Relationship Advice Q&A!
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 3 ก.ค. 2024
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In our family, it’s tons of love along with a little bit of chaos every single day! We’re all about creating and sharing memories while we learn about the ups and downs of life TOGETHER. Our kids, Aden and Ariah, teach us that things don’t always go as planned… but they (almost always) turn out even better than we could have expected! This is The Housley Life! Join the fun every Wednesday at 10 a.m. EST! #TheHousleyLife - บันเทิง
"It's not us against each other. It's us against the problem". Wow I'm taking that tip for my marriage.
Shanice Rallele I need it down here too jst got into it with my husb. We all so sad now. Not talking for a whole day.!
Shanice Rallele this
But sometimes a person can be a problem,some people have a very stubborn nature and are extremely inconsiderate be careful to differentiate sweety..if the person is the problem or the person caused a problem and wants to learn how to amend it.
That's so important!
Shanice Rallele same girl!
Sounds like Tamera’s perfect weekend is quarantine lol
Right......lol 😆
Yerp!!! Mine too
Maaan, she is such a cancerian woman!😆😆😆 The differences of naps-omg, so on point.😊
That's why IM happy!!!
Gosh i love you guys 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
“ Thats not a nap that’s a coma “ 😂😂😂😂 Adam is freakin hilarious!!
Lame joke
BrooklYN ya mama
@@riannas8351 tell em why u mad
😂
Kids these days are being raised in households where parents are open with each other and affectionate towards each other in front of their kids.. I LOVE IT.. raising kids who wont have to heal from their childhood❤️❤️
“Yawl could love somebody but that doesn’t mean that he’s the one” yessss
KAREN BAYRD a word
AMEN! THANK U TELL IT!. GRACE TO ALL gh. Should be taught in homes, school's. U will have a better life if u can accept that as a true fact!.
WORD! wasted 12yrs of my life. Looking to start over now with my 2 children.
Niquey I applaud the bravery ! Congrats 🎉 you’ve over come the hardest part: leaving! You’ll be fine!
👀😁🤣 IT'S SOOOOOOOO TRUE GOD MAY HAVE OTHER PLANS, NOT OUR WILL BUT HIS ......OUR STEPS ARE ORDERED☝🏽 😉
Take it from a lady that’s been married 38 years.... never stop talking and never get mad at how the other one feels, everyone has a right to their feelings! After 38 years we still have work on it and the main thing is to never ever ever stop touching, kissing and making the other one feel wanted and loved intimately!
Jean Williams how abt the other person always feels he has a say to things even when is not needed; like he feels as I don’t have voice, he don’t appreciate in agreeing wit me in times of need of understanding, and he so negative certain times when I go to work and come back home jst. A minute late..Bow will you work that error when it come to love and touching and forgiving “some people will call it.”
@@aminaosman1490 Therapy? Or if he has any sisters or girl friends that get along with you and you're close with, make a plan with them to act out your scenario and then see how he acts. People always act differently when they see things happening to lived ones even though they do the same cause they know it's wrong, then you can give him a reality check about your situation. You could also behave with hil like he does with you, as long as he doesn't hit you which is a no no. Hope this helps x
wow now i love this advice thank you i'm in a early relationship of 2 1/2 years
JennyMay Ashley My husband of 47 yrs passed away 4 yrs ago. I've always told my daughter and my daughter-in-law that in the big scheme of things those little things don't matter one bit. I bet that when a husband gets angry with his wife, most of the time they don't feel respect. Women need love, men need respect. You certainly don't have to be a doormat, but when you start fighting over something not important, go to him, put your arms around him and tell him what he means to you. That little spat will be dissolved! On the big things when you disagree with one another find a special place in the house where you can sit down with one another and discuss your points of view. Pray together! I promise you if you pray together over something you disagree over God will hear you both and provide a solution. Never fight in front of your children. Don't go to bed angry. And now abide faith, hope and live, these three; but the greatest of these is love. May God Bless your life and your marriage.
Jean Williams thats so hard to find
Tamera is literally a goddess! She’s so beautiful for one but, just as important, her energy just radiates love and understanding. I aspire to be like this!
Yes, they look good together
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me too
Christ like 💕
I soo agree💯💯💯
I don't even have a boyfriend, but I still appreciated the marriage advice. Thank you!
Me too😂🤣
Same lol
Anvy de Tour yup
Me and you should change that together Anvy 👸👑 Know we can be a much hotter married couple and make us some beautiful children together 😉🛐💍💏🏩💒💐🌹🌼
Anvy de Tour same😭
5 minutes isn't a nap it's blinking😂😂
🤣🤣🤣
5 minutes, I need 5 hours...
😂😂😂😂You've said it!
Soo true
Tiffani White 🤣🤣 FACTS
Aiden is such a mommy's boy in a cute way. Snuggled so close you can tell he loves his mommy so much. 😍
bocause there is a non cute way to be a mama's boy?
He grew inside her for 9 months that’s why there’s such a strong bond. I’m 7 weeks 5 days pregnant. I can’t wait to have my baby 🥰
@@charles1413 Yes! Like grown beta males
@@charles1413 dude shut up lmao
Winter Bleu I don’t know what I’m having yet.
This is my relationship goal. Can’t wait for god to send me my purpose partner. ❤️
Abbagayle Kitchen same 😭😭😭
How would you know if his the one
I love this... "purpose partner "
Same 🙌🏽🙌🏽
I pray every night for my purpose partner.
.... I love how Aden is just laying there like "I just want Mommy... talk about whatever, but give me Mommy".... 😄
The energy this family radiates just feels good.
So wholesome ❤️❤️❤️
Amber FFTFOMSICHTS & feels Blessed
I think...
Good nap: 2 hrs
Power nap: 45 mins
Cat nap: 20 mins
agree!!
Cat naps are amazing if you have no time!!
@@jshelley5836
For sure, JShelley!
@@tameramowrytwo
I like to watch Tamara Housley: The Housley Life. Just viewed this week's episode a short while ago! 🙂
I agree with this.
When God said, "do not be unequally yoked." He was telling us that in order to make things easier for us.
I really like this guy who isn't a Christian. It hurts 😩
@@ifejesu.adewunmi temporary hurt, is better than a life time of hurt. Praying that God sends you the one His planned for you❤️
@@MIforever22 thank you so much. 💞❤️
I was about to go on a date with a non-believer, my mind was clouded with the idea of love. But glad I didn't go, praying for a Godly man.
I love that statement “ it’s us against the problem”
teamwork makes the dream work!
@@tameramowrytwo love you guys!
Nice
Who ever edits these videos is doing a fantastic job.
Agree.
Is it me or is he a little tough on her?
Mila Gra I think it’s just banter x
Adam rolls his eyes when tamera said “a little quickie” but he definitely knows she’s right hahaha
Taking showers together for me works wonders with staying connected to each other. You can have conversations, wash each other or whatever while bathing together. I love the bonding and closeness it gives ❤
"Its not us against each other. It's us against the problem" That was such a wow moment. Amazing advice.
The way Adam talks about your sleeping sounds like my husband 😂. Don’t hate on a girl that can get her nap on. They just jealous lol 😝 #napnap
I didn't choose the nap life, the nap life chose me!
@@tameramowrytwo 😆😆😆😆
@@tameramowrytwo I LOVE IT!!!!!
SAME WITH MINE LMAO. It is absolutely jealousy 🤣
My husband calls me the nap Queen! I love it! ❤️
Awe Aiden cuddles on his mom is so cute ❤️
I like the “are you happy?” checking in.
This is why Tamera looks so young sleep is fantastic for keeping you looking young
After Tamara’s long and beautiful speech, Adam only focused on, “Wait there was someone else you loved before?” Hahahahahaha 🤣🤣🤣
I thought he was gonna say something in relevance to her speech 😂😂 gotta love em
The man only likes to hear about himself.
I learned that naps should be no longer then 90mins but I’m definitely with Tamera lol my naps are 2-3 hours 😂
I'm as single as single gets. I'm watching this video because I love the Housley family!
I've been single for a long time, but I figured I watch this to get advice for my next realtoinship plus I love the Housleys.
syreeta cunningham I feel you!
...And there is absolutely nothing wrong with loads of prayer. Stay in prayer 24/7...(Mentally) then see how far it'll take you!!!
SHARON SHORT' Orchids and Garden you think prayer really works?
SHARON SHORT' Orchids and Garden Yesss prayer does work amen 🙏🏽
I agree
Hallelujah 👏🏾 you can love someday, but doesn't mean he's the one. Tamara, say it louder for the people in the back 🗣
Nobody gonna talk about how cute Aden looks sitting by Tam.... Love you guys 😘😘😘😍😍😍
"ariah knows what she wants" and that's why she's the star of the family 😂
2-4 hours is a nap. 30 minutes barely qualifies as closing your eyes 😂
Secret Whispers facts..I can’t just close my eyes and sleep. I legit have to make up an entire imaginary movie in my head and by the time I fall asleep,it’s like 45mins to an hour later so🤷🏾♀️
I kinda agree. I nap 45 minutes to 90 minutes. My bff naps for 20 to 30 mintues, but that's not a real nap.
@@nightingalea.6733 omg I thought I was the only one who did things like that to fall asleep, but I haven't tried the movie on.
agree 🤣👏
Tamera knows the secret to looking young, unfogging the mind, and being happier....THE 2-3 NAP! 💝🙏💝 TRUTH!!!
Adam killed me when he said"Naps are one thing, sleeping 21hours a day is another" 😂😂
I'm with Tam...nomatter how long it is, if it's not yet bedtime..its called a nap😂.
I love how Tam always say, "Its not what you say but how you say it." Learning how to communicate with love helps All The Time. 😍
Aiden cuddling with mommy #feels😍
YASS PLEASE! ! !
Revisit your wedding&show us pics &videos.
X❤X❤X from
Harare, Zimbabwe
Hie fellow Zimbabwean... 👋👋👋
I agree with Tam on the naps lol. There’s levels to it
I'm COMPLETELY with Tamara on the naps!😋
Tamera is so pretty!!!
Ok I just have to say this... Tamera is gorgeous!!
Im from the bay area and I definitely felt that when Adam said that having partners of a different race isn't something people have a second thought about because of the level of diversity here. It's a big melting pot. I think its amazing
k b2543 totally agree! As a bay area native this was always normal to me but when i left my little bubble i was so shocked to see it's not that normal in other parts of the country. I'm happy they were able to discuss it!
Ronald Butcher Lmao says the guy with the most generic ass white name
"Maybe there were something wrong with me" it was as sweet immediately Adam said "NO" the amazing part is Tam wasn't asking him a question. You can definitely see the pure and true love.
This coronavirus definitely has couples needing advice! We need to get through this without killing each other! 😫
Pixie Living yessssssss
😂😂😂👍🏼
😂😂😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣 l had to hide our water so he can go buy, just that 10 mins peace
@@PurposeDrivenWomen 😂😂😂 that's hilarious
Aden is really entertained by tamera’s hand movements while talking 😂
😂
Eve Yitagesu habesha sister 👸🏽
Grace Keber you know it 😊
@@ijordy7069 april fools?
I am too. She'd be a good interpreter for the Deaf.
I love how they are a complete unit. It's not Tamera featuring her family. It's a genuine reflection of their family as a whole. I love how involved Adam is with his children.
kimberly madison right!! I hope to have that someday
Yes!!
I love it that 'faith' is the most important purpose for you both. You don't know how much this means to a lot of us... especially in the world today.
1. Deuteronomy 31:8
The Lord himself goes before you and will be with you; he will never leave you nor forsake you. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged.
No matter what lies ahead, we can rest assured that the Lord Himself will go before us. For some, they will have to deal with the fallout of daily family tension from everyone cooped up together. For others, they face job loss and immense financial stress. And others will have to face loss of family members and dear ones.
Through every trial we face, we can know that God walks with us.
Our job is to remain in-step with His Spirit, and not let discouragement take over.
Love y'all
Have a blessed day
🙏🏽❤️🙏🏽
I live this, thank you for your words of wisdom.
Amen! God bless you!
Thank you for the reminder. God bless you. :)
@@ricaward8122 You welcome
going through a break up during quarantine right now and feeling isolated. thank you for this!
I literally had to rewind if Tamera did say 21/2 -3 hours and Adam, she really did😂😂🙌👌
"Be in their memory" I totally get that.
Aiden looks like Tamera with Adam complexion n Aria looks like Adam with Tamera complexion
Yep, yep I 've been saying that for the longest as well The both of them shared perfect genes. 🙌👏👏👏
The children are better looking versions of them.
Tamera you have a good guy. He is sitting under you with his arm around you talking. The closeness tell it all a match made in heaven ❤️❤️❤️🙂. Love keep you beautiful and you are beautiful. Love watching your family ♥️❤️♥️.
Yes, it all work out for her with Adam, because they had broken up& she went to a depression behind it. But because it was the Lord plan that they was for each other. It work out. I believe she is a wise women & he REALIZE what he had.!he isa bless man to have a beautiful, CLASSIC, smart , kind women who love him ENOUGH to give him another chance!. What a forgiven heart she had!. What a wonderful testament to true forgiveness, & REALIZE what u have & being wise enough to make that decision. Grace to all. gh
No doubt they are a beautiful couple
Let’s not forget this is the same guy who worked for Fox News and said Trayvon deserved to be killed because he was a thug Adam is no good guy he is just good at portraying a good guy her sister has a good guy a King and it has nothing to do with race but character
You are right character is important. Speaking about his love for her and family hopefully is what made him a good guy. Yes Tia husband is a born sweetheart. Corey❤ Thanks.
friendse happpy friendse
youmsssfrendse happpy friendse happpy tameara friendse love youm
At the end of the day marriage is a beautiful thing and so worth it when it’s with the right person ⛅️
With the right person, that's very important or else it becomes a mess.... 😏
I’m with Tam, a good nap is 2-3 and definitely 3. You wake up so refreshed! Sleep is everything!
Who has time for that....
I’m in total agreement with the notion that a lot of kids in the next generations will be mixed. Barriers are down in this area for sure
I remember the wedding episode on Tia and Tamera , I miss that show 😍😍
Tamera is a Cancer sun sign. So she is more of a homebody. Adam is a Leo. He’s more extroverted lol
So true!!
The Housley Life omgggggg y’all responded!! Thank you. I loved watching today’s video. I learned a lot and you all have so much insight. Thank you!!
True! I'm also a cancer, we have the same birthday Tamera!❤
icecreamsandals well, I’m a Leo ♌️ and I’m a homebody. I do like being out but I prefer to stay in lol
@@denisembaez me too love my house made it comfy to be in and enjoy. Leo love !!!
Tamera is such a Cancer they’re creative, homebody and loyal in romantic relationships.
Issatu Sesay Really? Makes sense completely. I'm also a July baby.
Been married 39 years and I see my husband and I in you two. Sounds like you are heading for many more years together!❤️👍
"You can love someone but that doesn't mean he's the one." I felt that in my spirit. On a side note; Tamera's curls are poppin'. What products do you use?
Currently going through divorce and this is so wholesome
Sparkles 24 sorry 😐 you’re divorce hope it all works out for the best u in the end
Sparkles 24 stay strong
I'm so sorry.
Wishing you there best ♥ ♥ ♥
🙏
Stay strong! If you have kids be friends so they dont suffer,my parents didn't care about my feelings
You say you are not experts, I beg to differ. You Two have so much respect for each other.
I'm loving how Aiden cuddles with momma.... Then comes "confident" Ariah! She's not sharing her sweet mum
Yes Tamera you are so right when people dont speak up they just end up getting very angry. Or they end up depressed. Its so much better to just say whats on your heart❤❤. Thank you for this video!
Tamera you are so gorgeous man. Like effortly oozing with that "not trying too hard" kinda natural gorgeousness!
I agree. She doesn't have to try too hard to look good unlike Kim Kardashian.
Nice to see healthy relationships. I've had 20 years of an unhealthy marriage and finally leaving. The rest of my life I will be building a healthy relationship with myself and showing a better example for my young adult children. God Bless!
I'm glad you left! Healthy relationships only over here!!!!😘
1) damn I need to work on my "stuck in the house quarantine look" 2)I had no idea they've been together over 15 years
I love how youthful you both are and act.
He said that’s a coma 😂😂😂
I love your outfit Tamera. Super cute! I need it in 5 different colors right about now or 7 for each day of the week lol
Cooking together is really a great way to connect. My husband and I enjoy cooking together.
Hey y'all! Tamera's hair is lit for the quarantine!! We over here looking busted and disgusted! 🤣🤣. Love y'all!!
I'm wondering who does her hair up there in Napa lol...
Awwww thanks lol
MYSELF
Lmaooo! Don’t say that, I’m sure you look lovely 😊
I felt this comment it hit home lol be well
I’m going to be turning 26 in 23 days. I hope I find my soulmate at 26 and have this lifelong relationship as openly communicative as yours💓
L G awww I will pray for u and put God first he is the source of everything 💕
L G I pray you get your wish!!
I turned 27 5 days ago still haven’t found my soulmate
I love y’all so much 😭😭😭💛
Me too
Hahaha I love laughing
"sometimes i thank god for unanswered prayers" my new motto in my life
Tamera! A NAP IS 3 HOURS LONG!!!!!!! Yup yup I’m with ya sista!!!!
I always stuck to my preferences in men but one day I decided to open up and not concentrate on appearance. I’m married to a Filipino and I’m Mexican.
Truly admire your marriage and the love and respect you guys have for reach other ♥️
I love a good 2-hr. nap as well!!
Aden is such a mama's boy. You've got to love him💛
Zanelle Mutoko I was thinking the same thing the whole time lol 💗so cute!
Zanelle Mutoko it was annoying to watch why are there kids involved in adult topics
Some kids are nosey as hell. But in this video I don't think they really know what they are talking about necessarily, unless both parents explain. Which I don't think they will because its not something that they should understand now as kids anyways.
@@kaelynbuchanan It's always one! Also, watching wasn't mandatory soooo...🤐🤫.
Kaelyn Buchanan it is important to expose our children to the different dynamics in healthy relationships to help them to understand what to look for in their own relationships later on. By surrounding them with physical and verbal interactions between their parents and as the family unit as a whole, the chances of them having strong values and connections in their future relationships will be greater. Neither of them were exposed to anything inappropriate. They were exposed to their parent’s healthy way of communicating and working through various situations in their marriage and family.
It takes me 30min just to get into a deep sleep 😂 1h45min to 2.5 hours is perfect
Spot on!
I can't take naps because whenever I think I'm gonna sleep for one hour I wake up 21 days later
This is me!!! And then I'm confused like what time is it? What day is it??
😂
😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂 Every day I took 50 minutes nap you are like my sister she never take naps
It's so nice to see you guys so passionate and real accepting your powers and differences, despite what has become what we keep seeing these days people leaving separately. So nice to hear you talk about your belief, when it's so draining and looked down at to say I believe in God these days 😭 ❤❤ Thanks!!!
I am so Team Adam on this one! I don’t like to burn daylight. I wanna be up and out if it’s nice outside. No time for sleeping.
Angela S. Thank you !!
Agreed! I always say, we'll sleep when we get old
Angela S. I’m with him I’m up with the sun
Angela S. You're more on team stupid for that one
Aden is mommy's boy....so cute.
I loveeeeee naps! Naps for me are better than going to bed. I sleep way better during naps than when I have to go to bed. I NEED naps to function. 2-3 hours min. It takes me at least 30 min to fall asleep!
The nap thing is honestly probably a girl thing, I love taking long naps lol
Tamera looks so sweet when she kept smiling!
I love yall relationship and I'm glad yall have God at the center of it ❤👌
I'm with you Tamara. I could sleep all day! I love naps & chillaxing! My husband is also like Adam, he likes to get outside, do projects and on the weekend I often get dragged into the outdoors with him 😂
I love when you said being strong will doesn’t have to be a bad thing means your passionate !!! I agree so much with that
Women need more sleep! It's a fact that we need more sleep!
This family always makes me smile😊
2-3 hour naps are the best
Beautiful couple God bless you and your family!
Tamera is so Mature.
She gives great advice.❤
Have a little quickie 🤣🤣 Adam’s little blush 😊 I love y’all!
I love this family, seems so genuine and natural!
I just love them, so much positivity
That R-E-S-P-E-C-T got me singinggggg 🎶🎙️
I like today's episode. That was a good one.
She shines. She is truly happy
Your relationship is goals whatever Race people are. You are raising amazing children. You guys have learnt to Shut out the outside noise, they are just that... NOISE that don't matter. Forever ❤️ you've got it.
Great video! I like the part about having a purpose partner and praying together. Yall fun to watch😄
what race are they? lol human and they are both american , and a man and woman lolmmm very normal, people are so silly🤣