I can't stand the uncontrollable urge to just "laugh away" terrible situations. Had it so many times as a younger insecure person. In the end it doesn't do anything but make you look like a pathetic worm. Because the abusive/bad person who is doing something that makes you uncomfortable is not laughing with you. In fact, they lose even more respect for you, which they had none of in the first place.
@@juliac2687free labor. As long as she is around, he doesn't have to pay a cook, babysitter, laundress, prostitute, or maid. He is saving a ton of money.
@@juliac2687 He knows no one else will tolerate him. Aside from sick attitude, he is not exactly great looking either. Will not be a hot commodity when single.
I literally called my current partner a unicorn. I have been dating since I was 16. I did not meet a valuable man until I was 29. He is handsome and goes to the gym, is in touch with his emotions (not just aggression), has good communication skills, does not use manipulation, is realistically afraid of losing me so he does everything to make me happy and keep me. He is loyal and faithful. He cleans, cooks. He is sensitive and gentle where I need him. Even when I overdo it, he stands by my side and calms my nerves with his gentle approach. He brings me flowers without an occasion. He knows small details about me that only people who are sincerely interested in us know about us. AS THE FIRST MAN in my life, he respects and cares about my sexual boundaries. He is the first not to be selfish in bed. He is the first to respect my refusal and does not punish me for my lack of desire. And he is the first man who is truly empathetic, which I usually do not encounter in men. Few have developed empathy. And he really is the first man to see me as a HUMAN. But to search for 15 years and find only one such man? That doesn't speak well of them...
The time he spent gaslighting her he could had make a thousand cup of coffee. Her laugh is so fake and full of embarrassment. Not even a roommate won’t deny you a cup of coffee! 😅
He got to stay seated and be lazy while running his mouth, trying to seal the deal that this will never be brought up again because the last time it was such a big deal and she still didn’t get what she asked for. These men need to know what being self sufficient is, they just go from mother to leeching off women until they find the woman that best will be used as a slave with the least input by him. Lazy abusive opportunitistic liars they are
@@hanatirk4375 They act like it's a flex because they want you to be envious and fall in the same trap as them. It's like a domesticated bird telling a free bird that being caged is better, you like in a cosy home, no harsh weather, no predators you're being taken care of and you never have to hunt.
Just to clarify, all marriages are not like this. Also a whole life of two people can't be judged on a 2 minute video. On the other hand, we women turn to be manipulative. Why was she recording? This sounds like a man who is not appreciated. Marriage goes both ways
Most women say “companionship”. They also will say they have to keep the father in the home- because they know if they stop sleeping with the man, he won’t acknowledge any of the kids he has with her.
Lmao, how did you know😆 My now late grandma told me not to get married. She asked me if I have a boyfriend. I thought she was gonna pressure me about it like some people her age tend do to younger people. But she was suddenly just like...DON'T get married. Just came out of nowhere.
Fr my grandma of my mom's side said to me "mariage can be fun, but if i was you i wouldn't waste my time washing socks and underwear for 40 years for a man" Funny part is that multiple men got angry at my grandma's words saying it was the least she could do when her husband is working to provide for her (she also worked a paying job). And it's was something her and my late grandpa talked about if someone would die if they would ever date again. While family on my dad's side would always tell me i have to be married and have children or else i would be good for nothing, then they heard i was disabled and told me this world doesn't need wrong babies.
I remember talking with a friend of a friend. She was a cancer survivor. Surgery, chemo therapy, etc. while she was dealing with this her husband and son expected her to continue as if nothing was happening. Cooking and cleaning and serving them. They would not lift a finger to help her. She found the strength to get an attorney and actually divorced him in the middle of her treatments. She realized they didn’t love her or care about her.
I recently heard from my healthcare worker that this is a common occurrence. Either this or they leave because they don’t wanna deal with the cancer. It’s biological … men don’t have the same emotional complexity as women do and their oppression of emotion by society makes it worse
Breaks my heart but doesn’t surprise me a bit 🥺. My EX (tyvm) was a 6’5” 400lb INFANT when he had a COLD. When he went to hospital for something relatively minor, he *demanded* i was there at every waking moment & then some. When i was in ICU with SEPSIS, i only heard from him when he couldn’t find something. & after a week away, he clearly never found the dishwasher, hamper, or a broom 😤 (Hope she is really doing well today, btw!!! 💖🦋)
He was like, how dare my servant slave ask me to serve her something? this is how he sees her, she is there to only cater to him, he is bothered by her expecting reciprocity and considerations, because she is supposed to be his slave bang-mommy servant and not ask for anything in return.
That's how she copes to stay in that marriage 😂😂😂. Making excuses for him and laughing off his disrespect is better than being single to her because at least she's not alone
@@briasworld8 How many times do I gotta tell y’all..?? It’s MALEESSS!! Get it right. REAL MEN WOULDN’T do this 🗣🗣🗣💯🎯 Wouldn’t complain about taking care of the kids or argue with his wife over something so trivial
Aaaaaand, he did wash some of the dishes, too. 😂 I hate how men - fathers - consider spending time with their children is "babysitting" or "childcare." These fathers are also parents. Parents need spend time with their children. Ideally, parents should enjoy spending time raising their children.
Spoiled toddler-men are mind boggling to me: why are women doing this to themselves?!! I am sooooooooo thankful that I am single. It’s a cup of coffee. She didn’t ask for gold, blood donation or something.
If these men put in half the effort into helping their girlfriends and wives that they put into arguing about how they don't want to do anything for you, this channel wouldn't exist
Sadly this is exactly how the married women I know are treated. Their husbands go shopping, go out with their friends, go on trips and go to coffee shops and don’t buy them anything while the wives are at home all day dealing with kids and household chores…..all day.🤷🏽♀️
Awful! Those women are married single moms. What's the point of being in a marriage with no benefits, just more work? Couldn't be me. I hope those women choose themselves someday and leave those relationships.
It’s because we are in end times. I am not marrying any man that doesn’t have God in his life because I feel theirs a huge spiritual war at play. Too many people are lovers of themselves. People in your family will betray one another this is the times we’re living in
@@ashleybanksss Your right but you have to be careful around men that claim to be religious. Majority of the ones I knew that claimed such things were w orse then men that had no god. Hiding all sorts of inf'delity and claiming that god spoke to them to give them the right to h arm their wives.
I’m in this boat! He lets us go without food, saying “well I don’t know what to tell you” instead of hustling his ass! I spend every dollar I get on picking up slack for his shortcomings. it’s been a year since I had a $20 haircut which I had to beg for a year to get that one! Been begging 6 months and he was thinking about what he was going to buy himself for Christmas. So when he said the other day, “I really hope we can have s3x soon it’s really starting to affect me “ during a time we’d gone 5 days without food, I told him that I just didn’t know what to tell him and as long as he thinks it’s on me to give more then he should just invest in lube for Christmas.
@@yobafox1jason556 I got involved with this type of guy, too. He can't take care of the basics and neglects mine and our daughter's basic needs like shelter and heat. When it comes to sex, in six years he never once gave me an O during sex, because he didn't care about my pleasure. It was just him and his pleasure so that he didn't have to feel religious guilt over masturbating. Boy, please. I've had to take care of myself this entire time. God made cl*ts for a singular purpose for a reason. What has he done lately to deserve sex? Because he hasn't been paying rent like he's supposed to, either. Forced me into a homeless shelter at the beginning of September and I had to come crawling back or I'd lose my job. How is forcing the mother of your child to live in a homeless shelter worthy of sexual rewards because "it's really starting to affect me"? But don't worry, I'm working my ass off to save enough money to get an apartment of my own so I can move out with our child ASAP.
I've been with my husband for 50 years. We've made it through some really hard times and almost divorced once. He is sweet and treats me very well. I don't think that there are many men like him anymore. I'm one of the lucky ones.
It is transactional. Narcissists don't "love" you. They transact with you ONLY if YOU have things to give them. Once you become sick, lose your job etc. They discard you.
Women tolerate bad marriages because they can't afford to divorce. They are often cut off from a support network and have work experience. Women in marriages = hostages.
LEGIT TRIED ENHANCINGGGGG THE PIC SO I COULD SEE THE NUMBER ON HIS WATCH AND SLEUTH!! if anyone can get that number or parts of it, i want it thank you
I'm glad you said he's your ex. Imagine, instead if thinking of YOU and wanting you to be happy, his mind bypassed alladat and went straight to "I don't wanna clean up that mess." Not every XY deserves to be in a relationship. Too selfish and unloving. Smh
They view everything as an exchange and conditional. They can't love. I love how she's like "please make me coffee, I'm so tired, I'm just yearning for any kind of affection from you" and this piece of ... just looks at her like "that's not my problem." He has such a punchable face ... I'm just saying.
The sad truth is is that most of these women are paying 50-50, meaning that they’re already paying for a man to be there. Then they have to put up with the abuse the side eyes, he’s probably even texting another woman right in front of her. Ladies get your dignity back, get your pride back, and walk away from this toxicity immediately.!
@@Inaaraaesthetics what is victim blame? I see it as the woman is claiming to be the victims meanwhile she's the one that went to the jail to look for rayquon , then crying victim she got abused. These videos are actually quiet hilarious if you ask me. It seems these woman are just the same kind as the men they flock with. Idk I'm from Brooklyn so I can't say it's environment. Shit even back in the days when I went with drug dealers I was always taken care of as a princess 😂
@@rachelross5829 When women have to be survival then they'll tend to much masculine Why's paying bills masculine? I don't see them being ridiculous or whatever honestly Just because someone's splitting the bills or doing something doesn't mean they can be dropped like a hot cake I'm glad you were well taken care of
@Inaaraaesthetics paying a man bills is masculine. Sorry if I wasn't clear and if I was and you can't understand why paying a mans bill is then I don't think I can explain that to you.
The absolute most annoying part in it all is him asking back, "Are you crazy?" WHAT, exactly, does her question entail insanity? I mean, maybe she is. For putting up with his bs.
I personally felt like the most annoying part is when he would aggressively say “I don’t have to answer you, I don’t need to give you an answer.” he was clearly looking for a fight. Especially when he would tell her things that anybody would know., she knows that you don’t have to give her an answer, She’s not telling you that you are required to do anything. Ugh, gross! That man does not like women, that man is definitely a Trump supporter and he just flat out dislikes women. You can also tell that if she doesn’t satisfy his every sexual needs, he is online flirting with other women looking at other women’s photos and acting like she’s never given him sex ever; meanwhile also acting like anytime he spends with the kids is a favor to his wife. As if he’s not one of the two parents in that household.
My mom had a stroke and became disabled. My dad takes carrrre of her! To this day will bring home drinks her and I like. He enjoys cooking breakfast for his family. As his daughter, I habe woken up to him knocking on my door to hand me breakfast. The statistics of husbands leaving their wives when they have health issues is HIGH. Find a man who loves and enjoys trying to make your day a little better.
It's rare to see it actually play out where men live up to the vows love honor and cherish, but it is beautiful and wonderful when it does. My husband is one of the good ones. As an example, A few years ago I had to go stay with my sister who had emergency surgery. After three weeks away I got home to a house cleaner than I had left it clean sheets and roses on the table with a note apologizing that he couldn't be home to great me when I arrived, and that he would take care of dinner since I had a seven hour drive that day and he didn't want me to feel like I even had to worry about it. Mind you I was between jobs at the time and so was taking on the domestic labor so cooking dinner was my responsibility within our agreed upon tasks. But he took it off my plate because he loves me. Marriage is supposed to be a partnership where each person does their best to build the other one up. It supposed to be always having someone in your corner. A friend and a boon companion. I wish it was like that in every marriage. But I know most women can't find a good man because they are rare. I was extremely picky and my husband is far from perfect but I have a type of freedom within my marriage that I couldn't have outside of it. I am free from worry or stress about romantic relationships because I have a committed relationship. I am free of the huge amount of stress about having to rely just on myself financially. I am free to rest and recover when I get sick because he is there to care for me as I am for him. It is not intrinsic to the nature or marriage for it to be a contract for slavery. That's just what so many bad men (and the occasional woman) try to turn it into.
That lady out her damn mind. Asking something simple that can be answered with an obvious yes or no is somehow the "evil female setting a trap" and him calling her crazy right off the hop was just him "falling for it" but in reality the "trap" was just "publicly admit who you really are" 🙄😒
Seeing the men in this video get up and make their wife coffee was super refreshing. I forget there is a VERY VERY VERY small amount of decent men out there. I have many aunts but I noticed one of them, she *always* asks for her husband to make her coffee and he always makes it. One time I came over to help her with something in the morning, I felt tired af and she was tired from work and a newborn baby, she told him to buy us coffee and he bought it. Period. The OP couple definitely hate each other 😂
I dated because I was led to believe it's what women should want and should do. Dated a man for 6 months no sex he proposed and I couldn't figure out why I should do that. I've never seen a relationship or marriage I wanted for myself. I told him no we didn't talk for 4 years we met randomly and have been friends since.
I love how most women claim marriage is the only thing that causes this in men- yall literally will live with boyfriends for years- doing exactly what a “wife “ would do and get treated the exact same. But … it’s all about being his “main chick” right???
I seriously do not get this guy. I make coffee for anyone nearby as a common courtesy. This guy would rather fight than bring the supposed "love of his life" a drink? He sees her as a servant, nothing more.
Was completely surprised at the words coming out of my mouth as the first guy spoke to his wife about “being with the kids”, “some of us have to work”, and “we know you know how to say no” over a simple request from her. And I was a sailor
The husband of one of my friends doesn't even help her with her dog, like taking the dog out to pee and basic vet stuff. And yes, she still wants babies with him.
Yea unfortunately your friend is definitely not the brightest bulb in the box. I personally think you should drop her she is setting herself up for know reason.
@@babygirla5717 Yeah, I already did girl. I put some distance the moment her husband was acting weird on me on their weeding. Can't force people out of cults, specially the romantic cult
My husband just asked me if I wanted dinner, he’d make it for me, since I’m not feeling good. I see these vids and thank God even more for him. That poor woman.
Middle of my divorce I asked my husband if he even knew what I like to drink. He was wrong. He named what he liked. In 24 years he had never once made me a cup of coffee or tea.
I know some people think I'm too harsh, but I broke off a 3 year relationship, in part, because when he got me gifts they were always things I expressly disliked. The one (popular) flower I'd told him I didn't like, other cliche things I'd let him know I didn't like (heart shaped jewelery I'd feel guilty not wearing, for exampme) It made me feel like a girlfriend shaped cutout. When he was trying to get me back, he cooked for me (pretty much a first) and cooked the one food I hate. He wasn't a monster, but didn't seem to perceive me as an individual person or listen to me!
just don’t lower your standards girl. take every red flag seriously. and don’t fall in love with potential. he is it now, or he’s got it now, or he don’t 🤷🏼♀️
That’s when I would clock out. Can’t do something so small yet I bet he has many expectations of her. Again like @ReallyMaxx said what’s the benefit again???
He alluded to his expectation of s3x from her when he got all excited to mention how many times he hears "no" from her😅 failing to realize that making her coffee would lubricate the path to what he wants For the most part men are very selfish and shortsighted, which makes them d u m b for all intents and purposes.
Makes me want to remain single forever after my divorce. I have been divorced and single for 10 years and when i hear of the plight of married women and everything they put up with, even the things I used to have to deal with in my past marriage, I will not pit myself in thqt situation again
I never ask my husband to make a coffee. He's already done that when he sees I'm tired, bussy, need a break or is in the mood of relaxing and talking together. Everytime I see clips like this I realise I hit the jackpot.
I was married to one…. Didn’t want to serve me a glass of water while I was breastfeeding our son… why? Because he works to provide and I stay home with our 3 boys! He’s the best ex husband tho 😂😂
I take it one step further. Mine would get me A COFFEE but with great fan fare and drama. He once came back with coconut milk in my coffee, knowing I'm allergic to coconut. Yep.
I'm so sorry that first women is stuck with that selfish, contemptuous, child. Mentally and emotionally leaving has probably already happened but moving out? Not that simple or easy. With kids? Unless she's wealthy, it might make sense to just live as roommates when you have a jerk of a roommate. She should start planning and documenting now. I suspect he's one of those men that will do antything possible to get out paying child support.
21:23 did she just blame the *wife* for his behavior? Not "he failed", but she "set him up for failure", traumatized him", and "she picked a fight". There's always at least one...🤦🏾♀️
I bet you that these two are the type of older couple we are told to envy because theyve been together for 20+ years or so. Most of the time middle aged men like this had everything handsd to them and are the most entitled and spoiled people out theee. And yet everyone hates on "Karen" when guys like this exist. Couldnt finish the video, dude made me so mad lmao
Even my narcissistic ex would never act that way. He was terrible in other ways, was an addict and quite verbally abusive, but even HE knew to make me a cup of coffee if I asked him to. Like not to compare or whatnot, but even the ashhole I was with knew what the bare-bones minimum was.
I love the energy that comes from giving up. And the idiots think that's when they've won because we stopped bitching. Meanwhile, we're making our plan to leave.
Her take was such an eye roll. I still struggle to see how she got that from the original video. He could have just said "not now honey." There was no reason to fight her, he just hates her.
PickMe is a catalyst to PushMe, PunchMe, PrankMe, PenalizeMe, PunishMe, and every other humiliating treatment they are willing to accept to be keep getting PICKEDon
She's saying that the act of recording to set him up, documenting his failure, was the act of betrayal. Completely ignoring the fact that the reason she was recording is because this is the way he treats her. Now should she be recording? No, she should be divorcing.
I will never forget when I was a young woman I was traveling in Barbados, and I met an older Bajan woman. She told me that marriage is misery. I never married, but I would say to young women out there, I have still longed to be happily married like an aunt and uncle who died shortly after each other and a friend of mine and her husband. Happiness is possible, but you have to pay attention to the red flags.
6:30 this lady is absolutely correct! My last ex and I had plenty of issues in our relationship, but at least he was a kind human not just to me but to others. And he actually liked me lol so he literally NEVER said no to simple requests like coffee. In fact he enjoyed doing things for me. No matter the time or day, and this was reciprocal. If only I could take that quality of his and put it into the body of someone who I was compatible with 😂
I am literally going through a divorce, and my STBX would STILL not hesitate to make me a cup of coffee if I asked. I don't think my first husband would hesitate either, actually. This is a whole other level of hate.
Once I realized my ex put in more effort in fighting me than coming together or creating solutions, I knew right then I was fighting a losing battle & I was fighting it ALONE.
Too all of the women who have partners who came thru for them...please give them an extra hug, kiss, etc, from the rest of us. We need a few million more men/partners like these!!! 😊
Give me my cats. I am the prize. And if men behave this way I rather have my cats. At least they are thankful and don't demand this much. They only want food, out door play and occasional attention.
My husband is a family physician and he still helps with making dinner when I just don’t feel like cooking. He helps do the laundry, sweep the floors and mop. Every weekend when he’s off, he wakes up first and when he hears me waking up, he’ll bring me a cup of coffee made just how I like it(uses the correct Nespresso settings, a pat of butter, a sprinkle of cayenne pepper and a sprinkle of cinnamon) I thank God for him and I make sure to show & tell him how much I appreciate him as well. We’re going on 20 yrs. ❤🥰
@lf3554 Overpopulation due to immigration (refugees) and not enough growth ,a one bedroom apartment is $2000+ impossible for me to afford on my income. I feel stuck . Please pray for me .
This was the epitome of my marriage to my ex. It didn't start this way. I was love bombed hard and it went away after marriage, but in small ways. He actually had me convinced it was MY fault HE cheated after 20 years. Divorced for 10 years and I'm still single, for a reason.
He acting like he had to go to Columbia picking those damn coffee beans himself
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Uphill in the snow. 😂❤
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If somebody looks at you like this guy looks at his wife: he despises her.
Exactly how my ex used to look at me
He belongs in the mojo dojo casa house
@@MayDay-yn3bw you mean mojo jojo? 😂
I have seen other videos of her and the man the husband Is really nice he even cooked for her but she's annoying as fuck ..
@@socol76you probably was acting just like the woman in the video 😂
That man hates her
The laughing was so uncomfortable.
I can't stand the uncontrollable urge to just "laugh away" terrible situations. Had it so many times as a younger insecure person. In the end it doesn't do anything but make you look like a pathetic worm. Because the abusive/bad person who is doing something that makes you uncomfortable is not laughing with you. In fact, they lose even more respect for you, which they had none of in the first place.
If he hates her so much (and I agree with you, I think he really does hate her), why is he staying with her?! I just don’t get it!!
@@juliac2687free labor.
As long as she is around, he doesn't have to pay a cook, babysitter, laundress, prostitute, or maid.
He is saving a ton of money.
@@juliac2687 He knows no one else will tolerate him. Aside from sick attitude, he is not exactly great looking either. Will not be a hot commodity when single.
@@juliac2687He would lose all the free work…
Wanting a man who is self-sufficient, nice, and kind already cancels out 90% of men 🙄😮💨😤😢.
🎯 like looking for a unicorn in a field of donkeys
I literally called my current partner a unicorn. I have been dating since I was 16. I did not meet a valuable man until I was 29. He is handsome and goes to the gym, is in touch with his emotions (not just aggression), has good communication skills, does not use manipulation, is realistically afraid of losing me so he does everything to make me happy and keep me. He is loyal and faithful. He cleans, cooks. He is sensitive and gentle where I need him. Even when I overdo it, he stands by my side and calms my nerves with his gentle approach. He brings me flowers without an occasion. He knows small details about me that only people who are sincerely interested in us know about us. AS THE FIRST MAN in my life, he respects and cares about my sexual boundaries. He is the first not to be selfish in bed. He is the first to respect my refusal and does not punish me for my lack of desire. And he is the first man who is truly empathetic, which I usually do not encounter in men. Few have developed empathy. And he really is the first man to see me as a HUMAN. But to search for 15 years and find only one such man? That doesn't speak well of them...
@@continuousself-improvement1879hell, just nice and kind cancels out most of them
@@continuousself-improvement1879 That is an excellent analogy
True, that.....
The time he spent gaslighting her he could had make a thousand cup of coffee. Her laugh is so fake and full of embarrassment. Not even a roommate won’t deny you a cup of coffee! 😅
He got to stay seated and be lazy while running his mouth, trying to seal the deal that this will never be brought up again because the last time it was such a big deal and she still didn’t get what she asked for. These men need to know what being self sufficient is, they just go from mother to leeching off women until they find the woman that best will be used as a slave with the least input by him. Lazy abusive opportunitistic liars they are
The 1st guy scared me to my core! I would have divorced him in a heartbeat. He looks so aggressive and looking for hostile conversation.
Yeah like it's the first time he's shown her this side. She's an idiot
The fact that men treat being with their kids like something they are owed for is why I'm never having kids
It should make you not want men, but kids for sure.
Or like an unpleasant chore. The audacity of tsking and groaning at a child for them asking for time and attention.
They are energy siphons. Woman will watch these videos and still want them to tie a man down
The daddy holding the baby while getting coffee 😊❤😍
Men think spending time with their children is a favor to their wife AND shildren.
And people act like marriage is a flex. Being single sounds like heaven.
@@hanatirk4375 They act like it's a flex because they want you to be envious and fall in the same trap as them.
It's like a domesticated bird telling a free bird that being caged is better, you like in a cosy home, no harsh weather, no predators you're being taken care of and you never have to hunt.
I grew up in church full of young people getting married left and right. It was never a flex.
It is if you're a woman married to a woman.
Just to clarify, all marriages are not like this. Also a whole life of two people can't be judged on a 2 minute video. On the other hand, we women turn to be manipulative. Why was she recording? This sounds like a man who is not appreciated. Marriage goes both ways
@@AutumnAproditheyou obviously only see or pay attention to bad marriages and relationships, not of them are like this.
AGAIN, what is the benefit of having one of those????
Non
Most women say “companionship”. They also will say they have to keep the father in the home- because they know if they stop sleeping with the man, he won’t acknowledge any of the kids he has with her.
Bruh.
There is no benefit
none. y'all should start watching shera7
This is why you be grandmothers tell young women to never marry, but you never see grandfathers the same for young men.
What's creepy is when grandfathers tell their granddaughters to marry. 🤮🤮
Lmao, how did you know😆 My now late grandma told me not to get married. She asked me if I have a boyfriend. I thought she was gonna pressure me about it like some people her age tend do to younger people. But she was suddenly just like...DON'T get married. Just came out of nowhere.
Truer words...
Fr my grandma of my mom's side said to me "mariage can be fun, but if i was you i wouldn't waste my time washing socks and underwear for 40 years for a man"
Funny part is that multiple men got angry at my grandma's words saying it was the least she could do when her husband is working to provide for her (she also worked a paying job). And it's was something her and my late grandpa talked about if someone would die if they would ever date again.
While family on my dad's side would always tell me i have to be married and have children or else i would be good for nothing, then they heard i was disabled and told me this world doesn't need wrong babies.
Married men tell unmarried men not to get married all the time
I remember talking with a friend of a friend. She was a cancer survivor. Surgery, chemo therapy, etc. while she was dealing with this her husband and son expected her to continue as if nothing was happening. Cooking and cleaning and serving them. They would not lift a finger to help her. She found the strength to get an attorney and actually divorced him in the middle of her treatments. She realized they didn’t love her or care about her.
I love hearing the outcome of the story.
So sorry about that, at least the son should be helping mom.
I recently heard from my healthcare worker that this is a common occurrence. Either this or they leave because they don’t wanna deal with the cancer. It’s biological … men don’t have the same emotional complexity as women do and their oppression of emotion by society makes it worse
@WillowRose I wouldn’t say biological but rather a test they failed. Not everyone
Breaks my heart but doesn’t surprise me a bit 🥺. My EX (tyvm) was a 6’5” 400lb INFANT when he had a COLD. When he went to hospital for something relatively minor, he *demanded* i was there at every waking moment & then some. When i was in ICU with SEPSIS, i only heard from him when he couldn’t find something. & after a week away, he clearly never found the dishwasher, hamper, or a broom 😤
(Hope she is really doing well today, btw!!! 💖🦋)
He was like, how dare my servant slave ask me to serve her something? this is how he sees her, she is there to only cater to him, he is bothered by her expecting reciprocity and considerations, because she is supposed to be his slave bang-mommy servant and not ask for anything in return.
BINGO he was offended bc he sees her like a slave!!!!
She has a roof over her head … if she doesn’t like it get out and hit the street and see who makes you coffee out there
And she's the idiot who wanted to tie him down😂
Shes not feminine at all.
Yep
Exactly
She is laughing it off while he is dead a serious. I can imagine she has always laughed off his disrespect.
She’ll say it’s his personality
That's how she copes to stay in that marriage 😂😂😂. Making excuses for him and laughing off his disrespect is better than being single to her because at least she's not alone
@@HarrietWanjauWell that’s stupid
She's uncomfortable a hole
She honestly sounded like she was gonna cry , it's more of she's frustrated
What i saw in that video, was contempt. Once theres contempt, its over. Dead marriage walking.
Yep, this
Agreed!!
She shouldn't eat or drink anything he gives her. Call it a hunch.
I was thinking the same thing. smh
Check if he has any insurance policy on her.
I think she's safe from that.
😂😂😂
💯
Seconds into this and im EXHAUSTED by this relationship.
Just make her a cup of coffee!! It would have been over by now. Aaargh.
If I shared this video with members of MY family...within 30 min of sharing, they would be at the door, ready to show HIM the door.
What's with the dummy who said she picked a fight? What??? She asked for a cup of coffee!
Her take was so off and wild to me. 🥴
@@ImaniForesterok good it’s NOT just me!!!
Handmaidens gotta prop up the patriarchy
Right? Like wtf is her problem??
PICK-ME ALERT, PICK-ME ALERT 🗣🗣🚨 🚨🚨🚨🚨
"I had all the kids last night." Oh poor you!!!
You mean the kids he created? As in... he's their parent not their nanny?
HIS Kids as well. These Men... 🤬
Which means it's an anomaly and she usually has them!
@@briasworld8 How many times do I gotta tell y’all..?? It’s MALEESSS!! Get it right. REAL MEN WOULDN’T do this 🗣🗣🗣💯🎯 Wouldn’t complain about taking care of the kids or argue with his wife over something so trivial
Aaaaaand, he did wash some of the dishes, too. 😂
I hate how men - fathers - consider spending time with their children is "babysitting" or "childcare." These fathers are also parents. Parents need spend time with their children. Ideally, parents should enjoy spending time raising their children.
Spoiled toddler-men are mind boggling to me: why are women doing this to themselves?!! I am sooooooooo thankful that I am single. It’s a cup of coffee. She didn’t ask for gold, blood donation or something.
She better hope she never gets sick and needs him to take care of her 😬.
She's probably avoiding having homeless children. Women don't stay in that because they want to. I don't blame anyone for saying single.
He will not be around if she needs nursing or something..
If these men put in half the effort into helping their girlfriends and wives that they put into arguing about how they don't want to do anything for you, this channel wouldn't exist
Sadly this is exactly how the married women I know are treated. Their husbands go shopping, go out with their friends, go on trips and go to coffee shops and don’t buy them anything while the wives are at home all day dealing with kids and household chores…..all day.🤷🏽♀️
Awful! Those women are married single moms. What's the point of being in a marriage with no benefits, just more work? Couldn't be me. I hope those women choose themselves someday and leave those relationships.
It’s because we are in end times. I am not marrying any man that doesn’t have God in his life because I feel theirs a huge spiritual war at play. Too many people are lovers of themselves. People in your family will betray one another this is the times we’re living in
@@ImaniForesterCouldn't be me plus 2 smh soo exhausting to watch.
@@ashleybanksss Your right but you have to be careful around men that claim to be religious. Majority of the ones I knew that claimed such things were w orse then men that had no god. Hiding all sorts of inf'delity and claiming that god spoke to them to give them the right to h arm their wives.
Live in girlfriends are treated this way too .
Not only a roommate but a _hostile_ one at that? I don’t know how these Women still *sleep* next to these males; I’d be TERRIFIED!
You could tell he was mad because she hasn’t been sleeping with him. He said: “Oh! We know you know how to say no!” What a senseless man-child!
You can say no ONE TIME and they act like you have never ever said yes. The immediately forget that you said yes the previous thousand times.
Yup, peeped it too. He was MAD mad
THIS!! I knew it the second he said it! Sex isn’t a favor, people
I’m in this boat! He lets us go without food, saying “well I don’t know what to tell you” instead of hustling his ass! I spend every dollar I get on picking up slack for his shortcomings. it’s been a year since I had a $20 haircut which I had to beg for a year to get that one! Been begging 6 months and he was thinking about what he was going to buy himself for Christmas. So when he said the other day, “I really hope we can have s3x soon it’s really starting to affect me “ during a time we’d gone 5 days without food, I told him that I just didn’t know what to tell him and as long as he thinks it’s on me to give more then he should just invest in lube for Christmas.
@@yobafox1jason556 I got involved with this type of guy, too. He can't take care of the basics and neglects mine and our daughter's basic needs like shelter and heat. When it comes to sex, in six years he never once gave me an O during sex, because he didn't care about my pleasure. It was just him and his pleasure so that he didn't have to feel religious guilt over masturbating. Boy, please. I've had to take care of myself this entire time. God made cl*ts for a singular purpose for a reason. What has he done lately to deserve sex? Because he hasn't been paying rent like he's supposed to, either. Forced me into a homeless shelter at the beginning of September and I had to come crawling back or I'd lose my job. How is forcing the mother of your child to live in a homeless shelter worthy of sexual rewards because "it's really starting to affect me"?
But don't worry, I'm working my ass off to save enough money to get an apartment of my own so I can move out with our child ASAP.
I am happy for the ladies that had sweet spouses who still care enough to do the little things.
I've been with my husband for 50 years. We've made it through some really hard times and almost divorced once. He is sweet and treats me very well. I don't think that there are many men like him anymore. I'm one of the lucky ones.
His attitude is, "Who do you think you are to ask me for anything?"
You know it’s a keurig pod coffee machine too. You literally stick a mug in there, load a pod and push a damn button. JFC, he hates her.
Divorce!!!
It is transactional. Narcissists don't "love" you. They transact with you ONLY if YOU have things to give them. Once you become sick, lose your job etc. They discard you.
1:11 she's laughing so she doesn't cry
Yeah, i left my marriage when it no longer served me. I had no idea how much crap women were putting up with.
Good on you for putting yourself first! Hope you are thriving 💜✨
Women tolerate bad marriages because they can't afford to divorce. They are often cut off from a support network and have work experience. Women in marriages = hostages.
They’re putting up with BS for no reasons.
That guy was probably texting another woman
probably paying to text her too
I bet he was!
Definitely
DID U SEE MY OTHER COMMENT
LEGIT TRIED ENHANCINGGGGG THE PIC SO I COULD SEE THE NUMBER ON HIS WATCH AND SLEUTH!! if anyone can get that number or parts of it, i want it thank you
He reminds me of my ex. When asked about romantic gestures like scattering rose petals and lighting candles his reply was “Who’s going to clean it?”.
I'm glad you said he's your ex. Imagine, instead if thinking of YOU and wanting you to be happy, his mind bypassed alladat and went straight to "I don't wanna clean up that mess." Not every XY deserves to be in a relationship. Too selfish and unloving. Smh
Wow! He’s a sick individual 😂
Lol I ain't cleaning it up in my Bertha voice (2 n half men) smh
Ain't nobody got time for someone who always has a sour mood
If she DID work, he’d hate her for working and making more money.
They view everything as an exchange and conditional. They can't love. I love how she's like "please make me coffee, I'm so tired, I'm just yearning for any kind of affection from you" and this piece of ... just looks at her like "that's not my problem." He has such a punchable face ... I'm just saying.
The sad truth is is that most of these women are paying 50-50, meaning that they’re already paying for a man to be there. Then they have to put up with the abuse the side eyes, he’s probably even texting another woman right in front of her. Ladies get your dignity back, get your pride back, and walk away from this toxicity immediately.!
Well when woman like to be masculine this happens. I never paid a mans bill or way. Ever. 😂
@@rachelross5829 I get what you're trying to say but don't victim blame please
@@Inaaraaesthetics what is victim blame?
I see it as the woman is claiming to be the victims meanwhile she's the one that went to the jail to look for rayquon , then crying victim she got abused. These videos are actually quiet hilarious if you ask me. It seems these woman are just the same kind as the men they flock with. Idk I'm from Brooklyn so I can't say it's environment. Shit even back in the days when I went with drug dealers I was always taken care of as a princess 😂
@@rachelross5829 When women have to be survival then they'll tend to much masculine
Why's paying bills masculine? I don't see them being ridiculous or whatever honestly
Just because someone's splitting the bills or doing something doesn't mean they can be dropped like a hot cake
I'm glad you were well taken care of
@Inaaraaesthetics paying a man bills is masculine. Sorry if I wasn't clear and if I was and you can't understand why paying a mans bill is then I don't think I can explain that to you.
The absolute most annoying part in it all is him asking back, "Are you crazy?" WHAT, exactly, does her question entail insanity? I mean, maybe she is. For putting up with his bs.
I personally felt like the most annoying part is when he would aggressively say “I don’t have to answer you, I don’t need to give you an answer.” he was clearly looking for a fight. Especially when he would tell her things that anybody would know., she knows that you don’t have to give her an answer, She’s not telling you that you are required to do anything. Ugh, gross!
That man does not like women, that man is definitely a Trump supporter and he just flat out dislikes women. You can also tell that if she doesn’t satisfy his every sexual needs, he is online flirting with other women looking at other women’s photos and acting like she’s never given him sex ever; meanwhile also acting like anytime he spends with the kids is a favor to his wife. As if he’s not one of the two parents in that household.
My mom had a stroke and became disabled. My dad takes carrrre of her! To this day will bring home drinks her and I like. He enjoys cooking breakfast for his family. As his daughter, I habe woken up to him knocking on my door to hand me breakfast.
The statistics of husbands leaving their wives when they have health issues is HIGH. Find a man who loves and enjoys trying to make your day a little better.
I love this for all 3 of you. ❤
Sounds like an actual man!❤
Ask for a divorce. He is already looking for another victim.
He already has a bit on the side. She was phoning him.
Marriage contract is a contract for slavery, when will women realize that?
It's rare to see it actually play out where men live up to the vows love honor and cherish, but it is beautiful and wonderful when it does. My husband is one of the good ones. As an example, A few years ago I had to go stay with my sister who had emergency surgery. After three weeks away I got home to a house cleaner than I had left it clean sheets and roses on the table with a note apologizing that he couldn't be home to great me when I arrived, and that he would take care of dinner since I had a seven hour drive that day and he didn't want me to feel like I even had to worry about it. Mind you I was between jobs at the time and so was taking on the domestic labor so cooking dinner was my responsibility within our agreed upon tasks. But he took it off my plate because he loves me.
Marriage is supposed to be a partnership where each person does their best to build the other one up. It supposed to be always having someone in your corner. A friend and a boon companion. I wish it was like that in every marriage. But I know most women can't find a good man because they are rare. I was extremely picky and my husband is far from perfect but I have a type of freedom within my marriage that I couldn't have outside of it. I am free from worry or stress about romantic relationships because I have a committed relationship. I am free of the huge amount of stress about having to rely just on myself financially. I am free to rest and recover when I get sick because he is there to care for me as I am for him. It is not intrinsic to the nature or marriage for it to be a contract for slavery. That's just what so many bad men (and the occasional woman) try to turn it into.
I mean... when you ask some men to describe their ideal woman they usually start describing a slave.
Sadly most women see being married as a flex.😢
I'm reading Mary Wollstonecraft right now and really, we should know better by NOW.
@@hanatirk4375 Spot on! My married friends act like I am defective just because I refuse to tolerate a man's bs.
I wouldn't trust that coffee anyway.
I'm sorry but "She picked a fight"?? MA'AM! WTAF?!
Everyone is not
Seeing both sides….
That lady out her damn mind.
Asking something simple that can be answered with an obvious yes or no is somehow the "evil female setting a trap" and him calling her crazy right off the hop was just him "falling for it" but in reality the "trap" was just "publicly admit who you really are" 🙄😒
The response videos ALMOST warmed my ice cold heart 🤣🤣
😂😂😂
😂
I think the original video is disgusting and their marriage is probably on the verge of being over. She needs to escape
Seeing the men in this video get up and make their wife coffee was super refreshing. I forget there is a VERY VERY VERY small amount of decent men out there. I have many aunts but I noticed one of them, she *always* asks for her husband to make her coffee and he always makes it. One time I came over to help her with something in the morning, I felt tired af and she was tired from work and a newborn baby, she told him to buy us coffee and he bought it. Period. The OP couple definitely hate each other 😂
I loved seeing the positive stories!!
Also, that look he gives her at the beginning is one of hate. He hates ber.
Yes, hate and contempt.
So she has decided to record him because probably this has been going on for a while
“I don’t have to answer”?? Wow, what trash.
Dollars to donuts someone at his workplace ask him to get him some coffee he’ll make it immediately with a smile on his face.
Awww that nice man just got real single 😂
I’ve been asked for marriage by 3 different people and still said no.
Protecting your peace like a true queen 💜
I dated because I was led to believe it's what women should want and should do. Dated a man for 6 months no sex he proposed and I couldn't figure out why I should do that. I've never seen a relationship or marriage I wanted for myself. I told him no we didn't talk for 4 years we met randomly and have been friends since.
@@ElaineLoydis he... you know?
02:40 "WE know that YOU know how to say NO" mayor danger here. He wants her to agree on HIS definition of NO
He's scum, and she won't fuck him. That That's why he's pissed.
He means she says "no" to sex.
Because of course he does. Why wouldn't she want to hit that up?
I love how most women claim marriage is the only thing that causes this in men- yall literally will live with boyfriends for years- doing exactly what a “wife “ would do and get treated the exact same.
But … it’s all about being his “main chick” right???
This exactly!
f that lol
His main-and-only SERVANT... 😮😮
BINGO AMIGO 🫵🏾🗣🗣🗣💯💯🎯🎯
I seriously do not get this guy. I make coffee for anyone nearby as a common courtesy. This guy would rather fight than bring the supposed "love of his life" a drink? He sees her as a servant, nothing more.
Was completely surprised at the words coming out of my mouth as the first guy spoke to his wife about “being with the kids”, “some of us have to work”, and “we know you know how to say no” over a simple request from her. And I was a sailor
2024. ALL BOYS AND MEN FEEL ENTITLED TO BE LOVED AND CARED FOR FOR BECAUSE THEY HAVE AN OUTIE..SO ANNOYING
i’m wheezing lmao thank u
@@linahrae Not an outie 😂😂
The husband of one of my friends doesn't even help her with her dog, like taking the dog out to pee and basic vet stuff. And yes, she still wants babies with him.
I can't feel bad for her.
She will absolutely come to regret that. I promise you that.
It's really annoying that some women still have such low self esteem.
Yea unfortunately your friend is definitely not the brightest bulb in the box. I personally think you should drop her she is setting herself up for know reason.
@@babygirla5717 Yeah, I already did girl. I put some distance the moment her husband was acting weird on me on their weeding. Can't force people out of cults, specially the romantic cult
My husband just asked me if I wanted dinner, he’d make it for me, since I’m not feeling good. I see these vids and thank God even more for him. That poor woman.
I thought the word was *Testerical 😅
Oh, it is. Testerical or hemotional.
@@ladywolfwolfhimotional😂😂😂
Middle of my divorce I asked my husband if he even knew what I like to drink. He was wrong. He named what he liked. In 24 years he had never once made me a cup of coffee or tea.
I know some people think I'm too harsh, but I broke off a 3 year relationship, in part, because when he got me gifts they were always things I expressly disliked. The one (popular) flower I'd told him I didn't like, other cliche things I'd let him know I didn't like (heart shaped jewelery I'd feel guilty not wearing, for exampme) It made me feel like a girlfriend shaped cutout. When he was trying to get me back, he cooked for me (pretty much a first) and cooked the one food I hate. He wasn't a monster, but didn't seem to perceive me as an individual person or listen to me!
I think about wanting a relationship and then I see clips like this
Don't believe the fairy tales
just don’t lower your standards girl. take every red flag seriously. and don’t fall in love with potential. he is it now, or he’s got it now, or he don’t 🤷🏼♀️
That’s when I would clock out. Can’t do something so small yet I bet he has many expectations of her. Again like @ReallyMaxx said what’s the benefit again???
He alluded to his expectation of s3x from her when he got all excited to mention how many times he hears "no" from her😅
failing to realize that making her coffee would lubricate the path to what he wants
For the most part men are very selfish and shortsighted, which makes them d u m b for all intents and purposes.
Makes me want to remain single forever after my divorce. I have been divorced and single for 10 years and when i hear of the plight of married women and everything they put up with, even the things I used to have to deal with in my past marriage, I will not pit myself in thqt situation again
God help remind me why I’ve been alone my whole life!
I never ask my husband to make a coffee. He's already done that when he sees I'm tired, bussy, need a break or is in the mood of relaxing and talking together. Everytime I see clips like this I realise I hit the jackpot.
Me too, mine brings me one regularly in the mornings. ☕️ We look after each other.
I was married to one…. Didn’t want to serve me a glass of water while I was breastfeeding our son… why? Because he works to provide and I stay home with our 3 boys! He’s the best ex husband tho 😂😂
20:48 _Insane_ take. “She picked a fight, he fell for it.”
She asked for coffee.
I take it one step further. Mine would get me A COFFEE but with great fan fare and drama. He once came back with coconut milk in my coffee, knowing I'm allergic to coconut. Yep.
Oh that’s not -
I'm so sorry that first women is stuck with that selfish, contemptuous, child. Mentally and emotionally leaving has probably already happened but moving out? Not that simple or easy. With kids? Unless she's wealthy, it might make sense to just live as roommates when you have a jerk of a roommate. She should start planning and documenting now. I suspect he's one of those men that will do antything possible to get out paying child support.
I am SO FREAKING PROUD to be Single by Choice.
He definitely looks like the type
What I was thinking!
21:23 did she just blame the *wife* for his behavior? Not "he failed", but she "set him up for failure", traumatized him", and "she picked a fight". There's always at least one...🤦🏾♀️
I was searching for this comment!! Can't believe that's where her mind went after seeing that smh.. Feeling bad for the husband?!? Why?!?
I like seeing and hearing everyone’s kind stories though. I like seeing the partners and how sweet they look at their mate!
This isn’t funny in the slightest! I’d never be with a guy like that. Hope she can get away from him ASAP.
I bet you that these two are the type of older couple we are told to envy because theyve been together for 20+ years or so.
Most of the time middle aged men like this had everything handsd to them and are the most entitled and spoiled people out theee.
And yet everyone hates on "Karen" when guys like this exist.
Couldnt finish the video, dude made me so mad lmao
Even my narcissistic ex would never act that way. He was terrible in other ways, was an addict and quite verbally abusive, but even HE knew to make me a cup of coffee if I asked him to. Like not to compare or whatnot, but even the ashhole I was with knew what the bare-bones minimum was.
10:44 Yeah, my husband would do nice things, but that doesn’t offset the verbal and emotional abuse.
I love the energy that comes from giving up.
And the idiots think that's when they've won because we stopped bitching.
Meanwhile, we're making our plan to leave.
Yup. He doesn’t love her. She should just leave.
Wow, such a pick-me at 21:20... "traumatized"... "what SHE did"... girl, stfu. Some real "did you get picked yet, sis?" energy
Right??? She is an idiot.
Her take was such an eye roll. I still struggle to see how she got that from the original video. He could have just said "not now honey." There was no reason to fight her, he just hates her.
PickMe is a catalyst to PushMe, PunchMe, PrankMe, PenalizeMe, PunishMe, and every other humiliating treatment they are willing to accept to be keep getting PICKEDon
She's saying that the act of recording to set him up, documenting his failure, was the act of betrayal. Completely ignoring the fact that the reason she was recording is because this is the way he treats her. Now should she be recording? No, she should be divorcing.
I will never forget when I was a young woman I was traveling in Barbados, and I met an older Bajan woman. She told me that marriage is misery. I never married, but I would say to young women out there, I have still longed to be happily married like an aunt and uncle who died shortly after each other and a friend of mine and her husband. Happiness is possible, but you have to pay attention to the red flags.
OMG I would divorce his arse and give him 100% custody of the kids
I would, too!
6:30 this lady is absolutely correct! My last ex and I had plenty of issues in our relationship, but at least he was a kind human not just to me but to others. And he actually liked me lol so he literally NEVER said no to simple requests like coffee. In fact he enjoyed doing things for me. No matter the time or day, and this was reciprocal. If only I could take that quality of his and put it into the body of someone who I was compatible with 😂
There's the rub...😢
I am literally going through a divorce, and my STBX would STILL not hesitate to make me a cup of coffee if I asked. I don't think my first husband would hesitate either, actually. This is a whole other level of hate.
Im loving all the awesome husbands and boyfriends here
He's a narcissist. My ex responded the exact same way to everythingggggg. She needs to get out of there.
Once I realized my ex put in more effort in fighting me than coming together or creating solutions, I knew right then I was fighting a losing battle & I was fighting it ALONE.
She was laughing and he dead serious 😭😭 i can’t lie to myself like this EVER
Too all of the women who have partners who came thru for them...please give them an extra hug, kiss, etc, from the rest of us. We need a few million more men/partners like these!!! 😊
Time to walk.
I’m so glad I’m not married.
That bit about becoming disabled hit hard
It’s true.
I was just reading about husbands abandoning sick wives.
Define boor. The way he looks at her says it all . There is no affection ,let alone love , on his face. He expects her to obey and serve.
He hates her. His micro and macro aggression for disgust are sooooo loud.
i had all the kids last night 😭😭😭
ONE day out of the past 10 years. Someone give this man a medal!
@@-._.-KRiS-._.-let’s be real. The dog was really watching them kids!
I’m so sad, why couldn’t my husband stop yelling at me and humiliating me? Why couldn’t it just be the considerate, sweet, loving things he did?
Good lord. He could’ve helped her out and sat back down by the time he finished that gaslighting circular argument
That's the most annoying part. They will argue for so long when it would have taken 2 mins to just make the damn coffee.
"Oh we know you know how to say no" 🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮
Give me my cats. I am the prize. And if men behave this way I rather have my cats. At least they are thankful and don't demand this much.
They only want food, out door play and occasional attention.
I’m so glad women are finally waking up and seeing that this behavior is NOT normal.
My husband is a family physician and he still helps with making dinner when I just don’t feel like cooking. He helps do the laundry, sweep the floors and mop.
Every weekend when he’s off, he wakes up first and when he hears me waking up, he’ll bring me a cup of coffee made just how I like it(uses the correct Nespresso settings, a pat of butter, a sprinkle of cayenne pepper and a sprinkle of cinnamon)
I thank God for him and I make sure to show & tell him how much I appreciate him as well.
We’re going on 20 yrs. ❤🥰
Awww.. look at all those sweet partners getting their loves coffee. 😊💕
Simply leaving is not an option in my life , there is a massive housing shortage in Canada and i cannot afford to move away .
This is what people don't understand
Wow that's wild! Is it getting overpopulated or not enough supply?
@lf3554 Overpopulation due to immigration (refugees) and not enough growth ,a one bedroom apartment is $2000+ impossible for me to afford on my income. I feel stuck . Please pray for me .
@@nannybananers idk why people act like it's easy to come up with money to get shelter, a basic need , I'm sorry
You can rent a room from someone and rather than tell yourself, “ I can’t” make a plan, find a way. ❤
This was the epitome of my marriage to my ex. It didn't start this way. I was love bombed hard and it went away after marriage, but in small ways. He actually had me convinced it was MY fault HE cheated after 20 years. Divorced for 10 years and I'm still single, for a reason.