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  • @shanicerallele2602
    @shanicerallele2602 4 ปีที่แล้ว +850

    "It's not us against each other. It's us against the problem". Wow I'm taking that tip for my marriage.

    • @aminaosman1490
      @aminaosman1490 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Shanice Rallele I need it down here too jst got into it with my husb. We all so sad now. Not talking for a whole day.!

    • @BriaBarrows
      @BriaBarrows 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Shanice Rallele this

    • @thandiweluluphiri5
      @thandiweluluphiri5 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      But sometimes a person can be a problem,some people have a very stubborn nature and are extremely inconsiderate be careful to differentiate sweety..if the person is the problem or the person caused a problem and wants to learn how to amend it.

    • @veronicaivanova
      @veronicaivanova 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That's so important!

    • @LethoHali
      @LethoHali 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Shanice Rallele same girl!

  • @karenb7724
    @karenb7724 4 ปีที่แล้ว +824

    “Yawl could love somebody but that doesn’t mean that he’s the one” yessss

    • @radiokilledthevideostar3329
      @radiokilledthevideostar3329 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      KAREN BAYRD a word

    • @gailhopkins5767
      @gailhopkins5767 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      AMEN! THANK U TELL IT!. GRACE TO ALL gh. Should be taught in homes, school's. U will have a better life if u can accept that as a true fact!.

    • @niquey8368
      @niquey8368 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      WORD! wasted 12yrs of my life. Looking to start over now with my 2 children.

    • @karenb7724
      @karenb7724 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Niquey I applaud the bravery ! Congrats 🎉 you’ve over come the hardest part: leaving! You’ll be fine!

    • @tparker8370
      @tparker8370 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      👀😁🤣 IT'S SOOOOOOOO TRUE GOD MAY HAVE OTHER PLANS, NOT OUR WILL BUT HIS ......OUR STEPS ARE ORDERED☝🏽 😉

  • @wendykakota2150
    @wendykakota2150 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1610

    Sounds like Tamera’s perfect weekend is quarantine lol

    • @rikanejose2611
      @rikanejose2611 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Right......lol 😆

    • @queenbutterfly4888
      @queenbutterfly4888 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Yerp!!! Mine too

    • @madisilver460
      @madisilver460 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Maaan, she is such a cancerian woman!😆😆😆 The differences of naps-omg, so on point.😊

    • @adamandtamerahousley7644
      @adamandtamerahousley7644 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      That's why IM happy!!!

    • @brenda808
      @brenda808 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Gosh i love you guys 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

  • @hunadimakgatho3403
    @hunadimakgatho3403 4 ปีที่แล้ว +208

    Kids these days are being raised in households where parents are open with each other and affectionate towards each other in front of their kids.. I LOVE IT.. raising kids who wont have to heal from their childhood❤️❤️

  • @riannas8351
    @riannas8351 4 ปีที่แล้ว +285

    “ Thats not a nap that’s a coma “ 😂😂😂😂 Adam is freakin hilarious!!

  • @donajean33
    @donajean33 4 ปีที่แล้ว +586

    Take it from a lady that’s been married 38 years.... never stop talking and never get mad at how the other one feels, everyone has a right to their feelings! After 38 years we still have work on it and the main thing is to never ever ever stop touching, kissing and making the other one feel wanted and loved intimately!

    • @aminaosman1490
      @aminaosman1490 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Jean Williams how abt the other person always feels he has a say to things even when is not needed; like he feels as I don’t have voice, he don’t appreciate in agreeing wit me in times of need of understanding, and he so negative certain times when I go to work and come back home jst. A minute late..Bow will you work that error when it come to love and touching and forgiving “some people will call it.”

    • @Ebunoluwa13
      @Ebunoluwa13 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@aminaosman1490 Therapy? Or if he has any sisters or girl friends that get along with you and you're close with, make a plan with them to act out your scenario and then see how he acts. People always act differently when they see things happening to lived ones even though they do the same cause they know it's wrong, then you can give him a reality check about your situation. You could also behave with hil like he does with you, as long as he doesn't hit you which is a no no. Hope this helps x

    • @jennymayashley
      @jennymayashley 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      wow now i love this advice thank you i'm in a early relationship of 2 1/2 years

    • @suem5213
      @suem5213 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      JennyMay Ashley My husband of 47 yrs passed away 4 yrs ago. I've always told my daughter and my daughter-in-law that in the big scheme of things those little things don't matter one bit. I bet that when a husband gets angry with his wife, most of the time they don't feel respect. Women need love, men need respect. You certainly don't have to be a doormat, but when you start fighting over something not important, go to him, put your arms around him and tell him what he means to you. That little spat will be dissolved! On the big things when you disagree with one another find a special place in the house where you can sit down with one another and discuss your points of view. Pray together! I promise you if you pray together over something you disagree over God will hear you both and provide a solution. Never fight in front of your children. Don't go to bed angry. And now abide faith, hope and live, these three; but the greatest of these is love. May God Bless your life and your marriage.

    • @ForzaTerra89
      @ForzaTerra89 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Jean Williams thats so hard to find

  • @Chipster724
    @Chipster724 4 ปีที่แล้ว +384

    5 minutes isn't a nap it's blinking😂😂

    • @fur7i236
      @fur7i236 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      🤣🤣🤣

    • @NaimahAltidore
      @NaimahAltidore 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      5 minutes, I need 5 hours...

    • @ligyampoh5104
      @ligyampoh5104 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      😂😂😂😂You've said it!

    • @beverlyada
      @beverlyada 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Soo true

    • @CSALayouts
      @CSALayouts 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Tiffani White 🤣🤣 FACTS

  • @DDJones-yi1pm
    @DDJones-yi1pm 4 ปีที่แล้ว +264

    I think...
    Good nap: 2 hrs
    Power nap: 45 mins
    Cat nap: 20 mins

    • @tameramowrytwo
      @tameramowrytwo  4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      agree!!

    • @jshelley5836
      @jshelley5836 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Cat naps are amazing if you have no time!!

    • @DDJones-yi1pm
      @DDJones-yi1pm 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@jshelley5836
      For sure, JShelley!

    • @DDJones-yi1pm
      @DDJones-yi1pm 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@tameramowrytwo
      I like to watch Tamara Housley: The Housley Life. Just viewed this week's episode a short while ago! 🙂

    • @amiegene6805
      @amiegene6805 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I agree with this.

  • @MariahTheKing
    @MariahTheKing 4 ปีที่แล้ว +241

    Tamera is literally a goddess! She’s so beautiful for one but, just as important, her energy just radiates love and understanding. I aspire to be like this!

  • @AnvyMusic1
    @AnvyMusic1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +288

    I don't even have a boyfriend, but I still appreciated the marriage advice. Thank you!

    • @roseslifestyle1583
      @roseslifestyle1583 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Me too😂🤣

    • @nclullaby1
      @nclullaby1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Same lol

    • @betzy7560
      @betzy7560 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Anvy de Tour yup

    • @youngbenfranksinatra
      @youngbenfranksinatra 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Me and you should change that together Anvy 👸👑 Know we can be a much hotter married couple and make us some beautiful children together 😉🛐💍💏🏩💒💐🌹🌼

    • @deashiapayton311
      @deashiapayton311 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Anvy de Tour same😭

  • @curlytelly4007
    @curlytelly4007 4 ปีที่แล้ว +638

    Aiden is such a mommy's boy in a cute way. Snuggled so close you can tell he loves his mommy so much. 😍

    • @charles1413
      @charles1413 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      bocause there is a non cute way to be a mama's boy?

    • @katherinegruber499
      @katherinegruber499 4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      He grew inside her for 9 months that’s why there’s such a strong bond. I’m 7 weeks 5 days pregnant. I can’t wait to have my baby 🥰

    • @queenbutterfly4888
      @queenbutterfly4888 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@charles1413 Yes! Like grown beta males

    • @Rokia2003
      @Rokia2003 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@charles1413 dude shut up lmao

    • @katherinegruber499
      @katherinegruber499 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Winter Bleu I don’t know what I’m having yet.

  • @het711
    @het711 4 ปีที่แล้ว +410

    The way Adam talks about your sleeping sounds like my husband 😂. Don’t hate on a girl that can get her nap on. They just jealous lol 😝 #napnap

    • @tameramowrytwo
      @tameramowrytwo  4 ปีที่แล้ว +156

      I didn't choose the nap life, the nap life chose me!

    • @rikanejose2611
      @rikanejose2611 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@tameramowrytwo 😆😆😆😆

    • @sharonereed81
      @sharonereed81 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@tameramowrytwo I LOVE IT!!!!!

    • @dominique8210
      @dominique8210 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      SAME WITH MINE LMAO. It is absolutely jealousy 🤣

    • @PeacefulAlli28
      @PeacefulAlli28 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      My husband calls me the nap Queen! I love it! ❤️

  • @AFFTFOMSICHTS
    @AFFTFOMSICHTS 4 ปีที่แล้ว +322

    The energy this family radiates just feels good.

    • @sarahmahlangu5895
      @sarahmahlangu5895 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      So wholesome ❤️❤️❤️

    • @indiaxlovee
      @indiaxlovee 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Amber FFTFOMSICHTS & feels Blessed

  • @abbagaylekitchen7815
    @abbagaylekitchen7815 4 ปีที่แล้ว +251

    This is my relationship goal. Can’t wait for god to send me my purpose partner. ❤️

  • @suem5213
    @suem5213 4 ปีที่แล้ว +89

    When God said, "do not be unequally yoked." He was telling us that in order to make things easier for us.

    • @ifejesu.adewunmi
      @ifejesu.adewunmi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I really like this guy who isn't a Christian. It hurts 😩

    • @MIforever22
      @MIforever22 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ifejesu.adewunmi temporary hurt, is better than a life time of hurt. Praying that God sends you the one His planned for you❤️

    • @ifejesu.adewunmi
      @ifejesu.adewunmi 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@MIforever22 thank you so much. 💞❤️

    • @ellona3645
      @ellona3645 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I was about to go on a date with a non-believer, my mind was clouded with the idea of love. But glad I didn't go, praying for a Godly man.

  • @BexandAiden1111
    @BexandAiden1111 4 ปีที่แล้ว +347

    Who ever edits these videos is doing a fantastic job.

    • @sosmcs
      @sosmcs 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Agree.

    • @anipineros6939
      @anipineros6939 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Is it me or is he a little tough on her?

    • @alexisyates28
      @alexisyates28 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Mila Gra I think it’s just banter x

  • @movi3srock
    @movi3srock 4 ปีที่แล้ว +169

    Women need more sleep! It's a fact that we need more sleep!

  • @SamiRoB43
    @SamiRoB43 4 ปีที่แล้ว +169

    Adam rolls his eyes when tamera said “a little quickie” but he definitely knows she’s right hahaha

  • @MsKDennaetheDiva
    @MsKDennaetheDiva 4 ปีที่แล้ว +114

    .... I love how Aden is just laying there like "I just want Mommy... talk about whatever, but give me Mommy".... 😄

  • @bronzefire955
    @bronzefire955 4 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    Taking showers together for me works wonders with staying connected to each other. You can have conversations, wash each other or whatever while bathing together. I love the bonding and closeness it gives ❤

  • @emmahwanjira5514
    @emmahwanjira5514 4 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    Nobody gonna talk about how cute Aden looks sitting by Tam.... Love you guys 😘😘😘😍😍😍

  • @carlalespinasse9342
    @carlalespinasse9342 4 ปีที่แล้ว +87

    I learned that naps should be no longer then 90mins but I’m definitely with Tamera lol my naps are 2-3 hours 😂

  • @ksamadoff
    @ksamadoff 4 ปีที่แล้ว +104

    After Tamara’s long and beautiful speech, Adam only focused on, “Wait there was someone else you loved before?” Hahahahahaha 🤣🤣🤣

    • @colourqueen22
      @colourqueen22 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I thought he was gonna say something in relevance to her speech 😂😂 gotta love em

    • @jonkennedy1772
      @jonkennedy1772 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      The man only likes to hear about himself.

  • @michelinesejour9927
    @michelinesejour9927 4 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    Aiden looks like Tamera with Adam complexion n Aria looks like Adam with Tamera complexion

    • @feliciaglover1
      @feliciaglover1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yep, yep I 've been saying that for the longest as well The both of them shared perfect genes. 🙌👏👏👏

    • @livinlife8280
      @livinlife8280 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      The children are better looking versions of them.

  • @secretwhispers9592
    @secretwhispers9592 4 ปีที่แล้ว +126

    2-4 hours is a nap. 30 minutes barely qualifies as closing your eyes 😂

    • @nightingalea.6733
      @nightingalea.6733 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Secret Whispers facts..I can’t just close my eyes and sleep. I legit have to make up an entire imaginary movie in my head and by the time I fall asleep,it’s like 45mins to an hour later so🤷🏾‍♀️

    • @syreetacunningham899
      @syreetacunningham899 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I kinda agree. I nap 45 minutes to 90 minutes. My bff naps for 20 to 30 mintues, but that's not a real nap.

    • @syreetacunningham899
      @syreetacunningham899 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@nightingalea.6733 omg I thought I was the only one who did things like that to fall asleep, but I haven't tried the movie on.

    • @Savagemode09
      @Savagemode09 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      agree 🤣👏

  • @frankiemudzimba
    @frankiemudzimba 4 ปีที่แล้ว +178

    Adam killed me when he said"Naps are one thing, sleeping 21hours a day is another" 😂😂
    I'm with Tam...nomatter how long it is, if it's not yet bedtime..its called a nap😂.
    I love how Tam always say, "Its not what you say but how you say it." Learning how to communicate with love helps All The Time. 😍
    Aiden cuddling with mommy #feels😍
    YASS PLEASE! ! !
    Revisit your wedding&show us pics &videos.
    X❤X❤X from
    Harare, Zimbabwe

  • @LifestylewithAbby
    @LifestylewithAbby 4 ปีที่แล้ว +85

    Hallelujah 👏🏾 you can love someday, but doesn't mean he's the one. Tamara, say it louder for the people in the back 🗣

  • @KtotheB1218
    @KtotheB1218 4 ปีที่แล้ว +130

    Tamera is a Cancer sun sign. So she is more of a homebody. Adam is a Leo. He’s more extroverted lol

    • @tameramowrytwo
      @tameramowrytwo  4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      So true!!

    • @KtotheB1218
      @KtotheB1218 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      The Housley Life omgggggg y’all responded!! Thank you. I loved watching today’s video. I learned a lot and you all have so much insight. Thank you!!

    • @kirstenpaul13
      @kirstenpaul13 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      True! I'm also a cancer, we have the same birthday Tamera!❤

    • @denisembaez
      @denisembaez 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      icecreamsandals well, I’m a Leo ♌️ and I’m a homebody. I do like being out but I prefer to stay in lol

    • @ladylioness4065
      @ladylioness4065 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@denisembaez me too love my house made it comfy to be in and enjoy. Leo love !!!

  • @sherecarose-foster5925
    @sherecarose-foster5925 4 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    "Its not us against each other. It's us against the problem" That was such a wow moment. Amazing advice.

  • @NO-su1gi
    @NO-su1gi 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    I'm loving how Aiden cuddles with momma.... Then comes "confident" Ariah! She's not sharing her sweet mum

  • @smallie210
    @smallie210 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    I love how youthful you both are and act.

  • @karlamoralesbarreto
    @karlamoralesbarreto 4 ปีที่แล้ว +106

    Awe Aiden cuddles on his mom is so cute ❤️

  • @ladyfaith8601
    @ladyfaith8601 4 ปีที่แล้ว +72

    1. Deuteronomy 31:8
    The Lord himself goes before you and will be with you; he will never leave you nor forsake you. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged.
    No matter what lies ahead, we can rest assured that the Lord Himself will go before us. For some, they will have to deal with the fallout of daily family tension from everyone cooped up together. For others, they face job loss and immense financial stress. And others will have to face loss of family members and dear ones.
    Through every trial we face, we can know that God walks with us.
    Our job is to remain in-step with His Spirit, and not let discouragement take over.
    Love y'all
    Have a blessed day
    🙏🏽❤️🙏🏽

    • @deshatailor4776
      @deshatailor4776 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I live this, thank you for your words of wisdom.

    • @imanicecelia
      @imanicecelia 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Amen! God bless you!

    • @ricaward8122
      @ricaward8122 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you for the reminder. God bless you. :)

    • @ladyfaith8601
      @ladyfaith8601 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ricaward8122 You welcome

    • @briethompson439
      @briethompson439 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      going through a break up during quarantine right now and feeling isolated. thank you for this!

  • @dereckamcknight3247
    @dereckamcknight3247 4 ปีที่แล้ว +130

    I love that statement “ it’s us against the problem”

    • @tameramowrytwo
      @tameramowrytwo  4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      teamwork makes the dream work!

    • @rhoda2403
      @rhoda2403 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@tameramowrytwo love you guys!

    • @jonkennedy1772
      @jonkennedy1772 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Nice

  • @clawdeeuh07
    @clawdeeuh07 4 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    Im from the bay area and I definitely felt that when Adam said that having partners of a different race isn't something people have a second thought about because of the level of diversity here. It's a big melting pot. I think its amazing

    • @clawdeeuh07
      @clawdeeuh07 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      k b2543 totally agree! As a bay area native this was always normal to me but when i left my little bubble i was so shocked to see it's not that normal in other parts of the country. I'm happy they were able to discuss it!

    • @clawdeeuh07
      @clawdeeuh07 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ronald Butcher Lmao says the guy with the most generic ass white name

  • @Eve_Y
    @Eve_Y 4 ปีที่แล้ว +186

    Aden is really entertained by tamera’s hand movements while talking 😂

    • @sharmamathurin544
      @sharmamathurin544 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      😂

    • @hopemelody5898
      @hopemelody5898 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Eve Yitagesu habesha sister 👸🏽

    • @Eve_Y
      @Eve_Y 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Grace Keber you know it 😊

    • @sallyibrahim9135
      @sallyibrahim9135 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ijordy7069 april fools?

    • @robertward8130
      @robertward8130 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I am too. She'd be a good interpreter for the Deaf.

  • @henrydog80
    @henrydog80 4 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    Tamera is so pretty!!!

  • @leam7018
    @leam7018 4 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    "You can love someone but that doesn't mean he's the one." I felt that in my spirit. On a side note; Tamera's curls are poppin'. What products do you use?

  • @boyandcatmum
    @boyandcatmum 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    This is why Tamera looks so young sleep is fantastic for keeping you looking young

  • @CA2SD
    @CA2SD 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I beg to differ! You guys are experts in relationships. Both of you are an amazing couple and we can witness the authenticity in you love for each other💕🙌🏻

  • @stephlyndsey3932
    @stephlyndsey3932 4 ปีที่แล้ว +112

    This coronavirus definitely has couples needing advice! We need to get through this without killing each other! 😫

    • @AshleyLynnn05
      @AshleyLynnn05 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Pixie Living yessssssss

    • @jojocluddy2534
      @jojocluddy2534 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      😂😂😂👍🏼

    • @dorcasnotaryservices7961
      @dorcasnotaryservices7961 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      😂😂😂

    • @PurposeDrivenWomen
      @PurposeDrivenWomen 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      🤣🤣🤣🤣 l had to hide our water so he can go buy, just that 10 mins peace

    • @jojocluddy2534
      @jojocluddy2534 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@PurposeDrivenWomen 😂😂😂 that's hilarious

  • @glorialowe5881
    @glorialowe5881 4 ปีที่แล้ว +121

    Tamera you have a good guy. He is sitting under you with his arm around you talking. The closeness tell it all a match made in heaven ❤️❤️❤️🙂. Love keep you beautiful and you are beautiful. Love watching your family ♥️❤️♥️.

    • @gailhopkins5767
      @gailhopkins5767 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes, it all work out for her with Adam, because they had broken up& she went to a depression behind it. But because it was the Lord plan that they was for each other. It work out. I believe she is a wise women & he REALIZE what he had.!he isa bless man to have a beautiful, CLASSIC, smart , kind women who love him ENOUGH to give him another chance!. What a forgiven heart she had!. What a wonderful testament to true forgiveness, & REALIZE what u have & being wise enough to make that decision. Grace to all. gh

    • @Kirwina
      @Kirwina 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      No doubt they are a beautiful couple

    • @kevinlemond4461
      @kevinlemond4461 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Let’s not forget this is the same guy who worked for Fox News and said Trayvon deserved to be killed because he was a thug Adam is no good guy he is just good at portraying a good guy her sister has a good guy a King and it has nothing to do with race but character

    • @glorialowe5881
      @glorialowe5881 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      You are right character is important. Speaking about his love for her and family hopefully is what made him a good guy. Yes Tia husband is a born sweetheart. Corey❤ Thanks.

    • @marlenecamacho3409
      @marlenecamacho3409 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      friendse happpy friendse
      youmsssfrendse happpy friendse happpy tameara friendse love youm

  • @christellekalala
    @christellekalala 4 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    I literally had to rewind if Tamera did say 21/2 -3 hours and Adam, she really did😂😂🙌👌

  • @shawneeshareen
    @shawneeshareen 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I loveeeeee naps! Naps for me are better than going to bed. I sleep way better during naps than when I have to go to bed. I NEED naps to function. 2-3 hours min. It takes me at least 30 min to fall asleep!

  • @SHARONSHORTOrchidsandGarden
    @SHARONSHORTOrchidsandGarden 4 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    ...And there is absolutely nothing wrong with loads of prayer. Stay in prayer 24/7...(Mentally) then see how far it'll take you!!!

    • @wshelby83
      @wshelby83 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      SHARON SHORT' Orchids and Garden you think prayer really works?

    • @veronikacee1435
      @veronikacee1435 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      SHARON SHORT' Orchids and Garden Yesss prayer does work amen 🙏🏽

    • @syreetacunningham899
      @syreetacunningham899 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I agree

  • @TrailingCloudsofGlory
    @TrailingCloudsofGlory 4 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    Tamera knows the secret to looking young, unfogging the mind, and being happier....THE 2-3 NAP! 💝🙏💝 TRUTH!!!

  • @khalakhata
    @khalakhata 4 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    Ok I just have to say this... Tamera is gorgeous!!

  • @fuluk.5336
    @fuluk.5336 4 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    Tamera you are so gorgeous man. Like effortly oozing with that "not trying too hard" kinda natural gorgeousness!

    • @syreetacunningham899
      @syreetacunningham899 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I agree. She doesn't have to try too hard to look good unlike Kim Kardashian.

  • @Beautyqueen-dp7cs
    @Beautyqueen-dp7cs 4 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    Tamera is such a Cancer they’re creative, homebody and loyal in romantic relationships.

    • @robertward8130
      @robertward8130 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Issatu Sesay Really? Makes sense completely. I'm also a July baby.

  • @peaches7140
    @peaches7140 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I'm COMPLETELY with Tamara on the naps!😋

  • @ashawthing0520
    @ashawthing0520 4 ปีที่แล้ว +83

    I am so Team Adam on this one! I don’t like to burn daylight. I wanna be up and out if it’s nice outside. No time for sleeping.

    • @adamhousley1731
      @adamhousley1731 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Angela S. Thank you !!

    • @Victoria_12346
      @Victoria_12346 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Agreed! I always say, we'll sleep when we get old

    • @radiokilledthevideostar3329
      @radiokilledthevideostar3329 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Angela S. I’m with him I’m up with the sun

    • @NevaSellmySoul
      @NevaSellmySoul 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Angela S. You're more on team stupid for that one

  • @zarimc
    @zarimc 4 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    I agree with Tam on the naps lol. There’s levels to it

  • @gaila.9852
    @gaila.9852 4 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    I'm as single as single gets. I'm watching this video because I love the Housley family!

    • @syreetacunningham899
      @syreetacunningham899 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I've been single for a long time, but I figured I watch this to get advice for my next realtoinship plus I love the Housleys.

    • @gaila.9852
      @gaila.9852 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      syreeta cunningham I feel you!

  • @mariahfedosov1516
    @mariahfedosov1516 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I'm with you Tamara. I could sleep all day! I love naps & chillaxing! My husband is also like Adam, he likes to get outside, do projects and on the weekend I often get dragged into the outdoors with him 😂

  • @mommabearr18
    @mommabearr18 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Tam & Adam are great to watch, they get each other and you can really tell the love they have is real. Adam adores her soo much and she has the same love for him. Perfect love story you both! ❤

  • @nadjaat8241
    @nadjaat8241 4 ปีที่แล้ว +129

    Currently going through divorce and this is so wholesome

    • @candycakes7921
      @candycakes7921 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Sparkles 24 sorry 😐 you’re divorce hope it all works out for the best u in the end

    • @adamhousley1731
      @adamhousley1731 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Sparkles 24 stay strong

    • @mimomuiruri1552
      @mimomuiruri1552 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I'm so sorry.
      Wishing you there best ♥ ♥ ♥

    • @ladyb129
      @ladyb129 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      🙏

    • @Rokia2003
      @Rokia2003 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Stay strong! If you have kids be friends so they dont suffer,my parents didn't care about my feelings

  • @Lauracgee
    @Lauracgee 4 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    I’m going to be turning 26 in 23 days. I hope I find my soulmate at 26 and have this lifelong relationship as openly communicative as yours💓

    • @hopemelody5898
      @hopemelody5898 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      L G awww I will pray for u and put God first he is the source of everything 💕

    • @wshelby83
      @wshelby83 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      L G I pray you get your wish!!

    • @mattiec7072
      @mattiec7072 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I turned 27 5 days ago still haven’t found my soulmate

  • @ashleycaparrelli2935
    @ashleycaparrelli2935 4 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    He said that’s a coma 😂😂😂

  • @laffietaffie
    @laffietaffie 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    tamera's spirit is why she has had such a long career and so many fans!! plus, she's effortlessly hilarious 😂

  • @tymejynx2395
    @tymejynx2395 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Beautiful couple God bless you and your family!

  • @Adriana_Rantonio
    @Adriana_Rantonio 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    I always stuck to my preferences in men but one day I decided to open up and not concentrate on appearance. I’m married to a Filipino and I’m Mexican.

  • @stanley-rosegumede6277
    @stanley-rosegumede6277 4 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    I understand Tamera, I sleep hard🤣🤣I'm in bed right now. 4h17pm South Africa

    • @westberry1
      @westberry1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Stanley-Rose Gumede me too, I love my bed.

    • @M0r0ng0a
      @M0r0ng0a 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Lock down has solidified my relationship with my bed 😂😂. Stay Safe Stanley-Rose Gumede.

  • @hanniecht3091
    @hanniecht3091 4 ปีที่แล้ว +67

    Yes Tamera you are so right when people dont speak up they just end up getting very angry. Or they end up depressed. Its so much better to just say whats on your heart❤❤. Thank you for this video!

  • @LRissa19
    @LRissa19 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I love your outfit Tamera. Super cute! I need it in 5 different colors right about now or 7 for each day of the week lol

  • @LindaTinahTV
    @LindaTinahTV 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I like that they acknowledge their differences and respect them

  • @lerayshaaen
    @lerayshaaen 4 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    Adam&Tamera: Tell me the difference between a cat nap and a nap.
    Me: um....don't put me in the middle of yall debate 🤣🤣🤣

  • @Severianaxo
    @Severianaxo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    The nap thing is honestly probably a girl thing, I love taking long naps lol

  • @jocelynallem4870
    @jocelynallem4870 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    I remember the wedding episode on Tia and Tamera , I miss that show 😍😍

  • @worldtraveler6087
    @worldtraveler6087 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    My husband and I do the same thing. On a sunny day, take a drive to look at model homes and find new things. We love it! Rainy day chillax!❤️

  • @collethreid3810
    @collethreid3810 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    "Maybe there were something wrong with me" it was as sweet immediately Adam said "NO" the amazing part is Tam wasn't asking him a question. You can definitely see the pure and true love.

  • @themuttsandthemal7729
    @themuttsandthemal7729 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Honestly 30-45 min are perfect naps. You get energy and your ready to rock. Nap nap 2-3 hours I just wake up exhausted I don’t know how you do it tam more power to you.

    • @rebothole6680
      @rebothole6680 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      The honesty in this🔥

  • @maplelu9514
    @maplelu9514 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This was actually enlightening and detailed. Amazing job, your relationship is the actual definition of goals 👍🏾

  • @vannesacolin2565
    @vannesacolin2565 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Marriage=Same team! Can't agree more!
    Love you guys

  • @loriivory
    @loriivory 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    I’m with Tam, a good nap is 2-3 and definitely 3. You wake up so refreshed! Sleep is everything!

  • @flickanrimsky
    @flickanrimsky 4 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    I can't take naps because whenever I think I'm gonna sleep for one hour I wake up 21 days later

    • @terenebarnabas702
      @terenebarnabas702 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      This is me!!! And then I'm confused like what time is it? What day is it??

    • @blessedhighlyfavored9458
      @blessedhighlyfavored9458 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      😂

    • @azeb2809
      @azeb2809 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂 Every day I took 50 minutes nap you are like my sister she never take naps

  • @jamiepultrum543
    @jamiepultrum543 4 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    Tamera! A NAP IS 3 HOURS LONG!!!!!!! Yup yup I’m with ya sista!!!!

  • @rodzaeries1981
    @rodzaeries1981 4 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    I like today's episode. That was a good one.

  • @anawithonen3298
    @anawithonen3298 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Tam Tam 2-3 hour nap is NOT a nap 😂😂😂 like Adam said That’s a sleep 😂😂 I love you guys❤️

  • @jaclynortiz3632
    @jaclynortiz3632 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Omg i love these type of videos. You are relationship role models. You embody and represent the acceptance of flaws and the process of development and coexistence.i love the honesty and rawness of your videos. Please make more videos that discuss all the aspects and advice to dating, engagement and marriage. I love the perspective you guys share. You don't try to make it seem perfect which i love. You are so real about the good, bad and the sexy. I love hearing your faith shine in your views o relationships. I need that. Im a christian and look to people like you to help guide me through relationships. Me and my boyfriend watch you alot to guide us through our relationship. In the past the real would talk more about these things but it died down. I really appreciate you both keep it going. Also please make videos about the phases and process of becoming parents as a team, and independently. Because that also takes a toll on the relationship

  • @maxxitee4761
    @maxxitee4761 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I’m in total agreement with the notion that a lot of kids in the next generations will be mixed. Barriers are down in this area for sure

  • @natalieshepp641
    @natalieshepp641 4 ปีที่แล้ว +78

    Hey y'all! Tamera's hair is lit for the quarantine!! We over here looking busted and disgusted! 🤣🤣. Love y'all!!

  • @raysha9932
    @raysha9932 4 ปีที่แล้ว +82

    My husband is like that when we are in our lows he’s like oh well we need to figure it out girl cause this is my family and we are not going anywhere. He will go sit in the car and text me im hungry and forget it he’s back in 2 hours ... after the fire was put out

  • @donnicaduncan1379
    @donnicaduncan1379 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I love yall relationship and I'm glad yall have God at the center of it ❤👌

  • @bethanysvienty5795
    @bethanysvienty5795 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love your guys marriage! I've loved watching you two together for years, like ever since the Tia & Tamera show. You guys are so amazing together and you make beautiful children!❤❤

  • @LaSheaT
    @LaSheaT 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes, checkins are great for married couples. Everyone should do that. Communication is key.

  • @meganjacobs8813
    @meganjacobs8813 4 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    It takes me 30min just to get into a deep sleep 😂 1h45min to 2.5 hours is perfect

  • @eberjom9119
    @eberjom9119 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    1) damn I need to work on my "stuck in the house quarantine look" 2)I had no idea they've been together over 15 years

  • @soniagarcia9370
    @soniagarcia9370 4 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    At the end of the day marriage is a beautiful thing and so worth it when it’s with the right person ⛅️

    • @vivianmbangata7934
      @vivianmbangata7934 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      With the right person, that's very important or else it becomes a mess.... 😏

  • @LethoHali
    @LethoHali 4 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    I like the “are you happy?” checking in.

  • @michellefinch1523
    @michellefinch1523 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I think you both are such an awesome team very inspirational to others. Its so good that you both serve GOD together. I love ya gurl who you are very open when talking on the REAL...

  • @heknys9789
    @heknys9789 4 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    now just gotta think of a viral comment before the smart ones arrive
    update: l failed.

    • @itsfriday9139
      @itsfriday9139 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      lol

    • @skye-theconspiracyrealist8584
      @skye-theconspiracyrealist8584 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      😂😂😂😂😂 @Vi Vo You succeeded with this comment right here actually lol good one!

    • @heknys9789
      @heknys9789 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@skye-theconspiracyrealist8584 lmaoo thanks

    • @Carole1279
      @Carole1279 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😅

  • @Melaninnmuse
    @Melaninnmuse 4 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    I Love The First Question And Response, Because Me And My Boyfriend Are Passionate People So Sometimes It Feels Like Were Against Eachother So Thanks For The Tip 💓 .....Tamera is correct on the naps Adam 🤣

    • @lcarter9722
      @lcarter9722 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Been with my husband 20 years and we are both very strong willed. As long as its healthy disputes it's no problem. Sometimes we can go back and forth for hours, then afterwards we are laughing and on to the next part of life. That's what I love about our relationship.

    • @aminaosman1490
      @aminaosman1490 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same here we go against at each other rather then the problems always how can that be work on’v

  • @indiabatson26
    @indiabatson26 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    I love y’all so much 😭😭😭💛

  • @cynthial5901
    @cynthial5901 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Love your family and all your videos. I really like the Q&A, because you two are honest and real.

  • @elwandabraynen4656
    @elwandabraynen4656 ปีที่แล้ว

    You two are so sweet together. You have a beautiful family. I laugh with you when I watch your videos.keep them coming

  • @laffietaffie
    @laffietaffie 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    "ariah knows what she wants" and that's why she's the star of the family 😂

  • @Gabb2924
    @Gabb2924 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I love Ariah’s dress it is too cute on her!

  • @lemonadewithsnacks3733
    @lemonadewithsnacks3733 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    You guys are beautiful.
    When Adam said "Lock 'em in the closet" I died 😂😂

  • @marthaharris3789
    @marthaharris3789 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Just cuddle beautiful couple!! Beautiful children!!!

  • @alazaesbeauty6696
    @alazaesbeauty6696 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    communication & always making that person feel loved and appreciated is key. I definitely agree keeping god 1st aswell. One thing my husband & I did before he passed away 2 years ago, is never going to bed mad, why ? Because you never know if you'll have that chance to say I'm sorry. Like tam and adam we were in a biracial relationship for 16 years before his passing. But thankfully we have 3 beautiful kids who resemble him so much 💗 . He is still the love of my life🙏🏼