Breakups... | Tea Time w/ Raven-Symoné & Miranda

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  • @DeQuayvious
    @DeQuayvious 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

    As a Leo, I prefer directness and I give directness. Ghosting just doesn’t work for me. I will tell someone that we shouldn’t continue in each other’s life, if that’s where our relationship has come to. I know people can be uncomfortable with confrontation & being just direct, but sometimes it’s needed.

    • @twilderlm2559
      @twilderlm2559 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Have u ever did this, but the mind won't let the person go??

  • @officialbrandoncoleman
    @officialbrandoncoleman 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

    Always remember this: you can be always cool with people,but people was never cool with you!! And we start to understand that when we get older!

  • @MaddiGirl16
    @MaddiGirl16 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    I feel like this is a topic I could talk all day about! I have definitely found that in many friendships I am not the prioritized friend, even if I feel/believe I am close to that person. And then, it is difficult to decipher if that person is being a neglectful friend or if they simply don't know how to be a friend to others...I know that sounds weird but some people genuinely don't know how to be considerate, inclusive, compassionate, etc. More often than not, these ultimately tend to be friendships I force myself to let fizzle out because if I continue pursuing the friendship, I know I'd end up hurt at some point. Convos like this make me wish I were in the room to ask for advice! Maybe you guys could do polls or create a space for question submissions?? Kinda like a Q&A but more so for offering input and advice to people's problems.

  • @miguelmaglantay1698
    @miguelmaglantay1698 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    This couldn't have come at a better time. Im going through a romantic break up right now with my ex and we've been together for 3 years. One of the things I'm doing to feel okay, is binge watching That's so Raven on disneyplus. And now this! You might not know how many lives you are affecting, but thank you Raven!

  • @Thatcoolmombre
    @Thatcoolmombre 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    I think friendship breakups suck but if my best friend did not show up to my wedding with no text or explanation that would hurt so bad I wouldn’t want to talk to you either but lesson learned all you can do is move on and be a great person

    • @mlw9195
      @mlw9195 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Exactly! Like I get raven is trying to support her wife but what she did wasn’t right

    • @notyouraveragebear9326
      @notyouraveragebear9326 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@mlw9195I agree if they were good to best friends. If they were only talk every once in a blue moon friends then whatever.

  • @kaiya7954
    @kaiya7954 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    LONGER VID PLS I BEG

  • @HassanRaashid
    @HassanRaashid หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Friendship breakups are really hard, I feel like even the ones where you grow apart hurt just as more or sometimes even more than those that ended because of an argument

  • @bougie-nel362
    @bougie-nel362 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I understand Raven's POV and Biggie's. It sucks losing a friend especially in that manner and I would over analyze and seek the reason why all together and be a bit sad. But Biggie has to understand her friend needed her and that moment of her missing the wedding was probably her first and last straw. I hope they speak one day 💙

  • @sidnistandard
    @sidnistandard 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    You guys are both so awesome and I love how intentional, caring, and compassionate all these chats are!!!

  • @kaiya7954
    @kaiya7954 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    MY FAVSSS, thanks for a great start to my morning! ❤

  • @9trf690
    @9trf690 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love these videos guys! They always put me in a good mood and uplift my spirit❤

  • @niwmi3274
    @niwmi3274 หลายเดือนก่อน

    OMG! Listening to this has brought up sooooo many memories and feelings of past/current friendships (ones that were stronger at some point vs nowadays!) Ooooh, girls, I'm glued to this little segment! The strong friendships I've had before moving, over 10 yrs ago, tears that I've cried, the begging that I did... where was THIS then?!?! Another amazing episode!

  • @amandarodriguez5070
    @amandarodriguez5070 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I’m glad you guys talked about this topic, I don’t think it’s really brought up as much. I had my own friendship break ups. Some I was okay with others really hurt me. I am the type of person depending on the situation I’d either try to find closure or just leave because sometimes talking about how that person is no good for me it’s better to be left unsaid.

  • @noe11eism
    @noe11eism หลายเดือนก่อน

    Love this channel! Making me want to start my own podcast with my dad! ❤❤❤❤❤ sharing wisdom!

  • @TheMulattaMermaidShow
    @TheMulattaMermaidShow หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Im so happy you’re on youtube raven 🌸

  • @user-zq8yf1iw4b
    @user-zq8yf1iw4b 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Raven is so smart and learned.. I have a hard time letting go when someone no longer wants to communicate with me or being.in my life.. I'm a Cancer 😮.. this gave me peace to move forward, albeit without them

  • @kathaleenjakubiec7483
    @kathaleenjakubiec7483 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I just stumbled upon your guy's podcast yesterday..i didnt even know it existed!!!! 😵 i am sooo excited for this channel! 💓💓 ive already watched a few. Eventually i will be caught up cause im watching them ALL.
    🥰🥰

  • @HassanRaashid
    @HassanRaashid หลายเดือนก่อน

    Love these clips! But I want them to be longer 😩

  • @rebeccasalinas7090
    @rebeccasalinas7090 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Love y’all this is the best podcast 💖:))

  • @mlw9195
    @mlw9195 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    5:18 like I get that raven is trying to be supportive of her wife but her wife was definitely at fault 100%. If you look at it from the friends POV Miranda threw away 20+ yr friendship for a trophy essentially. And Miranda didn’t even tell her she wasn’t going😅. ‘Things’ don’t matter in life, what matters are the people in your life who love and care and consider you

    • @notyouraveragebear9326
      @notyouraveragebear9326 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I agree but looking at it from both sides, it seems like the friend wasn’t really a close friend either. Especially if Biggie feels the friendship started as her being treated as not worthy or however she put it. But yea, saying “Yes” on the invite with no notice atleast by the day after the wedding is crazy

    • @yogaqueen1527
      @yogaqueen1527 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Exactly and Raven said twice, you got an emmy. Who fucking cares about an emmy. Priorities all backwards. An emmy is more important than your friendship? Celebrities are so disconnected to the real world. They live in their own self centered bubble

    • @mlw9195
      @mlw9195 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@yogaqueen1527 yes literally. It’s giving Jarrod Carmichael, in case you don’t know he was invited to his besties wedding and showed up LATE (he wanted to eat a hot dog) in the wrong tux. Total lack of consideration

  • @sheilagiles3333
    @sheilagiles3333 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I continue to enjoy your podcast. Gimme, Gimme, Gimme, more, more!!🧡🧡🧡🧡🧡🧡🧡🧡🎈

  • @MacP2990
    @MacP2990 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Love you ladies so very much ❤❤

  • @sorafanchick
    @sorafanchick 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I definitely grew apart from a lot of my friends, mainly because my friends were known through people who had tried to harm me in the past. So sometimes you grow apart because you no longer trust the people around you. A lot of my distancing came from dealing with severe depression and not wanting to burden other people. If a friend were to come down on me for it, it would hurt especially considering the emotional battles I have to deal with. But I also think not everybody is a good friend for you, and we are not always a good friend for them.

  • @Yayme222
    @Yayme222 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I love Ravens wife and Raven of course f the haters!! Stay strong and happy in your relationship much blessings!❤️

  • @vivianm.varela2602
    @vivianm.varela2602 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Funny funny! Love these talks

  • @awesomeadamfrom2099
    @awesomeadamfrom2099 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Awesome podcast ladies drop like for you and never drink your tea like a boss.

  • @ClaireHomestead-pg5tc
    @ClaireHomestead-pg5tc 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Anyone else think Raven might be talking about Anneliese from 5:30-6:30? I hope they have been able to remain friends.

    • @notyouraveragebear9326
      @notyouraveragebear9326 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      God I hope not! I mean I get it, tv show besties don’t always stay friends BUT these two clearly had a relationship past 2007 when the show ended and from clips we seen, they stayed close. But neither of them have been on each others podcast in the past 2 years. That worries me. Although they both were dancing together at a cowboy party recently so I hope that wasn’t for the cameras.

    • @krr6802
      @krr6802 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@notyouraveragebear9326Raven has already said that she and Anneliese never lost contact after the end of TSR and they used to always appear together and friendly on social media, then suddenly Anneliese leaves Raven's Home and says that she and Raven were never that close and Raven was her boss. It's all very strange. Some people on tik tok attribute this break in friendship to Raven's marriage to Miranda. I prefer to believe that this is not the case. Raven and Anneliese have unique chemistry. Only time will tell what happened.

    • @ClaireHomestead-pg5tc
      @ClaireHomestead-pg5tc 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      They were def super tight 2003-2015 but something seemed to go haywire during Raven’s Home. I get impression they took show in dif direction and AVP was upset. I’m sure it was tough for both but it is possible to move forward. They have been friends too long. It sounds like Raven pulls away from people if she’s hurt so she has to be willing to open up. It would be the most fun podcast if they could reunite. AVP has a more natural fun vibe with Raven than she does with Christy.

  • @Jennifferxox
    @Jennifferxox หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is good !

  • @officialbrandoncoleman
    @officialbrandoncoleman 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I hate not getting closer, I definitely want to hear what happened!!! So the next time I can try to fix it or I can know next time when I ever become somebody else's friend!!! I definitely need that validation, I hate not knowing!!!!! 😅😅 #libra

  • @AfterDarkParanormal
    @AfterDarkParanormal หลายเดือนก่อน

    I had a friend SINCE BIRTH. I called her crying when a friend died and asked why she didn't call me. She said, "whose this?" That ended my friendship with her that day because she was so cold. Some friends are for a season, and some are for a lifetime. If you can count those people on one hand, you're lucky. I can count three on mine. I feel blessed for that.✌️❤️

  • @justsaying8358
    @justsaying8358 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Oval are my favorite nail shape, but now I'm rocking a squarval. Guys you really need longer videos 😢

  • @brianalopez2245
    @brianalopez2245 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Yeah I could hear/watch you guys all day long lol

  • @brianalopez2245
    @brianalopez2245 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I LOVE YOU GUYS

  • @EdwardSanchezProductions
    @EdwardSanchezProductions 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Raven you are the best

  • @verosan78443
    @verosan78443 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Love you guys! ❤ But yeeaaaaa, that experience wasn't great at all. I know I would have been upset if it was my wedding and someone who said would go doesn't go. I'll feel disrespected, especially if I don't get notified or an apologetic message that day. But then again, I find it strange that your ex friend did not call u or messaged u that day asking where you were and if you're ok. I know I would have contacted them that day cuz I would have been concerned as a friend, hoping nothing had happened to them.

    • @notyouraveragebear9326
      @notyouraveragebear9326 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      You would have called your ditching friend on the day of your wedding?? I would have waited til the next day personally. All my energy the day of will be on who showed up for me.

    • @yogaqueen1527
      @yogaqueen1527 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Why would the friend call her on the wedding day? That day is to enjoy friends and family that SHOWED not stress on her wedding day wondering why her good friend was a no show. Miranda's friends sister called her out. Good on her. The friend was way too hurt to talk to her

    • @verosan78443
      @verosan78443 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Everyone is different. I would be one to call or at least text. Or ask someone to call for me. That's me, though. Knowing me, I would text them and be like, "So you not coming??? Ohh ok. Gotchu. " and block them lmaooooo

  • @monicabasantes6178
    @monicabasantes6178 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wow first time watching ❤❤❤

  • @lenelove89
    @lenelove89 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I use to be the person that needed closer and understand why? Yea that will drive you wild but being able let go is so important! If you need to own up to what you did do that but we grown we gotta move on!

  • @nakburt40
    @nakburt40 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks for sharing

  • @wsfnbystephanielynnc
    @wsfnbystephanielynnc 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hey ladies!🥰😋You make my day! I bet each and every person that left that stuff REALLY needed it!😦 I pray🙏🏾the drivers got the stuff back to them👀💪🏾. Miranda, I can only share this with you: (Ecclesiastes 3:1-To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven:) Let your heart be assured that you've done nothing wrong and it will be okay. You were where you were supposed to be and that's that.🤗🤗🤗 I love you ladies!❤💯👍🏾

  • @EdwardSanchezProductions
    @EdwardSanchezProductions 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I love this podcast so much

  • @monadejaneiro
    @monadejaneiro 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Raven I think you weren’t invited to your elementary school friend wedding because you are Raven Symone. She probably didn’t want the focus being on you when it was suppose to be her big day and she wanted to shine. That’s my opinion because who the heck would leave you off the invite list? It doesn’t make sense to me 🤷🏽‍♀️

  • @shinyduptown
    @shinyduptown 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I never had a friendship breakup; I haven't seen them in years. Although my ex-girlfriend and I broke up 10 years ago.

  • @KarolsCorner
    @KarolsCorner หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love Miranda so much 😭

  • @betsythomas4200
    @betsythomas4200 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love an almond nail or a classic square

  • @ciaracooley9647
    @ciaracooley9647 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I could really relate to Miranda's story! I was drawn to a friend of mine and when we had a solid friendship I was very thankful for it and she ghosted me and we haven't spoken in 2+ years. I am still curious what happened. I really don't know what I did

    • @yogaqueen1527
      @yogaqueen1527 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      The difference is Miranda knows exactly what she did

  • @Goose_Schmidt
    @Goose_Schmidt 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Fucking love u guys

  • @notyouraveragebear9326
    @notyouraveragebear9326 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I see both sides of this simply because of your experience with weddings or lack thereof. You weren’t aware of how socially and personally horrible it is to say “YES” to an RSVP but then not show up/no notice or nothing. I think I would be pissed and petty enough to have my sibling do my dirty work if you were IN THE WEDDING party like my groomsman or best man. But if you’re just a friend(not a close but still good friends) and just didn’t show up, I would have hit you up AFTER my honeymoon myself and had one conversation with you. From that point, I would decide what our relationship would be.

  • @sharnislife9537
    @sharnislife9537 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Miranda's words resonate deeply with me; navigating through challenges, especially in relationships, can be tough. It's all about finding ways to cope and eventually move forward. It's a reminder that friendships, once thought to be everlasting, can change over time.Although you lost someone you loved dearly you are loved by so many, we love you Miranda 🩷🫶

  • @yogaqueen1527
    @yogaqueen1527 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Miranda's friend sister is correct. Weddings are expensive and they do have a head count. The food is not cheap or preparation. You should have let her know in advance you weren't going to show. You knew ahead of time when the parade was and you knew ahead of time the wedding. Since both are planned far in advance..You just don't not show up. Not cool at all. Her sister was correct. Some people have limits to how many people they want at the wedding, so if you knew you werent going, yes someone else could have taken those spots. I wouldnt speak to you for awhile after that, if i were your friend. Good on her sister for calling you out, since your friend was most likely too hurt to do so. No justifying that, since Raven tried to do that. A parade was more important than your friend's wedding, so what if you won an emmy ...big deal. This is the disconnect from normal people vs celebrities or people with money. They’re so used to their small hollywood bubble that they don't comprehend or understand when they're wrong. They think the world revolves around them and it made me sick how you guys tried to justify your actions. You were wrong. PERIOD.....then miranda mention once feeling like the sideline friend....trying to make an excuse. Unbelievable. And raven could careless about the loss. Her mind is, well on to the next. When clearly miranda feels some way about it. The way raven closed that conversation told me all i needed to know....well you have me and we have this great artificial life. I think miranda feels that way too. I lost a good friend, but I'm married to raven. Unbelievable.

  • @talieshabraswell7404
    @talieshabraswell7404 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I have natural full grow nails

  • @Guuwopp32493
    @Guuwopp32493 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I want to hear later of this friend now reaches out post this video

  • @AyanaArrington
    @AyanaArrington หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love these little weekly shows

  • @fynlangreen8442
    @fynlangreen8442 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Garlic butter 😂😂

  • @mochagelatocreme23
    @mochagelatocreme23 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Rounded.

  • @dominiquediamond
    @dominiquediamond 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    When I get my nails done it makes me feel like a bad b**** 😂 I love square and stilettos shape and long but as I’m getting older I like them shorter

  • @faithjenkins2299
    @faithjenkins2299 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Someone left an iPhone in my car once someone almost left there license but I handed it to them before they got inside their house

  • @sharshar29
    @sharshar29 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I’m kinda on the friend side . That’s a big big day ! A text or a call to her when you got the news about hosting would have avoided how y’all friendship is now and hopefully she would have understand . But also the friend should have called you instead of the sister. I don’t like how she put her sister in the middle of it . Maybe you could call her to dust off your hands and clear the air and kind of get that weight off your shoulders . She probably wants you to be the one to reach out first but at least you can make your peace and move on if that’s what you want to do . Hopefully y’all can come together and talk about both accomplishments and try to celebrate together even though it’s been years 😂

    • @yogaqueen1527
      @yogaqueen1527 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It's called the sister sticking up for her hurt sister. I'm sure Miranda's friend is far too hurt and her sister went into protective mode and called Miranda out. Good for her

  • @shinyduptown
    @shinyduptown 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Me either

  • @di-shawniesmall6036
    @di-shawniesmall6036 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Square because I have big nail beds.

  • @vizionara
    @vizionara หลายเดือนก่อน

    Ok All of a sudden I get Raven and her wife(?) on TikTok. WHAT IS HAPPENING. I don’t know Raven had a podcast, but Miranda seems nice

    • @vizionara
      @vizionara หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      People can be so mean. Ignore the trolls.

    • @yogaqueen1527
      @yogaqueen1527 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@vizionara people speaking the truth are trolls lol get your 💋 off their ass.

  • @11dollarlettuce
    @11dollarlettuce 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Almond style nails for me! They look great on anyone too!

  • @Goose_Schmidt
    @Goose_Schmidt 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I thought we was Best friends but they stop talking to me without explanations. What hurts is that I see them online 😕. Another friend we was best friends since high school as time goes on stop talking me what hurts is that it was their birthday and they didn't even ask me to come I saw the pictures online and it fucking hurts

  • @shinyduptown
    @shinyduptown 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I like my nails solid and neat

  • @laurenreynolds6157
    @laurenreynolds6157 หลายเดือนก่อน

    West Hollywood 😂😂😂😂

  • @MarisolGarcia-cg9jh
    @MarisolGarcia-cg9jh 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    my mom does my finger nails

  • @roderickfields2139
    @roderickfields2139 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    If you have hot sauce in you're 👛 you the coolest parson ever to me

  • @user-dw3cn5rs1g
    @user-dw3cn5rs1g หลายเดือนก่อน

    It perhaps wasn't thoughtful you didn't reach out, but a 20 year friendhip means she was never your real friend. She should have sent uou a message not ner sister.

  • @shinyduptown
    @shinyduptown 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    😂

  • @bellabb8524
    @bellabb8524 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Lol these girls are so entitled. When I was listening to this I could not believe how much they justified this. They obviously don't care about peoples time or money over their own interests like winning a plastic statue. Sorry! but you are the ones who messed up. It's so disrespectful to be petty about it when yall are the ones who messed up the friendship: YOU took the risk to mess up the friendship knowingly giving no heads up to ditching her wedding. Having a friendship is about showing up, its not about thinking about how you will apologise in advance thats just ridiculously entitled. She has every right to ghost you, probably had done this many times before.

  • @chantialvasquez3153
    @chantialvasquez3153 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Almond- basic b 😅

  • @lydelljohnson8880
    @lydelljohnson8880 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    ...Miranda, that was not cool. I can understand the other person sense of abandonment from your actions. That was rude and never ok.Not friend like or adult like neither. I would have not reached out to you neither. Let this be on the other foot and we would have these same sentiments towards her. I disagree with you and Raven on this one. That behavior you are exhibiting was immature and childish and down right passive-aggressive and frankly you you were never friend with her and Idk if she was even friend with you. I am just going off of the information that you talk about Miranda. Ditch someone without closure in a situation like you describe that could have possibly happen is nothing less of privilege and is a major turn off in my eyes and I know others feel the same way. Yeah, you do not owe anybody anything ,but if you were real friend to her you would have been prompted of making that closure with her WAY before that gesture you made to exhibited. Could do it and would have let you knew WAY ahead of time. Smh . Does anybody know how to be a friend these days? SERIOUSLY!

  • @OfInterest0207
    @OfInterest0207 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    @ around 6 min mark, Raven just HR/Therapy-spoke non-professional relationships. Therapy-speaking everything is dismissive, avoidant, unaccountable and TACKY. People don't like it when it happens to them yet they have all the therapy-speak in the world for other people. If you're speaking with an honest ADULT, speaking allows for intentions to be shared and hurt feelings to be fixed. Raven is power-hungry and I bet if Miranda (or anyone she loved) walked out on her without a word, she'd want a word.

  • @loladarling5703
    @loladarling5703 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Give me short sq-oval nails all day! A clean french or white

  • @raerae7094
    @raerae7094 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Coffin

  • @kelseywillow8110
    @kelseywillow8110 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I don’t get how you now speak up about hate culture when you were so bold stalking, ridiculing Amber..a victim of abuse..literally contributed to hate culture. I guess when you are the target it’s no longer fun? Interesting how the universe works huh?!

  • @jessicak2911
    @jessicak2911 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    miranda, I think many girls have gone through something similar as you… losing a close friend because of a wedding fiasco. also, raven is hilariousssss🩵🩵🩵

  • @alyssatorres8973
    @alyssatorres8973 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I’m on stand by for y’all 🫡🫡🫡
    I’m sorry you had to see the nasty side of this friend. She legit let her sister do her “dirty work”!! You are better off Miranda. Plus your jean outfit was fire that weekend 🔥🔥🔥

    • @yogaqueen1527
      @yogaqueen1527 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Keep your 💋 off their ass. Miranda was wrong, PERIOD!

  • @littlemisspopular
    @littlemisspopular หลายเดือนก่อน

    Miranda! Omg I’m Dominique, hi. This same scenario happened to me with losing someone over a wedding. Mine is slightly different but I see you and I get it. 🫶🏽