My mother died yesterday, after a long , hard, two year battle with ALS. If you know what that is you know it is a battle that cannot be won. She was my best friend. I am here for anyone that needs someone to talk to.
Please allow me to share my best friend's story with you. This family knows where to turn in times of tragedy. Family Story Little did our family of six know that Friday evening, September 24th, 2021, would be the last night our family would be complete. We laughed together, played games, sang, and enjoyed listening as our 16-year-old son, Ethan, played the piano for us. I packed a lunch for Ethan for a church mountain hike he was going on the following day. My mother (who was visiting from out of state) and I woke early with Ethan on Saturday morning. He hugged me and smiled, never pulling away or rushing me. He got in the car, waved, said he'd see me later and he loved me. It was hard to watch my "new driver" heading out on his own that morning. As Ethan pulled out of the gate, I turned to my mother and said, "It's just so hard letting go." Little did I know how much "letting go" I was really doing. That was the last time I saw Ethan. He did not make it home that evening. That afternoon, a friend tried to contact my husband, leaving an urgent message to call him back. He tried several times to return the call to no avail. As we were preparing supper, an overwhelming feeling of deep concern for Ethan filled my heart. I quietly blinked back tears. I glanced out the window, half expecting to see a police officer pull up to the house, but no one arrived. However, within a few minutes, a patrol car DID pull into the driveway. In my heart, I feared the worst. My husband and I went out to meet the officer, who confirmed our fears. Hesitantly, he told us our son had fallen off of a bluff and had succumbed to his injuries. Our hearts were crushed; they still are. Yet, in all of our brokenness, deep, continual grief and loneliness, our family has such a blessed Hope and assurance that we will see our dear son and brother again. You see, when Ethan was a young boy, he was saved; he put his faith in Jesus alone to forgive his sins and to take him to Heaven when he died. He realized some very important truths from the Bible that he would want to share with you. His Story Everyone is a sinner. Sin is any violation of God’s Law. God is holy, just and righteous, and He cannot allow sin in His presence. Ethan realized that he - like all of us - had sinned; and his sin separated Him from God. “For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God; ” (Romans 3:23) “Wherefore, as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned:” (Romans 5:12) He understood that, because of his sin, he deserved to spend eternity in Hell. “For the wages of sin is death;” (Romans 6:23a) [Wages: price] “But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.” (Revelation 21:8) Ethan believed that Jesus, God’s Son, paid the price for all sin when He died on the cross - because His sinless sacrifice was the only thing that could satisfy the just demands of a righteous, holy God. Jesus was buried in a borrowed tomb, but He arose the third day, triumphant over sin, death, and Hell. Jesus is alive today! “For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.” (John 3:16) “For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast.” (Ephesians 2:8-9) Ethan was sorry for his sin, repented (turned), and received by faith the free gift that God offered to him. “For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13) “...but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.” (Romans 6:23b) Because of this great salvation, Ethan lived his life serving Jesus. He worked hard to spread this Good News to the world. He is alive in Heaven with Jesus today; and because of this great HOPE in Christ, we know we will see him again soon - not because he was a great kid, but because of his faith in the great Saviour! “And I give unto them eternal life; and they shall never perish, neither shall any man pluck them out of my hand.” (John 10:28) Your Story What about you? What if you had fallen to your death that day - What if you were to die today? Where will you spend eternity - Heaven or the Lake of Fire? There will not be any parties in the Lake of Fire. It is a place of eternal torment for those who reject God's Son. The Word of God is very clear that there is only One Way to Heaven. “Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.” (John 14:6) We did not know that Ethan would step into eternity that day; however, because he put his faith in Jesus alone for his salvation, Ethan was ready to go. Some day - perhaps today - you will take your last breath here on earth, and you will step into eternity. Where you spend eternity is determined by what you do with Jesus Christ. Will you accept Him or reject Him? You are not promised another day or another breath. Eternity begins soon - Are you ready? “...Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and thou shalt be saved…” (Acts 16:31b) “For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13) “(...behold, now is the day of salvation.)” (2 Corinthians 6:2c) ****************************** This testimony has been made into a tract form as well, so if you or your church are interested in having them to pass out, please go to libertyfaith.net and you will find the contact info there. God bless! Tribute to Ethan Lakey th-cam.com/video/EhobcQZ6Qb8/w-d-xo.html
If you’ve lost somebody and you’re feeling their absence you’re actually feeling the joy that they left in your life. In time, the memories which now hurt, will bring both joy and comfort reminding you of those days. Sorrow is measured in the weight of that joy
I’m not afraid of death because once I die, I’m dead. Nothing I can do or feel. It just happens. But losing someone is the hard part because we are left with the pain and sorrow of not being able to see them again or hear their voice or feel their touch. It’s hard. But we all must be strong for them because I bet whoever you may have lost will not want you to be always sad when you remember them. They want you to smile and laugh about the memories you shared. And will share once you see each other again. Because you WILL see them again.
I lost my papa two days ago and it broke me. He was the only one who understood me and always knew what to say. I know he is no longer in pain anymore but he had plans to live to see me and my little brother’s accomplishments in life. I know I have to use it as motivation and look at the bright side but he was the one I would always call when I was upset. I can’t make that call this time and it kills me. I will make him proud in life and do everything he wanted me to do. I love you Papa ❤.
My dad died today and mom passed away 12 years ago I'm 32 and have a younger brother and have to be stronger than ever but it hurts me to my core. To anyone going through loss, stay strong for you and your family and know you are not alone! We can't grow from it always being sunny we have to have some rain.
After surviving cancer, I fear nothing. We all are that way. It's a great club to be a part of. My cancer was a blessing in many ways. It definitely puts this world into a microscope for you.
My Grandma died early this morning. I love her and while I am sad, I am also proud. She lived a long life and she is an amazing woman. I can't count how many times she has fought cancer and many illnesses. She is gone but not forgotten. One thing she would tell me is how amazing I was. She would brag about how I made good grades and was a good kid. I knew her days were numbered but I didn't know it would be today. At least I will make her proud and she died proud of me. I'm going to engineering school this fall and I will stay strong just for her because she was strong. Thank you Grandma for believing in me ❤
I lost my grandpa about a year ago... Even though I wasn’t able to create that bond most kids and grandparents have because he lived on the other side of the world... He was like a best friend Even though we didn’t have many conversations He’s still my best friend When he died... My heart shattered into a million pieces... I was thinking every day “was it my fault he died?”.. One day I was looking around my dads room when I found a picture of my grandpa in a family photo when it was my first birth day and.. He had the brightest, goofiest smile ever That’s when it hit me, it was never my fault it was never anyone’s fault I realized even though he’s gone he’s still here And I know that doesn’t make much sense but what I’m trying to say is.. You are strong.. Even if you disagree you can’t escape the truth You are strong a beautiful If you can’t see any beauty in yourself Get a better mirror Look a little closer Stare a little longer Because something inside you told you to fight the wave of sadness and it’s not a superpower or a emotion... It’s your heart
I have exactly this relation with my grandpa. I’m on the train right now going to visit him in the hospital. Doctors said he will probably pass away today.
I first listened to this lecture 10 years ago after my Mother committed suicide. It had a profound impact on the acceptance of her passing, and really helped change my perspective about death. 🖤 Though I miss her dearly and still cry sometimes and get upset, I know in my mind heart and soul the process of life and death, and how beautiful both are. I know she's finally at peace and her energy cannot ever be destroyed. I do not fear death whatsoever anymore. It's just as beautiful as life and a process we will all endure. The way you perceive it all is everything.
Please allow me to share my best friend's story with you. This family knows where to turn in times of tragedy. Family Story Little did our family of six know that Friday evening, September 24th, 2021, would be the last night our family would be complete. We laughed together, played games, sang, and enjoyed listening as our 16-year-old son, Ethan, played the piano for us. I packed a lunch for Ethan for a church mountain hike he was going on the following day. My mother (who was visiting from out of state) and I woke early with Ethan on Saturday morning. He hugged me and smiled, never pulling away or rushing me. He got in the car, waved, said he'd see me later and he loved me. It was hard to watch my "new driver" heading out on his own that morning. As Ethan pulled out of the gate, I turned to my mother and said, "It's just so hard letting go." Little did I know how much "letting go" I was really doing. That was the last time I saw Ethan. He did not make it home that evening. That afternoon, a friend tried to contact my husband, leaving an urgent message to call him back. He tried several times to return the call to no avail. As we were preparing supper, an overwhelming feeling of deep concern for Ethan filled my heart. I quietly blinked back tears. I glanced out the window, half expecting to see a police officer pull up to the house, but no one arrived. However, within a few minutes, a patrol car DID pull into the driveway. In my heart, I feared the worst. My husband and I went out to meet the officer, who confirmed our fears. Hesitantly, he told us our son had fallen off of a bluff and had succumbed to his injuries. Our hearts were crushed; they still are. Yet, in all of our brokenness, deep, continual grief and loneliness, our family has such a blessed Hope and assurance that we will see our dear son and brother again. You see, when Ethan was a young boy, he was saved; he put his faith in Jesus alone to forgive his sins and to take him to Heaven when he died. He realized some very important truths from the Bible that he would want to share with you. His Story Everyone is a sinner. Sin is any violation of God’s Law. God is holy, just and righteous, and He cannot allow sin in His presence. Ethan realized that he - like all of us - had sinned; and his sin separated Him from God. “For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God; ” (Romans 3:23) “Wherefore, as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned:” (Romans 5:12) He understood that, because of his sin, he deserved to spend eternity in Hell. “For the wages of sin is death;” (Romans 6:23a) [Wages: price] “But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.” (Revelation 21:8) Ethan believed that Jesus, God’s Son, paid the price for all sin when He died on the cross - because His sinless sacrifice was the only thing that could satisfy the just demands of a righteous, holy God. Jesus was buried in a borrowed tomb, but He arose the third day, triumphant over sin, death, and Hell. Jesus is alive today! “For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.” (John 3:16) “For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast.” (Ephesians 2:8-9) Ethan was sorry for his sin, repented (turned), and received by faith the free gift that God offered to him. “For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13) “...but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.” (Romans 6:23b) Because of this great salvation, Ethan lived his life serving Jesus. He worked hard to spread this Good News to the world. He is alive in Heaven with Jesus today; and because of this great HOPE in Christ, we know we will see him again soon - not because he was a great kid, but because of his faith in the great Saviour! “And I give unto them eternal life; and they shall never perish, neither shall any man pluck them out of my hand.” (John 10:28) Your Story What about you? What if you had fallen to your death that day - What if you were to die today? Where will you spend eternity - Heaven or the Lake of Fire? There will not be any parties in the Lake of Fire. It is a place of eternal torment for those who reject God's Son. The Word of God is very clear that there is only One Way to Heaven. “Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.” (John 14:6) We did not know that Ethan would step into eternity that day; however, because he put his faith in Jesus alone for his salvation, Ethan was ready to go. Some day - perhaps today - you will take your last breath here on earth, and you will step into eternity. Where you spend eternity is determined by what you do with Jesus Christ. Will you accept Him or reject Him? You are not promised another day or another breath. Eternity begins soon - Are you ready? “...Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and thou shalt be saved…” (Acts 16:31b) “For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13) “(...behold, now is the day of salvation.)” (2 Corinthians 6:2c) ****************************** This testimony has been made into a tract form as well, so if you or your church are interested in having them to pass out, please go to libertyfaith.net and you will find the contact info there. God bless! Tribute to Ethan Lakey th-cam.com/video/EhobcQZ6Qb8/w-d-xo.html
I fear death... I don't fear the point of my death, I fear the unknown. The worst scenario for me is the fact that me and everyone I love will cease to exist... and eventually be forgotten. It is terrifying... oblivion, the it's so hard to comprehend... nothingness, the fact that it is unavoidable... I don't know why I can't stop feeling like this.
T0n3ma PLS I as well fear death. My writing to you this morning is not so much to enlighten you, but to be part of a discussion, for the very fear I have would otherwise reveal a phony. I’m working through this fear. My fear of death reveals my fear of life. But sometimes to remind me I take an old photo, one that is old enough that everyone in it is already dead. No doubt some of them were bothered by those same questions. It is only our thoughts that haunt us. What is actually alive doesn’t seem to mind. I know there is something beyond my thinking mind-you know- the awareness that you ARE. That bothersome thought seems to sit in that space for a while and then go and either be open or filled with another temporary thought. I’ve struggled so much with this because I’m such a brooding “thinker”. But it is dawning on me that THAT thinking mind simply does not itself have the capacity for comprehending life after death, for example. It bugs me terribly- the unknown- or rather it bugs my “mind” about the unknown. And yet as you point out it is absolutely the boss (inevitable). I’m in the last quarter of my life now and I still have not completely lept into the unknown- it’s like dreading that the sun will come up and face another day. My mind wants to have the security of knowing what it cannot know. There’s the conundrum. So I sit it’s this fear and stew. It’s unavoidable and inevitable and I admit that all my ruminating about the unknown has sacrificed true living.
This gave me a mental breakdown yesterday, started getting flashbacks about my 2 older brothers, and all family related and childhood friends that i lost along the way,when i was 19 one of my brothers died when i was 18 the other died, haven’t grieved it yet bc i got older and got the older brother role cuz of my 3 younger siblings, now im just accepting it! Now im getting dead inside but im grateful im grateful of god
I had spent days at my mom's bedside in her last days knowing she was about to die and was literally waiting for it to happen. A relative came and told me to get some sleep so I went to my bedroom and not 5 minutes later my mom's cat was flipping the fuck out trying to get into my bedroom. This cat had not left my mom's side for over two weeks the moment we found out her cancer had spread and there was nothing left to do but hospice care. I wanted to sleep but knew my mom needed her cat so I got up and picked up the cat and started going up the stairs to take her back to my mom when I noticed everyone in the house was crying (I have a large family so it was like 20+ people). My mom waited for me to leave to pass and her cat was now my cat. That was the hardest night of my life and also the most amazing because it showed me I wasn't alone. We aren't alone. I have no clue what happens next but it isn't the end.
My dad died last night, on Halloween night. He had an 8 year battle with leukemia... He was ready to go. The Treatments had stopped working, and the chemo had almost killed him, so he decided it would be better to embrace death, than to fight this disease and feel miserable... He embraced death. And he died well.
My grandma died last week. She was my only constant in life. I spoke with her everyday, usually at least twice, for nearly 25 years. I was closer with her than my mom. She lived a full life. 86 years old.4 great grandchildren. Her health had been declining for the last few months and she was ready to go. She told me so. She told me she just wanted to go to sleep and not wake up, which is exactly what happened. I don't know what life looks like without her there to listen to me and give me her advise. But I'll figure it out I guess. I have to. I miss you grandma and I'll always love you......
Rest in peace to my beautiful grandmother. Wonderful woman. A loyal one. Someone who always had my back. I should have treated her better. You never understand how precious everything is until you lose it. I will love you and miss you forever. You went out surrounded by people who loved you. Gone but won’t ever be forgotten.
Please allow me to share my best friend's story with you. This family knows where to turn in times of tragedy. Family Story Little did our family of six know that Friday evening, September 24th, 2021, would be the last night our family would be complete. We laughed together, played games, sang, and enjoyed listening as our 16-year-old son, Ethan, played the piano for us. I packed a lunch for Ethan for a church mountain hike he was going on the following day. My mother (who was visiting from out of state) and I woke early with Ethan on Saturday morning. He hugged me and smiled, never pulling away or rushing me. He got in the car, waved, said he'd see me later and he loved me. It was hard to watch my "new driver" heading out on his own that morning. As Ethan pulled out of the gate, I turned to my mother and said, "It's just so hard letting go." Little did I know how much "letting go" I was really doing. That was the last time I saw Ethan. He did not make it home that evening. That afternoon, a friend tried to contact my husband, leaving an urgent message to call him back. He tried several times to return the call to no avail. As we were preparing supper, an overwhelming feeling of deep concern for Ethan filled my heart. I quietly blinked back tears. I glanced out the window, half expecting to see a police officer pull up to the house, but no one arrived. However, within a few minutes, a patrol car DID pull into the driveway. In my heart, I feared the worst. My husband and I went out to meet the officer, who confirmed our fears. Hesitantly, he told us our son had fallen off of a bluff and had succumbed to his injuries. Our hearts were crushed; they still are. Yet, in all of our brokenness, deep, continual grief and loneliness, our family has such a blessed Hope and assurance that we will see our dear son and brother again. You see, when Ethan was a young boy, he was saved; he put his faith in Jesus alone to forgive his sins and to take him to Heaven when he died. He realized some very important truths from the Bible that he would want to share with you. His Story Everyone is a sinner. Sin is any violation of God’s Law. God is holy, just and righteous, and He cannot allow sin in His presence. Ethan realized that he - like all of us - had sinned; and his sin separated Him from God. “For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God; ” (Romans 3:23) “Wherefore, as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned:” (Romans 5:12) He understood that, because of his sin, he deserved to spend eternity in Hell. “For the wages of sin is death;” (Romans 6:23a) [Wages: price] “But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.” (Revelation 21:8) Ethan believed that Jesus, God’s Son, paid the price for all sin when He died on the cross - because His sinless sacrifice was the only thing that could satisfy the just demands of a righteous, holy God. Jesus was buried in a borrowed tomb, but He arose the third day, triumphant over sin, death, and Hell. Jesus is alive today! “For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.” (John 3:16) “For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast.” (Ephesians 2:8-9) Ethan was sorry for his sin, repented (turned), and received by faith the free gift that God offered to him. “For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13) “...but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.” (Romans 6:23b) Because of this great salvation, Ethan lived his life serving Jesus. He worked hard to spread this Good News to the world. He is alive in Heaven with Jesus today; and because of this great HOPE in Christ, we know we will see him again soon - not because he was a great kid, but because of his faith in the great Saviour! “And I give unto them eternal life; and they shall never perish, neither shall any man pluck them out of my hand.” (John 10:28) Your Story What about you? What if you had fallen to your death that day - What if you were to die today? Where will you spend eternity - Heaven or the Lake of Fire? There will not be any parties in the Lake of Fire. It is a place of eternal torment for those who reject God's Son. The Word of God is very clear that there is only One Way to Heaven. “Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.” (John 14:6) We did not know that Ethan would step into eternity that day; however, because he put his faith in Jesus alone for his salvation, Ethan was ready to go. Some day - perhaps today - you will take your last breath here on earth, and you will step into eternity. Where you spend eternity is determined by what you do with Jesus Christ. Will you accept Him or reject Him? You are not promised another day or another breath. Eternity begins soon - Are you ready? “...Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and thou shalt be saved…” (Acts 16:31b) “For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13) “(...behold, now is the day of salvation.)” (2 Corinthians 6:2c) ****************************** This testimony has been made into a tract form as well, so if you or your church are interested in having them to pass out, please go to libertyfaith.net and you will find the contact info there. God bless! Tribute to Ethan Lakey th-cam.com/video/EhobcQZ6Qb8/w-d-xo.html
My wife’s brother in the hospital fighting for his life after 5 years of battle with cancer. Hurts to see my wife and her family in pain. Anyone going through a fight against illness, may god bless you and your family. Life is not guaranteed and more precious then I realized now being 35years old. Have a good day anyone reading this. 🙌🏼
This is much well said. I dont when in life we started to fear death. I have feared it, and still am fearing it, but this is so true. I just sometimes wish we didnt feel so much.. loosing someone we love, its just too hard to even think about, even it will happen during life
I have been diagnosed with terminal cancer....and yet!!!!.... I am on my way to the Gran Canyon to run the Rim to Rim trail N-S...S-N.....after that....I will be happy to sit and close my eyes 4ever.... Alberto Mountain Runner
Bro please teaching me how accepted death likes you *(because in my heart i cant accepted this situation)* 😭 #ItsVeryHardToMe 😢 #ImDenialWithMyLife 😢 #ButImDyingNow 😢
Look into Gerson therapy, many terminal cases reversed and cancer put fully into remission. I wish I would have known about Gerson therapy 20 years ago...my mom would probably still be alive today, she was just 46 when she passed from pancreatic cancer 😢
I lost my mom 23 years ago this November days after my birthday and this time of year fucks me up so badly. "the attitude that death is as positive as birth and should be a matter of rejoicing because death is the symbol of the liberation." I miss her so much especially this time of year but this has made it possible for me to finally let go of her.
Belladonna Von I think it was Mark Twain that said a man dies twice, once when he takes a last breath and secondly when his name is said for the last time. This is not a thing to fear. Think of it a different way, you have 100 years to influence people as much as you can, and they in turn influence others from your inertial influence, and from that in spreads until everyone in the world is affected by your influence on the world. We may die, bit our influence doesn't. So it doesn't make sense to fear being forgotten because it's impossible
Gerard, I'd like to see things your way. I think you are right. The religion I was steeped in didn't talk much about death unless one was at a funeral. Death seemed taboo. The older I get the more accepting I am of death being a part of life. Acceptance. Nobody gets to live forever in the human body/machine.....thank goodness. I don't think I'd like that at all. Perhaps we don't die? Perhaps we become a part of the universe once again. Our consciousness? Does it matter what happens to that? It's probably like existence before birth whatever that is.
@Kade Daivis I felt that same way when I was your age, I was afraid of dying young and never experiencing things I had not yet, once you do, it does feel like what else not much, next, best times are gone and it becomes less scary, at one point I had sever back issues where I felt pain no Matter whether I was laying or standing and I would look forward to sleep because in my dreams I was fine again and waking up was dreadful, first time ever I understood why assisted suicide exists, I healed some but at my worst life was unbearable I thought it was not gonna get better, during that time my fear of death decreased because it became sort of like a relief, God healed my spirit and now I enjoy every second of every day, soon I wake up I don't even check how many hours I slept I just get up and try to squeeze the most out of every second of every day since I know I'll right back feeling that later on in life whenever my time comes....
I've lost three of the 5 of my siblings (including myself) and I've never found a center to feeling ok. I constantly run from happiness. Im terrified of it. I just hope you all have a someone to hear you grieve. And a someone you will allow to be vulnerable around. I cry with you, because I need it too
This has put me at ease completely, took a while for me to watch this video as I thought it might make my fear worse, but after listening I realise it’s not that bad at all and is completely natural.
My Beautiful Granny passed away 2 weeks ago...buried her the Sunday before this mother's day... in a beautiful place next to my grandpa in Lenoir City Tennessee...and I miss her terribly it's hard to deal yall...Rest in Heaven Grandma
I needed this my uncle dropped dead after getting off of work last night was on the ground for a hour before anybody noticed 😭. I haven’t moved since I got the phone call . I just need a push Lord help me .
Being someone that was brought up with no religion or belief. All I can think is that when I die. I will rot in the ground till the the end and it scares me thinking that this is it. This is the only chance I get a living. Maybe I’ll be recarnated or maybe I’ll live in another life but I will not get to experience this life ever again, like ever and that is the scariest thing ever. Keeps me up every night.
I understand and I don't know if I have cancer or not but 🤔 I'm grateful for the life I've had and all of the people who have been in my life and God bless you all 🙏☮️🌎
I lost my grandma at the end of 2020, she was my best friend- my other half. I went numb for over the next year and still can’t feel much. My parents are trying to help but I don’t know how to mend this pain. This video helped me feel a bit though.
I lost my Nan last night and she was like a second mom to me - she was there when I was born a real life guardian angel- my kids were so lucky to get to know their great grandmother and I am so proud of her legacy of family and love maybe I am in shock but I’m taking strength from her grace and showing us the way to love and live without regret and I hope you can do the same -sending you strength.
That’s sad. my mom told us my grandma was going to hell because she doesn’t attend the same church as us and all others outside of us are doomed to eternal suffering 😂 my mom was a psycho to tell her kids that, true or not. And once I felt what “hell” was like, I lost all motivation and will to live to maybe have to live like that forever, but even if I could shake that feeling of despair, there would be people somewhere who would never escape it. Delusional thinking and lies and hate just ruin the life experience. Death is sad enough on its own without all the extras attached. Have a blessed and beautiful Saturday night😁
Coming up on the fourth anniversary of my Fathers passing... I've taken the torch and am doing my damndest to make him proud, he's still here with me... We'll meet again one day
I lost my two older brothers and two of my grandmas and my great uncle last year back to back it was heart breaking and hard to move on but I slowly accepted it but I still miss them all
I lost my beautiful and oh so loved girlfriend a little over a week ago and the pain of that loss has been unbearable. I miss her so much. There is a huge gaping hole in my heart and life that only Heidi could fill. I want to be with her but really where is she? I'd like to believe she is in heaven. That heaven exists and that she is happier than she's ever been. I want to believe that when a hummingbird flies by me that is here spirit letting me know she's here with me. I can't stop crying. I can't stop wondering why her and not me. Each day is just another day to mourn the loss of my world. How can I get past this and not want to die?
I lost my father 2 years ago from cancer and it hurts very much still but I am also at peace knowing he is not suffering anymore. It makes me think of my own mortality even more now . I am not afraid of death , But I cannot fathom leaving my 3 daughters. Maybe in the spirit I can be with them at every moment when the time comes .
That’s really beautiful, and isn’t that exactly what would delight her now? Good for you. My great aunt died when I was 18. She was my hero! At 87, she wanted to go, and when she did, I was glad, not sad. I feel she lives on and is as loving as ever.
I lost my grandma about 4months ago. And i am now in depression due to it. Not wanting to leave my bed, rethinking the memories. Wanting to end it all to be with her cause she was the only person who understood me..
I don't know why we can't except death in a more beautiful way. We always seem to feel or express some kind of wrongdoing. It's not the death but the process that bothers me most. The pain and suffering really disturbs me. I pray that i accept the experience of losing loved ones with grace and reference. Not be a victim like something unusual occurence happened to me. Losing a loved one is 100% guaranteed. Love deeply and enjoy the ride Blessing to us all and may our love
I fear death but for me it's the fear of being forgotten and losing everything that matters to me. So I have spent a long time in my mind working out what I can do to create a physical system to keep me in the mind of future family members. So before I pass away I want to make a ring or neckless for my future children or close relative so they can carry me with them now and then and remember all the good times together.
This made me tear up for a second. When my older sister was killed in 2010, her cremations were the centralized theme of different jewelry that went to direct family. In a sense, she still follows me wherever I go. I'm glad you saw the same.
I used to be scared of not knowing what's going to happen after I die. I thought I was scared of nothingness and being non-existent, maybe I was. But as I began to think about it again I realize that now I'm scared of the exact opposite. I'm afraid of living after death because I could never go away. It sounds depressing, and maybe it is, but the thought of an afterlife frustrates me and scares me a lot. It makes me feel trapped, stuck, mad. So now I believe that believing in nothingness after death is the calmest way I have yet to think about dying. It used to terrify me and now it can't. I don't want to hang onto myself, I don't want to be trapped. I want to live a full life and be put to rest when it's my time to go. I'm far too young to be thinking about this and if I tell someone I feel okay about it, they ask me if I'm okay. What they don't understand is.. Of course I am. They'll never get it, but that's okay with me.
I remember getting into a car accident and I was on the ground looking up, at that moment all I could hear was the ocean. I was no where near it but somehow I could hear waves and smell a breeze. I think death is an ocean you need to come across just like this.
I just recently lost my mom. I'm lost. I don't want to die but I don't want to continue on. I know I must and I will. But I just can't take all the sadness everyday. They say life is short but it is the very thing we will experience most. I'm lost. I'm lost
Good morning I guess so we opened our eyes 👀 today I’m 75 that’s coming close to the finish line ha ha ,we all have a fear of the unknown, this to shall pass 😊
Death is truly the purpose of life. Us humans are always trying to find the purpose of our existence and it’s none other than the same phenomenon that strips it away. Death gives us a time limit, it is inevitable as many of us already know. The thing we don’t..know.. is when it’s coming, to me, to you and to the people you care about the most. You can’t stop it, no one can, so what CAN you do? Make every minute of your life count. Enjoy your life, with no regrets. Easy right? Well you also have to do the hard things like forgiving those that hurt, talking to people you said you were no longer going to talk to, because you never know if tomorrow is the day they get taken away and you never said I’m sorry or even goodbye. Live and forgive but above all don’t forget to tell those you love the most that you love them very much. Everyday you can because you never know if that will be the last thing you say to them.
My mother asked me to drive my big brother to the hospital for his routine check ups, I said I was working that day. 3 hours later she called me that he had passed away. I have not forgiven myself
this year is so bad and it’s only june. i lost my uncle to a stroke. my bestfriend to a car crash. my grandpa to leukemia. my grandma to heart problems. and my dads cousin but i’m not sure how. why. why is this happening. what could i have possibly done to get this karma. i hate it.
Jamie Gagliardo hang in there! We all go through rough times and depression. This video helped save me from depression. Just think about your friends and reach out for help and they can help. Just hang in there and keep fighting and its gets better over time.
Last year, as a junior in community college, I lost all 3 of my best friends to gun violence within 6 months. What I don't understand, is why my paranoia of death and losing the ones around me has just now only sunk in over this last week or so. I've done everything imaginable. Physical exercise, healthy eating, meditation, medication, anti-depressants, you name it. Can't shake it.
I lost my father a year ago it was hard and its stil hard its never gonna get eassier its only going to get harder you have to learn how to live with it. I was broken when he passed away because he was my best friend,my Light in life. The hardest thing ever is seeing your mother hiding her grieve from you.
Im afraid of what happens after death. No ones ever escaped death. We all have to do it. Dying isn't going to lsst long. Ive tried taking my own life 3 times. Im 39 years old. 6 years ago i was diagnosed with sle lupus and it took drs 5 months to do anything to diagnose me. I went from health and going to the gym 5 times a week. I was 137 pounds. In those 5 months i could no longer walk. I was covered in my own urine. Excruciating pain. I weighed 64 pounds. My then bf of 14 years told me he couldn't be with me anymore because i was so ugly now. I was ready to go at that point. I went to a hospital an hour away and found out my kidneys were at 12% function and a long list of other problems. Getting sle lupus has been a blessing and a curse. I live more now than i did before. Im no where near physical beauty but i have so much beauty in me now ❤ i have 2 friends. Haven't been in a relationship or even dated for 6 years. I lm more honest to people about not wanting to put up with repetitive issues. I no longer waste my time and energy worrying about what others think. I no longer wear make-up and no longer care about all the stupid things i did before. Sending you all love, strength and peace ❤ much love and prayers as well as respect. We will see each other and those who've passed in the next life.
The part of death that scares me is the fact that im not going to exist. My subconscious gets scared because where will i be. Where will my consciousness go. Its the unknown part that is absolutely tormenting me
MY GRANDMOTHER JUST DIED YESTERDAY SEPTEMBER 26,2024. I'M JUST HERE GRIEVING FOR THE WORDS I CAN'T EVEN SAY ON MY MOUTH. IT HURTS, IT REALLY HURTS. I BARELY FEEL A SHOCKED AND A NON STOP FLOWING OF TEARS ON MY EYES. I LOVE HER SO MUCH. SHE TEACHES ME LESSONS THAT MOLD ME AS WHO I AM TODAY. I ASK GOD IF IN THE NEXT LIFE I WISH SHE'S MY GRANDMOTHER AGAIN, FOR I LOVED HER SO MUCH. IT'S JUST INEVITABLE FEELING OF GRIEF AND SADNESS WHEN SOMEONE YOU LOVE PASSED AWAY. I HOPE WE SEE EACH OTHER AGAIN IN THE NEXT LIFE. I LOVE YOU NANANG😭
I’m not fond of doing this, I’ve always thought making comments like this is corny, but I’m afraid, I’m afraid of dying because I don’t wanna lose me, I don’t wanna lose the people I love either, their personalities, the love we share, every day I get to be around them in either an extreme circumstance or just mundane life, I just love them so much. I used to hate myself, hated myself a lot. Lived super hedonistic, my only focus being enjoying as much pleasure as possible till I died, not thinking there was any point to life out side of that. But recently, I fell in love, it’s been the best year of my life being with her. She annoys me sometimes with her feelings and actions, I feel deeply too I just never really express like she does, it’s a protection mechanism on my part, but god damn is she the most beautiful creature I’ve laid eyes on, not just physically but she’s so kind and warm, the way she loves her kids, her goofiness, all of it. But now I have something to lose, I suppose a more accurate way to put it is falling in love with her made me realize I’ve always been afraid to lose. I love her and the kids, so much. Now I find myself at 26 going on 27 in a few month’s and mourning their and my deaths before it even happens, and in the same respect it’s made me think of all the loved ones I already have and neglected for so long because of my focus on pleasure. I’ve lost so many along the way too, a grandfather, who was my best friend, my ex girlfriend who was more like a sister to me then anything and I treated her horrible while she was alive, a couple of friends, and a bunch of family that I never truly got to know. What I really want, more then anything is for the me inside of this brain, to always stay me and I always want them to stay them, ideally, I hope reincarnation exists and we lose our memories but get to keep us. I know to some people that would sound like hell but I can’t think of anything more warm then getting to lose my memories of experiences I’ve already had with them, and re experience it all again in another time/realm/body. I love them all so much I never want to lose them. , and I regret not loving the ones I’ve lost better, I didn’t know the last time I talked to them was going to be the last time. I’ve wasted so much time, the grief of my grandfather, that was the first step in denying myself negative emotions and in doing so I also denied myself the good ones. I’ve wasted so much time, missed so many experiences with my family either hiding away in my room or going out and drowning myself in getting hammered and indulging in pleasures of the flesh. I don’t wanna miss anymore, I wanted to die young so I wouldn’t age and watch myself decay, but now I wanna live as long as possible, have as much time with them as possible and hopefully live well enough to not be pissing myself when the end comes, hopefully I doubt it though cause I’m a pessimist. I guess if there’s any point to this comment, just live bro, live as best you can and if you’re still scared at the end, middle finger up to the reaper while you piss and whine into the abyss. Just know you ain’t the first to think about the really depressing darkest depths of death. Like Alan said too, maybe we all just look at it wrong, maybe it’s the same type of happiness as a life coming into existence. I hope so, life is too grim sometimes for the ending to not atleast be neutral. Imma just try to be happy while I’m living it. Good luck traveler, may our fear subside one day.
My issue with Watts - I am unafraid of dying. I am not afraid of the idea of death. I am utterly mortified by the thought of never having another thought, speaking another word, seeing another soul until the true death of the universe. Ultimate deletion. Never a conscious, never an unconscious. The end of reality.
I have lost most family and now l think I have cancer but I will be able to be with beautiful flowers and animals and my babies and meet a true love , I never married, at 43 I've excepted either to 5d or start new life ,I wanted to be a mum again .
I'm a Christian. And I remember the apostle Paul said to live is Christ and to die is gain. Therefore, I should not be scared of death but willingly accept inevitable approaching death caused by a certain desease.😊
I found my ex girlfriend that passed away. And I'm looking for something he says that hits close to home so I can make a song out of it, and I'm just sitting here thinking about her feeling bummed that she had to go so soon...RIP K/H I hope you are at rest now.
I'm a Christian. And I remember the apostle Paul said to live Christ and to die is gain. Therefore I should not be scared of death but willingly accept approaching death.
Thanks for your video and thanks you preacher for you lecture, and i hope next time i can accepted if Will died 😢 #And *before Im died i want said thanks God for bad life you gift for me* 🥹🥲🙏
I know the severity of my actions...i really have no excuse of what I said on the internet...i can tell you I wasnt in the right state of mind for a long time abusing my brain and body..i knew I fucked up the moment I woke up from that last time....my brain was getting blasted a whole lot and I would notice seeing you guys more and more...i honestly dont remember what ive done but whatever I said was bad....i stopped because its not right...its not because I see u guys its because theres consequences for our actions...i swear on everything my life has changed...
I wrote this poem inspired by the great Alan Watts Imagine a tree, so calm Imagine a dream of charm They're both alive but dead outside Water and nurture them never lied. There you'll find me in the shame of night Next to the stars we shine most bright The trees not sing but the birds that lay do When one lies to one's self how do you know whats true? They key to ones soul is the same as a tree Let the birds song allow you to be Be what you might ask? Well, there's a story to tell that's hidden in your past. Behind your eyes, there is a truth. Worth more liberation than any book. The power comes from within After you vanquish all sin. There is hope from the sky we see There is love in the air we feel There is a dream worth fighting for Its called "you" and it starts from your soul.
the inevitability of seeing my own parents die wasn't as terrible as the inevitability of watching my partner suffering as their parents die and knowing they have to get thru it alone. Just like I did and everyone else will
Don't fear for them but lead an example on how to live and die. We leave our memories behind and believe it or not, the memories you left with some, might become new things to learn about you to someone else. In a sense do we really ever die, if we can still learn new things about one another even after death? These are not my own thoughts but rather a paraphrase of an idea from the book "Me, Earl, and the Dying Girl.
I really wish for the both of you to stay strong. Embrace that feeling but know that you will feel better. Even when it feels hopeless. Don’t forget to tell yourself that you will be okay and everything will be okay. Even when you don’t believe it fully tell yourself better days will come again.
My mother died yesterday, after a long , hard, two year battle with ALS. If you know what that is you know it is a battle that cannot be won. She was my best friend. I am here for anyone that needs someone to talk to.
Sending you love ❤️
@@PEZONES1 thank you stranger❤️
Please allow me to share my best friend's story with you. This family knows where to turn in times of tragedy.
Family Story
Little did our family of six know that Friday evening, September 24th, 2021, would be the last night our family would be complete. We laughed together, played games, sang, and enjoyed listening as our 16-year-old son, Ethan, played the piano for us. I packed a lunch for Ethan for a church mountain hike he was going on the following day.
My mother (who was visiting from out of state) and I woke early with Ethan on Saturday morning. He hugged me and smiled, never pulling away or rushing me. He got in the car, waved, said he'd see me later and he loved me. It was hard to watch my "new driver" heading out on his own that morning. As Ethan pulled out of the gate, I turned to my mother and said, "It's just so hard letting go." Little did I know how much "letting go" I was really doing. That was the last time I saw Ethan. He did not make it home that evening.
That afternoon, a friend tried to contact my husband, leaving an urgent message to call him back. He tried several times to return the call to no avail. As we were preparing supper, an overwhelming feeling of deep concern for Ethan filled my heart. I quietly blinked back tears. I glanced out the window, half expecting to see a police officer pull up to the house, but no one arrived. However, within a few minutes, a patrol car DID pull into the driveway. In my heart, I feared the worst. My husband and I went out to meet the officer, who confirmed our fears. Hesitantly, he told us our son had fallen off of
a bluff and had succumbed to his injuries. Our hearts were crushed; they still are.
Yet, in all of our brokenness, deep, continual grief and loneliness, our family has such a blessed Hope and assurance that we will see our dear son and brother again. You see, when Ethan was a young boy, he was saved; he put his faith in Jesus alone to forgive his sins and to take him to Heaven when he died. He realized some very important truths from the Bible that he would want to share with you.
His Story
Everyone is a sinner. Sin is any violation of God’s Law. God is holy, just and righteous, and He cannot allow sin in His presence. Ethan realized that he - like all of us - had sinned; and his sin separated Him from God.
“For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God; ” (Romans 3:23)
“Wherefore, as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned:” (Romans 5:12)
He understood that, because of his sin, he deserved to spend eternity in Hell.
“For the wages of sin is death;” (Romans 6:23a) [Wages: price]
“But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.” (Revelation 21:8)
Ethan believed that Jesus, God’s Son, paid the price for all sin when He died on the cross - because His sinless sacrifice was the only thing that could satisfy the just demands of a righteous, holy God. Jesus was buried in a borrowed tomb, but He arose the third day, triumphant over sin, death, and Hell. Jesus is alive today!
“For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.” (John 3:16)
“For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast.” (Ephesians 2:8-9)
Ethan was sorry for his sin, repented (turned), and received by faith the free gift that God offered to him.
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“...but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.” (Romans 6:23b)
Because of this great salvation, Ethan lived his life serving Jesus. He worked hard to spread this Good News to the world. He is alive in Heaven with Jesus today; and because of this great HOPE in Christ, we know we will see him again soon - not because he was a great kid, but because of his faith in the great Saviour!
“And I give unto them eternal life; and they shall never perish, neither shall any man pluck them out of my hand.” (John 10:28)
Your Story
What about you? What if you had fallen to your death that day - What if you were to die today? Where will you spend eternity - Heaven or the Lake of Fire? There will not be any parties in the Lake of Fire. It is a place of eternal torment for those who reject God's Son.
The Word of God is very clear that there is only One Way to Heaven.
“Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.” (John 14:6)
We did not know that Ethan would step into eternity that day; however, because he put his faith in Jesus alone for his salvation, Ethan was ready to go. Some day - perhaps today - you will take your last breath here on earth, and you will step into eternity. Where you spend eternity is determined by what you do with Jesus Christ. Will you accept Him or reject Him? You are not promised another day or another breath. Eternity begins soon - Are you ready?
“...Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and thou shalt be saved…” (Acts 16:31b)
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“(...behold, now is the day of salvation.)” (2 Corinthians 6:2c)
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This testimony has been made into a tract form as well, so if you or your church are interested in having them to pass out, please go to libertyfaith.net and you will find the contact info there. God bless!
Tribute to Ethan Lakey
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My mom died last Saturday from liver failure. She was my best friend. This pain is unbearable 😫
😔💔
Alan watt doesn't need motivational music behind his voice he is the motivational music
If you’ve lost somebody and you’re feeling their absence you’re actually feeling the joy that they left in your life. In time, the memories which now hurt, will bring both joy and comfort reminding you of those days. Sorrow is measured in the weight of that joy
I’m not afraid of death because once I die, I’m dead. Nothing I can do or feel. It just happens. But losing someone is the hard part because we are left with the pain and sorrow of not being able to see them again or hear their voice or feel their touch. It’s hard. But we all must be strong for them because I bet whoever you may have lost will not want you to be always sad when you remember them. They want you to smile and laugh about the memories you shared. And will share once you see each other again. Because you WILL see them again.
I lost my papa two days ago and it broke me. He was the only one who understood me and always knew what to say. I know he is no longer in pain anymore but he had plans to live to see me and my little brother’s accomplishments in life. I know I have to use it as motivation and look at the bright side but he was the one I would always call when I was upset. I can’t make that call this time and it kills me. I will make him proud in life and do everything he wanted me to do. I love you Papa ❤.
don't give to you are him
Take care xx
Be strong I lost my mother two weeks ago and it still kill's me that she will never see me get married to the woman of my dream's 😢
My dad died today and mom passed away 12 years ago I'm 32 and have a younger brother and have to be stronger than ever but it hurts me to my core. To anyone going through loss, stay strong for you and your family and know you are not alone! We can't grow from it always being sunny we have to have some rain.
my sentiments dear starnge brother, they are shining in the dark sky, for sure, they are stars.
No one can fill your void.....just give yourself time.....sending you love ❤
After surviving cancer, I fear nothing. We all are that way. It's a great club to be a part of. My cancer was a blessing in many ways. It definitely puts this world into a microscope for you.
Dealing with the ultimate truth, is always the hardest.
♥️
Well said
no comma after truth
People would rather see somebody dead than accept and speak the truth.
My Grandma died early this morning. I love her and while I am sad, I am also proud. She lived a long life and she is an amazing woman. I can't count how many times she has fought cancer and many illnesses. She is gone but not forgotten. One thing she would tell me is how amazing I was. She would brag about how I made good grades and was a good kid. I knew her days were numbered but I didn't know it would be today. At least I will make her proud and she died proud of me. I'm going to engineering school this fall and I will stay strong just for her because she was strong.
Thank you Grandma for believing in me ❤
that’s amazing. may she rest in peace.
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I lost my grandpa about a year ago...
Even though I wasn’t able to create that bond most kids and grandparents have because he lived on the other side of the world...
He was like a best friend
Even though we didn’t have many conversations
He’s still my best friend
When he died...
My heart shattered into a million pieces...
I was thinking every day “was it my fault he died?”..
One day I was looking around my dads room when I found a picture of my grandpa in a family photo when it was my first birth day and..
He had the brightest, goofiest smile ever
That’s when it hit me, it was never my fault it was never anyone’s fault
I realized even though he’s gone he’s still here
And I know that doesn’t make much sense but what I’m trying to say is..
You are strong..
Even if you disagree you can’t escape the truth
You are strong a beautiful
If you can’t see any beauty in yourself
Get a better mirror
Look a little closer
Stare a little longer
Because something inside you told you to fight the wave of sadness and it’s not a superpower or a emotion...
It’s your heart
Crystal Liu thank you I really needed that
Thank you so much 😊
I needed that
My grandma and my older cousins died this year ❤️❤️
this is the same thing that happened to me last year
This brought a tear to my eye brother, i lost my grandad around 4 years ago and it too shattered me. Godbless brother ❤️💯
I have exactly this relation with my grandpa. I’m on the train right now going to visit him in the hospital. Doctors said he will probably pass away today.
im not afraid of my death, im afraid of losing everybody I love. especially my parents.
Just lost my mother . In a strange way, it’s a great gift
Its not fun lol. I can say that much
Ive lost both and all I can say is life goes on
I'm afraid of leaving them behind, and also them leaving me behind.
@@drewbrockbaker how so? Im just curious.
I’ve lost so many family members and friends in such a short amount of time and it’s been so hard to move forward. This gave me some perspective.
I first listened to this lecture 10 years ago after my Mother committed suicide. It had a profound impact on the acceptance of her passing, and really helped change my perspective about death. 🖤 Though I miss her dearly and still cry sometimes and get upset, I know in my mind heart and soul the process of life and death, and how beautiful both are. I know she's finally at peace and her energy cannot ever be destroyed. I do not fear death whatsoever anymore. It's just as beautiful as life and a process we will all endure. The way you perceive it all is everything.
Please allow me to share my best friend's story with you. This family knows where to turn in times of tragedy.
Family Story
Little did our family of six know that Friday evening, September 24th, 2021, would be the last night our family would be complete. We laughed together, played games, sang, and enjoyed listening as our 16-year-old son, Ethan, played the piano for us. I packed a lunch for Ethan for a church mountain hike he was going on the following day.
My mother (who was visiting from out of state) and I woke early with Ethan on Saturday morning. He hugged me and smiled, never pulling away or rushing me. He got in the car, waved, said he'd see me later and he loved me. It was hard to watch my "new driver" heading out on his own that morning. As Ethan pulled out of the gate, I turned to my mother and said, "It's just so hard letting go." Little did I know how much "letting go" I was really doing. That was the last time I saw Ethan. He did not make it home that evening.
That afternoon, a friend tried to contact my husband, leaving an urgent message to call him back. He tried several times to return the call to no avail. As we were preparing supper, an overwhelming feeling of deep concern for Ethan filled my heart. I quietly blinked back tears. I glanced out the window, half expecting to see a police officer pull up to the house, but no one arrived. However, within a few minutes, a patrol car DID pull into the driveway. In my heart, I feared the worst. My husband and I went out to meet the officer, who confirmed our fears. Hesitantly, he told us our son had fallen off of
a bluff and had succumbed to his injuries. Our hearts were crushed; they still are.
Yet, in all of our brokenness, deep, continual grief and loneliness, our family has such a blessed Hope and assurance that we will see our dear son and brother again. You see, when Ethan was a young boy, he was saved; he put his faith in Jesus alone to forgive his sins and to take him to Heaven when he died. He realized some very important truths from the Bible that he would want to share with you.
His Story
Everyone is a sinner. Sin is any violation of God’s Law. God is holy, just and righteous, and He cannot allow sin in His presence. Ethan realized that he - like all of us - had sinned; and his sin separated Him from God.
“For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God; ” (Romans 3:23)
“Wherefore, as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned:” (Romans 5:12)
He understood that, because of his sin, he deserved to spend eternity in Hell.
“For the wages of sin is death;” (Romans 6:23a) [Wages: price]
“But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.” (Revelation 21:8)
Ethan believed that Jesus, God’s Son, paid the price for all sin when He died on the cross - because His sinless sacrifice was the only thing that could satisfy the just demands of a righteous, holy God. Jesus was buried in a borrowed tomb, but He arose the third day, triumphant over sin, death, and Hell. Jesus is alive today!
“For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.” (John 3:16)
“For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast.” (Ephesians 2:8-9)
Ethan was sorry for his sin, repented (turned), and received by faith the free gift that God offered to him.
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“...but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.” (Romans 6:23b)
Because of this great salvation, Ethan lived his life serving Jesus. He worked hard to spread this Good News to the world. He is alive in Heaven with Jesus today; and because of this great HOPE in Christ, we know we will see him again soon - not because he was a great kid, but because of his faith in the great Saviour!
“And I give unto them eternal life; and they shall never perish, neither shall any man pluck them out of my hand.” (John 10:28)
Your Story
What about you? What if you had fallen to your death that day - What if you were to die today? Where will you spend eternity - Heaven or the Lake of Fire? There will not be any parties in the Lake of Fire. It is a place of eternal torment for those who reject God's Son.
The Word of God is very clear that there is only One Way to Heaven.
“Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.” (John 14:6)
We did not know that Ethan would step into eternity that day; however, because he put his faith in Jesus alone for his salvation, Ethan was ready to go. Some day - perhaps today - you will take your last breath here on earth, and you will step into eternity. Where you spend eternity is determined by what you do with Jesus Christ. Will you accept Him or reject Him? You are not promised another day or another breath. Eternity begins soon - Are you ready?
“...Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and thou shalt be saved…” (Acts 16:31b)
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“(...behold, now is the day of salvation.)” (2 Corinthians 6:2c)
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I fear death... I don't fear the point of my death, I fear the unknown. The worst scenario for me is the fact that me and everyone I love will cease to exist... and eventually be forgotten. It is terrifying... oblivion, the it's so hard to comprehend... nothingness, the fact that it is unavoidable... I don't know why I can't stop feeling like this.
I had not thought of it that way, laertes104. You are correct.
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I as well fear death. My writing to you this morning is not so much to enlighten you, but to be part of a discussion, for the very fear I have would otherwise reveal a phony. I’m working through this fear. My fear of death reveals my fear of life. But sometimes to remind me I take an old photo, one that is old enough that everyone in it is already dead. No doubt some of them were bothered by those same questions. It is only our thoughts that haunt us. What is actually alive doesn’t seem to mind. I know there is something beyond my thinking mind-you know- the awareness that you ARE. That bothersome thought seems to sit in that space for a while and then go and either be open or filled with another temporary thought. I’ve struggled so much with this because I’m such a brooding “thinker”. But it is dawning on me that THAT thinking mind simply does not itself have the capacity for comprehending life after death, for example.
It bugs me terribly- the unknown- or rather it bugs my “mind” about the unknown. And yet as you point out it is absolutely the boss (inevitable). I’m in the last quarter of my life now and I still have not completely lept into the unknown- it’s like dreading that the sun will come up and face another day.
My mind wants to have the security of knowing what it cannot know. There’s the conundrum. So I sit it’s this fear and stew. It’s unavoidable and inevitable and I admit that all my ruminating about the unknown has sacrificed true living.
ME TOO. it’s going to eat me away, or that’s what it feels like sometimes
I’ve been there too. I’m not entirely out of it. But there is a Way out of it.
This gave me a mental breakdown yesterday, started getting flashbacks about my 2 older brothers, and all family related and childhood friends that i lost along the way,when i was 19 one of my brothers died when i was 18 the other died, haven’t grieved it yet bc i got older and got the older brother role cuz of my 3 younger siblings, now im just accepting it! Now im getting dead inside but im grateful im grateful of god
I had spent days at my mom's bedside in her last days knowing she was about to die and was literally waiting for it to happen. A relative came and told me to get some sleep so I went to my bedroom and not 5 minutes later my mom's cat was flipping the fuck out trying to get into my bedroom. This cat had not left my mom's side for over two weeks the moment we found out her cancer had spread and there was nothing left to do but hospice care. I wanted to sleep but knew my mom needed her cat so I got up and picked up the cat and started going up the stairs to take her back to my mom when I noticed everyone in the house was crying (I have a large family so it was like 20+ people). My mom waited for me to leave to pass and her cat was now my cat. That was the hardest night of my life and also the most amazing because it showed me I wasn't alone. We aren't alone. I have no clue what happens next but it isn't the end.
My dad died last night, on Halloween night. He had an 8 year battle with leukemia... He was ready to go. The Treatments had stopped working, and the chemo had almost killed him, so he decided it would be better to embrace death, than to fight this disease and feel miserable... He embraced death. And he died well.
mine left 8 years ago feels like 8 seconds ago sometimes don't give up
@@minnesotanice369 I'm with you 💪👍👌💚
Your father was a very honorable man ❤️
My grandma died last week. She was my only constant in life. I spoke with her everyday, usually at least twice, for nearly 25 years. I was closer with her than my mom. She lived a full life. 86 years old.4 great grandchildren. Her health had been declining for the last few months and she was ready to go. She told me so. She told me she just wanted to go to sleep and not wake up, which is exactly what happened. I don't know what life looks like without her there to listen to me and give me her advise. But I'll figure it out I guess. I have to. I miss you grandma and I'll always love you......
Rest in peace to my beautiful grandmother. Wonderful woman. A loyal one. Someone who always had my back. I should have treated her better. You never understand how precious everything is until you lose it. I will love you and miss you forever. You went out surrounded by people who loved you. Gone but won’t ever be forgotten.
My son lost his life at 16. I’m not afraid of anything now. My heart is eternally broken.
I’m sorry for your loss
I'm so sorry, we all know he's resting well.
Please allow me to share my best friend's story with you. This family knows where to turn in times of tragedy.
Family Story
Little did our family of six know that Friday evening, September 24th, 2021, would be the last night our family would be complete. We laughed together, played games, sang, and enjoyed listening as our 16-year-old son, Ethan, played the piano for us. I packed a lunch for Ethan for a church mountain hike he was going on the following day.
My mother (who was visiting from out of state) and I woke early with Ethan on Saturday morning. He hugged me and smiled, never pulling away or rushing me. He got in the car, waved, said he'd see me later and he loved me. It was hard to watch my "new driver" heading out on his own that morning. As Ethan pulled out of the gate, I turned to my mother and said, "It's just so hard letting go." Little did I know how much "letting go" I was really doing. That was the last time I saw Ethan. He did not make it home that evening.
That afternoon, a friend tried to contact my husband, leaving an urgent message to call him back. He tried several times to return the call to no avail. As we were preparing supper, an overwhelming feeling of deep concern for Ethan filled my heart. I quietly blinked back tears. I glanced out the window, half expecting to see a police officer pull up to the house, but no one arrived. However, within a few minutes, a patrol car DID pull into the driveway. In my heart, I feared the worst. My husband and I went out to meet the officer, who confirmed our fears. Hesitantly, he told us our son had fallen off of
a bluff and had succumbed to his injuries. Our hearts were crushed; they still are.
Yet, in all of our brokenness, deep, continual grief and loneliness, our family has such a blessed Hope and assurance that we will see our dear son and brother again. You see, when Ethan was a young boy, he was saved; he put his faith in Jesus alone to forgive his sins and to take him to Heaven when he died. He realized some very important truths from the Bible that he would want to share with you.
His Story
Everyone is a sinner. Sin is any violation of God’s Law. God is holy, just and righteous, and He cannot allow sin in His presence. Ethan realized that he - like all of us - had sinned; and his sin separated Him from God.
“For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God; ” (Romans 3:23)
“Wherefore, as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned:” (Romans 5:12)
He understood that, because of his sin, he deserved to spend eternity in Hell.
“For the wages of sin is death;” (Romans 6:23a) [Wages: price]
“But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.” (Revelation 21:8)
Ethan believed that Jesus, God’s Son, paid the price for all sin when He died on the cross - because His sinless sacrifice was the only thing that could satisfy the just demands of a righteous, holy God. Jesus was buried in a borrowed tomb, but He arose the third day, triumphant over sin, death, and Hell. Jesus is alive today!
“For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.” (John 3:16)
“For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast.” (Ephesians 2:8-9)
Ethan was sorry for his sin, repented (turned), and received by faith the free gift that God offered to him.
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“...but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.” (Romans 6:23b)
Because of this great salvation, Ethan lived his life serving Jesus. He worked hard to spread this Good News to the world. He is alive in Heaven with Jesus today; and because of this great HOPE in Christ, we know we will see him again soon - not because he was a great kid, but because of his faith in the great Saviour!
“And I give unto them eternal life; and they shall never perish, neither shall any man pluck them out of my hand.” (John 10:28)
Your Story
What about you? What if you had fallen to your death that day - What if you were to die today? Where will you spend eternity - Heaven or the Lake of Fire? There will not be any parties in the Lake of Fire. It is a place of eternal torment for those who reject God's Son.
The Word of God is very clear that there is only One Way to Heaven.
“Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.” (John 14:6)
We did not know that Ethan would step into eternity that day; however, because he put his faith in Jesus alone for his salvation, Ethan was ready to go. Some day - perhaps today - you will take your last breath here on earth, and you will step into eternity. Where you spend eternity is determined by what you do with Jesus Christ. Will you accept Him or reject Him? You are not promised another day or another breath. Eternity begins soon - Are you ready?
“...Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and thou shalt be saved…” (Acts 16:31b)
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“(...behold, now is the day of salvation.)” (2 Corinthians 6:2c)
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You will see him again. The end of our life as a human is not the end.
No loss comparable to that of a child... I am so sorry for the never ending suffering you got through every day
My daughter...29 died yesterday..my best friend sent me this...i must admit it helps...i miss her..
My wife’s brother in the hospital fighting for his life after 5 years of battle with cancer. Hurts to see my wife and her family in pain. Anyone going through a fight against illness, may god bless you and your family. Life is not guaranteed and more precious then I realized now being 35years old. Have a good day anyone reading this. 🙌🏼
my fiancé just passed. It was a pain in the inside of my soul. He was my love my life. I miss him so much.❤ my heartaches everyday.
Mine too ❤😔
This is much well said. I dont when in life we started to fear death. I have feared it, and still am fearing it, but this is so true. I just sometimes wish we didnt feel so much.. loosing someone we love, its just too hard to even think about, even it will happen during life
I have been diagnosed with terminal cancer....and yet!!!!.... I am on my way to the Gran Canyon to run the Rim to Rim trail N-S...S-N.....after that....I will be happy to sit and close my eyes 4ever....
Alberto Mountain Runner
Bro please teaching me how accepted death likes you *(because in my heart i cant accepted this situation)* 😭 #ItsVeryHardToMe 😢
#ImDenialWithMyLife 😢
#ButImDyingNow 😢
I don't want to die, but circumstances force me. 😢
Look into Gerson therapy, many terminal cases reversed and cancer put fully into remission. I wish I would have known about Gerson therapy 20 years ago...my mom would probably still be alive today, she was just 46 when she passed from pancreatic cancer 😢
I'm not afraid of death but it's the seeing loved ones suffer that I can't stand
@@michellekostareloss7461 god bless you. I am going through that right now. My dad declined so fast. In 2 days he forgot me and my mom :/
@@markymark535 I'm so sorry. That had to be excruciating.
I lost my mom 23 years ago this November days after my birthday and this time of year fucks me up so badly. "the attitude that death is as positive as birth and should be a matter of rejoicing because death is the symbol of the liberation." I miss her so much especially this time of year but this has made it possible for me to finally let go of her.
I feel that it is not death people fear, but being forgotten.
Belladonna Von I think it was Mark Twain that said a man dies twice, once when he takes a last breath and secondly when his name is said for the last time. This is not a thing to fear. Think of it a different way, you have 100 years to influence people as much as you can, and they in turn influence others from your inertial influence, and from that in spreads until everyone in the world is affected by your influence on the world. We may die, bit our influence doesn't. So it doesn't make sense to fear being forgotten because it's impossible
Gerard,
I'd like to see things your way. I think you are right. The religion I was steeped in didn't talk much about death unless one was at a funeral. Death seemed taboo. The older I get the more accepting I am of death being a part of life. Acceptance. Nobody gets to live forever in the human body/machine.....thank goodness. I don't think I'd like that at all. Perhaps we don't die? Perhaps we become a part of the universe once again. Our consciousness? Does it matter what happens to that? It's probably like existence before birth whatever that is.
you are now a part of the universe , always.
Belladonna Von um no, it’s definitely death. The thought of not existing anymore is scary and foreign to us
@Kade Daivis I felt that same way when I was your age, I was afraid of dying young and never experiencing things I had not yet, once you do, it does feel like what else not much, next, best times are gone and it becomes less scary, at one point I had sever back issues where I felt pain no Matter whether I was laying or standing and I would look forward to sleep because in my dreams I was fine again and waking up was dreadful, first time ever I understood why assisted suicide exists, I healed some but at my worst life was unbearable I thought it was not gonna get better, during that time my fear of death decreased because it became sort of like a relief, God healed my spirit and now I enjoy every second of every day, soon I wake up I don't even check how many hours I slept I just get up and try to squeeze the most out of every second of every day since I know I'll right back feeling that later on in life whenever my time comes....
I passed out in my sleep and saw the stars. I never felt that happy in my life.
I've lost three of the 5 of my siblings (including myself) and I've never found a center to feeling ok. I constantly run from happiness. Im terrified of it. I just hope you all have a someone to hear you grieve. And a someone you will allow to be vulnerable around. I cry with you, because I need it too
This has put me at ease completely, took a while for me to watch this video as I thought it might make my fear worse, but after listening I realise it’s not that bad at all and is completely natural.
My Beautiful Granny passed away 2 weeks ago...buried her the Sunday before this mother's day... in a beautiful place next to my grandpa in Lenoir City Tennessee...and I miss her terribly it's hard to deal yall...Rest in Heaven Grandma
I needed this my uncle dropped dead after getting off of work last night was on the ground for a hour before anybody noticed 😭. I haven’t moved since I got the phone call . I just need a push Lord help me .
Being someone that was brought up with no religion or belief. All I can think is that when I die. I will rot in the ground till the the end and it scares me thinking that this is it. This is the only chance I get a living. Maybe I’ll be recarnated or maybe I’ll live in another life but I will not get to experience this life ever again, like ever and that is the scariest thing ever. Keeps me up every night.
I understand and I don't know if I have cancer or not but 🤔 I'm grateful for the life I've had and all of the people who have been in my life and God bless you all 🙏☮️🌎
I listen to this so many times and each time I feel something different thank you.
I lost my grandma at the end of 2020, she was my best friend- my other half. I went numb for over the next year and still can’t feel much. My parents are trying to help but I don’t know how to mend this pain. This video helped me feel a bit though.
I lost my Nan last night and she was like a second mom to me - she was there when I was born a real life guardian angel- my kids were so lucky to get to know their great grandmother and I am so proud of her legacy of family and love maybe I am in shock but I’m taking strength from her grace and showing us the way to love and live without regret and I hope you can do the same -sending you strength.
That’s sad. my mom told us my grandma was going to hell because she doesn’t attend the same church as us and all others outside of us are doomed to eternal suffering 😂 my mom was a psycho to tell her kids that, true or not. And once I felt what “hell” was like, I lost all motivation and will to live to maybe have to live like that forever, but even if I could shake that feeling of despair, there would be people somewhere who would never escape it. Delusional thinking and lies and hate just ruin the life experience. Death is sad enough on its own without all the extras attached. Have a blessed and beautiful Saturday night😁
GOLD I LOVE YOUR VIDEOS. THE MOTIVATIONAL ONES AND THE POEMS. PLEASE DO MORE OF THEM
Coming up on the fourth anniversary of my Fathers passing... I've taken the torch and am doing my damndest to make him proud, he's still here with me... We'll meet again one day
the end brought tears to my eyes, too have to say good bye 😭
I lost my two older brothers and two of my grandmas and my great uncle last year back to back it was heart breaking and hard to move on but I slowly accepted it but I still miss them all
I lost my beautiful and oh so loved girlfriend a little over a week ago and the pain of that loss has been unbearable. I miss her so much. There is a huge gaping hole in my heart and life that only Heidi could fill. I want to be with her but really where is she? I'd like to believe she is in heaven. That heaven exists and that she is happier than she's ever been. I want to believe that when a hummingbird flies by me that is here spirit letting me know she's here with me. I can't stop crying. I can't stop wondering why her and not me. Each day is just another day to mourn the loss of my world. How can I get past this and not want to die?
I lost my father 2 years ago from cancer and it hurts very much still but I am also at peace knowing he is not suffering anymore.
It makes me think of my own mortality even more now . I am not afraid of death , But I cannot fathom leaving my 3 daughters. Maybe in the spirit I can be with them at every moment when the time comes .
Lost to many friends, had to bury another brother today. Why did I search this today? Thank you.❤
I needed this, my grandma died last night and I was so very close with her
That’s really beautiful, and isn’t that exactly what would delight her now? Good for you. My great aunt died when I was 18. She was my hero! At 87, she wanted to go, and when she did, I was glad, not sad. I feel she lives on and is as loving as ever.
I lost my grandma about 4months ago. And i am now in depression due to it. Not wanting to leave my bed, rethinking the memories. Wanting to end it all to be with her cause she was the only person who understood me..
My best friend just pass yesterday. He was a great talented wax Carver. Going to miss him very much. 😢
I lost my mother 1 month back . Haven't been able to move on . I love her , remember her , miss her daily
I don't know why we can't except death in a more beautiful way. We always seem to feel or express some kind of wrongdoing. It's not the death but the process that bothers me most. The pain and suffering really disturbs me. I pray that i accept the experience of losing loved ones with grace and reference. Not be a victim like something unusual occurence happened to me. Losing a loved one is 100% guaranteed. Love deeply and enjoy the ride
Blessing to us all and may our love
I fear death but for me it's the fear of being forgotten and losing everything that matters to me. So I have spent a long time in my mind working out what I can do to create a physical system to keep me in the mind of future family members. So before I pass away I want to make a ring or neckless for my future children or close relative so they can carry me with them now and then and remember all the good times together.
This made me tear up for a second. When my older sister was killed in 2010, her cremations were the centralized theme of different jewelry that went to direct family. In a sense, she still follows me wherever I go. I'm glad you saw the same.
You're born - you live - you die - end of story.
I used to be scared of not knowing what's going to happen after I die.
I thought I was scared of nothingness and being non-existent, maybe I was.
But as I began to think about it again I realize that now I'm scared of the exact opposite.
I'm afraid of living after death because I could never go away.
It sounds depressing, and maybe it is, but the thought of an afterlife frustrates me and scares me a lot. It makes me feel trapped, stuck, mad.
So now I believe that believing in nothingness after death is the calmest way I have yet to think about dying.
It used to terrify me and now it can't.
I don't want to hang onto myself, I don't want to be trapped. I want to live a full life and be put to rest when it's my time to go.
I'm far too young to be thinking about this and if I tell someone I feel okay about it, they ask me if I'm okay.
What they don't understand is.. Of course I am.
They'll never get it, but that's okay with me.
Study Islam. May Allah guide you to the correct path
Hi, i feel the exact same way
I remember getting into a car accident and I was on the ground looking up, at that moment all I could hear was the ocean. I was no where near it but somehow I could hear waves and smell a breeze. I think death is an ocean you need to come across just like this.
The moment I find peace with my death is the day I’ll learn to live again
So true..I have the same exact problem, hope you found a solution meanwhile.
I just recently lost my mom. I'm lost. I don't want to die but I don't want to continue on. I know I must and I will. But I just can't take all the sadness everyday. They say life is short but it is the very thing we will experience most. I'm lost. I'm lost
My mom died in December last year. I'm also lost. Don't want to be here. I'm terrified of dying 😢
@sandrag330 don't die stay here with us our time is coming
I have nothing to hide because you guys know and see everything...im here owning up to it....i never ment to hurt anybody and I'm truly sorry
I just lost my dad and this helps alot
Good morning I guess so we opened our eyes 👀 today I’m 75 that’s coming close to the finish line ha ha ,we all have a fear of the unknown, this to shall pass 😊
I’m almost 20…
I’ve been getting signs and having daydreams about death I really don’t wanna die right now, I’m only 22 and my life didn’t even start yet
Death is truly the purpose of life. Us humans are always trying to find the purpose of our existence and it’s none other than the same phenomenon that strips it away.
Death gives us a time limit, it is inevitable as many of us already know. The thing we don’t..know.. is when it’s coming, to me, to you and to the people you care about the most. You can’t stop it, no one can, so what CAN you do?
Make every minute of your life count.
Enjoy your life, with no regrets. Easy right?
Well you also have to do the hard things like forgiving those that hurt, talking to people you said you were no longer going to talk to, because you never know if tomorrow is the day they get taken away and you never said I’m sorry or even goodbye.
Live and forgive but above all don’t forget to tell those you love the most that you love them very much. Everyday you can because you never know if that will be the last thing you say to them.
My mother asked me to drive my big brother to the hospital for his routine check ups, I said I was working that day. 3 hours later she called me that he had passed away. I have not forgiven myself
this year is so bad and it’s only june. i lost my uncle to a stroke. my bestfriend to a car crash. my grandpa to leukemia. my grandma to heart problems. and my dads cousin but i’m not sure how. why. why is this happening. what could i have possibly done to get this karma. i hate it.
Jamie Gagliardo hang in there! We all go through rough times and depression. This video helped save me from depression. Just think about your friends and reach out for help and they can help. Just hang in there and keep fighting and its gets better over time.
Keep your head up. I feel you. You're not alone
We all die, sooner or later. Life is so cruel...
Last year, as a junior in community college, I lost all 3 of my best friends to gun violence within 6 months. What I don't understand, is why my paranoia of death and losing the ones around me has just now only sunk in over this last week or so.
I've done everything imaginable. Physical exercise, healthy eating, meditation, medication, anti-depressants, you name it. Can't shake it.
Turn to God He never left you but is waiting for you to open that door. Let Him in and I promise He won’t fail you.
@@HeHasRisen77722 "god" is the best lie ever created by human beings...
I lost my father a year ago it was hard and its stil hard its never gonna get eassier its only going to get harder you have to learn how to live with it.
I was broken when he passed away because he was my best friend,my Light in life.
The hardest thing ever is seeing your mother hiding her grieve from you.
It's getting easier and easier day by day, but then again I don't know how I'll feel at the final curtain
Im afraid of what happens after death. No ones ever escaped death. We all have to do it. Dying isn't going to lsst long. Ive tried taking my own life 3 times. Im 39 years old. 6 years ago i was diagnosed with sle lupus and it took drs 5 months to do anything to diagnose me. I went from health and going to the gym 5 times a week. I was 137 pounds. In those 5 months i could no longer walk. I was covered in my own urine. Excruciating pain. I weighed 64 pounds. My then bf of 14 years told me he couldn't be with me anymore because i was so ugly now. I was ready to go at that point. I went to a hospital an hour away and found out my kidneys were at 12% function and a long list of other problems. Getting sle lupus has been a blessing and a curse. I live more now than i did before. Im no where near physical beauty but i have so much beauty in me now ❤ i have 2 friends. Haven't been in a relationship or even dated for 6 years. I lm more honest to people about not wanting to put up with repetitive issues. I no longer waste my time and energy worrying about what others think. I no longer wear make-up and no longer care about all the stupid things i did before. Sending you all love, strength and peace ❤ much love and prayers as well as respect. We will see each other and those who've passed in the next life.
Lost my dog September 3rd 2019 4 years old
Rip Zeus
Mr_Batz-games sorry about that man Rip Zeus
Sorry for your loss man
What caught my eye is that September 3rd is my birthday. Just turned 18
It's so frustrating trying to find a clip of his lectures without the corniest music I've ever heard mucking it all up.
This lecture hit hard.
I'm here to try and make sense of losing one of my best friends he was like a little brother to me and damn does it hurt so bad I can't stand it
We live once when you know when Time stops you you know it’s too late the only words we can say are we made it through
The part of death that scares me is the fact that im not going to exist. My subconscious gets scared because where will i be. Where will my consciousness go. Its the unknown part that is absolutely tormenting me
MY GRANDMOTHER JUST DIED YESTERDAY SEPTEMBER 26,2024. I'M JUST HERE GRIEVING FOR THE WORDS I CAN'T EVEN SAY ON MY MOUTH. IT HURTS, IT REALLY HURTS. I BARELY FEEL A SHOCKED AND A NON STOP FLOWING OF TEARS ON MY EYES. I LOVE HER SO MUCH. SHE TEACHES ME LESSONS THAT MOLD ME AS WHO I AM TODAY. I ASK GOD IF IN THE NEXT LIFE I WISH SHE'S MY GRANDMOTHER AGAIN, FOR I LOVED HER SO MUCH. IT'S JUST INEVITABLE FEELING OF GRIEF AND SADNESS WHEN SOMEONE YOU LOVE PASSED AWAY. I HOPE WE SEE EACH OTHER AGAIN IN THE NEXT LIFE. I LOVE YOU NANANG😭
I’m not fond of doing this, I’ve always thought making comments like this is corny, but I’m afraid, I’m afraid of dying because I don’t wanna lose me, I don’t wanna lose the people I love either, their personalities, the love we share, every day I get to be around them in either an extreme circumstance or just mundane life, I just love them so much. I used to hate myself, hated myself a lot. Lived super hedonistic, my only focus being enjoying as much pleasure as possible till I died, not thinking there was any point to life out side of that. But recently, I fell in love, it’s been the best year of my life being with her. She annoys me sometimes with her feelings and actions, I feel deeply too I just never really express like she does, it’s a protection mechanism on my part, but god damn is she the most beautiful creature I’ve laid eyes on, not just physically but she’s so kind and warm, the way she loves her kids, her goofiness, all of it. But now I have something to lose, I suppose a more accurate way to put it is falling in love with her made me realize I’ve always been afraid to lose. I love her and the kids, so much. Now I find myself at 26 going on 27 in a few month’s and mourning their and my deaths before it even happens, and in the same respect it’s made me think of all the loved ones I already have and neglected for so long because of my focus on pleasure. I’ve lost so many along the way too, a grandfather, who was my best friend, my ex girlfriend who was more like a sister to me then anything and I treated her horrible while she was alive, a couple of friends, and a bunch of family that I never truly got to know. What I really want, more then anything is for the me inside of this brain, to always stay me and I always want them to stay them, ideally, I hope reincarnation exists and we lose our memories but get to keep us. I know to some people that would sound like hell but I can’t think of anything more warm then getting to lose my memories of experiences I’ve already had with them, and re experience it all again in another time/realm/body. I love them all so much I never want to lose them. , and I regret not loving the ones I’ve lost better, I didn’t know the last time I talked to them was going to be the last time. I’ve wasted so much time, the grief of my grandfather, that was the first step in denying myself negative emotions and in doing so I also denied myself the good ones. I’ve wasted so much time, missed so many experiences with my family either hiding away in my room or going out and drowning myself in getting hammered and indulging in pleasures of the flesh. I don’t wanna miss anymore, I wanted to die young so I wouldn’t age and watch myself decay, but now I wanna live as long as possible, have as much time with them as possible and hopefully live well enough to not be pissing myself when the end comes, hopefully I doubt it though cause I’m a pessimist. I guess if there’s any point to this comment, just live bro, live as best you can and if you’re still scared at the end, middle finger up to the reaper while you piss and whine into the abyss. Just know you ain’t the first to think about the really depressing darkest depths of death. Like Alan said too, maybe we all just look at it wrong, maybe it’s the same type of happiness as a life coming into existence. I hope so, life is too grim sometimes for the ending to not atleast be neutral. Imma just try to be happy while I’m living it. Good luck traveler, may our fear subside one day.
Lost my dad last week💔
Permanent loneliness in life is probably harder than death...
I believe so
The change on death has kinda happened to some extent. Knowledge of the near death experience and the rise of hospice care.
It's coming soon and I welcome it. I would love to go home.
Seating in a graveyard lessening to this words.
And suddenly everything comes in to one
My issue with Watts - I am unafraid of dying. I am not afraid of the idea of death. I am utterly mortified by the thought of never having another thought, speaking another word, seeing another soul until the true death of the universe. Ultimate deletion. Never a conscious, never an unconscious. The end of reality.
Embrace religion that is the solution.
I am dying I will miss my children this makes me so sad to say goodbye
I have lost most family and now l think I have cancer but I will be able to be with beautiful flowers and animals and my babies and meet a true love , I never married, at 43 I've excepted either to 5d or start new life ,I wanted to be a mum again .
I'm a Christian. And I remember the apostle Paul said to live is Christ and to die is gain. Therefore, I should not be scared of death but willingly accept inevitable approaching death caused by a certain desease.😊
I found my ex girlfriend that passed away. And I'm looking for something he says that hits close to home so I can make a song out of it, and I'm just sitting here thinking about her feeling bummed that she had to go so soon...RIP K/H I hope you are at rest now.
Thank you sir
I'm a Christian. And I remember the apostle Paul said to live Christ and to die is gain. Therefore I should not be scared of death but willingly accept approaching death.
You can’t stop time it’s the opposite time can stop you
Thanks for your video and thanks you preacher for you lecture, and i hope next time i can accepted if Will died 😢
#And *before Im died i want said thanks God for bad life you gift for me* 🥹🥲🙏
if one needs to accept death it means that person is not ready to die. thats tough for that person
I know the severity of my actions...i really have no excuse of what I said on the internet...i can tell you I wasnt in the right state of mind for a long time abusing my brain and body..i knew I fucked up the moment I woke up from that last time....my brain was getting blasted a whole lot and I would notice seeing you guys more and more...i honestly dont remember what ive done but whatever I said was bad....i stopped because its not right...its not because I see u guys its because theres consequences for our actions...i swear on everything my life has changed...
Im not afraid of death , sfeer death there is no more pain no more being sick just sleep for ever until god decides what next
I wrote this poem inspired by the great Alan Watts
Imagine a tree, so calm
Imagine a dream of charm
They're both alive but dead outside
Water and nurture them never lied.
There you'll find me in the shame of night
Next to the stars we shine most bright
The trees not sing but the birds that lay do
When one lies to one's self how do you know whats true?
They key to ones soul is the same as a tree
Let the birds song allow you to be
Be what you might ask?
Well, there's a story to tell that's hidden in your past.
Behind your eyes, there is a truth. Worth more liberation than any book.
The power comes from within
After you vanquish all sin.
There is hope from the sky we see
There is love in the air we feel
There is a dream worth fighting for
Its called "you" and it starts from your soul.
That lifted my spirit thanks.
the inevitability of seeing my own parents die wasn't as terrible as the inevitability of watching my partner suffering as their parents die and knowing they have to get thru it alone.
Just like I did and everyone else will
Don't fear for them but lead an example on how to live and die. We leave our memories behind and believe it or not, the memories you left with some, might become new things to learn about you to someone else. In a sense do we really ever die, if we can still learn new things about one another even after death? These are not my own thoughts but rather a paraphrase of an idea from the book "Me, Earl, and the Dying Girl.
I came here because I lost my closest friend to a suicide today.
i lost my dad yesterday. stay strong!!!!
@@italydanae thanks, i really needed it
I really wish for the both of you to stay strong. Embrace that feeling but know that you will feel better. Even when it feels hopeless. Don’t forget to tell yourself that you will be okay and everything will be okay. Even when you don’t believe it fully tell yourself better days will come again.
What is the background music it is very pleasant?
My mom died 4 days ago; I am in deep despair & grief.
Anyone here after listening to architects memento mori? An older song but keep coming back for more 👌🏼
One of their best
Been made an orphan twice and my friend just offed herself. It’s a lot ahahaha