Dada Tunza watoto wako na hao wana haraka kuishi na wakutabulia wewe. Waache. Tena tumia chako polepole pesa zimekwisha lakini uwezo wako badu na umtosha. Na hakika utaeda bali.Mungu ni mwema kila wakati kwa kila mtu. BE STRONG. ITS GOING TO BE PERFECT MANY WOMEN HAVE COME OUT BETTER WITHOUT THIS KIND OF A SUCKER NOW THAT YOU KNOW SUCKERS FLAGS. HOLD NO HARD FEELINGS. HOLD ONTO FAITH IN GOD.
My friend went through almost the same, her ex is a Nigerian, they didn't have a child together but was infected with HIV, scammed lots of money and left with huge debts
@@lubatikoseme6613 don't scare me gal my boss's daughter has a Nigerian husband and his Visa came out today and you are talking about same situation am just wondering
Those are not sister or that is not a family it is all con family they set up.....I had the same strong from a person...that guy is common con in kenya
That one was a Nigerian man, I can bet my arm on it! Plus they hire people to act as their family so they can cover up their tracks and keep their lie going as they defraud you of your money. Hehehe... Naija, naija 😂
He is from Ghana. Now you're wrong. Should we now cut off your arms? 😁. Be careful what you say. Anyways, may I remind you that Jesus Christ loves you very much and deeply cares about you and you need Him
As women, we find ourselves in these wrong relationships because we have been conditioned to think we are not enough until we are married with children. Doesn’t matter how educated we are or how much money we earn if we don’t have a husband and children society looks down on us and the pressure from family and society is unbelievable. Nobody has it all figured out and until the day we as women will want a man purely for love and pleasure and not for status or money is when things will start turning around for us. This pressure is especially more for single women with children. We are enough just as we are. For guest : All the very best in your future and I’m glad you picked yourself up after your all you’ve been through. Thank you for speaking up, we are constantly learning and bettering ourselves from others experiences. Watching from Dublin
How can you continue with a relationship of which you know well it's going nowhere , those red flags are enough to show you that this person isn't right for you😋😋😋
I know a young woman from my town who sold her thriving business, house and gave a Nigerian man after spending her savings on him. She parked ready to go join him ( he left earlier) only for the guy to disappear never to be heard of. Luckily she has started her business (she's super talented in her area) again and is doing well.
Everything happen for a reason dear just raise your children and they will make you happy later，WE CAN'T CHANGE THE PAST BUT FUTURE WE CAN be blessed mother of two handsome boy. 😘😘😘
Angela I just am in awe of you. Your honesty your vulnerability your humility through all the pain loss and subsequent judgement. Marriage and relationships are hard. Regardless of where the person is from. Don't blame yourself ever. You were in love and that condition biases ones viewpoint. Your mother isn't right all the time. Trust your judgement. Just give relationships more time and learn from past mistakes. Failure is part of life in relationships business and in choices we make. I would love to meet you. God bless you with a great husband one day. Don't give up on love even from Ghana. It's not the country but the individual. Baraka.
I'm in love with how composed and mature you are. I love the fact that you did dust yourself and accepted you made a mistake too and that life must move on. I just love you. May God see you through and all your heart desires.
I fear God for how far he has brought me..now I know why some ladies are in for murder. My guy of 12 yrs on and off kind of relashionship, at 50, come back after 9 yrs I left him beccouse a woman called to inform me that they are together.Was heart broken and moved on with life. In this 9yrs he cared by sending me something little whenever I was down and communicated as friends. So I felt I should accept him becouse he has been asking me to be his wife.. That he has realised his mistakes.. I forgot and ignored that I was once heart broken and gave in just to be crashed once more..What hurts me most is that, I was minding my biz why did he come with marriage issues if he knew its a lie? ..
Hey wonderfull african Community ❤️🌹, im in Europe and my Sisters youngest daughter is Dating an Nigerian on/Off, she is Young and beautiful, He is really Not but for some reason she is so attracted to him, but suddenly He asked for Money, even though He Always tells her "they are Just Friends" .She did Not gave him Money!! Nothing at all , cause she lives with me and i told her, If she gives him Money, she needs to live on her own (which, ofcourse ,to Kick her Out, i would NEVER do!!! NEVER) I Said this to make her feel that every Person needs to Take responsibility for their own Actions. She has sooooooo much Love pain and i'm so worried to See her selfestem shrink daily. Is there a Chance that He is a good a Guy? Should i let her meet him again? He is our far neighbour, im tierd of controling her, cause i dont want to decide whom she can See and whom not. For some reason i feel to forbid her seeing him,maybe im wrong.Please i need advice
You already heard when a guy ask for money, ruuuun 🏃, that's a red flag...,but I understand your sister though it's up to her,,She can learn more from these shows before the relationship goes further,,And keep in touch with God,,bless you...
O. M. G be carefull of this Nija or Ghananian men... Their tongue is light wit sweets words to us ladies.. We have alot of Those men here in Europe and they really really knows how to capture ladies attention then later ladies ends up regretting😠
Ladies like every man when he meet you and want to win your heart always he will cheat you he is not married be careful with todays relationship try to know more about his family
So the guy left his kid and runs away, what kind of a person shame on the guy, not many women would give him that kind of support , he should’ve been upfront with her so she know all about him
This is kinda an unspoken truth,,,when you have kids and a man comes into the picture,he expects you to take care of them yourself and women are hoping he will assume a fatherly role,,even that of providing.It is the reason most single mothers just choose to stay single .Afadhali hivyo kuliko kubebesha mtu msalaba hataki.Very few men will love you and your kids as well as you would want.
Those were not real families. They work together and share the root after they con a woman. They are part of the game. Please google Nigerian con men to learn the tactics they use. Its sad that she still thinks she was dealing with his real family meaning she doesn't understand that man was 100% con man.
Ladies I give you one word if family members shows u love QUICKLY without them associating with you in person there must be something fishy take this to your hearts ..... real love is from hearts after personal interaction .
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Lady those people are steeling in the group
Dada Tunza watoto wako na hao wana haraka kuishi na wakutabulia wewe. Waache. Tena tumia chako polepole pesa zimekwisha lakini uwezo wako badu na umtosha.
Na hakika utaeda bali.Mungu ni mwema kila wakati kwa kila mtu.
BE STRONG. ITS GOING TO BE PERFECT MANY WOMEN HAVE COME OUT BETTER WITHOUT THIS KIND OF A SUCKER NOW THAT YOU KNOW SUCKERS FLAGS.
HOLD NO HARD FEELINGS. HOLD ONTO FAITH IN GOD.
She looks like a very good person. May God heal and grow her a new.
Fake promises just to use what she had,God will never fail such a strong woman, hugs 🤗
No those were not his family calling from the other side. It was all drama. Nigerians movie. Pole sana
Yes..they pay friend's..to talk to u
I love this lady's maturity, matters emotions are really tough.....
When a man begins to ask for money ruuuuuuuuuuuuuùuuun really fast. Be vigilant ladies & love yourself so that no one will lure you with empty words.
Oh my bf indirectly asks me mny
But good behaving please more advice
My friend went through almost the same, her ex is a Nigerian, they didn't have a child together but was infected with HIV, scammed lots of money and left with huge debts
It saddening
Most Nigerians worship money.. they will only love you when they use you financially or they need you for Visa. be very afraid of them.
Sorry
@@lubatikoseme6613 don't scare me gal my boss's daughter has a Nigerian husband and his Visa came out today and you are talking about same situation am just wondering
Very sad
Enyewe never ignore red flags in relationships.
True
Waah.. his whole "family" conned you.. that's crazy..
Cone men and women recruited to pretend to be family
Strong queen.God bless you
I have learn't from this prgrm may God continue to bless you
Never give your property in terms of this dude's this stories are becoming common be careful...ladies
But my question to you ladies,why must you date these foreigners?do you think there are no good men in Kenya,try home girl
Michael Ongina love is not based on what country you come from
@@luciag3028 hehee, I agree.but when it comes to marriage relationship think deep because of many reasons.
@@michaelongina7138 love has no boundaries.Good women love and are used.
Even Kenyan men fail in r/ships anyway
The whole family was in on it 😨 So wicked
Strong woman for u there!
That man must be from West Africa
Is it Elikem from Ghana? lol He said the women are brought to him by God so that they can help him and that’s why he keeps taking their money 🤣😩
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂😂
They use Gods name in vain
Nigerian, Ghanian, South African... Be very careful!
Very true
Thank God you God most precious thing in live.children.he went empty.
My guess it is Nija boy. Kenyan women and Naijas. Pole sana
She is really strong OMG
Nigerian men....please ladies...this con..our ladies...
They are really dangerous
Ghanaian
So sorry about that dear
Hahaha I know that man.Ghanaians they've sweet words
😂😂
I don’t F*** with West Africans..... mmmh mmmh noooo never
In this life I don't trust men
@s f haha sio zagu nivire hakuna wakuna waku trust
@s f hehe
@@ruthchege2268 I also don't trust women
@@kenngigi2470 haha
True wanaume sio watu wa kutrust
Ooh my God, sorry my sister don't loose hope coz God is sending to you your rib soon.
Love is blind so sorry dear
Let this happen if more to teach Kenyan ladies that Nigeria is a country no where love men were found.kiherehere najua madem mtaaacha. Kwaza gulf
You lack wisdom
Ghana
CEO with no idear that some one is fake???so sorry about that dear
A Nigerian will con you everything.
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
That’s true.
Ghanaian
Those are not sister or that is not a family it is all con family they set up.....I had the same strong from a person...that guy is common con in kenya
Am dieing OMG
hivi ndivyo wanaume wanafeel after dem kukula pesa na kuenda😂😂
#sad
Unfortunately, that has been normalized.
Kuna mwingine amerogwa kwa kukula fare
Wish wangeleta story za maana ...sio hii daily bread
That one was a Nigerian man, I can bet my arm on it! Plus they hire people to act as their family so they can cover up their tracks and keep their lie going as they defraud you of your money. Hehehe... Naija, naija 😂
He is from Ghana. Now you're wrong. Should we now cut off your arms? 😁. Be careful what you say. Anyways, may I remind you that Jesus Christ loves you very much and deeply cares about you and you need Him
West Africans ohhh !!! Eish ... even the family will come together to con you . Be careful ladies.
Christine Ochuchi
It’s shocking that she gave this guy cash mpaka air ticket....who does that???
Huyu aliwekwa uteoni
What
As women, we find ourselves in these wrong relationships because we have been conditioned to think we are not enough until we are married with children. Doesn’t matter how educated we are or how much money we earn if we don’t have a husband and children society looks down on us and the pressure from family and society is unbelievable. Nobody has it all figured out and until the day we as women will want a man purely for love and pleasure and not for status or money is when things will start turning around for us. This pressure is especially more for single women with children. We are enough just as we are. For guest : All the very best in your future and I’m glad you picked yourself up after your all you’ve been through. Thank you for speaking up, we are constantly learning and bettering ourselves from others experiences. Watching from Dublin
Halleluya! Women don't know who they are and the power they wield, I hope their eyes open soon.
Say it again
🔊🔊🔊🔊🔊🔊🔊🔊🔊💯💯💯👏👏👏🤝🤝🤝🤝
Never allow a man ask money from you, that should worry you
Must b a west African.....ladies ur intusion is ur protector and once u see the red flags pls run
I had seen her story somewhere and surely enough she is one amazing woman may God keep you safe
At ebru tv i guess
@@crochetwithcharity sure it was at ebru
At KBC.
You must have dated a Nigerian dude.
Raphael gitonga I know a Kenyan who spend millions on a boyfriend and they later separated when he started earning well.
My assumption as well.
Walai walai
Why did u conclude on nigerian?
Are all of them conmen?
So annoying
How can you continue with a relationship of which you know well it's going nowhere , those red flags are enough to show you that this person isn't right for you😋😋😋
I know a young woman from my town who sold her thriving business, house and gave a Nigerian man after spending her savings on him. She parked ready to go join him ( he left earlier) only for the guy to disappear never to be heard of. Luckily she has started her business (she's super talented in her area) again and is doing well.
She’s pretty and well composed!
Sophie Aden
When my parents don’t like my partner...... am done coz my mum is always right
Tanu Mzalendo, more so with a foreigner who you can’t or will not meet the parents
J
I smell a Nigerian somewhere
😂😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂
Walai walai or Ghanaian
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣i came to laugh today
😂😂😂
Everything happen for a reason dear just raise your children and they will make you happy later，WE CAN'T CHANGE THE PAST BUT FUTURE WE CAN be blessed mother of two handsome boy. 😘😘😘
Good people suffer in love.
You must be a good woman.
Angela I just am in awe of you. Your honesty your vulnerability your humility through all the pain loss and subsequent judgement. Marriage and relationships are hard. Regardless of where the person is from. Don't blame yourself ever. You were in love and that condition biases ones viewpoint. Your mother isn't right all the time. Trust your judgement. Just give relationships more time and learn from past mistakes. Failure is part of life in relationships business and in choices we make. I would love to meet you. God bless you with a great husband one day. Don't give up on love even from Ghana. It's not the country but the individual. Baraka.
From Ghana again. Noooo
Joyce will make for a wonderful mother when that time comes.
I'm in love with how composed and mature you are. I love the fact that you did dust yourself and accepted you made a mistake too and that life must move on. I just love you. May God see you through and all your heart desires.
He deceived you😥😭😔Hugs mami ❤️💕
This sound like a story I know.
I don’t know who will tel Kenyan people that love is not based on money.
How was this story based on money
And you say kikuyu ladies love money, she will never spend money on a man, they go for monied ones.😁😁😁
She is Kamba not kikuyu
That must be a Nigerian..😐
Ghanian
They don't get it like ever,all that comes easily is very dangerous i presume
Wachaneni manaijo woie pliz..infact mapopo wote wawesti niqagwan
Thank God you recovered
They were con family,I guess West Africa
Tht personal development I think I need it
Was that really his family or he just paraded strangers to lie for him?
She is a beautiful and a decent woman. Sijui wanaume wanataka nini
I fear God for how far he has brought me..now I know why some ladies are in for murder. My guy of 12 yrs on and off kind of relashionship, at 50, come back after 9 yrs I left him beccouse a woman called to inform me that they are together.Was heart broken and moved on with life. In this 9yrs he cared by sending me something little whenever I was down and communicated as friends. So I felt I should accept him becouse he has been asking me to be his wife.. That he has realised his mistakes.. I forgot and ignored that I was once heart broken and gave in just to be crashed once more..What hurts me most is that, I was minding my biz why did he come with marriage issues if he knew its a lie? ..
hugs mummy you are so brave.
Mothers instings very strong.Your parents saw this caming.Eeeeeeh tkt u sold your car??So with the kid u gave him what changed ??
Ooooh my God I went through the same problem but God is love
Pole sana
💲
A family can always be full of narcissists from parents -children
Fruitful discussion
Wastage of time supporting a man whom you never know his family
I have leant a lot here
Hey wonderfull african Community ❤️🌹, im in Europe and my Sisters youngest daughter is Dating an Nigerian on/Off, she is Young and beautiful, He is really Not but for some reason she is so attracted to him, but suddenly He asked for Money, even though He Always tells her "they are Just Friends" .She did Not gave him Money!! Nothing at all , cause she lives with me and i told her, If she gives him Money, she needs to live on her own (which, ofcourse ,to Kick her Out, i would NEVER do!!! NEVER) I Said this to make her feel that every Person needs to Take responsibility for their own Actions. She has sooooooo much Love pain and i'm so worried to See her selfestem shrink daily. Is there a Chance that He is a good a Guy? Should i let her meet him again? He is our far neighbour, im tierd of controling her, cause i dont want to decide whom she can See and whom not. For some reason i feel to forbid her seeing him,maybe im wrong.Please i need advice
You already heard when a guy ask for money, ruuuun 🏃, that's a red flag...,but I understand your sister though it's up to her,,She can learn more from these shows before the relationship goes further,,And keep in touch with God,,bless you...
So you Married him!
before she goes further into the interview,,im suspecting this guy is a nigerian
Ghanaian
Sufficient Grace. 🙏 🙏 🙏
Ya, ya, ya, ya, ya, ya
God bless u my sister
O. M. G be carefull of this Nija or Ghananian men... Their tongue is light wit sweets words to us ladies.. We have alot of Those men here in Europe and they really really knows how to capture ladies attention then later ladies ends up regretting😠
Exactly what's happening to me right now. N its very difficult. I hope I can be as strong as you
You will. Just speak to yourself as she did.
Be strong
Me to
Women !!! Do you homework and research on any man who comes to seek your hand in marriage.... No matter where he comes from.
Ladies like every man when he meet you and want to win your heart always he will cheat you he is not married be careful with todays relationship try to know more about his family
Just don't give men money
So the guy left his kid and runs away, what kind of a person shame on the guy, not many women would give him that kind of support , he should’ve been upfront with her so she know all about him
Nigerians for you! Those weren’t his parents; they were fellow 411!
Exactly
Becarfull women
The man must be a Ugandan
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Your reasons 😂😂😂😂🤣🤣
😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂
Two kids from previous experimenting,what do you expect for real?!!some luggages are heavy for men to bare we are human too....
gosh do u really have to say all that, if shes is not ur cup of tea then rock on , she will get a man who will love her ad all her kids.,
This is kinda an unspoken truth,,,when you have kids and a man comes into the picture,he expects you to take care of them yourself and women are hoping he will assume a fatherly role,,even that of providing.It is the reason most single mothers just choose to stay single .Afadhali hivyo kuliko kubebesha mtu msalaba hataki.Very few men will love you and your kids as well as you would want.
People can be stupid fools the 2nd pregnancy she said it was his...
hellen keesha
Very true..... it’s not easy to get a partner who will take her plus her kids
Her mistakes are no different just because she is a woman. But then again, as Centy Kaia says, she is not your cup of tea.
It was juju...
Laban Waboyo
No, ni ujinga mwingi tu😰
Hii nayo ni ujinga mingi aki😒soo sad...
Those were not real families. They work together and share the root after they con a woman. They are part of the game. Please google Nigerian con men
to learn the tactics they use. Its sad that she still thinks she was dealing with his real family meaning she doesn't understand that man was 100% con man.
Ghanaian
Ladies I give you one word if family members shows u love QUICKLY without them associating with you in person there must be something fishy take this to your hearts ..... real love is from hearts after personal interaction .
Abosulety true if he's family members call you alot something is wrong with him
This men though, sasa tutawaamini aje
Agnes Nabalayo
I’d trust a Kenyan brother than a foreigner
wasichana wetu would prefer a foreigner to a native.They say est africans are romantic,now see!
The answer is simple. You trust NOBODY!!
Act in love and pretend you believe everything but always use your head instead of heart