to handcuff someone who is going with you willingly.
@luthen4464 Depends. If she’s going to the back of a police car, she needs to be searched and cuffed. That’s SOP. If they’re compliant, you can do all of that once they’re at the car.
Cringe
7:27 stop why did that computer look like a Sheikah slate 💀
"You can understand why I did what I did?" And what was that? Giving him a drug he didn't need so it'd show up as a disease he didn't have? If it was me we'd be done. Immediately.
I don't know how in US, but after 10 years and 7 tours shouldn't he be eligible for better position that can allow him to be closer to his wife and finally have children?
He's a Ranger, he volunteered for that duty.
@@jameygroves8561 Even worse, then. That means he deliberately neglected his wife which pushed her to the extreme.
@@abuhurairah6268That’s an extremely dumb take. If you can’t handle the fact that your spouse will be deployed then you shouldn’t have married them. He was not neglecting her, he was doing his duty. She is an abuser who could have killed her husband.
This wife is incredibly selfish..
The writers of this show clearly never heard of HIPAA violations before
She's his wife. Unless he specifically said 'I don't want my wife to know' they are free to discuss things with her. Especially when he gets knocked out cold by falling over.
@@TimberlakeTigerGirl I’m taking about them discussing a patient in a crowded cafeteria
HIPAA, not HIPPA
If she's in the room and he consents, they can discuss it with the wife. If he's incapacitated and she has medical power of attorney, they can discuss with the wife. She's free to bring to the doctor's attention anything as the wife is not bound by HIPAA. however, as someone who's had yearly HIPAA training, there isn't an exception that spouses are fine to discuss medical issues. Still requires patient consent.
@@Sniperboy5551 thanks
That "you been drinkin' soldier? 😉" is pretty sus
I know not to question the medicine in these shows too too much, but just because somebody has an instance of very high blood sugar doesn't mean that they're diabetic...
I'm guessing they may have run some other tests off screen? But there are a lot of medical issues that can cause high blood sugar episodes without it just being diabetes.
Y’all in the comments talking about divorce, I understand why he didn’t leave her. When it comes to matters of the heart, it’s not so easy to just walk away.
Men think TWICE before you get married, especially if you’re in a career, where you’re going to be gone a lot. I personally would just recommend dating. Then once you get out, then get into a serious relationship, then you’ll be home more.
Does he ever forgive her for this?
Did you watch the whole video?
Wanted him home and safe. Yet she slowly killing him.
1:30 Never miss breakfast 😯
She's a total yandere
Worst case scenario: if he died from that poison, well she wanted him to come home but at what cost
Hemoglobin A one c also measured to tell glucose control
? Dude, she displays the classic signs of insanity. I can understand she was ignorant enough to not understand there could be serious medical side effects to poisoning her husband. However, she was genuinely surprised that she might go to jail. That means she never considered she might face consequences. That is the symptom of delusion, which in turn is a symptom of the criminally insane.
How much prednisone is fatal?????? I take it for mg RA but I lowered my dose with knowledge of my doctor. 😭
Um no. Divorce..ASAP!
i love shrinks i just dont want them near me or my patients
You sound sus
@@venomousbunny9875 shrinks are sus
10 years is a long time away from home and i can see why she did what she did
i cant. but thats just because im a normal human being.
THANK YOU
Thought he was going too say we getting a divorce
Normal people would not use a drug or poison to get their own way. Horrible woman.
Well she was the one dumb enough to put up with Willing to be with a military guy And dumb enough to Be willing to be with Him every single minute of every single day When she decided to start dating and then marry him It's really her own fault for worrying so much Because in the end it's either he comes home permanently or he doesn't And the military can Sue her and arrest her For damaging property
it's selfish, the idea that you don't want to worry anymore so you poison them. If you can't handle it, then call the whole thing off and date a person who isn't in the military. You may not agree with the whole idea of war/military, but that doesn't mean you get to make your own morals.
Who’s the actor playing the patient ?
She is all kinds of selfish!
I love forgiveness! Thanks Jesus Christ.
Holy the amount of people looking past the fact this is a show saying she needs to be arrested is quite alarming!
I don't see why. The character quite literally did something that's irreversible to her husband to prevent him from deploying, which is highly illegal.
People call that the character deserves to be arrested... and she should be.
Yeah, this is a show. So what? If this had happened irl, then people would be calling the same thing for the offender.
Such an amazing woman! ❤❤❤
……… what???
She should go to prison not get slap on the wrist
Honestly, huge respect to the captain for staying committed to his relationship despite how angry he was with her. He saw that she meant no harm and didn't want to hurt him, but still was understandably angry.
They can see a marriage.councler
Staying with an abuser isn't commendable
You guys are nuts...lol
Poisoning someone isn't act of love or care. It's abusive and there is nothing cute about it.
This man isn't commendable.
The people in the comment section need to realise that this is all acting. Its not a real life event that actually happened.
Can someone actually cause diabetes in another person?
That was stupid of her
Now tbh i get why she did it but don't get me wrong it doesn't justify her actions she did do wrong but, she did miss her husband and being separated from someone who u love all so much is very difficult because you don't know if their cheating, or they may not return home, i think there could've been better ways to explain to her husband then pretty much having to drug her husband up so much to the point of getting diabetes 😢 he just wanted to serve his country
איזה גבר מבין את אשתו בכול מצב ❤❤❤
Diabetes is troublesome. No fun being itchy and smelly. Not good going blind and losing limbs. Fatal renal failure is scary. Not here to scare anybody. Just being factual.
There's a chance he asked for a divorce after this
Keyword: "chance"
I don’t agree with what she did at the end, but she probably has been giving him signals for probably at least half like she said he’s on his seventh deployment that’s not the most he should be slowing down and thinking about his partner very well know this probably not the first time she’s actually given signs that she wants him home she probably has been Asking for probably three or four deployment ago she would like to have more time with him for him to stay home and he’s probably just been putting it off and putting it off and delaying versus addressing elephant in the room. It might be a multiple things might be why he don’t stay since he said he didn’t wanna have a family while he’s away, and he didn’t wanna have to stay home and have a baby with her and he didn’t want one probably didn’t want one right now and also it might be depending on who he really is if he’s career military, where he wants to go up and rank and make it his career instead of having to come out and actually find you know civilian job which is quite hard enough as it is in this economy or there could be something totally different that is wrong and I don’t think he would do it, but you never know he might have a partner in the military might not want to leave even though he has a loving wife at home it’s like damn you do and damned if you don’t and those situations where you love your wife at home, but she might have feelings for this other person in the militaryyou trying to have your cake and eat it too. It doesn’t mean he doesn’t love his wife, but maybe she doesn’t you know meet all your needs that you think you do. There’s a lot of ways that can be interpreted from this episode.
Sick woman
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I just hate the administrator on this show. You can tell she gets off on the power!
Draft dodging?
??? He was active duty for a decade dude what?
Has not been any conscription in the US since 1973.
How do you get diabetes if you have a healthy pancreas???🤔