In 2017, the night before my surgery for a broken ankle, my husband of 27 years and my best friend in the world, had me listen to Simon Sinek. He had been reading "Leaders Eat Last." We had so many conversations about meaningful work! He had been a pilot in the Marine Corps, was an amazing husband and father, and was inspired by Simon's words. In November 2018 he tragically and suddenly died of an aortic dissection at the age of 51. During the past four years I have been working to be strong and resilient for my children. And now, I feel he is speaking to me through Simon's words, inspiring me to be more vulnerable, to really listen, to just sit in the mud, and hold space... sharing struggles... deepening relationships... thank you both.
#1. If you feel lonely and isolated it is because you do not immerse yourself (like basking in sunlight) in his love morning, noon and night every day of your life. #2. They look for love outside of themselves in all the wrong places instead of turning to the True Authentic Light of the World, Jesus The Christ. #3. God, The Holy Trinity does not isolate you. If you draw close to him, He will be your God and protector. #4. Your life path will always be harder when you don't choose Jesus. It's as simple as that. Not my words but his in the Holy Bible. It's like having a choice between two crosses. One 25 pounds and the other 5O. The larger one looks easier and lighter so most people choose it only to find out how tedious it is and regret it terribly. #5. You will never know Heavenly Peace in your life when things are up or down unless you trust in The Holy Trinity. #6. I can say this because he has been strengthening me while I'm going through a mega storm right now. I have heavenly peace in his love although all hell is breaking loose around me and threatening to drown me. I'm standing on the rock Jesus the Christ. He loves and cherishes me and I'm safe in his arms. Blessed with joy and happiness. Powerful Anointed Prayers Just For You th-cam.com/video/3orZrYPCJpQ/w-d-xo.html
I am Christian and your reply is extremely self-rightious and judgmental. Next time get down from your sel-righteous pedestal and offer comfort and hope. I am convinced that would have been more helpful. 😢😊
Thank you @@soniaperez2417 for responding with such eloquence and love to the above ❤👌🏼 I’ll be honest, I was rather maddened that someone has taken such a beautiful and vulnerable comment about the positive impact Simon has had on their life, and used it to talk about religion 🤦🏻♂️ I support wholeheartedly those who have faith, but this is unhelpful. So thank you for your wonderfully measured response, I imagine you’re a pretty awesome human being 🙏🏼
Thanks a lot for sharing, it is very helpful, we have tendency to give advice, and you are right it doesn't help, until we are ready to receive it. But what we need in this moment ,just sit in the mud with friends 😊and also very important point, I like,that even we are not in service, our obligations is to care for people, who are ❤
YES that's great! The fixers tend to interrupt the sharing and get impatient and get angry with you for not adopting what for them seems the simple and obvious solution. I've been in the situation many times where there are key factors hidden to me and them and those were the keys to resolution. It's not a simple fix in any case.
I think we all just want to be 'fixed' We just want to be happy We can't figure out how to do it for ourselves, so we project onto others, by trying to fix them. Empathy for the fixers would be nice too. No one 's trying to hurt anyone. Just state your boundaries, say, you don't need help, thank you. That's what I do.
I am 69 years old and when I was in early 20’s, I experienced loneliness. I read many self help books to understand what I was feeling but still felt lonely. At night the loneliness was unbearable. I put pictures of universe on the ceiling of my bedroom and kept telling telling my self that compare to universe I am smaller than a speck of sand. Then one day I started to talk to my loneliness as if it is a human and ask to be my friend. I accepted and embraced it. As time went on I stopped being lonely. To this day I don’t feel lonely. I guess the loneliness became a part of me.
What a beautiful share...amazing...I remember feeling so distressed and alone. before an exam...my dad got me to go to the garden, look up at the evening sky....and said we are part of all this.....your beautiful example reminded me of this
The Diary of a CEO has become my best friend so far ... The guests and their vulnerability are legendary. You've restored my faith in humanity again. Thank you so much, Steve !
Same here! I struggle to create meaningful connections with my acquaintances and colleagues, I feel like they're just not that interested. This really helps, it's a surrogate of having those conversations that I'd like to be having
Simon’s authenticity and willingness to be honest about his inefficiencies… Has given me another level of respect for him. Something we should all admire
This interview made me so emotional because I am a woman in my 50s with no kids and no partner therefore I get lonely all the time. I won't say that I have a terrible life but sometimes I don't like being lonely. In these times I am so grateful to my siblings who all keep in touch with me. There are so many key takeaways in this conversation. Thanks to Simon and Steven..
That’s exactly me. I’m going 51 in Jan 24 with greying hairline. To make things worst, I work with young co workers and they have partners married or to be married . No one looks up to a single person who earns average wage . Especially so a woman. And when you get angry about some work issue due to some poor response internally, I hear people say ‘Non married woman are angry and behave differently from married ladies.. sigh 😢
I’m a therapist and if everyone had a friend like these two men, I would be out of business. Everything discussed is great therapy for self and others. Therapist sit in the mud too! Such a great description! I actually ask my clients if they are wanting to vent or want to fix. Sometimes when I’m in the mud (with my own issues), I pause, then I get up and do something even if it’s wrong, it still feels better.
But they get paid for sitting in the mud, it's very hard work and can't be expected as a free gift of everyone. It would be a relationship that has a balanced emotional bank account.
Really? I think the paid part is there for just that...$ A stranger a friend a family member a clergy etc sit in the mud w you as I do for them so no you don't sit in the mud w your clients. Unless you mean something else?
@@ishavidaayurveda it’s still not easy to sit in the mud with someone whether you get paid or not. Not everyone can be that person for even someone they love. It does take love to do it.
I always say, "I love you," after every conversation when speaking to someone I feel that for. It's a form of gratitude for the friendship and all received through it. Even friends who felt awkward by that now are so open and return the words from such a sweet place. When I feel alone....I am single and near 60....I ask myself, "Who can i help today?" The feeling of alone begins to fade, and the gratitude of being able to help replaces it.
I appreciate you making me aware that there's a distinction between ADD and ADHD, i've seen high level ADHD on days when he didn't take his meds. But feel my sister and i could have ADD which seems to at least display itself quite differently externally
I was diagnosed around 9 months ago after I finally paid privately to see a psychiatrist at the age of 30 and so much of my life made sense from that diagnosis , and I also feel a sense of sadness in a way that things could have been so different had I understood what I had and had I been on meds sooner
What an honour it was to have Simon come on the podcast and be so open and vulnerable with me, thank you Simon! If you enjoyed this conversation do me a favour and like the video, it helps us understand exactly what type of conversations you enjoy. Thanks! 🙏🏽
3:14 I'll ask you Steven, how are you doing? You are PICKING YOUR NAILS, looking at them as you phrase and deliver this question to Simon. Fidgety, distracted. What's up? xx Your viewers happy to hold space with you!
I love this so much. I know what it is like to feel lonely at times. I would sit in the mud with you Simon. One of my favorite quotes is from A.A. Milne. Very profound. "Today was a Difficult Day," said Pooh. There was a pause. "Do you want to talk about it?" asked Piglet. "No," said Pooh after a bit. "No, I don't think I do." "That's okay," said Piglet, and he came and sat beside his friend. "What are you doing?" asked Pooh. "Nothing, really," said Piglet. "Only, I know what Difficult Days are like. I quite often don't feel like talking about it on my Difficult Days either. "But goodness," continued Piglet, "Difficult Days are so much easier when you know you've got someone there for you. And I'll always be here for you, Pooh." And as Pooh sat there, working through in his head his Difficult Day, while the solid, reliable Piglet sat next to him quietly, swinging his little legs…he thought that his best friend had never been more right." A.A. Milne
I've sat in the mud with so many. But who has ever sat in my mud just for a change? Sorry, but this is all BS. There's a lot of self important, totally selfish aholes out there and it's nearly all of you. Signed single white ageing woman, never married no kids because all males are getting boring asian females who cannot even speak english let alone engage in interesting deep and meaningful conversation, because let's face it they actually all just want a servant, and whose name is now a source of prejudice and discrimination. Money talks. The only way I will ever get a man and get married is the size of my investments. If i declared that I am worth $10000000, I guarantee not only will i get flooded with dates, they will all arrive early, dressed in a suit with a bunch of very expensive flowers and Dom Perignon, along with a dozen marriage proposals in the first week.
Dear Simon, Thank you for helping me realize I’m not broken. I literally relate to 100% of everything you said in this interview. Conclusion: Surround yourself with people who make you feel heard. Remember that “wait” is not “never”. Lots of things worth waiting for, take time. ❤
....or they might not (show up). Which is ok. Don't do anything with the condition or expectation that something is going to happen. Just do it because you want to.
#1. If you feel lonely and isolated it is because you do not immerse yourself (like basking in sunlight) in his love morning, noon and night every day of your life. #2. They look for love outside of themselves in all the wrong places instead of turning to the True Authentic Light of the World, Jesus The Christ. #3. God, The Holy Trinity does not isolate you. If you draw close to him, He will be your God and protector. #4. Your life path will always be harder when you don't choose Jesus. It's as simple as that. Not my words but his in the Holy Bible. It's like having a choice between two crosses. One 25 pounds and the other 5O. The larger one looks easier and lighter so most people choose it only to find out how tedious it is and regret it terribly. #5. You will never know Heavenly Peace in your life when things are up or down unless you trust in The Holy Trinity. #6. I can say this because he has been strengthening me while I'm going through a mega storm right now. I have heavenly peace in his love although all hell is breaking loose around me and threatening to drown me. I'm standing on the rock Jesus the Christ. He loves and cherishes me and I'm safe in his arms. Blessed with joy and happiness. Powerful Anointed Prayers Just For You th-cam.com/video/3orZrYPCJpQ/w-d-xo.html
It's OK to be broken as long as you don't give up on yourself and remember even the brokenness is not an everlasting state of you. Only those who have been broken can meaningfully walk with another soul that is about to break or is breaking.
I’m 19 years old about to turn 20 and the part where Simon talked about just sticking with something and not worrying about arbitrary numbers really spoke with me
You possess exceptional interviewing skills, as evidenced by the way your guest opened up to you like never before. Your ability to connect with and understand people is truly remarkable.
This is the most powerful podcast I have listened to ever. It brought me to tears several times. The current greatest frustration in my life is that at the age of 69 and significant physical limitations, I feel I am not of service to anyone.
Simply by posting this you are of service. So many of us can relate to this feeling and by connecting with us you touch us and remove that sense of loneliness and fear. Sometimes, often, we serve others simply by being ourselves. Thank you for your post ❤❤
I feel so moved with this episode, it seemed to me it wasn't intended to get that far and deep until Simon took the courageous step to open totally and completely. Nobody is fully done with their own personal work, and yet is so inspiring to me, to see role-models of self aware men. The story of finding meaning in the middle of a panic was very powerful. Simon is a deep thinker with a great purpose and a mission. I wish more of those examples in our society.
@@Kinsugi what you want to transmit that’s the key. But it all starts with you knowing yourself at all your ages. That’s how you can extract your true essence
Steven, you are amazingly skilled in creating space for guests to be truly authentic. I love your interviewing abilities and the guests that you attract. Thank you for what you do !❤
I learned the "sitting in the mud" communication by just doing that with my wife and noticed that every time after this conversations she thanked me and was grateful. That was the moment I truly understood the value of just listening. It was literally a big positive shift in our marriage, when I, on a regular basis, implemented just conversation evenings. So thanks for this amazing episode.
"We live in a world where most people are not equipped on how to be there for a friend" that hit like a ton of bricks! Sadly, I am finding this out the hard way. My closest friends didn't know my mom was in the last stages of her illness. I didn't feel like reaching out. No one was really asking anyway. When I announced that my mom passed, I was so disappointed in the lack of support from my so-called best friends. A mear text, a message. I am still in shock on how unaware people are. Each person seems to be living in their own bubble. I can't wrap my head around this. Sad to say the least and feeling lonely as ever.
I have had the same and in my experience the worst are those who haven't yet lost a parent yet. A friend lost her mother and then said to me (I had lost my mother 5 years earlier) I'm so sorry I wasn't really there for you, I was so blissfully unaware of what it was like until it happened to me.
@Gastrolicious Gelayski I am so sorry for your loss. It feels very lonely. A lady told me the other day, "we are no longer who we were after losing a parent," let alone both. I feel an identity crisis of sorts. But I have to pull myself together and reinvent myself somehow. I know my parents would want me to be well. I will pray for you as well. May we find strength.
@A Beautiful Country good insight, maybe them not being able to relate to our loss makes them emotionally unavailable. But still, common sense goes a long way.
This is a really powerful message. I lost my sibling to suicide and I could see he was struggling but did not know how to show up for him in the ways I wish I could have. I really feel that this valuable skill could have saved him.
I watched this 4x. I have all Simon's books. I love him more now that I see this vulnerable part of him. It resonated with me. It is very difficult for me to find love as it seems there is no one I am compatible with. I understand the struggles of loneliness. Thank you for this wonderful journey.
I absolutely love this episode with Simon. I even shed some tears when he was talking about his friend in the army being so vulnerable with him and saying "i love you".
Absolutely love this conversation, listening to two men discussing the human condition is not only heartwarming but enormously reinforcing for those of us that battle loneliness and full understanding and integration of all of our parts.....the power of love and connection with self and others.....🙏
I'm 68 with ADHD and finally just understanding how this has effected all my relationships...and yes, there is a period of mourning that I have been going through that is not easy. Not only are these feelings difficult, explaining these feelings are difficult.
#1. If you feel lonely and isolated it is because you do not immerse yourself (like basking in sunlight) in his love morning, noon and night every day of your life. #2. They look for love outside of themselves in all the wrong places instead of turning to the True Authentic Light of the World, Jesus The Christ. #3. God, The Holy Trinity does not isolate you. If you draw close to him, He will be your God and protector. #4. Your life path will always be harder when you don't choose Jesus. It's as simple as that. Not my words but his in the Holy Bible. It's like having a choice between two crosses. One 25 pounds and the other 5O. The larger one looks easier and lighter so most people choose it only to find out how tedious it is and regret it terribly. #5. You will never know Heavenly Peace in your life when things are up or down unless you trust in The Holy Trinity. #6. I can say this because he has been strengthening me while I'm going through a mega storm right now. I have heavenly peace in his love although all hell is breaking loose around me and threatening to drown me. I'm standing on the rock Jesus the Christ. He loves and cherishes me and I'm safe in his arms. Blessed with joy and happiness. Powerful Anointed Prayers Just For You th-cam.com/video/3orZrYPCJpQ/w-d-xo.html
I'm almost 65 and just realised the exact same thing. At first it came as a great revelation and liberation until the sense of mourning the wasted opportunities caused by a lifetime of confusion kicked in. So, maybe I'm being unfair here but, I'm struggling to feel much sympathy for someone who has realised in their 30s when they still have more of their life ahead of them than behind them...
@@sohosteveuk I'm 49 and have nothing to show for it. I feel 38 at the most. I never really understood "reality" and how to navigate it. I wish i chose a different career path that had more opportunity. I am shifting to something much better and with no salary ceiling. I also plan to take my landscape painting father. That seems to be an old person game anyways lol. My life was ruined by caring too much what other think and limiting myself. What i went through sucked and i can't even talk about it. I mean to a therapist i could and will. I just don't want to die single. I have very few friends. Once somebody moves i lose touch with them. A good friend died recently. I've known my best friend since 4th grade, so that helps. But we don't have that many deep talks. I do have ADD, not sure about the H part. It never got diagnosed. School was a total shit show. My parents never monitored me as they were dealing with a dying marriage. After school and the Army i just bounced around......then bamm here i am. Meanwhile my bro got a sweet job right after college, then another and now has been at SAS (like Google) for 20 years as a project manager. Easy job, great pay and benefits. He chose a much better career path. I tried to be a graphic designer but it was too demanding for my brain. You create something really cool, then gotta do it again and again and again. Good luck getting past 50K for years. When i was younger the idea of marriage or a relationship made me feel smothered. I didn't have the income to support it and my mind was always daydreaming or moving onto the next thing. It really sucks. I will finally seek help soon. I've suffered enough but then i'm so used to that, that it seems like that is just how my life is. Meanwhile others just go through life like a hot knife going through butter.
@@infowazz as a person on this planet you aren't required to be something impressive or do a ton of things to show yourself as being successful. You live your life, do things you like, connect with people, work, relax and be human that's not failure.
Dear Simon, This might sound hyperbolic and somewhat dramatic, but it isn’t. This was the most authentic conversation I’ve ever heard. What you said about ‘sitting in the mud’, about listening and NOT trying to ‘fix’ things, about practising meditation to empower ourselves to listen respectfully has brought about a paradigm shift in my understanding of close relationships. I couldn’t hold back my tears. It was truly cathartic. I know now what I’ve been doing wrong. Clearly, empathy works like nothing else does. Truly truly grateful for all those insights…for being brave enough to be vulnerable. My prayers for you to find happiness in your personal space. Much love and regards come your way… P.S. Thanks Steve for enabling that engaging conversation. You bring out the real person you talk to, each time.
I have been answering that question, as well as "are you okay?", with a no, nope, a side to side head shake. Everyone walks away. Leaves me ALONE! YAY!
I love this and am reminded of when I was a teenager, and went through a series of bereavements, I wrote the words "Flowers never grow if they just have sun, they need the rain too". I forgot those words for many, may years and am grateful that you've had Simon on the show to remind me.
Finally shared with friend recently and family member last year that I've had such feelings of loneliness. Family said nothing and friend told me all the reasons I shouldn't feel lonely. It helps to know that it's not that they don't care but that they don't have the skills to sit with me as a lonely person...
And opening up and making yourself vulnerable by sharing how you REALLY feel can be tough. Well done for being real. I'm sorry they reacted like that, it can hurt. I'm so glad you've seen that it's not that they don't care. I remember a few years ago, sharing with my Mum how lonely I felt...she told me to go for a run! She has Aspergers...
At least they said nothing or just told you you shouldn’t feel lonely, you should feel lucky that they didn’t laugh at you, otherwise you will feel more lonely
This is a great podcast as are many on this channel. Often sitting in the mud IS the solution. Being heard can be an incredible antidote to loneliness.
Life changing conversation. So raw and full of another level wisdom. I believe everyone of us who has watched/listened this episode will be a better human going forward. Saying million "thank you" does not show even a fracture of my gratitude to both of these men ❤
This is one of the powerful conversations I’ve ever listened to! I hope Simon finds a loving relationship with the right woman one day! Many blessings for using your heart and mind to the work you do for people! ❤️
The 3+1 philosophy about partnership made me realize alot of why many of my dating experiences have failed to work. And the way he transforms the idea of meditation to train to be a better listener is just amazing. Lots of love to anyone reading this, who takes his time scrolling through the comment section and also to simon and steven for providing the content.
I feel exactly the same. (Like, I even got an ADHD diagnosis at 31). This is the first thing on this topic I've managed to listen to since I finally sank in quicksand due to loneliness. Really resonates with me. Thank you
Thanks for opening up & sharing! So many things I loved about this episode (aka all of it) but especially the loneliness, and the positive traits ADHD can bring. When Simon brought up the personal relationship and the not-so-stereotypical reactions, I laughed out loud (cause yep, that’s our about right). It’s always nice hearing from those who are appreciative members of our ADHD tribe, where we keep things interesting 😂. Thank you both so much for your work. I always enjoy listening to you both, and especially tonight. I was one of the ones in the mud with loneliness tonight. Hearing someone else vocalize the ability to be appreciative of the space they are in while still feeling lonely…it was just perfectly articulated. Simon, seriously thank you for vocalizing where you were at. Its always nice having a real human vocalize the amazing juxtaposition of different emotions. It’s hard to find people that will have real conversations without the Fixer-upper mentality. You both are amazeballs, thank you!
This is one of the most moving and influential episodes of any podcast I’ve had the privilege of hearing and sharing. Especially the last part about his experience with the military. Thank you.
I have my problems with the military. I don't believe in force and violence. I am from Europe and we have a very different relationship with the military, I guess. I found it somewhat disturbing here. However, I especially like the first part very much though. And respect what he experienced in Afghanistan.
Found this by chance while having a really bad day. Definitely cried my way through the entire video but what a great and insightful conversation. I feel like my entire circle of friends have been struggling with how we can show up for each other that we tend to immediately redirect each other to therapists instead of rly being a supportive presence. definitely will look into this more purposefully. thank you!
Excellent point. It’s the people that make us need therapy. Children need to be reinforced knowing that they themselves are enough, and being your own best friend allows you to befriend others ❤
I listened to this during work and there were a few times when I felt like crying. Steven was born to do this. The more guests he interviews, the more aware he becomes of himself and his thoughts and better questions to ask. What is really meaningful in life. Not to have all the money in the world, but to have enough to help yourself and others while serving those in need. I started listening to Steven in 2020. I had moved to the UK just a few months before that and I was soaking up all his knowledge through the podcast. I love the book, bought the journal too and literally can't wait to go on a live show. This has to be my favourite episode. At the end I felt like nothing can surpass this. It's like when you finish reading a good book and you don't know what to do next because it left you speechless. Well, this conversation has left me with so many emotions and thoughts. Steven and the crew are amazing for doing these episodes and I really wish this never ends, because the lessons learned here are priceless. Thank you Steven and DOAC team❤
This is arguably the best conversation yet. The deep vulnerability and relatability on so many levels and topics is unmatched. Thank you for allowing us to partake. We are all better for it.
I relate to a lot of Simons philosophy on sitting in mud or dark tunnel but still having that positivity and know there’s light at the end of the tunnel. I relate to the loneliness because of my similar stonewalling behavior. I am direct and stoic but also very sensitive and cry alone. My last relationship ended and i just wish i wasn’t neurodivergent. I didn’t realize i wasn’t showing her how much love and enthusiasm i had internally. I know there’s a lot of benefits to having the type of brain that i have but after so much pain and love lost, i just wish i was somebody else. i feel lost and displaced. i know i’m a genuine good person and all i want is to walk this earth every single day with a heart/mind/body full of love. i’m just constantly stuck. After listening to Simon, I do feel faith in humanity. I realize right now i need to find a life coach or therapist
i just want to say you are not alone, because here I am, with the same exact situation as you, as well as the same mentality. I myself haven't sought out a life coach/therapist yet, but it is one of my next plans. Go for it and I wish that one day we can find a way around this, finding the happiness that we seek
I have listened to this more than once. I cry every time. Such a wonderful message. Walking alongside and holding space, even sitting in the mud,, truly amazing ❤ I celebrate your tenacity
I mean this with all my heart, THIS IS THE BEST PODCAST THAT I’VE EVER LISTENED TO. The openness, realness, and logic in the insights has giving me a brand new perspective. THIS WAS HELPFUL AND RELATABLE, THANK YOU❤
I've been following Simon for awhile now but this was just so open and incredibly raw. Thank you both for sharing this conversation with us. Truly inspiring. In the utter chaos of the world, these two wonderful men are bringing us back to what is truly important in our lives.
This is SO RELEVANT and not addressed in a deep and meaningful way nearly as much as it should be. To truly sit in the mud with another person is one of the most beautiful and heart expanding moments available in this human experience. Thank you for this 🙏❤️
The thing l love the most abt your channel is , we get to see these amazing highly successful people who seem untouchable and get insight into their real lives and then we actually see that we are all human, we suffer the same things and can also achieve great things. Truly inspiring. Thank you for giving us the opportunity to experience this Steve!
"There's no greater honour than being able to serve a friend in need." I had a close friend who needed me to just sit in the mud with her yesterday, and I went into full fixer mode.I see that I should've dialed it down a bit. I know better now. Thank you for the great conversation, as always. 🙏❤
I must start by saying that, this is a deep s**t conversation. It shows that we are human beings, no one is perfect and neither is life. Regardless of our status in life, we all share the same emotions, thoughts, feelings and mud. Why not, at the end of the day, we are human beings and we are all vulnerable. Another great conversation, Steven. 💙
I'm struggling no family, lost my son, husband it's been the worse time in my life. Isolation, 100% I never go out unless it to food shop or doctors appointment. At 69yrs old it's extremely very hard. No friends here we moved and then my husband passed away. My prayers for anyone that reads this may the Lord bless you.🙏❤️
You can do this. Complete your journey of life with grace. B4 you know it- your journey will be done and you'll be reunited with your Son and Husband. It is a current trend of no friends. So it's not just you. People are so complicated now, be grateful to not be drawn into the drama of life.
Sending you heartfelt love❤and hugs and to keep reaching out just as you did here on you tube. You never know who may become a long distance friend or if you will find that one video that will help lift you up snd onto another trajectory. ❤one small step at a time and keep your heart open even if it feel’s crushed - love always wins.
gosh it seems many of the weathiest entreprenuers in the world actually have ADHD. and so many people look down on them. these people have an extreme ability to focus on what makes them tick and just make money!
Such an authentic conversation.. thank you. I love the idea of asking my friends to just sit in the mud with me, no judgement, no solutions, just being there.
This feels like someone read my mind. I've watched both of Simon's previous podcasts here and came away thinking, man he struggles to be vulnerable. This must have been huge for him and I hope it served him personally and he didn't just do it to stay popular because his ability to set boundaries is equally powerful. I admire him a ton - vulnerable or not.
It makes me feel if fuzzy inside, proud and relief in humanity masculinity and men as partners when I hear and witness them wholeheartedly sharing about Simon’s service to the world and the reality of his devoted career and relational cost of it !
This entire podcast touched me and taught me. When Simon got to the part where he was talking about being on the plane when the flag draped casket was brought aboard had tears running down my face. Thank you for being open, honest and vulnerable with us. 🙏
I really felt the part when he said, young people feel they're wasting their time when they take a gap or have a bad boss. It's really challenging for me not to feel I'm achieving remarkable goals, like every day I'm not giving 200% from myself, I feel like a looser.
Having been widowed in August of 2023, losing my high school sweetheart, this talk hit VERY hard. I'm balling and so very moved. Thank you, I really hadn't followed this podcast or Simon yet here I am hearing something I needed to on one of my rough days. Thank you!
We are sitting in the mud together. I needed to hear this podcast. Thank you for affirming that is ok to feel lonely. I love being alone but not feeling understood and mourning the past IS a certain type of lonely and being “fixed” by someone else exacerbates that loneliness like no other. Bless you my fellow mud dweller. 🙏💗😊
0:28: 😔 Simon Sinek discusses his shift away from public speaking and his focus on mental fitness. 13:44: 💔 Loneliness is feeling misunderstood, not being seen or heard, and struggling to communicate or present oneself. 20:50: 💔 Loneliness and the need for companionship and empathy in times of struggle. 39:46: 💡 Building trust is essential in managing chaos and making decisions in high-pressure situations. 41:23: 🗣 Feedback and self-awareness are crucial in building healthy relationships and improving communication skills. 53:13: 😔 The design of the modern world has added a layer of complication to finding and keeping love, and dating apps have made it feel like shopping for partners. 1:01:34: 💑 Being vulnerable and sharing struggles with your partner can deepen the relationship. 1:11:12: 💑 The key to a great relationship is having intellectual, emotional, and sexual compatibility, along with favorable circumstances. 1:21:43: 💔 Heartbreak teaches us about the nature of being human and the importance of co-creation in relationships. 1:29:20: 🌟 Simon measures success by momentum, not by achievement, and feels a sense of meaning and purpose in contributing to a better world. 1:38:35: 💪 The speaker reflects on their experience in a war zone and realizes that the true purpose in life is to serve those who serve others. 1:48:38: 💪 Simon reflects on the importance of serving those who serve others and the personal cost that comes with it. Recap by Tammy AI
What an incredible episode! Love Simon and his authenticity and vulnerability. I also love how well he can articulate and express himself. So much self awareness on his behalf its beautiful to see! Thank you 🙏
What a true & legit man!!! Being human these days is like a toll to many. Being heard by someone is so important that people have clinics opened so you visit and share your feelings with them and that too be charged for it. Most of the time their prescriptions don't help fix the problems too. But people feel relaxed much by just being heard. Lots of luv Simon for being YOU!
And I just want to add this to Simon: you ARE making an impact. You are making a difference. You would be surprised with how many people still have no idea what any of the things you’re talking about. I know the western world and those that are from bigger companies or powerful people are seeking tools etc. but there are people that still have NO idea about a fraction of these things discussed. Edit: If you haven’t thought about it already while I’m sure you already have, why not start a revolution on the “HELP OTHERS”. Teaching others this needed skill.
I watched Simon Sinek....(S.S) about 8 years ago and was totally blown away with his philosophy, I could relate to everything he stated. And now I've found him again and just Love how I've grown nearly exactly as he has. Love you Simon Sinek ❤️
Just caught Simon Sinek on Steven Bartlett's podcast, and man, his honesty was a breath of fresh air. Kudos to him for opening up about feeling lonely - it takes real courage to acknowledge those emotions instead of sweeping them under the rug. We feel many of us tend to shy away from the not-so-pleasant feelings, but Simon's willingness to own it and show that it's totally okay to feel that way is truly commendable. It's a reminder that embracing our full range of emotions is all part of being human. 🎙✨ #Honesty #EmbraceYourFeelings
It feels so validating to have Simon talk about the very things that people try to do to help rather than just sit in the mud with me. Or wishing to be there for my friends hard moments. I'm quite emotional and they fear burdening me with their problems when they have no idea how much being there through it is an HONOR to experience and allows me to feel an intimacy we don't share in the good joyous moments of life.
Oh my gosh, this is so relatable. How many of us have put our careers first and now sit lonely and wondering how do we change now. But won't go swiping for many reasons. Thank you for being so open with your true feelings.
What an incredible conversation. I cried. I watch podcasts all the time everyday and this was so incredibly impactful, sincere, honest and raw and inspiring! Thanks guys I sat in the mud today listening to you both.
#1. If you feel lonely and isolated it is because you do not immerse yourself (like basking in sunlight) in his love morning, noon and night every day of your life. #2. They look for love outside of themselves in all the wrong places instead of turning to the True Authentic Light of the World, Jesus The Christ. #3. God, The Holy Trinity does not isolate you. If you draw close to him, He will be your God and protector. #4. Your life path will always be harder when you don't choose Jesus. It's as simple as that. Not my words but his in the Holy Bible. It's like having a choice between two crosses. One 25 pounds and the other 5O. The larger one looks easier and lighter so most people choose it only to find out how tedious it is and regret it terribly. #5. You will never know Heavenly Peace in your life when things are up or down unless you trust in The Holy Trinity. #6. I can say this because he has been strengthening me while I'm going through a mega storm right now. I have heavenly peace in his love although all hell is breaking loose around me and threatening to drown me. I'm standing on the rock Jesus the Christ. He loves and cherishes me and I'm safe in his arms. Blessed with joy and happiness. Powerful Anointed Prayers Just For You th-cam.com/video/3orZrYPCJpQ/w-d-xo.html
That crushed me as I didn't expect to be invited into Simons inner world. Thank you so much to letting us join that conversation which draw me to tears so that I wanted to hug to provide him comfort. you both are truly amazing in the way you talk. keep on
Service to those who serve others is TRULY the key to successfully and joyfully living this life❤ I love Simon, so authentic and personable…….hope I get to meet him in this life😀 Blessings for him in the way forward This is a great show - Diary of a CEO❤️🔥
I knew I would find this video inspirational, but I had no idea how much this would resonate with me - in feeling lonely and also, just discovering at 30 that I highly likely have ADHD (waiting for an assessment) - understanding the patterns in the way I communicate and the actions I take. I also resonate with the importance of communication and the desire to connect with/help others, being there and listening. Thank you.
Patti Smith lost her place while singing at the award presentation for the Nobel Prize. She was receiving for Bob Dylan, and I believe the King and Queen of Norway were in the audience. She got quiet, and I thought she was going to cry. She asked to go back and begin again, and admitted to being so nervous she lost her place. The room exploded in applause for her, she began again, and finished this amazing song. I felt so much admiration for her, with her face filled with humility. She was the queen of that performance. Bless her, and bless you Simon for telling us about your experience of losing it on stage.
Wow, such a great conversation. It's so great to know that there are men out there who actually want to talk about the things that you both do. I've been single for many years. Not through lack of trying to find someone. I'm too picky i suppose, and have pretty much given up on finding a man who is capable of the kind of communication skills that you both have. This gives me hope. Sending love from Nova Scotia, Canada.
Such an inspiring interview. Two of my favourite motivational speakers in the same place for the 3rd time. Indeed, in today's day and age, loneliness is like a cancer for Western societies. The more virtually connected we get, the more lonely we become. More needs to be done by the gov/trusted facilities to make us more attached to our communities.
The most perfect conversation I found at the perfect time. I’ve been a fan of Simon for a very long time now…so long I thought I’d heard everything he had to say multiple times. I’d kind of moved on. This conversation opened a different side, and the two of you went deep on so many topics/ issues. Thank you for this, exactly what I need to get out of a stall and back on track. :) and excited to listen to more of your work. It’s 4:30 am and I’m jazzed to hit the ground running. Thank you for a wonderful surprise start to my day. ❤
So appreciative to you both - Steven for inviting Simon and asking the deeper questions, and Simon for being vulnerable and honest, sharing what works for you - this conversation makes so much sense! When Simon shared about being blunt with asking questions, I suddenly felt not alone in that way of communicating and it made me giggle HA! (also the eyebrow raise when Simon commented maybe he's just full of sugar and fat - LOL!!!) I love the moments of levity in this chat! We're all navigating how to be authentic, and also being kind and aware how others receive, and I love how stories have been shared here that help illustrate the real, the beauty and the mess in being human. Great stuff here. Thank you for sharing this interview 🙂
It seems most people we care about and those who reciprocate.....do try to solve or " fix" the situation, but you are right, we usually just want someone to lean on while we vent......
They should have a dating site or something for all the people like us who are working hard to know themselves and are open to change and growth. The reason most of us try to fix others could be people might not be working on themselves as much as we are or that is what we think, and we try to give them a shortcut by fixing their issues. But well, it doesn't work and now I know why.
This Podcast has been the best birthday gift I received in my 47 years on this earth. You guys made me cry, you made me laugh, make me think about why I still do not trust men after my divorce. I have built a wall around me and I have my own mudhole, but know I can start working on myself so that I'm not so alone.. All the best for you from South Africa.
28 min in and dude makes me cry.. saying there's no greater honor than serving a friend in need. Really deep talk, Great job for opening up on that level❤❤❤
I totally agree with what Simon said about ADHD. I was diagnosed with autism at 48 years old. I am glad I was brought up in an era that didn't recognise this, as I learned my coping mechanisms from an early age and I can't say it has affected me. I have listened to Simon for many years and he always comes across with a great mix of logic and emotional understanding.
Hey ,I am impressed with what you said. What are your simptomes that they figured out just now your autistic diagnosis? Thank you very much. I am thinking I have someone in my family that it's just wierd the way she comunicates . Thank you again.
Honestly - I have never dropped everything i was doing, to listen to a podcast, like i have to this. WOW. I have no words for this, Simon, you are an amazing human.
I’m a subscriber and daily student of this podcast. Thank you for providing me with a daily avenue to become a better person. This is one of my favorite episodes 🙏🏽
I love this. Thank you. This guy speaks to my soul. Single, never married, no kids. Minimal friends due to job and travel choices. My biological clock never really ticked outside of early societal pressures but now I'm over it. All I want are some quality friends who get me and someone to share my fun life with. I'm tired of just talking about my life with other people. I just want someone next to me when it happens. I actually try pretty hard to make friends. I'm on all the sites (meetup, fb group, etc). I go to things but getting people to hang out and not flake is like pulling teeth. Especially outside of an alcohol context. I'm not an alcoholic, it's just damn I don't want to be drunk every time I see you. Couples are fun to hang out with but couples dont want to hang out with a single woman and some couples don't know how to uncouple for just a ladies night out. Edit: I wrote this comment before he said that he has a wonderful life and doesnt just want to talk about it hahaha. I wanna cry. Someone actually gets it ~_~.
This sounds very similar to my experience too. I have lots of good people in my life but I want someone to be in it next to me. Hope we both can make that connection.
I hear you. Same here…. I’d like someone to make memories with but people I meet, even if they do show up, are only interested in mutual consumption. I miss going on holidays with someone, but I won’t couple with just anyone to have that experience. 😢
Thanks Steven, for interviewing such inspirational people. I have so much respect for Simon. I’ve always been a critical thinker and have struggled with the kickback from the masses and the feeling of not being understood. I know my heart is full of love and passion to contribute but my inner critic has held me back from taking action (also as I’m learning with my recent diagnosis of ADHD, we tend to struggle to take action on things). I have been on a journey to try and understand myself and learn how to drive my brain better and these conversations make me feel less alone. I love the idea of serving people who serve others because I can get too focused on having a direct profound impact on people that I forget that supporting others who make a bigger impact is just as important. We all play a role. Sending my love and support to both of you. ❤
I'm astounded with the level of vulnerability you allow your guests to have on your show Steven, truly inspiring. I also really enjoyed the sense of innocence and curiosity you express when talking to them. Really wonderful to watch, and thank you for your work in this podcast, it's so needed. 🙏🏽🙌🏽
I would like a community where I’m not told, “you should see a therapist”. I am not stuck, just lonely too. As well as an internal optimist. Wonderful podcast.
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The more I listen to the potcast the more I want to have a date with Simon. 🙏🏾😇 Admire his vulnerability and the way of thinking and breaking down all those thoughts and feelings.
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Raising money for which charitable cause? Thank you.
Simon you are a good person. You don't have to over explain things. Not saying you are.
I love your intro message "keep it to yourself". Perfect. Diary of a CEO is the most personable interview online
Great conversation😊. Thank you.
We need to deal with bad exploiting employers
In 2017, the night before my surgery for a broken ankle, my husband of 27 years and my best friend in the world, had me listen to Simon Sinek. He had been reading "Leaders Eat Last." We had so many conversations about meaningful work! He had been a pilot in the Marine Corps, was an amazing husband and father, and was inspired by Simon's words. In November 2018 he tragically and suddenly died of an aortic dissection at the age of 51. During the past four years I have been working to be strong and resilient for my children. And now, I feel he is speaking to me through Simon's words, inspiring me to be more vulnerable, to really listen, to just sit in the mud, and hold space... sharing struggles... deepening relationships... thank you both.
#1. If you feel lonely and isolated it is because you do not immerse yourself (like basking in sunlight) in his love morning, noon and night every day of your life.
#2. They look for love outside of themselves in all the wrong places instead of turning to the True Authentic Light of the World, Jesus The Christ.
#3. God, The Holy Trinity does not isolate you. If you draw close to him, He will be your God and protector.
#4. Your life path will always be harder when you don't choose Jesus. It's as simple as that. Not my words but his in the Holy Bible. It's like having a choice between two crosses. One 25 pounds and the other 5O. The larger one looks easier and lighter so most people choose it only to find out how tedious it is and regret it terribly.
#5. You will never know Heavenly Peace in your life when things are up or down unless you trust in The Holy Trinity.
#6. I can say this because he has been strengthening me while I'm going through a mega storm right now. I have heavenly peace in his love although all hell is breaking loose around me and threatening to drown me. I'm standing on the rock Jesus the Christ. He loves and cherishes me and I'm safe in his arms. Blessed with joy and happiness.
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I am Christian and your reply is extremely self-rightious and judgmental. Next time get down from your sel-righteous pedestal and offer comfort and hope. I am convinced that would have been more helpful. 😢😊
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Thank you @@soniaperez2417 for responding with such eloquence and love to the above ❤👌🏼
I’ll be honest, I was rather maddened that someone has taken such a beautiful and vulnerable comment about the positive impact Simon has had on their life, and used it to talk about religion 🤦🏻♂️
I support wholeheartedly those who have faith, but this is unhelpful. So thank you for your wonderfully measured response, I imagine you’re a pretty awesome human being 🙏🏼
Thanks a lot for sharing, it is very helpful, we have tendency to give advice, and you are right it doesn't help, until we are ready to receive it. But what we need in this moment ,just sit in the mud with friends 😊and also very important point, I like,that even we are not in service, our obligations is to care for people, who are ❤
From now on I'll stop trying to fix people and be a better listener.
Such a powerful message.
exactly lol
YES that's great! The fixers tend to interrupt the sharing and get impatient and get angry with you for not adopting what for them seems the simple and obvious solution. I've been in the situation many times where there are key factors hidden to me and them and those were the keys to resolution. It's not a simple fix in any case.
Exactly, I feel like I know better and can fix all their problems and make their lives easier but now I know that is not how it works.
It might suit him ... but not most men
I think we all just want to be 'fixed'
We just want to be happy
We can't figure out how to do it for ourselves, so we project onto others, by trying to fix them.
Empathy for the fixers would be nice too.
No one 's trying to hurt anyone.
Just state your boundaries, say, you don't need help, thank you.
That's what I do.
I am 69 years old and when I was in early 20’s, I experienced loneliness. I read many self help books to understand what I was feeling but still felt lonely. At night the loneliness was unbearable. I put pictures of universe on the ceiling of my bedroom and kept telling telling my self that compare to universe I am smaller than a speck of sand. Then one day I started to talk to my loneliness as if it is a human and ask to be my friend. I accepted and embraced it. As time went on I stopped being lonely. To this day I don’t feel lonely. I guess the loneliness became a part of me.
I’m in my early 20’s and going through exactly what you went through. I guess loneliness doesn’t want to be my friend yet.
@@MdTahsinulIFayed - Getting to know is good…
Gorgeous! Thank you❤
@@MdTahsinulIFayedThank you for your vulnerability, friend. You are not alone. I hear you❤
What a beautiful share...amazing...I remember feeling so distressed and alone. before an exam...my dad got me to go to the garden, look up at the evening sky....and said we are part of all this.....your beautiful example reminded me of this
The Diary of a CEO has become my best friend so far ... The guests and their vulnerability are legendary. You've restored my faith in humanity again. Thank you so much, Steve !
same. I listen to DOAC everytime I work at home.
Same! I just discovered this last week and I feel so blessed to know this exists
Oh, OK time to settle in yourself up ! Lol
Agree. It’s such a powerful show. Not just another podcast. They’re impactful honest conversations.
Same here! I struggle to create meaningful connections with my acquaintances and colleagues, I feel like they're just not that interested. This really helps, it's a surrogate of having those conversations that I'd like to be having
Simon’s authenticity and willingness to be honest about his inefficiencies…
Has given me another level of respect for him. Something we should all admire
..You hit the nail right on the head. So few people are willing to be authentic.
Admire and imitate or adopt
This interview made me so emotional because I am a woman in my 50s with no kids and no partner therefore I get lonely all the time. I won't say that I have a terrible life but sometimes I don't like being lonely. In these times I am so grateful to my siblings who all keep in touch with me. There are so many key takeaways in this conversation. Thanks to Simon and Steven..
I am exactly in your boat...every word! We got this!
@@angonorato1770oh yes we got this. Best regards to you.
That’s exactly me. I’m going 51 in Jan 24 with greying hairline. To make things worst, I work with young co workers and they have partners married or to be married . No one looks up to a single person who earns average wage . Especially so a woman. And when you get angry about some work issue due to some poor response internally, I hear people say ‘Non married woman are angry and behave differently from married ladies.. sigh 😢
That’s exactly my life except my siblings are too busy in their own lives. My fur babies help to some degree.
And I feel just like you do in a similar situation
I’m a therapist and if everyone had a friend like these two men, I would be out of business. Everything discussed is great therapy for self and others. Therapist sit in the mud too! Such a great description! I actually ask my clients if they are wanting to vent or want to fix. Sometimes when I’m in the mud (with my own issues), I pause, then I get up and do something even if it’s wrong, it still feels better.
Thank you for sharing you insight ❤️
What are some examples of things you'd do that would be considered wrong?
But they get paid for sitting in the mud, it's very hard work and can't be expected as a free gift of everyone. It would be a relationship that has a balanced emotional bank account.
Really? I think the paid part is there for just that...$
A stranger a friend a family member a clergy etc sit in the mud w you as I do for them so no you don't sit in the mud w your clients. Unless you mean something else?
@@ishavidaayurveda it’s still not easy to sit in the mud with someone whether you get paid or not. Not everyone can be that person for even someone they love. It does take love to do it.
I always say, "I love you," after every conversation when speaking to someone I feel that for. It's a form of gratitude for the friendship and all received through it. Even friends who felt awkward by that now are so open and return the words from such a sweet place. When I feel alone....I am single and near 60....I ask myself, "Who can i help today?" The feeling of alone begins to fade, and the gratitude of being able to help replaces it.
Beautiful Paula. You clearly have a tender heart.
That's so kind of you Paula. I love you! :)
I love you
That is so beautiful and openly honest. Thank you.
I say this too. My cousins say it's weird. In Asian culture it's faux pas. Lol.
I experienced a very late diagnosis of ADD and ADHD at almost 40 years old. Simon’s comment about “mourning the past” really resonated with me.
Having a really hard time moving myself on. Afraid to stay and hard to go.
@@PeggyShingleton I think we have to learn from the past while enjoying the present
I appreciate you making me aware that there's a distinction between ADD and ADHD, i've seen high level ADHD on days when he didn't take his meds.
But feel my sister and i could have ADD which seems to at least display itself quite differently externally
I was diagnosed around 9 months ago after I finally paid privately to see a psychiatrist at the age of 30 and so much of my life made sense from that diagnosis , and I also feel a sense of sadness in a way that things could have been so different had I understood what I had and had I been on meds sooner
This interview was solid gold, wrapped in gold, shipped in a gold box, with a gold bow on it. 24K gold interview hands down.
What an honour it was to have Simon come on the podcast and be so open and vulnerable with me, thank you Simon! If you enjoyed this conversation do me a favour and like the video, it helps us understand exactly what type of conversations you enjoy. Thanks! 🙏🏽
I do not live in London. Is there an opportunity to watch event online?
Same, would it be live online?
3:14 I'll ask you Steven, how are you doing? You are PICKING YOUR NAILS, looking at them as you phrase and deliver this question to Simon. Fidgety, distracted. What's up? xx Your viewers happy to hold space with you!
Yey, I love you both!
I would love to watch it live!! 😍🤩❤️
"Serve those who serve others" really resonated with me, such a deep message. How I wish to get friends who feel the same.
find a real tibetan buddhist
Yes you can, teach your friend what and how you would like them to be.
And here in lies the magic of life!
I love this so much. I know what it is like to feel lonely at times. I would sit in the mud with you Simon. One of my favorite quotes is from A.A. Milne. Very profound.
"Today was a Difficult Day," said Pooh.
There was a pause.
"Do you want to talk about it?" asked Piglet.
"No," said Pooh after a bit. "No, I don't think I do."
"That's okay," said Piglet, and he came and sat beside his friend.
"What are you doing?" asked Pooh.
"Nothing, really," said Piglet. "Only, I know what Difficult Days are like. I quite often don't feel like talking about it on my Difficult Days either.
"But goodness," continued Piglet, "Difficult Days are so much easier when you know you've got someone there for you. And I'll always be here for you, Pooh."
And as Pooh sat there, working through in his head his Difficult Day, while the solid, reliable Piglet sat next to him quietly, swinging his little legs…he thought that his best friend had never been more right."
A.A. Milne
I only knew certain parts of this. Thank you for posting more of it. It brought tears to me eyes.
@Sheila Anderson We could all use a little more Pooh & Piglet
Love that.
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I've sat in the mud with so many. But who has ever sat in my mud just for a change?
Sorry, but this is all BS. There's a lot of self important, totally selfish aholes out there and it's nearly all of you.
Signed single white ageing woman, never married no kids because all males are getting boring asian females who cannot even speak english let alone engage in interesting deep and meaningful conversation, because let's face it they actually all just want a servant, and whose name is now a source of prejudice and discrimination.
Money talks.
The only way I will ever get a man and get married is the size of my investments. If i declared that I am worth $10000000, I guarantee not only will i get flooded with dates, they will all arrive early, dressed in a suit with a bunch of very expensive flowers and Dom Perignon, along with a dozen marriage proposals in the first week.
Dear Simon,
Thank you for helping me realize I’m not broken. I literally relate to 100% of everything you said in this interview.
Conclusion: Surround yourself with people who make you feel heard. Remember that “wait” is not “never”. Lots of things worth waiting for, take time. ❤
Be productive while in waiting. When you get busy with you, your person will show up
....or they might not (show up).
Which is ok.
Don't do anything with the condition or expectation that something is going to happen.
Just do it because you want to.
#1. If you feel lonely and isolated it is because you do not immerse yourself (like basking in sunlight) in his love morning, noon and night every day of your life.
#2. They look for love outside of themselves in all the wrong places instead of turning to the True Authentic Light of the World, Jesus The Christ.
#3. God, The Holy Trinity does not isolate you. If you draw close to him, He will be your God and protector.
#4. Your life path will always be harder when you don't choose Jesus. It's as simple as that. Not my words but his in the Holy Bible. It's like having a choice between two crosses. One 25 pounds and the other 5O. The larger one looks easier and lighter so most people choose it only to find out how tedious it is and regret it terribly.
#5. You will never know Heavenly Peace in your life when things are up or down unless you trust in The Holy Trinity.
#6. I can say this because he has been strengthening me while I'm going through a mega storm right now. I have heavenly peace in his love although all hell is breaking loose around me and threatening to drown me. I'm standing on the rock Jesus the Christ. He loves and cherishes me and I'm safe in his arms. Blessed with joy and happiness.
Powerful Anointed Prayers Just For You
th-cam.com/video/3orZrYPCJpQ/w-d-xo.html
It's OK to be broken as long as you don't give up on yourself and remember even the brokenness is not an everlasting state of you.
Only those who have been broken can meaningfully walk with another soul that is about to break or is breaking.
@@nedsantos1415 That, is the sweetest thing I 've ever heard!
I’m 19 years old about to turn 20 and the part where Simon talked about just sticking with something and not worrying about arbitrary numbers really spoke with me
You possess exceptional interviewing skills, as evidenced by the way your guest opened up to you like never before. Your ability to connect with and understand people is truly remarkable.
This is the most powerful podcast I have listened to ever. It brought me to tears several times. The current greatest frustration in my life is that at the age of 69 and significant physical limitations, I feel I am not of service to anyone.
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I'm disabled.. I feel totally worthless, but moreover invisible. I feel you 😢
Simply by posting this you are of service. So many of us can relate to this feeling and by connecting with us you touch us and remove that sense of loneliness and fear. Sometimes, often, we serve others simply by being ourselves. Thank you for your post ❤❤
I’m 60 and I understand. Your comment made me feel better. Thank you for being open and honest. 💜💫💜
My wise father said that loneliness was the biggest affliction in the world. He was right. Thank you for a spot on podcast.
I feel so moved with this episode, it seemed to me it wasn't intended to get that far and deep until Simon took the courageous step to open totally and completely. Nobody is fully done with their own personal work, and yet is so inspiring to me, to see role-models of self aware men. The story of finding meaning in the middle of a panic was very powerful. Simon is a deep thinker with a great purpose and a mission. I wish more of those examples in our society.
"I'm struggling to communicate or present myself in a way that people will get who I'am". my life, so relatable Simon
I don't think I have had anyone who gets who I really am.
@@Kinsugi what you want to transmit that’s the key. But it all starts with you knowing yourself at all your ages. That’s how you can extract your true essence
Totally relatable
Steven, you are amazingly skilled in creating space for guests to be truly authentic. I love your interviewing abilities and the guests that you attract. Thank you for what you do !❤
I learned the "sitting in the mud" communication by just doing that with my wife and noticed that every time after this conversations she thanked me and was grateful. That was the moment I truly understood the value of just listening. It was literally a big positive shift in our marriage, when I, on a regular basis, implemented just conversation evenings.
So thanks for this amazing episode.
"We live in a world where most people are not equipped on how to be there for a friend" that hit like a ton of bricks! Sadly, I am finding this out the hard way. My closest friends didn't know my mom was in the last stages of her illness. I didn't feel like reaching out. No one was really asking anyway. When I announced that my mom passed, I was so disappointed in the lack of support from my so-called best friends. A mear text, a message. I am still in shock on how unaware people are. Each person seems to be living in their own bubble. I can't wrap my head around this. Sad to say the least and feeling lonely as ever.
I have had the same and in my experience the worst are those who haven't yet lost a parent yet. A friend lost her mother and then said to me (I had lost my mother 5 years earlier) I'm so sorry I wasn't really there for you, I was so blissfully unaware of what it was like until it happened to me.
I feel you Camille. I no longer have my mom and dad. Aint easy living alone… even my own siblings have no idea how lonely I am
@Gastrolicious Gelayski I am so sorry for your loss. It feels very lonely. A lady told me the other day, "we are no longer who we were after losing a parent," let alone both. I feel an identity crisis of sorts. But I have to pull myself together and reinvent myself somehow. I know my parents would want me to be well. I will pray for you as well. May we find strength.
@A Beautiful Country good insight, maybe them not being able to relate to our loss makes them emotionally unavailable. But still, common sense goes a long way.
That sounds difficult. Are you there for your friends? Is it possible to find new friends
This is a really powerful message. I lost my sibling to suicide and I could see he was struggling but did not know how to show up for him in the ways I wish I could have. I really feel that this valuable skill could have saved him.
I watched this 4x. I have all Simon's books. I love him more now that I see this vulnerable part of him. It resonated with me. It is very difficult for me to find love as it seems there is no one I am compatible with. I understand the struggles of loneliness. Thank you for this wonderful journey.
This is exactly how I feel!
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I absolutely love this episode with Simon. I even shed some tears when he was talking about his friend in the army being so vulnerable with him and saying "i love you".
Absolutely love this conversation, listening to two men discussing the human condition is not only heartwarming but enormously reinforcing for those of us that battle loneliness and full understanding and integration of all of our parts.....the power of love and connection with self and others.....🙏
I'm 68 with ADHD and finally just understanding how this has effected all my relationships...and yes, there is a period of mourning that I have been going through that is not easy. Not only are these feelings difficult, explaining these feelings are difficult.
#1. If you feel lonely and isolated it is because you do not immerse yourself (like basking in sunlight) in his love morning, noon and night every day of your life.
#2. They look for love outside of themselves in all the wrong places instead of turning to the True Authentic Light of the World, Jesus The Christ.
#3. God, The Holy Trinity does not isolate you. If you draw close to him, He will be your God and protector.
#4. Your life path will always be harder when you don't choose Jesus. It's as simple as that. Not my words but his in the Holy Bible. It's like having a choice between two crosses. One 25 pounds and the other 5O. The larger one looks easier and lighter so most people choose it only to find out how tedious it is and regret it terribly.
#5. You will never know Heavenly Peace in your life when things are up or down unless you trust in The Holy Trinity.
#6. I can say this because he has been strengthening me while I'm going through a mega storm right now. I have heavenly peace in his love although all hell is breaking loose around me and threatening to drown me. I'm standing on the rock Jesus the Christ. He loves and cherishes me and I'm safe in his arms. Blessed with joy and happiness.
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I'm almost 65 and just realised the exact same thing.
At first it came as a great revelation and liberation until the sense of mourning the wasted opportunities caused by a lifetime of confusion kicked in.
So, maybe I'm being unfair here but, I'm struggling to feel much sympathy for someone who has realised in their 30s when they still have more of their life ahead of them than behind them...
@@sohosteveuk I'm 49 and have nothing to show for it. I feel 38 at the most. I never really understood "reality" and how to navigate it. I wish i chose a different career path that had more opportunity. I am shifting to something much better and with no salary ceiling. I also plan to take my landscape painting father. That seems to be an old person game anyways lol.
My life was ruined by caring too much what other think and limiting myself. What i went through sucked and i can't even talk about it. I mean to a therapist i could and will. I just don't want to die single. I have very few friends. Once somebody moves i lose touch with them. A good friend died recently. I've known my best friend since 4th grade, so that helps. But we don't have that many deep talks.
I do have ADD, not sure about the H part. It never got diagnosed. School was a total shit show. My parents never monitored me as they were dealing with a dying marriage. After school and the Army i just bounced around......then bamm here i am. Meanwhile my bro got a sweet job right after college, then another and now has been at SAS (like Google) for 20 years as a project manager. Easy job, great pay and benefits. He chose a much better career path. I tried to be a graphic designer but it was too demanding for my brain. You create something really cool, then gotta do it again and again and again. Good luck getting past 50K for years.
When i was younger the idea of marriage or a relationship made me feel smothered. I didn't have the income to support it and my mind was always daydreaming or moving onto the next thing. It really sucks. I will finally seek help soon. I've suffered enough but then i'm so used to that, that it seems like that is just how my life is. Meanwhile others just go through life like a hot knife going through butter.
@@infowazz as a person on this planet you aren't required to be something impressive or do a ton of things to show yourself as being successful. You live your life, do things you like, connect with people, work, relax and be human that's not failure.
Dear Simon,
This might sound hyperbolic and somewhat dramatic, but it isn’t. This was the most authentic conversation I’ve ever heard. What you said about ‘sitting in the mud’, about listening and NOT trying to ‘fix’ things, about practising meditation to empower ourselves to listen respectfully has brought about a paradigm shift in my understanding of close relationships. I couldn’t hold back my tears. It was truly cathartic. I know now what I’ve been doing wrong. Clearly, empathy works like nothing else does. Truly truly grateful for all those insights…for being brave enough to be vulnerable. My prayers for you to find happiness in your personal space.
Much love and regards come your way…
P.S. Thanks Steve for enabling that engaging conversation. You bring out the real person you talk to, each time.
I have been answering that question, as well as "are you okay?", with a no, nope, a side to side head shake. Everyone walks away. Leaves me ALONE! YAY!
Best way to get left alone at the bus stop, as well as observe if your friends are only asking rhetorically.
I love this and am reminded of when I was a teenager, and went through a series of bereavements, I wrote the words "Flowers never grow if they just have sun, they need the rain too". I forgot those words for many, may years and am grateful that you've had Simon on the show to remind me.
Sounds amazing what you wrote❤
Beautifully spoken about the flower.
Finally shared with friend recently and family member last year that I've had such feelings of loneliness. Family said nothing and friend told me all the reasons I shouldn't feel lonely. It helps to know that it's not that they don't care but that they don't have the skills to sit with me as a lonely person...
And opening up and making yourself vulnerable by sharing how you REALLY feel can be tough. Well done for being real. I'm sorry they reacted like that, it can hurt. I'm so glad you've seen that it's not that they don't care. I remember a few years ago, sharing with my Mum how lonely I felt...she told me to go for a run! She has Aspergers...
At least they said nothing or just told you you shouldn’t feel lonely, you should feel lucky that they didn’t laugh at you, otherwise you will feel more lonely
This is a great podcast as are many on this channel. Often sitting in the mud IS the solution. Being heard can be an incredible antidote to loneliness.
I'm not a man of many tears.. but the end story was great. "Serve those who serve others" and "go on; were with you" 🤗
Life changing conversation. So raw and full of another level wisdom. I believe everyone of us who has watched/listened this episode will be a better human going forward. Saying million "thank you" does not show even a fracture of my gratitude to both of these men ❤
This is one of the powerful conversations I’ve ever listened to! I hope Simon finds a loving relationship with the right woman one day! Many blessings for using your heart and mind to the work you do for people! ❤️
What an overdue & emotionally supportive dialogue. Simon is a breath of fresh air! We all need this immensely!Thank you so so much Simon.
The 3+1 philosophy about partnership made me realize alot of why many of my dating experiences have failed to work. And the way he transforms the idea of meditation to train to be a better listener is just amazing. Lots of love to anyone reading this, who takes his time scrolling through the comment section and also to simon and steven for providing the content.
but i like to be lonley ! :))))
Hi @reazl773
Thanks for making time to comment on this.
Do you know where I can get info on what 3+1 is and get detailed info on that?
@@jean300490 01:05:20 if you listen 20 mins from there you will understand it
Get off the internet and start meeting face to face. Maybe it might work better.
I feel exactly the same. (Like, I even got an ADHD diagnosis at 31). This is the first thing on this topic I've managed to listen to since I finally sank in quicksand due to loneliness. Really resonates with me. Thank you
Thanks for opening up & sharing! So many things I loved about this episode (aka all of it) but especially the loneliness, and the positive traits ADHD can bring. When Simon brought up the personal relationship and the not-so-stereotypical reactions, I laughed out loud (cause yep, that’s our about right). It’s always nice hearing from those who are appreciative members of our ADHD tribe, where we keep things interesting 😂.
Thank you both so much for your work. I always enjoy listening to you both, and especially tonight. I was one of the ones in the mud with loneliness tonight. Hearing someone else vocalize the ability to be appreciative of the space they are in while still feeling lonely…it was just perfectly articulated. Simon, seriously thank you for vocalizing where you were at. Its always nice having a real human vocalize the amazing juxtaposition of different emotions. It’s hard to find people that will have real conversations without the Fixer-upper mentality. You both are amazeballs, thank you!
Did you know Bartlett is worth $100 million dollars? He's plugging ads in this too. Maybe a charity would make better use of your $5
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This is one of the most moving and influential episodes of any podcast I’ve had the privilege of hearing and sharing. Especially the last part about his experience with the military. Thank you.
I have my problems with the military. I don't believe in force and violence. I am from Europe and we have a very different relationship with the military, I guess. I found it somewhat disturbing here. However, I especially like the first part very much though. And respect what he experienced in Afghanistan.
Found this by chance while having a really bad day. Definitely cried my way through the entire video but what a great and insightful conversation. I feel like my entire circle of friends have been struggling with how we can show up for each other that we tend to immediately redirect each other to therapists instead of rly being a supportive presence. definitely will look into this more purposefully. thank you!
Excellent point. It’s the people that make us need therapy. Children need to be reinforced knowing that they themselves are enough, and being your own best friend allows you to befriend others ❤
11 minutes in and I am fighting tears and don’t know why. I really felt that. ❤
Same!
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I listened to this during work and there were a few times when I felt like crying. Steven was born to do this. The more guests he interviews, the more aware he becomes of himself and his thoughts and better questions to ask. What is really meaningful in life. Not to have all the money in the world, but to have enough to help yourself and others while serving those in need.
I started listening to Steven in 2020. I had moved to the UK just a few months before that and I was soaking up all his knowledge through the podcast. I love the book, bought the journal too and literally can't wait to go on a live show.
This has to be my favourite episode. At the end I felt like nothing can surpass this. It's like when you finish reading a good book and you don't know what to do next because it left you speechless. Well, this conversation has left me with so many emotions and thoughts. Steven and the crew are amazing for doing these episodes and I really wish this never ends, because the lessons learned here are priceless. Thank you Steven and DOAC team❤
It's truly heartwarming to listen to two men openly discussing their vulnerabilities. Their courage is truly inspiring. Thank you! 🎉
This is arguably the best conversation yet. The deep vulnerability and relatability on so many levels and topics is unmatched. Thank you for allowing us to partake. We are all better for it.
I relate to a lot of Simons philosophy on sitting in mud or dark tunnel but still having that positivity and know there’s light at the end of the tunnel. I relate to the loneliness because of my similar stonewalling behavior. I am direct and stoic but also very sensitive and cry alone. My last relationship ended and i just wish i wasn’t neurodivergent. I didn’t realize i wasn’t showing her how much love and enthusiasm i had internally. I know there’s a lot of benefits to having the type of brain that i have but after so much pain and love lost, i just wish i was somebody else. i feel lost and displaced. i know i’m a genuine good person and all i want is to walk this earth every single day with a heart/mind/body full of love. i’m just constantly stuck.
After listening to Simon, I do feel faith in humanity. I realize right now i need to find a life coach or therapist
I think he’s ND as well. I’m NT and hyper-emotional which isn’t fun or the answer either.
Hello, is there a test we can take to find out ?
i just want to say you are not alone, because here I am, with the same exact situation as you, as well as the same mentality. I myself haven't sought out a life coach/therapist yet, but it is one of my next plans. Go for it and I wish that one day we can find a way around this, finding the happiness that we seek
I have listened to this more than once. I cry every time. Such a wonderful message. Walking alongside and holding space, even sitting in the mud,, truly amazing ❤ I celebrate your tenacity
I love him. He’s a genuine person. I would feel lucky to have him as a friend.
What a powerfully real and honest discussion, vulnerable, human to the core. Serving those who serve others ❤️
I mean this with all my heart, THIS IS THE BEST PODCAST THAT I’VE EVER LISTENED TO. The openness, realness, and logic in the insights has giving me a brand new perspective. THIS WAS HELPFUL AND RELATABLE, THANK YOU❤
I've been following Simon for awhile now but this was just so open and incredibly raw. Thank you both for sharing this conversation with us. Truly inspiring. In the utter chaos of the world, these two wonderful men are bringing us back to what is truly important in our lives.
This is SO RELEVANT and not addressed in a deep and meaningful way nearly as much as it should be. To truly sit in the mud with another person is one of the most beautiful and heart expanding moments available in this human experience. Thank you for this 🙏❤️
The thing l love the most abt your channel is , we get to see these amazing highly successful people who seem untouchable and get insight into their real lives and then we actually see that we are all human, we suffer the same things and can also achieve great things. Truly inspiring. Thank you for giving us the opportunity to experience this Steve!
"There's no greater honour than being able to serve a friend in need." I had a close friend who needed me to just sit in the mud with her yesterday, and I went into full fixer mode.I see that I should've dialed it down a bit. I know better now. Thank you for the great conversation, as always. 🙏❤
I must start by saying that, this is a deep s**t conversation. It shows that we are human beings, no one is perfect and neither is life. Regardless of our status in life, we all share the same emotions, thoughts, feelings and mud. Why not, at the end of the day, we are human beings and we are all vulnerable. Another great conversation, Steven. 💙
I'm struggling no family, lost my son, husband it's been the worse time in my life. Isolation, 100% I never go out unless it to food shop or doctors appointment. At 69yrs old it's extremely very hard. No friends here we moved and then my husband passed away. My prayers for anyone that reads this may the Lord bless you.🙏❤️
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You keep it going.. even daily walks in the neighborhood seeing other people going about their stuff will help.
God bless you! I hope God sends you a friend you can enjoy your time with and share memories!! Amen!
You can do this. Complete your journey of life with grace. B4 you know it- your journey will be done and you'll be reunited with your Son and Husband. It is a current trend of no friends. So it's not just you. People are so complicated now, be grateful to not be drawn into the drama of life.
Sending you heartfelt love❤and hugs and to keep reaching out just as you did here on you tube. You never know who may become a long distance friend or if you will find that one video that will help lift you up snd onto another trajectory. ❤one small step at a time and keep your heart open even if it feel’s crushed - love always wins.
It's amazing that a man with so much success and impact has the exact same problems as the rest of us. Great podcast.
I love Simon! Showing everyone you can be a powerhouse even with ADHD. Such a great guest.
gosh it seems many of the weathiest entreprenuers in the world actually have ADHD. and so many people look down on them. these people have an extreme ability to focus on what makes them tick and just make money!
No joke. I can connect with him
Omg i didnt know he had adhd. It makes me connect w him even more !!
Yes, amazing!!
Poor little Simon with ADHD :( those kids in Africa are such vain little shits in comparison
Such an authentic conversation.. thank you. I love the idea of asking my friends to just sit in the mud with me, no judgement, no solutions, just being there.
This feels like someone read my mind. I've watched both of Simon's previous podcasts here and came away thinking, man he struggles to be vulnerable. This must have been huge for him and I hope it served him personally and he didn't just do it to stay popular because his ability to set boundaries is equally powerful. I admire him a ton - vulnerable or not.
It makes me feel if fuzzy inside, proud and relief in humanity masculinity and men as partners when I hear and witness them wholeheartedly sharing about Simon’s service to the world and the reality of his devoted career and relational cost of it !
This entire podcast touched me and taught me. When Simon got to the part where he was talking about being on the plane when the flag draped casket was brought aboard had tears running down my face. Thank you for being open, honest and vulnerable with us. 🙏
This episode made me feel less alone, knowing that someone like Simon exists, with similar values to my own and with an army feeling the same way❤
I really felt the part when he said, young people feel they're wasting their time when they take a gap or have a bad boss. It's really challenging for me not to feel I'm achieving remarkable goals, like every day I'm not giving 200% from myself, I feel like a looser.
Having been widowed in August of 2023, losing my high school sweetheart, this talk hit VERY hard. I'm balling and so very moved. Thank you, I really hadn't followed this podcast or Simon yet here I am hearing something I needed to on one of my rough days. Thank you!
We are sitting in the mud together. I needed to hear this podcast. Thank you for affirming that is ok to feel lonely. I love being alone but not feeling understood and mourning the past IS a certain type of lonely and being “fixed” by someone else exacerbates that loneliness like no other. Bless you my fellow mud dweller. 🙏💗😊
Absolutely MAGNIFICENT! Simon has an incredible way of putting feelings into words and painting a picture! Thank you for the gift of this talk!
0:28: 😔 Simon Sinek discusses his shift away from public speaking and his focus on mental fitness.
13:44: 💔 Loneliness is feeling misunderstood, not being seen or heard, and struggling to communicate or present oneself.
20:50: 💔 Loneliness and the need for companionship and empathy in times of struggle.
39:46: 💡 Building trust is essential in managing chaos and making decisions in high-pressure situations.
41:23: 🗣 Feedback and self-awareness are crucial in building healthy relationships and improving communication skills.
53:13: 😔 The design of the modern world has added a layer of complication to finding and keeping love, and dating apps have made it feel like shopping for partners.
1:01:34: 💑 Being vulnerable and sharing struggles with your partner can deepen the relationship.
1:11:12: 💑 The key to a great relationship is having intellectual, emotional, and sexual compatibility, along with favorable circumstances.
1:21:43: 💔 Heartbreak teaches us about the nature of being human and the importance of co-creation in relationships.
1:29:20: 🌟 Simon measures success by momentum, not by achievement, and feels a sense of meaning and purpose in contributing to a better world.
1:38:35: 💪 The speaker reflects on their experience in a war zone and realizes that the true purpose in life is to serve those who serve others.
1:48:38: 💪 Simon reflects on the importance of serving those who serve others and the personal cost that comes with it.
Recap by Tammy AI
Thank you for this ❤
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Thanks so much for this recap ❤😊
Thank you. What a friend you are. Saved me 2 hours of my life. Sounds like the same things everyone says.
@@tannwich5350The entire podcast is worth a listen. If you believe he’s spewing rhetoric, you mustn’t be paying attention.
What an incredible episode! Love Simon and his authenticity and vulnerability. I also love how well he can articulate and express himself. So much self awareness on his behalf its beautiful to see! Thank you 🙏
What a true & legit man!!! Being human these days is like a toll to many. Being heard by someone is so important that people have clinics opened so you visit and share your feelings with them and that too be charged for it. Most of the time their prescriptions don't help fix the problems too. But people feel relaxed much by just being heard. Lots of luv Simon for being YOU!
And I just want to add this to Simon: you ARE making an impact. You are making a difference. You would be surprised with how many people still have no idea what any of the things you’re talking about. I know the western world and those that are from bigger companies or powerful people are seeking tools etc. but there are people that still have NO idea about a fraction of these things discussed.
Edit: If you haven’t thought about it already while I’m sure you already have, why not start a revolution on the “HELP OTHERS”. Teaching others this needed skill.
What a man, a leader, humble. Just adore him.
I watched Simon Sinek....(S.S) about 8 years ago and was totally blown away with his philosophy, I could relate to everything he stated.
And now I've found him again and just Love how I've grown nearly exactly as he has.
Love you Simon Sinek ❤️
Just caught Simon Sinek on Steven Bartlett's podcast, and man, his honesty was a breath of fresh air. Kudos to him for opening up about feeling lonely - it takes real courage to acknowledge those emotions instead of sweeping them under the rug. We feel many of us tend to shy away from the not-so-pleasant feelings, but Simon's willingness to own it and show that it's totally okay to feel that way is truly commendable. It's a reminder that embracing our full range of emotions is all part of being human. 🎙✨ #Honesty #EmbraceYourFeelings
One of my favorite sayings I've heard- "If you cannot see the light, I will sit with you in the dark".❤
It feels so validating to have Simon talk about the very things that people try to do to help rather than just sit in the mud with me. Or wishing to be there for my friends hard moments. I'm quite emotional and they fear burdening me with their problems when they have no idea how much being there through it is an HONOR to experience and allows me to feel an intimacy we don't share in the good joyous moments of life.
Oh my gosh, this is so relatable. How many of us have put our careers first and now sit lonely and wondering how do we change now. But won't go swiping for many reasons. Thank you for being so open with your true feelings.
What an incredible conversation. I cried. I watch podcasts all the time everyday and this was so incredibly impactful, sincere, honest and raw and inspiring! Thanks guys I sat in the mud today listening to you both.
#1. If you feel lonely and isolated it is because you do not immerse yourself (like basking in sunlight) in his love morning, noon and night every day of your life.
#2. They look for love outside of themselves in all the wrong places instead of turning to the True Authentic Light of the World, Jesus The Christ.
#3. God, The Holy Trinity does not isolate you. If you draw close to him, He will be your God and protector.
#4. Your life path will always be harder when you don't choose Jesus. It's as simple as that. Not my words but his in the Holy Bible. It's like having a choice between two crosses. One 25 pounds and the other 5O. The larger one looks easier and lighter so most people choose it only to find out how tedious it is and regret it terribly.
#5. You will never know Heavenly Peace in your life when things are up or down unless you trust in The Holy Trinity.
#6. I can say this because he has been strengthening me while I'm going through a mega storm right now. I have heavenly peace in his love although all hell is breaking loose around me and threatening to drown me. I'm standing on the rock Jesus the Christ. He loves and cherishes me and I'm safe in his arms. Blessed with joy and happiness.
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That crushed me as I didn't expect to be invited into Simons inner world. Thank you so much to letting us join that conversation which draw me to tears so that I wanted to hug to provide him comfort. you both are truly amazing in the way you talk. keep on
Service to those who serve others is TRULY the key to successfully and joyfully living this life❤
I love Simon, so authentic and personable…….hope I get to meet him in this life😀
Blessings for him in the way forward
This is a great show - Diary of a CEO❤️🔥
I knew I would find this video inspirational, but I had no idea how much this would resonate with me - in feeling lonely and also, just discovering at 30 that I highly likely have ADHD (waiting for an assessment) - understanding the patterns in the way I communicate and the actions I take. I also resonate with the importance of communication and the desire to connect with/help others, being there and listening. Thank you.
Patti Smith lost her place while singing at the award presentation for the Nobel Prize. She was receiving for Bob Dylan, and I believe the King and Queen of Norway were in the audience. She got quiet, and I thought she was going to cry. She asked to go back and begin again, and admitted to being so nervous she lost her place. The room exploded in applause for her, she began again, and finished this amazing song. I felt so much admiration for her, with her face filled with humility. She was the queen of that performance. Bless her, and bless you Simon for telling us about your experience of losing it on stage.
Wow, such a great conversation. It's so great to know that there are men out there who actually want to talk about the things that you both do. I've been single for many years. Not through lack of trying to find someone. I'm too picky i suppose, and have pretty much given up on finding a man who is capable of the kind of communication skills that you both have. This gives me hope.
Sending love from Nova Scotia, Canada.
I didn't expect this conversation to be this enriching, real and vulnerable. It's making me cry and smile at the same time. 💖
Such an inspiring interview. Two of my favourite motivational speakers in the same place for the 3rd time. Indeed, in today's day and age, loneliness is like a cancer for Western societies. The more virtually connected we get, the more lonely we become. More needs to be done by the gov/trusted facilities to make us more attached to our communities.
The most perfect conversation I found at the perfect time. I’ve been a fan of Simon for a very long time now…so long I thought I’d heard everything he had to say multiple times. I’d kind of moved on. This conversation opened a different side, and the two of you went deep on so many topics/ issues. Thank you for this, exactly what I need to get out of a stall and back on track. :) and excited to listen to more of your work. It’s 4:30 am and I’m jazzed to hit the ground running. Thank you for a wonderful surprise start to my day. ❤
So appreciative to you both - Steven for inviting Simon and asking the deeper questions, and Simon for being vulnerable and honest, sharing what works for you - this conversation makes so much sense! When Simon shared about being blunt with asking questions, I suddenly felt not alone in that way of communicating and it made me giggle HA! (also the eyebrow raise when Simon commented maybe he's just full of sugar and fat - LOL!!!) I love the moments of levity in this chat! We're all navigating how to be authentic, and also being kind and aware how others receive, and I love how stories have been shared here that help illustrate the real, the beauty and the mess in being human. Great stuff here. Thank you for sharing this interview 🙂
It seems most people we care about and those who reciprocate.....do try to solve or " fix" the situation, but you are right, we usually just want someone to lean on while we vent......
They should have a dating site or something for all the people like us who are working hard to know themselves and are open to change and growth. The reason most of us try to fix others could be people might not be working on themselves as much as we are or that is what we think, and we try to give them a shortcut by fixing their issues. But well, it doesn't work and now I know why.
@@vishalkhatri6723 agree!!
This Podcast has been the best birthday gift I received in my 47 years on this earth. You guys made me cry, you made me laugh, make me think about why I still do not trust men after my divorce.
I have built a wall around me and I have my own mudhole, but know I can start working on myself so that I'm not so alone..
All the best for you from South Africa.
Hope u enjoy every day🎉
Happy post birthday - this podcast resonated with me as well.
@@robertpaulson6388 - oh yes, it was the right place and time for me...
28 min in and dude makes me cry.. saying there's no greater honor than serving a friend in need. Really deep talk, Great job for opening up on that level❤❤❤
I totally agree with what Simon said about ADHD. I was diagnosed with autism at 48 years old. I am glad I was brought up in an era that didn't recognise this, as I learned my coping mechanisms from an early age and I can't say it has affected me. I have listened to Simon for many years and he always comes across with a great mix of logic and emotional understanding.
Hey ,I am impressed with what you said. What are your simptomes that they figured out just now your autistic diagnosis? Thank you very much. I am thinking I have someone in my family that it's just wierd the way she comunicates . Thank you again.
Honestly - I have never dropped everything i was doing, to listen to a podcast, like i have to this. WOW. I have no words for this, Simon, you are an amazing human.
I’m a subscriber and daily student of this podcast. Thank you for providing me with a daily avenue to become a better person. This is one of my favorite episodes 🙏🏽
I love this. Thank you. This guy speaks to my soul. Single, never married, no kids. Minimal friends due to job and travel choices. My biological clock never really ticked outside of early societal pressures but now I'm over it. All I want are some quality friends who get me and someone to share my fun life with. I'm tired of just talking about my life with other people. I just want someone next to me when it happens. I actually try pretty hard to make friends. I'm on all the sites (meetup, fb group, etc). I go to things but getting people to hang out and not flake is like pulling teeth. Especially outside of an alcohol context. I'm not an alcoholic, it's just damn I don't want to be drunk every time I see you. Couples are fun to hang out with but couples dont want to hang out with a single woman and some couples don't know how to uncouple for just a ladies night out. Edit: I wrote this comment before he said that he has a wonderful life and doesnt just want to talk about it hahaha. I wanna cry. Someone actually gets it ~_~.
This sounds very similar to my experience too. I have lots of good people in my life but I want someone to be in it next to me. Hope we both can make that connection.
I hear you. Same here….
I’d like someone to make memories with but people I meet, even if they do show up, are only interested in mutual consumption. I miss going on holidays with someone, but I won’t couple with just anyone to have that experience. 😢
@@georgieb1471 let’s be friends
same girl same
I think there are a lot of us in this world right now... It's pretty sad.
Thanks Steven, for interviewing such inspirational people. I have so much respect for Simon. I’ve always been a critical thinker and have struggled with the kickback from the masses and the feeling of not being understood. I know my heart is full of love and passion to contribute but my inner critic has held me back from taking action (also as I’m learning with my recent diagnosis of ADHD, we tend to struggle to take action on things). I have been on a journey to try and understand myself and learn how to drive my brain better and these conversations make me feel less alone. I love the idea of serving people who serve others because I can get too focused on having a direct profound impact on people that I forget that supporting others who make a bigger impact is just as important. We all play a role. Sending my love and support to both of you. ❤
I'm astounded with the level of vulnerability you allow your guests to have on your show Steven, truly inspiring. I also really enjoyed the sense of innocence and curiosity you express when talking to them. Really wonderful to watch, and thank you for your work in this podcast, it's so needed. 🙏🏽🙌🏽
I would like a community where I’m not told, “you should see a therapist”. I am not stuck, just lonely too. As well as an internal optimist. Wonderful podcast.
[type:] HI REN [take:] 9min20sec for viewing [try:] not being touched by it [do:] a deep dive on Ren; learn his medical history and latest treatment for misdiagnosed Lyme Disease [read:] multiple responses by thousands of people and not one of them is negative or even rude [cry:] inevitable, so let it happen [allow:] yourself to feel a shift on levels both micro +macro [know:] we will never be the same "_____" and then ...
[feel:] again; finally!
We are not loneliness. It is an emotion that is witnessed and passing by like a cloud in the sky.
The more I listen to the potcast the more I want to have a date with Simon. 🙏🏾😇
Admire his vulnerability and the way of thinking and breaking down all those thoughts and feelings.