I have a niece(they still use that) who came out as nonbinary. They lectured my mom, who genuinely struggles with neutral terms, about gendering me properly(I’m agender). My precious little knucklehead lectured their grandma about pronouns. My mom was so sorry for struggling so much, and I’m just like, “least you’re trying.” I love both of them so much!!
The boy I babysit has a bit of the same mindset, he said that "If people are not a boy or a girl then are they like animatronics from fnaf????" and I couldn't stop laughing for ten minutes
cis person: "call me toothbrush" everyone: "yeah sure no problem" trans person: "can you please use my preferred name" everyone: "its so difficult I've known you by this name your whole life"
I'm not even trans, I just changed my name because of trauma, and my family still refuses to call me my new name. Some try and some just flat out refuse. So I can only imagine how trans people changing their name feel and I'm so sorry anyone has to feel that
@@jooniperlynn I remember some guy saying "the disrespect you feel when your parents don't call you by your new name is the same disrespect they feel when you don't use the name they gave you at birth". If it's all right with you, could you please confirm whether this quote is true
@@Eric-gw1uo It depends. Yeah I felt disrespected by my mom and my best friend's mom when they flat out said to my face that they won't be using my new name. But at the same time, my mom also did do get best to avoid my old name by calling me the typical nicknames a mother might have for her daughter, until she started warming up to the name. And obviously I felt disrespected when my grandfather said my new name in the same venom he would say my old name. But my father's side of the family (minus the father that we don't talk to anymore) understands, they just struggle to remember. So it's not from a place of malicious intent or refusal, so I don't feel disrespected there. I can't exactly say what my mom felt besides anger and disappointment. I don't know for sure if she felt disrespected, I would assume so since she made a huge show of her being upset about it despite me admitting that I'm doing it for trauma reasons and a fresh start.
@@Eric-gw1uo Here's my take on that quote. I don't feel disrespected by my mom because she always calls me by my name. And she always calls me by my name because she doesn't feel disrespected that I have a new name. So (to me) the quote doesn't mean that either party should be or feel disrespected, but that the parent will disrespect you as much as they feel they are being disrespected.
"It's almost like they don't don't want you to be happy, they just want you to do what you want more quietly" This made me cry, I can't tell you how much you've helped me over the years as I've been figuring out who I am. Your videos have always made me so happy. Thank you OT
For anyone wondering about 13:16, the trans flag is on that truck in Cyberpunk 2077 as part of the base game (no mods, no DLC) and it belongs to a trans woman. She has her own questline and while it doesn't revolve around her being trans, her transition IS explicitly mentioned during it. The game has its problems, but representation isn't one of them.
i just recently came out to my dad as trans! he was supportive but he also worried about me since we live in the south with extra homophobia. he also made a dad joke about it after. edit: on an unrelated note my friend actually made a joke pride flag based off of the 'buttered sweet corn' post
Trans guy here. And I know *exactly* how manly I am. I am willing with my scruff beard and baritone voice to get into a public discussion of which season of Bridgerton was better. Do you know how confident of your masculinity you have to be to have a publicly shared opinion on Bridgerton? Very f-ing confident.
Anyone who looks at trans men and looks at me (AMAB enby) and says that under any reasonable standard I'm a "man" and trans men aren't...really has issues.
Fun Fact:In the German Language there are the words „Bub”and „Bubi”(pronounced Boob and Boobie).It is a nickname for a (Toddler)boy.Imagine moms saying something around the Words „Yes my little Bubi has the flu…not so good,but my other bub will be at School😊”
Kids are so ready to accept whatever you tell them and sometimes the conclusions they draw are so funny. I explained to my 5 year old about a friend who he met per-transition and would look different now and have a new name and to use "he" not "she". My kiddo nods all serious like and goes "A wizard must have changed him" then just walked off.
I just came out to a close friend of mine as trans. They're the first person I came out to. It's a good feeling, now to somehow do that with the rest of the world...
Hey OT!! I know you probably won't see this comment, but recently I've become so much more confident in myself because of you. I'm more comfortable in my LGBT identity, and my mom has even started to use my preferred pronouns. So thank you for being here for me along my journey! I hope you're doing well, have a lovely day :)
Congrats on getting your mom on board. Just a thought for you. Are they your "preferred" pronouns or are they just your pronouns? There isn't a valid second option in my opinion, just the ones you've told people to use. Anything else is wrong.
@@CorwinFound that's true!! the thing is for me right now I call them preferred because I'm not entirely sure if they're my actual pronouns yet :) I'm still working things out and trying new things!
@@confusednb8053 Fair enough then! Good luck on sorting that out. And if they change... lots of things in life change. I tried out they/them for a while but settled on he/him.
I'm an older trans guy (age 50, 4 years on T), so I really appreciate your support of the trans community. 🥰 Fortuitous that you posted this today, too. I'm a published author and am open about being trans, and today found an Amazon review deliberately left on the novella I wrote that features a trans character. The reviewer gave it 2-stars and deliberately misgendered me several times, while making it pretty obvious they didn't actually read the book. So, thanks for restoring some of my faith in humanity!
People like that are just unhappy with themselves and have too much time on their hands, so they are jerks to other people, you don't deserve that, just continue being awesome and doing your own thing and giving us more trans content to enjoy.
This subreddit is amazing. You are amazing. Trans people are amazing. The world is amazing. The fact that any of us exist is a miracle, so we need to be kind, because we don't exist for long.
A pal of mine always has a move for when someone tries to intimidate them with the “prove you’re a real man by what’s in your pants” move, and to me it makes them an absolute legend. They’re a baby face like me, floofy hair and freckles, and they’re hella short, shorter than me (probably around 4’10?). Whenever a guy tries to get on their case, they get a real stern look, pout, and says “My mommy warned me about stranger danger, I will go get her if you don’t stop.” Or “If you don’t leave me alone, I’m gonna get my daddy.” Basically, the most juvenile and childish sounding lines, with a loud and high pitched voice. It always works, and to me they’re an absolute legend for that. (And they said it was ok for me to tell this story, cause they think it’s funny)
Sometimes I wonder if I'm really pangender or if I'm lying to myself and I'm just a girl... Then I carry 5 grocery bags into the house at once and I realize I'm more man than I think
As a genderqueer person myself I totally understand what you mean. I’ll go weeks and weeks just feeling like a “girl” but then something will change. Like a switch is flicked in my brain and I’m a boy. Recently I remembered how teachers used to ask strong boys to help put away chairs in the classroom. As a kid I would always grab at least two chairs and try to ack like it was no big deal to carry both of them (I was very weak) I would do this because it would make me happy and I finally realized that I was just giving myself gender euphoria as a kid because I was “one of the strong boys”. Sorry for the long rant I just thought it was relevant to what you said!
@@itsyourboi3266 This and the comment this is replying to are the most wholesome comments I have read all day. I do hope you both and whoever else is reading this to have a good day.
Let's be HONEST here: the only people who get demonetized this much are creators who make content about LGBTQ+ topics and anything related to minorities and social injustice. *CORPORATE OFFICE IS THE PROBLEM.* Systemic bigotry is at it again.
The way youtube protected QuantumTV during Pride month said everything I need to know about youtube's leadership. They are openly hostile towards the LGBTQ+ community at this point.
My girlfriend's sibling came out to tell me the archaeologist joke earlier today and I was so happy. When they came out of their room and said "I just found the best trans joke" I was lowkey terrified, but then they told me the joke and I laughed SO DAMN HARD! That kid is a gem.
13:17 As much of a disaster Cyberpunk was on launch, I absolutely love the characters. Claire, the trans character i think is really cool because, not only does she have her own set of side quests where you do illegal street races, its not in your face that shes trans. Like if you read her character bio or continue with her story when she straight up tells you then you'll obviously know, but it feels like she's a realistic person who doesn't explicitly tell you about her past until you spend more time with her. It doesn't feel like she's trans just so the devs could be like "welp we gave you a trans character, buy our game!"
She HAS got the trans flag on her truck. That and referencing meeting her late husband before she transitioned are the only things I spotted in my playthrough though
I was rockin that truck for while, until I saved enough money to buy the car that has the name "Cthulhu" or somethin similar to that. Still bring the truck out on occasion though
To my brothers, sisters, and siblings who need to hear it: You are valid. There are people who understand what you are going through. There are people that care about your well-being. We're here if you need to talk. You deserve support from the people in your life. You deserve to be happy. Much love, and stay safe 🏳️⚧️
So, i am not trans, but my best friend is, and i hate seeing him get misgendered by people who know he is a trans man, im ready to start misgendering them and not correcting it when they say "I AM A BOY!!" or "I AM A GIRL", or when they say that just say "and he is a boy" fight the transphobes with their lack of knowledge!!! "in so many years when people dig up your bones they will say you are a girl" "in so many years when people dig up your bones they will say you were a phucking loser" "but it's not natural" "so what?? he can be super natural, and thats even better"
13:38 Loki is actually Gender Fluid, it was confirmed in the Disney+ show "Loki" in the credits on Loki's file it says Fluid for gender and their also Bi because when Silvie asked her if he wanted a prince or princess they said "A little bit of both" implying that he's bi.
Also, for any butthurt purist, loki in the mythos is quite the:welp i'm a girl now, while doing different tricks, even got pregnant from a horse once while being a mare
@@laepal8620 indeed he was the mother of selphnir Odins horse and the father of world serpent and hel the goddess of death Loki is completely queer in gender and sexuality in the original lore
move to finland, we only use genderneutral pronouns here! everyone is 'hän", there is no she or he here. in the spoken language everyone uses 'se' which literally translates to 'it' lol also u never get called ma'am or sir or anything here, atleast its suuuper rare. the last time i've got called anything like that was when i was 7 and a cashier called me 'little lady'
can we just appreciate all the memes this person provides us with every day? even if they aren't involved with LGBTQ+, they bring a smile to everyones faces, ily this video
I mean, even if OT isn't LGBTQ+ (as far as we know? he seems to use a LOT of purple, pink and blue lighting.... >.>) he is definitely involved as an ally. He's said many times that most of his friends and loved ones are LGBTQ+ in one way or another.
Hey just putting this out there for anyone struggling with dysphoria here are a couple starting points; GC2B, Trans Tape, Trans Guy Supply are great resources for AFAB they have everything from packers to binding options. Trans Tape can also be used with AMAB people to pull up breast tissue and make it look like you have a bit of a chest. TomboyX has packing underwear for AFAB folk and have tucking underwear for AMAB folk. Have a good day guys :)
Hey! GC2B has *severely* declined in quality, the binders they make nowadays fall apart really easily and have terrible fabric, and can even be *dangerous* to bind with. I've heard good things about underworks binders, so try those instead!
I was at a convention for people with albinism or hypopigmentation about a week ago and I ran into this lady with ambinism with her girlfriend and that alone was amazing but I realized that that one lady was dressed in a dress made from various pride flags as stripes but before I went to compliment her on it.... I realized.... IT ALSO HAD POCKETS!!!!! I was and still am jealous but I know I wouldn't be able to pull it off nearly as well. I complimented her and pointed out the pockets and it was less than a minute interaction but we were 100% on the same page about pockets being amazing.
I recently came out as trans to my mom, and I used one of your vids to help explain it to her! She's really trying with my pronouns, and corrects my brothers when they call me her. It's really nice to feel supported. Thank you for helping me feel supported enough to come out! The community is really nice :)
I love when there is an ad right after he worries about being demonetized. It makes it feel like something to celebrate instead of an annoying interruption. You get your money king!!! 👑👑👑
These really help after long days of having to deal with transphobes and that -kind- of people. Thanks you, OT. Keep it up homie, you do a nice service for us all 🧡
TW Hey OT, I've been going through a really rough time lately. My eating disorder just seems to be getting worse and despite my best efforts I always seem to yearn to go back to self harm. Sadly I always end up going back. Your channel helps me and it especially helps me understand that even though I am a trans guy I can still enjoy some things that are stereotypically feminine. I am still on the path to recovery and your channel helps me and I am so grateful for you and your smile which helps me throughout the day.
I am sending you all the love and hugs I have to give and hope that your brain starts being nicer to you soon💜💜 Ignore the hugs if you don't feel comfortable..., and the love too if necessary, just get better 💜💜
the "wow just like snails" meme reminds me so much of when my little cousins (i think they were six at the time) asked about my (currently ex) partner who's NB, and their dad basically said the same thing, and their response was instead "like a wolf? are you in love with a wolf?" and it was very funny
The mental image of OT just calmly explaining to a little girl that we're not all kinda like snails and then just screaming "BECAUSE EVERY SNAIL CAN AFFORD HOUSES." Is so god damn funny to me. 💀🤣
got hit with some dysphoria today after getting misgendered by a couple customers at work (im a trans guy and i got called ma'am twice today 😭) but this video helped me feel better! thank u OT 💜💜💜
@@Plixiii thank you! i really appreciate that ;-; it can be really hard sometimes because im pre T and pre-op and it often feels like no matter how hard i try to pass, people will still see me as my birth gender and it's really frustrating, so it helps a lot to hear that from you 💜
0:45 wait, we share a Netflix account now? 😨 I'm so sorry if someone (for some reson) was watching Ninjago, I watched the whole series and now you'll have to remember on what chapter you were 😔
Hi, OT, I struggle a lot with dysphoria and low self worth due to a lot of transphobia, homophobia, and depression, but your videos never fail to brighten my day! Thank you so much for bringing sunshine into a dark world!
7:56 So true. There were several dude bros at by high school who went my street names they gave themselves or their middle names. Those same dudes would openly disrespect my new name and would dead name me in front of the entire class in an attempt to get me flustered. They didn't have a problem with new names or nick names or chosen names. They just didn't respect me cuz I was different. Funnily enough one of those guys referred to me using they/them pronouns once.
It would be nice for him to try non-queer subreddits. I do enjoy queer stuff a lot and I love the community you have but I want to see him react to much more now that he is far more versed in the risqué and general memes
My grandma (basically the only reasonable and entirely safe person in my family to be around besides my dad and rarely a few other distant relatives) keeps suggesting that I'm only transmasc because I come from a very abusive and traumatic household. This video helped a lot, I'm doing good despite everything she said, but now I'm doing better.
for those who want to know, the anime at 8:55 is 'When I woke up I became a bagel girl" and it's actually not trans phobic. I had a lot of fun watching it
The secret early unlisted upload lol Also OneTopic if you see this please cover some polyamory memes and Autism memes!!! As a trans girl I love your videos keep up being awesome
not poly or autistic (or at least haven't been diagnosed but we're gonna ignore that for now) but id love to see poly, autism, and other neurodivergencies covered too
as a cis lesbian girl who has an archaeologist on their list of possible career choices, i can confirm that when I dig up your remains i will go “omga!!! is that sans undertale”
Realized I'm trans recently and I'm so scared to come out because my family is transphobic. It's so nice to see lighthearted, funny trans things, sometimes it feels like it's all really hard... Thanks for making these OT
My mam recently came out as trans (mtf) and she always wanted a pink skirt when she was a kid, so I got her one for Christmas :) I’m so excited to see her reaction!
I haven't came out to any of my family members (other than my brother) about me being pangender, and when I came out to my brother, he said: "Did you just rob those genders from other people then?" SIBLINGS ARE THE BEST SOMETIMES LMAO 💀
my mom: i’m accepting of trans people! your uncle’s trans and i show him basic human decency and a little bit respect... me*a closeted trans dude*: oh cool! i’m actually- my mom: however, i think he’s just not feeling good enough as a woman since he’s gay. i don’t think he’d want to be a man if he got accepted by your grandparents. me: *shoves self so far into the closet that i end up finding my halloween costume that i forgot about last year*
Yeahhhhhh there's a similar reason I didn't come out to my mom until I was basically ready to move out of her house. She tries to be "accepting" and a "good ally" but there's just... some things that are easier to deal with when I have more distance and less dependence on her.
Hi OT! I just wanted to say thank you for doing this. I recently came out to my brother as trans and have been having a tough time coming out to the rest of my family. Your videos are a wonderful distraction for what's been going on, and on behalf of all of my beautiful trans siblings, thank you! love ya king. 💛
16:25 I know that joy. I have TONS of dysphoria with my voice, it sounds like CRAP to me even though no one notices anything when I speak. I pass as female even when I talk, but the dysphoria... so destructive at times... I went online to a voice recognition website thing and it would try to guess what my gender is and the results were "90% female, 8% other, 2 percent male". I felt so relieved and happy.
seeing your videos really helped me realise that I wasn’t faking being trans so I thank you for it especially since 2 weeks ago I came out to my whole family as trans
I was feeling so dysphoric all day but I got a haircut and then I got your video notification and now I’m SO HAPPY!! Thank you so much OT, you’re amazing. I’ve said this before but you really do save lives.
The expression on your face when you realized what the hot dog on the beans stood for... So freaking cute. I love watching your videos on a bad day. They're always so full of laughter it's like opening a jar of sunshine
It makes me so supremely happy that you sounded out the onomatopoiea at 12:59, though thats probably just me being biased by my Japanese ancestry and the fact that I'm learning the language. On that note though, that one would have technically read as "kyu-ru-ru-ru-ru...", but you were so close anyway, so I'm super stoked.
…Well, this video almost couldn’t have come out at a better time. I just got back from a get together with my mom and her friends and the topic of non-binary folks somehow (albeit briefly) came up twice in one evening. Turns out all three of them don’t like “they/thems” very much at all and dismiss the whole idea of it. I just stayed quiet-not entirely sure if I’m non-binary or not, but I have toyed with the concept recently. Needless to say I could use a laugh right about now! 😅
I really love this video. It gave me a nice break from all the transphobia/homophobia everywhere. You are an amazing person. Thank you for making my life a little better :)
My boyfriend was watching this last night while we were in a call, he was just quoting the memes at me as he watched. He does it a lot, and I absolutely love it.
13:09 before I came out I got some helpful but incredibly unwelcome advice from several subreddits, some "how to come out" websites, my partner, a trans friend, my therapist, etc: "if you want people to use your right name and pronouns you're going to have to tell them."
i have such a big announcement to make SOON but not today so until then sub to the second channel
😏👉👈
OH MY GOSH IVE NEVER BEEN FIRST (might not be at this point)
@@Kai_The_Kai Seem to still be
Spill the beans next topic👀
Wow I'm really early!!!
I already am subscribed to it
I have a niece(they still use that) who came out as nonbinary. They lectured my mom, who genuinely struggles with neutral terms, about gendering me properly(I’m agender). My precious little knucklehead lectured their grandma about pronouns. My mom was so sorry for struggling so much, and I’m just like, “least you’re trying.” I love both of them so much!!
kids are great! and i’m glad people are taking it well, it makes me so happy to hear that people keep trying even if it’s difficult
Wholesome 🥺🥺
Be ashamed of who you are.
AWWWWW
@@somebodyelse5820 You be ashamed of who you are.
Trans women are such badasses, like imagine walking up to the lord God himself and saying, "Excuse me, I asked for no pickle"
Then the trans men-
"I asked for pickle ;-;"
i wanted pickle :(
"and no peaches on the side"
@@fennikko27 Still waiting on my pickle... :(
I asked for;
No eggs
No peaches
No transphobia
It can be hard to find trans memes without little pockets of transphobia showing, these videos make it so much easier to enjoy them.
Memes!
@@Ambipie Also, be nice
@@sushih3302 lol
@@sushih3302 NO! I'm busy taking over Finland, Denmark, and France. /j
There are much better uses for pockets!
The boy I babysit has a bit of the same mindset, he said that "If people are not a boy or a girl then are they like animatronics from fnaf????" and I couldn't stop laughing for ten minutes
Mangle from fnaf is the best lgbt representation 🤌 (Mangle's gender is cannonly "yes")
"Prove you're a REAL man!"
"That's gay!"
"You're goddamn right!"
The true ending.
"so? That's the reason I asked"
**BReaking BAd theme intensifies**
Well, being transgender is kinda like a search engine. You just find yourself
Underrated comment
@@uhltra4905 definitely.
ngl
now that i think about it,
that post has r/accidentalally energy and its cool
im not actually trans either
i have no internet my search aint loading
The last time I was this early, the doctor said “it’s a girl.”
Documentary narrator voice: “it wasn’t a girl.” 🏳️⚧️
LMAO. it's been a year and i just saw this comment so I also wanted to say I hope you're living a good life 👋👋
cis person: "call me toothbrush" everyone: "yeah sure no problem"
trans person: "can you please use my preferred name" everyone: "its so difficult I've known you by this name your whole life"
I'm not even trans, I just changed my name because of trauma, and my family still refuses to call me my new name. Some try and some just flat out refuse. So I can only imagine how trans people changing their name feel and I'm so sorry anyone has to feel that
@@jooniperlynn I remember some guy saying "the disrespect you feel when your parents don't call you by your new name is the same disrespect they feel when you don't use the name they gave you at birth". If it's all right with you, could you please confirm whether this quote is true
@@Eric-gw1uo It depends. Yeah I felt disrespected by my mom and my best friend's mom when they flat out said to my face that they won't be using my new name. But at the same time, my mom also did do get best to avoid my old name by calling me the typical nicknames a mother might have for her daughter, until she started warming up to the name. And obviously I felt disrespected when my grandfather said my new name in the same venom he would say my old name. But my father's side of the family (minus the father that we don't talk to anymore) understands, they just struggle to remember. So it's not from a place of malicious intent or refusal, so I don't feel disrespected there.
I can't exactly say what my mom felt besides anger and disappointment. I don't know for sure if she felt disrespected, I would assume so since she made a huge show of her being upset about it despite me admitting that I'm doing it for trauma reasons and a fresh start.
@@Eric-gw1uo Here's my take on that quote. I don't feel disrespected by my mom because she always calls me by my name. And she always calls me by my name because she doesn't feel disrespected that I have a new name. So (to me) the quote doesn't mean that either party should be or feel disrespected, but that the parent will disrespect you as much as they feel they are being disrespected.
@@nyandoesthings thanks
I get so much joy every time OT doesn't get the joke immediately, pauses, stares and then realisation dawns. It's my serotonin.
Beans!
Im actually so confused myself, please someone explain-
@EmberTheFolf the meme in the vid had beans in the meme to represent a guy’s… you know
"It's almost like they don't don't want you to be happy, they just want you to do what you want more quietly"
This made me cry, I can't tell you how much you've helped me over the years as I've been figuring out who I am. Your videos have always made me so happy. Thank you OT
For anyone wondering about 13:16, the trans flag is on that truck in Cyberpunk 2077 as part of the base game (no mods, no DLC) and it belongs to a trans woman. She has her own questline and while it doesn't revolve around her being trans, her transition IS explicitly mentioned during it.
The game has its problems, but representation isn't one of them.
noice, is it maybe put in from a trans developer? That would be awesome
@@Mondkreischer Honestly, idk- I haven't really looked into the writing for Cyberpunk 2077. I wouldn't be surprised if that was the case, though.
@Retlas woop woop woop!!
I'm just commenting because there are two separate people with ace flag pfps. What's up fellow garlic bread connoiseurs
@@lifeontheledgerlines8394 Nothing special, just acin' around..have a nice day :D
i just recently came out to my dad as trans! he was supportive but he also worried about me since we live in the south with extra homophobia. he also made a dad joke about it after.
edit: on an unrelated note my friend actually made a joke pride flag based off of the 'buttered sweet corn' post
Im glad he's trans-parent with you about his support!
@@shigushigu741 Dang, beat me to it.
@@shigushigu741 beat me to it
@@shigushigu741 why
Im trans in the south too its scary
Trans guy here. And I know *exactly* how manly I am. I am willing with my scruff beard and baritone voice to get into a public discussion of which season of Bridgerton was better. Do you know how confident of your masculinity you have to be to have a publicly shared opinion on Bridgerton? Very f-ing confident.
You wanna prove your manliness? Blast a My Little Pony song out in public. Let's see how confidently manly people are then.
Anyone who looks at trans men and looks at me (AMAB enby) and says that under any reasonable standard I'm a "man" and trans men aren't...really has issues.
Or, in the case of transfemmes without passing privilege, like myself, confident in its absence 😜
And there I am a trans femboy: 👁👄👁
You are my transition goals ='(
Fun Fact:In the German Language there are the words „Bub”and „Bubi”(pronounced Boob and Boobie).It is a nickname for a (Toddler)boy.Imagine moms saying something around the Words „Yes my little Bubi has the flu…not so good,but my other bub will be at School😊”
As a German, I know exactly what you mean. Never thought about reading it as "boobie" though, so that's funny.
I was playing a game and some transphobic is attacking some trans guy, AND THE WHOLE SERVER JUST STARTED GOING AFTER HIM, LIKE it was amazing
Kids are so ready to accept whatever you tell them and sometimes the conclusions they draw are so funny. I explained to my 5 year old about a friend who he met per-transition and would look different now and have a new name and to use "he" not "she". My kiddo nods all serious like and goes "A wizard must have changed him" then just walked off.
Powerful transgender wizard. With transgendering powers!
it may as well be magic potions based on the before and after pics ive seen
Reminds me of how in stardew valley, the wizard can change your gender
@@AxolotlsAreAxolotls i made a joke about how that was peak trans healthcare literally 20 minutes ago
@@Hells_black_catI read that in OTs voice. Lol.
Was gonna say "not EVERY snail can afford a house" but then I remembered that you call them slugs and not "naked snails"
The pitfalls of being german on the internet
Well- time to start calling slugs "naked snails" to confuse everyone around me
....they're actually called naked snails in dutch
@@mani-qj3np Also in German (Nackt-schnecken = naakt-slak)
No no they’re naked slugs now
I just came out to a close friend of mine as trans. They're the first person I came out to. It's a good feeling, now to somehow do that with the rest of the world...
I hope it goes well!
the rest of the world can go screw itself, you deserve all the love in the world for your identity friend.
Only do it when your ready and feel safe
Proud of you! No rush. We’re all rooting for you.
I'm very proud of you and I hope that it all goes well in the future 💜
That "I don't remember there name" joke is so on point, this literally happened to me his name is Daniel now
One year ago, now over 1 million of us are sharing a password on Netflix XD We've done it!
Been dealing with a bit of internalized trans related negativity lately but this vid made me really happy :))) thanks! 💝💝💝💝
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Mood, just about non binary related stuff
Always happens to me, take care❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Hey, you there, being trans is cool as heck and makes you stronger than literally entire societies.
I just ruined the perfect 666 on this comment and it deserves every like
Hey OT!! I know you probably won't see this comment, but recently I've become so much more confident in myself because of you. I'm more comfortable in my LGBT identity, and my mom has even started to use my preferred pronouns. So thank you for being here for me along my journey! I hope you're doing well, have a lovely day :)
Congrats on getting your mom on board. Just a thought for you. Are they your "preferred" pronouns or are they just your pronouns? There isn't a valid second option in my opinion, just the ones you've told people to use. Anything else is wrong.
@@CorwinFound that's true!! the thing is for me right now I call them preferred because I'm not entirely sure if they're my actual pronouns yet :) I'm still working things out and trying new things!
I'm glad! I've recently been getting more confident as well, let's both stick to it!
@@SackOfRats 💪💪
@@confusednb8053 Fair enough then! Good luck on sorting that out. And if they change... lots of things in life change. I tried out they/them for a while but settled on he/him.
I'm an older trans guy (age 50, 4 years on T), so I really appreciate your support of the trans community. 🥰 Fortuitous that you posted this today, too. I'm a published author and am open about being trans, and today found an Amazon review deliberately left on the novella I wrote that features a trans character. The reviewer gave it 2-stars and deliberately misgendered me several times, while making it pretty obvious they didn't actually read the book. So, thanks for restoring some of my faith in humanity!
Hey, I'm super happy for ya, and don't let disrespectful people have any impact on your life!! Humanity is much more than them!! =)
People like that are just unhappy with themselves and have too much time on their hands, so they are jerks to other people, you don't deserve that, just continue being awesome and doing your own thing and giving us more trans content to enjoy.
@@bluester7177 Thanks, and that's the plan!! ☺
Ooo
Kleine Gans means little goose in German
Can you speak German by any chance
Wenn ja dann ist es richtig cool!
:D
@@Dazai.Simp. Ja, Deutsch war meine erste Sprache, aber ich bin in den USA geboren. Meine Mutter und ihre Familie kamen aus Frankfurt am Main. ❤
This subreddit is amazing. You are amazing. Trans people are amazing. The world is amazing. The fact that any of us exist is a miracle, so we need to be kind, because we don't exist for long.
This comment is way too underrated
@@mahlioz Aww! Thank you! ^U^
A pal of mine always has a move for when someone tries to intimidate them with the “prove you’re a real man by what’s in your pants” move, and to me it makes them an absolute legend. They’re a baby face like me, floofy hair and freckles, and they’re hella short, shorter than me (probably around 4’10?). Whenever a guy tries to get on their case, they get a real stern look, pout, and says “My mommy warned me about stranger danger, I will go get her if you don’t stop.” Or “If you don’t leave me alone, I’m gonna get my daddy.” Basically, the most juvenile and childish sounding lines, with a loud and high pitched voice. It always works, and to me they’re an absolute legend for that.
(And they said it was ok for me to tell this story, cause they think it’s funny)
Sometimes I wonder if I'm really pangender or if I'm lying to myself and I'm just a girl... Then I carry 5 grocery bags into the house at once and I realize I'm more man than I think
That's so whoelsome
As a genderqueer person myself I totally understand what you mean. I’ll go weeks and weeks just feeling like a “girl” but then something will change. Like a switch is flicked in my brain and I’m a boy. Recently I remembered how teachers used to ask strong boys to help put away chairs in the classroom. As a kid I would always grab at least two chairs and try to ack like it was no big deal to carry both of them (I was very weak) I would do this because it would make me happy and I finally realized that I was just giving myself gender euphoria as a kid because I was “one of the strong boys”. Sorry for the long rant I just thought it was relevant to what you said!
@@itsyourboi3266 This and the comment this is replying to are the most wholesome comments I have read all day.
I do hope you both and whoever else is reading this to have a good day.
AYY ANOTHER PANGENDER PERSON!! And no you aren't lying to yourself, you're pangender, you're you!! :)
SLAYYYY POP OFF LEGACY
as someone who recently came to peace with being transgender, binging your trans meme videos has really made me laugh and love myself more
It's so nice to have a wholesome ally. I love trans creators but sometimes just seeing a cishet guy being a queer cheerleader is super heartwarming.
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@@somebodyelse5820 Stfu and stop the hate comments
wishing you the best! it took me ages to come to terms with my gender as well, and I'm proud of you :)
@@somebodyelse5820 That IQ score of yours is nothing to brag about.
Let's be HONEST here: the only people who get demonetized this much are creators who make content about LGBTQ+ topics and anything related to minorities and social injustice.
*CORPORATE OFFICE IS THE PROBLEM.* Systemic bigotry is at it again.
The way youtube protected QuantumTV during Pride month said everything I need to know about youtube's leadership. They are openly hostile towards the LGBTQ+ community at this point.
Thats not actually true in this case, TH-cam has been notoriously shit about this for a while, they just don't care about creators at all
So it’s more like “we live in a society” and TH-cam refuses to curate a better one because of profits.
Homophobia at its finest, I see.
So……revolution or naw, we can bomb the ratings till they listen. I’M JUST SAYING!
12:47 I just got my Blahaj a few days ago and I'm so freaking happy- Blahaj proteccs the trans kids
I am officially gendering myself as mischief, and no one can stop me!
Tomfoolery, if you will
Mild chaos, perhaps.
change your name to Loki & I will do something cool (I haven't decided what yet)
Pop off, Loki
as am i
My girlfriend's sibling came out to tell me the archaeologist joke earlier today and I was so happy.
When they came out of their room and said "I just found the best trans joke" I was lowkey terrified, but then they told me the joke and I laughed SO DAMN HARD!
That kid is a gem.
13:17 As much of a disaster Cyberpunk was on launch, I absolutely love the characters. Claire, the trans character i think is really cool because, not only does she have her own set of side quests where you do illegal street races, its not in your face that shes trans. Like if you read her character bio or continue with her story when she straight up tells you then you'll obviously know, but it feels like she's a realistic person who doesn't explicitly tell you about her past until you spend more time with her.
It doesn't feel like she's trans just so the devs could be like "welp we gave you a trans character, buy our game!"
She HAS got the trans flag on her truck. That and referencing meeting her late husband before she transitioned are the only things I spotted in my playthrough though
I was rockin that truck for while, until I saved enough money to buy the car that has the name "Cthulhu" or somethin similar to that. Still bring the truck out on occasion though
To my brothers, sisters, and siblings who need to hear it:
You are valid. There are people who understand what you are going through. There are people that care about your well-being. We're here if you need to talk. You deserve support from the people in your life. You deserve to be happy.
Much love, and stay safe 🏳️⚧️
To all siblings: insert same message
Thank you for this ,it really helps me get through my day .
thank you, this is kindof dumb but i'm tearing up at this...
Thank You for that I have to repeatedly tell myself that every entity/ person isn’t that bad
@@something_strange3086same
So, i am not trans, but my best friend is, and i hate seeing him get misgendered by people who know he is a trans man, im ready to start misgendering them and not correcting it when they say "I AM A BOY!!" or "I AM A GIRL", or when they say that just say "and he is a boy"
fight the transphobes with their lack of knowledge!!!
"in so many years when people dig up your bones they will say you are a girl"
"in so many years when people dig up your bones they will say you were a phucking loser"
"but it's not natural"
"so what?? he can be super natural, and thats even better"
15:32 that cheerleading story made me soooo happy, and also/ where are those damn ninja’s and their onions!?
13:38 Loki is actually Gender Fluid, it was confirmed in the Disney+ show "Loki" in the credits on Loki's file it says Fluid for gender and their also Bi because when Silvie asked her if he wanted a prince or princess they said "A little bit of both" implying that he's bi.
Also, for any butthurt purist, loki in the mythos is quite the:welp i'm a girl now, while doing different tricks, even got pregnant from a horse once while being a mare
@@laepal8620 indeed he was the mother of selphnir Odins horse and the father of world serpent and hel the goddess of death Loki is completely queer in gender and sexuality in the original lore
@@jessica6d946 indeed he was the mother
Loki also in a myth shapeshifts into being one of Thor’s handmaiden and in the original translation, Loki’s pronouns changed while shapeshifted
WOAH THERE I FORGOR THIS HONESTLY THIS IS AMAZING INFO TO GET REMINDED OF
Joke time: what weapon is lgbt+?
The bow and aro
as an aro person this is legendary
And if they’re good at it, I guess you can say they’re an *ace* at it.
@@Malicious_Spectrumas an aroace I can confirm I am useful for keeping rival kingdoms at bay /j
I'm nonbinary and I consider it a good day when no one calls me "Ma'am". My hatred for that word knows no bounds.
Mood!!! Mine is when people call me sis. I'm like ew. Just say excuse me
I'm a trans woman and even I hate "Ma'am" it makes me feel so old.
See, what I consider a "good day" is when two people argue over whether I'm a "Ma'am" or a "Sir". Especially when I'm wearing my cat-hoodie. :P
What's the NB for sir or ma'am?
move to finland, we only use genderneutral pronouns here! everyone is 'hän", there is no she or he here. in the spoken language everyone uses 'se' which literally translates to 'it' lol
also u never get called ma'am or sir or anything here, atleast its suuuper rare. the last time i've got called anything like that was when i was 7 and a cashier called me 'little lady'
15:37
I started crying
I want friends like this
13:25 this clip with the image of Valkyrie, Thor, and Loki was golden
can we just appreciate all the memes this person provides us with every day? even if they aren't involved with LGBTQ+, they bring a smile to everyones faces, ily this video
I mean, even if OT isn't LGBTQ+ (as far as we know? he seems to use a LOT of purple, pink and blue lighting.... >.>) he is definitely involved as an ally. He's said many times that most of his friends and loved ones are LGBTQ+ in one way or another.
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no hes annoying
@@shrekrab then stop watching
@@passionate_possum_pal lol i did. stop crying
5:05 this man is so polite he doesn’t even swear, HE CENSORS THE SWEARS HE DOESNT SAY
Hey just putting this out there for anyone struggling with dysphoria here are a couple starting points; GC2B, Trans Tape, Trans Guy Supply are great resources for AFAB they have everything from packers to binding options. Trans Tape can also be used with AMAB people to pull up breast tissue and make it look like you have a bit of a chest. TomboyX has packing underwear for AFAB folk and have tucking underwear for AMAB folk. Have a good day guys :)
oh my GOD thank you
Hey! GC2B has *severely* declined in quality, the binders they make nowadays fall apart really easily and have terrible fabric, and can even be *dangerous* to bind with. I've heard good things about underworks binders, so try those instead!
OT is so amazing, anytime I’m having mental breakdowns or just extreme dysphoria I watch these and INSTANTLY feel better❤
These memes are genuinely helping me come to terms with myself a little bit! Keep up the good work OneTopic!
I was at a convention for people with albinism or hypopigmentation about a week ago and I ran into this lady with ambinism with her girlfriend and that alone was amazing but I realized that that one lady was dressed in a dress made from various pride flags as stripes but before I went to compliment her on it.... I realized.... IT ALSO HAD POCKETS!!!!! I was and still am jealous but I know I wouldn't be able to pull it off nearly as well. I complimented her and pointed out the pockets and it was less than a minute interaction but we were 100% on the same page about pockets being amazing.
omg Columbo knew so much 😳
omg human1 fancy seeing you here i believe you’re publishing another video soon and that everyone should sub to you 💜
human1!!! i love your videos!!
@@OneTopic2 ahhh next topic.. we meet again 😳
HUMAN1 :DD
So true!!!
I recently came out as trans to my mom, and I used one of your vids to help explain it to her! She's really trying with my pronouns, and corrects my brothers when they call me her. It's really nice to feel supported. Thank you for helping me feel supported enough to come out! The community is really nice :)
I dunno why I’m announcing this but I found a comfy pair of shorts today :D *happy transmasc noises*
I love when there is an ad right after he worries about being demonetized. It makes it feel like something to celebrate instead of an annoying interruption. You get your money king!!! 👑👑👑
The new intro sounds, to me, like he's shouting a cross between, "MEEEE!", and, "Bees!"
"What's in your pants? "
"Bees"
"What?"
*a swarm of bees flies out of their pants*
This was the fist thing I thought of when I saw your comment
@@andistansbury4366 😆😆😆
Memes
@@billiisnotcool Uh, yeeeessss… I _know_ that he's really saying, "Memes!" But my original post is making a joke.
r/whoosh
The most wholesome youtuber ever!
This message is brought to you by an asexual who 100% approves of the messages brought to you by this channel.
This message is seconded by a non-binary who also 100% approves of the messages brought to you by this channel.
This message is thirded on the behalf of the closeted gays. (including me).
@@Plixiii This message is fourthed on behalf of the aromantics who also 100% approves of the messages brought to you by this channel
This message is fifthed by a genderfluid who 100% approves of the messages brought to you by this channel.
These really help after long days of having to deal with transphobes and that -kind- of people.
Thanks you, OT.
Keep it up homie, you do a nice service for us all 🧡
If they can’t accept you then it only proves they aren’t good enough for you.
' she's a 10' and a burger king ad starts playing with like heroic music and stuff lol
i'm cis but I love watching these. I gives me joy.
cis here, this also brings me joy
I would have agreed with this a month ago but i don’t even know anymore 😅
@@Clawpelt I relate to you a whole lot
Same.
Same
TW
Hey OT, I've been going through a really rough time lately. My eating disorder just seems to be getting worse and despite my best efforts I always seem to yearn to go back to self harm. Sadly I always end up going back. Your channel helps me and it especially helps me understand that even though I am a trans guy I can still enjoy some things that are stereotypically feminine. I am still on the path to recovery and your channel helps me and I am so grateful for you and your smile which helps me throughout the day.
hope it gets better for you 💜
I am sending you good vibes and I hope things get better for you 🥰
I am sending you all the love and hugs I have to give and hope that your brain starts being nicer to you soon💜💜
Ignore the hugs if you don't feel comfortable..., and the love too if necessary, just get better 💜💜
Sending a virtual hug your way!
Baby steps. I'm sure you're making lots of progress, however slowly or unnoticed it is
Can we just appreciate how cute and smooth the animation is on OT's intro
15:22 I wish the people at my school were like that. There was a trans girl trying out for the cheer team and all they did was make fun of her
the "wow just like snails" meme reminds me so much of when my little cousins (i think they were six at the time) asked about my (currently ex) partner who's NB, and their dad basically said the same thing, and their response was instead "like a wolf? are you in love with a wolf?" and it was very funny
13:49 THAT’S HIM?! Oh my gosh I’m so proud of him!!!
The mental image of OT just calmly explaining to a little girl that we're not all kinda like snails and then just screaming "BECAUSE EVERY SNAIL CAN AFFORD HOUSES." Is so god damn funny to me. 💀🤣
Okay but Barney being canonically trans makes me so so happy. Like it’s done so well and represented in such an amazing way. So awesome
Wait, he is?
@@aelechdeepestflame4347 second episode he directly says so!
the purple dinosaur??
@@topazmoss1393 …huh. Never knew that!
@@rebel6301 Lmao yes, and not a character from dead end paranormal park.
got hit with some dysphoria today after getting misgendered by a couple customers at work (im a trans guy and i got called ma'am twice today 😭) but this video helped me feel better! thank u OT 💜💜💜
Well my good sir- no matter what people call you- you are valid as a man. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise
@@Plixiii thank you! i really appreciate that ;-; it can be really hard sometimes because im pre T and pre-op and it often feels like no matter how hard i try to pass, people will still see me as my birth gender and it's really frustrating, so it helps a lot to hear that from you 💜
0:45 wait, we share a Netflix account now? 😨
I'm so sorry if someone (for some reson) was watching Ninjago, I watched the whole series and now you'll have to remember on what chapter you were 😔
Hi, OT, I struggle a lot with dysphoria and low self worth due to a lot of transphobia, homophobia, and depression, but your videos never fail to brighten my day! Thank you so much for bringing sunshine into a dark world!
7:56
So true. There were several dude bros at by high school who went my street names they gave themselves or their middle names. Those same dudes would openly disrespect my new name and would dead name me in front of the entire class in an attempt to get me flustered. They didn't have a problem with new names or nick names or chosen names. They just didn't respect me cuz I was different.
Funnily enough one of those guys referred to me using they/them pronouns once.
If you like historical memes so much, make an entire recurring series on your channel of them, maybe you can start next week.
It would be nice for him to try non-queer subreddits. I do enjoy queer stuff a lot and I love the community you have but I want to see him react to much more now that he is far more versed in the risqué and general memes
My grandma (basically the only reasonable and entirely safe person in my family to be around besides my dad and rarely a few other distant relatives) keeps suggesting that I'm only transmasc because I come from a very abusive and traumatic household. This video helped a lot, I'm doing good despite everything she said, but now I'm doing better.
Did she really need to wait until you transitioned to start having beef with the cunts with inherited mentally institutional illnesses?
The comedic timing on the plant one was just 👌 [chef's kiss]
I had to cheer out loud
It’s really optimistic to assume people will be around 500 years from now.
I can’t help but smile at the undying and unconditional love and support that just radiates from this channel.
for those who want to know, the anime at 8:55 is 'When I woke up I became a bagel girl" and it's actually not trans phobic. I had a lot of fun watching it
thank you ^^ 🏳⚧
just finished watching. it was fvcking amazing.
Hey just wondering where i can watch it? Thanks!
@OneTopic would you pin this?
corn on the cob
The secret early unlisted upload lol
Also OneTopic if you see this please cover some polyamory memes and Autism memes!!! As a trans girl I love your videos keep up being awesome
I am also poly so aaaaa
not poly or autistic (or at least haven't been diagnosed but we're gonna ignore that for now) but id love to see poly, autism, and other neurodivergencies covered too
Putting a reply here to help your comment get seen!
"In desperate need of this top" killed me. Yeah the shirts cute too BUT THAT TOP THO 👀 lmfao
as a cis lesbian girl who has an archaeologist on their list of possible career choices, i can confirm that when I dig up your remains i will go “omga!!! is that sans undertale”
Well, as a trans linguist, I'm gonna look at a bunch of historical texts and go "Hah! Egg!"
@@CybernerdShua thats so kewl!
Realized I'm trans recently and I'm so scared to come out because my family is transphobic. It's so nice to see lighthearted, funny trans things, sometimes it feels like it's all really hard... Thanks for making these OT
My mam recently came out as trans (mtf) and she always wanted a pink skirt when she was a kid, so I got her one for Christmas :) I’m so excited to see her reaction!
I haven't came out to any of my family members (other than my brother) about me being pangender, and when I came out to my brother, he said: "Did you just rob those genders from other people then?" SIBLINGS ARE THE BEST SOMETIMES LMAO
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I was wondering where my gender went- you can keep it though, I don't want it
Wait.... HEY GIVE IT BACK,
@@piggiethemarshin6650 NO *RUNS AWAY W GENDER /j*
@@OmoridotBoy00 give it back or your straight
So THAT’S where it went…
*No takebacks-*
Your description of the 'What is a woman' documentary actually makes me want to watch it.
Didn't think that was possible.
Uff the "every snail can affort a house" hit hard
my mom: i’m accepting of trans people! your uncle’s trans and i show him basic human decency and a little bit respect...
me*a closeted trans dude*: oh cool! i’m actually-
my mom: however, i think he’s just not feeling good enough as a woman since he’s gay. i don’t think he’d want to be a man if he got accepted by your grandparents.
me: *shoves self so far into the closet that i end up finding my halloween costume that i forgot about last year*
That's so sad!! *hug* I'm so sorry, man.
@@fabplays6559 it’s alright. it may not be great but it makes for good comedy material i guess!
Was it a good halloween costume?
Yeahhhhhh there's a similar reason I didn't come out to my mom until I was basically ready to move out of her house. She tries to be "accepting" and a "good ally" but there's just... some things that are easier to deal with when I have more distance and less dependence on her.
My mom is accepting of Trans men, but she said AMAB transitioning is werid, now im afraid to came out
Hi OT!
I just wanted to say thank you for doing this.
I recently came out to my brother as trans and have been having a tough time coming out to the rest of my family.
Your videos are a wonderful distraction for what's been going on, and on behalf of all of my beautiful trans siblings, thank you!
love ya king. 💛
16:25 I know that joy. I have TONS of dysphoria with my voice, it sounds like CRAP to me even though no one notices anything when I speak. I pass as female even when I talk, but the dysphoria... so destructive at times... I went online to a voice recognition website thing and it would try to guess what my gender is and the results were "90% female, 8% other, 2 percent male". I felt so relieved and happy.
What site is this?
I literally dropped my phone to the beat of you hitting the table in your intro lol 😂
The one about the rule 63 art hit SO HARD because that was the first sign that I was trans SEVERAL YEARS AGO and ignored it till last month.
We love you OT! You are amazing, and the whole community would protect you to the ends of the world.
Because he protects us!
@@CorwinFound exactly!
seeing your videos really helped me realise that I wasn’t faking being trans so I thank you for it especially since 2 weeks ago I came out to my whole family as trans
I was feeling so dysphoric all day but I got a haircut and then I got your video notification and now I’m SO HAPPY!! Thank you so much OT, you’re amazing. I’ve said this before but you really do save lives.
I’m trans myself and ur content has rly helped me figure it out. Thank you OT, for not only helping me find myself but to love my true self💚
The expression on your face when you realized what the hot dog on the beans stood for... So freaking cute. I love watching your videos on a bad day. They're always so full of laughter it's like opening a jar of sunshine
It makes me so supremely happy that you sounded out the onomatopoiea at 12:59, though thats probably just me being biased by my Japanese ancestry and the fact that I'm learning the language.
On that note though, that one would have technically read as "kyu-ru-ru-ru-ru...", but you were so close anyway, so I'm super stoked.
oh that’s funny! i read it out several times so i suppose the version that got used missed the Kyu because I definitely said it a couple times! hehehe
@@OneTopic Oh, cool! Knowing that you actually knew it makes me all fluttery and hqppy and i dont even know why but yay!
It’s Mahiro!
…Well, this video almost couldn’t have come out at a better time. I just got back from a get together with my mom and her friends and the topic of non-binary folks somehow (albeit briefly) came up twice in one evening. Turns out all three of them don’t like “they/thems” very much at all and dismiss the whole idea of it. I just stayed quiet-not entirely sure if I’m non-binary or not, but I have toyed with the concept recently. Needless to say I could use a laugh right about now! 😅
well, hope you find out who you truly are, my friend
I really love this video. It gave me a nice break from all the transphobia/homophobia everywhere. You are an amazing person. Thank you for making my life a little better :)
My boyfriend was watching this last night while we were in a call, he was just quoting the memes at me as he watched. He does it a lot, and I absolutely love it.
10:38 Update: They're keeping it up for August.
Neat
Great, now I have to bully them, not because I hate it, but to trigger homophobes by having it up all year
@@BazingusBoi They wound up keep it up until January.
I had a few nightmares about people not accepting me trans because of my parents. And I love that I can look at a subreddit and smile and feel safe.
13:09 before I came out I got some helpful but incredibly unwelcome advice from several subreddits, some "how to come out" websites, my partner, a trans friend, my therapist, etc: "if you want people to use your right name and pronouns you're going to have to tell them."
Truly a person after my own heart, starts the video with a desk slap and "MEMES!"
9:20 This is a Nice Voice...
Saving this for later.