"If you're not ready for therapy...therapy can do harm" A WORD! People want to heal, but sometimes they aren't ready for the amount of work, and the intense feelings that can sometimes come with the healing journey.
16:49 - I JUST told my therapist this a couple sessions ago. There have been a few times where I apologized for the trauma dumping and she gently reminded me that talking and having emotions is part of therapy lol. The struggle to try to 'win' and be 'good' at therapy is so hard to unlearn. Therapy is so much work, and I agree that majority of the sessions, you will not feel good after. It is one of the hardest things to do but it is so helpful if you let it be helpful. Its a journey. This was such a great conversation!
I have definitely been guilty of self sabotaging relationships because l'm afraid of being hurt, eventhough the relationship could very well be going well. I do believe therapy isnt for everyone . I also believe that self reflection happens at different stages and moments for each person. This was soooo good.
There are different needs, emotions, traumas and other negative and/or positive behaviors and issues we as humans need help to tackle that traditional talk therapy is just isn’t enough or appropriate for certain people. Traditional therapy may benefit a lot of people but art therapy, group therapy, acupuncture, aromatherapy, etc may be better for others. Variety should be accessible to everyone. It shouldn’t be limited to just talking to a person at one sitting.
Thank you. The last time I went to therapy she literally sat down & listened to me divulge all my trauma as if she was at the movies, like she was entertained to find out more but she didn’t guide me or accompany me in any way. And then I have to pay? Annoyed.
Uugghhhh I'm going through it with my therapist. Sometimes I wonder if therapy From certain people can cause harm, or if I'm just not ready to do the work.
First of all I loved this video and Jade you are so great tackling these serious topics. Second of all, Jayden crawling across the floor trying to stay out of the shot😂😂😂
Thank you so much for talking about the environment Jade! There are so many climate deniers who think that it's all a conspiracy and Bill Gates is out to get them and it's SO great to hear your support for the environment. We all live on this planet, we might as well love it! Let's continue to call our representatives!
Let me fix this title every therapist isn’t for everyone. And timing is very important to getting though trauma. Working with the right person can do wonders and work with the wrongs can do extreme damage. So the question is how do you find the right therapist? You should be doing your own healing first and then when you get to that wall you seek help.
I keep looking at ur nails! They look great. Ass tomboy straight girl struggle with keeping my nails looking fire without attaching faux nails. Can u share nail routine?
Figure out the following maybe: What you think getting married will say about you Who taught you that Do you believe that logic and is it healthy for you and why do you value that belief. That can help unpack some of your obsessive thinking.
Hey Jade! Ashley Gavin has been trying to reach u. Pls check ur emails & DMs. Thank you! PS. I am not part of her management lol. Just a huge fan of u both.
"If you're not ready for therapy...therapy can do harm" A WORD! People want to heal, but sometimes they aren't ready for the amount of work, and the intense feelings that can sometimes come with the healing journey.
16:49 - I JUST told my therapist this a couple sessions ago. There have been a few times where I apologized for the trauma dumping and she gently reminded me that talking and having emotions is part of therapy lol. The struggle to try to 'win' and be 'good' at therapy is so hard to unlearn. Therapy is so much work, and I agree that majority of the sessions, you will not feel good after. It is one of the hardest things to do but it is so helpful if you let it be helpful. Its a journey. This was such a great conversation!
100%!!
I have definitely been guilty of self sabotaging relationships because l'm afraid of being hurt, eventhough the relationship could very well be going well. I do believe therapy isnt for everyone . I also believe that self reflection happens at different stages and moments for each person. This was soooo good.
21:40 JAJAJAJA jayden trying to crawl out of the frame I cant 😂
Lol just saw that! Thanks for pointing it out. 🤣
plssssss i was trying so hard not to be seen
There are different needs, emotions, traumas and other negative and/or positive behaviors and issues we as humans need help to tackle that traditional talk therapy is just isn’t enough or appropriate for certain people. Traditional therapy may benefit a lot of people but art therapy, group therapy, acupuncture, aromatherapy, etc may be better for others. Variety should be accessible to everyone. It shouldn’t be limited to just talking to a person at one sitting.
All of those are covered under "Therapy"
Thank you. The last time I went to therapy she literally sat down & listened to me divulge all my trauma as if she was at the movies, like she was entertained to find out more but she didn’t guide me or accompany me in any way. And then I have to pay? Annoyed.
Yes, I’m 31.
try a different form of therapy like CBT
And when they say,
time is up, do you want to set another appointment
Janet's World thanks I’ll look it up.
haydee castillo likeeeee
Your content whether it’s here or the “Made You Looks” channel always sparks joy in my life. Thank you Jade❤️
Came to the comments to see if anyone pointed out their partner getting off the couch and crawling away so not to appear in the background.
Uugghhhh I'm going through it with my therapist. Sometimes I wonder if therapy From certain people can cause harm, or if I'm just not ready to do the work.
Maybe it's both? I think it's possible for it to be both. Hope it worked out tho.
“therapy is the new bbl” looooove that.
Bbls are actually harmful abs solely for anesthetics tho
Am i the only one that saw Jayden crawling in the background??? 21:40
LMAO
Me: watching this waiting for my therapy appointment.
First of all I loved this video and Jade you are so great tackling these serious topics. Second of all, Jayden crawling across the floor trying to stay out of the shot😂😂😂
I just had a thought that therapy may not be for everyone yesterday
Therapy is mad adaptable. And not every therapist will be a perfect fit.🤷🏿♀️
There are different types of therapies.
"I'm 35 years old"
???
"Bruh, what!?"
cannot compute
Love your channel, Jade. I laugh and learn all at the same time.
Thank you so much for talking about the environment Jade! There are so many climate deniers who think that it's all a conspiracy and Bill Gates is out to get them and it's SO great to hear your support for the environment. We all live on this planet, we might as well love it! Let's continue to call our representatives!
Love her energy. Hope I can find a therapist like that.
Let me fix this title every therapist isn’t for everyone. And timing is very important to getting though trauma. Working with the right person can do wonders and work with the wrongs can do extreme damage. So the question is how do you find the right therapist? You should be doing your own healing first and then when you get to that wall you seek help.
Umm no. The title doesn't need 'fixing'. lol
okay I LOVED this video. love how to the point and personable she is while speaking. excellent at communicating her points and perspective
considering therapy after a bunch of stuff that has happened and this was so helpful like wow perfect timing >< thank you jade and shani !! 💜💜
This is such an important topic! Thankyou for this content💙
I keep looking at ur nails! They look great. Ass tomboy straight girl struggle with keeping my nails looking fire without attaching faux nails. Can u share nail routine?
This was honestly a really useful conversation. Y'all are both so intelligent and made really interesting points I haven't heard before.
wait but that ad at the beginning 🤌🏼
Your partner in the back trying to stay out of the frame just killed me. 😂
Definitely looking for a therapist like this
Jade you are HILARIOUS 🤣🤣🤣 That ad intro🤦🏾♀️
bout to become a patreon today lol
One thing about jade fox, she gonna sponsor squarespace🤣🤣
A collab I never expected, but am absolutely ecstatic to see!
healing in action to our best ability.
I love Shani! A level collab
OMG I FINALLY FOUND YOU ! I USED TO WATCH YOU ALL THE TIMEEE OMG PLEASE REUPLOAD THE BET BE LIKE VIDEO THAT WAS MY FAVORITE 😩😩
Enjoying both of your Channels
How do I stop worrying about not getting married?
Figure out the following maybe:
What you think getting married will say about you
Who taught you that
Do you believe that logic and is it healthy for you and why do you value that belief.
That can help unpack some of your obsessive thinking.
I just love Shani!! Great team up!!
So excited to see this collab! Both you and Shani are fantastic 👩🍳😘🤌
Still watching, but I'm the only one that's low-key sad Jade's relationship with Squarespace as a sponsor is coming to an end?
Best promos ever!
I freaking love your energy. I'm Bi and my boyfriend is ok with it even though he is hetero, but he loves your energy too.
This was awesome
I appreciate you doing content like this Jade, keeping it real!
We love a bag getting queen .
YAAAAAAAASSSSS 💚 🦚 ❤️🔥
My therapy is mixing music
Sooooo good
Immediately signs up for Patreon lmaooo
The talking too much… lol
I feel like that whenever I’m talking at all 😂
OMG is it just me or do the therapist looks like Ambrosia Malbrough(TH-camr)????? Looool that’s why I clicked… good episode… still watching
loved this video a lot!!
The journalist voice 😂😂😂
I feel attacked & I’m fine with it.
Also, isn't it meta for Editing Jade to cut in Voice Over Jade from Patron Jade?
My name is Shaunice , and I need some therapy 🥴😅 what a coincidence
I just realized I was unsubscribed from your channel. So youtube don’t want me to have fun?
Muito bom!!!
Ahhhh!! Hi🥰
🌻
First?
I think u are !!!
Woohoo! My first first :) hahah
Hey Jade! Ashley Gavin has been trying to reach u. Pls check ur emails & DMs. Thank you! PS. I am not part of her management lol. Just a huge fan of u both.