If they don't get help...ppl have something to say. If they do get help...ppl have something to say. Go figure! Smh. Their family is not nearby, so of course they'd need to hire an assistant. Stop the judgment. They're adults and they'll learn from their choices [ good or bad ]. Welcome Zane!🎉 Charisma breathe! You two have worked hard and deserve the help. Congrats!
My boyfriend has epilepsy and has multiple seizures and I work two jobs and I didn’t realize I was drowning working, keeping the house in order, dr visits and driving my boyfriend everywhere because he can’t drive with his condition. I hired a personal assistant that is with him while I’m at work, she goes to Dr. Visits with him and takes notes for me, takes him grocery shopping, helps him around the house and helps him manage the home economy so I can focus and really spend time at work, with my clients! She has been a godsend and become a real member of the family!
Charisma I know you’re such a strong independent lady an to finallllllly let someone help y’all is awesome because you deserve to have your load lighten to an be able to spend more time on the other side of the camera :) I’m so happy for y’all an I know she is blessed to have met yall ! Much love from Mooreville Mississippi ❤
And she's still acting😮. Too overlly friendly, she's has a crush on him. Don't trust her in your house, around your dog or husband. First law of marriage. Golddigger on steroids. Keep your cameras on her all the time. I feel a setup to mess up your marriage because she thinks that karisma is stupid. I swear I just saw a movie with this same plot but the wife was in a wheelchair and the help pushed her down the stairs in the chair. Get her out now
Thanks for sharing your exciting news! Hopefully you can focus on the folks who are excited for you because this is clearly a happy change in your lives and Zane seems lovely. You bring wonderful people into your circle with a lot of thought behind it like with Armando, Camilla, etc. This is no different! Enjoy having a little more breathing room.
Ugh THANK YOU! Zane means so much to me and it seriously breaks my heart that people are thinking negatively about her. I literally almost cry anytime I think about how much she has helped ME. I was SO overwhelmed and would have breakdowns often and this has been the first time that I could just breathe and know that someone else is here to help me manage things. I’m so lucky to have Zane. - Charisma
@@coleandcharismaAw Charisma, big hugs to you! It's really difficult when others speak negatively about who/what brings you joy. I hope you can focus on the tremendously positive impact Zane has made in your lives and the investment you've both made in your mental health, because THAT'S something to celebrate. Self-care takes many different forms and this is absolutely one of them. There was a lightness in your energy that was wonderful to see. Yay for MORE of that and this new chapter!
@@faithsaulsberry5826So he’s supposed to be mean and unfriendly to someone working in his home and helping them both, because God forbid should someone else have a dirty mind. Please mind your own business!
Advise to charism, man is man and a woman is awman, i saw on my family my brother have baby from our helper and my mother when she come from out side she catched my father when trying to kiss the helper, don't be fool should be boundary and never trust anyone when it comes ur husband, maybe she's nice person but it's difficult woman around man and man around sixy woman who wearing broken jeans, from my own experience i noticed something ans i don't fell it's good for ur marriage, for the moment why u don't do by ur self untill u have the right one, choose helper married and not young and you can hire a man to care Cole.
We homeschooled our children and had multiple rentals and full time jobs and never requested any help. We did it all. And not all well! Help just never seemed to be an option. Looking back it would have lifted many burdens! I pray this works well for Charisma and Cole and if it doesn’t they’ll keep searching!❤️
So she is a personal assistant and she does a lot of work for them. They hired her for all of this so wtf is wrong with the people in these comments assuming cole is going to cheat and that this woman is here to destroy everything? People should really get a life.
Agreed 👍. Let's be positive. Zane has been their friend for a awhile. Now, she works with them. Cole knows he has a strong and beautiful wife. She is ambitious, confident, independent, kind, nurturing, compassionate, adventurous and empathetic. He would not risk losing this diamond of his.
I think it's because she is young and attractive. 🤭🤭That's a harsh reality many women go through at their work places. Being seen as if they slept their way to the job or will sleep to keep it. Sad 😢
@ericcartman9042 I agree it was an awful idea to hire a girl assistant who already is pretty cute. They were better off getting a male assistant. I've seen so many relationships end off of messy "messy assistants"
That entering Zane throught dog entrance was hilarious. It shows that she is smart girl and will find solution to anything. You guys lucky to have her.
Nah. That is dog style. Will do anything for anything. Will get what she wants. No boundaries. Charisma will regret this. Cole seems to be loving the attention. Is this something else. Oh Lord 👀
I'm a special needs mom and I would do anything to have a personal assistance just to do the small things for me Ive been doing this for 30 yrs alone my God I'm so tired!!!!😪
You are doing an amazing job, even though you feel unnoticed and I’m sure alone more often than not. I wonder if there are small ways/spurts you could get some respite? Programs in your city, care groups, a family or friend member go small windows? I know maybe it’s not a full assistant like this, but something that gives you sone support. You and your kiddo (young or old kiddo) deserve it! When mama is at her best, she can also give of her best😉❤️ Praying that the right resources open up as you explore.
From one Mama to another- I'm proud of you! I agree with @fatimag.9985's words of encouragement for finding some "YOU" time, even if it's just an hour or two once in a while (maybe once a week or so?) Caregivers need time for self-care; you deserve it & you're worth it! I do hope you reach out & find some respite 🫂 I wish you & your family all the best 🙏🏽💪🏾🫶🏾
I’m caregiver for my husband. It’s hard and getting harder. We had home health aide’s last year when I had surgery. Sometimes they wouldn’t show up and I ended up having to resume helping my husband and firing the home health people. I’m pretty sure that’s why my leg never really healed.
I'm just really happy for you guys that you got the help you needed! 🥰💜 There's absolutely nothing wrong with lightening the daily load to make your lives more comfortable. Having Zane to help will allow Charisma and Cole to both not work as hard, which they wholeheartedly deserve. As long as this situation works out for the 3 of them, we as supporters should all be happy for them 😊💕 Love you guys!
I’m sorry I can’t shake this situation. I’m back with another comment. Zane was looking for work and decided to reach out to Cole? Not use her own resources to find employment? Even if she doesn’t necessarily want Cole. Theres always an ulterior motive. Clout,? Maybe her podcast will take off after C & C, or she’ll become a content creator. She now has 1M eyes on her. (thnx to Charisma and Cole platforms) 1M eyes is potentially 1M dollars 😊
Congrats to Cole and Charisma on the new PA. Welcome to the team, Zane. I see wayyy too much hateration in this dancery, and I got time today: How can ya’ll tell two capable and intelligent adults who spent MONTHS vetting a person what they should be doing from MINUTES of edited footage? It’s giving misogynistic and miserable… just say you don’t have the capacity to trust your romantic partner(s) like C&C trust each other and move on. Projecting your fears/experiences onto others isn’t being protective or supportive. Especially when y’all negative folks didn’t have that same energy for everyone else who’s helped this couple.
Delegation is a true key to success - congrats on realizing that you needed help and doing something awesome about it! 👏🏾 Welcome Zayne, sorry for the baptism by fire, I don't know why people think this is a reality tv show, when it's a YT channel 🤦🏾♀️
Yikes to all the comments assuming Cole is going to cheat because she’s young and beautiful. My family assumed the same when we hired a 26 year Mexican Au pair to help with our kiddos. So insane. I made it very clear to keep these insecure comments to themselves. She’s been here for months now and it’s wonderful. I feel so much more supported now which has strengthened our marriage tremendously. If someone’s gonna cheat, they’ll find a way. I won’t deny myself support because of someone else’s insecurities.
My first thought was the same though, but ik that’s because of my trauma and insecurities. I think they have a great relationship (from what we see) and i’m sure they made the best decision for themselves we really shouldn’t just assume and think the worst.
@@elinakeranen4499That is their insecurities, and sometimes they want that to happen, They are happily married and I rebuke anyone planting that negativity.
She seems really sweet, and I wouldn't say she doesn't seem well intentioned, but I personally would choose an assistant that felt a little more maternal or paternal, or distant socially in some way. Charisma started to talk about it, when she mentioned it being challenging to talk to someone as both a business partner and friend, and the vibes of this just feel like they could get complicated. There's almost an intense 'nice' vibe which just gets almost too much when it's constant, neutral is almost just easier. Nothing really dark or anything like that, just a little complicated. Obviously feelings can come up between people and those kinds of things can happen but I wouldn't say that is anyones intention here. Sometimes not having a lot of closeness with people working for you is just healthier. It's intense having someone in your home a lot.
I'm only just getting into their channel. I assume it's going well. But for me I would prefer an assistant that was less buddy buddy and more professional/reserved. There may be a reason Charisma saw that she was looking for work and didn't jump on it immediately. I'm sure all will be well because they are an amazing couple, but for me it's less what she looks like and more that it's too buddy buddy for me.
It’s because people have gone through things in their life that has forced them to not trust others. They are projecting those feelings on us unfortunately. What’s a marriage without trust?! We’re good over here ☺️
Who being negative? They better leave our favorite couple alone. I LOVE THESE TWO due to my Son having a disability. Do what y'all have to do. WE ARE STILL GOING TO WATCH Y'ALL... May God continue to bless y'all 💕
What in the world is going on that people think so negatively about Zane and what her intentions are? So weird. She was hired to help out. I’m a caregiver in RVA for a Parkinson’s Patient. I also help his family out (he lives with them). It’s my job. SBJ. Stop with all the theories already. Love to the pair of you! ❤
There are a lot of people that are not happy in their lives so they are automatically critical of everything. It’s very sad. So if something happens where things don’t work out (we pray not), they are there to be the ‘I told you so’ ‘I knew that would happen’ rejoicers. Charisma and Cole, you do you and be happy. ❤
@@LW97672No. I feel like somethings off, maybe just because of my personal experiences, but I would never rejoice on something going wrong with this couple, so don't come and accuse everyone without a base.
Through sickness and health, taught it was just a saying , now realize that their still are women who will love you forever out there, keep it up guys much ❤
Women never bring another woman in your house where you live with your husband to stay Unless of course you have fasted and prayed about that person and you have the go ahead from Holy Spiirt. Only God truly knows the heart of human beings. I dont want to comment negatively about this arrangement as i want to think positive. Not sure if its a good idea to have assistants living in the same house. Be in the spirit Charisma and if anything is wrong God will show you. Additionally reading some of the comments here your audience can see what you cannot, therefore listen to them or be vigilant.
Living in the same house. This is gloom. Not good. Charisma and Cole get this woman out now. Charisma please get an older person to help. This whole arrangement will hurt you. Please take the advice seriously. This is not looking good. The woman is not your friend. We saw one of your videos. Were not aware of such dangerous arrangements. No no Lord have mercy. WTH
Harpo who dis woman?😂 11:11 - 11:16 "Zane and I remarked on how much Charisma has grown" Cole you don't know even know this woman. Jk, let me stop. I don't like new ppl so I gotta get used to her. Admittedly I'm a hypocrite because I've been screaming for y'all to get help, now that you have it I'm 🙄👀 at the poor woman. Sorry, I'm protective over Cole and Charisma. But, good for y'all I'm sure you made the right decision.
Her reaching out directly to Cole and sidestepping his wife was inappropriate. Some women have a deep-seeded hatred to see people genuinely happy and in love with each other because they don’t have that. Something tells me this is not going to go well.
Zane sure loves the camera. She's a little too eager for me. Very smart to attach yourself to successful TH-camrs. Why are you reaching out to someone elses husband out of the blue because you were thinking of him? I don't care what y’all say, this sends red flags. She may not have “seen” him for a year, but she has definitely watched their channel over the past year. And just like everyone else watching, she could see how “overwhelmed” Charisma is (even though she denies this). She took her opportunity. Remember, Zane is an actress as well.
Charisma, listen to this older woman (me) that doesn’t have a horse in this race. This girl (yes girl) is not the right fit for you and Cole’s relationship.The first mistake she made was to contact Cole (married man) because one day she woke up with out a job and her inter-voice said text Cole. That was totally disrespectful to you. Since she had previously met you and knew that you and Cole are not only married but also business partners.. I think she is way too unprofessional and flirty. You don’t need a little giggley girl (working in your home) that simultaneously admitted that your husband flirted with her as well. Please consider hiring a professional adult that you both interview, preferably someone that doesn’t know either of you… just business. You may block me if you wish to… but remember. She is not who you want or deserve in your life .. You guys are growing and will soon be having a family. Live your best life. ❤
@@dianefoster4472they’ve been open about their IVF journey and it’s known that they have been trying to get pregnant for some time! This is just more support while they continue that process 🙂
I don’t know if you have spoken to your mother or your Aunts. One thing you don’t do is bring another women into your home. I mean this in the most respectful tone. Speak to an old school Aunt. No matter how kind anyone presents theirselves to be, you truly don’t know their true intentions. So I would say be very, very careful. At the end of the day he is still a man and she is still a woman. Even though you may think she is no threat to you.
The comments aren’t negative i had to listen to the video to understand. The comments are people concerned because some situations like this can go left. But I believe if charisma is not feeling something trust me she will get it in check I don’t think the girl is gullible she’s giving it the benefit of doubt.
Charisma is naive though, she did the same thing with that Brazilian woman years ago; when the Brazilian woman was sitting on the couch with Cole, and Charisma was in the kitchen cooking dinner.
I was afraid to look at the comments because I knew this craziness was coming and boy y’all didn’t disappoint! Folks attacking others opinions was just insane! Y’all watching too much dramatic unreal TV! I’m sure Cole and Charisma have discussed all they needed to before hiring Zane! They aren’t naive as yall think! They’ve had to deal with many forms of discrimination and are probably experts at reading folks and situations! These comments felt like a mini reality drama 😂😅! SMH! Cole and Charisma be well and enjoy the help! Y’all deserve it!! 🙏🏽💕
They are silly comments. Coke says they’ve used discernment in the past and have learned from experiences just like the rest of us. She isn’t naive. She just doesn’t live in fear like most of you.
I scrolled to see this. If a burglar was planning on breaking into someone's house, attempting to use a doggy door was probably not what they were planning on using. They can just as easily break the door.
@carlagat1075 This is usually false and crimes of convenience are more common than you might think. Yeah they can break down a door or smash a window but that is a lot more conspicuous than just ducking to go through a dog door
@@carlagat1075 I mean you can Google it and find several news stories of burglars using doggy doors to steal from homes funnily enough but ofc that is highly unlikely. I was mostly replying because your point on how they can just break down your door to rob you instead was kind of silly. Every layer of difficulty you have will significantly reduce crime
Bonjour le couple, je ne comprends pas l'anglais, mais j'aimerais vous dire que je vous trouve très heureux ensemble et continuer à dégager cette joie car c'est même cette joie qui vous ouvrira une porte du miracle qui viendra du créateur qui a fait toute chose bonne , je crois en le rétablissement total au nôm de JÉSUS-CHRIST.
Exactly, she wouldn't move in after stating how she was intrigued by him. Never bring another woman in your house. Its okay to hire an assistant without living in the home.
@@shanib.2Totally agree. That is what I wrote in my comments. A lot of women do not have morales or integrity to stay away from other women's men. I have advised Charisma to be vigilant.
@@shanib.2 isn’t it weird that they previously had this history? And then she describes texting him out of nowhere like it was an intuition is just weird. I definitely think she has ulterior motives.
Charisma, please take into consideration the “negative” comments So many people (including me) felt that smth is off about her It wouldn’t be smart to just complete ignore it
OMG yess im so excited for you guys. Especially Charisma, girl you have so much on your plate and you do it with so much grace. Im excited to see what you get yourself in to with all this help now, cause I notice ya'll dont just stay still. Thaks again for sharing your lifes with us, I love it
Love to see you got help and were able to recognize when you needed it, you two are inspirational, zane you seem like an amazing person who is on the same wavelength as Cole & Charisma, and to all the people in the comments who are doubting, how dare you not trust cole or zane, and bringing that kind of energy here is not what is needed
After watching the video, Her body language, the story of how they hired her, it seems that she astro projected herself or telepathically projected herself in their minds... little witchcrafty. Lustful in both directions, meaning she may go after the husband or the wife. All up in their home and business, rolling through the dog door 🥴 Yikes 😬 I have never left a comment like this in my life and seeing other people are feeling the vibes too. Yikes 😬 Prayers for wisdom and peace ✌
I honestly don’t care for her being the assistant, possibly a older woman would had been a better choice This is a big step in TRUST & I love that… but be CAUTIOUS because it’s now a third person in your relationship Respectfully she should initially contacted charisma which is cole wife I’ll be watching….”The best is yet to come” Keep it business ❤
I don't care for the way Zane and Coles eyes kept meeting. Zane makes me uncomfortable....Giirrrllll keep your eyes open. Her meeting Cole story gives me the creeps, sounds like she was down low feeling him. She would not be in my house, or in my circle. "Heck nooooo"...Good Luck.
Happy you guys have help. I do as well my SN son goes to The Day Center now, he appears to really be enjoying himself, I am glad. Gives me a break and makes me feel at ease, finally. I still want to move to LA county though.
Zane met & was inspired by only Cole? Texting him? She seems smitten with him…& Cole knows it, he is taking advantage. Open your eyes Charisma, don’t be naive.
@@MylifeMyway7283 I love Cole and Charisma. Their fairytale love story is rare, edifying, and so inspiring. I’m not feeling positive vibes from Zane; my intuition tells me she’s not one to be trusted, especially since she sidestepped Cole’s wife and initiated the “arrangement.” If this doesn’t go well, Cole will never find another like his beautiful soul, Charisma.
How great for the three of you! It seems like a win-win-win situation. I was a personal assistant for a busy family many years ago, & it was an awesome job. It seems like Zane really enjoys & take pride in what she does. She’s also a natural on camera! I am super happy for you! Take care & stay well! ❤
🚩🚩Nobody is saying not to hire help, we’re simply saying not her. It has nothing to do with her looks but the story of how she met Cole & was reaching out to him, it’s giving ulterior motives…she also staring & mesmerized by Cole. She is your employee, not your equal. Get that straight with her. Charisma is way to nice & naive, Cole knows what’s up tho
Your conspiracy theory is exhausting!! Chill and give these smart, intuitive people enough respect to KNOW what they are doing and who to bring into their space, and "not your equal?" get a grip; GEESH!! This tiresome comment has SO much foolishness in it, it made me tired🙄
I totally agree its super sketchy. Its also weird to make a video with her tbh it’s already crossing numerous boundaries. Who just texts random people they met for a job? That is super convenient and weird. They’re only getting defensive because they can see what we see but refuse to believe it
@@kutie216 MANY people message people they just met re jobs!! It's called NETWORKING, and is done by MANY, every day!! Do you people even listen to yourselves?? As if you can stay where YOU are and see these so-called "signs" but these two people are TOO dumb to see it?🙄 Get a grip and go deal with whatever/whoever is in your circle that YOU cant trust, and leave people to use THEIR intelligence AND intuition to invite the people THEY want into THEIR space; geesh.
@@kutie216 Networking is an integral part of jobhunting. If you're looking for work, why wouldn't you reach out to those in your social circle and friends circle to see if they have any leads?
@@vickenator I’m not an idiot I know what networking is and this is not that. This girl clearly targeted Cole and it’s weird. No I don’t go asking people I just met for jobs, maybe a friend yes but not some rando I met at an acting class. It is super weird to ask someone you barely know for a job unless of course they told you to reach out for that purpose- thats the only case where it would be somewhat normal.
Everyone is talking about charisma but I can’t believe Cole is so shameless. He’s taking advantage of her good nature and trust. It’s totally disrespectful to invite this woman who seems pretty smitten with him into his life with his doting wife, a good man would have turned down this damsel at her first attempt of trying to weasel her way into his family. Cole you are making a mockery of your marriage and your wife. Have some shame.
It’s a great idea to have a doggy door for our pups lol. Our doggy door has a metal door that shuts it out from the public when Sophie isn’t using it. It literally impossible to break into. People really must think we’re so naive 😅
A burgler could climb through that doggy door if Zane could crawl through it. I think that's what people are concerned about. Just stay safe guys, thats all.
I am a new follower of this wonderful channel. I hope you provide a male assistant for Cole. It is better because girls always bring problems between spouses. Trust me. Cole is a wonderful man, I swear to you ❤❤
I think people are concerned not bc she’s a female but bc she’s a very young attractive actress that likes the spotlight and she built a connection/friendship first with Cole. Not the best recipe for someone you want to hire for help. It’s more of a risk than someone that wasn’t those things.
So, it sounds like there have been people who are concerned because they care about this couple...however, I don't think that excuses inappropriate comments or behavior. TH-cam channels like this sacrifice a lot of their intimate lives to help educate the public, and that includes the people introduced on the channel. It's not easy to get in front of a camera and post it on the wild, wild internet. That is a gift I admire and respect. They're still human and deserve to be recognized and respected as such. The experiences they're sharing add incredible value to the ongoing discussion of "humanity" and it's unfortunate that they have to constantly go on the defense when being so vulnerable. It seems like the internet has created a massive grey area that we're struggling to navigate as a society with this emergence of "parasocial relationships". For all of us who care about this channel, and are talking about what should and shouldn't be done, and boundaries, I think we could first ask ourselves how we're respecting their boundaries in the comments, how we're treating the very real humans in this video. I hope things go well and I'm glad to see that such a hard working and independent couple was able to accept help. I know that's not easy for some people. I'm glad that this person was available and able to jump right in and gain some sense of security after losing work. That's extremely tough, especially in such an expensive city. Even the dogs get along! Wishing your entire team well!
People really be weird in these comments . They’re married , god forbid they have to listen to you weirdos cause you have trust issues. Don’t be putting that on them
Pisces schooled, made for a spiritual gifted work as such, many, make a choice not to totally engage, in spiritual work, as many rather not look weird', many, toggle from logic to spirit, being an Intuit ain't a toggle, complete immersion, maybe an experience made to bring she closer into her spiritual gifted self, whereby complete intuitiveness, not logic and intuition 🤷🏽♀️, a Pisces school completely immersed is a bad azz Intuit, Edgar Cayce a prime example, Charisma aaaaight with intuition, not 💯, her intuition she, created to use, wud share exactly, conception month and year, and not seek others when 1 LOVE and HER and COLE are beings to alone be involved in conception, balance, lame Pisces schooled are OVERLY SENSITIVE caaaaause feet 🦶🏾🦶🏾 are Piscean schooled ruled (Leos is 🫀, Aries the 👑, Taurean the Throat 👄🗣, Scorpion the genitalia 🥒🍒, Sagittarius the 💃hips, etc., etc.), feet not walking a spiritual path (as Pisces are here to do), brings excessive openess to energies all around (aka major sensessss- sensitivities, of bums to active beezy bees 🤷🏽♀️), shield not 💯, being dey 🦶🏾🦶🏾🦶🏾 not 💯 1
I love how you guys work together and respect one another. Many could learn alot from this video. You Don't have to be mean or micromanage to get the job done. Communication is key!
My husband is a handsome guy in a wheelchair too and no more female “assistants”. They eventually get too comfy with my husband and even though I trust him I don’t trust THEM! Only male assistants/caregivers allowed now and I choose them. I’m not so sure about this girl Zane, but we shall see! I could tell Charisma was a little uncomfortable, as much as she tried to hide it! Been there, done that!
@@coleandcharisma I know, but she’s still in the company of Cole and over time she will say or do something that will rub you the wrong way, Charisma. I guarantee you! Just wait… She had no business texting your husband to begin with, and if you believe that song and dance of a lie why she texted him I feel for you. Even your husband asked her why she texted him with an amused look on his face. She was clearly smitten by his personality and how “comedic” he was when she met him. She’s clearly attracted to him and she’s right where she wanted to be now. Caution.
@brandygeorge9 I agree it was an awful idea hiring this girl. I can tell eventually charisma will have to get rid of her! Never bring an attractive women to "help husband with things" let alone allowing this lady in your personal home life. PLUS SHES A WHOLE GINGER!
@@coleandcharisma Hi Charisma, I really wish you would be more willing to learn from people’s experiences. I’ve been married for 21 years and what the original commenter has written is so true. Please don’t be defensive about what you’ve not yet experienced. Zane was clearly smitten by Cole at first sight and such a person is not one that you want around your husband. Secondly, the fact that she approached Cole behind your back to ask for a job would be cause for concern, even though Cole involved you in the decision to hire her. If I could do things differently, I’d listen more to what people told me who were married longer than I was. I’ve never left a negative comment on your channel but Zane will change your dynamic with Cole even if she doesn’t separate you, not because she is a woman but because of her intentions. I’d like to read Cole’s responses to the “negative” comments.
@@DK-pw5bt EXACTLY! Zane will eventually cause unwanted tension in their marriage. I’ve been with my husband 17 years, and I have experienced this more than once, sadly. It is ALWAYS the female “assistants”! Soon she will be wearing a little more makeup than usual, wearing inappropriate clothing to work, become overly catering to Cole, and other things that Charisma will soon notice, and I am trying so hard to warn her. Thank you for your comment and for clearly understanding what my intentions are.
Ok after watching this video, I felt compelled to post to the unecessary negative comments regarding y'll new addition to the team. Did anyone say anything similar about Charisma being unfaithful whenever any males were hired???? Why come at them with such hate. The fidelity of their marriage is private & off limits!! Just because they show parts of their lives doesn't mean it's ok to be so critical of their decisions. Have they shown anything that would cause you to think Chole woud cheat?? If you're a regular on this channel you would know that your comments are insulting to both Charisma & especially Chole, not to mention Zane( you don't even know her, yet you come at her character like that). Not all relationships go that way. It's apparent they both love & RESPECT each other. Life has no guarantees but I doubt after all they've been through. Chole would hurt his marriage, wife, himself & their family so callously. Unfortunately at times people produce comments that may be indicative of they're experiences! How bout we just wish them well! & STAY POSITIVE!!
There are a lot of sad and miserable people in this world, and the internet gives them the opportunity to project this on others, with anonymity. Cole and Charisma keep doing you, I will forever be a fan. Welcome Zane!!!
It's so sad soooo many ppl are hurt and bitter...I been cheated on etc and and am so thankful that I am not warped and lost trust in humanity. Everyone is not out there to hurt or do you dirty esp just because they look a certain way because that's what it is honestly about. If she was raggedy or ugly they wouldn't care.
In this case, it is not about people being miserable. It is a fact of life. We see it happening every day around us. I want to see Charisma and Cole together always. They have come a long way and he has a wife in Charisma who from she wa😊s born loved and care for him. Fo not spoil that, Cole.
Worry is ungrounded fear. It is either from a past negative experience or something you think could happen. Worry, anxiety, and fear will bring the thing you are stressing over into your life. Why borrow trouble? Charisma, is secure in her love and trust in Cole. Nothing has happened. Yes, Zane is pretty and Charisma is equally beautiful. Their relationship is based on trust and love. If she felt any other way, Charisma wouldn't have let her come into their home and life. Yall chill out and stop projecting your painful experience onto them. Go and get healed and set free so that that you can love and trust again. In other words keep your fears to yourself.
Yes!!! Agree 100. Also, he goes into the bathroom to talk on the phone..............interesting. Now, she needed a job and thought of asking Cole asked for a job - and got it!!! How did she know to ask him!!
These people thinking so poorly of Cole, saying he will cheat. They need to get a life. Clearly they have nothing better to do. Glad you guys are getting help!!
@@YesIlikebananasSobut why the low blow? That wasn’t necessary 😮even if her mindset thinks that what does your comment say about you? You guys are so brave on this internet
People have no business telling grown adults what to do and who to have around them. However, i think some of these comments are from people who actually care about you guys and know from experience that it can be peoblematic when boundaries are not set and when emotional boundaries are formed. Also your supporters may not have mentioned anything with Camilla and Armando because their introduction was a different.
@@Daisy-Girl0021so do I and it makes no sense. Why are people judging the lady's intention from one video. I can understand the concerns and warnings but the judgemental and cruel comments is a no no
Radom text you need Money and you Think of Cole, I don't get good vibes, I know you need help but Nah!! Not gonna work. And don't let her do the stay positive set boundaries I want to Cole and Charisma:( I'm commenting not on my channel and 3 a crowd
Zane is just fine people need to relax, if Cole and Charisma are happy with her job performance is all that matter..I am pretty sure that there are boundaries, respect is very important and they talk about business and friendship...Cole and Charisma relationship is very solid, they have commitments, goals, love, and Cole is never gonna find somebody that love him the way Charisma does and Viceversa..! Finally I pretty sure they meet people all the time and have friends, and it doesn't mean they are gonna cheat! Zane is just perfect!
It's being wise, not to have Zane around for that extended time. It's rare this would be a good idea, maybe in an holy Spirit filled woman, covered, and her breast covered at the job. I hope Zane a new job, give her time to find one, that would be great. The idea that Zane texted Cole for work, but work that's personal to Cole , Absolutely NOT! , IMO - It's not about insecurities, it's principal and wisdom not to have a young woman hired to help a young married couple, who is single, not covered who sought out a married young man for help?????
I’m trying to figure out how two positive people as these two can insight such negativity from these comments. It’s ridiculous to make assumptions about Cole’s fidelity and Zane’s intentions based off of this video. Some of y’all forget that these are two GROWN adults who are capable of making decisions that will benefit their day to day lives. How awful to introduce someone who obviously means so much to them and who has lightened their load by being the help they needed professionally only to be chastised like children and warned that Zane’s energy is off, Cole is going to cheat 🙄 oh and Charisma is too naive to see what so many others can see, REALLY!! If y’all don’t cut it out and re-examine why you are projecting your negative, distrustful thoughts on to these three. Cut it out. Cole and Charisma Got This 💪🏼Oh and Welcome Zane🎉 which was the ENTIRE point of this video geesh lol.
Bringing in support and talent is the only way to grow your business. Good for you for taking the leap. I wish I had done that sooner in my business. Kudos and keep going!
For anyone concerned: th-cam.com/users/shortsg3QK_7B_j2c?si=GwoE0asDC7rUUB6X
Let’s show some kindness, here. 💙
Enough said!!
#TeamColeandCharisma❤ All on one accord
His wife forever yes or no but good him handsome
If ppl don’t have anything nice to say skip the video!!!
Welcome 🙏
If they don't get help...ppl have something to say. If they do get help...ppl have something to say. Go figure! Smh. Their family is not nearby, so of course they'd need to hire an assistant. Stop the judgment. They're adults and they'll learn from their choices [ good or bad ]. Welcome Zane!🎉 Charisma breathe! You two have worked hard and deserve the help. Congrats!
👏👏👏
@brookeezlosingit5836 THAT PART
@@coleandcharismai love y'all you too are the nicest and sweetest people ever don't listen to negativity Zane is going to do great I love it!!!!
There should be boundaries
That's humans for you always complaining about Everything 😊 let's ignore them. We're happy for this family. That's all that matters ❤
This is interesting 🤔 to say the least. Boundaries. The vibe is off. Be wise with your interactions Charisma&Cole.
I love the vibrant attitude of your Personal Assistant. May she always be a Blessing to both of you.❤
Welcome Zane!! She seems so down to earth, and sweet!!😊
Gosh she’s so great! - Charisma
My boyfriend has epilepsy and has multiple seizures and I work two jobs and I didn’t realize I was drowning working, keeping the house in order, dr visits and driving my boyfriend everywhere because he can’t drive with his condition. I hired a personal assistant that is with him while I’m at work, she goes to Dr. Visits with him and takes notes for me, takes him grocery shopping, helps him around the house and helps him manage the home economy so I can focus and really spend time at work, with my clients! She has been a godsend and become a real member of the family!
Welcome to the team, Zane!! You three seem to have great chemistry. Bonus points for Sophie getting a new furry friend.
Good for you for getting help. If you have nothing nice to say then say nothing. Sending positive energy to you all. ☝🏽 ❤
Charisma I know you’re such a strong independent lady an to finallllllly let someone help y’all is awesome because you deserve to have your load lighten to an be able to spend more time on the other side of the camera :) I’m so happy for y’all an I know she is blessed to have met yall ! Much love from Mooreville Mississippi ❤
And she's still acting😮. Too overlly friendly, she's has a crush on him. Don't trust her in your house, around your dog or husband. First law of marriage. Golddigger on steroids. Keep your cameras on her all the time. I feel a setup to mess up your marriage because she thinks that karisma is stupid. I swear I just saw a movie with this same plot but the wife was in a wheelchair and the help pushed her down the stairs in the chair. Get her out now
What’s the movie called?
Facts!
Thanks for sharing your exciting news! Hopefully you can focus on the folks who are excited for you because this is clearly a happy change in your lives and Zane seems lovely. You bring wonderful people into your circle with a lot of thought behind it like with Armando, Camilla, etc. This is no different! Enjoy having a little more breathing room.
Ugh THANK YOU! Zane means so much to me and it seriously breaks my heart that people are thinking negatively about her. I literally almost cry anytime I think about how much she has helped ME. I was SO overwhelmed and would have breakdowns often and this has been the first time that I could just breathe and know that someone else is here to help me manage things. I’m so lucky to have Zane. - Charisma
Why that he smile at her
@@coleandcharismaAw Charisma, big hugs to you! It's really difficult when others speak negatively about who/what brings you joy. I hope you can focus on the tremendously positive impact Zane has made in your lives and the investment you've both made in your mental health, because THAT'S something to celebrate. Self-care takes many different forms and this is absolutely one of them. There was a lightness in your energy that was wonderful to see. Yay for MORE of that and this new chapter!
@@faithsaulsberry5826So he’s supposed to be mean and unfriendly to someone working in his home and helping them both, because God forbid should someone else have a dirty mind. Please mind your own business!
@coleandcharisma N DON'T FORGET SOFIE TOO (THE THREE WOMEN IN YOUR LIVES LOL 😆 😂 🤣 😄 4N5 INCLIDING YOUR MOM N ZANE'S DOG
Not trying to be funny, but definitely curious if you all hire/interact with other black people??
i also wondered this
Advise to charism, man is man and a woman is awman, i saw on my family my brother have baby from our helper and my mother when she come from out side she catched my father when trying to kiss the helper, don't be fool should be boundary and never trust anyone when it comes ur husband, maybe she's nice person but it's difficult woman around man and man around sixy woman who wearing broken jeans, from my own experience i noticed something ans i don't fell it's good for ur marriage, for the moment why u don't do by ur self untill u have the right one, choose helper married and not young and you can hire a man to care Cole.
Zane doesn’t care for Cole…
@@coleandcharismayeah right😂
@@motherland2024her job isn’t to be coles caregiver what are you not understanding?
This made me smile, very transparent folks. I am praying for the continuation of good teamwork in Jesus name!
Honestly proud of y’all for getting help. This is … normal.
We homeschooled our children and had multiple rentals and full time jobs and never requested any help. We did it all. And not all well! Help just never seemed to be an option. Looking back it would have lifted many burdens! I pray this works well for Charisma and Cole and if it doesn’t they’ll keep searching!❤️
So she is a personal assistant and she does a lot of work for them. They hired her for all of this so wtf is wrong with the people in these comments assuming cole is going to cheat and that this woman is here to destroy everything? People should really get a life.
Both beautiful
Agreed 👍. Let's be positive. Zane has been their friend for a awhile. Now, she works with them. Cole knows he has a strong and beautiful wife. She is ambitious, confident, independent, kind, nurturing, compassionate, adventurous and empathetic. He would not risk losing this diamond of his.
I think it's because she is young and attractive. 🤭🤭That's a harsh reality many women go through at their work places. Being seen as if they slept their way to the job or will sleep to keep it. Sad 😢
Chole is gonna hit that..that is if he's capable of hitting
@ericcartman9042 I agree it was an awful idea to hire a girl assistant who already is pretty cute. They were better off getting a male assistant. I've seen so many relationships end off of messy "messy assistants"
Charisma if you don’t get that woman out your house she’s clearly obsessed with your man🤔
That entering Zane throught dog entrance was hilarious. It shows that she is smart girl and will find solution to anything. You guys lucky to have her.
Nah. That is dog style. Will do anything for anything. Will get what she wants. No boundaries. Charisma will regret this. Cole seems to be loving the attention. Is this something else. Oh Lord 👀
I'm a special needs mom and I would do anything to have a personal assistance just to do the small things for me Ive been doing this for 30 yrs alone my God I'm so tired!!!!😪
You are doing an amazing job, even though you feel unnoticed and I’m sure alone more often than not.
I wonder if there are small ways/spurts you could get some respite? Programs in your city, care groups, a family or friend member go small windows?
I know maybe it’s not a full assistant like this, but something that gives you sone support. You and your kiddo (young or old kiddo) deserve it! When mama is at her best, she can also give of her best😉❤️ Praying that the right resources open up as you explore.
@@fatimag.9985SAME
From one Mama to another- I'm proud of you! I agree with @fatimag.9985's words of encouragement for finding some "YOU" time, even if it's just an hour or two once in a while (maybe once a week or so?) Caregivers need time for self-care; you deserve it & you're worth it! I do hope you reach out & find some respite 🫂 I wish you & your family all the best 🙏🏽💪🏾🫶🏾
I’m caregiver for my husband. It’s hard and getting harder. We had home health aide’s last year when I had surgery. Sometimes they wouldn’t show up and I ended up having to resume helping my husband and firing the home health people. I’m pretty sure that’s why my leg never really healed.
@@TheBiggirl1957❤❤
I'm just really happy for you guys that you got the help you needed! 🥰💜 There's absolutely nothing wrong with lightening the daily load to make your lives more comfortable. Having Zane to help will allow Charisma and Cole to both not work as hard, which they wholeheartedly deserve. As long as this situation works out for the 3 of them, we as supporters should all be happy for them 😊💕 Love you guys!
Please dont care what people say get the help u need you all deserve it , people just like to talk
Do not have that woman around your man!! Are you freaking crazy...?! Old heads taught us this..
That was Aretha Franklin.... don't have nobody around me and my man😅😅😅
I’m sorry I can’t shake this situation. I’m back with another comment. Zane was looking for work and decided to reach out to Cole? Not use her own resources to find employment? Even if she doesn’t necessarily want Cole. Theres always an ulterior motive. Clout,? Maybe her podcast will take off after C & C, or she’ll become a content creator. She now has 1M eyes on her. (thnx to Charisma and Cole platforms) 1M eyes is potentially 1M dollars 😊
Yes her texting Cole was so inappropriate!
@@praytherosary7086should have texted his wife.
Right? this is SO WEIRD.
Congrats to Cole and Charisma on the new PA. Welcome to the team, Zane.
I see wayyy too much hateration in this dancery, and I got time today:
How can ya’ll tell two capable and intelligent adults who spent MONTHS vetting a person what they should be doing from MINUTES of edited footage?
It’s giving misogynistic and miserable… just say you don’t have the capacity to trust your romantic partner(s) like C&C trust each other and move on.
Projecting your fears/experiences onto others isn’t being protective or supportive. Especially when y’all negative folks didn’t have that same energy for everyone else who’s helped this couple.
Preaachhh 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
You said it just right.
Folks will always have their thoughts and opinions but in all things pray 🙏 If God sent her into your lives to be a personal assistant So be it. 🙏
Welcome Zane❤
Charisma there’s nothing wrong with having extra help and so glad you were open to it. So glad for you and Cole❤
I understand you appreciate the comments, but sometimes they should be turned off so you two do not have to read the hurtful and negative comments.
Or people can not post negativity lol it's so sad isn't it ugh
Delegation is a true key to success - congrats on realizing that you needed help and doing something awesome about it! 👏🏾 Welcome Zayne, sorry for the baptism by fire, I don't know why people think this is a reality tv show, when it's a YT channel 🤦🏾♀️
Just remember PEOPLE are human too,they'll be over protective and go into grief stages until they get used to the NEW NORMAL.
Yikes to all the comments assuming Cole is going to cheat because she’s young and beautiful. My family assumed the same when we hired a 26 year Mexican Au pair to help with our kiddos. So insane. I made it very clear to keep these insecure comments to themselves.
She’s been here for months now and it’s wonderful. I feel so much more supported now which has strengthened our marriage tremendously. If someone’s gonna cheat, they’ll find a way. I won’t deny myself support because of someone else’s insecurities.
How sad is the life of people who think that every interaction with the opposite gender might lead to cheating.
My first thought was the same though, but ik that’s because of my trauma and insecurities. I think they have a great relationship (from what we see) and i’m sure they made the best decision for themselves we really shouldn’t just assume and think the worst.
But Carisma is super beautiful inside and out and also young. so all good! People are so negative!
@@elinakeranen4499That is their insecurities, and sometimes they want that to happen, They are happily married and I rebuke anyone planting that negativity.
Oh my goodness Cole love charisma very much their marriage is sealed by God and besides Charisma don't play that she is a very strong woman
She seems really sweet, and I wouldn't say she doesn't seem well intentioned, but I personally would choose an assistant that felt a little more maternal or paternal, or distant socially in some way. Charisma started to talk about it, when she mentioned it being challenging to talk to someone as both a business partner and friend, and the vibes of this just feel like they could get complicated. There's almost an intense 'nice' vibe which just gets almost too much when it's constant, neutral is almost just easier. Nothing really dark or anything like that, just a little complicated. Obviously feelings can come up between people and those kinds of things can happen but I wouldn't say that is anyones intention here. Sometimes not having a lot of closeness with people working for you is just healthier. It's intense having someone in your home a lot.
I'm only just getting into their channel. I assume it's going well. But for me I would prefer an assistant that was less buddy buddy and more professional/reserved. There may be a reason Charisma saw that she was looking for work and didn't jump on it immediately. I'm sure all will be well because they are an amazing couple, but for me it's less what she looks like and more that it's too buddy buddy for me.
Always get an older woman to help not a young girl. The universe cannot do anything only God can
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Yes, an older woman. Neither a young male or young female.
Welcome Zane ! I’m shocked at some of these negative comments.
Why are people being negative? Im happy for yall i hope this means theres a colerisma on the way soon
It’s because people have gone through things in their life that has forced them to not trust others. They are projecting those feelings on us unfortunately. What’s a marriage without trust?! We’re good over here ☺️
Ignore the people who are negative❤
Who being negative? They better leave our favorite couple alone. I LOVE THESE TWO due to my Son having a disability. Do what y'all have to do. WE ARE STILL GOING TO WATCH Y'ALL...
May God continue to bless y'all 💕
@@rujayoume7722THIS IS THE COMMENT RIGHT HERE THAT PART SAME (N I'M AN ADULT WITH A DISABILITY TOO SO THEY HELP ME OUT ALOT)
@shaniquejoe5108 JUST OUT OF CURIOSITY WHERE R THE NEGITIVE COMMENTS COMING FROM?
What in the world is going on that people think so negatively about Zane and what her intentions are? So weird. She was hired to help out. I’m a caregiver in RVA for a Parkinson’s Patient. I also help his family out (he lives with them). It’s my job. SBJ. Stop with all the theories already.
Love to the pair of you! ❤
They’re doing that because she’s a woman. That’s it, that’s all. So sad.
There are a lot of people that are not happy in their lives so they are automatically critical of everything. It’s very sad. So if something happens where things don’t work out (we pray not), they are there to be the ‘I told you so’ ‘I knew that would happen’ rejoicers. Charisma and Cole, you do you and be happy. ❤
@@LW97672 They need to block all the negative people and I’m sure they will as they have before.
@@LW97672No. I feel like somethings off, maybe just because of my personal experiences, but I would never rejoice on something going wrong with this couple, so don't come and accuse everyone without a base.
@@LW97672It’s because a lot of these famous/popular YT channels end up in disaster over 50% of the time
Through sickness and health, taught it was just a saying , now realize that their still are women who will love you forever out there, keep it up guys much ❤
Women never bring another woman in your house where you live with your husband to stay Unless of course you have fasted and prayed about that person and you have the go ahead from Holy Spiirt. Only God truly knows the heart of human beings. I dont want to comment negatively about this arrangement as i want to think positive. Not sure if its a good idea to have assistants living in the same house. Be in the spirit Charisma and if anything is wrong God will show you. Additionally reading some of the comments here your audience can see what you cannot, therefore listen to them or be vigilant.
Oh for goodness sake. Relax.
Living in the same house. This is gloom. Not good. Charisma and Cole get this woman out now. Charisma please get an older person to help. This whole arrangement will hurt you. Please take the advice seriously. This is not looking good. The woman is not your friend. We saw one of your videos. Were not aware of such dangerous arrangements. No no Lord have mercy. WTH
Only question I have is why would she send him a random text and not his wife
I LOVE HER!! Her energy is so amazing❤
Her energy is dark
@@dikembeafrika8918Exactly! Dark and sinister.
Did Zane go through the doggy door? Hummmm??? . Wifey should stay close by when Zane is around. Young and pretty. Hope things work out.
Harpo who dis woman?😂
11:11 - 11:16 "Zane and I remarked on how much Charisma has grown" Cole you don't know even know this woman.
Jk, let me stop. I don't like new ppl so I gotta get used to her. Admittedly I'm a hypocrite because I've been screaming for y'all to get help, now that you have it I'm 🙄👀 at the poor woman. Sorry, I'm protective over Cole and Charisma.
But, good for y'all I'm sure you made the right decision.
Her reaching out directly to Cole and sidestepping his wife was inappropriate. Some women have a deep-seeded hatred to see people genuinely happy and in love with each other because they don’t have that. Something tells me this is not going to go well.
I thought that was inappropriate as well. I'm not quite so sure that it's been months since they've supposedly talked either.
Zane sure loves the camera. She's a little too eager for me. Very smart to attach yourself to successful TH-camrs. Why are you reaching out to someone elses husband out of the blue because you were thinking of him? I don't care what y’all say, this sends red flags. She may not have “seen” him for a year, but she has definitely watched their channel over the past year. And just like everyone else watching, she could see how “overwhelmed” Charisma is (even though she denies this). She took her opportunity. Remember, Zane is an actress as well.
Right you are Drug users act the same way
Exactly 💯 %! Can't be trusted.
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Agreed ✔️
Giiiirl right?! Like that’s my nigga why would you sit there and message him first??
Charisma, listen to this older woman (me) that doesn’t have a horse in this race. This girl (yes girl) is not the right fit for you and Cole’s relationship.The first mistake she made was to contact Cole (married man) because one day she woke up with out a job and her inter-voice said text Cole. That was totally disrespectful to you. Since she had previously met you and knew that you and Cole are not only married but also business partners.. I think she is way too unprofessional and flirty. You don’t need a little giggley girl (working in your home) that simultaneously admitted that your husband flirted with her as well. Please consider hiring a professional adult that you both interview, preferably someone that doesn’t know either of you… just business. You may block me if you wish to… but remember. She is not who you want or deserve in your life ..
You guys are growing and will soon be having a family. Live your best life. ❤
As long as she knows her boundaries and stay in her lane I guess it could work long term but idk
I agree with you 💯 🤔
So happy you have help. Share the burden.
The vibe is a bit weird but not everyone is comfortable on camera.
NOW IT’S BABY TIME , WHY BECAUSE YOU CAN NOW RELAX SOME.
Pretty sure their reproductive life 😅s their business and nobody else’s.
@@dianefoster4472they’ve been open about their IVF journey and it’s known that they have been trying to get pregnant for some time! This is just more support while they continue that process 🙂
@@dianefoster4472 Right? Everyone is always pushing them for kids......it's crazy.
I love her , she’s a good addition to your group. I’m happy you got someone to help out. Love you guys.
I don’t know if you have spoken to your mother or your Aunts. One thing you don’t do is bring another women into your home. I mean this in the most respectful tone. Speak to an old school Aunt. No matter how kind anyone presents theirselves to be, you truly don’t know their true intentions. So I would say be very, very careful. At the end of the day he is still a man and she is still a woman. Even though you may think she is no threat to you.
The comments aren’t negative i had to listen to the video to understand. The comments are people concerned because some situations like this can go left. But I believe if charisma is not feeling something trust me she will get it in check I don’t think the girl is gullible she’s giving it the benefit of doubt.
Charisma is naive though, she did the same thing with that Brazilian woman years ago; when the Brazilian woman was sitting on the couch with Cole, and Charisma was in the kitchen cooking dinner.
@@iLovePaulWesley1864Ouue what happened?? 😮
I was afraid to look at the comments because I knew this craziness was coming and boy y’all didn’t disappoint! Folks attacking others opinions was just insane! Y’all watching too much dramatic unreal TV! I’m sure Cole and Charisma have discussed all they needed to before hiring Zane! They aren’t naive as yall think! They’ve had to deal with many forms of discrimination and are probably experts at reading folks and situations! These comments felt like a mini reality drama 😂😅! SMH! Cole and Charisma be well and enjoy the help! Y’all deserve it!! 🙏🏽💕
They are silly comments. Coke says they’ve used discernment in the past and have learned from experiences just like the rest of us.
She isn’t naive. She just doesn’t live in fear like most of you.
Hope you are securing that doggy door. If Zane can fit through there, someone else can. Be careful. Welcome Zane!
I scrolled to see this. If a burglar was planning on breaking into someone's house, attempting to use a doggy door was probably not what they were planning on using. They can just as easily break the door.
@carlagat1075 This is usually false and crimes of convenience are more common than you might think. Yeah they can break down a door or smash a window but that is a lot more conspicuous than just ducking to go through a dog door
@TJJ319 OK, yeah, I'm sure that people are going to scope out houses that have dogs, that have doggie doors. You're 100% correct!! 🙄
@@carlagat1075 I mean you can Google it and find several news stories of burglars using doggy doors to steal from homes funnily enough but ofc that is highly unlikely. I was mostly replying because your point on how they can just break down your door to rob you instead was kind of silly. Every layer of difficulty you have will significantly reduce crime
She knows how to get in the house .
Bonjour le couple, je ne comprends pas l'anglais, mais j'aimerais vous dire que je vous trouve très heureux ensemble et continuer à dégager cette joie car c'est même cette joie qui vous ouvrira une porte du miracle qui viendra du créateur qui a fait toute chose bonne , je crois en le rétablissement total au nôm de JÉSUS-CHRIST.
You can turn on captions and pick "auto translate" then pick French. Sometimes , the translation isn't exactly correct,but it helps a lot.
If you're on a phone then it's the " wheel"icon on the top right of the screen.touch that,then auto translate,then French. Bonne Chance. ❤
@@lusimyer merci.
So great…never feel guilty for asking for assistance 🤗❤️
Cole & Charisma and please use wisdom and discernment when allowing anyone in your home as hired help. Don't be gullible.
Exactly, she wouldn't move in after stating how she was intrigued by him. Never bring another woman in your house. Its okay to hire an assistant without living in the home.
@@shanib.2Totally agree. That is what I wrote in my comments. A lot of women do not have morales or integrity to stay away from other women's men. I have advised Charisma to be vigilant.
Agree. And reach out to Cole, not Charisma. Hmmm...
She does NOT live with them
@@shanib.2 isn’t it weird that they previously had this history? And then she describes texting him out of nowhere like it was an intuition is just weird. I definitely think she has ulterior motives.
I think having a young single woman around your husband is a bad idea.
Charisma, please take into consideration the “negative” comments
So many people (including me) felt that smth is off about her
It wouldn’t be smart to just complete ignore it
OMG yess im so excited for you guys. Especially Charisma, girl you have so much on your plate and you do it with so much grace. Im excited to see what you get yourself in to with all this help now, cause I notice ya'll dont just stay still. Thaks again for sharing your lifes with us, I love it
Love to see you got help and were able to recognize when you needed it, you two are inspirational, zane you seem like an amazing person who is on the same wavelength as Cole & Charisma,
and to all the people in the comments who are doubting, how dare you not trust cole or zane, and bringing that kind of energy here is not what is needed
Get help if you need it, great thinking.
However, the woman has witch vibes and home wrecker lustful vibes. Praying for wisdom 🙏
After watching the video, Her body language, the story of how they hired her, it seems that she astro projected herself or telepathically projected herself in their minds... little witchcrafty. Lustful in both directions, meaning she may go after the husband or the wife.
All up in their home and business, rolling through the dog door 🥴
Yikes 😬
I have never left a comment like this in my life and seeing other people are feeling the vibes too. Yikes 😬
Prayers for wisdom and peace ✌
I honestly don’t care for her being the assistant, possibly a older woman would had been a better choice
This is a big step in TRUST & I love that… but be CAUTIOUS because it’s now a third person in your relationship
Respectfully she should initially contacted charisma which is cole wife
I’ll be watching….”The best is yet to come”
Keep it business ❤
Wait so she contacted him first??
@@reirei9446Yes...
Yes, she reconnected with Cole after about a year after sidestepping his wife through a text message.
Sounds witchy to me.
Welcome Zane to the family they're the two nicest people you ever met love you guys
I don't care for the way Zane and Coles eyes kept meeting. Zane makes me uncomfortable....Giirrrllll keep your eyes open. Her meeting Cole story gives me the creeps, sounds like she was down low feeling him. She would not be in my house, or in my circle. "Heck nooooo"...Good Luck.
She saw the goodies in the shower.
Happy you guys have help. I do as well my SN son goes to The Day Center now, he appears to really be enjoying himself, I am glad. Gives me a break and makes me feel at ease, finally. I still want to move to LA county though.
Zane met & was inspired by only Cole? Texting him? She seems smitten with him…& Cole knows it, he is taking advantage. Open your eyes Charisma, don’t be naive.
Honestly I agree. Like if she just doesn’t go get on indeed.
@@reirei9446 Right? Who the hell texts some random guy they met in a class for a job??? Its super weird and I don’t believe her at all
Sus
I am so so glad that yall got help. You can't do it all very happy for u.
I get a odd vibe from zaine be aware! Not trying to manifest negativity but just stay and be aware!
Facts!
I felt the same way, as soon as I seen her face
@@MylifeMyway7283
I love Cole and Charisma. Their fairytale love story is rare, edifying, and so inspiring.
I’m not feeling positive vibes from Zane; my intuition tells me she’s not one to be trusted, especially since she sidestepped Cole’s wife and initiated the “arrangement.”
If this doesn’t go well, Cole will never find another like his beautiful soul, Charisma.
Yah disaster looming. There should be boundaries. Who creeps into someone’s house via a dog flap.
NO CHARISMA NO!!!!!!!!
I love yall and so glad you found Zane and are getting the type of support you need.
How great for the three of you! It seems like a win-win-win situation. I was a personal assistant for a busy family many years ago, & it was an awesome job. It seems like Zane really enjoys & take pride in what she does. She’s also a natural on camera! I am super happy for you! Take care & stay well! ❤
Do a background check
Congratulations 🎉
Congrats!!!!
I’m not going to jump to wild conclusions like others are, but it’s very obvious she’s trying way too hard and isn’t authentic.
No, not “very obvious”. I did not get that vibe AT ALL.
@Oceanrocks true
It looks like One of those life time movies ........she's in love with your husband .....its obvious
Ong 💀💀
🚩🚩Nobody is saying not to hire help, we’re simply saying not her. It has nothing to do with her looks but the story of how she met Cole & was reaching out to him, it’s giving ulterior motives…she also staring & mesmerized by Cole. She is your employee, not your equal. Get that straight with her. Charisma is way to nice & naive, Cole knows what’s up tho
Your conspiracy theory is exhausting!! Chill and give these smart, intuitive people enough respect to KNOW what they are doing and who to bring into their space, and "not your equal?" get a grip; GEESH!! This tiresome comment has SO much foolishness in it, it made me tired🙄
I totally agree its super sketchy. Its also weird to make a video with her tbh it’s already crossing numerous boundaries. Who just texts random people they met for a job? That is super convenient and weird. They’re only getting defensive because they can see what we see but refuse to believe it
@@kutie216 MANY people message people they just met re jobs!! It's called NETWORKING, and is done by MANY, every day!! Do you people even listen to yourselves?? As if you can stay where YOU are and see these so-called "signs" but these two people are TOO dumb to see it?🙄 Get a grip and go deal with whatever/whoever is in your circle that YOU cant trust, and leave people to use THEIR intelligence AND intuition to invite the people THEY want into THEIR space; geesh.
@@kutie216 Networking is an integral part of jobhunting. If you're looking for work, why wouldn't you reach out to those in your social circle and friends circle to see if they have any leads?
@@vickenator I’m not an idiot I know what networking is and this is not that. This girl clearly targeted Cole and it’s weird. No I don’t go asking people I just met for jobs, maybe a friend yes but not some rando I met at an acting class. It is super weird to ask someone you barely know for a job unless of course they told you to reach out for that purpose- thats the only case where it would be somewhat normal.
Everyone is talking about charisma but I can’t believe Cole is so shameless. He’s taking advantage of her good nature and trust. It’s totally disrespectful to invite this woman who seems pretty smitten with him into his life with his doting wife, a good man would have turned down this damsel at her first attempt of trying to weasel her way into his family. Cole you are making a mockery of your marriage and your wife. Have some shame.
Too many insecure females in the comments. Thats the real problem
Yes! Happy for you guys to have a little help! And from a friend too. She seems very sweet! She crawled through that doggy door like a pro lol XD
The doggy door is unsafe. Watching how easy she crawled through it gave me chills. Not a good idea.
@@jennyg2243HOW ELSE WAS SHE GONNA GET IN WHEN SHE DIDN'T HAVE HER PHONE ON HER N/OR A HOUSE KEY?
It’s a great idea to have a doggy door for our pups lol. Our doggy door has a metal door that shuts it out from the public when Sophie isn’t using it. It literally impossible to break into. People really must think we’re so naive 😅
A burgler could climb through that doggy door if Zane could crawl through it. I think that's what people are concerned about. Just stay safe guys, thats all.
I am a new follower of this wonderful channel. I hope you provide a male assistant for Cole. It is better because girls always bring problems between spouses. Trust me. Cole is a wonderful man, I swear to you ❤❤
"I'm leaving. leaving. BYEEEE!" O.O j/k bahahahah
I think people are concerned not bc she’s a female but bc she’s a very young attractive actress that likes the spotlight and she built a connection/friendship first with Cole. Not the best recipe for someone you want to hire for help. It’s more of a risk than someone that wasn’t those things.
Out of all those caregivers you got the wrong one.........not mature
She isn’t a caregiver did you even watch the video?
So, it sounds like there have been people who are concerned because they care about this couple...however, I don't think that excuses inappropriate comments or behavior. TH-cam channels like this sacrifice a lot of their intimate lives to help educate the public, and that includes the people introduced on the channel. It's not easy to get in front of a camera and post it on the wild, wild internet. That is a gift I admire and respect. They're still human and deserve to be recognized and respected as such. The experiences they're sharing add incredible value to the ongoing discussion of "humanity" and it's unfortunate that they have to constantly go on the defense when being so vulnerable. It seems like the internet has created a massive grey area that we're struggling to navigate as a society with this emergence of "parasocial relationships". For all of us who care about this channel, and are talking about what should and shouldn't be done, and boundaries, I think we could first ask ourselves how we're respecting their boundaries in the comments, how we're treating the very real humans in this video.
I hope things go well and I'm glad to see that such a hard working and independent couple was able to accept help. I know that's not easy for some people. I'm glad that this person was available and able to jump right in and gain some sense of security after losing work. That's extremely tough, especially in such an expensive city. Even the dogs get along! Wishing your entire team well!
A couple who truly loves each other will not put their personal lives in public or on social media
Social media pays the bills.
People really be weird in these comments . They’re married , god forbid they have to listen to you weirdos cause you have trust issues. Don’t be putting that on them
Cole I love it so much that you trust Carisma’s intuition like that! ☀️
She’s like psychic or something, it’s wild
You can everyday video
@@coleandcharisma I believe it!!! You two are blessed and you brighten the lives of so many.
Pisces schooled, made for a spiritual gifted work as such, many, make a choice not to totally engage, in spiritual work, as many rather not look weird', many, toggle from logic to spirit, being an Intuit ain't a toggle, complete immersion, maybe an experience made to bring she closer into her spiritual gifted self, whereby complete intuitiveness, not logic and intuition 🤷🏽♀️, a Pisces school completely immersed is a bad azz Intuit, Edgar Cayce a prime example,
Charisma aaaaight with intuition, not 💯, her intuition she, created to use, wud share exactly, conception month and year, and not seek others when 1 LOVE and HER and COLE are beings to alone be involved in conception, balance, lame Pisces schooled are OVERLY SENSITIVE caaaaause feet 🦶🏾🦶🏾 are Piscean schooled ruled (Leos is 🫀, Aries the 👑, Taurean the Throat 👄🗣, Scorpion the genitalia 🥒🍒, Sagittarius the 💃hips, etc., etc.), feet not walking a spiritual path (as Pisces are here to do), brings excessive openess to energies all around (aka major sensessss- sensitivities, of bums to active beezy bees 🤷🏽♀️), shield not 💯, being dey 🦶🏾🦶🏾🦶🏾 not 💯 1
Witch vibes.
Awwwwwww, this is awesome for you guys, Zane has a matching personality, hope everything work out in everyone’s favor. Blessings to you all
I love how you guys work together and respect one another. Many could learn alot from this video. You Don't have to be mean or micromanage to get the job done. Communication is key!
Definitely, divine intervention! Wishing you guys the best.
My husband is a handsome guy in a wheelchair too and no more female “assistants”. They eventually get too comfy with my husband and even though I trust him I don’t trust THEM! Only male assistants/caregivers allowed now and I choose them. I’m not so sure about this girl Zane, but we shall see! I could tell Charisma was a little uncomfortable, as much as she tried to hide it! Been there, done that!
She is not Cole’s caregiver…
@@coleandcharisma I know, but she’s still in the company of Cole and over time she will say or do something that will rub you the wrong way, Charisma. I guarantee you! Just wait… She had no business texting your husband to begin with, and if you believe that song and dance of a lie why she texted him I feel for you. Even your husband asked her why she texted him with an amused look on his face. She was clearly smitten by his personality and how “comedic” he was when she met him. She’s clearly attracted to him and she’s right where she wanted to be now. Caution.
@brandygeorge9 I agree it was an awful idea hiring this girl. I can tell eventually charisma will have to get rid of her! Never bring an attractive women to "help husband with things" let alone allowing this lady in your personal home life. PLUS SHES A WHOLE GINGER!
@@coleandcharisma Hi Charisma, I really wish you would be more willing to learn from people’s experiences. I’ve been married for 21 years and what the original commenter has written is so true. Please don’t be defensive about what you’ve not yet experienced. Zane was clearly smitten by Cole at first sight and such a person is not one that you want around your husband. Secondly, the fact that she approached Cole behind your back to ask for a job would be cause for concern, even though Cole involved you in the decision to hire her. If I could do things differently, I’d listen more to what people told me who were married longer than I was. I’ve never left a negative comment on your channel but Zane will change your dynamic with Cole even if she doesn’t separate you, not because she is a woman but because of her intentions. I’d like to read Cole’s responses to the “negative” comments.
@@DK-pw5bt EXACTLY! Zane will eventually cause unwanted tension in their marriage. I’ve been with my husband 17 years, and I have experienced this more than once, sadly. It is ALWAYS the female “assistants”! Soon she will be wearing a little more makeup than usual, wearing inappropriate clothing to work, become overly catering to Cole, and other things that Charisma will soon notice, and I am trying so hard to warn her. Thank you for your comment and for clearly understanding what my intentions are.
Ok after watching this video, I felt compelled to post to the unecessary negative comments regarding y'll new addition to the team. Did anyone say anything similar about Charisma being unfaithful whenever any males were hired???? Why come at them with such hate. The fidelity of their marriage is private & off limits!! Just because they show parts of their lives doesn't mean it's ok to be so critical of their decisions. Have they shown anything that would cause you to think Chole woud cheat?? If you're a regular on this channel you would know that your comments are insulting to both Charisma & especially Chole, not to mention Zane( you don't even know her, yet you come at her character like that). Not all relationships go that way. It's apparent they both love & RESPECT each other. Life has no guarantees but I doubt after all they've been through. Chole would hurt his marriage, wife, himself & their family so callously. Unfortunately at times people produce comments that may be indicative of they're experiences! How bout we just wish them well! & STAY POSITIVE!!
Charisma u are doing the wrong thing that women will destroy your marriage u can see she is taking over.
I know bad decision ....she needs older women
That woman could be Lucifer for all you know
There are a lot of sad and miserable people in this world, and the internet gives them the opportunity to project this on others, with anonymity. Cole and Charisma keep doing you, I will forever be a fan. Welcome Zane!!!
It's so sad soooo many ppl are hurt and bitter...I been cheated on etc and and am so thankful that I am not warped and lost trust in humanity. Everyone is not out there to hurt or do you dirty esp just because they look a certain way because that's what it is honestly about.
If she was raggedy or ugly they wouldn't care.
These negative people should get a life
In this case, it is not about people being miserable. It is a fact of life. We see it happening every day around us. I want to see Charisma and Cole together always. They have come a long way and he has a wife in Charisma who from she wa😊s born loved and care for him. Fo not spoil that, Cole.
Worry is ungrounded fear. It is either from a past negative experience or something you think could happen. Worry, anxiety, and fear will bring the thing you are stressing over into your life. Why borrow trouble?
Charisma, is secure in her love and trust in Cole. Nothing has happened. Yes, Zane is pretty and Charisma is equally beautiful. Their relationship is based on trust and love. If she felt any other way, Charisma wouldn't have let her come into their home and life.
Yall chill out and stop projecting your painful experience onto them. Go and get healed and set free so that that you can love and trust again. In other words keep your fears to yourself.
where are those comments?
Are you really buying that story I woke up one morning text Cole you know she's thinking about Cole
Yes!!! Agree 100. Also, he goes into the bathroom to talk on the phone..............interesting. Now, she needed a job and thought of asking Cole asked for a job - and got it!!! How did she know to ask him!!
These people thinking so poorly of Cole, saying he will cheat. They need to get a life. Clearly they have nothing better to do. Glad you guys are getting help!!
He will
@@safinahkyala9291you must think everyone is condemned to be like your dad
where
@@YesIlikebananasSobut why the low blow? That wasn’t necessary 😮even if her mindset thinks that what does your comment say about you? You guys are so brave on this internet
@@jiggy262but they won’t have Coles level of power financially & socially! They will be broke nobodies. That’s why she want Cole!
People have no business telling grown adults what to do and who to have around them. However, i think some of these comments are from people who actually care about you guys and know from experience that it can be peoblematic when boundaries are not set and when emotional boundaries are formed. Also your supporters may not have mentioned anything with Camilla and Armando because their introduction was a different.
I seen some pretty crazy comments though lol I think it's absolutely uncalled for honestly..
@@Daisy-Girl0021so do I and it makes no sense. Why are people judging the lady's intention from one video. I can understand the concerns and warnings but the judgemental and cruel comments is a no no
Radom text you need Money and you Think of Cole, I don't get good vibes, I know you need help but Nah!! Not gonna work. And don't let her do the stay positive set boundaries I want to Cole and Charisma:( I'm commenting not on my channel and 3 a crowd
Zane is just fine people need to relax, if Cole and Charisma are happy with her job performance is all that matter..I am pretty sure that there are boundaries, respect is very important and they talk about business and friendship...Cole and Charisma relationship is very solid, they have commitments, goals, love, and Cole is never gonna find somebody that love him the way Charisma does and Viceversa..! Finally I pretty sure they meet people all the time and have friends, and it doesn't mean they are gonna cheat! Zane is just perfect!
It's being wise, not to have Zane around for that extended time. It's rare this would be a good idea, maybe in an holy Spirit filled woman, covered, and her breast covered at the job. I hope Zane a new job, give her time to find one, that would be great. The idea that Zane texted Cole for work, but work that's personal to Cole , Absolutely NOT! , IMO - It's not about insecurities, it's principal and wisdom not to have a young woman hired to help a young married couple, who is single, not covered who sought out a married young man for help?????
I’m trying to figure out how two positive people as these two can insight such negativity from these comments. It’s ridiculous to make assumptions about Cole’s fidelity and Zane’s intentions based off of this video. Some of y’all forget that these are two GROWN adults who are capable of making decisions that will benefit their day to day lives. How awful to introduce someone who obviously means so much to them and who has lightened their load by being the help they needed professionally only to be chastised like children and warned that Zane’s energy is off, Cole is going to cheat 🙄 oh and Charisma is too naive to see what so many others can see, REALLY!! If y’all don’t cut it out and re-examine why you are projecting your negative, distrustful thoughts on to these three. Cut it out. Cole and Charisma Got This 💪🏼Oh and Welcome Zane🎉 which was the ENTIRE point of this video geesh lol.
Congratulations ❤️
The ending was soooo cute!!! Zane you did great!!!
Bringing in support and talent is the only way to grow your business. Good for you for taking the leap. I wish I had done that sooner in my business. Kudos and keep going!