TACKLING RELATIONSHIP ISSUES (Situationship, "God said", boundaries etc)|| TRUE TALK ||S06E04

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  • @_Obaa_Afia
    @_Obaa_Afia ปีที่แล้ว +45

    Dara just in case you see this, you inspire the best out of me. I have confidence to do the right thing because all you three are evidence of result of walking in the way of God. Love you from Ghana

  • @eydefin
    @eydefin ปีที่แล้ว +90

    I used to be in a situationship what the a guy late last year😂😂
    At first, we started off as friends, then later we saw ourselves being closer than ever and feeling comfortable with each other's company 😊
    But I noticed that we never got to discuss anything about starting a relationship and we both said we weren't ready to go into any until God gave us a befitting partner 😁
    But I saw that uncle was up and in my business everytime, everyday and I was compelled to ask "what's up, what do you really want from this our closeness? Do you want a relationship or you just want us to be friends?" I had to ask him because I needed clarity, so in my head I won't be in a relationship with the guy that he(the guy) is not aware of and I equally needed to build boundaries and know what to focus on primarily....
    And uncle simply told me that we were friends and I told him that I was cool with that and that helped me build boundaries around myself.

  • @DeborahAyorinde-es9st
    @DeborahAyorinde-es9st ปีที่แล้ว +54

    Omo, is Dara confidence and boldness for me? I love the way she analysed the topic. Kudos to the TED. I love you guys 💙💜❤️💚

    • @dawnekeomaunaji9421
      @dawnekeomaunaji9421 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes ooooo Dara was really expressive, sweet, confidence, I mean this is a pastors wife so her work is in full display. Mennnnnn Dare and Tolu this was really sweet. Especially when Tolu said " u can go around the edges and not in" wowwwwwww this is breathtaking.

  • @marilynwarren5502
    @marilynwarren5502 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    These ladies are very young brides, and the wisdom and advise is unbelievable!!!! I truly appreciate all of you. ❤

  • @Menaamonoo
    @Menaamonoo ปีที่แล้ว +16

    "Introducing intimacy in a relationship at the wrong time has hindered most destiny fulfilling purposed relationships from accomplishing"....God bless you people 🙏

  • @EuniceBalogun-wk6hm
    @EuniceBalogun-wk6hm ปีที่แล้ว +33

    Wow!!!
    I love sister Dara's way of addressing how brothers meet a lady with arrogance and pride
    Keep the good work sisters
    More Grace TED

  • @toluwanimiajetunmobi5964
    @toluwanimiajetunmobi5964 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    I saw another side of Dara today. She was really funny and expressive.

    • @Gracespeaks20
      @Gracespeaks20 ปีที่แล้ว

      I sincerely thought I was the only one who noticed.😅

    • @abigailyarry7021
      @abigailyarry7021 ปีที่แล้ว

      She actually is very funny. 😂😂
      Check out their old episodes if you’re yet to see

    • @oghenekevweatenaga3643
      @oghenekevweatenaga3643 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      It's the oyor's effect.

  • @gloriaolukoya4614
    @gloriaolukoya4614 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Hmmm... Thank u Holyspirit 🔥🥺This is actually spirit leading platform...This Fear about marriage was what I battled with this morning..and was thinking if I can ever give myself into marriage but with this video have found myself back to stand on my feet for God's will and promises for my life ....This video is for me...and I bless God. More grace ma'ams

    • @BlueDiamondSolarTech
      @BlueDiamondSolarTech ปีที่แล้ว

      Share it, they re affecting lives

    • @ifiokabasiokop
      @ifiokabasiokop ปีที่แล้ว

      Fear of marriage is a real thing. I've seen many people who got delivered of it and they were ignorant that it even existed.

  • @anuatezisandrangifor411
    @anuatezisandrangifor411 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I wish I had heard this earlier. Now I'm in a big mess🥺 Thank you TED. I pray God helps🙏

    • @COMFORTACHEME
      @COMFORTACHEME 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      God can always come in for you. Just ask and trust him

  • @maryannchiamaka1323
    @maryannchiamaka1323 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    This is really a matter to me now. A brother proposed some years back after proposing to my friend and she refused. You need to see the proposal, like he was doing me a favor. He even told me of how sisters flock around him and they are all doing well financially. It was like I was no choice at all just an option because he was under pressure by his family members. Up till now he is still single at 43. Some brothers really need to play humble when approaching a sister. God bless TED for this ministration.

    • @akintolatiwalade5600
      @akintolatiwalade5600 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Unimaginable. Why didn't he marry one of those numerous ladflocking around him?

  • @DaCovenantedJokabel
    @DaCovenantedJokabel ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I can relate with Dara's experience on the "spiritually arrogant bro". I had one who always backed his statements up with "don't you know I'm a pastor?" See ehn, I prayed him outta the way and blocked him ni o cos I can't even imagine what he'd become as an eventual husband.

  • @Isaakiway
    @Isaakiway ปีที่แล้ว +7

    It is a blessing to still have people that's got the boldness to preach the truth.
    God bless you, ladies.

  • @Josephevwierhom
    @Josephevwierhom ปีที่แล้ว +7

    So with useful videos like this. Somebody will still come tomorrow to debate with me that technology has done more harm than good 😅. Thank you so much for this. Personally I really appreciate 🙏🏽

  • @ememmirriam9005
    @ememmirriam9005 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Spiritual pride😂😂and is stinking to add. 😂😂😂😂 This is hilarious but very serious issue. I've had brothers saying this to me ( You are the one) and even threatening me about the one I had certainty and convictions about. One even went further to say if I know what is good for me I should live the present relationship cos it won't work out. But I know God is not the author of confusion. So much lessons to draw from the talk today. Thank you people very much.🙏🙏

  • @akosuaserwaajulia
    @akosuaserwaajulia ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Just when I needed clarity on relationship stuff, you guys post this. Thank you!!!

  • @the_lisamcdonald
    @the_lisamcdonald ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Thank you Jesus
    Indeed God has us in mind at every point of our lives.
    This video came in just when I needed it.
    God bless the TED fam and team
    It is too late for my marriage to fail❤. The devil has lost in this one.

  • @ogooluwadahunsi6804
    @ogooluwadahunsi6804 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    The God that gave you those visions will not give you a fire extinguisher !!!❤

  • @augustaluch7354
    @augustaluch7354 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    As I was noticing Mrs Dara's expressiveness, I also noticed Mrs Ella's Reserved self in this session. God bless TED🙏❤️

    • @dawnekeomaunaji9421
      @dawnekeomaunaji9421 ปีที่แล้ว

      I tot I was the only one who noticed Ella was so reserved like she wasn't happy. This was really educative so awesome.

  • @pombingtonshirclair_victoi6977
    @pombingtonshirclair_victoi6977 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Dara is well loaded in the spirit.praise God

  • @joshuah_sharon
    @joshuah_sharon ปีที่แล้ว +12

    This is so insightful. Thank you for always debunking backward thought patterns and myths, they have led many to derail. I'm the favour that man seeks😁. Thank you Ma Tolu, Ma Ella, and Ma Dara, God bless you🙏❤️❤️

  • @ujuij948
    @ujuij948 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Thank you TED for all you do.
    Ella, thank you for pointing out the wokeness of this generation, it is really a deception from the enemy.

  • @Ella_speaks16.01
    @Ella_speaks16.01 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This was completely educative.
    I have so many stories regarding situationships, but just like you said, I recently started learning to ask questions and properly define relationships because some brothers are just naturally free and nice to everyone.
    This was broad, thank you so much for this, TED.

  • @jesulayomiangel20
    @jesulayomiangel20 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Hmmm, I want to thank TED for this great message they passed across. I just got myself out of a situationship and I can say it was so stressful and tiring. Like my mental status was so affected and I even became unstable emotionally.
    I am grateful to God that I am finally out of it and I am waiting patiently for his will to come to pass in my life.

  • @amosinioluwa5448
    @amosinioluwa5448 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    God will not lead you to a fire extinguisher.
    Thanks for this TED

  • @Blue_eye554
    @Blue_eye554 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    God please give me great sisters in law

  • @drtee2649
    @drtee2649 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Wonderful…..you are all blessings to this generation….God bless you

  • @preciousofuani2769
    @preciousofuani2769 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I was really blessed.
    If you're praying about a guy and God is silent? Does it mean a NO? Is it right to go on with the relationship? Does God's silence mean , I should relax, that he's the one but I shouldn't go into the relationship yet? I really need clarity

  • @BalasaPatienceBeckyballo-sy1bg
    @BalasaPatienceBeckyballo-sy1bg ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Its the analogy of adam and eve at the altar for me! God bless you TED

  • @chiamakaezekiel2178
    @chiamakaezekiel2178 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    My dara,🥰🥰🤗🤗I love when she said God will not give you a fire extinguisher thanks a lot ted

  • @pombingtonshirclair_victoi6977
    @pombingtonshirclair_victoi6977 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    God bless you Evangelist Mike Bamiloye.Your home is blessed.All.your seeds are blessings yo this Generation.Thank you TED.Love you from Cameroon

  • @Katojulius-fe5gn
    @Katojulius-fe5gn ปีที่แล้ว

    Kindly I'm a Ugandan but I'm so blessed with this channel Ba bamiloye you making my life so much inspiring may God bless you and i wish to tap on your anoiting in Jesus mighty name 🙏🙏🙏

  • @ifeomadoris8783
    @ifeomadoris8783 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I am the favour he is looking for 🔥🔥
    Thank you TED
    MORE GRACE!!

  • @nwaigweogochukwu5643
    @nwaigweogochukwu5643 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Great ladies ❤️🔥. You all are blessings to our generation. Thank God for raising women like you. God bless you abundantly.

  • @deliajohnson9467
    @deliajohnson9467 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    A woman builds the home as a gatekeeper 🔥🔥🔥🔥! Thank you 😊

  • @BlueDiamondSolarTech
    @BlueDiamondSolarTech ปีที่แล้ว

    You re right great women. Love you all. Grace be multiplied.

  • @esthervictor1089
    @esthervictor1089 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I love the way sis Tolu skin is blooming and popping.

  • @FopsyTheGreat
    @FopsyTheGreat ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Situationships: Aka a sure way to break your own heart. I wrote an entire book about this, so glad you spoke on it too. The sure way to deliver yourself is to ask clear questions and define the relationship. May God deliver all who are ensnared 🙏

    • @anjolaadewale4040
      @anjolaadewale4040 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Ahh I’ve read your book on this! It was very enlightening!

    • @FopsyTheGreat
      @FopsyTheGreat ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@anjolaadewale4040 So glad it was helpful! ❤

    • @sebiotimoadetayo6889
      @sebiotimoadetayo6889 ปีที่แล้ว

      What is the title of the book @fopsy

    • @akinwandeolajumokeformolah462
      @akinwandeolajumokeformolah462 ปีที่แล้ว

      Pls what’s the name of the book? Your book

    • @FopsyTheGreat
      @FopsyTheGreat ปีที่แล้ว

      @@akinwandeolajumokeformolah462 I replied but it keeps getting deleted. It's called Situationship but Fope Nkwocha.

  • @temiyemioyemade5279
    @temiyemioyemade5279 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Good to have you, my people.

  • @folamishoyombo8126
    @folamishoyombo8126 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Lovely timeout with TED.
    Thank you all your contribution.
    God bless you abundantly.
    @JayMikee, please we want different clips of this show as usual, so that many can get to watch it within short period time.
    Thank you you Sir/Ma's.

  • @akintolatiwalade5600
    @akintolatiwalade5600 ปีที่แล้ว

    I never knew Dara can be this expressive.

  • @Diamy
    @Diamy ปีที่แล้ว

    I loooooovvveee this Trio. So much wisdom. My love to tolu❤❤❤ your home is blessed. A very wise young woman 😍

  • @ifiokabasiokop
    @ifiokabasiokop ปีที่แล้ว

    I enjoy listening to Darasimi!

  • @Josephevwierhom
    @Josephevwierhom ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Alot of relationships (friendship and any other form of relationship) that are meant to be fulfilling purposes are not because intimacy was introduced. Word!!

  • @anniemarynkunika3845
    @anniemarynkunika3845 ปีที่แล้ว

    My best sisters in the world ,Dara, Tolu & Ella❤

  • @PurposefulRelationship
    @PurposefulRelationship ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wow...I was so blessed by this episode. God bless TED

  • @edithuwafili7086
    @edithuwafili7086 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    A very insightful, impacting and correcting session. God's bleßings on TED always in Jesus name 🙏

  • @damilarehannah8338
    @damilarehannah8338 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    That part Dara said "Spiritual pride and it's stinky...." got me laughing 😂
    I always loved watching every single episode dropped on this talk show. Very educative and spirit filled. Love u guys ❤️❤️

  • @Olamide_olanrewaju.O
    @Olamide_olanrewaju.O ปีที่แล้ว

    I am richly blessed with TED, God bless you all in Jesus name

  • @BlueDiamondSolarTech
    @BlueDiamondSolarTech ปีที่แล้ว

    Pls share this, someone needs it.

  • @I.am.His.007
    @I.am.His.007 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you ooooo. I even felt convicted watching the last video about dating in secondary school. I'm in the us, so it's high school for me, but it's getting harder and harder to not want a relationship. I never wanted one ever since people started dating which was elementary school, i always thought it was stupid up until last year. It's only my second year, I have two more but chai, it's hard. I was really frustrated at the last video and tried to make excuses as to why i can be in a godly relationship at 16. We both know that's unrealistic and there's just no reason to. Thank you ma's, for helping me realize the truth in waiting. Truth be told how will I know what to do at 16? 😅

  • @charitysimfukwe-gh4bs
    @charitysimfukwe-gh4bs ปีที่แล้ว

    This is powerful teaching am being helped

  • @TimileyinFolashade
    @TimileyinFolashade 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    More knowledge for you Ma's..... Am so so blessed 🥰

  • @johndominion
    @johndominion 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks so much for this.
    There is a lady she got into a relationship with a guy
    Both are deeply convicted about the will of God.
    But the lady keeps complaining about that she doesn't love the guy, no attraction at all even after 6 months . Even with all these shes very convicted, the guy loves her so much which she attest to

    • @johndominion
      @johndominion 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      What do you advice?

  • @olasojipraise2833
    @olasojipraise2833 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Your boldness in Christ will not decrease in Jesus name.

  • @DrMobolaJide_Olatunji
    @DrMobolaJide_Olatunji ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Thanks TED may the Lord continue to bless you guys. You broke many myths and shed light to many things that's affecting relationship. Keep up the good work 👏
    I and my husband also had serious challenges before we got married to the point that our first wedding date was cancelled by force 2 weeks before the D-day. Hmmm, it was war but thanks be to God who always gives us victory.
    It's true the tell tale signs are there if you're in a relationship with a fire extinguisher
    I remembered one of the brothers that was showing interest in me but usually get angry that I listen to music every time 🤔 and knowing I love praising God.
    I took a bow before he extinguished my passion for God

  • @patiencequansah4452
    @patiencequansah4452 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Well done. I have sisters in you 🎉❤

  • @emilyoluyomi2284
    @emilyoluyomi2284 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you so much for sharing this with us.
    God bless you all abundantly.

  • @iyanuoloyede4566
    @iyanuoloyede4566 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I am blessed oooooooooo
    Thank you sister Tolu, Doctor Emmanuela, Sister Darasmi God bless you guys real Good in Jesus mighty name

  • @sarahjoshua7785
    @sarahjoshua7785 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I've never been to club too,n I'm 26 year my friends See's me wierd

    • @olasojipraise2833
      @olasojipraise2833 ปีที่แล้ว

      You're not weird for holding your beliefs that are in line with God's word.

  • @pombingtonshirclair_victoi6977
    @pombingtonshirclair_victoi6977 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Dara made me wstch this episode more than 3 times

  • @chidinmaokoro3105
    @chidinmaokoro3105 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am so encouraged by your words TED. They really are direct and explanatory. God bless you guys

  • @faithfulnessifeoluwa3205
    @faithfulnessifeoluwa3205 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm blessed listening. Thank you ma

  • @ajakayeanuoluwapo3071
    @ajakayeanuoluwapo3071 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you TED.God bless you abundantly.your marriage shall be heaven on earth in Jesus name

  • @oghalemercy
    @oghalemercy ปีที่แล้ว

    I am the Favour he should be seeking. ❤

  • @Omosalewa_Grace
    @Omosalewa_Grace ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank You TED for this
    I am so impacted by this message

  • @anuoluwapoayodele8464
    @anuoluwapoayodele8464 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you so much for this honestly God bless you abundantly

  • @deborahbenjamin310
    @deborahbenjamin310 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    When Tolu mentioned 'the night club' part - I like her honesty and rawness. When one marries, one can turn it into a nightclub between the 2 couples👰. I know a couple who bought a pole in the house😍

  • @farayolavictoria8774
    @farayolavictoria8774 ปีที่แล้ว

    God bless you and increase your knowledge. I'm truly blessed with the topic.

  • @dan_cr8or
    @dan_cr8or ปีที่แล้ว +5

    20:10 I am hearing and seeing the Mummy Gloria in Dara in action 😂 That spiritual motherly correction.

  • @adekolaemmanuel4876
    @adekolaemmanuel4876 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow
    I have been blessed
    Praise God

  • @apostolicforce
    @apostolicforce ปีที่แล้ว

    This makes a lot of sense.. more Grace.

  • @ChinyereUbor-ut9ie
    @ChinyereUbor-ut9ie ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Can intimacy be stopped and the relationship continue? If two persons who are getting to knw each other fall victim n wants to stop and do the relationship the right way

  • @kemia789
    @kemia789 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    " 'God said' is an office, not a person!" Wow, such wisdom! Thanks for sharing ladies ❤

  • @heavenlynelsons1379
    @heavenlynelsons1379 ปีที่แล้ว

    Such a great message 🙏🙏🙏

  • @ekomobongabijah-zp2uj
    @ekomobongabijah-zp2uj ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Kai......🔥🔥
    Thanks so much ma's
    Greater Grace ma's

  • @victoriaowoeye
    @victoriaowoeye ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This episode is really a wonderful one. I've been really blessed. Thanks so much for this dear sisters. God bless you and bless your homes.

  • @ayomibh
    @ayomibh ปีที่แล้ว +1

    God bless you all abundantly above all you could possibly think of or imagine ❤️

  • @Emkeys-i1v
    @Emkeys-i1v ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I thought I was the only one so direct and blunt. 😅

  • @ebubeglory5693
    @ebubeglory5693 ปีที่แล้ว

    And the way they kept it so simple in this topic. Kai

  • @clarabentileduah
    @clarabentileduah ปีที่แล้ว

    Your pride is stinging
    God bless you Sweet ladies

  • @akinleminuolubunmi4540
    @akinleminuolubunmi4540 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you very much TED
    Am blessed to listen to this.

  • @grace.paula.folashade
    @grace.paula.folashade ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Was really blessed by this.
    May God increase the oil.
    God bless you sisters😊
    ,"TED❤"

  • @ejisimekwuprecious4109
    @ejisimekwuprecious4109 ปีที่แล้ว

    This was so enlightening. Thank you so much TED.
    Every part was liberating.

  • @titilayotemitope-ee1ug
    @titilayotemitope-ee1ug ปีที่แล้ว

    So lovely,suitationship is mostly the common thing being a friend with a guy without a good clarification
    Thank you so much TED may God help you so much

  • @mercykamundu3127
    @mercykamundu3127 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The right time brings forth the right person and the right person cannot bring forth the right time 🤭😁

  • @VictoriaBala072
    @VictoriaBala072 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    word! ''she's the one that holds the favor!''...... Your favor is with her😆😆😆

  • @eniolaanuoluwapo231
    @eniolaanuoluwapo231 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Ma'am weldone 🙇🙇🙇 I really love sis dara sense of fashion so well😘😘😘 . God bless u all.

  • @queenesther909
    @queenesther909 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This topic today is so exciting and interesting... God bless you TED sisters
    More grace ma'am

  • @helenabijo7827
    @helenabijo7827 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    If you’re a believer and you’re in a relationship with unbeliever the foundation is already wrong 🤔

  • @johniyanu4761
    @johniyanu4761 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This Ladies are wonderful
    Darasimiiiii... Like brother like sister, you and D-baba ehn😂😂😂 " Your pride is stinking"😂😂😂that got me o

  • @favourishioma6616
    @favourishioma6616 ปีที่แล้ว

    Glory to God Almighty!
    God bless am Continue keep True talk with TED.

  • @anyaegbunnenna4982
    @anyaegbunnenna4982 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you TED. God bless and keep True Talk. May the oil keep flowing and blessing souls. Thank you

  • @anitagrace7031
    @anitagrace7031 ปีที่แล้ว

    God bless the TED ladies. I love you, Dara!!

  • @temiloluwaadebisi7536
    @temiloluwaadebisi7536 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you ma(s),You are blessed ❤️

  • @PrayerFabule
    @PrayerFabule ปีที่แล้ว

    I am really blessed with this
    Thank you so much TED ❤

  • @egbeloretha3402
    @egbeloretha3402 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am happy to partake of this fresh moment

  • @atesogospeltv3292
    @atesogospeltv3292 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much for this powerful piece of advice. May God continue to bless you all

  • @rashidatahmed1754
    @rashidatahmed1754 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you TED! I was blessed

  • @amusitandamilola2086
    @amusitandamilola2086 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is amazing, thank you Ted for the clarifications, spiritual pride indeed, brother beware

  • @PhiriPortia04
    @PhiriPortia04 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hallelujah 🙌 Am blessed by this topic. Thank you so much and may God Almighty continue to bless you