"I Am Actually Jealous" Reacting to bts being touchy and close
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I totally get if you're not used to seeing men being touchy, I wasn't too, because in my country we're not like that, but cultures are different and BTS has been together for ten years. Sending loveeeee - (There was no name, But thank you ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤) all of my socials - linktr.ee/FredDyslexic - บันเทิง
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fyi, they are close bc they’ve lived and worked together for 10 years, but it is also a lot more normal in korean culture for boys to show more physical affection. It’s called “skinship”.. personally, I find it to be close to how girls in the west behave with each other, like all of these moments would be very normal in my close knit group of girl-friends 😇
I think it depends where in the west you are because it's not that usual where I am, I know it seems to be more likely in the US, but yeah you have a very good point!!!! 💜
I like that you're actually trying to get understand it. Tbh when I first watched Kdrama I'd find it weird that people there like cute things and being very affectionate and adorable with each other and feeding and complementing each other which is rare in the male population, now I'm completely used to it and it became less weird. Also that kind of comfortability comes with the fact that they lived together for roughly a decade, so they've been in each other space a lot that they got kind of used to it. for example Yoongi (from BTS) wasn't actually like that (he still hates being touched but I think he secretly enjoys it on the inside lol) but after spending that much time with people like Jimin and V and Jhope who are very touch and clingy even he got a little comfortable with it.
Same. It felt awkward when they did that at first. And the fact that I’m from America (not the good places in America) doesn’t help. The men around me aren’t close like this but they aren’t homophobic ofc they just didn’t do it as much as korean men. So it was just awkward watching it
They lived together for 10 years they are so comfortable and so close more than real brothers
There latterly like brothers, imagine living 8 years together. That's crazy, haha I really enjoyed the video
Thank you Bethzy ❤ and yeh lmao 8 yeah, WOWZER ahaha
"I'm just gonna watch a video where some blokes touch each other" lmaoooooooo, preparing myself for the culture shock you'd probably have. A strange collection your reacting to tho
Oh man yeah, Bonnie trust ahaha its what Google forms and the people tell me to react to ahaha 😂
lololol i think maybe if you just watch their content you’ll just naturally become comfortable with it cause how they are with each other will be in any and every content 😆💜
Yeah amber you right! People be telling advising me to stop watching BTS content just cause I'm having a culture shock, and I'm trying to learn it's crazy right?!
@@FredDyslexic LOOOL no that’s not it 😂😂 it’s all a learning experience right? that’s what bts is about! take it at your own pace-i mean you’re still so new here, too! as long as you are enjoying bts and it is not unenjoyable to you, keep at it and i’m wishing you the best! 💜💜
You look uncomfortable
It's normal in the Korean culture for male friends to be touchy and close more than the west culture....and they already more than close they lived together for 10 years or more so it's normal for them.
Just don't pressure yourself to watch the touchy videos and try to watch something more enjoyable for you and you will get used to their behavior and culture by time.
Yeah asma Ali, appreciate you. People be hating telling me to stop watching BTS content just I'm trying get my self involved , it's crazy how others dont see that! Right?!
@@FredDyslexic yeah
If you feel reacting to BTS, It's alright there's so many content of BTS you can enjoy and watch without feeling uncomfortable at all .....just enjoy
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I think its cultural difference. In korea it is normalized for men to show more affection for each other but their country is homophobic, little bit of irony.😅
MR. POOP
I’m not gonna judge you for feeling ‘uncomfortable’ at first or when cringing a bit when it comes to boys getting touchy. Ik western culture is a bit different (compare to Korean culture) when it comes to boys being ‘touchy’ and close with each other, and it can sort of be like a “culture shock”. Like you said, you don’t like when ppl touch you, you like your personal space, which is completely understandable. Thank you for trying and for continuing to try to learn and understand:))) Just know that these boys lived together for 10 years and being close and touchy between boys is normal for Korean culture. You might get used to it over time the more you watch videos, and I believe that you can!! :D
They're basically brothers, now they have lived together for 10 years, and in korean culture the male friends are usually touchy and close, it's normal to see that in males than in the friendship of men and women
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For me learning about skinship was a culture shock as a Brit, I hate being touched like I flinch, my family isn’t big on physical affection, although I’m more affectionate towards others but I don’t like it being reciprocated.
But I got used to it after watching eons of content. It’s similar to how western girls friendships are close & touchy. It’s odd for those who aren’t used to it, especially western countries where people are conditioned to believe any touch between the same sex = gay.
Now I don’t blink an eye, and find it even more weird when guys are so uptight around each other with arms length handshakes/shoulder taps. Other cultures spread love through touch more.
Here in Saudi Arabia the guys who are friends are holding hands, hugging, kissing each other cheek 💁♀️it will be a culture shock for you 😂😂 the East is way different than the western world ( we are full of love (( we express it)) and respect toward family, friends, old people we be kissing each other all the time 💁♀️)
And remember it also depends by the culture. In Korea, boys being touchy with each other is normal
I’m a person that don’t like being touched either but I love watching these BTS moments
I’m exactly like you when it comes to affection, especially physical affection. My friends love to kiss me on the cheek and cuddle, but it secretly makes me uncomfortable. It’s normal for people in the beginning to feel a bit uncomfortable watching how close BTS are, and I’ve been there, but the more I got into BTS, I really started feeling jealous of their friendship. I think one of the reasons why I’m so attracted to BTS and love watching them is because they have the type of bond (not just physical, but also how much they care about each other and love each other) that I wish I had with someone, anyone
The fact that you are trying to understand the culture of skinship(touchy between members) is showed you are not homophobic, it takes time to get used to and understand. Pls army don't hate random people who uncomfortable with our boys relationship, maybe they are never seen one or been one (well of course if they stated the hate obviusly and proudly, then i'll join lol)
I like they aren't afraid of showing to love each other. i sometimes envy their brotherhood. haha
I’m alright. Just dying in this humidity and heavy weather. Skin ship isn’t really something is Brits partake in unless we are basically married to the other person, so I also found it odd at first when I saw them being really touchy. There wasn’t a word this time! So imma go for Lumbar. Thank you for another great vid :)
Oh hehe, it was Mr Poop, and yh I definitely relate 😂
Yea, I’ve watched a lot of your BTS reactions and tbh you’ve been way more open minded than I expected!! I’ve seen many people react to BTS, and some are really close-minded so I understand why some people may expect that of you. But you’ve got nothing to worry about!! You’re doing great, don’t let some comments tell you otherwise 😌 They prob didn’t even watch a lot of your content
Thank you very much. It makes me feel better because of much suport you guys really do give me and this channel, I have honestly never felt so blessed ❤❤❤❤
im a gay woman, my best friend is a gay man, and my other best friend is a bi woman, and we are platonically very affectionate like bts are. we are really touchy feely and cuddly and its one of the best friendships i've ever had. we're all really close and intimate but its all truly platonic and that's given us a very strong bond. idk why or when we started getting so touchy lmao but it's been so comforting and lovely. idk what it is about it but yeah lmao whenever we sleepover at each other's houses we all sleep in one bed lol
Regradless I think we need this kind of affection once in a while 😂 I'm not big fans of skinship either even between females but one day when I had a very stressful day and my best friend suddenly huged me those feeling was melt away, she thought I'm gonna push her like usual, she surprised I was tearing up instead. They said hug is same kind of pain reliever, I guess it's true😁
The boys in my country have a lot of skinship like BTS. It's normal to have guys be this close and touchy (except holding hands, you can cuddle but the moment you hold hands it's sus)
I hate the fact that in the west it is seen as weird/unacceptable, but this is just brothers showing love to each other. And btw mr poop
Mr Poop 🤝 I definitely agree
I definitely get you I'm the same way I get so uncomfortable when people touch me lol I literally jump everytime someone touches me but I'm trying to like get better at being touched lol cuz i do like it it just freaks me out for some reason
Thank god it's not just me then, ahaha
Awe love that you’re being so open and nice abt other cultures. It can be a little uncomfortable at first and Ik it has to do with the way you were brought up like you said. You don’t have to make yourself uncomfortable to “prove” you weren’t judging them or anything. It’s just normal to react that way when you see stuff you aren’t used to. Plus I’d rather see an honest reaction than one that is made to be what people want to see. Anyways I hope you have a great day :))
as someone who is uncomfortable with affection, their friendship does make me jealous tho, i wish i was that comfortable with someone
#BTS is Sweet Family 💜💜💜💜💜💜💜
no worries Fred
I believe you'll get use to them getting touchy and close as you watch more of their content!!
It's totally normal♥️
But anyways, how have you been doing?
I hope you've been doing well !!
I'm doing awesome thank you
@@FredDyslexic yes, please don't let haters get to you!!
I don't like being touched either, or people coming into my space. Sometimes, even now, I can't help but cringe at some of the ways they touch each other, just because if someone was doing that to me, I wouldn't like it at all. It's a weird mix of feeling warm about them getting along and finding comfort in each other and my skin crawling cause I can phantom feel being touched when I watch it
I remember I went to Hong Kong and saw this girl kiss her two best friends on the lips and I was like shook I was like y'all see this but no one gave a shit apparently it was not a big deal at all even male friends would be like super touchy even like in the smallest things like putting his hands on his friends leg and I would always notice this but no one around me would which shows how normal it is
Korea culture skinship is very common practice between close friends and even family members
Why you keep react to videos like this. I will tell you something they lived with each other for ten years so they more than friends they like brothers . I hope to watch their funny videos and interviews
Sometimes, I think reactors chose those videos which they thought that Army would like them to react to. Then it became less genuine reactions coz they felt cringey and uncomfortable watching. They should react to what they like best and enjoy doing it.
@@emilyl1094 yeah I agree with you
This is differences between western culture and asian. In asian culture, being touchy between the same gender isn't weird. It shows how close you are with friends. We asians don't even think they are gay at all for hugging and kissing cheeks cuz that's totally normal to us. But, I know many western people weirded out by it. Fyi, they are not gay. I mean I'm not sure what their sexuality really is cuz they never announce it but they do like girls. A LOT 😂 so yeah it's just the different culture thing. They might not seem that masculine but who cares about being masculine if they are the best gentleman. Masculine isn't equal gentleman right? I'm pretty sure us girls like a good man than a tough one. Toxic masculinity isn't a flex at all. I rather marry a gentle man who hugs friends than a tough man who think being tough is a good thing and don't know how to give love.
I think the reason you don't feel comfortable with touch that way is just that society is different here...it's just not considered that normal for most of us but I really wish it was like I just think it's a better way to be. TBH my best friend from school was big on hugging and I took me year to get used to it. Sometimes I'm even uncomfortable with family hugging me which is strange but I do really really like my own space, we're all different and that should be accepted.
I think is normal, they are together since 2010-2011 and after 3 years they debut in 2013, so 10 years in the road is very time.
And sorry if I get some grammar mistakes.
Take care, please, 💜💜
Agreeing with others that its good on you for trying to understand or get used to something that makes you uncomfortable. I've had to do some of that with some of their behaviors also but honestly, prodding at those parts of your personality that don't like to be explored is how we grow as people and become more well- rounded. It's also how we unlearn harmful thoughts or behaviors we didn't even know we had.
Most people have very uncomfortable, ugly, or embarrassed moments exactly like yours, they just don't get posted to youtube
Mr. Poop
Yeah people has different personalities and it's fine. My sister wouldn't even let me touch her before, If I touch her she would hit me :) . But nowadays she let me hug her. At first she'll act like it's cringey to hug and push me away but then at the end she'll give up. She's like Suga and I'm like Taehyung when trying to hug eachother 😂
I guess your personality is also close to Suga and Namjoon.
Ayyyy Mr. Poop hehe, oh man yeah true dat ahaha that's cool 💯💯
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3:50 wow i relate 😆 i actually hate being with alot of people and do casual blah blah talks , i cringe when i do that. HAHAH but i understand that's part of life and it's beautiful to talk to other people your not really familiar with. Anw. In my country being touchy with your friends is normal too. So I kinda shocked to know that alot of countries being touchy (specially for men) are a bit weird.
Heyyy Fred, it's okay yk? You did great!! I'm not very touchy either, and I love my personal space, so I understand where you're coming from. But instead of maybe thinking this is weird, it's more wholesome to see the way they care for each other, since starting this career they had only each other. They grew up and matured and heavily influenced by each other. Thank you for trying to open your mind and pls keep doing so. The fact that you're willing to try is so much more enough. You're genuine and I know you're still getting to know the boys, so that's something not many people are willing to do. So thank you, so much 💕💜
But please, take your time. You'll get used to it!!
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I am so American. I never heard of a kettle warmer or ever seen one. Your eyes hit on it with instantly, lol.
Ahaha, ah well kettles are just a a necessity in the uk lmao
We call it a tea cosy - to keep the teapot warm.
RM is the same way he is less affectionate and touchy touchy! But he has his moments. Like another commenter said, if you watch Kdaramas it was something I had to get used to. Men doing cute things or liking cute things that you would think only guys like. I thinking has a lot of do with the culture than anything. But what I think is, if everyone says you should be understanding or be okay their culture and that theirs doesn’t mean what you think it means. Then they should be okay with it not being your thing also, it goes both ways. In my opinion it really isn’t a big deal, people have to realize that there are parts of BTS the some fans won’t like or understand. Just because you don’t doesn’t mean you don’t like them or their music, some fans think you have to like everything they do or say and if you don’t then you aren’t a fan at all. That’s the part that people call toxic fandom, and the part that I don’t like.
I like your real reaction! This is the interesting part of the cultural difference
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It's okay i am jealous too 😢😂
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people are diffrent for me i don't feel awkward watching it but i don't do this with anyone i just don't like it i love my personal space especially when i'm sleeping
As a person who has lived in Korea, the concept of Korean men being touchy is quite exaggerated from the media and stuff, but it is true that teenage guys are a lot more touchy. But I never see guys who are older than 20ish being touchy with each other. But then again, BTS lived together for years since they were very young, so it probably just became really normla for them to be like that. But srsly, I've noticed that actual Korean men in Korea were very different from what the media showed. They're not as touchy as what ppl think based on kpop and kdrama, and another stereotype is that men in Korea take care of their skin a lot, but that is also pretty far from the actual reality cuz the majority do nothing but wash their faces with water.
i am kinda like you or i was, i really appreciate my personal space, but this year i have been feeling more comfortable at least with my group of friends, we are 6 they are all really touchy and i am not but sometimes i feel the need to give a hug or something and i don't feel awkward anymore with them, its actually pretty nice, you have those people with whom you can express yourself and also get some affection, you have to find people who you truly feel comfortable with, but it also takes time
I don´t know why but for me this was so funny seeing you react to this😂💜 (and I totally get you! I´m not thaat good with skinship either...well, except for my dog...😅) but I just wanted to say I love all your BTS reactions so as Jimin would say: You nice keep going!😊
Edit: Mr. Poop I/we appreciate your dry humor and your honesty so don´t worry 🤣👍
Thank youuuuuuu ❤❤❤❤
I relate with you on the whole "i need my personal space BUT m also jealous, i wish i had frnds i could be that comfortable with" thing😂
Fyi i am a girl, i knw boys/men have a hard time being physically close bcoz of societal and cultural norms in most of the places but it's also a personal thing and not just cultural. Even among BTS some prefer and seek out physical contact often while others don't as much...
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1)my day is alright
2)Honestly I still find it weird(uncomfortable) idk being close to my bestfriend and she feels the same. Like hugs for example but considering they lived together for 7/8 years it's honestly relatable bcz I am a lot more closer/touchy with my siblings.
Maybe you better watch run bts, bon voyage and BTS in the soap first.. I will never see this first if I don't know anything about their culture..
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These instances exist in a much larger ecosystem of interactions between what are essentially family members, so seeing these interactions with no context will just seem odd. Many of these 'touchy-feely' moments are simply a form of rough-housing, minus the aggression. Such compilations wouldn't make much sense to watch when you barely know the group - not sure what the point of watching such videos might be for you. If you're not getting much value out of the experience, whether enjoyment, education, or something else, perhaps consider reacting to other material. Perhaps BTS isn't your cup of tea and you should feel free to leave that be.
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Korea culture skinship is very common practice between close friends and even family members