Disclaimer: Before watching the podcast i just want to let you know that this one is Less about Campus culture and more about Genderings & Feminism (60/40) Which really sucks I wonder if Amanullah were hosting (or in the panel) then the whole discussion would be on next level presumably...!
Amazing content and beautiful discussion. Also consider making podcast on IT industry of Pakistan and its future outcome for Pakistan. Also invite someone from FAST, COMSATS, and PUC-IT
Kuch kaam editor ko bi kar lena chahiyah wese k upload karne se pehle jab edit kar raha hon tu audio levels up kar de taa ke hum loog tu sab ko samajh sakain.
Extreme liberal man is a threat to women, I am not saying every man, only "Extreme". If not early but later every woman realizes it. Because chances of exploitation increases in loose environment. You can intellectually disagree with me.
🛑 objectifying women 🛑 telling them what to wear and what not to wear 🛑 ordering them around 🛑 cheating on your girlfriends and wives 🛑 disrespecting women period! 🛑 telling them what to do and what not to do
All of these things exist in corporate culture. Even worse, harassment is at its peak in corporate culture as well. Some women feel compelled to build disrespectful relationships with their bosses to get a few thousand rupees raise in salary and an unworthy job title as a promotion. Women who work within boundaries and in a respectful way are often not noticed, even if they are doing extraordinary work. However, these girls who are still studying or have just graduated from universities seem very sensible and mature, which is uncommon in Gen Z. May Allah protect all women from harm and keep us safe and healthy with our families. Ameen.
Bhai you talk about islam and you are sitting with the girls without any parda even they are not wearing a scarf, this is a constructive criticism i hope you'll take it in a positive way.
Got the point and its valid . But i think the problem is the separation of left and right for over a century that led us to this stage and if we keep seperating the left and right its gonna end up real bad like in the west these days so we have to keep them tech them the right way if we want to change the society .. and just for sake of argument women are sitting in corners and he is looking at camera mostly as in the start he asked one of the girl to keep looking at the camera .. also if he deviates ..pretty sure his wife also gonna be watching the podcast so its gonna be umm..😂
Niqabis ko bhi bulayain any uni or from Jameeat ect we want to see niqabis I think population of niqabis is also great so why we are not seeing them? Your prodcasts are great but these one are looking worse
Sara, Tehreem, and Ayesha bring their unique perspectives as guests on the podcast. Their insights on university culture, women's rights, and Co education add depth to the discussions, making the podcast a compelling and worthwhile listen.
Recently you guys made some amazing intellectual podcasts with amazing guests and knowledge to gain. Please now dont make low quality podcasts with useless content
Start mein hi mrd aur aurton ki segregation ko conservative soch keh rahy....😮😮😮afsoos hoa.... Aurton ko kam krny ki ijazt hai islam mein aur confident rehny ki bi.....lakin segregation to zaroori hai ......free mixing to islam mein kahin ni alkowed ....... Nzrein jhukha k rakhny ka hukm kyuon hai? Mrdon aur aurton ko??? Because Allah ko pta tha k kal ko aurton aur mrdon aik hi jga akhty kam krna hoga....to isi liay mrdon ko bola gia k wo nzr jhukha lein aur aurtein apni awaz ko beautify na krein ........ Herat hai mujy un so called Muslims pr jo nzr jukhany ko low confidence kehty Hain.......😢😢😢
59:35 Well there is a point about underestimation than there is I think physical aspect that's why the male psychology working that way because male are calculating everyone back in their heads to take down and when it comes to female they are making estimation on how well a person is emotionally engaging.
Why can’t we study in co education. Jis ne Gans dalna Hai wo Dalenge. We need our children boys and girls to be in the same room without thinking of sex. Or without dating, ect. Until we don’t normalise it our society will always wov wov on EACHOTHER. Look out country is failing, we need boys to accept girls as humans. Not sex objects. Also girls will know how to deal with men when they start working. What’s the point of uni’s if they aren’t going to work.
Hats off to the boys in the comments, hyper-focused on 'pardah,' but seems they missed the memo on making girls feel confident and comfortable. 'Larkon ko abbu banne ka boht shok' - well, that apparently explains it. Bravo, Abbu Patrol! 👏🕶️
I agree with the point raised on 54:33, Its very important to bridge this gap earlier on in life. You cannot just expect people to know how to act with the opposite gender when you just throw them together suddenly in a workplace setting when they haven't had this experience before in life. Plus with age comes certain rigidity that changing perspectives becomes increasingly difficult. The problem is that for their whole lives, kids have never interacted with the opposite gender and they create an image in their minds with the second hand knowledge from poor sources. And suddenly they are thrown into this melting pot of different people coming from different backgrounds and value systems, that are our universities. Some even dont have the luxury of co-ed institutes and directly land into the industry with 0 knowledge and nearly no experience in dealing with the other genders. The solution boils down to de-taboo the interaction between genders. Teaching kids from a younger age about the basics of biology and how things work. Teaching them how to maintain a respectful interaction the other gender. And most importantly letting them know that this interaction isn't prohibited. This problem can never be solved by expecting adults to suddenly change their perspectives. And definitely not by trying to limit their interaction even more. I believe in addition to having some sort of simplified "sex ed" education there should be more room for children to interact and grow together. Of course, with a certain degree of oversight. this is the only way we can shift our whole generation to be more focussed on bigger problems then having issues in maintaining basic relationships at work or at home.
But what about western societies that have already experimented this kind of educational system? Girls do get harmed in those societies. Co Ed is not the solution
Is everything is all right in high societies when the kids has co existence from ver starting ? I think those who has siblings in opposite gender already teaches from starting about the approach .
54:02 this is pure feminine nature, and it is a good thing, and Islam respects this nature of women. But people do not understand because they have been drifted away from their nature.
This is an interesting podcast channel,what I most like about this podcast is the diversity of topics being discussed and a guests from lots of different fields of life from students to sports analysts to MMA trainers to business people to scientists,a lot of interesting podcasts I have seen from it recently.
27:02 I dont know in mohtarhma ka pala kasy boys se para hai lekin lag ye raha hai k, in mai Mashallah kafi attitude hai or thori si self obsessed bhi hain, Ya boys ko le kr in ki knowledge boht kam hai. Agar ap ka boys se itna interection hai he nahi to ap ko ye kis ne kaha hai k boys se un k parents kuch puchty nahi ya un ko ye kaha jata hai k wo ghr jaldi ain ya na ain. maine apny circle mai jitnay bhi boys dekhy hain event mai khud beshak late bhi ana ho ghr 11 bjt call ani shuru ho jati hain k beta g kab ana hai. 30 Saal ka ho gya hu shadi ho gai hai ab ami k sath sath ghr mai Begum ko bhi bata kr jana hota hai yaha ja raha hu or is time pr au ga....
Human being is a beautiful creature from all but when human against and break the nature law, then human always fail.Its my own perspective.May be it's true or false
Follow some religious concepts and rules and regulations, everything will be okay. Like protecting yourself under a veil, and from men's side protecting your eyes over staring at girls. There is no meaning in debating on your own views or perspectives, when you are not following some basic rules and regulations. Your views matter when you are following your religion first. Both for Men and Women.
1:06:00 at the end, I'm a university graduate and the 4-year period was terrible. At first, females do not even recognize males. You can never judge what's going on in your male classmate's mind. In my 4-year-old university span, the females were extremely comfortable with the same boys who had the same mentality behind their backs that i couldn't imagine. I don't mind but you can't judge by anyone's looks. I am sure even today that they will be in touch even today. Even those girls longed to hang out with them. So my point is dont judge someone rapidly and give opinion
People doesn't want to listen what they're saying instead they're focusing why they're sitting without parda..When you read the quranic verse about veil it's mentioned " jab tum bahar niklo Apne cheron ko dhaank lo taaki tum satai na jao"...so face veil isn't compulsory all the time it's conditional..
@@theredomarArey Bhai Jo bhi BAAT ho Yahan parde ki BAAT Kahan se aagayi woh keh kia rahin poore podcast me wo asal mudda hai..parda unka apna masla hai
Very rightly said. Actually, mostly men in our society are not willing to accept women equally talented, out spoken, intelligent. Pardah lai ker aa jaatay...none of your concern.
The crux of this podcast, as I understand it, is "Guys should try to see things from a girl's perspective as well, so they will automatically take a step back from dialogues like 'yae meri bandi hai.'"
Log keh rahe hai ke ladke agaye abbu banne comments me parde ka batane! Par koi ye kyun nai pooch raha ke in ladkiyon ke abbu ne kyun nai kaha inhe parde ka?
It's like living in a world of your own making. Men = Animal. Wasn't he saying that men feel the need to protect women. As Muslims aren't we supposed to protect women regardless of their relationship with us.
All they do is contradict themselves with in a few sentences to each other, that they deliver all on their own. The questions are not even difficult. How do they pass university???
Video is 'LEAST' about the campus culture. 😂 Its just three female students sharing their perspectives in dealings and interactions with Men. The thing wrong is they have too much acceptance with Mixing of Men and Women. Invite three male students from the same universities too....
@@MasabAhmads we can see she is being so fake. jo insan co-edu mai parhta hai wo apny sath walo ki respect bhi krta hai or larkian asi nahi hoti or jo hoti hain un ki apni bhi koi friends nahi hoti
I think coexistence is very normal in high class societies but at the end you can see that high class societies also involved in many filthy things and even though those things then revolving in the minor level in to middle class i dont think this is the solution .. as per me the solution is that every kid must have keen knowledge of Islam and Islamic boundries until they dont really know their creator and the reasons of islic boundries between gender until that u cant solve the things out
@muhammadomar784 well said. It's sad that English has become a status symbol in Pakistan. People forget that even a janitor speaks English in the West.
I feel what you are saying but sometimes certain emotions just automatically make you switch to a different language like i switch to punjabi in gusa and urdu when i am calm and English when i am excited lol
محترم! ایسے ہی ہے،شاید یہ ہماری معاشرتی زندگی میں رواج کی شکل اختیار کر چکا ہے کہ انگریزی بولنے سے سننے والوں پر اپنا اثر چھوڑنا چاہا رہے ہوتے ہیں۔اور بدقسمتی سے یہ بات سچ بھی ہے۔
@readmydescription5533 This can only happen when u don't know urdu and is often the case with kids from English medium schools. Anyway, I don't have anything against them, but I wish people should stop treating urdu as a lesser language.
15:28 Boys is bary mai boht specific hoty hain k un ko kon si baat kis se karni hai, wo haar baat awen he kisi lrki ya even kisi boy se bhi share nahi krty,,,, Boht he close jisay feel krty hain wo apni baat usi se share krty hain, Boht si asi batain hoti hain jo ap ghr par share nahi kr sakty bata nahi sakty wo ap close friends k sath he share krty hain
Well this podcast was quite pleasant to listen and easy to digest if compared to the previous panel that discussed about men and their issues around women. They all seemed quite compose and not like the previous discussion at all where they simply wanted men to disappear from the existence. Please bring similar panel in the future for such talks as a guy I do not mind listening to the truth but they way the truth is delivered matters a lot. The issues they have highlighted I have seen it whether it is a high class university or a professional place where women work under men. It is sad that it is 2023 and women are still not safe in this so called Islamic Society.
Bro even the previous panel never said that all man want to disappear honestly the main problem with the previous podcast ep was the another podcaster who was interrupting them which even two of the girls pointed out without the second podcaster the first ep could been really great or if he kept his composure by first listening then talking to them
Well, I think there needs to be a work on the video title. Be smart, change it to something more attractive. Campus culture discussion with women is nice enough.
It is totallay wrong that a person dont get attention then they start finding opposite gender 😅😅yes you do look for someone with whom you share all of your hurdles but that is the friend with whom u even share the love relation stories too .. there are many people who belongs to middle class families and even their family bounding is so frank and open but still they are has many opposite gemder close relations..
Most of the boys seeing their own sisters, mothers well modest support conservative approach. Same time the girls are mostly wanting liberalism. But the same men who shout for culture and traditions become attracted to liberal girls because they found them talkative, interactive and beautiful. To put it simple, both perspectives are just providing benefits to respective genders. But for all men if they are supporting liberalism, you should remember your sister and mother. The conservative thinking that under-estimates girls than boys in rural or desi families where people are sad on daughter's birth and happy on boy's is never appreciable. Same time neither gender should be allowed to do anything immoral. It's not like it's going OKAY for boys and bad for girls. Equally for both. But boys being somehow less expressive before girls might violently express or undergo something immoral if they find some girl appreciating their bad habit or desiring the same. This is dangerous. Because mostly these boys are eyeing the girls' acceptance and their appreciation for their greatness.
To the host: tameez seekhi jasakti hai agar chahein tou. Mard bhi insaan hotein hai, change is possible. Segregation can never be a solution. That's basically enabling shitty behavior and staying mediocre.
I feel you guys are a little biased, oftentimes you present your opinions as facts & surprisingly no one questions that, even ppl from Lums are not pointing that out. Shouldn't you have a neutral stance as a host and not give your opinion because mostly we don't have people with a diverse range of opinions, seems like an echo chamber.
12:46 Yes he’s true & boys need to be implement on them before the preach but the girl in pink staff have some emotional scarves from boys back in university life.
@@readmydescription5533 Bro! These girls are the type jinko koi munh bhi ni laga ra hota but they are being byped up just bcoz inki koi khubsurat c dost hoti, ye bhi apny aapko utna he khobsurat smjhti hain
13:04 ap k ghr baap bhi hai bhai bhi hai ap ko boy ki zarurt nahi ok fine, Hum ne bhi university mai time guzara hai, or apni female class mates ki boundaries ki respect ki hai, jab ap k fone se Uber careem nahi ho rahi hoti to boys he hotspot dety hain, Jab exam se pehly apko book pen pencil cahiye hota hai or Uni ki book shop pr nahi mil raha hota to wo boys he hoty hain jo la kr dety hain ap k baap bhai nahi hoty us time. And i want to condeme this stupid word "ABU BAN RAHY HAIN" seriously whan an unmature word she is using again and again.
The argument over boundaries is good and must be established for both genders through the institution's guidelines that in turn should flow from the state as an Islamic representative. The idea of consent is ridiculous. There is no need for consent when boundaries have been set beforehand unless the person wishes to extend those boundaries and not diminish them to get away with indecency regardless of whether it is between agreeing or disagreeing adults.
I suggest u to unfollow it. Follow some islamic page, or gigachad page only😂, if u can't handle different opinion. I'm not a liberal, but I appreciate this podcast for atleast being honest and bringing people with different views. Unlike other podcasts, which r entirely right wing, or left leaning.
Bawa ji I am a Ravian 2011: Tights and capri's are in full swing Boys be like: WTH ye tu mama winter mein shalwar k nechay pehnati thi. ye upper kese a gai? Its all the same across many campuses in Pakistan. Kawa chala hans ki chaal....BAWA JI
Literally is podcast ki reason sumj nhi i mujy or shyd or bhi kafi logon ka yhi kiyal ho ga! Agr ap ko campus culture he pata krna tha toh shyd un student ko bulna tha jo is sb min sy khud ko bcha k niklti hain. Yh EON ki trf sy acha gesture nhi tha🙂
تحریم کا یہ پوائنٹ بہت بہت مناسب ہے کہ جن لڑکوں سے بچانا ہے انکو ہر کوئی اپنے گھر میں اتنا چیک دیں نا جتنا لڑکوں کو دیتے ہیں۔ اگر لڑکے دیر تک گھر سے باہر ہیں تو لڑکی ہی غیر محفوظ ہے۔ ۔
V rightly said. Keeping check on girls all the time while complete no check on boys...is height of non sense....achi society uss waqt ho gi jab tarbiyat gender biased nahi ho gi
Pakistaniyon ye tum logo k liye nhi banai h podcast ..age badho …seeing the comment section i again realised wat ur priorities are in life …bhai mat dekho na…bhaad me jao ..koi kuch acha kare taang kheechna shuru kardete ho …
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Disclaimer: Before watching the podcast i just want to let you know that this one is Less about Campus culture and more about Genderings & Feminism (60/40)
Which really sucks
I wonder if Amanullah were hosting (or in the panel) then the whole discussion would be on next level presumably...!
This was way better
agree 100%
Amazing content and beautiful discussion. Also consider making podcast on IT industry of Pakistan and its future outcome for Pakistan. Also invite someone from FAST, COMSATS, and PUC-IT
Please do a podcast on corporate culture from women's perspective
I like diversity on the podcast but I love you ppl discussing global stufff.
Kuch kaam editor ko bi kar lena chahiyah wese k upload karne se pehle jab edit kar raha hon tu audio levels up kar de taa ke hum loog tu sab ko samajh sakain.
Abbu bannay agaye log parday ki baatain karnay 😂😂😂😂
Inka Islam sirf aurton par pabandiyan lagana hai parde par shuru hota hai aur chadar chaar devari mein khatam.
Extreme liberal man is a threat to women, I am not saying every man, only "Extreme".
If not early but later every woman realizes it.
Because chances of exploitation increases in loose environment.
You can intellectually disagree with me.
extremist religious men also pose a threat to society at large
🛑 objectifying women
🛑 telling them what to wear and what not to wear
🛑 ordering them around
🛑 cheating on your girlfriends and wives
🛑 disrespecting women period!
🛑 telling them what to do and what not to do
you should also link the previous program if someone didn't get chance to watch that they can find in the descriptions.
Still as muslim I say this that women should do more pardah and do everything with caution. Now you can take it either positive or negative
abe chal na
All of these things exist in corporate culture. Even worse, harassment is at its peak in corporate culture as well. Some women feel compelled to build disrespectful relationships with their bosses to get a few thousand rupees raise in salary and an unworthy job title as a promotion. Women who work within boundaries and in a respectful way are often not noticed, even if they are doing extraordinary work.
However, these girls who are still studying or have just graduated from universities seem very sensible and mature, which is uncommon in Gen Z. May Allah protect all women from harm and keep us safe and healthy with our families. Ameen.
Bhai you talk about islam and you are sitting with the girls without any parda even they are not wearing a scarf, this is a constructive criticism i hope you'll take it in a positive way.
Got the point and its valid . But i think the problem is the separation of left and right for over a century that led us to this stage and if we keep seperating the left and right its gonna end up real bad like in the west these days so we have to keep them tech them the right way if we want to change the society .. and just for sake of argument women are sitting in corners and he is looking at camera mostly as in the start he asked one of the girl to keep looking at the camera .. also if he deviates ..pretty sure his wife also gonna be watching the podcast so its gonna be umm..😂
Jee ye tou khula tazaad hai Umar bhai
Why are you watching namehram girls????????? Where’s your hijaab
@@efdiscovers3666 aadat se majboor brother
Go and spend time in universities then tell me what is hijab 😂
Niqabis ko bhi bulayain any uni or from Jameeat ect we want to see niqabis I think population of niqabis is also great so why we are not seeing them? Your prodcasts are great but these one are looking worse
Bhai mere Mic tu Girls ka pass kar diya karo yah koller mic use kar liya karoo. banda aab vol up and down h karta rahe sari video mea
most of the older generation does not respect women and the younger generation or now generation are mixed, some respect women some do not.
True af
if these are the mothers of our future generation we are so doomed
We are already boss
Sara, Tehreem, and Ayesha bring their unique perspectives as guests on the podcast. Their insights on university culture, women's rights, and Co education add depth to the discussions, making the podcast a compelling and worthwhile listen.
We don't INTENTIONALLY humiliate women in the disguise of help. :) (at least I don't)
Recently you guys made some amazing intellectual podcasts with amazing guests and knowledge to gain. Please now dont make low quality podcasts with useless content
Agreed
Agreed really disappointed
Start mein hi mrd aur aurton ki segregation ko conservative soch keh rahy....😮😮😮afsoos hoa....
Aurton ko kam krny ki ijazt hai islam mein aur confident rehny ki bi.....lakin segregation to zaroori hai ......free mixing to islam mein kahin ni alkowed .......
Nzrein jhukha k rakhny ka hukm kyuon hai? Mrdon aur aurton ko??? Because Allah ko pta tha k kal ko aurton aur mrdon aik hi jga akhty kam krna hoga....to isi liay mrdon ko bola gia k wo nzr jhukha lein aur aurtein apni awaz ko beautify na krein ........
Herat hai mujy un so called Muslims pr jo nzr jukhany ko low confidence kehty Hain.......😢😢😢
Ayesha the reason nobody approached you were not the the boundaries.🤣
59:35 Well there is a point about underestimation than there is I think physical aspect that's why the male psychology working that way because male are calculating everyone back in their heads to take down and when it comes to female they are making estimation on how well a person is emotionally engaging.
Why can’t we study in co education. Jis ne Gans dalna Hai wo Dalenge. We need our children boys and girls to be in the same room without thinking of sex. Or without dating, ect. Until we don’t normalise it our society will always wov wov on EACHOTHER. Look out country is failing, we need boys to accept girls as humans. Not sex objects. Also girls will know how to deal with men when they start working. What’s the point of uni’s if they aren’t going to work.
Is it possible by nature to avoid this?
What’s the point of uni if they aren’t going to work? 🤡
Hats off to the boys in the comments, hyper-focused on 'pardah,' but seems they missed the memo on making girls feel confident and comfortable. 'Larkon ko abbu banne ka boht shok' - well, that apparently explains it. Bravo, Abbu Patrol! 👏🕶️
Single mareinge ya kisi ki zindagi barbaad karenge
I agree with the point raised on 54:33, Its very important to bridge this gap earlier on in life. You cannot just expect people to know how to act with the opposite gender when you just throw them together suddenly in a workplace setting when they haven't had this experience before in life. Plus with age comes certain rigidity that changing perspectives becomes increasingly difficult.
The problem is that for their whole lives, kids have never interacted with the opposite gender and they create an image in their minds with the second hand knowledge from poor sources. And suddenly they are thrown into this melting pot of different people coming from different backgrounds and value systems, that are our universities. Some even dont have the luxury of co-ed institutes and directly land into the industry with 0 knowledge and nearly no experience in dealing with the other genders.
The solution boils down to de-taboo the interaction between genders. Teaching kids from a younger age about the basics of biology and how things work. Teaching them how to maintain a respectful interaction the other gender. And most importantly letting them know that this interaction isn't prohibited.
This problem can never be solved by expecting adults to suddenly change their perspectives. And definitely not by trying to limit their interaction even more. I believe in addition to having some sort of simplified "sex ed" education there should be more room for children to interact and grow together. Of course, with a certain degree of oversight. this is the only way we can shift our whole generation to be more focussed on bigger problems then having issues in maintaining basic relationships at work or at home.
But what about western societies that have already experimented this kind of educational system? Girls do get harmed in those societies. Co Ed is not the solution
Is everything is all right in high societies when the kids has co existence from ver starting ? I think those who has siblings in opposite gender already teaches from starting about the approach .
54:02 this is pure feminine nature, and it is a good thing, and Islam respects this nature of women.
But people do not understand because they have been drifted away from their nature.
This is an interesting podcast channel,what I most like about this podcast is the diversity of topics being discussed and a guests from lots of different fields of life from students to sports analysts to MMA trainers to business people to scientists,a lot of interesting podcasts I have seen from it recently.
27:02 I dont know in mohtarhma ka pala kasy boys se para hai lekin lag ye raha hai k, in mai Mashallah kafi attitude hai or thori si self obsessed bhi hain, Ya boys ko le kr in ki knowledge boht kam hai. Agar ap ka boys se itna interection hai he nahi to ap ko ye kis ne kaha hai k boys se un k parents kuch puchty nahi ya un ko ye kaha jata hai k wo ghr jaldi ain ya na ain. maine apny circle mai jitnay bhi boys dekhy hain event mai khud beshak late bhi ana ho ghr 11 bjt call ani shuru ho jati hain k beta g kab ana hai. 30 Saal ka ho gya hu shadi ho gai hai ab ami k sath sath ghr mai Begum ko bhi bata kr jana hota hai yaha ja raha hu or is time pr au ga....
Majority cases mein boys aren't asked to give explanations as compared to women. It's a fact. Do your research.
The title of this podcast should be: “The bitching & rants about boys & jealousy with their independence”
😂 had me laughing lol
Title should be how to hate men’s because they have penis and we didn’t have
Sir Sahi Adeem ki daughter ko bulayain
Human being is a beautiful creature from all but when human against and break the nature law, then human always fail.Its my own perspective.May be it's true or false
God made laws are perfect.
Damn trueeee
sarah has some wisdom and a soothing voice
Follow some religious concepts and rules and regulations, everything will be okay. Like protecting yourself under a veil, and from men's side protecting your eyes over staring at girls. There is no meaning in debating on your own views or perspectives, when you are not following some basic rules and regulations. Your views matter when you are following your religion first. Both for Men and Women.
Exactly 💯
1:06:00 at the end, I'm a university graduate and the 4-year period was terrible. At first, females do not even recognize males. You can never judge what's going on in your male classmate's mind. In my 4-year-old university span, the females were extremely comfortable with the same boys who had the same mentality behind their backs that i couldn't imagine. I don't mind but you can't judge by anyone's looks. I am sure even today that they will be in touch even today. Even those girls longed to hang out with them. So my point is dont judge someone rapidly and give opinion
Useless one, utterly useless, what do you think "useful" will come out of such discussions.....?
sir what about you invite 3 men from different unis and share their perspective
Please do again a podcast with a private school teacher.
People doesn't want to listen what they're saying instead they're focusing why they're sitting without parda..When you read the quranic verse about veil it's mentioned " jab tum bahar niklo Apne cheron ko dhaank lo taaki tum satai na jao"...so face veil isn't compulsory all the time it's conditional..
we got an islamic scholar here guys who just gave the fatwah that pardah infront of non mehrams is totally permissible if its indoors
@@theredomarArey Bhai Jo bhi BAAT ho Yahan parde ki BAAT Kahan se aagayi woh keh kia rahin poore podcast me wo asal mudda hai..parda unka apna masla hai
@@theredomarI was talking about face veil but ya she should wear scarf at least..
Stop twisting deen for your secular agenda if you don't want to accept islam that's a different thing but stop twisting my religion
Very rightly said. Actually, mostly men in our society are not willing to accept women equally talented, out spoken, intelligent.
Pardah lai ker aa jaatay...none of your concern.
The diversity of content on this channel is ❤
The crux of this podcast, as I understand it, is "Guys should try to see things from a girl's perspective as well, so they will automatically take a step back from dialogues like 'yae meri bandi hai.'"
Log keh rahe hai ke ladke agaye abbu banne comments me parde ka batane! Par koi ye kyun nai pooch raha ke in ladkiyon ke abbu ne kyun nai kaha inhe parde ka?
25:53 Mard agar beast hai and they are not safe for any buddy phr to sab se pehly ap k ghr waly khatray hain hain wo bhi ap se.. Right...?
It's like living in a world of your own making. Men = Animal.
Wasn't he saying that men feel the need to protect women. As Muslims aren't we supposed to protect women regardless of their relationship with us.
All they do is contradict themselves with in a few sentences to each other, that they deliver all on their own. The questions are not even difficult. How do they pass university???
We do not want to see such podcasts from Eon platform. Please
Well done girls but I’m expecting way more from you
Now boys side as well
Amaan Bhai
Please defend us here
I feel like males are being attacked here and you would represent our interests best here
What specific things do you feel attacked by? Because nearly everything they say makes a lot of sense and is based upon truth
@@samlee3039 keep silence please tumhe toh Maza aa raha hoga ,tum male Mahi ho na
Reality is reality. Learn to not take things personally instead improve your behavior.
Video is 'LEAST' about the campus culture. 😂
Its just three female students sharing their perspectives in dealings and interactions with Men.
The thing wrong is they have too much acceptance with Mixing of Men and Women.
Invite three male students from the same universities too....
26:57 farig arguments boys can easily defend themselves and woh harrasment wala argument boys pai apply nahi hot they dont get harassed
Dumbass spotted
Just because it hasn't happened to you doesn't mean it hasn't happened to anyone.
There are many guys who get abused and harassed in Pakistan.
@@Invinciblebeingstill less vulnerable than girls
Do one with someone from Aitchison, LGS, and LAS
We need amaan bhai or asad bhai
Feels like they minus islam from their discussions
Why they talk like party ho Rahi girl
54:04 Mujy to hyrani hai ye UMT wali behan abhi Male cousins k sath bhi asy he react krti ho gi. Itni itnii insecurity,. Job kasy karay gi ye bandi
I think yeh just podcast m he esi bn rhi hein real life m opposite scene hoga
@@MasabAhmads we can see she is being so fake. jo insan co-edu mai parhta hai wo apny sath walo ki respect bhi krta hai or larkian asi nahi hoti or jo hoti hain un ki apni bhi koi friends nahi hoti
She just shared her experience relax lol
I think coexistence is very normal in high class societies but at the end you can see that high class societies also involved in many filthy things and even though those things then revolving in the minor level in to middle class i dont think this is the solution .. as per me the solution is that every kid must have keen knowledge of Islam and Islamic boundries until they dont really know their creator and the reasons of islic boundries between gender until that u cant solve the things out
Exactly 💯
I always enjoy diversity of opinion. I wish Pakistanis could stick to either english or urdu during public speaking. Ajeeb!
yaar eng urdu both are part of society now we even launched a new language called urdish
@muhammadomar784 well said. It's sad that English has become a status symbol in Pakistan. People forget that even a janitor speaks English in the West.
I feel what you are saying but sometimes certain emotions just automatically make you switch to a different language like i switch to punjabi in gusa and urdu when i am calm and English when i am excited lol
محترم!
ایسے ہی ہے،شاید یہ ہماری معاشرتی زندگی میں رواج کی شکل اختیار کر چکا ہے کہ انگریزی بولنے سے سننے والوں پر اپنا اثر چھوڑنا چاہا رہے ہوتے ہیں۔اور بدقسمتی سے یہ بات سچ بھی ہے۔
@readmydescription5533 This can only happen when u don't know urdu and is often the case with kids from English medium schools. Anyway, I don't have anything against them, but I wish people should stop treating urdu as a lesser language.
the host is well mannered and so is the LUMINITE.
First, close your mouth, lower your gaze and then preach about pardah.
15:28 Boys is bary mai boht specific hoty hain k un ko kon si baat kis se karni hai, wo haar baat awen he kisi lrki ya even kisi boy se bhi share nahi krty,,,, Boht he close jisay feel krty hain wo apni baat usi se share krty hain, Boht si asi batain hoti hain jo ap ghr par share nahi kr sakty bata nahi sakty wo ap close friends k sath he share krty hain
Well this podcast was quite pleasant to listen and easy to digest if compared to the previous panel that discussed about men and their issues around women. They all seemed quite compose and not like the previous discussion at all where they simply wanted men to disappear from the existence. Please bring similar panel in the future for such talks as a guy I do not mind listening to the truth but they way the truth is delivered matters a lot. The issues they have highlighted I have seen it whether it is a high class university or a professional place where women work under men. It is sad that it is 2023 and women are still not safe in this so called Islamic Society.
Bro even the previous panel never said that all man want to disappear honestly the main problem with the previous podcast ep was the another podcaster who was interrupting them which even two of the girls pointed out without the second podcaster the first ep could been really great or if he kept his composure by first listening then talking to them
Where is amaan
You should also invite boys and get their point of view
Men campus culture? Any video on that
Well, I think there needs to be a work on the video title. Be smart, change it to something more attractive.
Campus culture discussion with women is nice enough.
the host is so bland and doesnt fit the criteria of a podcast! 😬
no amman jani **sed**
Blue shirt is so pretty ❤❤
Very wrong thing to say - it’s the responsibility of the state to ensure safety at large so that a woman can step out in the night -
It is totallay wrong that a person dont get attention then they start finding opposite gender 😅😅yes you do look for someone with whom you share all of your hurdles but that is the friend with whom u even share the love relation stories too .. there are many people who belongs to middle class families and even their family bounding is so frank and open but still they are has many opposite gemder close relations..
Dislike
wheres amanullah ?
UCP ki tiktoker awaam ko bhi zara bulain
what bout fccu..
Most of the boys seeing their own sisters, mothers well modest support conservative approach. Same time the girls are mostly wanting liberalism. But the same men who shout for culture and traditions become attracted to liberal girls because they found them talkative, interactive and beautiful. To put it simple, both perspectives are just providing benefits to respective genders. But for all men if they are supporting liberalism, you should remember your sister and mother. The conservative thinking that under-estimates girls than boys in rural or desi families where people are sad on daughter's birth and happy on boy's is never appreciable. Same time neither gender should be allowed to do anything immoral. It's not like it's going OKAY for boys and bad for girls. Equally for both. But boys being somehow less expressive before girls might violently express or undergo something immoral if they find some girl appreciating their bad habit or desiring the same. This is dangerous. Because mostly these boys are eyeing the girls' acceptance and their appreciation for their greatness.
missing Aman
no be pardah women here please
No be pardah women here pls
To the host: tameez seekhi jasakti hai agar chahein tou. Mard bhi insaan hotein hai, change is possible. Segregation can never be a solution. That's basically enabling shitty behavior and staying mediocre.
I feel you guys are a little biased, oftentimes you present your opinions as facts & surprisingly no one questions that, even ppl from Lums are not pointing that out.
Shouldn't you have a neutral stance as a host and not give your opinion because mostly we don't have people with a diverse range of opinions, seems like an echo chamber.
Please Invite Khalid Mehmood Abbasi SB in your podcast
sab se pehlay is guy ko cancel karo fr. ajeeb fazool misogynist jokes fazool. bro just a bloke behind a mic ew
I subscribed this channel today and unsubscribe today because of this video,
Also unliked all videos which I had liked
I feel male students should also be Included in the Discussion and Yk let em put their side on the table aswell
We have heard 2 Podcast on the Women Side would be interesting to hear what is the other side of the story as well.
8:29 What a start! Rants about what boys do how boys are! Lol. The brain they got altogether is slightly brighter than a talking parrot.
12:46 Yes he’s true & boys need to be implement on them before the preach but the girl in pink staff have some emotional scarves from boys back in university life.
Excellent analysis😂(engineer reference) lol
@@readmydescription5533 Bro! These girls are the type jinko koi munh bhi ni laga ra hota but they are being byped up just bcoz inki koi khubsurat c dost hoti, ye bhi apny aapko utna he khobsurat smjhti hain
@@architectworld786 the only topic they have is how boys are so evil. Inferiority complex
Please Invite Khalid Mehmood Abbasi SB in your podcast
Sir Zeeshan k sath again podcast kren
The purple tshirt girl was totally useless here
13:04 ap k ghr baap bhi hai bhai bhi hai ap ko boy ki zarurt nahi ok fine, Hum ne bhi university mai time guzara hai, or apni female class mates ki boundaries ki respect ki hai, jab ap k fone se Uber careem nahi ho rahi hoti to boys he hotspot dety hain, Jab exam se pehly apko book pen pencil cahiye hota hai or Uni ki book shop pr nahi mil raha hota to wo boys he hoty hain jo la kr dety hain ap k baap bhai nahi hoty us time. And i want to condeme this stupid word "ABU BAN RAHY HAIN" seriously whan an unmature word she is using again and again.
The argument over boundaries is good and must be established for both genders through the institution's guidelines that in turn should flow from the state as an Islamic representative. The idea of consent is ridiculous. There is no need for consent when boundaries have been set beforehand unless the person wishes to extend those boundaries and not diminish them to get away with indecency regardless of whether it is between agreeing or disagreeing adults.
u again dropped from sigma chad , at one side spreading shariat , at the other side be pardah ladkiyoon ke interview lmao
I suggest u to unfollow it. Follow some islamic page, or gigachad page only😂, if u can't handle different opinion. I'm not a liberal, but I appreciate this podcast for atleast being honest and bringing people with different views. Unlike other podcasts, which r entirely right wing, or left leaning.
Okayyy but this content isn't good ...we need boy's perspective
Bawa ji I am a Ravian
2011: Tights and capri's are in full swing
Boys be like: WTH ye tu mama winter mein shalwar k nechay pehnati thi. ye upper kese a gai?
Its all the same across many campuses in Pakistan. Kawa chala hans ki chaal....BAWA JI
no be pardah women here please
no be pardah women here please
I don't think this podcast is for ppl like u. U should watch maulana bayans if u don't want to listen to ppl who disagree with u.
Compare to last podcast this one had far healthy disscussion
Literally is podcast ki reason sumj nhi i mujy or shyd or bhi kafi logon ka yhi kiyal ho ga!
Agr ap ko campus culture he pata krna tha toh shyd un student ko bulna tha jo is sb min sy khud ko bcha k niklti hain.
Yh EON ki trf sy acha gesture nhi tha🙂
تحریم کا یہ پوائنٹ بہت بہت مناسب ہے کہ جن لڑکوں سے بچانا ہے انکو ہر کوئی اپنے گھر میں اتنا چیک دیں نا جتنا لڑکوں کو دیتے ہیں۔ اگر لڑکے دیر تک گھر سے باہر ہیں تو لڑکی ہی غیر محفوظ ہے۔ ۔
اپنے پیروں پر پانی نہیں ڈالتیں آپ لوگ، سارا مسلئہ ہی یہاں سے شروع ہوتا! 😂
V rightly said.
Keeping check on girls all the time while complete no check on boys...is height of non sense....achi society uss waqt ho gi jab tarbiyat gender biased nahi ho gi
Last part was much more informative and mature
Pakistaniyon ye tum logo k liye nhi banai h podcast ..age badho …seeing the comment section i again realised wat ur priorities are in life …bhai mat dekho na…bhaad me jao ..koi kuch acha kare taang kheechna shuru kardete ho …
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