It is best middle aged to elderly guys don't marry foreign women (Vietnam, China or Taiwan) that are younger than them by more than 15 yrs. Most likely the money & assets will be drained out by these women.
Matthew 6.19-21 - lay not up for yourselves treasures upon earth, where moth and rust doth corrupt and where thieves break through and steal; but lay up for yourselves treasures in heaven....; for where your treasure is, there will your ❤️ be also. 🙏
The Chinese have a saying "The biggest mistake a man can make is choosing a wrong career whereas the biggest mistake a woman can make is marrying the wrong man" But it seems like Marrying the wrong woman is applicable in this case. 🤣
Every family have their own problem hard to really comment on this case. But kidnapping is bad.Nice to hear Mr Loo is like a sinseh to the family. Good spouse boast the family while bad spouse break the family. Mr n Mrs Loo compliment each other👏
"Never Marry First & Expect your partner to change for the better"... ahhahaha :> may i add that .... "Eventually you are the one that will be changed for your partner" :>
In modern age, For men, marriage has become world's most dangerous acitivity ,and marriage is even more dangerous than sky diving . Reason is because most women nowadays go into marriage with intention of divorcing later on, and to use the legal system to transfer a large portion of men's money and assets over to the woman. A smart man should either stay unmarried or if man wants to get married,he should do a premarital contract which state that in case of divorce, both parties will keep their own assets and money and there will be no transfer of money and assets from one party to the other
Plenty of wives fighting for property and money from mistresses. Refused divorce because they want to be no. 1 wife and grab all the wealth from 2nd wives and mistresses. Very common.
" For the love of money is the root of all evil: which while some coveted after, they have erred from the faith, and pierced themselves through with many sorrows." 1 Timothy 6:10 in all English translations
Mm… she did this after so many years of marriage. And she is still taking care of grandkids. How many years of taking care of others will that be? Is she just wanting something to her name? More than meets the eye. I doubt it’s just the love of money that drove her to carry out this crime. Perhaps, like Eve, she was also manipulated and deceived.
Based on my experiences, I feel that this case will be withdrawn against the wife, l believe they will get a good lawyer, as I believe this is a family dispute over wealth, and after six months to one year, the case will be withdrawn and closed.
The wife is not a high-profile criminal. She is a successful businesswoman, too. Soon or later, the family will get a good lawyer to withdraw the case or plead guilty for smaller crimes, short jail sentences, or something. I don't think the victim will want severe punishment against his wife. But l think the case might get struck out. Or something. It could be personal family matter. 😮
Mr Loo, the Gottman Institute did a study on psychological patterns that make of break your marriage. Dr John Gottman identified them as ‘The Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse’. These are criticism, contempt, defensiveness, and stonewalling.
nowadays, there no such thing as "never too late to change leave/spouse". In fact, it would be the right thing to do if that's what's going to take to remove unhappiness. And that will be a correct model for your children too, to allow them to know there is a choice.
this Malaysian at first married right and became billionaire, but the wife changed over many years of marriage. how to even prevent this? could it be husband have mistress, and wife wants take "revenge"?
Maybe she got a part time lover? Whatever it is. Love is blind. I like to keep things simple. Simply live and live simply. Don’t invite trouble. Stay healthy and pray hard that I don't get into any accident. People may want to laugh but I have seen miracles in my life. i just live for peace and live in peace and then rest in peace. Amen. Simple life is a wonderful life when God is there with you and for you.
The wife may not just be the bad person here who is just out for wealth. Maybe the hubby has always been mean to her and doesn't give her a share of his wealth and also always womanizing outside.
Exactly..Mr Loo is jumping to conclusion it’s the wife’s fault. Know who u r marrying to? It’s obvious love that both r attracted to initially n married , what happened afterwards can b a million reasons, your assumptions that the husband might not b providing for her with his millions hence the wife decided to,kidnapped him for ransom which was also a dumb thing to do. Why not just initiate divorce proceedings n get half his wealth? Use the law not kidnapping.
But the man is already a tycoon to begin with. For the first few decades of their married lives must have been fulfilling and supportive. At least she was the right woman until recently.
There is a saying, my wife money is her money, my money is my wife money. she happy i happy :D anyway this is a case that is more than meets the eyes...
Marriage for men is a contract whereby if the woman break the contract , then the man who is the other party, will need to compensate the woman who break the contract , by transferring a huge chunk of his assets to the woman, and the man also has to financially support the woman, until the day the man die or the woman die.
A rich smart male man who does not want to remain single, should always do a premarital agreement before marriage, to ensure that gold digger women do not target him to try to use the marriage to benefit financially from him
Marriage is like a one sided business contract where if the other party (the woman) decide to break the contract, the man who did not break the contract, need to transfer half his net worth to her (the one who break the contract) and the man also need to support her for the rest of his life until the day he die
Only fools get married without first doing a water tight premarital contract. Getting married without first doing a pre marital contract is equivalent to fools jumping off an airplane WITHOUT PARACHUTE and hoping+ praying that everything will be fine when the fools eventually slam onto the hard ground. With a pre marital contract , when divorce happen, there is no dispute and no quarrels and no fighting and no bitterness and no conflicts as both parties just stick to the pre marital contract they had agreed on before the marriage, and hence the divorce will be very smooth and problem free . Why in the world would couples with brains , and with ability to make their own decisions , want to allow a third party (judge ) to make the crucial life changing asset division decisions for them????. Alternatively another way is to just have relationship but dont get married
Lesson learn. Money still always the key of evils with lots of temptations for destruction. I believe in living simple and have enough for daily needs . So ppl will not consider me to be gold digger
The most miserable man is a man who is already married, but the wife refuses to have sex with him, so he end up being married but getting no sex, and he is worst off than single men, who can have as many girls or girlfriends as they want . Lesson learnt for men : Dont be stupid + Dont get married get married as u might end up with no sex, no relationship, no intimacy , but still remain responsible for the maintenance of the wife, if u get married
Marriage is a contract whereby the woman gets rewarded if she break the marriage contract , because if she go and sleep with another man after the marriage and then divorce the husband in western pro feminist countries, the woman gets rewarded by being awarded with a huge chunk of the man's assets plus she gets paid monthly alimony money for the rest of her life from the husband, while the man who stay faithful but have an unfaithful wife, will become poorer than the world's poorest beggar, due to massive wealth transfer from the man to the woman, in unfair judgement ordered by a radical pro feminist judge.
After marriage, if the wife refused to have sexual relationship with the husband, the husband is stuck and is unable to force the wife to have sex, and he is also not able to go look for other women to have sex, if he is afraid of the anger of his wife. The husband is like the fool who paid for an item he bought, but that item he bought is unusable and useless. Alternatively if a man remain single, he can have access to thousands of women, without fear of anger from a wife. Knowing that u can try to have relationship with any willing women, is a wonderful thing . Be a smart man and remain single , so u can always keep your freedom , and your assets and money will forever belong only to u. By remaining single, it becomes impossible for a pro radical feminist judge, to order massive wealth transfer from u (a man ) to a woman .
How old is Kate ? Honestly, parents can have a look first but what can you do after? If a child is capable better stay unmarried especially girls, more capable these days, not really need a weak man
Did you bought your wife AK47 ? 😆😁😅 It is dangerous place in Malaysia. But that's LIFE. I was suggesting SG to promote IMH service model to ASEAN n beyond.
Too judgemental. The story is still unfolding. What makes you think the wife is fully at fault? She could be as good as any of your children before marriage. Circumstances can change a person. Don't judge or gloat too soon. There is a Chinese saying, don't judge others before you reach 66 years old. 未到六十六，唔好笑人手指曲。
I share with you all the Secrets to being happily married for 24 years. 1. Since ROM, monthly salary & ATM card goes to wife (Treasury). The wife will decide how to distribute. 2. The"Wife is always right" mindset. Never argue back even if the husband is right.
It is best middle aged to elderly guys don't marry foreign women (Vietnam, China or Taiwan) that are younger than them by more than 15 yrs. Most likely the money & assets will be drained out by these women.
Its THE LOVE of money...root of all evil.
Money itself is not evil, its the handler
Matthew 6.19-21 - lay not up for yourselves treasures upon earth, where moth and rust doth corrupt and where thieves break through and steal; but lay up for yourselves treasures in heaven....; for where your treasure is, there will your ❤️ be also. 🙏
kudos to the Malaysian Police Force👍
The Chinese have a saying "The biggest mistake a man can make is choosing a wrong career whereas the biggest mistake a woman can make is marrying the wrong man" But it seems like Marrying the wrong woman is applicable in this case. 🤣
That is because in the past women depend on men financially. Occupation began from young apprenticeship.
Every family have their own problem hard to really comment on this case. But kidnapping is bad.Nice to hear Mr Loo is like a sinseh to the family. Good spouse boast the family while bad spouse break the family. Mr n Mrs Loo compliment each other👏
gambling, womanising and drinking will surely implicate your entire family!
"Never Marry First & Expect your partner to change for the better"... ahhahaha :> may i add that .... "Eventually you are the one that will be changed for your partner" :>
In modern age, For men, marriage has become world's most dangerous acitivity ,and marriage is even more dangerous than sky diving .
Reason is because most women nowadays go into marriage with intention of divorcing later on, and to use the legal system to transfer a large portion of men's money and assets over to the woman.
A smart man should either stay unmarried or if man wants to get married,he should do a premarital contract which state that in case of divorce, both parties will keep their own assets and money and there will be no transfer of money and assets from one party to the other
Plenty of wives fighting for property and money from mistresses. Refused divorce because they want to be no. 1 wife and grab all the wealth from 2nd wives and mistresses. Very common.
" For the love of money is the root of all evil: which while some coveted after, they have erred from the faith, and pierced themselves through with many sorrows." 1 Timothy 6:10 in all English translations
Literally, sleeping with the enemy.
Mm… she did this after so many years of marriage. And she is still taking care of grandkids.
How many years of taking care of others will that be?
Is she just wanting something to her name?
More than meets the eye. I doubt it’s just the love of money that drove her to carry out this crime.
Perhaps, like Eve, she was also manipulated and deceived.
Property developers mostly have mistresses
Based on my experiences, I feel that this case will be withdrawn against the wife, l believe they will get a good lawyer, as I believe this is a family dispute over wealth, and after six months to one year, the case will be withdrawn and closed.
The wife is not a high-profile criminal. She is a successful businesswoman, too. Soon or later, the family will get a good lawyer to withdraw the case or plead guilty for smaller crimes, short jail sentences, or something. I don't think the victim will want severe punishment against his wife. But l think the case might get struck out. Or something. It could be personal family matter. 😮
Mr Loo, the Gottman Institute did a study on psychological patterns that make of break your marriage. Dr John Gottman identified them as ‘The Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse’. These are criticism, contempt, defensiveness, and stonewalling.
His wife looks like Najib’s wife
nowadays, there no such thing as "never too late to change leave/spouse". In fact, it would be the right thing to do if that's what's going to take to remove unhappiness. And that will be a correct model for your children too, to allow them to know there is a choice.
this Malaysian at first married right and became billionaire, but the wife changed over many years of marriage. how to even prevent this?
could it be husband have mistress, and wife wants take "revenge"?
Hi Mr.Loo very good advice Thank you
Maybe she got a part time lover? Whatever it is. Love is blind. I like to keep things simple. Simply live and live simply. Don’t invite trouble. Stay healthy and pray hard that I don't get into any accident. People may want to laugh but I have seen miracles in my life. i just live for peace and live in peace and then rest in peace. Amen. Simple life is a wonderful life when God is there with you and for you.
heard of many china n vietnamese women married local men for short time, then divorced to take half of man's assets......
The wife may not just be the bad person here who is just out for wealth. Maybe the hubby has always been mean to her and doesn't give her a share of his wealth and also always womanizing outside.
Exactly..Mr Loo is jumping to conclusion it’s the wife’s fault. Know who u r marrying to? It’s obvious love that both r attracted to initially n married , what happened afterwards can b a million reasons, your assumptions that the husband might not b providing for her with his millions hence the wife decided to,kidnapped him for ransom which was also a dumb thing to do. Why not just initiate divorce proceedings n get half his wealth? Use the law not kidnapping.
Best is stay single no such problem at all 😊
I won’t suggest that…
Mr Loo, maybe, she could be your neighbour at Mount Austin 😅
But the man is already a tycoon to begin with. For the first few decades of their married lives must have been fulfilling and supportive. At least she was the right woman until recently.
Wife will be jailed for sure, and on positive note, he can have a new wife!! Now choose wisely!!
There is a saying, my wife money is her money, my money is my wife money. she happy i happy :D anyway this is a case that is more than meets the eyes...
Marriage for men is a contract whereby if the woman break the contract ,
then the man who is the other party,
will need to compensate the woman who break the contract ,
by transferring a huge chunk of his assets to the woman,
and the man also has to financially support the woman,
until the day the man die or the woman die.
Mr loo the advertisement frequency is increasing
A rich smart male
man who does not want to remain single,
should always do a premarital agreement before marriage,
to ensure that gold digger women do not target him to try to use the marriage to benefit financially from him
Actually it is the WANT of money is the root to evil, not merely money is the root to evil.
Her husband may be have mistress and give his money to mistress.
Marriage is like a one sided business contract where if the other party (the woman) decide to break the contract, the man who did not break the contract,
need to transfer half his net worth to her (the one who break the contract) and the man also need to support her for the rest of his life until the day he die
There is another possibility that the wife has a young lover too. Just saying.
Or the man has little 3
Maybe her husband has mistress & she scared the husband divorce her penniless… so she kidnap & take money first.
Only fools get married without first doing a water tight premarital contract.
Getting married without first doing a pre marital contract is equivalent to fools jumping off an airplane WITHOUT PARACHUTE and hoping+ praying that everything will be fine when the fools eventually slam onto the hard ground.
With a pre marital contract , when divorce happen, there is no dispute and no quarrels and no fighting and no bitterness and no conflicts as both parties just stick to the pre marital contract they had agreed on before the marriage,
and hence the divorce will be very smooth and problem free .
Why in the world would couples with brains , and with ability to make their own decisions , want to allow a third party (judge ) to make the crucial life changing asset division decisions for them????.
Alternatively another way is to just have relationship but dont get married
Do not let sex cloud your judgement.
Sounds too simple, nothing is too sure, even when eyes are wide opened. There is such thing as karma, it happens for a reason.
Mr Loo, good ppl will also change over the time😂
Mr loo first you need to tell your daughter not to hit a man. Most of the domestic violence initiated by the female
Lesson learn. Money still always the key of evils with lots of temptations for destruction. I believe in living simple and have enough for daily needs . So ppl will not consider me to be gold digger
The most miserable man is a man who is already married, but the wife refuses to have sex with him, so he end up being married but getting no sex,
and he is worst off than single men, who can have as many girls or girlfriends as they want . Lesson learnt for men :
Dont be stupid + Dont get married get married as u might end up with no sex, no relationship, no intimacy , but still remain responsible for the maintenance of the wife,
if u get married
In marriage, do what our forefathers did by having a wife who doesn't object to your decision. Most can more than one wife and lived the longest.😁
Warren Buffet has a girlfriend, with blessings from his wife. Anyone aware?
Marriage is a contract whereby the woman gets rewarded if she break the marriage contract , because if she go and sleep with another man after the marriage
and then divorce the husband in western pro feminist countries,
the woman gets rewarded by being awarded with a huge chunk of the man's assets plus she gets paid monthly alimony money for the rest of her life from the husband,
while the man who stay faithful but have an unfaithful wife,
will become poorer than the world's poorest beggar,
due to massive wealth transfer from the man to the woman,
in unfair judgement ordered by a radical pro feminist judge.
She looks like Rosmah, yew
After marriage, if the wife refused to have sexual relationship with the husband,
the husband is stuck and is unable to force the wife to have sex,
and he is also not able to go look for other women to have sex,
if he is afraid of the anger of his wife.
The husband is like the fool who paid for an item he bought,
but that item he bought is unusable and useless.
Alternatively if a man remain single,
he can have access to thousands of women,
without fear of anger from a wife.
Knowing that u can try to have relationship with any willing women,
is a wonderful thing .
Be a smart man and remain single ,
so u can always keep your freedom ,
and your assets and money will forever belong only to u.
By remaining single,
it becomes impossible for a pro radical feminist judge,
to order massive wealth transfer from u (a man ) to a woman .
家家有本难念的经。we are not in the position to jump into conclusions at this point of time.
what share to buy???
How old is Kate ? Honestly, parents can have a look first but what can you do after? If a child is capable better stay unmarried especially girls, more capable these days, not really need a weak man
So cunning ..ini macam also Boleh ..yeah my JB kawan sent me the Malaysian press update
Be careful who you marry
Good afternoon Mr Loo 👋😍
Did you bought your wife AK47 ? 😆😁😅
It is dangerous place in Malaysia. But that's LIFE.
I was suggesting SG to promote IMH service model to ASEAN n beyond.
You have no say in gf or bf...
Feminism today.
What about sex?
either no give M or no give S that's why she no happy ma
If a person want to monetize you, there is 101 ways. Don't doubt.
Obviously she want the money to payoff gambling debt. Tht the husband dunno about. She looks like kaki gambling
In Singapore, the wife would be facing the death penalty for kidnapping.
Gates. Epstein. Underage. De ne ne.
Too judgemental. The story is still unfolding. What makes you think the wife is fully at fault? She could be as good as any of your children before marriage. Circumstances can change a person. Don't judge or gloat too soon. There is a Chinese saying, don't judge others before you reach 66 years old. 未到六十六，唔好笑人手指曲。
I share with you all the
Secrets to being happily married for 24 years.
1. Since ROM, monthly salary & ATM card goes to wife (Treasury). The wife will decide how to distribute.
2. The"Wife is always right" mindset. Never argue back even if the husband is right.
Sounds like a wimp.
One of the kidnappers is the victim’s wife’s lover…
Confirmed?
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