I’ve been married to a chronic cheater. She knows or suspects. When she’s ready to deal with it she will. This friend should support her and not publicly humiliate her.
Not the radio, straight to the wife. I think it’s the best friends responsibility in most cases to tell the wife, but privately. I was cheated on for years and friends of mine knew and did not tell me. That ended up making me feel like a fool and I lost my ability to trust anyone, not just my husband.
I believe she should have told her friend in private and let her deal with it as she would. That being said, cheating is one of the most hurtful and degrading things you can put your partner through. Cheaters deserve to get caught.
I once had definite proof that my good friend’s husband was cheating on her (he went out with my brother and another woman) and when I told her she didn’t hesitate for one second… she looked me at me and said, “Can you help me pack?” probably a best case scenario but I still felt like a jerk. Most of the time people don’t wanna hear it… and there is definitely a kill the messenger mentality sometimes. You never know what’s gonna happen when a person has been cheated on…how they’re gonna react to the news and whether or not they’re going to stay. It also happened to me several years into my marriage…and I was hurt and always remembered it, but I forgave and put it behind me. We went on to have 3 children and were married nearly 43 years before he passed. People are complicated. 🤷♀️
She (the cheating friend) sounds like an overall terrible person. Husband as well. Who puts their dirty laundry on for all to see anyway? We are in an era of “media tramps” who want their 15 minutes. 1. Stay away from your friends spouse, 2. If you see a friends spouse cheating, tell them privately. The “friend” is a weirdo.
A few thoughts...First, as a rule, I never get involved in other people's private business. It's not my place--unless, let's say, somebody's life was in danger. As for the best friend of the wife, for a start, she definitely should not have done this on the radio, sounds like she may have just wanted some attention for herself. A better way to have gone about it, in my opinion, would have been for her to privately meet with the husband, tell him she'd seen him walking on the beach with another woman, and asked him if he was cheating on his wife. It might be tempting at that point to tell him you'd give him a week to tell his wife himself, and if he didn't you'd tell the wife yourself, but there are consequences--namely the children. If the husband and wife can work it out between them and stay married, the children will probably have a much better life, with a mother and a father who are together, than they are likely to if they become the latest statistic, meaning children of divorce. Hence my reluctance to get involved in other people's business.
I've been in a similar situation. My dad's now (deceased) ex-wife was clearly cheating on him. I made the mistake of telling my dad and got a swift backhand to the mouth and a "DON'T EVER TALK ABOUT MY WIFE LIKE THAT AGAIN!" from him, for my efforts. A couple of weeks later my stepbrother, her son, came up to me and told me he thinks his mom is cheating on my dad. I told him, that I know and dad doesn't want to hear it. So he should save his breath. Well, he confronted my dad about it, anyway. And I just watched as my dad simply whimpers "I know." and cries. Such is the difference between how he reacts to me, his real son, and my step brother. My step brother is in his will. I am not. I've never done any wrong to him, ever...yet I am the "bad one." Some people just can't handle honesty.
I would assume everyone has a messed up family, to some degree. Some worse than others. In the end, we choose what is important to us. Some choose material possessions. Some choose power/respect. Some choose relationships/family and some want it all. I simply wanted a normal life in a normal family. I didn't think that was much to ask, but after growing up I realized how abnormal the depictions of a "normal family" were. Where the father and mother loved each other and their children. Where the children could count on their siblings for guidance and aid when they need it. Where family gatherings were joyous times of celebration. How naive I was to see that as "normal." I wanted the best the world had to offer, but mistakenly thought it was a standard experience. The years change our perspective, if we pay attention.
Never publicly put your friend in that position. Woman up and either go to your friend. Or go to the husband and tell him he better tell by the end of the day or you will. Make him tell on himself. Make sure you have proof .
As a woman, I worry about my own relationships if im in one...If a friend looks at me for help I will do so...but will not step any boundaries..If you need my help I'm there for. That's how I feel
Seeing my friends face this issue, repeatedly it taught us that true friends would not say anything. Perhaps we may give a hint (I thought I saw you guys at the restaurant, how was the food?) but it is best to let them workout their own relationship. It also taught us that women are very intuitive and if we get the feeling something is wrong, we are often correct but we still have to allow the evidence to reveal itself and it often does. Then it is their decision how to reconcile with it. We as the friends, our job is to listen and be supportive and help our friend, by listening, to decide for themselves how to proceed. It is not our job to tell them what to do. Often times when "the girlfriend" starts reporting on a husband or man, they are often doing it for nefarious reasons.
She already told her friend, she should had left it at that. You are correct, it sounds like she has another reason why shy would expose him on the radio.
So many reasons I just don't deal with this sort of thing. I stay out of other peoples business and keep to my own. Also staying single since 2000 has been the best thing for me. No Stress.
Making such a sensitive issue public and on the radio will never turn out well..Couples need to learn truthful communication.Leave the rest of the world out of it .If you are unhappy to the point of seeking out new adventures divorce and get it over with.
I think it depends - if the person cheated on is faithful, kind etc. and the person cheating is a narcissistic serial cheater, sure, but of course sometimes there's a volatile, unhappy relationship and the person cheating finds somebody who treats him/her the way they deserve to be treated. Should ultimately still handle it discreetly, but I wouldn't lose sleep over a serial cheater being exposed.
Several years ago I saw one of my friends/coworkers husband with another woman, I confronted him in front of my friend about it, thankfully it wasn’t nothing to it she was a neighbor that needed a ride to town… We’ll be having our 47 anniversary in July, about five years ago I found out the hard way that there are some things worse than cheating… I don’t think I will ever trust him again, he lives in one end of the house and I live in the other end of the house…..
I agree with you on this issue and don't think it's right for anyone to expose anyone else private business particular when it concerns a wife and husband and the reason I feel that way is because 99 percent of the time some one may not believe at first but cheaters always get caught by the one's they're dating or married to 99 percent of the time eventually they do something that stupid and it gets them caught as a result of it. Things like that should be kept private and should only be dealt with by the one's it's affecting it's wrong for anyone else to stick their noses in someone else's private affairs much less air them public like that so not cool and it interferes with that person's relationship. For example I have known a friend of mine who has experienced several times in his previous relationship he had cheating where he was made to feel like he did something wrong or it was his fault she was cheating it use to make me so mad because I have to drum it into his head because like me he's a caretaker someone that wants to help out any one in trouble if he can alot of times I have found from my personal experience that people take advantage of that and she used to do that all the time with him and make him feel guilty like he did something wrong and he didn't that's what always made me mad because I have to pick up the emotional pieces and there drumming in his head it's not his fault now because I didn't interfere in those types of relationship he recently about less than a year ago broke off an engagement to someone he was seeing because he started seeing signs of questionable behavior and related it back to a previous relationship and decided for himself that he couldn't go through that again and he won't put himself through it again and I was so proud of him for recognize that on his own verse me interfering in his relationships. That's just for reference a good example it should only be between the individuals no one has the right to interfere and by the way Adrian merry Christmas and a happy new year to you and your family love you bye for now.
I wouldn't turn a blind eye if I were the wife's friend, but what I did would depend a lot on what the wife is like. I might talk to the cheating husband first and see what his attitude is, maybe give him one chance to be honest with his wife. If he doesn't tell her, then I guess I'd have to, but I wouldn't do it in a public way, not out of compassion for the cheater (or the person he's cheating with) but in hopes of not causing the wife public drama. Revealing it to the public was wrong and strange, especially as the first action.
Clearly the Best Friend's objective was to break up the marriage and not to help her friend. She is either a troll and doesn't hang out with her "Friend" to be a friend but to hurt and victimize her friend by torpedoing her friend's relationships. That or she is infatuated with her friend and easily jealous of her friend's other relationships. The public exposure of cheating husband plus lying in the past about an affair of her friend's boyfriend narrows it down to those two scenarios for me.
I had a friend whose live-in boyfriend constantly cheated on her (and gave her an STD at one point). She would come crying to me but I knew she would ultimately go back to him. My job was not to intervene, but to provide a shoulder to cry on. I did suggest she dump the guy on more than one occasion but she had to finally make the decision herself. It's a tough line between advice and interference. Had he been beating her, that would have been another matter. You need to let the party take the lead and only step in if you think they are doing something dangerous. Cheating is something some women are wiling to tolerate, which makes it none of a friend's business.
I practice Ho Oponopono. It is a manta that brings about what some people would call miracles. I practice this mantra and it has brought some very good things it's like praying. I was charged when I took the course watch something at your life you are now responsible. So this best friend was responsible to pray for her friend but not physically get involved. Great things happen when we pray when we meditate when we practice some sort of spiritual energy that is of love. If she was working in love nobody would be hurt and it would evolve in a way that was best. If the actual wife was not ready to receive this information the best friend needed to leave it alone and simply step away. She was responsible to pray or meditate or practice Ho Oponopono and that is all
This sort of intrusive - reality craze is everywhere, pranks/ set ups/ cheater dramas/ scambaiters and SOME of it's actually very positive, the scambaiters waste scammers time and theoretically prevent them from scamming anyone else at least for the time that they're being baited, and a lot of these setup videos are actually extremely positive,, the channel creators using the money from their channel to give people some sort of gift for various reasons... One creator has a couple assistants video him while he's outside a fast food place, and coming up to people, I'm really hungry, can you help me out,, and he includes several people who tell him to just basically go away, and then when the person comes along who will help him out, gives them $500 or whatever... In this way generosity is rewarded, and the videos are extremely touching to watch...
Hey old friend, I've been meaning to tell you there must be some setting turned on that has found fade in at the beginning of your videos lately. May want to adjust that.
Doing anything on public radio is probably never a good idea. As adults with children, these are private affairs that need to be handled by the affected parties. Adding other people, or an entertainment aspect, introduces other variables that can affect the outcome.
I HAD LONG SEGMENT AGAIN , THAT GOT BLOWN OUT, THIS IS THE 3RD TIME IT DID THAT, I GUESS I SAW THE TRUTH OF THIS SCENARIO TOO MUCH. WOW DID I HAVE A LOT TOO SAY, I CANT REMEMBER IT ALL. FRIENDS ARE FRIENDS , SOMETIMES FOR REAL AND OTHERS FAKE. BROADCASTING AND BLASTING AND TELLING YOUR FRIENDS EVERYTHING CAN AND WILL TURN ON YOU AND WE KNOW THE REST. FRIENDS .... HUH.
Real simple.... Don't cheat.... Don't be with someone who's OK with cheating..... Don't associate with other people you're NOT involved with who are OK with cheating.... If they're OK with them, or you, being unfaithful or disloyal, they'll eventually be unfaithful or disloyal to you. This sounds like some trailer park drama, and I don't know what's what because I don't know the folks involved, but I've seen enough of it that I have a guess.... Husband was having an affair with his wife's friend.... They have an argument and ends it for whatever reason.... Wife's friend gets upset, tells the wife husband is having an affair, and leaves out the part that she's the woman he's been having said affair with because she thinks she won't get caught since the relationship's "over"... Husband decides to try to patch things up with his wife's friend, and that's how they both get caught... Meanwhile, wife already had suspicions that her "friend" wasn't on the up and up because of past behavior, she should have listened to that feeling. Just have integrity and don't tolerate anything less from others, and you don't have these sorts of issues....
Your comment reminds of something Todd Chrissley said. He said "if someone is making you feel less than you want to feel then you got to stop the car and get out."
Hi Adrian... I'm not sure about the intentions of the "friend" but I'll tell you something. When I was married and we were going through stuff I was praying and doing everything to save my marriage and when I say everything I do mean everything but standing on my head. I was so naive and I never thought that someone that I loved so much would ever hurt me, never thought he'd cheat with our "Christian Marriage Counselor" saddest part was everyone knew and no one told me... I felt humiliated so I really wished someone even if it was a fake friend would've open my eyes.
That's horrible. It's a fine line to walk when you know a friend's spouse is cheating. I'm sure they wanted to tell you but were afraid of how to approach you about it.
@@thrashpuppy2010 see? I don't know about that... they just told me to keep praying while they knew I was being abused in every sense and my excuse was my son. All I know is that of I see something... I'm telling no one knows what goes on behind closed doors 🙂
She wasn't right in her approach to it. Yeah, it's ok to tell the spouse her husband is a cheating piece of bat guano, but after that - but out. If the spouse is stupid enough to stay with him - it's none of her friend's business.
Here's what I would do if I recognize somebody like that and I was surprised that something like that was going on I would take a video as well as pictures and then upload them to my friend's Instagram, messenger or Whatsapp page and tell them that way. But I wouldn't announce it over the radio station where everybody and his brother and sister can hear.
If I think a man is hot, once I find out he is married or even has a girlfriend, that's over for me. If he cheats once, he'll cheat again. Don't ever be the other woman. You are worth more than that.
I've seen things what people would do is spreading words on social media (Facebook,Instagram radio) and things can go wrong because of other people's opinions. The radio part is just too much 😪
What the Fudge?! Was this Woman thinking trying to break up Her friends marriage so publicly was she trying to get the Husband beaten up by his Wife' family and pals or did she want to get stabbed herself for playing Devil's advocate...I reckon this lady is jealous of her pal who has the marriage, the kids, that Husband could of attacked her for this public hanging of his reputation it was dangerous and not the way you stop a friend being cheated on imagine the psychological damage shes caused to get her fix of drama at others expense...
She wasn't right in doing it. Effectively she placed herself in judgment over their relationship based on a piece of information she has. This brings to mind this notion of being a prisoners to our spouses.
In cases like this you only talk privately with the person an show them any evidence you have. Then let them do with it what they will then if you want nothing to do with the person that's cheating. Then you have nothing to do with them anymore but you keep it all private. You don't make it a public thing because no one in say Ohio needs to know someone else's business from saying Mississippi.
She exposed him because she wants the guy for herself! Hello? I don't believe it's right because it was stuff like that that kept a woman from marrying me & the whole time I was working 60 or 70 hour weeks! Adrian why is it guys like you & me have such an honor & conscious about relationships & women??? Like I said before I am Irish descent yet not a full blood like you are English...
Lol, I TH-camd Adrian Paul out of idle curiosity about what he's up to these days after beginning to watch the Highlander series on Roku, did not expect to find him playing "Dear Abby". No insult intended, was just unexpected.
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She should have gone straight to the wife and told her what she suspected. Her approach was wrong. Not only that, but I question her motives.
This is why I never listen to the radio.
I’ve been married to a chronic cheater. She knows or suspects. When she’s ready to deal with it she will. This friend should support her and not publicly humiliate her.
Not the radio, straight to the wife. I think it’s the best friends responsibility in most cases to tell the wife, but privately. I was cheated on for years and friends of mine knew and did not tell me. That ended up making me feel like a fool and I lost my ability to trust anyone, not just my husband.
I believe she should have told her friend in private and let her deal with it as she would. That being said, cheating is one of the most hurtful and degrading things you can put your partner through. Cheaters deserve to get caught.
I once had definite proof that my good friend’s husband was cheating on her (he went out with my brother and another woman) and when I told her she didn’t hesitate for one second… she looked me at me and said, “Can you help me pack?”
probably a best case scenario but I still felt like a jerk. Most of the time people don’t wanna hear it… and there is definitely a kill the messenger mentality sometimes.
You never know what’s gonna happen when a person has been cheated on…how they’re gonna react to the news and whether or not they’re going to stay. It also happened to me several years into my marriage…and I was hurt and always remembered it, but I forgave and put it behind me. We went on to have 3 children and were married nearly 43 years before he passed. People are complicated. 🤷♀️
I really enjoy what you're doing on TH-cam I love the questions and I love thinking about life in general and my favorite TV series The Highlander
She (the cheating friend) sounds like an overall terrible person. Husband as well. Who puts their dirty laundry on for all to see anyway? We are in an era of “media tramps” who want their 15 minutes. 1. Stay away from your friends spouse, 2. If you see a friends spouse cheating, tell them privately. The “friend” is a weirdo.
✨Ignore it.✨They will seek drama elsewhere.✨💫
If I know my friend's spouse is cheating I would feel morally obligated to let him know.
" I DONT KNOW ".
A few thoughts...First, as a rule, I never get involved in other people's private business. It's not my place--unless, let's say, somebody's life was in danger. As for the best friend of the wife, for a start, she definitely should not have done this on the radio, sounds like she may have just wanted some attention for herself. A better way to have gone about it, in my opinion, would have been for her to privately meet with the husband, tell him she'd seen him walking on the beach with another woman, and asked him if he was cheating on his wife. It might be tempting at that point to tell him you'd give him a week to tell his wife himself, and if he didn't you'd tell the wife yourself, but there are consequences--namely the children. If the husband and wife can work it out between them and stay married, the children will probably have a much better life, with a mother and a father who are together, than they are likely to if they become the latest statistic, meaning children of divorce. Hence my reluctance to get involved in other people's business.
As the best friend, its her job to look out for her friend. She's her best friend's eyes and ears. Its absolutely right for her to expose the cheater.
I've been in a similar situation.
My dad's now (deceased) ex-wife was clearly cheating on him.
I made the mistake of telling my dad and got a swift backhand to the mouth and a "DON'T EVER TALK ABOUT MY WIFE LIKE THAT AGAIN!" from him, for my efforts.
A couple of weeks later my stepbrother, her son, came up to me and told me he thinks his mom is cheating on my dad. I told him, that I know and dad doesn't want to hear it. So he should save his breath.
Well, he confronted my dad about it, anyway. And I just watched as my dad simply whimpers "I know." and cries.
Such is the difference between how he reacts to me, his real son, and my step brother.
My step brother is in his will. I am not. I've never done any wrong to him, ever...yet I am the "bad one."
Some people just can't handle honesty.
Wow... how can he cut his blood family out of his will without a reason! And the slap - OMG!
I would assume everyone has a messed up family, to some degree. Some worse than others.
In the end, we choose what is important to us. Some choose material possessions. Some choose power/respect. Some choose relationships/family and some want it all.
I simply wanted a normal life in a normal family. I didn't think that was much to ask, but after growing up I realized how abnormal the depictions of a "normal family" were. Where the father and mother loved each other and their children. Where the children could count on their siblings for guidance and aid when they need it. Where family gatherings were joyous times of celebration. How naive I was to see that as "normal." I wanted the best the world had to offer, but mistakenly thought it was a standard experience.
The years change our perspective, if we pay attention.
Never publicly put your friend in that position. Woman up and either go to your friend. Or go to the husband and tell him he better tell by the end of the day or you will. Make him tell on himself. Make sure you have proof .
As a woman, I worry about my own relationships if im in one...If a friend looks at me for help I will do so...but will not step any boundaries..If you need my help I'm there for. That's how I feel
Seeing my friends face this issue, repeatedly it taught us that true friends would not say anything. Perhaps we may give a hint (I thought I saw you guys at the restaurant, how was the food?) but it is best to let them workout their own relationship. It also taught us that women are very intuitive and if we get the feeling something is wrong, we are often correct but we still have to allow the evidence to reveal itself and it often does. Then it is their decision how to reconcile with it. We as the friends, our job is to listen and be supportive and help our friend, by listening, to decide for themselves how to proceed. It is not our job to tell them what to do.
Often times when "the girlfriend" starts reporting on a husband or man, they are often doing it for nefarious reasons.
She already told her friend, she should had left it at that. You are correct, it sounds like she has another reason why shy would expose him on the radio.
So many reasons I just don't deal with this sort of thing. I stay out of other peoples business and keep to my own. Also staying single since 2000 has been the best thing for me. No Stress.
Making such a sensitive issue public and on the radio will never turn out well..Couples need to learn truthful communication.Leave the rest of the world out of it .If you are unhappy to the point of seeking out new adventures divorce and get it over with.
Adrian Paul -- you became an old man --like me
This should not have been aired on the radio. This is no one else's business. She was wrong in her approach.
Cheaters should be exposed. I don't know about on the radio or such. If I were the wife, I'd want to know. Hey everybody, just don't cheat
I think it depends - if the person cheated on is faithful, kind etc. and the person cheating is a narcissistic serial cheater, sure, but of course sometimes there's a volatile, unhappy relationship and the person cheating finds somebody who treats him/her the way they deserve to be treated. Should ultimately still handle it discreetly, but I wouldn't lose sleep over a serial cheater being exposed.
Several years ago I saw one of my friends/coworkers husband with another woman, I confronted him in front of my friend about it, thankfully it wasn’t nothing to it she was a neighbor that needed a ride to town…
We’ll be having our 47 anniversary in July, about five years ago I found out the hard way that there are some things worse than cheating… I don’t think I will ever trust him again, he lives in one end of the house and I live in the other end of the house…..
I agree with you on this issue and don't think it's right for anyone to expose anyone else private business particular when it concerns a wife and husband and the reason I feel that way is because 99 percent of the time some one may not believe at first but cheaters always get caught by the one's they're dating or married to 99 percent of the time eventually they do something that stupid and it gets them caught as a result of it. Things like that should be kept private and should only be dealt with by the one's it's affecting it's wrong for anyone else to stick their noses in someone else's private affairs much less air them public like that so not cool and it interferes with that person's relationship. For example I have known a friend of mine who has experienced several times in his previous relationship he had cheating where he was made to feel like he did something wrong or it was his fault she was cheating it use to make me so mad because I have to drum it into his head because like me he's a caretaker someone that wants to help out any one in trouble if he can alot of times I have found from my personal experience that people take advantage of that and she used to do that all the time with him and make him feel guilty like he did something wrong and he didn't that's what always made me mad because I have to pick up the emotional pieces and there drumming in his head it's not his fault now because I didn't interfere in those types of relationship he recently about less than a year ago broke off an engagement to someone he was seeing because he started seeing signs of questionable behavior and related it back to a previous relationship and decided for himself that he couldn't go through that again and he won't put himself through it again and I was so proud of him for recognize that on his own verse me interfering in his relationships. That's just for reference a good example it should only be between the individuals no one has the right to interfere and by the way Adrian merry Christmas and a happy new year to you and your family love you bye for now.
I wouldn't turn a blind eye if I were the wife's friend, but what I did would depend a lot on what the wife is like. I might talk to the cheating husband first and see what his attitude is, maybe give him one chance to be honest with his wife. If he doesn't tell her, then I guess I'd have to, but I wouldn't do it in a public way, not out of compassion for the cheater (or the person he's cheating with) but in hopes of not causing the wife public drama. Revealing it to the public was wrong and strange, especially as the first action.
Clearly the Best Friend's objective was to break up the marriage and not to help her friend. She is either a troll and doesn't hang out with her "Friend" to be a friend but to hurt and victimize her friend by torpedoing her friend's relationships. That or she is infatuated with her friend and easily jealous of her friend's other relationships. The public exposure of cheating husband plus lying in the past about an affair of her friend's boyfriend narrows it down to those two scenarios for me.
Publicly exposing something like that in the media can have dire consequences... 2 words... Jenny Jones
Nope, would have stayed out of it all together. I hate drama. This day and age, the messenger is shot.
I think the friend should mind her own business. Her spouse is probably cheating and she want to bring everyone down with her.
Absolutely not in this way. Always privately.
I had a friend whose live-in boyfriend constantly cheated on her (and gave her an STD at one point). She would come crying to me but I knew she would ultimately go back to him. My job was not to intervene, but to provide a shoulder to cry on. I did suggest she dump the guy on more than one occasion but she had to finally make the decision herself. It's a tough line between advice and interference. Had he been beating her, that would have been another matter. You need to let the party take the lead and only step in if you think they are doing something dangerous. Cheating is something some women are wiling to tolerate, which makes it none of a friend's business.
I practice Ho Oponopono. It is a manta that brings about what some people would call miracles. I practice this mantra and it has brought some very good things it's like praying. I was charged when I took the course watch something at your life you are now responsible. So this best friend was responsible to pray for her friend but not physically get involved. Great things happen when we pray when we meditate when we practice some sort of spiritual energy that is of love. If she was working in love nobody would be hurt and it would evolve in a way that was best. If the actual wife was not ready to receive this information the best friend needed to leave it alone and simply step away. She was responsible to pray or meditate or practice Ho Oponopono and that is all
This sort of intrusive - reality craze is everywhere, pranks/ set ups/ cheater dramas/ scambaiters and SOME of it's actually very positive, the scambaiters waste scammers time and theoretically prevent them from scamming anyone else at least for the time that they're being baited, and a lot of these setup videos are actually extremely positive,, the channel creators using the money from their channel to give people some sort of gift for various reasons... One creator has a couple assistants video him while he's outside a fast food place, and coming up to people, I'm really hungry, can you help me out,, and he includes several people who tell him to just basically go away, and then when the person comes along who will help him out, gives them $500 or whatever... In this way generosity is rewarded, and the videos are extremely touching to watch...
Hey old friend, I've been meaning to tell you there must be some setting turned on that has found fade in at the beginning of your videos lately. May want to adjust that.
Thanks for the tip - learning as we go!
@@THESWORDEXPERIENCE anytime!
@@THESWORDEXPERIENCE the Electric Vehicles video was perfect, nice, clear, and ithad the same volume all the way through!
There is no win in telling the friend in any form.
People need to mind the own business! Honestly never get into anyone's marriage...
Not her place. I smell motive, too.
I would keep everything private and then tell my friends on what happened because that's happened to me
Doing anything on public radio is probably never a good idea. As adults with children, these are private affairs that need to be handled by the affected parties. Adding other people, or an entertainment aspect, introduces other variables that can affect the outcome.
I HAD LONG SEGMENT AGAIN , THAT GOT BLOWN OUT, THIS IS THE 3RD TIME IT DID THAT, I GUESS I SAW THE TRUTH OF THIS SCENARIO TOO MUCH.
WOW DID I HAVE A LOT TOO SAY, I CANT REMEMBER IT ALL.
FRIENDS ARE FRIENDS , SOMETIMES FOR REAL AND OTHERS FAKE.
BROADCASTING AND BLASTING AND TELLING YOUR FRIENDS EVERYTHING CAN AND WILL TURN ON YOU AND WE KNOW THE REST.
FRIENDS .... HUH.
Real simple.... Don't cheat.... Don't be with someone who's OK with cheating..... Don't associate with other people you're NOT involved with who are OK with cheating.... If they're OK with them, or you, being unfaithful or disloyal, they'll eventually be unfaithful or disloyal to you.
This sounds like some trailer park drama, and I don't know what's what because I don't know the folks involved, but I've seen enough of it that I have a guess....
Husband was having an affair with his wife's friend.... They have an argument and ends it for whatever reason.... Wife's friend gets upset, tells the wife husband is having an affair, and leaves out the part that she's the woman he's been having said affair with because she thinks she won't get caught since the relationship's "over"... Husband decides to try to patch things up with his wife's friend, and that's how they both get caught... Meanwhile, wife already had suspicions that her "friend" wasn't on the up and up because of past behavior, she should have listened to that feeling.
Just have integrity and don't tolerate anything less from others, and you don't have these sorts of issues....
Your comment reminds of something Todd Chrissley said. He said "if someone is making you feel less than you want to feel then you got to stop the car and get out."
Hahah….war of the the roses 🌹 by John J and Rich
And here I expected this to be about Bonds and Clemens LOL
Hi Adrian... I'm not sure about the intentions of the "friend" but I'll tell you something. When I was married and we were going through stuff I was praying and doing everything to save my marriage and when I say everything I do mean everything but standing on my head. I was so naive and I never thought that someone that I loved so much would ever hurt me, never thought he'd cheat with our "Christian Marriage Counselor" saddest part was everyone knew and no one told me... I felt humiliated so I really wished someone even if it was a fake friend would've open my eyes.
That's horrible. It's a fine line to walk when you know a friend's spouse is cheating. I'm sure they wanted to tell you but were afraid of how to approach you about it.
@@thrashpuppy2010 see? I don't know about that... they just told me to keep praying while they knew I was being abused in every sense and my excuse was my son. All I know is that of I see something... I'm telling no one knows what goes on behind closed doors 🙂
She wasn't right in her approach to it. Yeah, it's ok to tell the spouse her husband is a cheating piece of bat guano, but after that - but out. If the spouse is stupid enough to stay with him - it's none of her friend's business.
I would mind my own business
As a female I'm more likely to say hello to the couple on the beach. But I have a terrible sense of humor.
Here's what I would do if I recognize somebody like that and I was surprised that something like that was going on I would take a video as well as pictures and then upload them to my friend's Instagram, messenger or Whatsapp page and tell them that way. But I wouldn't announce it over the radio station where everybody and his brother and sister can hear.
From my experience of over 50 years of life...you don't get involved in other peoples marriage...period.
Unless its a life and death situation stay out of ppl's marriage. Mind your own biz even if its your best friend. Learned that lesson at a young age.
I would mine my own business. Some people just gain pleasure out of causing trouble.
If I think a man is hot, once I find out he is married or even has a girlfriend, that's over for me. If he cheats once, he'll cheat again. Don't ever be the other woman. You are worth more than that.
It shouldn’t have been made public
The first time wasn’t real. Don’t assume the second time isn’t real.
YEP I AM A TROUBLE MAKER😆 HE NEEDS TO BE EXPOSED
I've seen things what people would do is spreading words on social media (Facebook,Instagram radio) and things can go wrong because of other people's opinions. The radio part is just too much 😪
Should have brought it to her friend and let it be.
It is their business.
What the Fudge?! Was this Woman thinking trying to break up Her friends marriage so publicly was she trying to get the Husband beaten up by his Wife' family and pals or did she want to get stabbed herself for playing Devil's advocate...I reckon this lady is jealous of her pal who has the marriage, the kids, that Husband could of attacked her for this public hanging of his reputation it was dangerous and not the way you stop a friend being cheated on imagine the psychological damage shes caused to get her fix of drama at others expense...
She wasn't right in doing it. Effectively she placed herself in judgment over their relationship based on a piece of information she has. This brings to mind this notion of being a prisoners to our spouses.
As of now, I am not seeing any one
I would not have done it. Let them handle it. She needs to get a life.
I think women should mine their busness.This kind of behavior is not good...some people just want other people to hurt
Live and let live. This person really needs to mind her business..This doesn't do anything but cause problems..
In cases like this you only talk privately with the person an show them any evidence you have. Then let them do with it what they will then if you want nothing to do with the person that's cheating. Then you have nothing to do with them anymore but you keep it all private. You don't make it a public thing because no one in say Ohio needs to know someone else's business from saying Mississippi.
If anyone is cheating they cld have a good reason to but it's not my business to publicly expose them and no I don't condone anyone to cheat.
She exposed him because she wants the guy for herself! Hello? I don't believe it's right because it was stuff like that that kept a woman from marrying me & the whole time I was working 60 or 70 hour weeks! Adrian why is it guys like you & me have such an honor & conscious about relationships & women??? Like I said before I am Irish descent yet not a full blood like you are English...
i tell not on the radio
You should never make a move like that worry about your relationship
Lol, I TH-camd Adrian Paul out of idle curiosity about what he's up to these days after beginning to watch the Highlander series on Roku, did not expect to find him playing "Dear Abby". No insult intended, was just unexpected.
It's wrong on multiple levels.
Things can get worse..sometimes you shouldn't talk about those things .P S.that is something I would not do
I wonder if the " friend " was the other woman , or wants to be .
What do you think
I know this is totally unrelated, but you look like you could have been in The Lord of the Rings. You would have been a perfect elf in the new Amazon series The Rings of Power.
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This is just wrong something I would mind my business
Mind your own business !!!!!