Slowly does it: an essential principle when healing trauma & the nervous system

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 25 ม.ค. 2025

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  • @carolafuertes
    @carolafuertes 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +17

    And you can replay Irene’s courses as many times as you want to. I could barely do the exercises at the beginning but every time I rejoin I can engage more and more. It’s so worth it!!

  • @sistaschin
    @sistaschin วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Love this reminder that we don't need a "perfect" set up, with candles, for example. I appreciate how practical the work is.

  • @valeriemistica5676
    @valeriemistica5676 19 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +2

    Thank you for this Irene! I’ve followed you for awhile now and started small with body awareness and earthing and the little things I can do throughout the day to bring myself back to my body- it’s helped more than anything I’ve done before. I can now recognize when I’ve overdone much faster and instead of beating myself up I give myself permission to take a break, to not know, to just rest. Then I begin again with the basics just a moment or a few at a time throughout my day.

  • @joannesandaker1781
    @joannesandaker1781 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    I like how you are giving inspiration, hope and support to people who are curious. The modern day medical world has us scared and feeling hopeless and helpless. I am an older alumni and see this works! This work is fantastic for anyone!

  • @karenlafrano34
    @karenlafrano34 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    What a great reminder! Permission & an invitation 💝
    Started SBSM in 2019 😳 6 years later and LOVING how this training & education has changed my life.
    Thank you Irene & Team Lyon! 💝✌️💫

  • @6jefferson
    @6jefferson วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I am in a place where I slow my thoughts down, even though my experience is on fire. This helps me to take small steps. 🙏

  • @ellenik7407
    @ellenik7407 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Thank you Irene! ❤ Even as small as feeling your butt on the surface of your seat is something everyone can do.
    Happy to say that I’ve been doing this. The capacity really does grow over time and then you even start to crave it.
    When I first practiced multitasking awareness I used to feel really sleepy because of low capacity. Now months later doing it once or a few times a week it’s like I feel my insides saying thank you. I used to practice it just with the audio but now I also practice it whenever I remember even with my activities during the day. Getting used to what it feels like in the body during your day as that’s essentially what we need it for.

  • @marthadaffue3430
    @marthadaffue3430 13 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you Irene!I needed this today.

  • @leaga8569
    @leaga8569 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    I would love your perspective on windows of tolerance

  • @carolyncarlson6410
    @carolyncarlson6410 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    How do I eat that elephant?
    One teeny chewy nibble at a time every time I see the opportunity-
    When it's too tough I've learned to tell myself it's ok to not have to take another bite till later, when I'll be more up for it
    Thank you for sharing your journey!
    It helps me find hope for mine!

  • @RachelTara1111
    @RachelTara1111 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Love this. Thank you

  • @sam.e16
    @sam.e16 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    When you're in so much discomfort, this drives me to cover as much as I can, and then I get overwhelmed and burnt out. I don't know how to approach it with patience. The desperation fuels this bad behaviour 😢

    • @A.J-t9l
      @A.J-t9l 9 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      Same here.i used to run myself down all the time. Very sick and desperate. If i can give you a couple of tips: orienting in the small daily tasks. Get away from Constant stimulation. I personally had to delete my social media (itwasnt enough to remove the apps). Now i just have a simple facebook (deleted the old profile), for practical purposes, that i barely visit. I also got an old fasion nokia that i use inmy daily life. I got my smartphone too. Its a little too much work to live without, especially i you have very low capacity. I use a dual simcard (i think its called), so its the same phobenumber on both phones. My smartphone is on, but i dont use it unlessit is for practical reasons. It has made a big difference in how capable i am to heal. I often wake up at night, wanting to fix things online. Now i know its my survivalreglexes, and i usually stop myself from getting up and get my phone or computer, bwcausei know that it might feel right rightthen, but it will only hurt me in the long run. If its that importent, the problem will still be there the next day, and i can get to it then. Im currenrly doing 21 day tune up, and now i have started to tolerate a lot more food.

  • @megm.c4026
    @megm.c4026 21 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    What is this letter that begins with T ???? Keh?

  • @tarakadir9259
    @tarakadir9259 วันที่ผ่านมา

    ❤️🙏🏻

  • @jennydrozd29
    @jennydrozd29 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Ok let it out a little out of time but how?

  • @RachelTara1111
    @RachelTara1111 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Titration

  • @outputformat
    @outputformat วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Why do you talk so slowly? It feels too deliberate and contrived. Sorry.

    • @erstwhile3793
      @erstwhile3793 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

      I suspect that a lot of what might seem a bit odd about how Irene talks when she’s presenting to people who may be holding a lot of trauma in their body, has to do with what she knows about how a simple thing like talking fast can trigger the nervous system in various ways. She doesn’t talk this way when she’s being interviewed, for example, though even then her voice does tend to be a bit lower and slower than a lot of peoples’ when they are aware of being observed. I would say it’s not so much “contrived” as it is intentional.
      As I’ve worked with her information over the last few years, I’ve become more aware in a very organic way, of “small” things like how peoples’ tonality and body posture resonate in my own system. Things I was oblivious to previously. I think that has to do with living from my survival system previously, and now beginning to have a bit more access to some regulation (what I like to think of as the “ok system”).

    • @holistic-therapist.
      @holistic-therapist. วันที่ผ่านมา +6

      I find her voice and how she talks very calming. When people talk fast, it makes my nervous system vibrate.. and gives me a headache 🙃

    • @ggsvlogs8278
      @ggsvlogs8278 22 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +2

      Many people with disrupted nervous systems talk fast, use unnecessary filler words and talk too much as a result of nervous energy that gets activated when speaking about something of interest or disinterest. The same happens when listening-People with ADHD interrupt people mid-sentence with answers, rather than stopping themselves and practicing the art of listening.

    • @outputformat
      @outputformat 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      @@ggsvlogs8278 i understand, but i still find it too slow and deliberate. it irks me. but i think it comes down to subjective preference and what suits you