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  • 16 Myers Briggs Personalities Flirting
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  • @FrankJames
    @FrankJames  4 ปีที่แล้ว +938

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    • @simplyme7821
      @simplyme7821 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Nice to see you're over your anger. Even better when you show your sense of humor. Love it when you say naw man! I hope you're very proud of what you built. Sincerely, Carly

    • @phoenixrobinson1509
      @phoenixrobinson1509 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      How to get out when you feel stuck (I’m really stuck), jelaous on everyone elses life, angry in the same time, and when you compare your life with others?

    • @thesoliloquist1940
      @thesoliloquist1940 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Think of being an actor? Youre developing your range with all these characters heh do a whole one man play..

    • @thesoliloquist1940
      @thesoliloquist1940 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Also being an i-n-feels-j guy.. did you attract more girls as friends? That was my brother..

    • @nosaizekor8389
      @nosaizekor8389 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Frank James at the end of the day I don't know if I have one of these personalities and if I fit in one of these I am an animal lover activist and I love compassion towards mother nature creatures and I like a guy that would approach me in those personalities

  • @madsv1240
    @madsv1240 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17220

    i feel it’s INFP tradition to imagine our whole life with someone before even saying hi 🤣

    • @khadijaah90
      @khadijaah90 4 ปีที่แล้ว +210

      Maddi V It totally is 😂

    • @wiiyuhe
      @wiiyuhe 4 ปีที่แล้ว +91

      Maddi V true.

    • @beatrizlinerocardenas5975
      @beatrizlinerocardenas5975 4 ปีที่แล้ว +628

      Tooootally true lolol Then we realize after analyzing them that they are not the one for us and it's like "well, I'll wait for the next one" lol

    • @sink-napkin489
      @sink-napkin489 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Yep

    • @jckpot9149
      @jckpot9149 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Fact

  • @chorvagee
    @chorvagee 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3467

    0:00 ISTJ
    0:06 INTP
    0:25 ESFJ
    0:32 ISFJ
    0:48 ENFJ
    1:01 ESFP
    1:10 ISFP
    1:20 ENTJ
    1:25 ESTP
    1:35 ISTP
    1:40 ESTJ
    1:50 INFJ
    2:02 ENTP
    2:08 INFP
    2:20 INTJ
    2:26 ENFP

  • @mikhailsilaev9311
    @mikhailsilaev9311 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5153

    That INTJ is gonna be tortured by that awkward moment at night for years

  • @iamikkiv6506
    @iamikkiv6506 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6728

    0:00 ISTJ - Logistician
    0:06 INTP- Logician
    0:25 ESFJ - Consul
    0:32 ISFJ - Defender
    0:48 ENFJ - Protagonist
    01:00 ESFP - Entertainer
    01:11 ISFP - Adventurer
    01:19 ENTJ - Commander
    01:25 ESTP - Entrepreneur
    01:35 ISTP - Virtuoso
    01:40 ESTJ - Executive
    01:50 INFJ - Advocat
    02:02 ENTP - Debater
    02:09 INFP - Mediator
    02:20 INTJ - Architect
    02:25 ENFP - Campaigner
    And hello fellow Protagonists, you are welcome 😇

    • @shashwatamajumder1689
      @shashwatamajumder1689 4 ปีที่แล้ว +95

      I'm mediator...INFP here...

    • @valentina7182
      @valentina7182 4 ปีที่แล้ว +68

      Im protagonist, thanks for the welcome lol

    • @allMinabe
      @allMinabe 4 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      ENFJ 😛💫

    • @ratqueen7630
      @ratqueen7630 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      I'm the advocate

    • @hannarose1523
      @hannarose1523 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Yooo hay fellow Enfj 🤚🏽

  • @vaeporwave
    @vaeporwave 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2237

    "Sorry, was I talking out loud just now?" *1000% accurate*
    -INFP

    • @nabihahramli3368
      @nabihahramli3368 4 ปีที่แล้ว +85

      It is? Cuz me as an infp can only stare at him while im loss at words 😂 i guess that's how im flirting 🤣

    • @vaeporwave
      @vaeporwave 4 ปีที่แล้ว +67

      @@nabihahramli3368 for me yes, because it's either i talk too loud or too soft 😂😂

    • @tonof.c.1397
      @tonof.c.1397 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Me as well!

    • @nabihahramli3368
      @nabihahramli3368 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@vaeporwave ah well it's probably bcuz i dont talk to people that much 😂

    • @OdysseyHome-Gaming
      @OdysseyHome-Gaming 4 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      I think the infp script is more "What are your core desires and dreams out of life? Oh really, well those dreams are now my dreams, because my dream was to meet a woman who'd accept me and then let me help them make her dreams come true."
      ...of course I'm not going to poof a uniform into existence but I can write a science fantasy novel where unicorns are created using gene splicing... Gotta compromis 🤣
      Maybe if I just wear a saddle on my back and stab an ice cream cone to my forehead. Use your imagination girl! 😏

  • @thefinalgirlie
    @thefinalgirlie 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3630

    2:14 knew it was INFP before you said it. Where are my fellow infp hopeless romantics at

    • @jrw2319
      @jrw2319 4 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      Aquarius here!

    • @katjas8423
      @katjas8423 4 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      Disk of Prudence ayyyy same Aquarius INFP

    • @dearestkill
      @dearestkill 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      IM CRYINF ME TOO I WAS LIKE SHIT ITS ME

    • @Lostirl8
      @Lostirl8 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same here

    • @luisaz_trash9100
      @luisaz_trash9100 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Aquarius ✌️😭✌️

  • @nicholaslemosdecarvalho5328
    @nicholaslemosdecarvalho5328 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5165

    INFP: hey, do you see that girl?
    Buddy: yeah why?
    INFP: I married her in my thoughts and we had three kids
    Buddy: ...

    • @KeeperOfKeys22
      @KeeperOfKeys22 4 ปีที่แล้ว +334

      If this is from the INFP Male perspective then I guess guy me wouldn't be much different than female me. XD

    • @Fikamar27
      @Fikamar27 4 ปีที่แล้ว +143

      I already had many affairs each day 🤣🤣

    • @ecchinacea
      @ecchinacea 4 ปีที่แล้ว +329

      Well do have this constant scenario generator working in our heads. So I have not only already married this person, we also already broken up or never gotten together because the other person wasn't that nice or maybe they just didn't like me. Actually getting together is just ONE of the many possibilities!

    • @BenefitCounterbench
      @BenefitCounterbench 4 ปีที่แล้ว +118

      @@ecchinacea You just summed up INFPs' auxiliary function, Ne. 😂 As a Ne-blind ISTP, I'm laughing hard about how you guys use that function.

    • @AlextheENTP
      @AlextheENTP 4 ปีที่แล้ว +99

      @@ecchinacea First of all, username checks out!
      But mostly, as an Ne-dom, I find all of these other expressions of Ne so fascinating! Your millions of relationship scenarios is obviously (at least, this is how it seems to me) your Ne under the influence of your Fi. Our Ne (ENTP and ENFP) is under the influence of NO-ONE, it goes wherever, grabs whatever it sees, drops it for the next thing. It's why, at our most stereotypical, we're awful commitmentphobes (maybe ENTP more than ENFP, I don't know), no matter how much we love that special someone.
      It is so strange yet beautiful when I see someone's Ne functioning under a layer of structure (Ti) or values, wants and feelings (Fi).
      Anyway, I've rambled, and probably no-one's even going to read this...

  • @NurarihyonCiel
    @NurarihyonCiel 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2875

    INTJ after an awkward dating just ended : *reconstructing every possible chat with much better answer and regretting every single words that have been spoken*

    • @probablynotasith5355
      @probablynotasith5355 4 ปีที่แล้ว +132

      I generally put a lot of thought into conversations and possible questions/answers beforehand, but assuming something catches me off guard this is definitely accurate.

    • @SchultzDorinda
      @SchultzDorinda 4 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      You know thst does also happens to me as ENTP, although it more me rethinking the arguements and realizing that I could have been even more right 😂

    • @mantecada5660
      @mantecada5660 4 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      Me too - INFJ

    • @icantdecideonaname2748
      @icantdecideonaname2748 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Freaking sameeeeeeeee 😂😂-INTP

    • @arianetries
      @arianetries 4 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      Me, every time, everywhere - An INTJ

  • @khawlajijo5104
    @khawlajijo5104 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3158

    Infj's know it when someone is flirting with them, while they know nothing about how to flirt 😂😂 we look like crackheads instead

    • @reynasoraten5553
      @reynasoraten5553 4 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      mood.

    • @manager-nim2623
      @manager-nim2623 4 ปีที่แล้ว +231

      I filrt jokingly like an estp with my friends but if it's someone I have the slightest interest in I'm basically a disaster

    • @khawlajijo5104
      @khawlajijo5104 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      @@manager-nim2623 😂😂😂 exactly...the same here

    • @knightbrucie
      @knightbrucie 4 ปีที่แล้ว +96

      @@manager-nim2623 Oh yeah I can flirt all day with people I have no interest in. Still cant flirt with my other half..

    • @tehaniaweau-garcia8286
      @tehaniaweau-garcia8286 4 ปีที่แล้ว +72

      😂😂 nooooooo the INFJ stare is sexy!!!! Just sit there and INFJ stare at them and they're putty in your hands, trust me!

  • @christiannataylor2735
    @christiannataylor2735 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5974

    INFP thoughts: I want to take this slow and not freak them out.
    INFP reality: How many kids do you want to have? I'm thinking five.

    • @jeffsjuststoked
      @jeffsjuststoked 4 ปีที่แล้ว +246

      Christianna Taylor ha, my partner is INFP and we were already planning out our wedding and how many kids we wanted the first month or two of dating. As an INTJ, I have my whole life planned out so I already had the answers lol. But it was implied that was only if we worked out. Two years soon and so far so good!

    • @FariaAlex7
      @FariaAlex7 4 ปีที่แล้ว +52

      This is incredibly accurate

    • @F_Du_Sea
      @F_Du_Sea 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@yannes.531 Then you're not an INTP

    • @njules6428
      @njules6428 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Omg exactly....*facepalm*

    • @njules6428
      @njules6428 4 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      @@yannes.531 When you say opposite, what do you mean?
      Do you ever say something and it just comes out wrong? Like, ugh that's not what I meant... it doesn't sound the way you meant it to. This happens to me all the freaking time....
      Or have difficulty expressing what you really want to say? Like you can think it and feel it but putting it into words is really hard. Thus, the words just come out wrong.
      Curious if you can relate. ✌🏻

  • @-...................-
    @-...................- 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1874

    INFJ, thoughts: this person is totally into me
    INFJ: mkay, goodbye

    • @BellesView
      @BellesView 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      😂😂😂

    • @shraddhakadam8028
      @shraddhakadam8028 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      😂😂🙌

    • @peacejoy3629
      @peacejoy3629 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Hhhh I can't agree moore

    • @peacejoy3629
      @peacejoy3629 3 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      Guys can i ask u bout somthing please cuz i have no one to share that with. Someone that i TRUST !
      I'm still searching for more informations to know if i'm a real INFJ or any other tipe cuz the tests are kind of limited I wanted more options ..
      So , first do you guys don't want to be discovered !
      Like I don't want people to know the real me. my true character, thinking , ideas, my goals, my next move , if I have a lover or not and how I like him to be , don't want to show my 1000% lovely light side ( cuz it would be a waste of energy and they deserve any effort) and don't want to show my weakness I would be dying inside and crying night and the day after I'm a cold rock and all put together . but if someone ask me : something deferent with you today are you okey ? I would explode with tears but I hold my self with cold expressions . but inside i'm like ( yeeeees i'm tireeeeed I wanna reeest and I need a hug and want to be treated like a baby )
      And I be quit most of time enjoying my own company and I hate interacting with people when i find a red flag i get bored so quick I can't keep a conversation loong with a nonsense topic so I run to be alone again but if they ask for help i do help them and lovingly I put my energy and I don't wait for a return then i run . but if they offer to help me I refuse .i don't ask for help from anyone i trust no one even if i be so tired but I keep doing my thing alone till I see the result .
      And I'm tired of being like this .tired of being strong . showing no emotions .bottling them up . I trust no one and I hate it . I have no real friends just classmates . and the list long but those are the most annoying in my personality .
      Wish someone can tell me if this is kind of an INFJ or INTP or other type and ( pardon my English please )

    • @user-jq2wg6vk4p
      @user-jq2wg6vk4p 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      When your crush starts talking about their crush 😀

  • @leounderseas
    @leounderseas 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1225

    As an INFJ, I know when someone is flirting with me but I pretend I don't because I have no idea how to flirt back and everytime I tried it got really awkward so I just hope they try to make the advances themselves while I just stare at them in a totally non-creepy way

    • @m8832
      @m8832 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      same

    • @shriyapalsule4790
      @shriyapalsule4790 3 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      Yea the NON CREEPIEST WAY 😃👍
      😂

    • @Yuri-1907
      @Yuri-1907 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Exactly

    • @ihaveseverefrootsnackism
      @ihaveseverefrootsnackism 3 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      I'm the same but am PETRIFIED of making eye contact with someone who's flirting with me or that I like.

    • @jaz5117
      @jaz5117 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      exactly 😭

  • @kharlaceballos
    @kharlaceballos 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6465

    Internet: INFJ are so rare like just 1% of population.
    All the coments: As an INFJ I FEELT THAT

    • @ajpristine4809
      @ajpristine4809 4 ปีที่แล้ว +597

      We're over 7 billion people in the world.
      1% of that is a lot

    • @EarlyOwOwl
      @EarlyOwOwl 4 ปีที่แล้ว +859

      Also the fact introverts are more likely to be online than extroverts affects the likelihood of finding an infj on here

    • @mauribarua6856
      @mauribarua6856 4 ปีที่แล้ว +199

      That's like 70 mill ppl my man

    • @mars2616
      @mars2616 4 ปีที่แล้ว +76

      That made it feel less especial dude *:/*

    • @lusion5874
      @lusion5874 4 ปีที่แล้ว +135

      Ive taken it the test three times and have gotten the same result. INFJ-T

  • @auroraastarr
    @auroraastarr 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2661

    Me as an INFJ:
    Some random guy texts me:"You are very cute😍"
    Me:Yeah I know you're flirting but I'll pretend I don't know that

    • @basketoffruit4485
      @basketoffruit4485 4 ปีที่แล้ว +155

      You guys are texting people?
      -From a INTJ

    • @enyacheng4124
      @enyacheng4124 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      YES

    • @rainrhapsody2411
      @rainrhapsody2411 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      ME

    • @rainrhapsody2411
      @rainrhapsody2411 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@basketoffruit4485 😂

    • @auroraastarr
      @auroraastarr 4 ปีที่แล้ว +147

      @@basketoffruit4485 No,I don't text people but if someone texts me,I have to reply or I will seem rude,right?

  • @yuqie1537
    @yuqie1537 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3016

    I'm INFJ, i'm able to tell when someone is flirting with me and I don't know how to react. It's so awkward

    • @breannamacaluso4836
      @breannamacaluso4836 4 ปีที่แล้ว +204

      Me as an infj *chokes on words and barley makes intelligent sounds, does an awkward double chin single nod and quickly shuffles away*

    • @ines4982
      @ines4982 4 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      Sameee I literally don’t know and it’s the worst I hate it

    • @mishellsilva7348
      @mishellsilva7348 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Same here lol

    • @norabaker4713
      @norabaker4713 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      me too i feel that

    • @ashleygray1189
      @ashleygray1189 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      *slowly sinks down in school chair*

  • @ShreyaBetjewargi99999
    @ShreyaBetjewargi99999 4 ปีที่แล้ว +706

    Infj's/InfX's: 100% confident about knowing what's going on in the person's mind
    But:Pretend to be chill and know good things bout them.
    Later:Wants to say something nice, but ends up saying something weird.

    • @blancadv
      @blancadv 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Mwlfgahsknd meeeeeee🤦‍♀️😫😅

    • @notme1111
      @notme1111 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Accurate af

    • @dawnarussom3061
      @dawnarussom3061 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Nah. It's more like. I already know what's wrong with you I just want to see if you're going to lie so I can know who you really are at the core to me.

    • @mari-ui6ml
      @mari-ui6ml 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      yesss i am

    • @ti9erlilly
      @ti9erlilly 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yeahhhhh.....

  • @jadececi7653
    @jadececi7653 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2508

    INFJ being normal, helping everyone caring about everyone
    People: Omg this girl might be into me
    Me: no...

    • @8114梦见
      @8114梦见 4 ปีที่แล้ว +296

      Bruh, no kidding. I didn't have an inkling someone liked me, and after asking me out, and I said I wasn't in to them, they were like, "But why were you nice to me when I talked to you?"
      And I'm like, "I'm just trying to be a decent human being, sorry..."

    • @majuupacheco
      @majuupacheco 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Yesssssss omg

    • @NecroEditing
      @NecroEditing 4 ปีที่แล้ว +52

      Tbh even as an INFJ guy I can still fall for this xD

    • @ummifazeira5244
      @ummifazeira5244 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Yeah that's absolutely true

    • @jewel9615
      @jewel9615 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      That's me literally

  • @outpizzathehut6360
    @outpizzathehut6360 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2146

    Random person : * talks to me
    Me,an infj : *uses my infj stare
    Random person : *feels uncomfortable
    Me : *also feels uncomfortable because he feels uncomfortable

    • @destree6348
      @destree6348 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Outpizza The Hut So accurate

    • @jphillips8545
      @jphillips8545 4 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      That’s so accurately hilarious

    • @Lieksels63
      @Lieksels63 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Hahahahah so true

    • @nataliek878
      @nataliek878 4 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      I know this one guy who I don't know if he's an INFJ or ISFJ but dang dude he stares like deep into my soul and it creeps me out. I know it's unintentional but I wish he could like... break the eye contact every... idk, like 5 seconds?

    • @kore808
      @kore808 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Where is the lie

  • @petetre1013
    @petetre1013 4 ปีที่แล้ว +938

    us INTJ's don't date, we conduct job interviews

    • @nonexistant4260
      @nonexistant4260 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I mean, yeah

    • @izzibizzi
      @izzibizzi 4 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      Yeah. Exactly. Everything must be formal and prepared.

    • @lil_jong-un6668
      @lil_jong-un6668 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Yeah, we don't beat around the bush

    • @Agynessdin
      @Agynessdin 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      infj here, i would not mind:)

    • @soundmaven4180
      @soundmaven4180 4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      Agynessdin I agree. I (INFJ) and my spouse (INTJ) work well this way. Our dating period was a mixture of beautiful dorky awkwardness and intricate planning of everything. It was (and still is) amazing.

  • @patchi6384
    @patchi6384 4 ปีที่แล้ว +960

    I'm an INFP and I observed that when I like someone, I get especially observant about them, about their likes, feelings, reactions, thoughts, etc. But I dunno how to show I like them instead I get friendly and thoughtful(?) if that is the right word for it. Like I take into consideration his side all the time.

    • @mercykok2635
      @mercykok2635 4 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      I can relate a bit. I mean i can get thoutghfull at almost everything though. But mayby a bit extra

    • @geminievil
      @geminievil 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Yeah, im infp too and i relate a lot to that

    • @roberthipolito1351
      @roberthipolito1351 4 ปีที่แล้ว +109

      Ye INFP in a nutshell right there.
      What sucks is the realization that no one is as considerate for you, as you are for them.

    • @niall2451
      @niall2451 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      sayme

    • @Maiiiccc
      @Maiiiccc 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      why do i relate so much 😭😭😭

  • @holly7086
    @holly7086 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1020

    as an infj i’m just not sociable enough to know anyone to flirt with lol and i have high standards etc.

    • @blacksheep9772
      @blacksheep9772 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Yep, me too 😊😊
      😒😒😒😒😒😒😒😒

    • @emanuelmayer
      @emanuelmayer 4 ปีที่แล้ว +95

      yes, this is my reason, not to flirt ...
      I see their souls... and their possible futures and all of their past lives ... and ..
      hey, why are they gone?

    • @akari3695
      @akari3695 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Hello army, me too

    •  4 ปีที่แล้ว +128

      INFJ can't flirt. We just amplify the usual attention we pay to people.

    • @taylorjade6918
      @taylorjade6918 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @ Oooh I like how you put that 😮

  • @lizhe2914
    @lizhe2914 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1511

    Bruh, I'm INTP. I went on a date once and didnt know it was a date until he tried to kiss me. I thought it was just super nice of him to treat me to dinner 😂. Gotta make things clear for us INTP.

    • @sachiedendesu
      @sachiedendesu 4 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      Fella intp here

    • @jums7657
      @jums7657 4 ปีที่แล้ว +60

      Yeah we've got some thick skulls

    • @arachnidterror
      @arachnidterror 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      i feel you, fellow intps

    • @ericathefallen
      @ericathefallen 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      This is my life!

    • @CWojcieszak
      @CWojcieszak 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yup, that's us alright

  • @evesolis6133
    @evesolis6133 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2451

    INTJs no matter how attractive they are, just have this talent of creating socially awkward moments.

    • @stingray2044
      @stingray2044 4 ปีที่แล้ว +135

      🤣so true, and I know what I should do but I don’t do it

    • @danicleckley5404
      @danicleckley5404 4 ปีที่แล้ว +188

      It really is a gift I wish I could stop giving.

    • @annakarenina2735
      @annakarenina2735 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      @@danicleckley5404 😂😂totally

    • @unknownuser3604
      @unknownuser3604 4 ปีที่แล้ว +86

      Me and my dad are intjs, dude idk why. We create awkward situations at least once a week, sometimes on purpose. Really fun.

    • @constanzas.7541
      @constanzas.7541 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Period. 🙃

  • @connorfries8297
    @connorfries8297 3 ปีที่แล้ว +204

    ENFP here. Your thing for people like me is 100% accurate and hilarious. Thank you

    • @mistymane52
      @mistymane52 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      As soon as he said cat cafe and karaoke, I was like “ooh that sounds so fun! What an awesome date that would be!”
      So yes! Spot on! 😂👏🏼

    • @cringelord7776
      @cringelord7776 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      We could go there! Ooooh I haven’t eaten there yet? I wonder what the view is like from there!

    • @Nono3112.
      @Nono3112. ปีที่แล้ว

      J'ai littéralement déjà proposé un karaoké à quelqu'un qui me plaisait, entre autres ^^ @@mistymane52

  • @chiefbogo3282
    @chiefbogo3282 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1999

    INFJ
    Knows when someone is flirting, but at the same time doesn’t know how to flirt
    (potato intensifies)

    • @aaxx9780
      @aaxx9780 4 ปีที่แล้ว +125

      Is it just me or all infj always kinda know when someone is flirting

    • @tatianemartins6615
      @tatianemartins6615 4 ปีที่แล้ว +73

      @@aaxx9780 SAME but we are unable to flirt the same easy that we can realize

    • @trishaseal7782
      @trishaseal7782 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      lmao relatable af xD

    • @sohinidutta97
      @sohinidutta97 4 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      Chief Bogo We potate, we don't flirt 😂

    • @tacoqwq1741
      @tacoqwq1741 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Me 24)7

  • @OnewBiased
    @OnewBiased 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1091

    Me, an INTP: So.. this is an actual date and you like me? What is wrong with you?

    • @amynopirimidin
      @amynopirimidin 4 ปีที่แล้ว +98

      OnewBiased i love that you know right away that this is going to be the intp, and it gets more and more accurate with every second

    • @FrankJames
      @FrankJames  4 ปีที่แล้ว +50

      true

    • @Soldiers_Of_God
      @Soldiers_Of_God 4 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      As an INTP, I knew that was me lol

    • @minhanhnguyen2213
      @minhanhnguyen2213 4 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      The moment i heard the word "practical joke" i like ok it may... "we're gonna stuck in this restaurant for 1 hours" , wow that's exactly i'd been thinking at the last date

    • @hannahsummer22
      @hannahsummer22 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      OnewBiased usually my response as well.

  • @TitusCheshire
    @TitusCheshire 4 ปีที่แล้ว +639

    Being an INFP is a life of constant heartbreak.

  • @seonne7333
    @seonne7333 4 ปีที่แล้ว +387

    2:27 ENFP here and I’m freaking out right now because I ALWAYS bring up cat cafes and karaoke bars when ever somebody asks me what we should do! How did you know? I’m impressed!

    • @nolipsnokiss6776
      @nolipsnokiss6776 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      I HAVENT BEEN TO THOSE BEFORE I BET IT WOULD BE FUNN !!

    • @laurenyoung8586
      @laurenyoung8586 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Love karaoke!!

    • @mercykok2635
      @mercykok2635 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I would like karaoke, but not in public. And i think would realy love going to a cat cafe.

    • @floramotta2302
      @floramotta2302 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      it would be soooo fun im dying

    • @selena-9841
      @selena-9841 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I LOVE cat cafes I literally try to bring anyone I know there

  • @bradypreston7376
    @bradypreston7376 4 ปีที่แล้ว +196

    As an ISTP, I laughed at how painfully accurate this is.

  • @shali4648
    @shali4648 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1348

    INTJ when flirting: *avoiding eye contact and talking at all cost so that the person won't see that I have feelings and like them*

    • @Angie-xd6ql
      @Angie-xd6ql 4 ปีที่แล้ว +54

      I feel personally attacked 🙄

    • @peachesandcream8753
      @peachesandcream8753 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      @@Angie-xd6ql Me too. This happens to me all of the time.

    • @unknownuser3604
      @unknownuser3604 4 ปีที่แล้ว +54

      Actually don't avoid eye contact, this is totally a love thing. Stare at them right in the eyes until they turn their head blushing away.

    • @dilara6499
      @dilara6499 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      what if he's an INTJ and doesn't avoid eye contact 0.0

    • @thehillstead
      @thehillstead 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      @@dilara6499 hold onto your panties.

  • @Imptism
    @Imptism 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1536

    me an INTP
    girl flirts with me
    Me says ok
    Me 10 hours later: wait a sec was she filrting with me?

    • @MatthewJohnHunterMusic
      @MatthewJohnHunterMusic 4 ปีที่แล้ว +207

      I usually wake up at 3am, in a cold sweat, approximately 3 years later, as I suddenly realise they were flirting with me.

    • @rm2915
      @rm2915 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Honestly though...

    • @dradelcra
      @dradelcra 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      A bit too close to home 😂

    • @sammywong2074
      @sammywong2074 4 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      Ha! we are like children when it comes to social interactions.

    • @MAF-08
      @MAF-08 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      stop being losers, just learn how to do it...use ur logic

  • @elaineee1996
    @elaineee1996 3 ปีที่แล้ว +253

    Why do i feel like INFP and INFJ are very rare but are always watching these videos XD

    • @ihaveseverefrootsnackism
      @ihaveseverefrootsnackism 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      It took me forever to find out who I was and now that I realize I was wrong the entire time (thought I was INTJ but actually INFJ), I've just been going wild finding tons of new information that relates to me on a super deep level. I feel very misunderstood IRL so when I see these videos get it THIS well, it's impossible not to binge-watch xD
      I think the misunderstandings are common for the INxx types if I remember properly. INTJs (and I assume INTPs as well) get misunderstood a ton too.

    • @kalecia
      @kalecia 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ihaveseverefrootsnackism you're the opposite of me 💀 i thought i was an infj but retook the test and got intj.

    • @ihaveseverefrootsnackism
      @ihaveseverefrootsnackism 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@kalecia Though I know I'm an INFJ for sure now, I never got those results from the test. I just don't really trust the 16p method it uses and base it off functions instead because I find it to be more reliable.
      Ironically, though, in this case, intj and infj share introverted intuition as the primary function, so it becomes a bit more difficult xD Because with a total of 8 functions there's only 2 types with any one function as the main function

    • @chocotortuga_22
      @chocotortuga_22 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Nooo, estoy haciendo tarea, si, hago tarea justo ahora.

    • @MentalParadox
      @MentalParadox 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      *because* they are very rare

  • @mbhero20
    @mbhero20 4 ปีที่แล้ว +861

    That moment as an INTJ when you rehearsed an entire scenario of "flirting", then it happens and none of it goes as planned.

  • @acer.racerr
    @acer.racerr 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1033

    love how theres only infp's and intj's here.

  • @beths1909
    @beths1909 4 ปีที่แล้ว +630

    I feel like two INFJs flirting with each other is each of us just doing the soul stare at each other until one of us dies, which honestly, isn’t the worst way to go. I’d at least die probably feeling understood 😐 😅

    • @taylorjade6918
      @taylorjade6918 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Ah 💞 understood.

    • @nilufertalibova
      @nilufertalibova 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Hahaha😂 Yes, no need for words. We can understand other person by soul staring😂

    • @AxisFlowers
      @AxisFlowers 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      My boyfriend is INFJ, I'm INFP/J. It took us 4 years to start talking to each other.

    • @janmots2829
      @janmots2829 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      It would just be a staring competition until someone breaks eye contact... 😂

    • @rx500android
      @rx500android 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Honestly I wish

  • @karak2113
    @karak2113 2 ปีที่แล้ว +203

    All I can say as an INFP that adores INFJs (no offense to the other MBTIs) my experience with INFJs is they love cuddles, being treated like a baby, and over-analyzing things. And they have amazing poker faces (like INFPs sometimes).
    INFJ secret- inside they are gooey goofballs that are sherlocks at heart. Very intelligent interesting lovely people :)

    • @Natalie-yg5rn
      @Natalie-yg5rn 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      You're enfj

    • @bonemasked3925
      @bonemasked3925 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      why is my INFJ cousin not like this

    • @d4rkshadow826
      @d4rkshadow826 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      As an infj, that’s really accurate 😂

    • @just.a.browser
      @just.a.browser 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Ameeeeeen

  • @teacupkoala175
    @teacupkoala175 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1951

    ENFP: acts normal
    Everyone else: Omg he's totally flirting with me
    *but seriously, bring me to that cat café*

    • @amberyaa
      @amberyaa 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      😂

    • @sierranicole7643
      @sierranicole7643 4 ปีที่แล้ว +79

      no !! we need to find a cat cafe where they also do karaoke but like weird al style and they change the words to feline appropriate stuff!!!! or we could just sing TOM JONES!!!!!

    • @bella25110
      @bella25110 4 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      - Ok, I can do this. Do you have a cat? I have a cat. I want to have many cats. Or tue are enough. We can go to the walk too. Stars are beautiful. Like you. - ENFP ❤😂 Have a nice day 😊 and sorry for any mistakes 🤷‍♀️

    • @mazmaryam1212
      @mazmaryam1212 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Nahhhh my guysssss a cat cafe at a theme park like thst would be amazing and then pondering the meaning of life afterwards-- now we all know we're ENFPs 💕

    • @saltbending9701
      @saltbending9701 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      as an ENTP i can relate, too

  • @Gabriela-bl5py
    @Gabriela-bl5py 4 ปีที่แล้ว +511

    INTP female here... I wouldn't event ask. I would be sure it's just a friends gathering and then pikachu face when they try to kiss me goodbye

  • @adryanadiniz8453
    @adryanadiniz8453 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1721

    Me an INTJ
    "I like you and want to be more than friends. You decide what you want to do with that information"
    I honestly said that to a guy when I was 16.
    EDIT: seeing so many likes makes me feel a little more normal! Hahaha I've truly found my people!

    • @MoMo-vo6xw
      @MoMo-vo6xw 4 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      Omg same gal I relate to that so much!!!

    • @hopelessmachine
      @hopelessmachine 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Mood

    • @alexjimenez8413
      @alexjimenez8413 4 ปีที่แล้ว +53

      I see no issue with this

    • @adryanadiniz8453
      @adryanadiniz8453 4 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      @@alexjimenez8413 me neither. But a lot of people have told that it was (I'm) weird hahaha

    • @Ab-ub2ii
      @Ab-ub2ii 4 ปีที่แล้ว +51

      That's the kind of attitude and to the point , precise sentences we like ( an intp)

  • @aaronburdon221
    @aaronburdon221 4 ปีที่แล้ว +300

    ISTP was spot on because that's literally a conversation i've had. lol

    • @elisa7938
      @elisa7938 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Straight to the facts, as always

    • @aaronburdon221
      @aaronburdon221 3 ปีที่แล้ว +81

      @@elisa7938 That's me. Women REALLY hate it though because it "kills the romance". I say long term relationships aren't maintained by romance but rather by commitment and compatibility and similar life goals if not the same life goals. If certain things are romantic then so be it.

    • @marssgrl
      @marssgrl 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      saaaame

    • @lucasgoncalves7774
      @lucasgoncalves7774 3 ปีที่แล้ว +73

      @@aaronburdon221 That's the most ISTP thing I've ever read.

    • @kamillaribeiro417
      @kamillaribeiro417 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Same .
      I'm scared ಥ‿ಥ

  • @unistudent3353
    @unistudent3353 4 ปีที่แล้ว +685

    As an INTP I can seriously vouch for how true this is😂😂
    "Are you flirting?...or is this a joke?"
    "You sure about this? Like you sure you like me?"
    "You're serious?"
    "You're going to leave me eventually"

    • @_aiko020
      @_aiko020 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      ACCURATEE 😭

    • @Unknownmillie137
      @Unknownmillie137 4 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      True lol when he was saying that I was like “isn’t that me? INTP?” and then I burst out laughing 😂

    • @badcreations9527
      @badcreations9527 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      That is so me in a nutshell. And the one time I did accept it they kinda left me for another person. In the end I did say “I told you so!” when they left me for another person.

    • @annaromanesky9603
      @annaromanesky9603 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      yaaasss someone else who is INTP

    • @AstroGalRose
      @AstroGalRose 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Omg that’s so me 😂😂

  • @strivingfornewhorizons9281
    @strivingfornewhorizons9281 4 ปีที่แล้ว +568

    ENFP flirting: *doesn't even realize they're flirting*
    Edit: Damn, I think I never got that many likes, thanks! 😂😁
    Edit 2: Clearly we need a T-shirt that tells other people that what we're doing isn't flirting. The number of people who can relate speaks for itself xD

    • @tenthousanddaysofgratitude
      @tenthousanddaysofgratitude 4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      Striving for new horizons exactly. But when we do want to flirt, the other person doesn’t stand a chance.

    • @Graggbjkfdx
      @Graggbjkfdx 4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      So true! they're just like puppies! act like they love you so much at first sight and then do that every each one in the same way

    • @strivingfornewhorizons9281
      @strivingfornewhorizons9281 4 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      @@Graggbjkfdx That's too true xD.
      I talked to a guy from my college dorm a few weeks ago. We talked for 3h straight and I thought we were just having a cool conversation, so I thought "Yay, I've made a new friend!".
      ...he asked me if I wanted to be his girlfriend shortly after. He thought I was flirting the entire time. It was awkward af
      It's fine now, we're just friends and he understood that this behavior is normal to me xD

    • @udonfrenzy
      @udonfrenzy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      @@strivingfornewhorizons9281 this is my struggle right now!! I'm trying to make new friends, and I really enjoy talking to people and getting to know them. But this has now translated to having, I kid you not, 8 men who are actively pursuing me. ENFPs how do you successfully let them down but still remain friends?! HELPPPP

    • @strivingfornewhorizons9281
      @strivingfornewhorizons9281 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @@udonfrenzy I feel you😂😂
      It especially sucks when you're not even looking for a relationship.
      Idk, I told him I needed time and that I wanted to be friends first. Then I didn't see him for a couple of days (which was hard to do, cause we live almost next to another and use the same kitchen xD) and rarely texted back - I was still answering, just wasn't on my phone very much, my uni exams were coming up (I tried to focus on learning all the stuff I would've learned weeks before😅). He eventually got it and acted normal the next time I saw him.
      I can't give you a formula tho, I wish I could^^"
      Other times I used humor.
      Someone asked me for nudes by saying "show your melons" (in my language it sounds a lot less weird) - I sent him a pic of me with two melons I bought in the supermarket. He wasn't amused 😂😂

  • @naaitxo
    @naaitxo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +276

    Infp and i provably already fantasized about a life together before even getting there.

    • @pinkrocker61401
      @pinkrocker61401 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Nai “what if he’s my soul mate? When i see him will it be love at first sight? I have to remember this day so I can tell our kids”

    • @VeryTori
      @VeryTori 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I am a mixture of INFP and ENFP, and I totally relate to this.

    • @mavisdom-animeonpiano
      @mavisdom-animeonpiano 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Nai lol

    • @RandolphCrane
      @RandolphCrane 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      My INFP bf was like "you are my soulmate" after the first date.

    • @ΣοφίαΠεκρίδη
      @ΣοφίαΠεκρίδη 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yeah I fantasized about someone and years later I actually fell in love with him. It was hard but he won my heart completely different from what I expected🙈

  • @AserGaming
    @AserGaming 3 ปีที่แล้ว +571

    I relate to INTJ way too much

    • @IkanaMaskedMan
      @IkanaMaskedMan 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Lol i laughed because that interpretation happened to me once

    • @lyraserpentine894
      @lyraserpentine894 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@IkanaMaskedMan X.) Fantastic name. Y.) I've never experienced this. Probably because I don't date. Z.) It seems efficient & I may adopt it for IF I ever do date.

    • @crunchybunbun
      @crunchybunbun 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      🤣🤣🤣 and i flirt like this (enfp) with my intj

  • @K1nda_Yeh
    @K1nda_Yeh 4 ปีที่แล้ว +145

    As an enfp, the accuracy of this video scares me... I just came back home from karaoke bar wtf

    • @rishaa682
      @rishaa682 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      lol

    • @TheAllmightySmallest
      @TheAllmightySmallest 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Did someone say... KARAOKE OWO

    • @tinlizziestudios4344
      @tinlizziestudios4344 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      LOL

    • @manasac3102
      @manasac3102 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Me too I was just thinking to go explore a cat cafe as I felt like petting a cat. Also I was thinking to go do karaoke n sing party in the USA when I go for a trip in the US soon😂

  • @mihiyoon4274
    @mihiyoon4274 4 ปีที่แล้ว +677

    As an INFJ, I can't help but stare into people's eyes while they talk and end up getting so engrossed in observing their eyes or lips that I forget what they were even saying, lol.
    Sometimes I try not to be a creep and try to look away every 15 seconds (some site told me it's the max time I should stare, lol) but then I just divert all of my attention to counting the seconds and then staring deep into their eyes or at their teeth (Idk why even)

    • @wanderingintime
      @wanderingintime 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      whoah. you are a creep. (I just did what you spoke of yesterday) also, I feel you on being the infp/j mix (another video).

    • @mihiyoon4274
      @mihiyoon4274 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@wanderingintime lol, I am still confused about my type;;

    • @ayaaly2866
      @ayaaly2866 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Whhhaat?! I thought it is just me 😂

    • @destree6348
      @destree6348 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Dang... that's so me

    • @harseik7354
      @harseik7354 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      As an INFP, eye contact is FORBIDDEN.

  • @LineoftheCarols
    @LineoftheCarols 4 ปีที่แล้ว +605

    INTJ here who just went on a date and literally ended it with "I'll be in touch".

    • @DH-ig3bo
      @DH-ig3bo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Lol omgosh I snorted... that's me af

    • @hoashiachi
      @hoashiachi 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      I said to any guy "yeah.. I m gonna send email to ya". But i wont, if he is not smart enuf for me. Lol. I am an INTJ girl.

    • @Lunaliiii
      @Lunaliiii 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Date? What is that?

    • @victorpleyosa4386
      @victorpleyosa4386 4 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      You guys are going on dates?

    • @masteroogway6339
      @masteroogway6339 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      IM LAUGHING CUZ ITS TRUE 🤣🤣

  • @bettyravioli7334
    @bettyravioli7334 4 ปีที่แล้ว +109

    Me, an INFP, imagining my whole life with someone I haven’t talked to for 3 years

    • @gwendyrv5525
      @gwendyrv5525 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      HAHAHA that's literally me

    • @pistache9772
      @pistache9772 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Oof, it's good not to be alone. xD

  • @lindaolof9228
    @lindaolof9228 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1170

    INFP:"I want our corpses to be burried together in the same coffin"

    • @quirogatnonerrat3214
      @quirogatnonerrat3214 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Awwwww, dont worry. I have such expressions as well and thoughts and I am an INFJ

    • @stephw.7874
      @stephw.7874 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Why the same coffin though? Doesn't seem like there would be enough room.

    • @radioactive_baby
      @radioactive_baby 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @@stephw.7874 I'm stuck on the fact that this person is assuming that they'll die at the same time

    • @BigFanOfCocks
      @BigFanOfCocks 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@radioactive_baby doesn't have to be at the same time

    • @radioactive_baby
      @radioactive_baby 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@BigFanOfCocks So when the other person dies, they are going to dig up the casket and throw them in there?

  • @katatara6447
    @katatara6447 4 ปีที่แล้ว +593

    2:24 the INTJ saying awkward things out loud and arguing inside his head is literally me all the time in social situations. Kind of hilarious and miserable

    • @williamharis2467
      @williamharis2467 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I couldn't agree more

    • @АрианнаСергеева-в8и
      @АрианнаСергеева-в8и 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Lmao, it's me 😂😭

    • @mariana.b.
      @mariana.b. 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      me, always saying the wrong things at the wrong time, trying to say something nice.

    • @jawhi
      @jawhi 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I’m INTJ and can confirm that is exactly what happens all the time

    • @imeandmyself707
      @imeandmyself707 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@mariana.b. I feel you girl😂😂 I do that a lot

  • @dayzeandconfuze
    @dayzeandconfuze 4 ปีที่แล้ว +317

    As an INFJ I've had past partners tell me when we first met they found me intimidating bc I have this quiet, aloof yet direct exterior, but then they got to know me and realized that facade is how I cover up my acute social anxiety.

    • @rifaatisk1061
      @rifaatisk1061 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Thats so true

    • @kylierosee
      @kylierosee 4 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      Bruh so many people find me intimidating before they get to know me and it’s very strange

    • @rflptrs
      @rflptrs 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      As an INFJ I agree to this. I have acute social anxiety as well.

    • @thestrewberry1833
      @thestrewberry1833 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      In high school I asked a close teacher why know one likes me, and she said a lot of people do, I just put off confidence and they are intimidated.

    • @dayzeandconfuze
      @dayzeandconfuze 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Tempprince Likes Art confidence is intimidating to people because a lot of people don’t have any. There’s a lot of people who are cocky and self righteous but thats different than true confidence, and those people actually tend to be the most insecure so they’ve developed ways of drawing lots of people in and keeping them close. But the right people will be drawn to your confidence, and it will get you far while being able to keep your own pride and wellbeing intact.

  • @angelaharris53
    @angelaharris53 2 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    INTJ married to INFP. INFP does that, and I'm like, "Oh thank goodness! I am so done with this horrible dating crap! Let's talk brass tacks and plan it out." It was a little more elaborate than that, but very close. We are still married over 20 years later.

    • @srikariabhirami2360
      @srikariabhirami2360 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      omg im dating an infp rn and im an intj and this is so accurate

    • @Interestking
      @Interestking 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      The more of these sketches I watch, the more I realize that I love INTPs, INFJs, and INTJs.
      -an INFP

  • @louise19808
    @louise19808 4 ปีที่แล้ว +216

    INFJ and accidentally stared into my crush's soul for a solid 4 seconds before having a heart attack when I realised what was happening.

    • @YVZSTUDIOS
      @YVZSTUDIOS 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Here is a tip I got from someone. Wink 😉 completely changes the mood and 80% of people smile as a response because it's such an unexpected thing. Or you can do an *intense stare competition* where both of you stare at each other until someone gives up 😂

    • @SammySprinkler1207
      @SammySprinkler1207 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@YVZSTUDIOS you think i have the balls to do that?

    • @8114梦见
      @8114梦见 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I sometimes wonder if my crush suspects that I like her...I try not to stare, honestly...

    • @Webs.x
      @Webs.x 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      My crush yelled at me for doing the same thing. She doesnt like being looked at

    • @Webs.x
      @Webs.x 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@SammySprinkler1207 lmao me neither

  • @countbathory4020
    @countbathory4020 4 ปีที่แล้ว +631

    Me, an INTJ: *smiles, and tries very hard to say something more than ‘hmm’ in varying tones*

    • @sibbyline
      @sibbyline 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      i can relate xD

    • @cawhitley7644
      @cawhitley7644 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Me...just yesterday... i cannot do convos... im always trying to find a way not to...

    • @Tooyoungforuuuu
      @Tooyoungforuuuu 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Lmfao

    • @itspurelypassionate
      @itspurelypassionate 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      That's me xD

    • @izzibizzi
      @izzibizzi 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      TRUEEE

  • @ceilinh6004
    @ceilinh6004 4 ปีที่แล้ว +336

    The INTP one killed me.
    My husband (also an INTP) asked me out by email for our first date. (The email was multiple choice.) I definitley was not 100% sure it was a date until well after the fact.
    It's probably a miracle that we ended up married.

    • @yumekyn6283
      @yumekyn6283 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      i'm laughing lol

    • @ceilinh6004
      @ceilinh6004 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@denizviolet INTP also

    • @eval4495
      @eval4495 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      I had a similar experience 😆 I was around 14 or 15. I can't believe I still remember this. He gave me a multiple choice sheet. I guess he might've been an INTP 🤭

    • @finnian5588
      @finnian5588 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I didn't realize we were coupled until my future wife ESFJ played interference between me INTP and another girl who was interested in me. I was just reading in the student center and BAM! there she is. "Hey honey, wanna coffee, I'll get you one, on me!" *She bounces away* The other girl casually approaches me. (My God, how is it that these girls keep playing jokes on me as if they really like me? - I'm thinking) The other girl and I start talking....
      ....the lights flicker.....
      ....the wind picks up....
      ....it's cold, an I feel electricity in the air....
      I see Pilar levitating in the hallway...... th-cam.com/video/4wGXn2vWVao/w-d-xo.html
      I never knew what that other girls name was, or what happened to her.

    • @crunchybunbun
      @crunchybunbun 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      HAHHAHAHA

  • @Chocorah
    @Chocorah 4 ปีที่แล้ว +136

    I've learned to recognize the fellow ENFP as that one guy who never has their life together. but is still mostly having a good time - and I relate to that vibe so much.

    • @Finnda-
      @Finnda- 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Yup

  • @magalystamales
    @magalystamales 4 ปีที่แล้ว +520

    ENFP's don't flirt. We are naturally charming and playful. Others see it as, yeah, flirting. 🤷‍♀️

    • @ibr6193
      @ibr6193 4 ปีที่แล้ว +76

      Every other type: why do you flirt with everyone?
      Us: I am not flirting!

    • @Miloutchaful
      @Miloutchaful 4 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      Haha. So true! My boyfriend still claims that I was flirting with him when we met, but I most definitely wasn't. I don't even know how to flirt on purpose.

    • @magalystamales
      @magalystamales 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@Miloutchaful Yup, I don't know how to flirt on purpose. 😒

    • @mayeighteen2812
      @mayeighteen2812 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Hahah yes! And i get so shy around the guy i really like. 🙈 as for the ones i feel semi-attracted to, i do ramp up the cheekiness 😉

    • @Mynameisdarkxxo
      @Mynameisdarkxxo 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Must be nice haha

  • @aidadenisa8553
    @aidadenisa8553 4 ปีที่แล้ว +125

    "You look average. You look about average right now."
    I'd fall for that

  • @brittanypage1706
    @brittanypage1706 4 ปีที่แล้ว +480

    INTJ... Having more of a conversation with yourself than the other person.

    • @mariobros7834
      @mariobros7834 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      That is true, but the conversation itself is wrong. He got this one wrong.

    • @moontrooper2587
      @moontrooper2587 4 ปีที่แล้ว +50

      I actually once had a conversation about how I talk to myself too often, but that that’s okay.
      ... With myself.

    • @taki0ps230
      @taki0ps230 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@moontrooper2587 Same here haha

    • @Delimon007
      @Delimon007 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Oh, now I get it. Yea, that's definitely me. . . I have 2 different sides, technically 3 now but still mostly 2 XD

    • @canadacaden3266
      @canadacaden3266 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      That’s me in a nutshell.

  • @kbee8517
    @kbee8517 3 ปีที่แล้ว +95

    As an ENFP, I can confirm we will go on a date anytime, _literally_ anywhere. 3am in a city two hours away? Great! Let's have an impromptu sleepover!!!

    • @Roozyj
      @Roozyj 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      also ENFP here. I do have very clear moments where I'm "at home" or "out" in my mental calendar and a hard time switching one to the other. But if I'm "out", a cat café or a karaoke bar both sound very good to me xD

  • @nilufertalibova
    @nilufertalibova 4 ปีที่แล้ว +353

    Trying to see everyone's soul results being single forever I think😄Because most people don't care of spiritual things and this hurts INFJs so much

    • @sophiaredwood5825
      @sophiaredwood5825 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Oh my goodness, I’m literally the exact same way! Nobody in my circle or potential relationships really gets that about me, so I guess I’ll just keep on waiting... lol
      ~ENFP

    • @nilufertalibova
      @nilufertalibova 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      @@sophiaredwood5825 unfortunately :( Understand you very well. I think NF types are more spiritual people than others. My sister is also ENFP, very spiritual and hypersensitive. Life is difficult for us😄

    • @Julia-LArt
      @Julia-LArt 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      So true!

    • @KeeperOfKeys22
      @KeeperOfKeys22 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Im sorry, I can't hear you if I'm lost in your soul. Not only is it intimate but the bad feelings are compounded when I realize that I didn't hear a word you said.
      INFP

    • @strivingfornewhorizons9281
      @strivingfornewhorizons9281 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Seems like ENFP and INFJ attract each other xD. One of closest friends is an INFJ, she's the most person I've ever met.
      I (ENFP) am nowhere near to being as spiritual as her (I do trust the universe and I believe everything happens for a reason, you attract people because they are meant to teach you something or because you're similar to them -> law of attraction etc. But there's not much more "spiritual" about me and my beliefs). We can chat about her experiences tho and I try my best to make sense of it. I'd never judge her, even if it sounds crazy to me sometimes (I guess it's cause her Fi is much stronger than mine)

  • @niki2037
    @niki2037 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1248

    I’m an INTP with a terrible tendency to fall in love with anyone who is being kind to me and then getting shocked that they were being just friendly and not flirting, which then causes me to suspect everyone of just being friendly and I become painfully oblivious
    edit: as time went by and I had a (fairly short due to my disinterest) relationship, I realized I don't really want to bother with serious committed relationships :'3
    To all the oblivious INTPs out there: you are valid and it's totally OK to be oblivious, there's nothing wrong with it. For me personally, it's not just with relationships, but with all communication in general, I prefer knowing things straight-up, without having to read between the lines. Relationship communication is fickle, and if you're not ready to put in the effort to make a relationship work (like me), that's completely alright too. If there are certain affection needs you want (because, despite being cold and calculated, we are still human.. someone described INTPs as "warmest machines"), make the boundaries clear, because from what I found, some people don't like the wishy-washy uncertainty.

    • @moanadraws5671
      @moanadraws5671 4 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      This is so me, is almost scary kkkk

    • @ikromshi
      @ikromshi 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      So true

    • @janelledelacruz1615
      @janelledelacruz1615 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Saaaameeee

    • @vanmisa9238
      @vanmisa9238 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Guess I'm not the only one then

    • @julietten5614
      @julietten5614 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I am entp and have the same problem

  • @febreeze9348
    @febreeze9348 4 ปีที่แล้ว +184

    One time someone told me they liked me. I looked left and right in search of spectators and said, “is this a dare?”
    ~an INTP

    • @manager-nim2623
      @manager-nim2623 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      No dumbass it isn't a dare, your smart-ass self is attractive and I like you
      ~ me to my imaginary INTP

    • @febreeze9348
      @febreeze9348 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      manager-nim I like how you called me a dumbass and a smart-ass in the same sentence.

    • @Dim2134
      @Dim2134 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@febreeze9348 Yet it feels so true sometimes, no? Fucking paradoxes.

    • @laurah3791
      @laurah3791 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Febreeze sounds like something i'd do too ~an INFP

    • @robincastle2213
      @robincastle2213 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Someone at my school said i look cute and i literally said "okay thank you." Funny cuz i also thought it was a dare
      ~INTP (A)

  • @bone_apple_teeth457
    @bone_apple_teeth457 4 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    As an ISTP I totally relate to the detached, unemotive lack of self expression 😂

  • @Xlife018
    @Xlife018 4 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    As an INTJ, I can vouch for that imitation. The formal language comes so naturally to us, we can't help but speak it all the time.

  • @natnuss98
    @natnuss98 4 ปีที่แล้ว +372

    ENFP during a date:
    What is shown in this video
    ENFP after a good date:
    What INFP said in this video

    • @AuroraSilverFox
      @AuroraSilverFox 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Yes. 😂😂😂✨

    • @kiranskelton4079
      @kiranskelton4079 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I relate to that a lot

    • @mariaaaaali
      @mariaaaaali 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      clara ao melody LEGIT HAHAHHAHAHAHAHA

    • @keefbosley8315
      @keefbosley8315 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ACCURATE

    • @izzyp1296
      @izzyp1296 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      When you took the quiz twice and got both INFP and ENFP lol

  • @WithinAnonymity
    @WithinAnonymity 4 ปีที่แล้ว +424

    Intj: "Thank you for your time. (What is this, a job interview?)"
    Me: Yes. Yes it is. I'm interviewing you for a very exclusive position, while testing my own comparability and qualifications for the job. And by showing up today, I'd like to point out that you've already impressed me in some way. Let's see if we can come to a mutually beneficial arrangement. Side note, please don't leave me. I will take it personally if you waste my time.

    • @stephanieh6117
      @stephanieh6117 4 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      This is almost word-for-word what my INTJ boyfriend said to me once. Lol! Nice. 😁

    • @pollymat991
      @pollymat991 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      AHAHAAHAHAAHAHAAHAHAA Thank you so luch for sharing this :D

    • @qasimimtiaz114
      @qasimimtiaz114 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      So me haha

    • @PirateQueen1720
      @PirateQueen1720 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Yup. That's about right.

    • @damiendevil333
      @damiendevil333 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      For the last time STOP using cerebro to peek at my thoughts ...it’s creepy 😉

  • @dmsviola1
    @dmsviola1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Man, there's something about ISTPs that are hilarious to me, but I honestly appreciate how clear cut and straightforward they are. Even if you'd lose out on romance, and least you'd know what's what without the nonsense.
    ~ an INFP

  • @kaylabell7126
    @kaylabell7126 4 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    Infj - I do just stare at my husband and try to see his soul in his eyes and when he noticed this a few month into dating he tried to do the same thing back to me and realized it literally made me the happiest woman on this earth. We could just stare into each other’s eyes for 5 minutes straight and I’d still be happy 😊

    • @Santsantini25
      @Santsantini25 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Aw, too sweet! Long last

    • @sagitteaius
      @sagitteaius 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That is sooooo stinking cute!

    • @KatErina-ii6ru
      @KatErina-ii6ru 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Awww ❤️

  • @BrandonKaida
    @BrandonKaida 4 ปีที่แล้ว +201

    ISTP I felt that. Straight and to the point. When I say "yeah" I mean it from the soul.

    • @lila816
      @lila816 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      currently involved with one of you guys and yes your type really is like that. it's kinda reassuring to hear from you though that a simple "yeah" is actually something you really really mean haha. (from an INFJ)

    • @BrandonKaida
      @BrandonKaida 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      @@lila816 we don't do anything we don't want to do, so if we say yeah it's cause we really want to. We're just straight and to the point about it.

    • @GothTear13
      @GothTear13 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      As an ENFP, I really wish you guys would waste more than two words per sentence sometimes 😂 But we love you all the same

    • @BrandonKaida
      @BrandonKaida 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      @@GothTear13 why waste time and energy with unimportant details. Explaining things is exhausting. It's all the same answer just shortened for convenience

    • @YooSaeYeon
      @YooSaeYeon 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      I feel that too! But sometimes I feel like a need to express more, just don't know how to and end up only "yeah" 😂

  • @aaryalouise6391
    @aaryalouise6391 4 ปีที่แล้ว +92

    "You look about average" 10/10 would recommend

  • @sunshaini7861
    @sunshaini7861 4 ปีที่แล้ว +114

    as an ENFJ, we really do a big and exaggerated compliment to a person that we JUST MET and then try to make it normal when they feel uncomfortable but they're already thinking that we're absolutely weirdos. And we are.

    • @aliaaysha2072
      @aliaaysha2072 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Yessss! I’ve thought this about an ENFj guy

    • @freefreepalestine0107
      @freefreepalestine0107 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      so relatable-
      JDJEKFKD i should learn how to tone my compliments down,even my istj bff felt creeped out by me at first-

    • @damecore
      @damecore 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Accurate!

    • @indy_cwxyii5518
      @indy_cwxyii5518 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      omggg i felt thattt :((

    • @purplevortex
      @purplevortex 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      As an ISFJ, ENFJs are some of my favorite types and I'd love to date one!

  • @user-og7qq5zy8p
    @user-og7qq5zy8p 4 ปีที่แล้ว +166

    Couldn’t concentrate, was too enamored thinking about ISFJ seductively offering me his sweater

    • @MeAnINFP
      @MeAnINFP 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      z 😂 Probably the most seductive action out of the bunch

    • @user-og7qq5zy8p
      @user-og7qq5zy8p 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@MeAnINFP and ESTJ and weirdly ENTP... But tbh I have a crush on him anyways so

  • @pet_ricia
    @pet_ricia 4 ปีที่แล้ว +138

    I'm INTJ and I always hear that during the first date I look like I'm not interested. Honestly I am (because I stalked through his all social media accounts and Google search to find every interesting information about him and finally decide to have a date WHAT IS REALLY RARE)

    • @wynstansmom829
      @wynstansmom829 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      petricia, my panda bear who is likely older than you are, is named patricia. She and I are both INtj's.
      I am married but I certainly would know everything about a potential date and if Google search had been available in 1978, I wonder where my life would Ne now.
      "Interesting" may you live in interesting times, may you find an interesting date...there is an old Chinese
      blessing and or curse..."may you live in interesting times"...
      dating must be interesting now knowing you are an INTJ. I did not know that then but I understand it now.
      Good Luck, petricia not my panda. I wish you and all the available INTJ's only the most interesting kind of dates
      and I do mean, 'kind'.

    • @박영재-v7t
      @박영재-v7t 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      100000% Agree
      -as an INTJ girl-

    • @asansfakeaccound5466
      @asansfakeaccound5466 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      literally the same

    • @mariobros7834
      @mariobros7834 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      If you think that the information you find that way is accurate you are not an INTJ.

  • @waynehayes912
    @waynehayes912 4 ปีที่แล้ว +191

    I'm INFP and when he started talking about imagining waking up everyday with some they just met. I literally sat up from my chair, dropped my phone, and yelled "GOD DAMNIT". Because his skit had gotten too real and I felt personally attacked.

    • @mswandersbabe
      @mswandersbabe 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      We are that pure heart persons...

    • @arlarlarl
      @arlarlarl 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      lmaooo same I went like, NO NO NO NO!!! YOU DID *NOT* JUST-

    • @theghostkillz8921
      @theghostkillz8921 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I just went 🤣😆😀😐😭 cause I imagine all the memories of that happening and then what I look like when I am doing so, I zone out and stare at one spot for couple of seconds 😐 welp
      BEING INFP GUY DOESN'T HELP

  • @rimamuryantinahutagalung
    @rimamuryantinahutagalung 4 ปีที่แล้ว +72

    The ISTP is literally my husband when proposing me. And I looked at him with the INFJ stare.

  • @josephhelms2362
    @josephhelms2362 4 ปีที่แล้ว +751

    Everyone Else: 😐
    INFJs: 👁 👁

  • @mickeljmm
    @mickeljmm 4 ปีที่แล้ว +340

    Date: "So, you really like me?"
    ISTP: "Uh huh."
    Date: "And you...want to see me again?"
    ISTP: "Yeah, that's right."
    Why is this guy the one I would be attracted to? (INFJ here😁)

    • @gloomyglam7238
      @gloomyglam7238 4 ปีที่แล้ว +89

      INFJ's are often thirsty for ISTP's, and often it is because ISTP's tend tu be "emotionally unavailable" and INFJ's seems to have fetish for tragic romance :'DD

    • @adhamsoliman15
      @adhamsoliman15 4 ปีที่แล้ว +64

      I'm an ISTP and my ex gf was an infj. I'm a pretty private guy (as most ISTPs I think) but i swear to God if she put half the effort she was putting in trying to figure me out into studying she'd have been top class!
      She once said I was like a puzzle that she couldn't figure out and it was driving her crazy xd
      So I guess infjs find the istps mysteriousness kinda fascinating lol

    • @FrankJames
      @FrankJames  4 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      😏

    • @stracciamenta
      @stracciamenta 4 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      @@adhamsoliman15 are we really that mysterious? Is it because we're so quiet? Or is it because of our lack of facial expression? Guess we'll never know...

    • @adhamsoliman15
      @adhamsoliman15 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@stracciamenta lol that's what my ex used to say. Although I like the word and I feel like I'm kinda James bond super spy thing but I would just say "private" as I described previously xd

  • @bentooh2371
    @bentooh2371 4 ปีที่แล้ว +171

    Person: I genuinely like you
    INTP: *looks around frantically* am I gonna get pranked??!

    • @HSdirectioner5
      @HSdirectioner5 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Literally me in one sentence

    • @anandphulwani5350
      @anandphulwani5350 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I come here and suddenly,out of bloody nowhere......I am not alone😭😭😭(btw on second thoughts I don't really mind being alone that much...

    • @twentysevenand
      @twentysevenand 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I can never believe that someone's into me because I'm such a loner.

    • @idiamondidiamond865
      @idiamondidiamond865 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      When someone was hinting it to me and me as a intp just carried the conversation untill they said it was a prank it wasn’t also I used them as a test subject to see how other people would react

    • @HSdirectioner5
      @HSdirectioner5 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Idiamond Idiamond a guy on Instagram was literally using like five laughing emojis per text, and asked if I have a boyfriend, so when I asked him if he was flirting with me, he said no, he was just being friendly. I don’t know what to believe anymore..

  • @sofiereads
    @sofiereads 3 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    The ISFJ literally trying to be prepared for everything and offering his jacket is literally me in a nutshell....after the jacket comes the soul....once we care for someone very deeply we offer our entire lives to them...I know I do this all the time

    • @kikilala8720
      @kikilala8720 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I love ISFJ

    • @sofiereads
      @sofiereads 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@kikilala8720 me too, they are so sweet

  • @dr.absurd
    @dr.absurd 4 ปีที่แล้ว +149

    As an INFP, I kind of said that to a friend I had feelings for. He ended up being the only one I've dated and now we're engaged.
    Btw, he's an INTJ, so obviously I had to make the first move.

    • @krisroxanne
      @krisroxanne 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Do you keep making the first move? I like an INTJ, but dang it's like .. hard to maintain the connection. Esp it's online, never met before. I keep initiating and trying to be more creative as an ENFJ.. but I feel like I'm fighting a losing battle sigh

    • @krisroxanne
      @krisroxanne 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@savvystudios7950 haha thank you for the response and the laugh! Ohh, it's okay, no need to apologize. 😄
      I'll give you a bit of a backstory: I've known this INTJ guy since 2009, talked every now and then, and it was a surprise to me that he jokingly proposed last Christmas, and we often spoke of meeting up in the future someday - but Ms. Corona HAD to put her two cents in. LOL. He used to pursue me, like hounding me, often sweet. Would say he misses me, but I was just plain busy with work and school. And we always kept things light, we'd get along talking about so many things under the sun. He'd actually wrote long paragraphs or send audio msgs most of the time for months. VERY rare selfie. No calls. (is this an INTJ trait? 😂) And Then... Nothing. He'd occasionally text back, then the replies get shorter, and takes longer, say 12 hours to days. He rarely ever opens up, and I as an ENFJ, the perpetual protagonist, am so embarrassingly patient. I feel like he's waned and not committed anymore, and well, I guess I wouldn't know for sure, bc he's so shrouded in mystery. You know I only knew about his MBTI personality just 2 days ago? 😂 And I'm like ohhhhh now that makes a lot of sense. I assumed he as Leo (yes I'm into astrology as an Aquarius) was some kind of party person, but I don't know 🤷🏻‍♀️
      And that concludes my Ted Talk. Haha sorry for the long read. But I guess I want to keep him around because I've known him like half my life... But I don't know if the feeling's mutual. Am I misinterpreting his silence? Idk. Idk. Just leave it to the Divine 🤷🏻‍♀️

    • @Lucinaldlord
      @Lucinaldlord 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@krisroxanne So... hello there. Fellow INTJ here as well, from another country but guess I understand ...
      I don't know if for good ir bad, we have the tendency to be more racional then sentimental. So, you know, that kind of applies for our relationships as well. What I mean is that you should probably talk to him openly about your currently thoughts and try to work it out. As the other guy said above, we really apreciate honesty.
      If, as you said, he showed interest First he possibly had thought about it a lot. We don't start things to see were it goes, we wait to be certain it's going to work. And if it don't, we are more likelly to solve it or end it once for all.
      Again, we are really bad at hints, so just say it directly (just don't force it, you know). He probably didn't realize this is upseting you, we are really blind sometimes...
      But of course there are exceptions, not necessarily everybody is the exact description of MBTI personality, and sometimes we have other traits as well. But I guess if he didn't show clear signs of ending the relationship, the odds are at you favor, haha.
      I bet a good tip when dealing with INTJ's is: don't assume things, ask and discuss. Hope It helps!!
      OBS: I think the phone calls are s thing, haha. I really don't like it either (but again, if you tell him you would like to receive some call at randon, maybe he slowly starts doing it for you).

    • @virginiagwen6523
      @virginiagwen6523 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      What happens if you're an INTJ-T and they are also an INTJ-T?
      It was exactly a year ago when I realized that I liked my INTJ friend... we get along very well because we understand each other. I can often interpret the unspoken things simply by reflecting on what I personally value.
      This is scary, because I realize how similar we are.
      I've already done a lot of research on my friend, but he is as impossible to read as I am. I know that I am really good at concealing what I feel, by systematically removing emotions, locking them up, and then smiling at him, thinking of ways to talk to him, talking to him, and analyzing all interactions.
      Recently, I hired my extraverted friend to, well, basically interrogate him about his stance on relationships.
      It worked well because my friend is a expert in navigating social waters. (unlike me)
      So he basically said a few key things:
      - No one will ever like him
      - He will never make the first move, and if he liked anyone, that person wouldn't know
      - He'd be single forever
      - Love is a chemical/ hormone in the brain - and hence isn't real
      And I was sitting there, in secret agony and painful delight, as I look externally bored about this subject, pretending to do work, whilst my brain starts overthinking and reevaluating everything.
      It might be worth noting that he sometimes spend time with me with no apparent purpose.
      I, on the other hand, don't, but instead I create opportunities ('work' related) in order to spend more time with him.
      I'm terrified of trying to confess to him, especially since I cannot be sure if he likes me that way or not.
      Suggestions?

    • @krisroxanne
      @krisroxanne 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@Lucinaldlord Thank you for writing such a thorough, considerate, and very thoughtful response 😊 explaining you guys 😃 I will definitely take your advice -- you're right, I must not assume things or fear the worst, or force things, especially it's still all online. I appreciate and realize the logic behind this.
      It will be different perhaps when or if we actually meet face-to-face someday. Body language, actual chemical response as the person above says as well. Unspoken words and facial expressions are more than half of the importance of the connection. She is fortunate to see and meet their INTJ already for a while now. At least you guys can observe the facial expressions. Me, an ENFJ, can't see anything beyond a phone screen, slow feedback, waning to zero 'likes' on my posts, and the rarest of selfies.
      I have asked him already yesterday if us not meeting must be something the Universe doesn't want. At least at this time. I suggested/joked that maybe he should make the plans and as a Man, take the lead. He says "don't be old-fashioned"
      I am again confused by him, with this statement. **Facepalm** He seems to want to avoid any serious discussion and is non-committal. Quite the opposite of what he said just a few months ago -- Having a solid plan of pursuing a PhD in the future and picking an Asian wife (he puts many 😂 emojis for this) so that he doesn't feel like he missed opportunity in settling down to build a future, while studying for 5-7 years. Sometimes I can't tell if he's joking or not, or stringing me along, but your response shed light on the matter that generally INTJ's plan for the long term and rarely wavers.. The fact that they did express interest First, would bode well for me lol.
      Oh well 😂... All I can do is just 🙏🏼 and 🤷🏻‍♀️

  • @franciscruz3012
    @franciscruz3012 4 ปีที่แล้ว +620

    ENTP is so accurate. We feel a strange attraction towards people that can defend their point even if we don't agree with it.

    • @taliaho4147
      @taliaho4147 4 ปีที่แล้ว +53

      i don't agree with you

    • @maestrosushi1343
      @maestrosushi1343 4 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      Yea, speak 4 urself

    • @gokulskumar7156
      @gokulskumar7156 4 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      Umm debatable

    • @franciscruz3012
      @franciscruz3012 4 ปีที่แล้ว +85

      You all are definitely ENTP lmfao

    • @just_depie
      @just_depie 4 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      I'm an esfp dating an entp and giiiirl he loves to debate about everything 😂

  • @DVineMe
    @DVineMe 4 ปีที่แล้ว +315

    As an INTP the thought that someone might be flirting with me doesn't even cross my mind. I don't even realize they might be in to me until they kiss me. :') And for some reason people seem to think I am flirty, but I honestly don't see it.

    • @youmnabakr6204
      @youmnabakr6204 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      (Y) s ame

    • @nyancat6518
      @nyancat6518 4 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      I'm starting dating my friend, and I was like: why didn't you tell me before that you liked me? And she said: Alex you dumb bitch, I'm dropping hints SINCE MARCH

    • @DVineMe
      @DVineMe 4 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      I think I found out how I'm flirty. So I said to someone there were new episodes of Lucifer on Netflix, she said she knew and was going to watch them that night. I said: "I wish I could watch them with you :( :')" By which I didn't mean physically together watch them (although I wouldn't say no to that), just at the same time, but I couldn't because I was busy. I can see how such statements could be open to interpretation and therefore could be viewed as being flirty lol.

    • @kurumifuyumiya300
      @kurumifuyumiya300 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      @@nyancat6518 Same with me. 😂 I started dating my bestfriend. He kept giving me hints for 3 months, but I never realized it. So, he got frustrated & straight up confessed to me. I feel bad for him because how oblivious I am😂😂

    • @kingsleywhy_try7375
      @kingsleywhy_try7375 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      We don’t understand emotions enough to range what’s to far.

  • @wonyu
    @wonyu 4 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    As an ISTP, I was wondering how this video will potray an ISTP flirting cuz I cant imagine myself flirting. After seeing the vid, i guess it's accurate haha

  • @Rainiers
    @Rainiers 4 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    Why is ISTP so accurate?? I'm in tears 😂

  • @Rainiers
    @Rainiers 4 ปีที่แล้ว +198

    ENTPs really be out there thinking arguing is flirting 😂

    • @licacocosova3662
      @licacocosova3662 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      So true, it's like we hadn't outgrown pulling pigtails phase 😂

    • @BurgundyandBlue1111
      @BurgundyandBlue1111 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      I can attest to this. My ENTP son loves to debate on almost any subject. That is his idea of a "good talk". I am fine with it as his INTJ mother, but I imagine it would be annoying for the girls he has dated.

    • @averagegirl9108
      @averagegirl9108 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      @@BurgundyandBlue1111 for the intp girls, it's like the best date possible

    • @Rainiers
      @Rainiers 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      At least they'll never run out of things to talk about though 😂

    • @micahgmiranda
      @micahgmiranda 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      It's not? No wonder.

  • @jabadeedeejabadabadoohh4875
    @jabadeedeejabadabadoohh4875 4 ปีที่แล้ว +455

    Is this video a reliable source to see if someone is flirting with you?
    -INTP

    • @diasana9445
      @diasana9445 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Me rn.

    • @sophialopez128
      @sophialopez128 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      The INFP one seems legit since it happened to me after a few meetings. It caught me off guard...
      -INTP

    • @jintanesss1417
      @jintanesss1417 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      HOW DARE YOU SPEAK MY MIND.

  • @xiexielianlian7150
    @xiexielianlian7150 4 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    Me looking at the title: "INTJs flirt????" Me after watching the video: "nvm"

  • @BlizzyFoxTF
    @BlizzyFoxTF 4 ปีที่แล้ว +128

    "I don't wanna move too fast but I like you and I can't help but imagine how amazing it would be to wake up next to you every morning for the rest of my life..." SORRY WAS I TALKING OUT LOUD JUST NOW?
    Oh you sweet, innocent, dreamy INFPs...

    • @manager-nim2623
      @manager-nim2623 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      I think it's cute, probably because I used to think like this, I mean wouldn't it be nice if a decent person thought you're so awesome they'd love to have you in their future?
      -infj

    • @tehaniaweau-garcia8286
      @tehaniaweau-garcia8286 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Yeah they legit should be protected at all cost. ❤

    • @shazroonzz1268
      @shazroonzz1268 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Hehehe thank youuu

    • @honeybeech4580
      @honeybeech4580 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      ToxicFox113 aww you make me brushed now☺️☺️☺️
      -infp

  • @SleepStoriesASMR
    @SleepStoriesASMR 4 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    Omg the INFJ you-have-my-complete-and-infinite-attention stare. We can’t help it! And people either REALLY like it it or find it REALLY weird.

    • @vminisfuckingreal998
      @vminisfuckingreal998 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ikr. did that to my crush and he automatically thought I liked him.
      I did.

    • @ellamcgloin4703
      @ellamcgloin4703 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      i’m out here staring deeply into people’s souls for no reason at all everyday

  • @DaydreamBeliever1997
    @DaydreamBeliever1997 4 ปีที่แล้ว +137

    I genuinely laughed out loud at the INTP one! You hit the nail on the head there.
    I'm INFP and my boyfriend is INTP and when i told him i liked him he paused for a few seconds then said "I feel like you're screwing with me."
    How about 16 personalities interacting with each other? Like ones that would probably be friends eg: ISFJ/ESFJ, INFP/ENFJ, INTP/INFJ and then some not so usual combinations such as INTJ/ESFP, INTP/ESFJ, ISTJ/INFP etc
    Once again another great video Frank :)

    • @GeorgianaOnline
      @GeorgianaOnline 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Caitlin Buchan INTJ/ENFP! I did a search to see if we’re compatible. The Internet makes MEMES about us! 😁

    • @auroperrone
      @auroperrone 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      And ISFP?

    • @Feathertail2205
      @Feathertail2205 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      ISTJ/INFP friendship is a hilarious one to me. We love to make each other laugh like crazy even though she and I are not super close friends.

    • @goodthingsarecoming3349
      @goodthingsarecoming3349 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hey me too, im infp and my bf is intp. I find his reaction to these things really cute

    • @cristoesfiel6654
      @cristoesfiel6654 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I'm an INTP female who just went on a date with an INFP! I had to ask him directly if he like-liked me just to make sure this was what he meant when he asked me out. I'm 24... Lol

  • @kayleelomas5598
    @kayleelomas5598 3 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    As an ENTJ, can relate. If I don’t like you, I ain’t going to give it a chance. I’ll be straight up about it, we can still be friends, but I ain’t spending my time waiting for feelings to appear. I’ve got shit to do!

    • @thesharinganknight
      @thesharinganknight 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Looking for an ENTJ comment, because we're so damn rare.

    • @flyingdart9819
      @flyingdart9819 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      U ENTJ are too productive to look at these kind of things for even a small amount of time. I'm surprised i even found you - INFJ.

    • @goldentreefrog18
      @goldentreefrog18 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@flyingdart9819 we need something to do while we're eating dinner

    • @Natalie-yg5rn
      @Natalie-yg5rn 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Intj

  • @willowmoon4887
    @willowmoon4887 4 ปีที่แล้ว +134

    Me (INFJ) when I flirt: stares into their soul, says random thing about them that they haven't told me
    My date: um how'd you know that about me....
    Me: damn it! I've creeped another date out...

    • @Mynameisdarkxxo
      @Mynameisdarkxxo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Willow Moon thissssss

    • @zimcho5190
      @zimcho5190 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Willow Moon lol

    • @zimcho5190
      @zimcho5190 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      my date: i can't explain how i feel.
      me: ill explain how you feel.
      why is it so hard to understand our own feelings but easy to read others

    • @Mynameisdarkxxo
      @Mynameisdarkxxo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Zim Cho its a blessing and curse :’v

    • @melanie.l6282
      @melanie.l6282 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      so true!

  • @mtaliaa
    @mtaliaa 4 ปีที่แล้ว +155

    I’m an INFP and I fall in love with whoever I see, it’s just a problem I can’t help. I don’t even really love them. It’s just a feeling. I hate it. I laugh everytime I talk to someone. Scary.
    Something that REALLY creeps me out though is when someone looks straight in the eye. It’s so creepy.

    • @mimiPunk97
      @mimiPunk97 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Lucky you😂.... I'm an infp and I want so bad to fall in love but it's just so hard for me...I guess it's because I never leave the house and I'm too picky.... but I'm literally in love with the feeling of falling in love or having a crush on someone

    • @mtaliaa
      @mtaliaa 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      purple celestial socks I don’t necessarily ‘Fall in love’, I’m just comfortable with whoever I see. Other kids think if you talk to the opposite gender, you like them. But with me, I can talk to anyone.

    • @popodood
      @popodood 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Same, I have a hard time keeping eye contact. If I have even one set of eyes on me I start acting goofy on purpose as a defense mechanism and then more people start looking at me lol. I’m also an info. But strangers looking at me I try to act shy and smile back if I remember to do that before I instantly break eye contact by looking down and then looking at random things. Edit: I’m also an INFP.

    • @jojustpokedyouhehe1351
      @jojustpokedyouhehe1351 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I'm an INFP too. It's not that I'm romantically attracted to them, men are just... extremely attractive that it's painful to see their beautiful faces. 🗿

    • @freshavacadoo9256
      @freshavacadoo9256 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I felt that

  • @MitremTheMighty
    @MitremTheMighty 4 ปีที่แล้ว +174

    Video: "I'm still sure this is all a practical joke"
    Me: oh that's me, that's gotta be INTP
    Yup. Nailed it.

    • @Soldiers_Of_God
      @Soldiers_Of_God 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Same thoughts man (INTP)

    • @ShogoMakishimaxx
      @ShogoMakishimaxx 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@Soldiers_Of_God I often did think of that when I was younger, but that was because people always told me that I was ugly. So now when people ask me out, I still think that it's a practical joke....not quite the same thing, but still understand.

  • @veyamarie1506
    @veyamarie1506 4 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    as an ENTP i just have to agree with this skit lol, i tend to find myself liking people who are either the polar opposite of me, or extremely similar, no in between.

    • @Lia.kibo_
      @Lia.kibo_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I mean like... I kinda agree with that.

    • @elleglenn
      @elleglenn 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I totally disagree ... And I kinda like it 😀

  • @lisal712
    @lisal712 4 ปีที่แล้ว +100

    As an ENTJ who has a lot of stuff to do it really is a way to show my love by taking my time even tho I should be doing 13 other things that day

  • @kai7118
    @kai7118 4 ปีที่แล้ว +495

    Omg im an ENFP so relatable my mind is always going a million miles per hour and I’m always changing thoughts and people say I have ADHD 😂😂😂😂👌

    • @nadra4122
      @nadra4122 4 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      @Kai 711 i took the test lately, and it said ENFP. I’m too indicisive, so i change thought too many times. AND I WOULD DEFENTLY GO TO A KAREOKE BAR. Tbh its awesome

    • @morgancasey3223
      @morgancasey3223 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      lmao im an enfp and i have adhd

    • @kai7118
      @kai7118 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Sun_ Sxnset haha yesss that sounds right 😂

    • @kai7118
      @kai7118 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Morgan Casey yupppp we a special breed for sure 😂👌🏼

    • @cadiegeyer9093
      @cadiegeyer9093 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@kai7118 okay same to all of that ahaha

  • @thematturbator2146
    @thematturbator2146 4 ปีที่แล้ว +94

    How to flirt as an ISTP: "I like you."
    That was good, flirting was successful.