An *unromanticized* look at my life living in NYC (as a 30-something cat lady)

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  • @ChelseaCallahan
    @ChelseaCallahan  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +31

    Hi friends! Sign up for a free 60 day Headspace trial today! ✨ headspace-web.app.link/e/CC (use code CHELSEA)

    • @asmahilal239
      @asmahilal239 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I will sign up

    • @KatefindsaPen
      @KatefindsaPen 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thanks for your vlogs Chelsea, love your content. Signed up to Headspace…you sharing this right now is just perfect timing. Many thanks! 🙏

    • @ChelseaCallahan
      @ChelseaCallahan  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@KatefindsaPen ahh amazing! Lmk if you end up liking it :)

  • @musicismylife4994
    @musicismylife4994 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +306

    Im usually a silent watcher. But what you said about how people used to pick on you because the state of your house REALLY got me angry, like, what do you care! She ia still clean, the place is not rotting with bugs, just a little messy! Thank you for keep pushing and keep posting. You are like my big sister, only 2-3 years older 😂 that says to me that life is sometimes messy and bad but it can change and you can still love life. Being 29, single, living with my parents and looking for a job is not easy when everyone around you is gettin married and having kids and yada yada. And then you tell me "its allright" and you know? It is. So, thank you for being you. Lots of love from mexico ❤

    • @ChelseaCallahan
      @ChelseaCallahan  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

      thank you for saying this!! sending you lots of love right back xx

    • @OliviaHart1994
      @OliviaHart1994 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Yes!! 🙌💜

    • @ashleymyers3100
      @ashleymyers3100 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      This was a fun video! I like to cut my Nathan's hot dogs 🌭 down the middle & grill/ cook them face down so they caramelize a little, or I like them for breakfast with eggs! I think the ppl who are against Taro cards are religious, I'm not religious & I've always wanted to get my cards read. I'm just afraid it would become an addiction, like I'm having a bad day I should get a reading. So I've never started 😂because I know myself. I bet you can't imagine your life without your precious fur babies. I swear cats are telepathic. Love how they wanted to help you journal & then they were being crazy on the bed while you meditated.😂 I love your blog for how real it is. Life gets busy, sometimes 💩 gets put to the side: washing dishes, taking out the trash😮 have you ever thought about buying your own health insurance? That's what I'm doing. My current employer has terrible health insurance $75 for a copay before you can be seen by a Dr isn't affordable. Don't be without health insurance! So does Journaling before bed help with anxiety? I've been trying to incorporate 10 min a day of meditation & I swear it helps me sleep better & relieve stress. I've also been listening to these affirmation videos, shout out to Tisha's blog🎉 they really help me with positive thoughts & really help start my day off right, going to therapy is too $$. This girl has the most soothing voice...type on TH-cam: Guided Affirmations by Lavendaire, really enjoying her stuff lately 🎉

  • @Ruth78620
    @Ruth78620 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    My favourite bit of summer is when it turns into Autumn. Im Scottish and the heat is not for me. Give me a cold, crisp, dry autumn day everyday.

    • @CarinaPiersay
      @CarinaPiersay 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Ruth78620 I’m of Scottish heritage and I can’t do the heat either! It’s in my DNA 🧬

  • @lmanderson2012
    @lmanderson2012 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +146

    "My closet thrives in the fall"
    I felt that in my soul.

    • @sallytemraz8614
      @sallytemraz8614 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      literally how I feel about my closet!!

    • @Clleonie
      @Clleonie 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Mine thrives in summer seeing as I don't own enough clothes to keep warm in autumn/winter. Autumn/winter clothes are wayyy more expensive.

  • @WesleyAnna
    @WesleyAnna 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +184

    "Why is that triggering you" is my new motto when people be acting out of line 🤭

    • @ChelseaCallahan
      @ChelseaCallahan  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      😂💓

    • @urfriendcyn
      @urfriendcyn 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Stealing this! 😂😂

  • @CHRISTIAAN_444
    @CHRISTIAAN_444 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +111

    "you're not messy, you're just busy..." One of my favorite lines from the film Frances Ha 😄

    • @ChelseaCallahan
      @ChelseaCallahan  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      okay I LOVE this

    • @oops1823
      @oops1823 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Omg same 😂

  • @celcoop
    @celcoop 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    People attacking you for the state of your home is so upsetting to me - I’m sorry to hear that happens. I love seeing your place in its true form - it’s refreshing and REAL. Thank you for opening up the way you do and keeping it real with us. We appreciate you ❤

  • @etcurlee
    @etcurlee 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    Seeing your "messy" apartment was very relatable to me. I am a messy person - not dirty, I'm pretty clean - but I am messy. I am also busy! My space doesn't need to be perfectly tidy for me, and it almost never is, and that's okay - it works for me. It was refreshing to see someone else who is like yep my space is messy. I also wanted to say you are such a good cat mom! I am a vet and all your kind comments about the vet and staff warms my heart and I am sure it warms their hearts too!

  • @brendathompson4939
    @brendathompson4939 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +76

    Your haircut is super cute! BTW, I don't care if you have a messy apartment-it just makes you more relatable!

  • @OliviaHart1994
    @OliviaHart1994 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +90

    I can't believe people have the audacity to make comments judging another person's apartment, after the creator is vulnerable enough to share it online and generous enough to welcome us (total strangers) into their safe space! Let's get a camera and tour around the commentor's space and see what everyone has to say about it, shall me? *sigh* 😤 I'm sorry you have to put up with that nonsense, Chelsea! Your apartment is homey, cozy, and realistic, and that's what I love about it! 🏡 Thank you for continuing to share it with us, despite judgmental strangers being triggered by normal day-to-day mess. 🙄

    • @lizzabbott
      @lizzabbott 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      YES ! I ADORE Chelsea’s apt ! Itz so cozy & welcoming & real. Sheeeesh ! I never once thought it was messy or whatever. Like … these people need to get a life ! How awful of them to do that.

    • @janetclaxton217
      @janetclaxton217 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I agree 100%

  • @staceymercadante6432
    @staceymercadante6432 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    That hair length suits you beautifully! So sorry some viewers were picking on you, you don’t deserve that. Sharing your life is very brave and I commend you for being such a warm, positive, and authentic individual. Will continue to cheer you on!

  • @freedomtrail8255
    @freedomtrail8255 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +29

    One of the very few lifestyle vloggers I still follow. My advise (for what it is worth…) just continue being authentic or as authentic as is possible

  • @mo_inthemiddle77
    @mo_inthemiddle77 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    Hamburger bun as hot dog bun is some real ISH 😂😂 like top tier! And people need to let go of the "aesthetic" lifestyle that is polluting social media right now. Real life is having a lived in apartment because DUH you LIVE there. It's your space and you definitely don't need explain it to people. If they don't like they can keep it moving. Just keep pushing through ❤

  • @bethanycooper-nelson7896
    @bethanycooper-nelson7896 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    Not a comments person, but wanted to say that your hair looks incredible at that length! I've been wearing my hair short like that for since college and I love it. Also, you're doing amazing! You're one of the few creators I wholeheartedly enjoy because I find you relatable; I don't walk away feeling judged or comparing myself, you only encourage others to be themselves by modeling it through your own life.

  • @meursaultscourtroom8886
    @meursaultscourtroom8886 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    Cat tummies are notoriously delicate but extremely resilient. You're doing great as a cat mom!

  • @ChelseaCallahan
    @ChelseaCallahan  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +62

    Happy friday! 💘Nice to see you back here. Hope you have a lovely weekend!

  • @svtjunkie
    @svtjunkie 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    Perfect haircut length for a hot summer season. Nice vid again.

  • @junethiel632
    @junethiel632 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    That haircut looks great on you, Chelsea! And it is very clear that your cats adore you, as much as you adore them - good job!

  • @nicholsonks
    @nicholsonks 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    The shot of you in the kitchen as the kittens zoomed around was so cute. 🥰

  • @kristinm4005
    @kristinm4005 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

    As a fellow cat mom of 2, welcome to a new level of fun and entertainment❤

  • @Gassstove
    @Gassstove 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    Air conditioning is my favorite feel of the summer ❄️

  • @DJTRAGICSWAG
    @DJTRAGICSWAG 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    I’m still recovering from an abusive ex boyfriend
    Coming here to your channel and seeing you solo yolo and vibe your way through life helps me get perspective that I will be okay. 😅🎉

  • @katiecousineau
    @katiecousineau 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +35

    My house is always a mess and I get down on myself about it, so seeing realistic other people also having reasonable amounts of mess makes me feel better, lol. I can't wait to watch the kitties grow but also I want them to stay little forever!

  • @JoClark-c4n
    @JoClark-c4n 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    Your home is your sanctuary! ❤. You get to keep it anyway YOU want! Never listen to anyone telling you that you are doing something wrong. You are the one that lives there and enjoy it any way you want. Love your kitties, your videos and you…just being you.

  • @ck2d
    @ck2d 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +31

    Oh! Get litterbox mats. They have two layers, the top is perforated. You surround the boxes with them so the cats step on them when they jump out. They collect litter from their feet so you can easily pour it back into their boxes. That and a litter genie (a smell containing trash/litter bin) and you will have 90% less hassle with litter, at least.

    • @ChelseaCallahan
      @ChelseaCallahan  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That's definitely the right move!

    • @maryannegauthier
      @maryannegauthier 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Wrap the poop in tinfoil...buy the sheets...and then there's like no smell 😊

    • @introvertedandie
      @introvertedandie 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@ChelseaCallahan I highly agree with the litter mat & the litter genie but also stainless steel litter boxes are so great to help keep the odor down I got one for each of my kittens and the took to the immediately even with the edge being 6 inches high, I got them from Amazon for $35-39 a bit pricey but I won’t ever have to replace them like the plastic ones that hold the odor.

  • @shoktrupz3219
    @shoktrupz3219 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    Hey Chelsea
    I truly value your authentic videos and the messy life. I'm in the same boat and it's refreshing to put your videos on and clean up while you clean. You're an awesome person and thank you!

  • @Danni-nn6tx
    @Danni-nn6tx 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    I don’t comment often but one of the reasons I love your vlogs is because you are so vulnerable & your vlogs are so authentic. You don’t sugar coat things 🫶

  • @millieparkin5214
    @millieparkin5214 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    As a pale girl recovering from a rowdy sunburn....you are doing a fantastic job! Low maintenace is still maintenance and caring for yourself. Taking time to take care of your mental and physical health is such a win 💚

    • @ChelseaCallahan
      @ChelseaCallahan  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      forever going to use the term "rowdy sunburn" I love it haha.

  • @louisacat2898
    @louisacat2898 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Those kitties love you, and that says a lot about you. Mark Twain quote: when a man loves cats, I am his friend and comrade without further introduction. 😊

  • @deborahdesormeaux6119
    @deborahdesormeaux6119 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I’m 70 years old, and came across your channel recently. Totally enjoying it! Reminds me of my days in the late 70s in Austin Texas…. When Austin was so cool. It’s not now. But we are in New Orleans now, so new experiences even at 70…
    Can wait to watch more of these!

  • @saidivya4789
    @saidivya4789 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Super cute haircut! 💖

  • @zanabanana27
    @zanabanana27 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    What I LOVE about you is how REAL you are. Those who have "perfect" homes are so fake, and quite cringy. And i love that you also love to journal. I've been journaling since I was a kid too! Now I'm in my late 30s, and have indeed kept all my journals. And my cats, especially my one cat. He brings me a lot of peace. Love your babies! We're all a little mad here anyway. 🤪💙

  • @SusannahPerri
    @SusannahPerri 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Chelsea, I love the new hairdo! Thanks for taking us to Coney Island, the Lower East side and letting us inside your “bubble,” for a little bit. Your fur babies are obviously thriving and giving you back all the love you are giving to them.❤❤❤

  • @IsidoraSage
    @IsidoraSage 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    my favorite summer feeling is sitting in the grass, the smell of the grill and eating cold watermelon

  • @TheSpiritRoom23
    @TheSpiritRoom23 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I’m 37 and I live alone too with my cat and I LOVE my self care routines❤️🩷🩷

  • @abbiebeck-cohen7672
    @abbiebeck-cohen7672 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You are so calming 🙏🏻 After a hectic few weeks, you are the tonic I need, thank you ❤️

  • @Amyfromthemoons
    @Amyfromthemoons 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    the babies are growing so fast!!! Always love these videos, they're so real. Typing this while there's a pile of dishes waiting for me too.

  • @Tilly236
    @Tilly236 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Aww, the cat mama nerves ❤ The anxiety about leaving them does calm down eventually. You're such a great Mummy though!
    Coney Island looks so fun, and your hair looks lovely.
    Yay for tarot, too!

  • @wdestrempsmecke
    @wdestrempsmecke 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    My dog is my happy place. Walking my dog is especially lovely. Early in the am with the birds chirping their first morning chirps. Heaven on earth.🙏🏼 Your hair is absolutely lovely!

  • @Ann-cx3dd
    @Ann-cx3dd 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Also, Gordo & Delilah are just THE cutest ever....... they seem to bring you lots of contentment, which is so good! : )

  • @michaela_prochazkova
    @michaela_prochazkova 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    things i do for my mental health: journaling, therapy and lots of time in nature 🙏🏼

  • @rocioiribe5841
    @rocioiribe5841 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    honestly, i needed that deep breath. thank you. and my favorite summer feeling is the night time summer air as it caresses your skin. god i love that feeling.

  • @morganfortier7929
    @morganfortier7929 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Their little noises 😭 so cute!

    • @ChelseaCallahan
      @ChelseaCallahan  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      the chewing gets me every time 😭

  • @АнастасияКузнецова-б1н
    @АнастасияКузнецова-б1н 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Chelsea, your house is not messy, its perfect!!! So much growth from previous, which also was perfect)) when I look hoe you decorate your apparment I feel proud of you)) and going through depression myself at the moment, I want yo tell you: you coop with your life so great! Bless you, and a lot of kisses))) hello from Russia

  • @jh7100
    @jh7100 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I watch you Chelsea, because you are real! Love your kitties. I’m so glad Gordon is doing better! You are a great mom!❤😊

  • @happylaundry
    @happylaundry 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Happy Friday, Chelsea! Looking forward to this episode, you’re on the upswing! 🙂

  • @annika_27
    @annika_27 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Please don’t let other people‘s negativity influence you. Your home is not dirty, it’s just a little messy sometimes and I love seeing it. Your channel has been so authentic and comforting and you show the real side of life. I can relate to you in many ways and it’s comforting to know that i am not alone with some struggles. As long as the state of your home isn’t a danger to you or your cats, it’s all good. Plus, you always got on top of it eventually. Do your thing. You have shown how capable you are of taking care of three lives. Your cats seem to be fully comfortable at your apartment and you do too. ❤

  • @catherineagustin6900
    @catherineagustin6900 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    New subscriber here! I absolutely love your content! I also appreciate how you incorporate your sponsors into your videos. It's not overly obvious and flows well with your vlog. I'm looking forward to binging all your videos💕

  • @DanielaLoaiza-Martinez-y6i
    @DanielaLoaiza-Martinez-y6i 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love how down to earth you are. I relate to you in so many ways! ❤

  • @valarya
    @valarya 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    As a very very pale girl who is also low-maintenance and doesn't really care about tanning, but wants to get tan every once in awhile to build a bit of confidence..... *takes a deep breath in lol* LOVING TAN brand is the absolute best. It has something in it that gives you an olive undertone and is anti-orange. I get the 2-hour express in Medium or Dark, put it on before bed, sleep in it, and wash it off in the morning and it just gives you an olivy sun-kissed look without being too dark. GOOD LUCK! lol

    • @ChelseaCallahan
      @ChelseaCallahan  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      OH THANK YOU SM! I truly needed a rec like this haha

    • @deidracornelius3633
      @deidracornelius3633 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I agree! Bondi Sands is also amazing! If you get a tanner with a green undertone, it neutralizes the orange! I am very fair and freckled and get compliments all the time on how natural it looks!

  • @katjabrutus
    @katjabrutus 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I'm a new subscriber from Mohuya's channel! I really appreciate how vulnerable and real you are (talking about anxiety, journaling, meditating, living alone, etc) and I'm looking forward to seeing more of your content! It's nice finding people on youtube that I can relate to.

    • @ChelseaCallahan
      @ChelseaCallahan  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Hey!! Welcome :) thanks so much for your kind words!

  • @cassi5086
    @cassi5086 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I’m so glad I found your channel! This brought me so much joy as I got ready today!! You’re living my dream. - a 35 year old mama of 3 who would love to be in NYC ❤

  • @striegolo
    @striegolo 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Somehow you’re glowing differently in this vlog. You seem very happy and grounded and in the right place. Love seeing you like this!

  • @CarinaPiersay
    @CarinaPiersay 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    My favorite summer feeling is when it’s OVER! I live in Southern California in the high desert (elevation about 2,300 feet) and it is HOT 🥵 here!! It cools off some at night but the days are unbearable! So I always love when fall rolls around. It’s lovely! 😊

  • @sonysgirl6301
    @sonysgirl6301 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Loving the 🐈 s video. Struggling with mental space, too. The hair is Amazing ❤

  • @teresasoto2697
    @teresasoto2697 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Gordo is getting so big, and Delilah is so beautiful! You're blessed ❤

  • @Feetjelies
    @Feetjelies 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Yes girl, it is so nice to see a REAL life. It helps me to accept me more, so thank you!

  • @hayleirenee3534
    @hayleirenee3534 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    so glad i came across your channel its so refreshing love this type of content honestly

  • @marja4851
    @marja4851 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I just love how both of the kitties follow you around ❤ especially Gordo. They see you as their mama! Happy weekend from 🇫🇮

  • @LiveitlikeLauren
    @LiveitlikeLauren 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The bathroom cabinet door fanning face was epic!
    Tan is an instant mood boost!
    OMG avoid "a little life"!!!!!
    This video is everything. The edit, the multi camera angles, you are excellent x

    • @ChelseaCallahan
      @ChelseaCallahan  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You're an absolute GEM! 🥹 Thank you!! Noted on 'a little life' hahaha

    • @LiveitlikeLauren
      @LiveitlikeLauren 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@ChelseaCallahan I started telling my friend about it the other day and I started crying! I read it 3 years ago!

  • @tombevan953
    @tombevan953 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I LOVE YOUR NEW HAIRCUT! xxxx

  • @shreyshysharma
    @shreyshysharma 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I really missed watching these kinda video of yours, loved it! I really look up to you, you've come a long way. I sometime go back to your 2022, 2023 videos too because it's just soo comforting, and the vlogmas coffee ritual was like a warm hug for me 🥰

  • @nadinemadsen4366
    @nadinemadsen4366 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love your haircut, it shows off your features very nice. And can I just say from what I see you are so much more relatable, at least to me, when you show real life as it is. It just makes me want to watch you more because my place looks like that too. People are always gonna find something to complain about. And for me the main reason I watch you is because I have never been to New York, obviously never lived there so everything that you show or do is all new and interesting to me. I come from a small town in SD so your videos are so much different than my life. I think you are doing great and always look forward to your videos.

  • @nikitalenzo6219
    @nikitalenzo6219 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    thank you for modeling that it's okay to have acne beyond teenage years and not apologizing, hiding it or even making it a thing! You're gorgeous and such a wonderful cat mama and big sis to so many out here. Love you.

  • @sharonbillig8210
    @sharonbillig8210 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Chelsea, you are a beautiful human! Thanks for taking us along on another adventure and for keeping your engagement pure and transparent. You’re a natural cat mom and it’s obvious how much your babies love you❤️

  • @datfly3034
    @datfly3034 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you so much for sharing your day. It’s comforting to know that I’m not the only one who has a sometimes (most of the time) messy home. Ignore the haters - it’s perfectly normal. I try to keep on top of it but sometimes it’s more important to focus on my wellbeing or get some sleep.
    I’m lucky to live in a country that has universal healthcare - although it’s not completely free - so I feel for you having to worry about needing health insurance. I’m sure you’ll figure it out.
    I’m sometimes okay, yet often not so much. I try to find the joy in every day experiences. Love the haircut!

  • @eringph
    @eringph 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Another fabulous cut!!! Love it.

  • @arlenesanchez9562
    @arlenesanchez9562 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Love love love your hair!!! Golden!

  • @LiveitlikeLauren
    @LiveitlikeLauren 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    OMG LOVE THE HAIR!

  • @MARIATISCARENO-d6q
    @MARIATISCARENO-d6q 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Chelsea! Thank you for your content! Today and always! You do you, Girl, please! You hold your mic how you want, keep your home as tidy or untidy as you want, and do you! : ) I got the feels when you were sharing/asking about mental health, are we all struggling, how do we handle our mental health?! I journal too. I find it helps me purge what is on my mind ... good and not so good. : ) There is space on the page for it all. And, thank you for sharing your fur family ... they are amazing and a God-send, truly. 😍 And, I've had a Tarot card session or two in my life ... why not? : ) Again, thank you, Chelsea! See you next time. 🤩

    • @ChelseaCallahan
      @ChelseaCallahan  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      so glad journaling helps you too!! see you next time

  • @martingeyette6395
    @martingeyette6395 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I commented you for presenting your life on your channel, it's like opening up yourself to everyone, good or bad comments from people you don't know. You are showing us a window into your daily life with all the pros an cons we experience in a metropolis like NYC. Some will relate to you as it's also a reflection of there life an can provide encouragement.
    Anyway 👍❤

  • @jessicatu7954
    @jessicatu7954 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    thank you for sharing what life actually is with us. it somehow helps me not put too push pressure on myself when it comes to building the life I want and reminds me that sometimes things get messy in the process. And that's okay. That realistic view on life helps me not beat myself up when things don't go my way, but simply allow them to slowly unfold and trust the process. That's why I love watching your videos a lot. I do find some comfort and courage in your videos. Chelsea, thank you and keep up the good work. :D

  • @achokecherry
    @achokecherry 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    this was so comforting and wholesome

  • @creativereader
    @creativereader 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Love the new look.. you looked super cute with those sunglasses on.. and continue to keep it real.. that's what brought us here and that's why we are staying.. to watch you.. 😊 hug the kittens from me and have a wonderful weekend everyone

  • @LaguzVSkenaz
    @LaguzVSkenaz 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I really love the short hair on you! 🤍

  • @naijagal96
    @naijagal96 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I find you so refreshing. I feel seen...

  • @minagrey9584
    @minagrey9584 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Omg i just saw your haircut so had to comment again - It is absolutely cute and super flattering. And I love and envy your journaling and meditating with two adorable kitties just slinking all around you - I used to have kitties and miss that feeling so much.

  • @krissyg.7479
    @krissyg.7479 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love that you‘re so authentic! Love from Germany ❤

  • @flawedpeanut
    @flawedpeanut 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The sound of kitty mlems is the best!

  • @donneverae3050
    @donneverae3050 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Loved the shot of the kittens helping you meditate.

  • @YTaddict16
    @YTaddict16 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Chelsea, I truly love your channel. Sometimes showing real life is too much for some people, but that’s the exact reason that I come to your channel. As a 29-year-old single girly who is also living alone, I find so much comfort in your videos. I get so happy when you upload and I love seeing your life. I live on the west coast and have never been to New York so I love experiencing it through your videos ❤

  • @karolakivilo5004
    @karolakivilo5004 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I have the same history and reason for journaling, done it since 10 years old and it really grounds, help to process my life and is a tool for healing. I have also used Headspace for meditation now 2 years, and I have been consistent the bast 9 months. Other than that working out, moving my body is crucial for my wellbeing and being outside. I live in a tiny house, so I actually have been more time outside than in since May. And having connections, socializing with people has become very important. Greetings from Estonia

  • @cristadobyns2511
    @cristadobyns2511 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I get my day started with a heavy lifting workout followed by 30 minutes walking my dog. This truly sets my day up on a positive note and I feel accomplished from the start.

  • @aspartameindustry
    @aspartameindustry 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wow their little meowls are so cute and cartoony!! What little characters. Love the summer vibes of this video ❤️

  • @monikaoravcova7659
    @monikaoravcova7659 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The information about you journaling basically your whole life was 😮 soo surprising. I envy you! I wish I had that patience and had memories of all my life written down. Journalling is a great tool for mental health too ❤

  • @borispeper6981
    @borispeper6981 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    my favourite summer feeling is the first dip in the sea , like slightly cold, when you dive all in, the sun above you, the chrystal water drobs sparkling in the sun when you splash around the water. So to put it together: a combination of water and sun.

  • @foo9877
    @foo9877 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This is why I love your channel. I think asking what people do for their mental health is super important in this day and age. I think it’s cool that you’re getting into meditation and breath work. I recently have too. Please never stop discussing these topics and never stop showing your apartment when it’s messy. It’s about having integrity and being real.

  • @elizawheeler3167
    @elizawheeler3167 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    "Why is that trigger you" is going to be my motto for the rest of 2024. I do have really bad anxiety and sometimes I don't really leave the house. But for some reason drinking a lot of water helps and sticking to a routine. Cleaning the house on Wednesdays and laundry on Sundays. Staying on top of yard work when I have extra energy. I've also been reading a lot more which has helped alot!

  • @bonriver9420
    @bonriver9420 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Love your new haircut. It looks so pretty on you. Your two kitties are just so much fun to watch. I even enjoyed watching you do the dishes. Very relaxing.

  • @jennifermullan1691
    @jennifermullan1691 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    "EVERYONE SHUT UP" had me laughing so hard. 🙋‍♀️ same 😂 I love your content and how realistic it is. This is why I watch TH-cam. You're doing a fantastic job 🎉.

  • @shareuhlin
    @shareuhlin 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    a little life as a beach read, I'm here for it 🤣🤣🤣

    • @tjp7342
      @tjp7342 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      My first thought 😂

  • @blooms454
    @blooms454 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I LOVEEE headspace!!!

  • @lmanderson2012
    @lmanderson2012 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    As far as mental health, spending time with friends, spending more time on beauty as I too am pretty low maintenance, deep breathing, and I i recently took a break from coffee to help me sleep.

  • @jdp486
    @jdp486 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You seem so confident and unapologetic during your dishes convo. Love it!

  • @suitebabygurl1979
    @suitebabygurl1979 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    first time viewer. You were on my suggested page. I liked this! Its real, its vulnerable, its your life. I am allergic to cats but they are so cute!
    You asked "what have you been doing to cope". I have been a daily meditator since 2017. For some reason I needed something for random anxiety. Its helped me tremendously. That and crystals. Yoga, Meditation and being "mindful" is really where its at as you approach your 40's. 20's were messy, and still figuring out who I "was", would never want to repeat. 30's I was like yah! I am comfortable and this is great. Then the 40's came.. (cue the jaws music). Its a different would as you approach (or get deeper into) perimenopause! So many new "things" to deal with. anyways, I look forward to binge watching more of you content! Thank you!

  • @alexandramcpherson4189
    @alexandramcpherson4189 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    that hair cut is the one.... looks sooooo good. love it.

  • @victoriadelbando3283
    @victoriadelbando3283 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    For me self care is important making sure I am there for myself, SELF. This way I can be there for my family and friends! Chelsea you’re doing a great job! Keep going❣️🥰🤗🌷💕🌺💗

  • @JoseFlores-kl6jm
    @JoseFlores-kl6jm 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Happy Friday Chelsea ! You're haircut looks great ! Don't worry about the criticism keep doing you ! To answer your question about how I take care of my mental health is that I journal, I read books, I workout at the gym, I hike, and I take myself out.

  • @beamorristhomas
    @beamorristhomas 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The hair!!!! This is your length. Perfect!

  • @paigegudino9680
    @paigegudino9680 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Love the video and being a cat person, seeing those sweet fur babies. Thank you for being realistic! ❤