Let’s make it clear, everyone’s relationship is different, it’s not a one size fit all. There are some men that are paying all the bills, paying for everything and are still treating their women with respect and love. Paying for everything doesn’t mean a woman doesn’t have a voice in their home. Every relationship is different and to each their own. Do what works best for you and only you.
Thank you! My husband is that man and he gives me all the respect and love, and I do too! Matter of fact, he speaks to me first before making decisions and hasn’t for once in our four years of marriage made me feel like I don’t have a voice.
Lolo Imo State I’m so happy for you, I pray God continue to bless your union. A testimony that it’s not a one size fit all, and there are actually men out there taking full care of their women and not treating them poorly as a result to such.
I’m a school TA Monday -Friday and Saturday and Sunday I’m a care taker ! Never be ashamed to side hustle !!!! Even if the job is not as pretty !!! Loved this video I took some notes and have made a strategy to save better . Thank you nissy and Ben xx
I am so glad to hear from you Nissy that you will move there when you'll be getting married. As a christian it is so important to promote that :) , Best of luck guys 😊😘. May God continue to bless you, mapamboli ebele bo zo tombola bendele !!!
Great video. Very insightful. One thing I will say is just because your man pays for everything or most things does not mean you as a women don't have a voice. Money does not equal power in a relationship.
I'm glad you opened up this conversation we need to see some more realistic videos hate the pressure of moving out aging. Because honestly it might be unattainable to do on my own Glad you gave figures. How much did you guys save around ish before moving out and getting an apartment? Because nissy didn't contribute to the 7.5k initial is she covering first few month rent?
Thank you both so much for your honesty. It means a lot to those of us that are looking forward to that next stage in life. It’s definitely a relief to see such transperacy in a millennial couple. I’m excited to see you live life.
Thank you for this 👏🏾people don’t know how hard it is bills alone £350 😫furniture wooyy 😞monthly not adding rent yet me and my partner moved in together and the struggle is still real with two heads we have the 60/40 rule for money strategy.
Such an informative video, the real real because alot of people are show casing fake lifestyles. Finance is such a vital conversion in marriage.strategy is key.
Love the interaction ,, good advice ! . my Wife and myself did and still do what you are talking about regarding finances and it works for us . Keeping it real .
You know what, if there's something I wish I was taught/told by someone when I was younger would be how renting works. I was 23 when I found out about guarantors and deposits 😶. I didnt even know that it's normal to live without worrying about rent at 23. Anyway we live and we learn.
This content was very insightful. Merci Ben et Nissy d'avoir parlé à cœur ouvert. We follow you since a long long time now, and your growth is beautiful 💜. Imma be a part of this party by fire by force lol. 100k is coming
Hi nissy and Ben I need you to make a video for some non Congolese man who what to get married with a Congolese woman , what it take to marry in Congolese culture how many steps are there and how much can I man save to make this happen 😌
Nice video with great points. Well done to both of you and I mean this in a constructive way but I don’t appreciate a lot of the criticism on ‘this generation’ and looking down on people eg saying some people are fake and dont live within their means and dont save and have bad views on equality. Who is this research based on? Your real friends or who? Even that statistic seemed unlikely. I find that a lot of people struggle to discuss topics without putting down others which is unfair. Just say what you want to say without comparing yourself to others or criticising the population. Hope you take this well as you are both lovely people.
13:33 I got some savings in the form of premium bonds, crypto and in the stock market. Two of which could be ZERO tomorrow. I think the bonds are my most secure pot.
Let’s make it clear, everyone’s relationship is different, it’s not a one size fit all. There are some men that are paying all the bills, paying for everything and are still treating their women with respect and love. Paying for everything doesn’t mean a woman doesn’t have a voice in their home. Every relationship is different and to each their own. Do what works best for you and only you.
well said ! me personally a full provider man shall have all my respect even if I work !
Thank you! My husband is that man and he gives me all the respect and love, and I do too! Matter of fact, he speaks to me first before making decisions and hasn’t for once in our four years of marriage made me feel like I don’t have a voice.
Lolo Imo State I’m so happy for you, I pray God continue to bless your union. A testimony that it’s not a one size fit all, and there are actually men out there taking full care of their women and not treating them poorly as a result to such.
It’s so sweet when you apologize when you interrupt Ben.
Phillipians 4:6
Don't worry about anything instead pray about everything, tell God what you need, and thank him for all he has done
I’m a school TA Monday -Friday and Saturday and Sunday I’m a care taker ! Never be ashamed to side hustle !!!! Even if the job is not as pretty !!! Loved this video I took some notes and have made a strategy to save better . Thank you nissy and Ben xx
I am so glad to hear from you Nissy that you will move there when you'll be getting married. As a christian it is so important to promote that :) , Best of luck guys 😊😘. May God continue to bless you, mapamboli ebele bo zo tombola bendele !!!
Ben:
*"We Need To Stop Acknowledging the Problems and start Acknowledging The Solutions WE have"*
*BOOM*
Great video. Very insightful. One thing I will say is just because your man pays for everything or most things does not mean you as a women don't have a voice. Money does not equal power in a relationship.
I really like Ben, Hes a keeper Nissy. Bless you both!
You both look so beautiful and healthy 🥰
Love Ben’s intro 😂👏🏾👏🏾
Nissy looking like a snack 😍
I loved the transparency in this video, money is such a touchy topic to speak about!
I'm glad you opened up this conversation we need to see some more realistic videos hate the pressure of moving out aging. Because honestly it might be unattainable to do on my own
Glad you gave figures. How much did you guys save around ish before moving out and getting an apartment?
Because nissy didn't contribute to the 7.5k initial is she covering first few month rent?
Thank you both so much for your honesty. It means a lot to those of us that are looking forward to that next stage in life. It’s definitely a relief to see such transperacy in a millennial couple. I’m excited to see you live life.
Ben needs to be a regular in this channel!! Loved the video
this is the bessssst conv!! our community need to have more conv like this!!
nissy how did your student overdraft affect you ?x
Thank you for this 👏🏾people don’t know how hard it is bills alone £350 😫furniture wooyy 😞monthly not adding rent yet me and my partner moved in together and the struggle is still real with two heads we have the 60/40 rule for money strategy.
This content is FANTASTIC! I've already worked out my strategy and implementing this asap!
You know , your fiance made me subscribe.
So sweet how he supports you ❤🙏🏾🙏🏾
Ben is absolutely Correct!! You are glowing sis!! 😍✨
YOU TWO ARE JUST SO BLOODY ADORABLE (also thank you for the top tier advice
I didn't realize I needed this because I'm still young, but you guys stated straight facts !
Such an informative video, the real real because alot of people are show casing fake lifestyles. Finance is such a vital conversion in marriage.strategy is key.
The way ben was humbling me
Love the interaction ,, good advice ! . my Wife and myself did and still do what you are talking about regarding finances and it works for us .
Keeping it real .
Loved this! God bless you both. Very insightful x
let's count the amount of times Nissy says 'you're so annoying' and do push ups of that number.
LOVE YALL! I would fly to the UK for that party sis. 100k on the way baby xoxo
You know what, if there's something I wish I was taught/told by someone when I was younger would be how renting works. I was 23 when I found out about guarantors and deposits 😶. I didnt even know that it's normal to live without worrying about rent at 23. Anyway we live and we learn.
So helpful! I’m getting married soon so thank you for all your pointers
they should've got a furnished place!!!!
Ben speaking truth and nissy u look beautiful. Thank you for speaking Knowledge
This was so encouraging and worth the watch 100% thanks guys!
This was so helpful 🙌🏾 I really enjoyed this and took many notes! Saving queen starts from now ❤️ God Bless xx
Found you from the Heathrow Airport ITV show
I really enjoyed this video, was honest and truthful which was so needed, so thank you 🥰
Great video - practical, realistic. God bless you both in this journey 🙏💕
Love this! There’s so much pressure to keep up. It will always be here unfortunately and with social media progressing it will only get worse
To confirm I have just subscribed thank you to you both, this video has been helpful and inspiring.
Not even 5 minutes in and you have me LAUGHING OUT LOUD🤣
This video is so key! Full of quality, really appreciate the honesty x
Loved this video! Thanks for being so real, you’re helping us! 🤝
Thanks for this financial education. Really useful.
Ooooo please more videos like theseeee 👏🏾
Loved the transparency in this video !
Knowledge✔️Inspiration ✔️ Transparency✔️
Nice one guys! Very real and informative 👍🏾
LOVE this content!! You guys are amazing together. xx
Absolutely love this video. So many helpful advices. I appreciate you guys 👏🏾❤️
Love this 💕
This content was very insightful. Merci Ben et Nissy d'avoir parlé à cœur ouvert. We follow you since a long long time now, and your growth is beautiful 💜. Imma be a part of this party by fire by force lol. 100k is coming
Great video! Defo needed to hear these gems 🙌🏿
Loving this kind of content 😍
Love this vid, such valuable info! The quality as well 😍 what camera did you use for this? XX
Loved this!❤️🥰🥰
This was absolutely needed! Love it!! 🤍
Hi nissy and Ben I need you to make a video for some non Congolese man who what to get married with a Congolese woman , what it take to marry in Congolese culture how many steps are there and how much can I man save to make this happen 😌
This video is really everything I needed to hear !
Really enjoyed this, thanks guys💕
Great video !!! The story about the guy who owes Ben money was too funny
So nice to have someone with the same name as I do😭
yasss to putting energy into solutions!!!!! xx
I’ve never heard ‘you’re so annoying’ said in such a loving way lool 😆😂
Such a good video, thank you Guys!
Nice video with great points. Well done to both of you and I mean this in a constructive way but I don’t appreciate a lot of the criticism on ‘this generation’ and looking down on people eg saying some people are fake and dont live within their means and dont save and have bad views on equality. Who is this research based on? Your real friends or who? Even that statistic seemed unlikely. I find that a lot of people struggle to discuss topics without putting down others which is unfair. Just say what you want to say without comparing yourself to others or criticising the population. Hope you take this well as you are both lovely people.
Amazing video!
PLS DO MORE VIDEOS ABOUT FINANCE!
Loved this vid 💕
Ben with the teaaaa
I really enjoyed this talk. 👌🏾
Thank you for giving us the real real!!
13:33 I got some savings in the form of premium bonds, crypto and in the stock market. Two of which could be ZERO tomorrow. I think the bonds are my most secure pot.
💛 this is great.
Great video.
Yes #ListenToNissy
Theeeee favessss😍😍🔥
My favorite couple ❤️🔥🔥
Ben is hilarious 😂😂
I had to like this video within the first 20 seconds LOL
Road to 100k 🥳🥳
0.05 chayzeeeee🔥🔥
Vous deux là, You sound mature, why didn't you prefer to relocate to Congo?
Loved this video and shared it cause I want an invite 😂 #RoadTo100k
She’s beautiful 🔥🔥🔥
I love this so cute so modern so bossss
Beau couple
Tokooosss
Does Ben do housework?
I bet she does 70 % of that, and he does 30% 😊😊