Very sad story. I know you are going through alot Asantewaa but I tell you that future which we can't see is still bright no matter the presence state. You are crying today because you are in a trail by fire but always remember you'll never get burnt till it goes off.
And some questions I want to ask Asantewaa has been abused and I’m so sorry for her pain She’s 24 years old When it started she was young but after age 20, she watched tv, social media Did she never research about what was happening to her to find a situation For people going through this pls research about this There are organisations out there ready to help Asantewaa pls be strong everything will be fine
I was a sickle cell person, when ever I have crises , I couldn't do anything and my Dad had to bath me since i was staying with my Dad only , but he never find me attractive, sometimes after bathing , I run to the room naked to clean up my self but my dad never touched me for once
This history make me remember when my brother wife call me that my brother is to close to her daughter and she is feeling bad and the woman was saying the world is full of devil
She speaks really well....I think she should continue counselling, get rid of the child, change her environment and just do away from family for till she heals
@INOJAL'S WORLD👩🦰 exactly I wonder what they see in him. i'm beginning to think this program it's scripted and he has to oppose with the motion cos kwasias3m nkuaa everyday
This is such a sad story, I suggest we should encourage and promote sex education more, ...right from our basic schools to help train the minds of every child even from some evil parents such as Asantewaa's dad.
Normally I don't leave comments beneath videos, but with this one I knew I couldn't since so many things in this episode irritated me. First of all, it seemed as though the presenter, Miss Nancy, had a highly prejudicial attitude against Asantewaa without even realizing it. You must realize that this situation persisted for at least ten years, if not longer, and that she would have been subjected to a great deal of psychological harm. The fact that she has now started to find her father attractive should alert you to the extent of the harm this man has caused her, and she shouldn't be condemned for it. I was not pleased with Miss Nancy's constant criticism of Asantweaa for finding her father handsome since it came off as quite judgmental. Personally, I think that these things may have a lot of traumatic repercussions. Even Asantewaa being on national television must have required a lot of bravery, therefore they need to have been more tactful in how they spoke about it, especially given that they knew she could hear everything they said. Once again on Miss Nancy, when she was asked if Asantewaa's partner was aware of the situation, she said that he wasn't and remarked, "all the better people." What improvement will that make? Asantewaa was quite clear in her desire for a fresh start, which also entails being open about all that transpired. How is she going to manage her life while knowing that her lover is unaware of it and might one day learn about it? Knowing that her lover is unaware of this and might one day learn about it, how will she continue to live with that? People who experience situations like this should never feel pushed to talk but rather speak on their own time, but I do believe that Asantewaa needs to be honest if she wants the fresh start she not only needs but also truly deserves. Let's face it, some guys would not feel comfortable learning that their significant other underwent both an abortion and something similar. There is no doubt that her lover has to be informed. It will be unfair to him since he might not want to date someone who might have gone through something similar, and you can't really blame him if things don't work out if he learns about this in the future. She has a long healing process ahead of her. I wish her the very best!
thank you!! the guy who made the comment about stockholm syndrome knows what he’s talking about. she’s going to be subjected to finding her dad attractive it’s all she knows
I hope that this situation has been reported to the police. Even though it was a confession this isn't something you keep a secret. Hope he has been reported.
I think the dad has programmed her to be thinking wat she was doing was not wrong and is normal for a father to touch her daughter The father need to be arrested… I hope her boyfriend doesn’t break up with her
The father is all to blame for sexually abusing his teenage daughter. This is evil and immoral and it is incest. He is a criminal taking advantage of a teenage girl instead of protecting his child. The girl is innocent and what she required was parental love. The responsibility fully falls with the father. He is an animal who took advantage of his kid.
What does the station do for these victims Do they just talk about it and let them go or do they help them go through counseling till they’re fine? What’s the the purpose of the huge panel, especially those from date rush? I don’t understand that part it seems to me they’re gaslighting this serious situation for views and that doesn’t sit well with me. Anyways probably it’s just me. The man saying she’s a bad girl honestly doesn’t know a thing about psychology or human behavior and this bring me back to my question, what is the criteria for choosing the panel🤦♀️🤦♀️
I think they provide counsellors for them, try and sort the situation. Yeah the man who keeps calling her a bad girl is sooo wrong. A child who got introduced to sex at the age of 14 will definitely get used to it. Especially if she's told never to tell anyone.
Men like this need to be jailed. It’s simple. Ppl are really abusing their kids sexually which is really disgusting 🤮! All the trauma! The fact that most men think they have power over women’s body is baffling! How can you be sexually attractive to your own kid.
There was no way she could tell any family...I had a similar experience with my own Uncle at age about 9, 10 till i realized it was wrong...my mom is late and my father has never been in our lives. When i finally mentioned it to my grandmom, I was sent out of home to live on de streets and no family asked my whereabouts....slept at a beach with no work till i found myself in a town and went to enrol myself in de university as a degree nurse...was going thru hell to pay my fees and even now dat i have completed i have still not been able to graduate cos I owe too much fees and can't go back to my family for help...all i keep asking myself is "what made me even open up"!
@@yvonneoduro1804 Yh...people judge things de wrong way especially when its got to do with "family". I managed to go thru the university with the fees issue by hiding to write exams and all that and cos of my experience where my own family sent me out of our family house for opening up, der was no way I was going to ever mention anything about "family" anywhere cos of my fear of being judged by whichever group of persons i mentioned it to...there is more to "family" rape issues than just judging the victims
May God hv mercy upon us,😭😭😭😭 I was once a victim of that, my cousin use to sleep with me when I was 16yrs I was staying with his mum I get pregnant, I was a virgin at the time this guy treat to kill me if i tell anyone even this mum I was afraid until I got to know am carry his baby so my anuty called me one day,she said who is responsible for ur pregnancy I told her is her son😭😭😭😭 they arrest him and abort the pregnancy,till now I hate my cousin.
It’s so sad n unfortunate Asantewaa really needs counseling a lot.The father should be sent to a psychiatrist for check up if not the father might be using her for some ritual ,a lot is happening of late n anything can be possible.She can’t be blamed if she finds her dad attractive cos he has been sleeping with her definitely there is going to be a bond between them now.Eventhough he put fear in her but the fear will grow into love which is in the wrong way.Her mum also has her share in this situation she was busily chasing money leaving your husband to bath your daughter what do u expect definitely this is the aftermath.The family members shouldn’t be involved cos it’s a total disgrace if they want to inform them just a few n trustworthy ones cos Asantewaa’s life is at stack now.Stigmatization of the society is waiting for her if they find out.This can lead to suicide.Regarding the unborn child it’s a whole issue the best thing is to get rid of it n start afresh but she should tell her boyfriend if he truly loves her he would stay if not she should move on with her life better days ahead.She should continue to pray n ask forgiveness always.
I think what the Asantewa should’ve done is to talk to her mom whenever she comes back or run away from home to one of her family members 🤷🏻♀️ but staying home with her dad since she was 🤦🏻♀️till date👇🏼🤔🤔🤔
Dear she won’t believe her. I know a mother that knew her husband was abusing their 10yr old son sexually n chose not to say a word just protect her marriage. Some even get threatened. It’s hard for them to come out to seek for help. The society will tag them with negative names so they fear.
The issue is not about phones or social media. It’s about building the morality do your child such that even in using that phone, they know the right thing to use the phone for. Even if you’re 20 and you’re using a phone and you want to use it for something bad you still will. You’re complaining about 14 to 16 years? People started using mobile phones earlier in other countries and they were still able to maximize the use of it. The world is evolving, we actually need technology for a lot of things. So train the child in the right way so that when they are using that phone, they use it for the right things. Thank you!
This idea of father and daughter tight relationship and closeness I have never been very comfortable with it. I sincerely have my reservations. People can't be trusted even spouses and daughter or sons.
Dear TV3, with all due respect please don't allow people like the guy in shades on such shows. I don't even know the words to use to describe him. Such people and behavior are the reasons why victims like this don't want to come out. We are talking about a child, a 14-year-old who is still considered a minor by law and a fully grown man and not just any man but her own father, why on earth will you blame the child. His comments are really appalling and sickening.
Shit so sad 😢 bruh I think sm body needs a paternity test cos I don’t think their first degree blood related there’s sm thing fishy about the fatherhood. I hope she gets better physiologically and I recommend sm social activity to distract her thoughts and sorrows.
I cannot believe that guy in red shirt actually called the victim a bad girl and was not kicked out of the show. Unbelievable to call a child who was groomed amd abused as a bad girl. How dare him?
There's nothing wrong with a father giving his daughter everything she needs if he can afford. It's also chaotic for a mother to be questioning a biological father why he gets too close to his daughter. Don't fathers have any right to bring their daughters close to themselves? In other words, are we saying that if a mother is also close to her son or daughter, they are having sexual relations? In normal societies and good religious upbringing homes, these kind of stories do not exist. Because I trust myself, The problem is that: 1. Many people are uncultured these days 2. The so-called father is mentally sick 3. Asantewa should quickly abort the pregnancy before it gets 3 months because, sin does not correct sin. Abortion in this circumstance is acceptable. It is not only abortion that God hates. He hates incest more than abortion. Sins can sometimes occur in chains. You cannot perceive a pregnancy from incest as being a better sin than a baby born to his/her grandfather.
so in a nutshell the guy in shades supports abuse because all he's concerned about is that asantewaa is a bad girl...... between the ages of 14 and 16 you expect her to know something about sex..? aside that this is her father who's always there for her , because her mother isn't always available or have enough time to spend with her which even creates an attachment between her and her father . that being said how on earth will she tell her mother who doesn't give her attention that her father sleeps with her?????
FACT 1: The man is wrong as he abused the kid. FACT 2: After she became an adult, she has the conscience to refuse the wrong act. Why did she allow the wrong to persist all this long?
U must understand it wasnt easy especially when the abuser was her own dad who was paying school fees,feeding ,clothing etc.her whole livelihood depended on him .
@@adizaabubakar1554 she has a conscience yes, but remember sex is addictive and she’s had it with her dad for a long time now to the point that it’s now normal m. Why are you not talking about her father stopping the cat but rather Asantewaa. Or now the man can’t stop?
Telling a woman to abort is morally wrong because it will leave her psychologically disturbed for the rest of her life. She should keep the child and give it for adoption to give the baby a chance to live. Nobody has the right to take another person's life and it's murder.
The guy in the glasses dey bore me....Abortion is a sin na having sex with your daughter isn't....Ain't they the same parents that taught her the christianity Madam abort the child to avoid future hatred
If the beautiful ladies who are seated on show will confess if they wouldn't marry or date some older men who are willing to buy them whatever they want, ( car, house, phone they never had) will they consider them as their fathers or they will carry on. We should think about this, most ladies don't know what they want in life. Some of the ladies will seat at the show saying different things but some of them will be dating older men who are old enough to be their fathers, as I said most 90 percent of ladies in this world don't know to want what they want, went it comes to relationships.
Ugh this guy unless he is planted is ugh ….seriously girls if today!!!! When will we stop blaming women for a males inability to not act on their inappropriate sexual urges! It is not her fault!!!!!!
Am not signing up for the man who has been sleeping with her daughter but just making a suggestion, what about the ladies who have been sleeping, and marrying older men while we don't find any negative thoughts about it because they have money, their parents accept because of wealth
If the man had gone in for any young lady other than his own daughter, I don’t think it would have been a topic for discussion ..so please don’t bring this up
If the man had gone in for any young lady other than his own daughter, I don’t think it would have been a topic for discussion ..so please don’t bring this up
This episode was not in anyway therapeutic. I'm sorry to say this, but you guys didn't help her in the right way. This is a matter of mind block, a distasteful situation. And you guys were all chatty and blaming her. That guy in shades in this situation was very very annoying and had no sense of mature reasoning. Asantewaa is not in anyway at fault, I don't believe any of you have been in a situation where your body overcomes your sense of judgement. She should abort the baby, and report the father to be arrested. No Man in his right sense will abuse his own daughter to this level. A mature family should support her without disclosing her identity. Foolish Men who call themselves Father's. God will punish him
The other guy in the red shirt was making a very good point. Was the mother away forever??? She could have confided in somebody. She liked it, cos of those gifts.
No the man in red is wrong. Asantewaa is not a bad girl. She was 14 -16 years and at that age she was obviously an adolescent. The body undergoes changes. Both emotionally, physchologically and sexually. So therefore she needed guidance. How can you say she was a bad girl? She’s not the bad one here. It’s her father!!. Why are people quick to berate women instantly. The man in red never said that the man is a bad father
Stop judging her to make it easy for others to come out, either it's sweet, big, six packs and etc I not relevant, deal with the case at hand thank you.
@@amsy6832 if you don't know ask any psychologist he will tell you this kind of garbage so called show do more harm than good, or Google it look how jerry springer show and other pathetic shows have damaged Americans mostly black people minds, you mentioned me thus naive and demonic on your part culturally and ethically we are purest and moreover I'm a Muslim we don't entertain devilish character
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Asantewa it is well. Pray to God, seek forgiveness and allow God to lead you everyday of your life. You are a very strong young lady!
Sad story
Mother's let show much love care and advice our duagthers
Exactly, sometimes moms are careless
Very sad story. I know you are going through alot Asantewaa but I tell you that future which we can't see is still bright no matter the presence state. You are crying today because you are in a trail by fire but always remember you'll never get burnt till it goes off.
It is because of people like the guy in shades that many people especially kids are unable to come out.
Can you imagine!
Please dont bring that man again
Ah!
@@judymarco6293 Yes, He's just defending men in all situations
I can't stand that man. He is irritating. I don't understand why he keeps coming to the show
He is so out of touch. He constanly defends males and demonizes females. Extremely biased against women. He adds nothing to the show.
And some questions I want to ask
Asantewaa has been abused and I’m so sorry for her pain
She’s 24 years old
When it started she was young but after age 20, she watched tv, social media
Did she never research about what was happening to her to find a situation
For people going through this pls research about this
There are organisations out there ready to help
Asantewaa pls be strong everything will be fine
I was a sickle cell person, when ever I have crises , I couldn't do anything and my Dad had to bath me since i was staying with my Dad only , but he never find me attractive, sometimes after bathing , I run to the room naked to clean up my self but my dad never touched me for once
I love this counselor ❤️😘
The father must bear all the liabilities, he is so charlatan to soar such a mysterious art
Am loving this already but so touching
Hmm this is a serious situation and it will takes her a lot for her to come out from that situation. 😢😭😪
I don't want to see this man in red in the show again. He's rather causing more pain to the girl
This history make me remember when my brother wife call me that my brother is to close to her daughter and she is feeling bad and the woman was saying the world is full of devil
She speaks really well....I think she should continue counselling, get rid of the child, change her environment and just do away from family for till she heals
I nearly cried 😢.......I imagined if it was me,if I was in this situation,what would I do ?
The man in shades don't need to come back on this program again. He doesn't have sympathy. Maybe he's also into it
Most people up there giving suggestions need to learn more human beings
i support, that man there always find a way to defend the men
That guy doesn’t need to be on the show again!!! Very disrespectful to Asantewa for the condition she finds herself.
The guy in shades
honestly he's very sick in the head
@INOJAL'S WORLD👩🦰 exactly
I wonder what they see in him.
i'm beginning to think this program it's scripted and he has to oppose with the motion cos kwasias3m nkuaa everyday
Pls Asantewaa should remove the pregnancy. Counsellor is right there's no need for knowing who's the owner of the pregnancy. Thank you.
This is such a sad story, I suggest we should encourage and promote sex education more, ...right from our basic schools to help train the minds of every child even from some evil parents such as Asantewaa's dad.
Normally I don't leave comments beneath videos, but with this one I knew I couldn't since so many things in this episode irritated me.
First of all, it seemed as though the presenter, Miss Nancy, had a highly prejudicial attitude against Asantewaa without even realizing it. You must realize that this situation persisted for at least ten years, if not longer, and that she would have been subjected to a great deal of psychological harm. The fact that she has now started to find her father attractive should alert you to the extent of the harm this man has caused her, and she shouldn't be condemned for it.
I was not pleased with Miss Nancy's constant criticism of Asantweaa for finding her father handsome since it came off as quite judgmental.
Personally, I think that these things may have a lot of traumatic repercussions. Even Asantewaa being on national television must have required a lot of bravery, therefore they need to have been more tactful in how they spoke about it, especially given that they knew she could hear everything they said.
Once again on Miss Nancy, when she was asked if Asantewaa's partner was aware of the situation, she said that he wasn't and remarked, "all the better people." What improvement will that make? Asantewaa was quite clear in her desire for a fresh start, which also entails being open about all that transpired. How is she going to manage her life while knowing that her lover is unaware of it and might one day learn about it? Knowing that her lover is unaware of this and might one day learn about it, how will she continue to live with that? People who experience situations like this should never feel pushed to talk but rather speak on their own time, but I do believe that Asantewaa needs to be honest if she wants the fresh start she not only needs but also truly deserves.
Let's face it, some guys would not feel comfortable learning that their significant other underwent both an abortion and something similar. There is no doubt that her lover has to be informed. It will be unfair to him since he might not want to date someone who might have gone through something similar, and you can't really blame him if things don't work out if he learns about this in the future.
She has a long healing process ahead of her. I wish her the very best!
thank you!! the guy who made the comment about stockholm syndrome knows what he’s talking about. she’s going to be subjected to finding her dad attractive it’s all she knows
I hope that this situation has been reported to the police. Even though it was a confession this isn't something you keep a secret. Hope he has been reported.
This man calling this girl a bad girl is part of the reason why people don’t come out to tell when something like this happens to them smh
I think the dad has programmed her to be thinking wat she was doing was not wrong and is normal for a father to touch her daughter
The father need to be arrested… I hope her boyfriend doesn’t break up with her
This is often the grooming tactic of Pedophiles.
The father is all to blame for sexually abusing his teenage daughter. This is evil and immoral and it is incest. He is a criminal taking advantage of a teenage girl instead of protecting his child. The girl is innocent and what she required was parental love. The responsibility fully falls with the father. He is an animal who took advantage of his kid.
I cant continue watching because of the man in shades!
Jeez
And true, it seems he's talking from experience 🤦♀️
What does the station do for these victims
Do they just talk about it and let them go or do they help them go through counseling till they’re fine?
What’s the the purpose of the huge panel, especially those from date rush?
I don’t understand that part it seems to me they’re gaslighting this serious situation for views and that doesn’t sit well with me.
Anyways probably it’s just me.
The man saying she’s a bad girl honestly doesn’t know a thing about psychology or human behavior and this bring me back to my question, what is the criteria for choosing the panel🤦♀️🤦♀️
I think they provide counsellors for them, try and sort the situation.
Yeah the man who keeps calling her a bad girl is sooo wrong.
A child who got introduced to sex at the age of 14 will definitely get used to it. Especially if she's told never to tell anyone.
Exactly!!! The man is soo wrong and he’s still insisting ah🤣😢. Why do they bring such people on the show. He needs to be open minded.
That guy is just ignorant yet he’s the loudest
My God...Asantewaa’s situation is toooo bad.
Sorry for her😢😢😢
Mis Nancy i have a bitter story to tell, please help me get off some of the pain.
I love this show. hmmmm😪
Good show
Men like this need to be jailed. It’s simple. Ppl are really abusing their kids sexually which is really disgusting 🤮! All the trauma! The fact that most men think they have power over women’s body is baffling! How can you be sexually attractive to your own kid.
There was no way she could tell any family...I had a similar experience with my own Uncle at age about 9, 10 till i realized it was wrong...my mom is late and my father has never been in our lives. When i finally mentioned it to my grandmom, I was sent out of home to live on de streets and no family asked my whereabouts....slept at a beach with no work till i found myself in a town and went to enrol myself in de university as a degree nurse...was going thru hell to pay my fees and even now dat i have completed i have still not been able to graduate cos I owe too much fees and can't go back to my family for help...all i keep asking myself is "what made me even open up"!
😳😘🙏 WOW
@@yvonneoduro1804 Yh...people judge things de wrong way especially when its got to do with "family". I managed to go thru the university with the fees issue by hiding to write exams and all that and cos of my experience where my own family sent me out of our family house for opening up, der was no way I was going to ever mention anything about "family" anywhere cos of my fear of being judged by whichever group of persons i mentioned it to...there is more to "family" rape issues than just judging the victims
The counselor should come and read this comment and those saying Asantewaa could’ve confided in her mother
Please Celestina, God will see you through!!!
This man doesn't understand when you are told not to tell anybody
Very sad story 😞..I don't think it's social media but training
Tv3 pls dnt bring the guy with the shades on anymore pls
Huum this is not easy oo😭
Tv3, cld u blur the body parts u re showing. Its risky pls.
Why is this Ms. Nancy speaking in this exaggerated voice? It makes it hard to take her seriously when she speaks 😂
Mis Nancy please how do I get in touch with you? I need help.
May God hv mercy upon us,😭😭😭😭 I was once a victim of that, my cousin use to sleep with me when I was 16yrs I was staying with his mum I get pregnant, I was a virgin at the time this guy treat to kill me if i tell anyone even this mum I was afraid until I got to know am carry his baby so my anuty called me one day,she said who is responsible for ur pregnancy I told her is her son😭😭😭😭 they arrest him and abort the pregnancy,till now I hate my cousin.
Hmmmm
So sorry dear for the pain u went through 🙏🏻🙏🏻
May God heal your heart. It’s people like you who should be on the panel instead of inviting people who can’t relate and can’t be objective enough
@@katemcmens4507 tnx mum
Hmmm. Why abort ?. God gives children. They killed a human being
Tv3: Protecting her identity
Asantewaa: Provides name, age and family🤦🏾♀️
Let's link up on WhatsApp
I don't think that info (name, age) she gave was correct tho lol
@@dr_enoch_parle then why provide it? I mean I get providing a pseudonym but why include age, and family?🤷🏾♀️
Say it again
They can say the age but am against saying the name.
It’s so sad n unfortunate Asantewaa really needs counseling a lot.The father should be sent to a psychiatrist for check up if not the father might be using her for some ritual ,a lot is happening of late n anything can be possible.She can’t be blamed if she finds her dad attractive cos he has been sleeping with her definitely there is going to be a bond between them now.Eventhough he put fear in her but the fear will grow into love which is in the wrong way.Her mum also has her share in this situation she was busily chasing money leaving your husband to bath your daughter what do u expect definitely this is the aftermath.The family members shouldn’t be involved cos it’s a total disgrace if they want to inform them just a few n trustworthy ones cos Asantewaa’s life is at stack now.Stigmatization of the society is waiting for her if they find out.This can lead to suicide.Regarding the unborn child it’s a whole issue the best thing is to get rid of it n start afresh but she should tell her boyfriend if he truly loves her he would stay if not she should move on with her life better days ahead.She should continue to pray n ask forgiveness always.
Her boyfriend will also feel pain cos asantewaa didn’t tell her truth… now if the guy is fully in love with her how is he going to feel
Maybe he’s not her biological daughter but she is not aware oooo
Either way he is a child rapist!
I think what the Asantewa should’ve done is to talk to her mom whenever she comes back or run away from home to one of her family members 🤷🏻♀️ but staying home with her dad since she was 🤦🏻♀️till date👇🏼🤔🤔🤔
Dear she won’t believe her. I know a mother that knew her husband was abusing their 10yr old son sexually n chose not to say a word just protect her marriage. Some even get threatened. It’s hard for them to come out to seek for help. The society will tag them with negative names so they fear.
@@TalesbyKika ei in this Ghana?... chale
@@smartbiney801 Yea please. And the father was a Pastor at the time 😓😭. His own son
Okay so we heard the whole issue but me something baffles me ,the lady ok so the lady in question she is 26 years my question is that
Why is Medical in this show lol .. one wearing glasses dey vex me
Wait, I can't actually believe what the man is saying. We don't need people like him in our environment. I am very disappointed in him.
I thinke man in e wone shirt is making a good point so u people shld give him e chance to talk
Please what time is it shown on TV3
Saturdays at 9pm
Sad story 😞
The issue is not about phones or social media. It’s about building the morality do your child such that even in using that phone, they know the right thing to use the phone for. Even if you’re 20 and you’re using a phone and you want to use it for something bad you still will. You’re complaining about 14 to 16 years? People started using mobile phones earlier in other countries and they were still able to maximize the use of it. The world is evolving, we actually need technology for a lot of things. So train the child in the right way so that when they are using that phone, they use it for the right things. Thank you!
This idea of father and daughter tight relationship and closeness I have never been very comfortable with it. I sincerely have my reservations. People can't be trusted even spouses and daughter or sons.
My goodness, I’m dumbfounded. I pray she becomes psychologically stable.
I’m not sure the baby belong to the dad because the dad has been with her for more years n she was not pregnant so I think is for the boyfriend
Dear TV3, with all due respect please don't allow people like the guy in shades on such shows. I don't even know the words to use to describe him. Such people and behavior are the reasons why victims like this don't want to come out. We are talking about a child, a 14-year-old who is still considered a minor by law and a fully grown man and not just any man but her own father, why on earth will you blame the child. His comments are really appalling and sickening.
I was disappointed by his comment
The man has a point 👉
Shit so sad 😢 bruh I think sm body needs a paternity test cos I don’t think their first degree blood related there’s sm thing fishy about the fatherhood. I hope she gets better physiologically and I recommend sm social activity to distract her thoughts and sorrows.
I cannot believe that guy in red shirt actually called the victim a bad girl and was not kicked out of the show. Unbelievable to call a child who was groomed amd abused as a bad girl. How dare him?
Stop blaming the victim pls she is just a victim
I've been looking for this comment... It's annoying
@@_Diaryofwealth so annoying my dear
There's nothing wrong with a father giving his daughter everything she needs if he can afford. It's also chaotic for a mother to be questioning a biological father why he gets too close to his daughter. Don't fathers have any right to bring their daughters close to themselves? In other words, are we saying that if a mother is also close to her son or daughter, they are having sexual relations?
In normal societies and good religious upbringing homes, these kind of stories do not exist. Because I trust myself, The problem is that:
1. Many people are uncultured these days
2. The so-called father is mentally sick
3. Asantewa should quickly abort the pregnancy before it gets 3 months because, sin does not correct sin. Abortion in this circumstance is acceptable. It is not only abortion that God hates. He hates incest more than abortion. Sins can sometimes occur in chains. You cannot perceive a pregnancy from incest as being a better sin than a baby born to his/her grandfather.
The lady with the white hair nu,did she not appear on daterush?
Too right I could spot her immediately. She's good 👍
@@grandmayounglady2341 oh ok
Thank u
I thought as much
Yeah. Salsha Mary!!
so in a nutshell the guy in shades supports abuse because all he's concerned about is that asantewaa is a bad girl...... between the ages of 14 and 16 you expect her to know something about sex..? aside that this is her father who's always there for her , because her mother isn't always available or have enough time to spend with her which even creates an attachment between her and her father . that being said how on earth will she tell her mother who doesn't give her attention that her father sleeps with her?????
Exactly my point!!
FACT 1: The man is wrong as he abused the kid. FACT 2: After she became an adult, she has the conscience to refuse the wrong act.
Why did she allow the wrong to persist all this long?
Exactly my point
U must understand it wasnt easy especially when the abuser was her own dad who was paying school fees,feeding ,clothing etc.her whole livelihood depended on him .
@@RTruth-el3ub isn’t that supposed to be his duty as a dad?
@@adizaabubakar1554 she has a conscience yes, but remember sex is addictive and she’s had it with her dad for a long time now to the point that it’s now normal m. Why are you not talking about her father stopping the cat but rather Asantewaa. Or now the man can’t stop?
She was raped when she became legal!!!
Please what time this program starts and which day
Saturdays@ 10:0pm
I'm speechless...jesus christ 😪😪😪the man is devil
Telling a woman to abort is morally wrong because it will leave her psychologically disturbed for the rest of her life. She should keep the child and give it for adoption to give the baby a chance to live. Nobody has the right to take another person's life and it's murder.
That guy in glasses needs to be out of there. He is so inconsiderate. Everyone is talking so much sense and he’s there saying rubbish
The Abedneho boy nu no sense
A majority of this panel is immature and low in wisdom
Very sad story
How come she lost her virginity and she did tell any friends or her mother. Aahhh
Too emotional
The guy in the glasses dey bore me....Abortion is a sin na having sex with your daughter isn't....Ain't they the same parents that taught her the christianity
Madam abort the child to avoid future hatred
This is Soo sad
Madam Asantewa forgive yrsef n make sure u abott the baby since u don't know who is the father. Pls walk away from yr father he is evil paaa
If the beautiful ladies who are seated on show will confess if they wouldn't marry or date some older men who are willing to buy them whatever they want, ( car, house, phone they never had) will they consider them as their fathers or they will carry on. We should think about this, most ladies don't know what they want in life. Some of the ladies will seat at the show saying different things but some of them will be dating older men who are old enough to be their fathers, as I said most 90 percent of ladies in this world don't know to want what they want, went it comes to relationships.
That is rubbish. I am in an age gap relationship has got nothing to do with trauma or abuse or financial dependency
The guy in shades was intentionally trying to make the show balanced
39:30 ahh but you can give birth again erhhn.. the boyfriend and the girl can have a baby next year and just abort this one
Ugh this guy unless he is planted is ugh ….seriously girls if today!!!! When will we stop blaming women for a males inability to not act on their inappropriate sexual urges! It is not her fault!!!!!!
Am not signing up for the man who has been sleeping with her daughter but just making a suggestion, what about the ladies who have been sleeping, and marrying older men while we don't find any negative thoughts about it because they have money, their parents accept because of wealth
At what point did these scenarios become comfortable for you to even bring up and discuss?
If the man had gone in for any young lady other than his own daughter, I don’t think it would have been a topic for discussion ..so please don’t bring this up
If the man had gone in for any young lady other than his own daughter, I don’t think it would have been a topic for discussion ..so please don’t bring this up
The topic is INCEST not age gap relationships between consenting adults.
Man in glasses is not suppose to be on the panel next time
This episode was not in anyway therapeutic. I'm sorry to say this, but you guys didn't help her in the right way. This is a matter of mind block, a distasteful situation. And you guys were all chatty and blaming her. That guy in shades in this situation was very very annoying and had no sense of mature reasoning.
Asantewaa is not in anyway at fault, I don't believe any of you have been in a situation where your body overcomes your sense of judgement. She should abort the baby, and report the father to be arrested. No Man in his right sense will abuse his own daughter to this level. A mature family should support her without disclosing her identity. Foolish Men who call themselves Father's. God will punish him
Sexual education should be taught in schools
Abortion will haunt her for the rest of her life. So the lesser evil is to give the child for adoption.
The other guy in the red shirt was making a very good point. Was the mother away forever??? She could have confided in somebody. She liked it, cos of those gifts.
This is bad may God almighty help her
No the man in red is wrong. Asantewaa is not a bad girl. She was 14 -16 years and at that age she was obviously an adolescent. The body undergoes changes. Both emotionally, physchologically and sexually. So therefore she needed guidance. How can you say she was a bad girl? She’s not the bad one here. It’s her father!!. Why are people quick to berate women instantly. The man in red never said that the man is a bad father
Stop judging her to make it easy for others to come out, either it's sweet, big, six packs and etc I not relevant, deal with the case at hand thank you.
hmmmm
The man in spectacles is too judgemental.. please change him
That guy talking plenty is very annoying
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This man is not correct
This kind of show should be banned or abolished in Ghana and Africa as a whole, it's wreck communities
How does this wreck communities when this is supposed to create an awareness?
@@adwoasandra346 very bad idea ask Americans they will tell you how jerry springer and co shows have wrecked black families
You must be part of it
I guees you've been sleeping with your daughter.
It's educative.
@@amsy6832 if you don't know ask any psychologist he will tell you this kind of garbage so called show do more harm than good, or Google it look how jerry springer show and other pathetic shows have damaged Americans mostly black people minds, you mentioned me thus naive and demonic on your part culturally and ethically we are purest and moreover I'm a Muslim we don't entertain devilish character