I watched this video for the first time you put it on TH-cam, and now I'm watching it for the 1000 time.. the only video that touched me the most, as every word describes me ..every time i watch it, i cry as if I'm watching it for the first time. Luuuuuuv you girl 🫂
Peace be upon you, my sister Omaima. We have the same pain. She was betrayed by the people closest to her, and praise be to God in any case. I suffered and suffered. Everything changes. My belief in God is great. All goodness comes as compensation from God.
I am you and I love it ! bc this is the safest I have felt! I started to take relationships soooo lightly bc in life no matter how vulnerable no one will get YOU the real YOU. Even your mom! 😅 I stopped needing to find smn to get naked with…..I accepted that I can do that only with myself. Yes, some good ppl can get a hint of it if I wish but I just enjoy their company and have fun. If we click we click if we don’t at least we had a good day, time… You know the deal….We just don’t need to glorify the concept of “relationships” or “love” just treat ppl as they are…you get what you give and basta😅 and I do meee❤
You said so many things that i feel but never could say or even understand, at least i kinda know in few words why i couldnt have a relationship with that someone.. thank you ❤
3la hdchi khskom tfrgo f lfoot hit ktwli endk dik ndra dyl hahwa daba raytmarka 3lk goal mn sghri mn ghir lwalid olwalida daymn kntw93 mn ay person radi yghdrk ohyaty kamla tghdrt bzf ms m3mrni mtsdmt o3adi hit mtw93ha before like lmalki said l attaque c est bien mais attention hit darori flmatch rtgik whd lmortada lirtsgl elik its the same thing about ur relationships i love u so much like my sister u are so kindly ❤❤💚
awl marra nsma3 chi wa7ed b7aaaaali exactement hitach htana vraaaaiment w9a3uli jami3 sadamat c qui fait marra mab9itch kanti9 w makan9darch gaaaa3 nt7aml chi wa7d la 2adani f chi haja donc nichan kan9ol bye lah yjiblk li ystahl l9alb zwin li eandk much love sweetie
This is relatable on so many levels. You are not alone, wallah. I've been through shit and i have crazy trust issues. I feel so lonely, I have similar mechanisms to what you described.
Allah is with you Oumaima, you are LOVED, you are precious, you are healing darling, and yes we still care detachment as a defense way to live, knt 9rit wahd quote li bssh bdlat bzaaaaaf about the way I love which is " Don't trust people, trust your ability to heal again" because we should give it a chance anyway, we should experience but most important to believe that we deserve to be loved. never give up sis, I LOVE YOU 💗
Oumaima I understand you bzfff hta ana bhalk bnadm li kan 9rib mni drni wlkin ce sont pas les bonnes personnes. Thank you again for sharing this with us ❤❤❤
Thank you so much for being so vulnerable with us, it takes so much courage. I can relate so much to you, your content is one of a kind. Thank you thank you thank you
لازمنا نفرقو ما بين الحب و مابين التعلق الحب بريئ من اي عذاب لكن التعلق هو سبب العذاب علاش ؟ حيت كاتعلق نفسك بشخص و كاتربط حياتك به على اساس انه هو حياتك و هذا غلط كبير و ضد الطبيعة دكشي عااططلاش فه العذاب و الألم لكن الحب بالنسبة لي هو طاقة عالية و نقية كتجمع شخصين انا احبك و نتا كاتحبني و فنفس الوقت مامتعلقينش ببعض ❤ فكرة انك تاتولي كتاب مفتوح هي كاتخلع و لكن ره بزوج بينا كانبداو نقربو و ننفتحو على بعضنا هذ الانفتاح فيه شفاء و مواجهة لذاتنا
C'est normal vu le monde comment il est devenu la confiance est difficile vraiment .. tu es choquée des fois des comportements des proches 😢 il faut pas pleurer juste comprendre la vie dieu a créer le mal et le bon 😮tu es une personne magnifique keep going ❤ maryam du maroc
Trust me when u get with the right person u would'nt think that way its normal to think that way in the beginning, i think u got hurt and ur mind is trying to protect you from hurt thats why ur mind gives u those thoughts, its a wall u build because of ur fears of trusting others
Loving you the way you are , the way you talk Oumaima , it’s hard darling but you are doing your best, this video is a first step for move on , for doing some challenging ❤🎉🎉
Hello Oumaima, you talked about attachement more than love, love isn't a feeling, it's a state ... Love isn't available for everyone, you can't love if you have fears, if you are nervous, it's a journjey to become someone who can just love! did you read the attachement theory beffor ? i think you have an avoidant attachement style, or maybe anxious-avoidant .. to make healthy relationship you should have a secure attachement, and please just let the life surprise you and don't calculate and overthink things, i have a different opinion about love 180° different , for me you didn't talk about love ga3 , Lah hayrah Bababk w yaghfar lih ya rab ... God bless you .
@@raniaababssi6675 i don't read books, you can start with chatgpt .. Ask about the attachment theory, then ask about the signs of each type so you can categorise yourself, then look after the wounds behind those signs / feelings / behaviours ... For example, if you have the fear of losing someone, why ? Why you can't accept that in life you may lose people ?, or if you get neglected befor and you look for someone who take care of you, why you become obsessed with him ? Why you can't just take care of yourself ?.... Etc . To move from insecure to secure attachment, you need to go through a healing journey, to fix your wounds and psychological trauma, to accept things and stop trying to control everything .. Trust God . Awadi chala maytgal ... Just don't get overwhelmed b had topic tani, matkhalihsh yakhad lik focus kaml ...
@@raniaababssi6675 sorry for the late reply, actually i didn't read books, i used google, chatgpt, and youtube comments under videos about that topics, from their i got my knowledge.
L’amour n’est pas sensé nous faire du mal, comme tu as dis c’est la valise que tu traines avec toi, c’est les traumas et les blessures .. l’amour c’est sacré, car sans l’amour tu n’aura pas eu le courage de faire cette video, sans l’amour tu ne peux rester en vie. C’est juste que tu as tellement été déçu en ce qui concerne « l’amour » que ça te semble que c’est que négatif, ça nous fait souffrir etc .. mais, je t’assure que si tu expérimentes une vraie relation où l’amour est sa base et sa source, tu sera la plus heureuse et tu aimera du plus profond de ton cœur. Il y a des gens bien, il y a des gens qui vont te donner de l’amour comme il se doit, mais à condition, c’est d’être ouverte, comme tu as déjà ouvert le cahier de tes blessures, c’est le moment de revoir ce côté là, de donner de l’amour même quand on en a besoin et je pense, ceux qui donnent beaucoup d’amour sont ceux qui ont en besoin. Moi aussi j’ai été déçu plusieurs fois et je peux même te dire que je n’ai jamais expérimenté le vrai amour (même avec mes parents) et dans toutes mes relations, sauf celui que j’éprouve pour ma fille, mais je sais que j’aurai quelqu’un qui me donnera cet amour et surtout il sera réciproque. Tout estompe avec le temps, et tant qu’on a déjà mis le doigt dans ce sujet, on en sortira que guérit ! Je te souhaite beaucoup trop d’amour, tu le mérites d’ailleurs, je t’ai rencontré et on a papoté et j’ai senti cela .. tu es un amour et allah meak ❤ saches que tu n’es pas la seule, énorme pensée 🙏🏻
Et cela ne veut pas dire que je donne des conseils, j’ai juste partagé mon POV. Je sais que tu en as conscience et tu vas t’en sortir mais on a tous besoin d’entendre ce genre de mots de la parts des gens 🙏🏻
Hi, you try and fail, and you try again and again to create some theories to find the real way. To be honest, you're just wasting time and your life. Try to learn more about Islam and find some real Muslims. I swear they are different, and the definition of love in Islam is truly incredible.
Hello , just an honest opinion , you lost the biggest love of your life , and you're just afraid to live this lost again by openning up to someone else. love comes in different forms , and your father's love will never be met, lah yrhmo ... losing a parent is never easy lah ysbrk .
people who suffer a lot are the softest hearts to be touched.. Don’t belittle to any soft heart because the soft hearts have very strong shields.”
lah yrhm babak yaarbi ou jami3 lmoslimin
Omg ouma, you have touched in me things I didn't know how to describe, thanks for this therapy session, I've cried too !
So glad to here that Fati ❤
I watched this video for the first time you put it on TH-cam, and now I'm watching it for the 1000 time.. the only video that touched me the most, as every word describes me ..every time i watch it, i cry as if I'm watching it for the first time.
Luuuuuuv you girl 🫂
Peace be upon you, my sister Omaima. We have the same pain. She was betrayed by the people closest to her, and praise be to God in any case. I suffered and suffered. Everything changes. My belief in God is great. All goodness comes as compensation from God.
I am you and I love it !
bc this is the safest I have felt! I started to take relationships soooo lightly bc in life no matter how vulnerable no one will get YOU the real YOU. Even your mom! 😅
I stopped needing to find smn to get naked with…..I accepted that I can do that only with myself. Yes, some good ppl can get a hint of it if I wish but I just enjoy their company and have fun. If we click we click if we don’t at least we had a good day, time…
You know the deal….We just don’t need to glorify the concept of “relationships” or “love” just treat ppl as they are…you get what you give and basta😅 and I do meee❤
You said so many things that i feel but never could say or even understand, at least i kinda know in few words why i couldnt have a relationship with that someone..
thank you ❤
Im the first one 😍😍😍 i love youuuuuu
3la hdchi khskom tfrgo f lfoot hit ktwli endk dik ndra dyl hahwa daba raytmarka 3lk goal mn sghri mn ghir lwalid olwalida daymn kntw93 mn ay person radi yghdrk ohyaty kamla tghdrt bzf ms m3mrni mtsdmt o3adi hit mtw93ha before like lmalki said l attaque c est bien mais attention hit darori flmatch rtgik whd lmortada lirtsgl elik its the same thing about ur relationships i love u so much like my sister u are so kindly ❤❤💚
استودعيه الله الذي لا تضيع ودائعه ❤
U are so wandarful physiquement i lvu much dont cry .🤝😪
Daughter Oumaima YOU are great your tears are precious iI wish for you happiness and smooth life
@@rachidbahmad3917 thank you 🙏🏼✨
Hope you heal , but you re just so real ❤ do not regret posting that
Love your last words! Great reminder
Habibti , we love you , you're good person dakchi elach tu te sens comme ca
OMG, You awesome, you're so loved and layrhem babak had nhar
awl marra nsma3 chi wa7ed b7aaaaali exactement hitach htana vraaaaiment w9a3uli jami3 sadamat c qui fait marra mab9itch kanti9 w makan9darch gaaaa3 nt7aml chi wa7d la 2adani f chi haja donc nichan kan9ol bye
lah yjiblk li ystahl l9alb zwin li eandk
much love sweetie
you’re such a beautiful soul, love your content, it helped me a lot ❤️ please don’t stop, u allah yerhem babak 🙏
i think oumaima wakha 3aref it's soo hard but u have to fix ur vision about love and relation in general, take care of ur self ur are soo inspiring 🤍🤍
كلمات خارجة من القلوب اوووف.عندما تفقد التقة في شيئ معين.من الصعب إعادة كسب التقة في كل شيئ.
This is relatable on so many levels. You are not alone, wallah. I've been through shit and i have crazy trust issues. I feel so lonely, I have similar mechanisms to what you described.
Its okeyyyy, c'est la première fois que je te regarde sur ytb and we are with u ❤
I cried so hard when you talked about your dad ,alah irhmou 🥹🥹🥹🥹
Amine 🤍
you're so real ouma
Allah is with you Oumaima, you are LOVED, you are precious, you are healing darling, and yes we still care detachment as a defense way to live, knt 9rit wahd quote li bssh bdlat bzaaaaaf about the way I love which is " Don't trust people, trust your ability to heal again" because we should give it a chance anyway, we should experience but most important to believe that we deserve to be loved. never give up sis, I LOVE YOU 💗
@@oumaimab8489 🥹❤️
hadchi zwin bzaf
I just came mn tiktok , saraha sme3t l gae parts dyal podcasts dyalk f spotify and just wanna say thanks for everything you share with us ❤️
Thank you for listening darling 🤍
There’s a lot of emotions in this video thanks Oumaima w lah yar7em babak
A LOT! Amine yarebi ❤🩹
Ouimaymaasa dima dirilina les podcast hena dima m3ak o kay3jbna hadchi li kadiri
So much courage of you posting this video thank you for your honesty that’s the type of content that needs to be consumed bravo !!!!
We love you oumaima ❤️❤️❤️ and we're so proud of you
It is what it is🙏🏻
Oumaima I understand you bzfff hta ana bhalk bnadm li kan 9rib mni drni wlkin ce sont pas les bonnes personnes. Thank you again for sharing this with us ❤❤❤
Thank you so much for being so vulnerable with us, it takes so much courage. I can relate so much to you, your content is one of a kind. Thank you thank you thank you
Thank you for being here 🤍
Makrehtch nkouno kamlin hdak ndirou lik wahd t3ni9a kbiraaa🥺 we love you aham haja khwi 9elbk mtkhlich dakchi dakhel dyalk ❤❤❤❤
@@ladonaaaa3201 🥺❤️❤️❤️❤️
الله يرحمو ويغفر له واجعل قبره روضه من رياض الجنه
Wish I could hug you 😢🫂 You're so genuine and such a real person ❤ We love you Oumaima!!
I love you too! Thank you for your support 🤗
Oumiama she's so me + and lhe yerham your father 💗🙏🏻
SO FUCKINGGGGG PROUD OF UUU! We love u more 💗
@@ferdaousbeghiel4424 ❤️
thank you so much i needed to hear this
Mercii ahsann oumaymaa 3la la vidéo zwinna❤❤❤
what a real person ❤
olhiita hssit biik bhaaali 100% ollllh hbiba dylii mtbkiich inchallah waaqt aykhelik tnsaay hit hadhi li eandk mchi qdim
Courage ❤❤ oumaima you have a good heart
oumaima you are amazing ❤ we love your energy
🙏🏼🤍
i love you oumaima, same issues here wllah 🤣🤣🤣
Bhala kathedri 3lia wlh 😢😢
لازمنا نفرقو ما بين الحب و مابين التعلق
الحب بريئ من اي عذاب
لكن التعلق هو سبب العذاب
علاش ؟
حيت كاتعلق نفسك بشخص و كاتربط حياتك به على اساس انه هو حياتك و هذا غلط كبير و ضد الطبيعة
دكشي عااططلاش فه العذاب و الألم
لكن الحب بالنسبة لي هو طاقة عالية و نقية كتجمع شخصين انا احبك و نتا كاتحبني و فنفس الوقت مامتعلقينش ببعض ❤
فكرة انك تاتولي كتاب مفتوح هي كاتخلع و لكن ره بزوج بينا كانبداو نقربو و ننفتحو على بعضنا هذ الانفتاح فيه شفاء و مواجهة لذاتنا
C'est normal vu le monde comment il est devenu la confiance est difficile vraiment .. tu es choquée des fois des comportements des proches 😢 il faut pas pleurer juste comprendre la vie dieu a créer le mal et le bon 😮tu es une personne magnifique keep going ❤ maryam du maroc
Merci Maryam 🤍
Trust me when u get with the right person u would'nt think that way its normal to think that way in the beginning, i think u got hurt and ur mind is trying to protect you from hurt thats why ur mind gives u those thoughts, its a wall u build because of ur fears of trusting others
I agree with you x
Tres touchant et émouvant force à toi et que son âme repose en paix 🫶🏻🥺
🙏🏼🤍
هناك حب لن تشك فيه ولن تتأذى ولن تندم عليه هو حب الله هل جربتي هذا الحب؟
Loving you the way you are , the way you talk Oumaima , it’s hard darling but you are doing your best, this video is a first step for move on , for doing some challenging ❤🎉🎉
Bekitini, cause I can relate ❤️❤️
J'aime bien cette vidéo, moi je suis une personne très attachée malheureusement 😢
layh3awnak fhad la période li kadozi mnha ❤❤
trop touchante ma Oumaima je t'aime fort fort
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احسن اميمة
I feel u girl stay strong ❤
Much love beautiful Oumaima ❤
Je suis comme toi kan ysshabli ri ana ,merci partagiti hadchi maana ❤
s3ab 3liya nchofk tatbki makrahtch nbda m3ak my first interview
keep going ❤❤
J’adore les podcasts dylk mai stp dwi gh en arabe hit machi kolchi kifhm englais
nti ttbki w brahch kitslto bach "i3cho lhob lhaqi9i 6:54
Same issues here 💔
I feel like ana kandwi🥺
U are amazing ❤❤❤❤❤
Respect ❤
LOVE YOU
I think im fucked up and i can’t heal
You are amazing ❤
i really wanted to hug u 🥺
Oouuuuuuuuuuu oumaima 😮💨🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽❤️❤️
So fuckinggggg proud of uuuu nglll ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
I like ur concept but I want to know your horoscope sign ❤❤
Hello Oumaima, you talked about attachement more than love, love isn't a feeling, it's a state ... Love isn't available for everyone, you can't love if you have fears, if you are nervous, it's a journjey to become someone who can just love!
did you read the attachement theory beffor ? i think you have an avoidant attachement style, or maybe anxious-avoidant .. to make healthy relationship you should have a secure attachement, and please just let the life surprise you and don't calculate and overthink things, i have a different opinion about love 180° different , for me you didn't talk about love ga3 , Lah hayrah Bababk w yaghfar lih ya rab ... God bless you .
Your comment so interesting can you suggest some books I can read about this topic, like how to shift to secure attachment style 💗
@@raniaababssi6675 i don't read books, you can start with chatgpt .. Ask about the attachment theory, then ask about the signs of each type so you can categorise yourself, then look after the wounds behind those signs / feelings / behaviours ... For example, if you have the fear of losing someone, why ? Why you can't accept that in life you may lose people ?, or if you get neglected befor and you look for someone who take care of you, why you become obsessed with him ? Why you can't just take care of yourself ?.... Etc .
To move from insecure to secure attachment, you need to go through a healing journey, to fix your wounds and psychological trauma, to accept things and stop trying to control everything .. Trust God .
Awadi chala maytgal ... Just don't get overwhelmed b had topic tani, matkhalihsh yakhad lik focus kaml ...
@@raniaababssi6675 sorry for the late reply, actually i didn't read books, i used google, chatgpt, and youtube comments under videos about that topics, from their i got my knowledge.
bghit n3rf ghir dok lbrahch sghar fin tkhchaw hhhh
علاش كنخافو ونهربو من الحب وهو الطاقة المطهرة للدات
I advice u tb9ay dire tkhrgi nature bhditk m3a la tente dylk like me I am in china and every month knkhrg nkhym f forest dyl Shanghai
❤❤love
Vous êtes très fort machaallah layrhame ton père
amiiine merci
L’amour n’est pas sensé nous faire du mal, comme tu as dis c’est la valise que tu traines avec toi, c’est les traumas et les blessures .. l’amour c’est sacré, car sans l’amour tu n’aura pas eu le courage de faire cette video, sans l’amour tu ne peux rester en vie. C’est juste que tu as tellement été déçu en ce qui concerne « l’amour » que ça te semble que c’est que négatif, ça nous fait souffrir etc .. mais, je t’assure que si tu expérimentes une vraie relation où l’amour est sa base et sa source, tu sera la plus heureuse et tu aimera du plus profond de ton cœur. Il y a des gens bien, il y a des gens qui vont te donner de l’amour comme il se doit, mais à condition, c’est d’être ouverte, comme tu as déjà ouvert le cahier de tes blessures, c’est le moment de revoir ce côté là, de donner de l’amour même quand on en a besoin et je pense, ceux qui donnent beaucoup d’amour sont ceux qui ont en besoin. Moi aussi j’ai été déçu plusieurs fois et je peux même te dire que je n’ai jamais expérimenté le vrai amour (même avec mes parents) et dans toutes mes relations, sauf celui que j’éprouve pour ma fille, mais je sais que j’aurai quelqu’un qui me donnera cet amour et surtout il sera réciproque. Tout estompe avec le temps, et tant qu’on a déjà mis le doigt dans ce sujet, on en sortira que guérit !
Je te souhaite beaucoup trop d’amour, tu le mérites d’ailleurs, je t’ai rencontré et on a papoté et j’ai senti cela .. tu es un amour et allah meak ❤ saches que tu n’es pas la seule, énorme pensée 🙏🏻
Et cela ne veut pas dire que je donne des conseils, j’ai juste partagé mon POV. Je sais que tu en as conscience et tu vas t’en sortir mais on a tous besoin d’entendre ce genre de mots de la parts des gens 🙏🏻
mnin tb9ay tgoli chi klmat s3ab b anglais c mieux tarjmiha bash kolshi ifham
God Help You
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I love you so much❤️🫶🏻
Bruh ❤
💜💜💜
oumaima beautiful soul 🤍🌹✨
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Bezzaf dial l hub 🤍
🥺❤️❤️😍😍😍😍
❤❤❤🇲🇦💯
💫🤍
Hi, you try and fail, and you try again and again to create some theories to find the real way. To be honest, you're just wasting time and your life. Try to learn more about Islam and find some real Muslims. I swear they are different, and the definition of love in Islam is truly incredible.
You have a lot again. I guess. You deserve the love you give, but this, you already know.
Gave *
Makanch alii dir had video w nti mrawna.
Hello , just an honest opinion , you lost the biggest love of your life , and you're just afraid to live this lost again by openning up to someone else. love comes in different forms , and your father's love will never be met, lah yrhmo ... losing a parent is never easy lah ysbrk .
Can you please talk about living with toxic parents 🥹
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