True, while I was being discarded I brought up an apology that was made a few months prior and the narc said "the apology was a long time ago" it really stunned me
Hello! I know this posted a while ago, but if you see this reply I would appreciate any and all feedback/help/advice you have. I was recently contacted by my ex (I ended the relationship after 2 1/2 years last November) and have struggled severely for the past 9 months. I have BPD (diagnosed while we were together) and he played on it and all of the mental issues associated to it. I found out about the smear campaign and that he cheated after we had broken up (I stupidly lost my $hit and contacted him to which he blew me off) and I went no contact. He found a “nightie” of mine when he was unpacking a suitcase all these months later and he found out I was no longer living where I had been renting a home. He had moved in with me. I’m NOT faultless… my mother was (and still is) horribly abusive and a narcissist, so between the two of them manipulating me, I am STILL a mess. He “felt” he should “apologize” for “the hurt he was responsible for” and “it’s been weighing heavy on his chest and mind.” His original message was asking if I had 5-10 minutes to talk. I have suffered for years now… months spent since breaking up mourning the life I had built and dreamed around him. I AM ANGRY… I AM HURT beyond anything I have ever felt before. 5-10 minutes couldn’t even begin to scratch the surface. Any guidance ANYONE has, please… I just want to be “happy” again.
I provided her with so many resources and so much help that when I ended the relationship all of that went away instantly and she knows it. That's why she was still try to get me back in her life even though now she says I am a horrible person. Zero integrity. So long as I am useful I can be horrible and still be in her life.
in general they die terrified.... horrible deaths. fighting to last moment. my father was the most terrified person as he died. he could no longer push the consequences away.
Karma means in Sanskrit: Remember. If they are synthetic, asocial or psychopaths they just dont care. Please just stay away from this group of people. Go with your people. Stop wasting your time.
Karma would serve no purpose in their lives because they can't learn and grow so I'd say no they are not karmic souls in that respect. They act as life lessons for us but not unto themselves.
When I was younger I wanted to get back at my narc family member. Now that I’m older, I wish them all the best but really don’t want to engage with them ever again. I feel so liberated right now. And these You Tube channels are so helpful. So thankful to all the experts who really know their stuff.
it's when you no longer desire for them to get their karma and couldn't care less if they do or not, is when you have healed and have taken your power back. I have days when I want him to get his karma and days when I feel so free from him, I couldn't care less about what he is up to. I look forward to being so fully healed and no longer hurt, that my thoughts don't include him at all. WOW!! YES!! I pray for that time to come. lately when I catch myself in a part of the grief cycle where I feel rage and want relief by knowing he will suffer too, I hand these thoughts up and release them and then I actually feel much better because it's thoughts of him that keep me enmeshed to his lower vibration anyway..
All their negative energy is keeping you from living a full & happy life everyone deserves. So don’t let these folks rob/steal/take your positive energy you bring to the world. Show them up by taking that energy & putting it to good - that my friend is pure natural karma !
My Narc Ex always blame me for everything. When we used to argue it use to be like it was my fault with everything and when I pointed out something about her I was crazy and wrong 😭
Yup, we reap what we sow! And yes, let it go, you had good intentions, do not let the negative energy they sowed into you mess up your life. Take care of yourself and go reap what you have sowed! ❤
So true Anoushka. My ex narc is experiencing karma. Has been a champion athlete up until about 6 years ago when she got rumatoid arthritis. No more being an athlete. Although I really felt for her...I'm sure it's karma!!
My ex-narc and I had a raging screaming episode over me reacting to her toxicity towards me after a concert. The following morning, she continued her rage...not taking any responsibility for her behavior. I apologized, of course, for my behavior...several times. I ended up walking out...leaving her at the hotel (she had her own car). Three days later, she got her 3rd DUI (in 4 years). Guess who she blamed...for her own fucking DUI? Yep, she's getting her karma right now as her sentencing has finally come up. She will have a collapse while in jail, and also dealing with her case for the next 2 years.
@Kevin She:/ The Narc will also have a huge fine with the DUI !! Karma is a “Beach”😂 it’s already beginning!! Don’t be surprised if she also blames you with the fine of the DUI . The narcissist will always blame others for their actions and turn it on you. I guess you must have been holding her drinks of alcohol while she was consuming it right?? 😂🤣 So glad you are done with her you deserve better!!
The time and manner in which karma strikes is not for you to know. And it's better that it strikes them while they are still on earth. When you're on the other side, without the walls flesh that constitute your body, the pain and suffering know no boundary. It's called hell.
@@Thriverforall Don’t believe all the happy posts…done to get to you. I know from experience. My ex is suffering and I’m told he’s drinking and looks terrible.
I think blowing up every relationship and their circle of people getting smaller and smaller until they’ve alienated virtually everyone is karma. Left lonely with only strangers who don’t know them.
I feel that my ex-narc is getting her karma just by the simple fact hat she was still trying to get me to do things for her and, when I refused, she threw all kinds of nasty accusations and insults at me (which don't bother me anymore). What kind of person still reaches out to someone they hurt cruelly? Someone who is desperate, and a desperate person is an unhappy person. She lists some things that I supposedly caused her to suffer whereas they are all a result of a bad, impulsive and even criminal action she took. So I know she's in trouble. That's her karma. It really is best not to try to get revenge because karma will come back to you as well. Leave them alone. They are experts at destroying their own lives.
"Exploited?" It doesn't feel like that. It feels more like someone cut open my chest cavity with a dull blade, and then pissed on my heart, right before they ripped it free with a pair of dinner forks. Heck, I would have rather thrown myself into the pit of a Volcano!
God tells us that revenge is mine says the lord I shall repay.... They are no way anyone will get past God he knows all he sees all and he hears all.... God is the only reason why I can keep going on..... I wouldn't want to be in a narcissist shoe's.... It's sad but they made the choice.. How my heart has broken 💔
They don't get their Karma....they are already living a Karma from other lives, when they did the same thing to others..... it's part of a never ending cycle of one life to another to another to another for a narcissist.....
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My ex Narc: seemed to go around in cycles. One day his ego is full blown and he's out there telling the world how fantastic he is! And what an under achiever you are! Next day he would lapse into depression. Then he tried to give back to the community, he tried to save someone's life but was unsuccessful. He hit rock bottom asking : why is it that everything I touch dies.
Yes they do, it might not be publicly seen, but my ex narc certainly got it….and I was still living in the house at the time. He was having total meltdowns and by the time I left, he knew he had picked the wrong one. After months of verbal and emotional abuse, I turned it back on him and he couldn’t deal with it. Everything he tried to do to me, I blocked it, when he wanted an argument, I stayed completely silent. Other times when he started, I chose my moment and verbally punched him right between the eyes which had him storm out the room slamming the door and licking his wounds for hours. I had also been secretly recording him for 5 months before I moved out and would listen to them because in his rages he would let slip what his plans were for me, I blocked every one of them and left him not knowing what the hell had happened. He said for me to move out on his day off….presumably so he could help the movers so they thought I was the problem and he could laugh as he shut the door on me….I moved out the day before when he was at work. 👍 You have to be strong and stand up to them, it’s the only way. He will never come near me again.
Others are telling me karma is not a garuntee and I hear most narcissists go unpunished and acutely succeed in life I find karma hard to believe I lost hope I have no more faith in humanity
I think they are suffering most of the time. I finally started exposing him to his enabling family and he hasn't come around since. I stopped keeping his secrets. I sure do attract these types.
There is no karma for the narcissist, they live in a place one would resemble a perpetual Groundhog Day in hell…this is not karma, this is purgatory, and I pity the soul trapped in this cycle
My anger and PTSD nightmares and internal horror. Began to heal very quickly. Firstly when i realised my narsassistic mother. Was a narsassist and when i said enough i no longer wish to connect with you. It took years to get to this point. Like im 58 .Because i didn't understand what she was. I knew she was a negative person. I bounced between understanding and forgetting. Or denial. Like i didn't understand how my own mother could be so envious of me. It took my phycologist to explain this to me. But suddenly after i said. No more go away you sad envious person. Then a cloud was lifted from my head. I pray it stays this way. Because its soul destroying. And i don't think i can cope with any more internal stress .
I have a narcissist GF, IT IS TERRIBLE being with her, you find yourself chasing them all day, mentally and physically, and they are evading you really well, you can't catch them! But they have a whole other life behind your back... You'll find you can't sleep, don't eat, and your body will deteriorate. For example, she will go to work with two thick jackets, a bomber and a leather jacket, with a tight top under, its freezing outside. She will wear the bomber jacket in the office during the day and has a date sometime in the day, she will wear the leather jacket, and if you ask about the two jackets, "you're controlling" and they will say they have a beauty appointment, but will be two hours for a simple procedure....
If you are a victim of a narcissist it's most likely because you were one in a past life. And this is your karma for what your avatar did in that life. All about soul's growth and balance of universe. So trust the universe that all narcissists will get theirs. Staying in anger or victimhood or wanting revenge only lowers your frequency and does absolutely nothing to them. When Ascension comes, they will all be gone on Earth. Using my Pendulum and tarot cards have gotten me through this and given me the truth of what's really going on.
I think so I highly believe so my best friend got bullied long time ago he told me karma will get those people that hurt me and it did happen because she bully was around and sad I fall pretty hard on the ground mind you this the same exact bully that did bully him so absolutely I do believe karma is going to happen to the narcissist at some point in there lives beside narcissistic people are the worst there toxic and take pleasure in hurting others however they do it so yes these fools don’t change and will catch up with those toxic narcissists!🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
Yep. She was being shown 1111 EVERYWHERE. I tried to tell her. She wouldnt heed the warning. I told her it was wonderful.. but she misunderstood. The wonderful is the opportunity to wake up, to give herself to God, to put her priorities in order when it comes to being humble and non judgemental, to value and keep close to the good people who come into her life, to trust in God, to stop exploiting, to stop gossiping, to stop enjoying getting the better of people, to let go of her pride and anger, to know love, to become clean. God was shouting it at her. He WILL humble her, he has been VERY vocal and clear about it.
Well my ex said when there was fires around our old house it burn down 4 yrs o so .then he bought a new house had a lot wrong with it then wish I dont wish anyone he has 4 stage cancer dieing in hospital now.i don't want anyone to get cancer so much pain oh no
My ex narc husband was incredibly abusive. He would also weaponize me with threats of throwing me out of his apartment. I left him and we’re finally divorced three years later. He got a new supply to replace me. Unfortunately she passed away a month ago from a drug overdose and now he is also about to lose his apartment. He’s alone and has nothing now. So yes, karma is inevitable 🤷🏾♀️
Narcissism is a severe injury. They got their karma in the beginning. Everything forward is a fake image. It's a response out of desperation to feed spiritual and emotional starvation.
they never get any karma... karma is not in their way, they have less karma than you and that is Why we call it karma! karma is your past life not your present actions, there is no such things as instant karma. they got virtues from past life, like goo health, genes, family money and what not.. you don't and so we who are the victims of a narcissist had less good genes, less chance to family money and good luck, friends that gave us opportunities etc and so they who got more simply exploit those that have less and that is how narcissist ride you! is no mumbo jumbo, they see who got bad luck and use them and they see who got good luck and manipulate them to like them... nothing is ever gonna happen to them in due cause.,. that is totally dumb o jumbo! science is that smart paepple with low morality will be able to use others better than you who been a victim, had bad luck or bad health, and so needed help and narcissist took the chance to abuse you , use you and manipulate you .. and then there is nothing more they need from you or you become stronger and become a threat they will get rid of you either by destroying you and take everything away form you by making sure to manipulate others to fire you , divorce you or abandon you...- but they will not pay for their bad deeds towards you or others, they are on the top of the food chain and you are not and that is why they can do what they do... if you do not understand this then you never ever been targeted by narcissists and got zero idea of how serious their abuse is and how complex it is to get out of! they know what they are doing! they know how to get around it and get away from accountably so to hurt you at all times!
Karma. Ask an X hare Krishna monk. Yes they get their karma. But after they die. They visit lord Yamaha. And he dishes out their karmic reaction in the lower planets
What about if they do show you how they aren't coping. I sat with my ex today for 6 hours listening to how much ive ruined his life. How he will never be happy again. How all he wanted was to be a family with me whilst he didnt ever change all the things i said i couldnt be with him? He tells me im not normal,i tell him i actually think hes a narcissist and he tells me everyone has traits of it. He told me how much he loved me and then all of a sudden he wouldnt speak to me,i went to hug him and he pulled away in absolute disgust. Told me all i do it lie....the list is endless. Maybe im the narc. I domt know but i know if he loved me he wouldnt treat me this way 😢
I see it differently. That person existed before I met them I am sure must have hurt people before me So his bad karma was ALREADY imprinted on by those who got hurt prior. Kinda like something in the air around him. And then you get sucked in.. Don't you get it? They are like walking curse. He carries it with him and so as I was with, bad things happened to me too He somehow copy/pasted it into my energy field So when you get out, then slowly detach You are detaching out of that black hole So to return to your own karma is main key Then all BAD LUCK that you couldn't figure out why was happening to you while you were attached to their energy field will stay with them. How they dispose of it, how long before they find next victim to iron transfer it to, to carry that heavy karma instead of them, is none of your business. I hope it rather dissolves than gets lached unto another innocent human being of light. It is darkness that feeds of light. Pray to detach, the invisible string is hardest part to cut, I felt almost like umbilical cord that was stubborn to desolve, so pray 🙏 in any way you do
Yeah she just moved back in with her parents where she was when I started talking to her almost 2 years. its kinda satisfying im not going to lie. But also, Karma isn't real and is a pretty stupid concept
Reprimand, that's not the word. Reprimand is something you do to an actual 4 yr old. Sort of like Admonishment you give to a 4 yr old. If that's all the Narcissist get is fine with me. Narcissist have Karma every day in other words that she speaks of. Karma is going No Contact. Getting as far away from the Narcissist as possible. I don't play the revenge card. But when I do it is not going. Wow let em go. If not then the Narcissist still have power over yo ass
My wife was raised Catholic. I tell her when I die I'm going to come back and whisper in her ear all the horrible things she's said and remind her of what she's done. Lol.
I don't understand why her religion enters into it. Catholic teaching is that Catholics are servants of God. Humility, service to others and daily penance are all a part of that. It sounds to me that you might be the narcissist because of your after life plans. Get help
thank you for all your videos. what if you are married to an abusive narcissistic wife who has also experienced childhood abuse like you have -can we heal ourselves and them
Even when they apologize it’s not sincere it’s just to use you again.
True, while I was being discarded I brought up an apology that was made a few months prior and the narc said "the apology was a long time ago" it really stunned me
That's the truth...they didn't feel a bit of shame from being horrible to someone...
It happend so me so yes i agree! 1000%
Hello! I know this posted a while ago, but if you see this reply I would appreciate any and all feedback/help/advice you have. I was recently contacted by my ex (I ended the relationship after 2 1/2 years last November) and have struggled severely for the past 9 months. I have BPD (diagnosed while we were together) and he played on it and all of the mental issues associated to it. I found out about the smear campaign and that he cheated after we had broken up (I stupidly lost my $hit and contacted him to which he blew me off) and I went no contact. He found a “nightie” of mine when he was unpacking a suitcase all these months later and he found out I was no longer living where I had been renting a home. He had moved in with me. I’m NOT faultless… my mother was (and still is) horribly abusive and a narcissist, so between the two of them manipulating me, I am STILL a mess. He “felt” he should “apologize” for “the hurt he was responsible for” and “it’s been weighing heavy on his chest and mind.” His original message was asking if I had 5-10 minutes to talk. I have suffered for years now… months spent since breaking up mourning the life I had built and dreamed around him. I AM ANGRY… I AM HURT beyond anything I have ever felt before. 5-10 minutes couldn’t even begin to scratch the surface. Any guidance ANYONE has, please… I just want to be “happy” again.
Our CREATOR said it first, YOU will reap what you sow!
Amén ✝️🙏✝️
The emptiness they feel everday and lack of awareness.
Wonderfully said yes I’m afraid it does… ‘what goes around comes around’ you reap what you sow in life.
"People pay for what they do by the lives that they lead." --James Baldwin
Loosing us is there Karma,We are their Karma when you leave them & never look back ever.
Losing
@@shoolbhritdarshan8244 Yeah that to didn't know it was spelling class back at school 👍
I provided her with so many resources and so much help that when I ended the relationship all of that went away instantly and she knows it. That's why she was still try to get me back in her life even though now she says I am a horrible person. Zero integrity. So long as I am useful I can be horrible and still be in her life.
True😅
Sadly its not. They just get their next victim. It will be much worse.
in general they die terrified.... horrible deaths. fighting to last moment. my father was the most terrified person as he died. he could no longer push the consequences away.
Karma means in Sanskrit: Remember. If they are synthetic, asocial or psychopaths they just dont care. Please just stay away from this group of people. Go with your people. Stop wasting your time.
There karma is that they can never fill love that's good enough for me.
God is not mocked whatever a man sows that shall he reap
06:35 “The Light always wins.”
Karma would serve no purpose in their lives because they can't learn and grow so I'd say no they are not karmic souls in that respect. They act as life lessons for us but not unto themselves.
That I'd there karma God has handed them over to a reprobate mind they have no awareness they are lost
When I was younger I wanted to get back at my narc family member. Now that I’m older, I wish them all the best but really don’t want to engage with them ever again. I feel so liberated right now. And these You Tube channels are so helpful. So thankful to all the experts who really know their stuff.
it's when you no longer desire for them to get their karma and couldn't care less if they do or not, is when you have healed and have taken your power back.
I have days when I want him to get his karma and days when I feel so free from him, I couldn't care less about what he is up to.
I look forward to being so fully healed and no longer hurt, that my thoughts don't include him at all.
WOW!! YES!! I pray for that time to come.
lately when I catch myself in a part of the grief cycle where I feel rage and want relief by knowing he will suffer too, I hand these thoughts up and release them and then I actually feel much better because it's thoughts of him that keep me enmeshed to his lower vibration anyway..
All their negative energy is keeping you from living a full & happy life everyone deserves. So don’t let these folks rob/steal/take your positive energy you bring to the world. Show them up by taking that energy & putting it to good - that my friend is pure natural karma !
My Narc Ex always blame me for everything. When we used to argue it use to be like it was my fault with everything and when I pointed out something about her I was crazy and wrong 😭
Yup, we reap what we sow! And yes, let it go, you had good intentions, do not let the negative energy they sowed into you mess up your life. Take care of yourself and go reap what you have sowed! ❤
So true Anoushka. My ex narc is experiencing karma. Has been a champion athlete up until about 6 years ago when she got rumatoid arthritis. No more being an athlete. Although I really felt for her...I'm sure it's karma!!
My ex-narc and I had a raging screaming episode over me reacting to her toxicity towards me after a concert. The following morning, she continued her rage...not taking any responsibility for her behavior. I apologized, of course, for my behavior...several times. I ended up walking out...leaving her at the hotel (she had her own car). Three days later, she got her 3rd DUI (in 4 years). Guess who she blamed...for her own fucking DUI? Yep, she's getting her karma right now as her sentencing has finally come up. She will have a collapse while in jail, and also dealing with her case for the next 2 years.
Female narcs are the best, aren’t they?
Your lucky my ex narc gets away with everything. She has multiple Rich men sending her money she keeps failing upwards
@Kevin
She:/ The Narc will also have a huge fine with the DUI !! Karma is a “Beach”😂 it’s already beginning!! Don’t be surprised if she also blames you with the fine of the DUI . The narcissist will always blame others for their actions and turn it on you. I guess you must have been holding her drinks of alcohol while she was consuming it right?? 😂🤣 So glad you are done with her you deserve better!!
Jailtime, loss of license, fines, lawyer fees, court ordered treatment, and lawyer fees. Karma.
Mine had three DUIs in her late 20's and two arrests in her late 40's. I've never heard her take any responsibility for them.
The time and manner in which karma strikes is not for you to know. And it's better that it strikes them while they are still on earth. When you're on the other side, without the walls flesh that constitute your body, the pain and suffering know no boundary. It's called hell.
I went no contact with my narc sister . Thinking she will be remorseful but actually she is happily posting happy pictures in her apps.
@@Thriverforall Don’t believe all the happy posts…done to get to you. I know from experience. My ex is suffering and I’m told he’s drinking and looks terrible.
@@Thriverforallno true happyness is ever possible with a narc.
I think blowing up every relationship and their circle of people getting smaller and smaller until they’ve alienated virtually everyone is karma. Left lonely with only strangers who don’t know them.
Unless they are rich, then they will have a line of ass wipers
Correct 😢
"Instant Karma is gonna Get You" - John Lennon
I see this so clearly now. It takes time to work on yourself in order to let it go. It will not last as long as you keep moving
I lost my job, broke and having severe physical symptoms because of this connection. I've let it go and I've learnt my lessons.
I feel that my ex-narc is getting her karma just by the simple fact hat she was still trying to get me to do things for her and, when I refused, she threw all kinds of nasty accusations and insults at me (which don't bother me anymore). What kind of person still reaches out to someone they hurt cruelly? Someone who is desperate, and a desperate person is an unhappy person. She lists some things that I supposedly caused her to suffer whereas they are all a result of a bad, impulsive and even criminal action she took. So I know she's in trouble. That's her karma. It really is best not to try to get revenge because karma will come back to you as well. Leave them alone. They are experts at destroying their own lives.
Reaching 100k soon
Congrats Anoushka
Don't fear much but karma is at the top.
"Exploited?" It doesn't feel like that. It feels more like someone cut open my chest cavity with a dull blade, and then pissed on my heart, right before they ripped it free with a pair of dinner forks. Heck, I would have rather thrown myself into the pit of a Volcano!
Fcukin hear that brother
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God tells us that revenge is mine says the lord I shall repay.... They are no way anyone will get past God he knows all he sees all and he hears all.... God is the only reason why I can keep going on..... I wouldn't want to be in a narcissist shoe's.... It's sad but they made the choice..
How my heart has broken 💔
They don't get their Karma....they are already living a Karma from other lives, when they did the same thing to others..... it's part of a never ending cycle of one life to another to another to another for a narcissist.....
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yes they do. behind bars
Yes, they get their karma.. 😮😮😅😅
My ex Narc: seemed to go around in cycles. One day his ego is full blown and he's out there telling the world how fantastic he is! And what an under achiever you are! Next day he would lapse into depression. Then he tried to give back to the community, he tried to save someone's life but was unsuccessful. He hit rock bottom asking : why is it that everything I touch dies.
This is BRILLIANT!!!!
Yes they do, it might not be publicly seen, but my ex narc certainly got it….and I was still living in the house at the time. He was having total meltdowns and by the time I left, he knew he had picked the wrong one.
After months of verbal and emotional abuse, I turned it back on him and he couldn’t deal with it. Everything he tried to do to me, I blocked it, when he wanted an argument, I stayed completely silent. Other times when he started, I chose my moment and verbally punched him right between the eyes which had him storm out the room slamming the door and licking his wounds for hours.
I had also been secretly recording him for 5 months before I moved out and would listen to them because in his rages he would let slip what his plans were for me, I blocked every one of them and left him not knowing what the hell had happened.
He said for me to move out on his day off….presumably so he could help the movers so they thought I was the problem and he could laugh as he shut the door on me….I moved out the day before when he was at work. 👍
You have to be strong and stand up to them, it’s the only way. He will never come near me again.
Yes they do it just takes a few years
Others are telling me karma is not a garuntee and I hear most narcissists go unpunished and acutely succeed in life I find karma hard to believe I lost hope I have no more faith in humanity
And the enabling flying monkeys who are accomplices?
Thank you so much for this video
Let it GO
No. I'm sure not. Because they always will have supplies around them.
I think they are suffering most of the time. I finally started exposing him to his enabling family and he hasn't come around since. I stopped keeping his secrets. I sure do attract these types.
Thank you!
There is no karma for the narcissist, they live in a place one would resemble a perpetual Groundhog Day in hell…this is not karma, this is purgatory, and I pity the soul trapped in this cycle
Well said! 💞💞
My anger and PTSD nightmares and internal horror. Began to heal very quickly. Firstly when i realised my narsassistic mother. Was a narsassist and when i said enough i no longer wish to connect with you. It took years to get to this point. Like im 58 .Because i didn't understand what she was. I knew she was a negative person. I bounced between understanding and forgetting. Or denial. Like i didn't understand how my own mother could be so envious of me. It took my phycologist to explain this to me. But suddenly after i said. No more go away you sad envious person. Then a cloud was lifted from my head. I pray it stays this way. Because its soul destroying. And i don't think i can cope with any more internal stress .
I have a narcissist GF, IT IS TERRIBLE being with her, you find yourself chasing them all day, mentally and physically, and they are evading you really well, you can't catch them! But they have a whole other life behind your back... You'll find you can't sleep, don't eat, and your body will deteriorate. For example, she will go to work with two thick jackets, a bomber and a leather jacket, with a tight top under, its freezing outside. She will wear the bomber jacket in the office during the day and has a date sometime in the day, she will wear the leather jacket, and if you ask about the two jackets, "you're controlling" and they will say they have a beauty appointment, but will be two hours for a simple procedure....
I have 2 kids with narcissistic, this is the worst part!
For sure. Every day!
No they don’t. Not in this life. Often times the selfish narcissists succeed in life and actually get treated the best by their spouses.
Ohh they Do get....just they r egoist and pretend to be fine
If you are a victim of a narcissist it's most likely because you were one in a past life. And this is your karma for what your avatar did in that life. All about soul's growth and balance of universe. So trust the universe that all narcissists will get theirs. Staying in anger or victimhood or wanting revenge only lowers your frequency and does absolutely nothing to them. When Ascension comes, they will all be gone on Earth. Using my Pendulum and tarot cards have gotten me through this and given me the truth of what's really going on.
Short answer is yes.
NO and if you think this way it will only keep you stuck!
I think so I highly believe so my best friend got bullied long time ago he told me karma will get those people that hurt me and it did happen because she bully was around and sad I fall pretty hard on the ground mind you this the same exact bully that did bully him so absolutely I do believe karma is going to happen to the narcissist at some point in there lives beside narcissistic people are the worst there toxic and take pleasure in hurting others however they do it so yes these fools don’t change and will catch up with those toxic narcissists!🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
i must of got mine sure feels like it.
I feel better right now i know the truth about that demonic creature!!!!
No, they sure don’t…they get it all along.
Yep. She was being shown 1111 EVERYWHERE. I tried to tell her. She wouldnt heed the warning. I told her it was wonderful.. but she misunderstood. The wonderful is the opportunity to wake up, to give herself to God, to put her priorities in order when it comes to being humble and non judgemental, to value and keep close to the good people who come into her life, to trust in God, to stop exploiting, to stop gossiping, to stop enjoying getting the better of people, to let go of her pride and anger, to know love, to become clean. God was shouting it at her. He WILL humble her, he has been VERY vocal and clear about it.
Well my ex said when there was fires around our old house it burn down 4 yrs o so .then he bought a new house had a lot wrong with it then wish I dont wish anyone he has 4 stage cancer dieing in hospital now.i don't want anyone to get cancer so much pain oh no
My ex narc husband was incredibly abusive. He would also weaponize me with threats of throwing me out of his apartment. I left him and we’re finally divorced three years later. He got a new supply to replace me. Unfortunately she passed away a month ago from a drug overdose and now he is also about to lose his apartment. He’s alone and has nothing now. So yes, karma is inevitable 🤷🏾♀️
I love what you say thankyou ❤
Thank you
Thanks a lot can you talk in details more about karma against psychopathic personality disorder please pass on as possible?
Narcissism is a severe injury. They got their karma in the beginning. Everything forward is a fake image. It's a response out of desperation to feed spiritual and emotional starvation.
they never get any karma... karma is not in their way, they have less karma than you and that is Why we call it karma! karma is your past life not your present actions, there is no such things as instant karma. they got virtues from past life, like goo health, genes, family money and what not.. you don't and so we who are the victims of a narcissist had less good genes, less chance to family money and good luck, friends that gave us opportunities etc and so they who got more simply exploit those that have less and that is how narcissist ride you! is no mumbo jumbo, they see who got bad luck and use them and they see who got good luck and manipulate them to like them...
nothing is ever gonna happen to them in due cause.,. that is totally dumb o jumbo!
science is that smart paepple with low morality will be able to use others better than you who been a victim, had bad luck or bad health, and so needed help and narcissist took the chance to abuse you , use you and manipulate you .. and then there is nothing more they need from you or you become stronger and become a threat they will get rid of you either by destroying you and take everything away form you by making sure to manipulate others to fire you , divorce you or abandon you...-
but they will not pay for their bad deeds towards you or others, they are on the top of the food chain and you are not and that is why they can do what they do...
if you do not understand this then you never ever been targeted by narcissists and got zero idea of how serious their abuse is and how complex it is to get out of! they know what they are doing! they know how to get around it and get away from accountably so to hurt you at all times!
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YES 🙌🏽
Karma. Ask an X hare Krishna monk. Yes they get their karma. But after they die. They visit lord Yamaha. And he dishes out their karmic reaction in the lower planets
What about if they do show you how they aren't coping. I sat with my ex today for 6 hours listening to how much ive ruined his life. How he will never be happy again. How all he wanted was to be a family with me whilst he didnt ever change all the things i said i couldnt be with him? He tells me im not normal,i tell him i actually think hes a narcissist and he tells me everyone has traits of it. He told me how much he loved me and then all of a sudden he wouldnt speak to me,i went to hug him and he pulled away in absolute disgust. Told me all i do it lie....the list is endless. Maybe im the narc. I domt know but i know if he loved me he wouldnt treat me this way 😢
Everyone gets their just desserts
Mise en place
Bon appetite
God knows …
A narcissist is not a human being.
I see it differently.
That person existed before I met them
I am sure must have hurt people before me
So his bad karma was ALREADY imprinted on by those who got hurt prior.
Kinda like something in the air around him. And then you get sucked in..
Don't you get it?
They are like walking curse.
He carries it with him and so as I was with, bad things happened to me too
He somehow copy/pasted it into my energy field
So when you get out, then slowly detach
You are detaching out of that black hole
So to return to your own karma is main key
Then all BAD LUCK that you couldn't figure out why was happening to you while you were attached to their energy field will stay with them. How they dispose of it, how long before they find next victim to iron transfer it to, to carry that heavy karma instead of them, is none of your business. I hope it rather dissolves than gets lached unto another innocent human being of light.
It is darkness that feeds of light.
Pray to detach, the invisible string is hardest part to cut, I felt almost like umbilical cord that was stubborn to desolve, so pray 🙏 in any way you do
Yeah she just moved back in with her parents where she was when I started talking to her almost 2 years. its kinda satisfying im not going to lie. But also, Karma isn't real and is a pretty stupid concept
Reprimand, that's not the word.
Reprimand is something you do to an actual 4 yr old.
Sort of like Admonishment you give to a 4 yr old.
If that's all the Narcissist get is fine with me.
Narcissist have Karma every day in other words that she speaks of. Karma is going No Contact. Getting as far away from the Narcissist as possible.
I don't play the revenge card. But when I do it is not going.
Wow let em go. If not then the Narcissist still have power over yo ass
People to tell you really it's different wen you can read themselves without to speak the body language
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My wife was raised Catholic. I tell her when I die I'm going to come back and whisper in her ear all the horrible things she's said and remind her of what she's done. Lol.
I don't understand why her religion enters into it. Catholic teaching is that Catholics are servants of God. Humility, service to others and daily penance are all a part of that.
It sounds to me that you might be the narcissist because of your after life plans. Get help
So i guess living with themselves is their karma 🤷
The answer is no. There is no such thing as karma. They might live a better life than you.
It shouldn’t be your concern. Move on.
I sending to you now badkarma
thank you for all your videos. what if you are married to an abusive narcissistic wife who has also experienced childhood abuse like you have -can we heal ourselves and them