Great that he was able to view his accident with her so impartially and understand that she is an animal and therefore had no malice when she crushed his leg, and that it was partially due to his inability to see the signs. Really bittersweet stuff.
I'd agree about the malic statement but the horse was obviously experiencing some displeasure. Also animals can dislike certain individuals very much. Not to the point of malic but not that far off. The only reason non human animals can't experience very complex emotions like malic is. The lack of development of the prefrontal cortex. That section of the brain is responsible for the complexity of human thoughts. If that section of the brain is severely damaged the individuals cognitive ability will be that of a child.
@@HuyenLe-xp6gj exactly! Not just kept her, but went way beyond w forgiveness and acceptance; far beyond the pale. I almost felt like she was saying sorry when she came to the window while he was healing (or maybe she wanted treats). My dog bopped my nose while playing, when I tried to hold my nose he wrapped his arms around my neck and hugged me so tightly that I couldn't touch my face. All the while he was whining in gasps which is how he says he is sorry. I'm probably wrong, but if she didn't like him and wanted to hurt him, it could've been way worse.
He *ride* a horse in icy weather, HE shouldn't be allowed to fucking ride. VoRgIVE tf He put her, himself, anyone possible in traffic if that was seriously a street at risk.
I love this person. I love the way he thinks and that he doesn't blame the horse for his mistake. He appriates her love and last but not least: his taste of art.
@@dingo1666 Some people would sell a horse after an accident like that. But i think it's right how they did it in this video because it's not the horses fault
@@antonialoos546 I agree. The horse was trying to warn him several times that she did not want to be ridden but he understands he did not listen when he should of. The horse was trying to communicate with him. I think the accident definitely made their bond and communication with one another stronger.
@@antonialoos546 this is "typical" horse person behaviour 😂 my foal crushed 3 of my ribs the other day when moved her into her new stable after weaning and It's absolutely my fault!
@@irisenamorado And it isn't her's either as he ignored the warnings she was giving. He isn't at full fault as he didn't know what was wrong and thought she was just having a off day and went on her back anyways which resulted in that accident. She can't be blamed because well she can't speak and can only give signals/signs, while he simply didn't understand them like anyone would have, even experienced riders/owners miss a few signals every now and then. He says he forgives her because so many people would be quick to get rid of the horse after a accident like that and blame them for everything. If anything their bond became deeper after it and he has absolutely nothing but love for his horse.
The fact he didn't blame her for the accident and owned up to his mistakes that lead to that moment is just amazing as so many other people would have gotten rid of her for it.
@@pulakification He said that he didn't listen to her when she was saying no it's just part of being a horse person they have off days just like us and will get frustrated when we don't listen to them on those days, they can only communicate as much as we can understand them.
Huge kudos to Amerigo's human for not blaming her for the accident - and still adoring her for the stunner and sweetie that she is. Love the frog art, btw! 😁
That is a maxim we should all follow towards our fellow human beings as well. Forgiveness is just that ... love them anyway. If you have people in your life who are hurtful and cruel, you are in the wrong crowd. Love also means letting go.
@@jenniebugs1 Wow! That was beautifully said! I apologize if this sounds weird but when I read your comment I thought of Optimus Prime. He’s such a role model to me and I’m so glad there’s others out there who live their lives with the same type of compassion and leadership ❤️🌎
I also lost my leg 33 years ago. Animals feel that something has changed. Whenever I was tormented by severe phantom pains, my cat would come to me and hug the stump and purr like crazy. She never purred otherwise and was not so much marked on people. Animals can be great therapists! Greetings from Germany
They are amazing! I have been fortunate to have what I call Nurse Kitties. Over my life, 3 females have decided at times of illness, to become my shadow. They know.
A friend lost his leg above the knee from cancer and the phantom pains in his missing foot drove him half mad, as though someone was constantly tickling his foot, and poking at them. The Doc gave him some anaesthetic cream for his stump which made no difference at all. Unfortunately he succumbed to secondary lung cancer, but I saw his fight and I understand, as far as anyone can, your torment.
@いちごち。 Animals are, just like us humans, very individual, Strawberry. I hope that despite the great grief you have found a way to go on and you have found hope. Maybe it helps you to think that you do not know what your cat has experienced before. She may not show it so well but I'm sure she loves you anyway.
I'm sure she was so scared for him. I can't even imagine. My dog even gets upset when she play bites me too hard, Amerigo must have gone through a lot of feelings herself. So much respect to both of them.
It seems like that’s when she started coming over tho the house and spending time with him so I definitely think she understood that he was very hurt. And she knows she bucked him off and then hasn’t been around.
@@kafkollectif525 Horses don't understand those concepts. The way the horse sees it is...she bucked and he dismounted. That's it. She got what she wanted. That's why you always get back on a horse that threw you, so they don't establish a bad habit. That said, he should never have gotten on in the first place.
@@warmblood8016 idk… there are some weird moments with them. My friend bailed off of one of our draft horses and hurt her back doing so. The horse stayed by her even laying down initially, until help came which was a good 10 +min. I get they are animals and we tend to project human emotions onto them- but horses… they are unlike most animals. That’s all I know lol.
@@warmblood8016 Bro tf? The horse probably just got scared, or felt uncomfortable due to the saddle. Horses are way smarter than you think, but people like you probably only see them as food motivated money making machines. That's honestly saddening.
@@VivianaSilverback I'm sure the horse had a reason for bucking. The horse always has a reason for it's behavior and it's never the horse's fault. The horse behaves like a horse. It's the human's fault for not being able to read the horse. That doesn't mean the horse understands why the human is now on the ground and not on it's back. They are not able to deduce. All they know is they bucked and the rider dismounted. Anyone who has horses knows that if you give your horses a treat on a regular basis, they will start to head butt you for treats when they see you. The horse will push to see your hands and if you have your hands in your pockets they will assume you have a treat and start getting pushy. They aren't asking for a treat. They are shaking you down. Finally, the treat falls out of your hand. They know if they do that long enough a treat appears. Horses don't think like humans do, no matter what you say. They are smart, but they are smart for what they are. Horses.
He's definitely a true animal lover. The fact he didn't blame his horse for the accident. That he acknowledged he made a mistake of riding even though she was giving him fair warnings that she didn't want to be ridden. Beautiful story & horse🥰❤🐴
my xgf has a property about 40min away and 5 rescue horses, and one "tony the pony" who often lets himself in an sits on the lounge chair. sorry to say 2 had to be put down a few days ago as a tiger snake had got'n amongst them.
So admirable that he really was honest that even after so many signals he went one and had such a big loss. Still credits her for getting him back on the track. Beautiful.
So glad you accepted the responsibility for the accident and not blame her to put her down or get rid of her. She clearly loves you and i think she takes care of you because of it.
This is GREAT! What a beautiful story and what a great horse owner. I also love that this man didn’t blame this amazing horse. It is almost never an animal’s fault when a human is unintentionally hurt by them.
Seriously - that is the ONLY thing he could do was to forgive himself, and he said it. That horse. had no culpability - he knew she was off and paid the price for it. And we do NOT know what she went through before she got rescued to begin with.
@@VitalityMassage it was his fault and he knows it but in other instances people wouldn’t take the blame for themselves. They get hurt and wanna put the animal down right away which is ridiculous because they neglected to read their body language
@@andreaacosta272685 i suppose it also depends on context because if the animal had clearly suddenly turned violent toward your whole family or something for no reason that's one thing (still, just adopt it) but this horse is clearly awesome and it was clearly his fault
Of all the stories I watched on the Dodo over the years, this is probably the most emotional. I have so much respect for this man for not giving in to anger and pain and for understanding that it wasn't the horse's fault. I'm sure it wasn't easy and it speaks volumes about the kind of person he is. He lost his leg and still kept her, when every day there are people who don't even think twice about abandoning their pet or putting it down. We can all learn from Charles. Thank you for covering this story.
I love that he was able to see it was his own fault that lead to the unfortunate accident. So many animals get unnecessary killed because of human's own mistakes. I hope the best for this man.
This man is truly… inspiring. His courage, his loving nature, the fact that he didn’t blame his horse but did self-reflection unlike what any human would have done… I just feel like this guy is truly amazing and I think that in the future, When things get difficult, I will try to think of this man and how he reacted when losing his leg
It's really heart warming about how he blames himself as the cause for the accident. I'm so glad your recovery went well and I hope you and amerigo have a good life
She was not to blame for this accident but even so he lost his leg and he could have resented her. On the contrary they have developed a deeper bond. This is what you call unconditional love indeed.
What a powerful story. To be strong enough, mature enough, and responsible enough to know this wasn't anyone's fault, it was just an accident and both sides need love and healing from it. So much kudos to you and Amerigo! 🧡
It is a testament to this man’s character how he was very badly injured and still had the wherewithal, intelligence, and heart to know that when these terrible accidents happen with horses, we have to be the “adult” in the room and forgive the mishap, albeit catastrophic. I have huge respect for you, dude. Huge! ❤
I am not sure you meant this but a "descent human being" is spot on. When we "lower" ourselves off of our human pedestals and embrace the natural world as ourselves we find a world of enchantment and wonder that yes, deeply touches us beyond our expectations.
The accident wasn't anyone's fault. It was just an accident. It's no secret that a 1000 pound animal can hurt/kill you unintentionally. He hadn't had her very long. I'm so happy their bond is this strong, now! They heal each other!
It was. This is why we listen to the animals like he said. He said: I did all the wrong things. Usually when accidents with horses happen it is exactly as he described it. When something feels off: do not get on the horse. And as he said: but as a human I did it anyway. And this is why this happened. It is unfortunate very much so because he got hurt badly but he knows that there were signs.
No, the horse clearly didn’t want to be ridden, and the owner decided for her that she was going to. She showed him that she wasn’t in the mood, and his leg injury was his consequence for making her do something she didn’t want to. It’s like a kid that gets to close to a dog when it’s eating, the dog growls to show he wants his space, and then, if the kid keeps messing with him, the dog snaps at him, then, the kid goes and tattles on the dog. “I can bug you even if you don’t want me to, but you better not get mad at me if I do.” Sounds like a narcissistic, bully mindset. 😠
My friend has 3 pit bull rescues, and had me dogsit the puppy while the 2 grownup dogs went to the vet. He was put in the office while the other dogs went in the car, but my friend left & I let him out. Even tho he knew me really well, he was scared, and we think he thought I took the whole family away. He was a puppy, but already a big boy (he looks to be a pit-rottie mix, he was literally thrown out as an infant, likely because he had a small birth defect). He started getting aggressive with me, and was snapping, but also pushing me to back up into the bathroom. He was such a good boy, he didn't know what to do, so instead of actually mauling me, he got me into the bathroom, let me lock myself in (I called my friend immediately!), and that way he could neutralize the threat without hurting me. Once everybody was calm, he and I spent a long time together and reconnected. We were all so proud of him for such good thinking, but I'm proud of me too, for realizing what he was doing & not panicking.
Such a beautiful story between man and animal. So sorry he lost his leg but never blamed her. She loves this man, it's so obvious. Thank you for sharing this wonderful story. She is absolutely beautiful.
Yes he did blame her listen at 2:30. But his second sentence made him recover that. The fact he is able to understand his own fault makes life much better for him.
What an amazing story. I can't even find the words to describe the admiration I have for this man who lost his leg from his Rescue horse but blamed himself for the accident and still loves his horse unconditionally. A very emotionally intelligent guy. I love him!
He may be "emotionally intelligent" but otherwise, he was plainly stupid. As he clearly details in his telling of what happened, the horse didn't want anyone on its back at that time. But the guy got on anyway.
@@blackmore4 which he admitted was his fault, it’s most likely his first time owning a horse and we all make mistakes and it looks like his horse is completely fine now and trusts him very well. You act as if he didn’t take any blame and just said it was an accident and nobody’s fault
My horse, Bruno, looked exactly like Amerigo. And he was just as sassy, especially by patting down our pockets for treats. I absolutely understand the need to forgive yourself, and not the animal for an accident. Bless you and Amerigo, and I pray for many years of companionship to come!
Always listen to your horse. Mine wouldn’t let me on her when my health deteriorated ( i am chronicly ill). First I was mad that she just walked away. But then I understood what she was trying to tell me. We spent out times together in a different but maybe even nicer way than riding untill she died last year.
@@creativecheersoffashionlau7364 - I always did listen to horses, from an early age. Even when I had Instructors in middle & high school, I never embraced their harsh, many times cruel ways. My philosophy & goal was that I wanted the horse to like & respect me enough to WANT to give me their best. Anyone with a crop can beat a horse enough to make them do something but I NEVER wanted to 'win' by fear. It had to be mutual respect. Later in life, I spent 12 years with my OTTB & a herd of 8. Some of my best times were sitting in the back pasture with the herd on a sunny afternoon. The Arab gelding, whom I ❤, would lay down next to me & put his head & neck in my lap. He was so gentle & careful of me. I was taking jumping lessons at a barn a few miles away & she hit an air pocket in an arena w/ new footing, new instructor, etc., etc. She did a 360° rotational & I am very lucky to be alive & not paralyzed, but the damage is significant. Sadly, my riding days came to a crashing halt. It will never get better & my missing them hasn't lessened one iota - after all these years. I miss the sounds, their sweet smell and... everything. I'm glad you still get to be around yours. Hand grazing outside of their normal pastures is a very bonding experience. ❤🐴❤🐎
@@mdee860 i am so sorry to hear that. I understand that for you it won’t get better. I know that I am very lucky to still be able to be around my horses. It truly is a blessing. So sorry you cannot…. Stay strong🙏🏻
Awww I’m so glad you let her in your house,I wish everyone would love animals as I do,the world would be a much better place,the horse is beautiful🐶🐱🐻🦊🐯
That can seriously damage the horse. there are so many things that can happen if that horse slips and falls on the hard wood floors. there's a reason that there isn't furniture in a horses stall...
Takes a very calm head to not let emotions get to you when you are the victim of an accident. It's very heart warming that he doesn't blame the animal for the loss of his leg. It would be easy to get bitter, but he chooses the right, logical way instead. Much respect!
I absolutely love this man and his dedication to this sweet horse. I almost lost my leg due to a riding accident, and people always said "why don't you hate your horse " I never blamed her, it was my choice and she is not r-e-s-p-o-n-s-I-b-l-e !
Man props to the guy for being honest that human led accidents ultimately fall on the human themselves. That horse has a lot of love and a beautiful relationship I hope she lives a long and healthy life!
I've seen this story many times and each time I love them even more. Amerigo is a rescue and there's no telling the horrible life she had before being rescued. Maybe being ridden is a trigger for her. I love how her "dad" understood that and didn't blame her for losing his leg because of her fear on that day.
The love this man has for this precious horse and their friendship put a smile on my face and tears in my eyes. U can see how Amerigo truly loves his human friend too!
Glad to see this guy acknowledge and take responsibility for his accident, and not blame the horse. This video reminds me of a pony I used to have when I was a kid; we found him in my room on my bed a few times in my house, and we had to lead him outside.
OMG this story has me bawling 😭. Most people would’ve blame the horse for that horrific accident, but the kindness shown to her speaks volumes to the beautiful soul of her dad. I love these kind of people with huge hearts 💕 and respectful for other sentient being. Awesome story 🥺 ♥️🥰. Thank you!!!
Why would any one in their right minds blame the horse for refusing consent ?? The horse did not consent to him riding her but he forced her into riding .
Aww this guy is such a kind person! Even when ridding her in the videos he was bareback and using a halter, not a bit. But it only takes one mistake to have lifelong consequences, and he even recognized he was the one at fault for the accident. Glad he's still living a happy life with the horsie.
Love this! It’s so refreshing to see someone who actually treats her as an individual. I’m sure she accidentally stepped down on your leg and I’m glad you understood it. Can you imagine having a backache and having someone jump on your back to ride you? We’d buck them off too. Glad you two are doing well.
Wow. This story of love, sorrow, trials & tribulations and then back to love and forgiveness is amazing. It is a rollercoaster ride of emotions packaged into 4 minutes.Thank you for sharing.
Oh my goodness.... really I didn't expect the twist of fate in this story at all...my jaw dropped, and I am astounded by this man's huge depth of heart, understanding and forgiveness. What a Buddha heart you both have and are growing together. Deep bow of venerable respect and love to you both! ♥️🦋🙏📿
This horse it's exactly like my brother's horse :) They are so smart and they can get really attached to people! I love them, beautiful creatures! i have been to my brother's house this summer and I was shocked by how ''human'' horse can get! I never imagined that! xx
i pity the criminal who tries to break into that horse's house. First off, robber will prolly have a heart attack.. then, Mr. Horse 🐴 prolly gonna kick mr. Robber straight thru the window..
Michaela all animals are capable of this these qualities it's just most humans fail to perceive them. But understand this it's DANGEROUS to have a heavy animal in a confined space with so many obstacles. It's a death trap & he just doesn't know he's in one. Horses can get very attached to humans & vice versa as this one has but it takes one second for them to accidentally react & crush you in a small space.
Perfect title - the Soulmates - Sir, you are an old soul because you have passed all the spiritual challenges with this beautiful horse. It's hard to type when you're crying. It's another Dodo happy tearjerker. I just love people like you.
This is incredible. So sorry that the guy lost his leg in the incident. Must have been such a harrowing journey. But so glad that Amerigo was there with you for the difficult times. Big kudos to you!
I truly have no words. This is a huge lesson in humility, love , compassion and forgiveness. This "story" will stay with me and I truly appreciate you sharing it with us all.
I'm so sorry that you are afraid of horses. I love horses and can't imagine being afraid of them. Maybe this will help. Horses tend to be like dogs. Like you ever notice how the really big breeds like Saint Bernards are really gentle, and the tiny ones like Chihuahuas are more outwardly emotional? Horses are pretty much the same. The big ones are gentle giants. Horses are incredibly emotional. Easily same as dogs and people. Horses bonds to people and other animals are very strong. There are multiple videos on TH-cam of horses being reunited with former owners and horse friends after YEARS of separation and they joy in their eyes is incredibly touching to see. I would highly recommend watching Black Beauty, War Horse, and Spirit (Dreamworks movie). All are incredible films to watch, and might give you a different outlook on how emotional they really are. When a horse bonds with you, it is a truly life changing experience. Hope this help!
This brought tears to my eyes. If only all humans could be so kind and loving to animals, this would be a better world. Thank you for treating her with so much love. You are truly an amazing human being. She is so special and anyone who says animals don't have feelings are so ignorant. Huge fan. Cape Town, South Africa
This was so hilarious for a while, and then sad, and then heartwarming. Neat story. That horse is so cool and she is not even really really spoiled at all!!!! :)
This is why i gave up riding 25 years ago. 1 bad stirrup set up and one bad buck and i was done .I wasnt waiting for a 3rd fall.amazing that you forgave her and are closer to her even more!
I'll never understand how people can blame a horse for bucking a human off its back. They're not robots, they have complex emotions and a person's failure to read the animal is 100% the human's fault if they ride the animal. There's nothing natural about having a human sitting on their back, they only learn to tolerate it.. but sometimes they get fed up and often don't understand how weak and fragile humans are compared to them, so what might seem like a simple shrugging gesture to dislodge the pesky human can be disastrous to us. Anyone who would blame the horse for it is a simpleton. I understand humans in the past needed horses as a means of travel and as beasts of burden.. but those days are behind us, there's no reason humans today should be using horses for riding. I can carry a 20 pound child on my back as easily as a horse could carry a 180lbs man... doesn't mean I want to or would like it though.. why would the horse? People should just care for the horse and let it enjoy life, be its friend.. but people shouldn't use it as a beast of amusement in the modern day.
Beautiful story. Connections with our animal friends like this is a special gift to cherish. I've had horses follow me into the house, wild bluejays ride on my shoulder and even hummingbirds fly with me into the house. This was of course decades ago but the images are still fixed in my head and memory as if they happened yesterday.
Great that he was able to view his accident with her so impartially and understand that she is an animal and therefore had no malice when she crushed his leg, and that it was partially due to his inability to see the signs. Really bittersweet stuff.
Well said
We need more people like him can we clone him? 🥺❤
@@scottgilliam8185 Why? Just Why? I know we need more people like him but why don’t we be like him?
@@somebodythatyouneverknew5806 because humans are self-absorbed and selfish
I'd agree about the malic statement but the horse was obviously experiencing some displeasure. Also animals can dislike certain individuals very much. Not to the point of malic but not that far off. The only reason non human animals can't experience very complex emotions like malic is. The lack of development of the prefrontal cortex. That section of the brain is responsible for the complexity of human thoughts. If that section of the brain is severely damaged the individuals cognitive ability will be that of a child.
Charles is angel because so many people would have gotten rid of her after the accident but he kept her.
Yes. And he even loves her more 😍
Love this . This is so fucking amazing . 💓
@@HuyenLe-xp6gj exactly! Not just kept her, but went way beyond w forgiveness and acceptance; far beyond the pale. I almost felt like she was saying sorry when she came to the window while he was healing (or maybe she wanted treats). My dog bopped my nose while playing, when I tried to hold my nose he wrapped his arms around my neck and hugged me so tightly that I couldn't touch my face. All the while he was whining in gasps which is how he says he is sorry. I'm probably wrong, but if she didn't like him and wanted to hurt him, it could've been way worse.
He *ride* a horse in icy weather, HE shouldn't be allowed to fucking ride. VoRgIVE tf He put her, himself, anyone possible in traffic if that was seriously a street at risk.
Wow, I think you're probably right. ❤
I love this person. I love the way he thinks and that he doesn't blame the horse for his mistake. He appriates her love and last but not least: his taste of art.
All of the above! ❤
Beautiful to see how he blames himself for his mistakes and not Amerigo for the accident. Truly a positive human being and an example for us all.
I would do the same. Who wouldn't?
@@dingo1666 Some people would sell a horse after an accident like that. But i think it's right how they did it in this video because it's not the horses fault
@@antonialoos546 exactly
@@antonialoos546 I agree. The horse was trying to warn him several times that she did not want to be ridden but he understands he did not listen when he should of. The horse was trying to communicate with him. I think the accident definitely made their bond and communication with one another stronger.
@@antonialoos546 this is "typical" horse person behaviour 😂 my foal crushed 3 of my ribs the other day when moved her into her new stable after weaning and It's absolutely my fault!
After losing his leg he loves her even more. This is an incredible example of love and forgiveness for the rest of humankind.
Agree!!!
He doesn't have to forgive Amerigo. It's not his fault.
@@irisenamorado And it isn't her's either as he ignored the warnings she was giving. He isn't at full fault as he didn't know what was wrong and thought she was just having a off day and went on her back anyways which resulted in that accident. She can't be blamed because well she can't speak and can only give signals/signs, while he simply didn't understand them like anyone would have, even experienced riders/owners miss a few signals every now and then.
He says he forgives her because so many people would be quick to get rid of the horse after a accident like that and blame them for everything. If anything their bond became deeper after it and he has absolutely nothing but love for his horse.
@@irisenamorado Human beings don't always think like that. If the horse threw me I might be inclined to blame the horse.
In my opinion, it was no one's fault. It was just an accident.
This man is a credit to how a human should be. Accountable and forgiving. What a great man
The fact he didn't blame her for the accident and owned up to his mistakes that lead to that moment is just amazing as so many other people would have gotten rid of her for it.
Yes he said that but it's a fact not an accusation.
Always felt bad for horses left outside in a cold lonely barn. Trainers always say, listen to your horse. So glad you rescued her! Such a great pair!
@Ocean Five Karen stop.
@Ocean Five That is funny coming from a thing like you. Karen you need to try harder so you can fail better.
@Ocean Five the horse is the one that broke his leg, not him. You don't make any sense
Dude handles the accident like a champ. Wish him and his human and animal fam the best.
wonderful comment
It takes a very mature soul to not be resentful towards an animal that may have unintentionally caused such tragedy
I would be scared for rest of my life of horses let alone that particular horse, he is a very brave man too.
@@pulakification He said that he didn't listen to her when she was saying no it's just part of being a horse person they have off days just like us and will get frustrated when we don't listen to them on those days, they can only communicate as much as we can understand them.
Huge kudos to Amerigo's human for not blaming her for the accident - and still adoring her for the stunner and sweetie that she is. Love the frog art, btw! 😁
This animal is the spirit of one of his ancestors, that is my belief.
@@roberttaylor9563 Do you have any evidence that led you to believe this claim? Or is it just a feeling you had?
I think the art is a gecko?
Agreed! They are a beautiful couple together!
@@ericdunthorne1981 Evidence or not, these two souls are bonded together!
“She didn’t need my forgiveness. She needed my love.” Such a beautiful quote from such a beautiful story. This is my favorite Dodo episode so far 🤍
That is a maxim we should all follow towards our fellow human beings as well. Forgiveness is just that ... love them anyway. If you have people in your life who are hurtful and cruel, you are in the wrong crowd. Love also means letting go.
@@jenniebugs1 Wow! That was beautifully said! I apologize if this sounds weird but when I read your comment I thought of Optimus Prime. He’s such a role model to me and I’m so glad there’s others out there who live their lives with the same type of compassion and leadership ❤️🌎
Yes that phrase really struck me
I was not expecting such a horrible incident. His humility and compassion for the horse…heartwarming ❤️
I also lost my leg 33 years ago. Animals feel that something has changed. Whenever I was tormented by severe phantom pains, my cat would come to me and hug the stump and purr like crazy. She never purred otherwise and was not so much marked on people. Animals can be great therapists! Greetings from Germany
That's so stinking sweet. Apparently a cat's purr has healing vibrations. She was probably trying to contribute to your healing!
They are amazing! I have been fortunate to have what I call Nurse Kitties. Over my life, 3 females have decided at times of illness, to become my shadow. They know.
@いちごち。 😂 dead
A friend lost his leg above the knee from cancer and the phantom pains in his missing foot drove him half mad, as though someone was constantly tickling his foot, and poking at them. The Doc gave him some anaesthetic cream for his stump which made no difference at all. Unfortunately he succumbed to secondary lung cancer, but I saw his fight and I understand, as far as anyone can, your torment.
@いちごち。 Animals are, just like us humans, very individual, Strawberry. I hope that despite the great grief you have found a way to go on and you have found hope. Maybe it helps you to think that you do not know what your cat has experienced before. She may not show it so well but I'm sure she loves you anyway.
"She didn't need my forgiveness, she needed my love". I have seldom heard something so profound, so simple and yet so true. What a wonderful story 🥰❤🐴
Amen!
Yeah, I pondered on that myself. Beautiful way to look at it.
Amen!
He needed her love
She clearly loves him and checks in to see how he’s doing ❤️
I'm sure she was so scared for him. I can't even imagine. My dog even gets upset when she play bites me too hard, Amerigo must have gone through a lot of feelings herself. So much respect to both of them.
It seems like that’s when she started coming over tho the house and spending time with him so I definitely think she understood that he was very hurt. And she knows she bucked him off and then hasn’t been around.
@@kafkollectif525 Horses don't understand those concepts. The way the horse sees it is...she bucked and he dismounted. That's it. She got what she wanted. That's why you always get back on a horse that threw you, so they don't establish a bad habit. That said, he should never have gotten on in the first place.
@@warmblood8016 idk… there are some weird moments with them. My friend bailed off of one of our draft horses and hurt her back doing so. The horse stayed by her even laying down initially, until help came which was a good 10 +min. I get they are animals and we tend to project human emotions onto them- but horses… they are unlike most animals. That’s all I know lol.
@@warmblood8016 Bro tf? The horse probably just got scared, or felt uncomfortable due to the saddle. Horses are way smarter than you think, but people like you probably only see them as food motivated money making machines. That's honestly saddening.
@@VivianaSilverback I'm sure the horse had a reason for bucking. The horse always has a reason for it's behavior and it's never the horse's fault. The horse behaves like a horse. It's the human's fault for not being able to read the horse. That doesn't mean the horse understands why the human is now on the ground and not on it's back. They are not able to deduce. All they know is they bucked and the rider dismounted. Anyone who has horses knows that if you give your horses a treat on a regular basis, they will start to head butt you for treats when they see you. The horse will push to see your hands and if you have your hands in your pockets they will assume you have a treat and start getting pushy. They aren't asking for a treat. They are shaking you down. Finally, the treat falls out of your hand. They know if they do that long enough a treat appears. Horses don't think like humans do, no matter what you say. They are smart, but they are smart for what they are. Horses.
She is so special. I love how she "knocks" by rubbing her nose on the glass.
Super smart!
So funny! 😂 She's making art too!
He's definitely a true animal lover. The fact he didn't blame his horse for the accident. That he acknowledged he made a mistake of riding even though she was giving him fair warnings that she didn't want to be ridden. Beautiful story & horse🥰❤🐴
Nothing like seeing a horse in your kitchen first thing in the morning.
OH NOOOOOO!!! Most people agree that my vids are the worst on TH-cam. I agree to disagree. Please agree to disagree with the haters, dear kl
my xgf has a property about 40min away and 5 rescue horses, and one "tony the pony" who often lets himself in an sits on the lounge chair. sorry to say 2 had to be put down a few days ago as a tiger snake had got'n amongst them.
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Right lol. I love that for them
@@danielponiatowski7368 That's terrible ! I'm so sorry .
On another note her running away from the deer is so hilarious and adorable she's literally bigger than the deer so sweet the innocence 🥺😭❤
Ikr
The deer was probably thinking I'm running from you why are you running from me
I'm glad they changed the handle. Imagine her running that fast into the house. Big ole scaredy cat! 😆
@@florencemiller7826 Right!? 😁😁🥺
@@dvafosho oh gosh😁❤
I got chills all over. TALK ABOUT FORGIVENESS. This is a remarkable story. Thank you for sharing.
So admirable that he really was honest that even after so many signals he went one and had such a big loss. Still credits her for getting him back on the track. Beautiful.
So glad you accepted the responsibility for the accident and not blame her to put her down or get rid of her. She clearly loves you and i think she takes care of you because of it.
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This is GREAT! What a beautiful story and what a great horse owner. I also love that this man didn’t blame this amazing horse. It is almost never an animal’s fault when a human is unintentionally hurt by them.
He is a very special soul. That is an incredible amount of compassion.
Totally agree😊 even I felt his love & compassion while watching😍😍😍
Seriously - that is the ONLY thing he could do was to forgive himself, and he said it. That horse. had no culpability - he knew she was off and paid the price for it. And we do NOT know what she went through before she got rescued to begin with.
Most people would put an animal to sleep when it hurts them .Salute to your compassion
That would be ridiculous. It was his own fault.
@@VitalityMassage it was his fault and he knows it but in other instances people wouldn’t take the blame for themselves. They get hurt and wanna put the animal down right away which is ridiculous because they neglected to read their body language
@@andreaacosta272685 i suppose it also depends on context because if the animal had clearly suddenly turned violent toward your whole family or something for no reason that's one thing (still, just adopt it) but this horse is clearly awesome and it was clearly his fault
@@andreaacosta272685 That is because a lot of humans are complete losers.
Even when it is human error
What a beautiful soul this man is. Amerigo and he are beautiful together.
Of all the stories I watched on the Dodo over the years, this is probably the most emotional. I have so much respect for this man for not giving in to anger and pain and for understanding that it wasn't the horse's fault. I'm sure it wasn't easy and it speaks volumes about the kind of person he is. He lost his leg and still kept her, when every day there are people who don't even think twice about abandoning their pet or putting it down. We can all learn from Charles. Thank you for covering this story.
And he loved her even more! He is an amazing guy!
I love that he was able to see it was his own fault that lead to the unfortunate accident. So many animals get unnecessary killed because of human's own mistakes. I hope the best for this man.
This man is truly… inspiring.
His courage, his loving nature, the fact that he didn’t blame his horse but did self-reflection unlike what any human would have done…
I just feel like this guy is truly amazing and I think that in the future, When things get difficult, I will try to think of this man and how he reacted when losing his leg
It's really heart warming about how he blames himself as the cause for the accident. I'm so glad your recovery went well and I hope you and amerigo have a good life
that is the reason I love watching The Dodo.... all the human angels are sooooo loving and forgiving! and the animals are all so cute and smart!
Yes same!
What an amazing guy
A beautiful horse and a beautiful soul that chose to love her inspite of the accident.
She was not to blame for this accident but even so he lost his leg and he could have resented her. On the contrary they have developed a deeper bond. This is what you call unconditional love indeed.
What a powerful story. To be strong enough, mature enough, and responsible enough to know this wasn't anyone's fault, it was just an accident and both sides need love and healing from it. So much kudos to you and Amerigo! 🧡
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It is a testament to this man’s character how he was very badly injured and still had the wherewithal, intelligence, and heart to know that when these terrible accidents happen with horses, we have to be the “adult” in the room and forgive the mishap, albeit catastrophic.
I have huge respect for you, dude. Huge! ❤
Amazing empathy and self awareness to not put blame on the horse for the accident.
Respect.
Wise and compassionate, he shows us what a descent human being is, deeply touched,
I am not sure you meant this but a "descent human being" is spot on. When we "lower" ourselves off of our human pedestals and embrace the natural world as ourselves we find a world of enchantment and wonder that yes, deeply touches us beyond our expectations.
God Bless this man. He's a beautiful soul.
What a unique well mannered horse. Animals understand when they accidentally hurt you. They have more empathy then we give them credit for
They have more intelligence than most of the people I know! :)
The accident wasn't anyone's fault. It was just an accident. It's no secret that a 1000 pound animal can hurt/kill you unintentionally. He hadn't had her very long. I'm so happy their bond is this strong, now! They heal each other!
He said he knew she was agitated and that he shouldn't have ridden her. He has already forgiven himself for making a poor decision.
It was. This is why we listen to the animals like he said. He said: I did all the wrong things.
Usually when accidents with horses happen it is exactly as he described it.
When something feels off: do not get on the horse.
And as he said: but as a human I did it anyway.
And this is why this happened. It is unfortunate very much so because he got hurt badly but he knows that there were signs.
No, the horse clearly didn’t want to be ridden, and the owner decided for her that she was going to. She showed him that she wasn’t in the mood, and his leg injury was his consequence for making her do something she didn’t want to.
It’s like a kid that gets to close to a dog when it’s eating, the dog growls to show he wants his space, and then, if the kid keeps messing with him, the dog snaps at him, then, the kid goes and tattles on the dog. “I can bug you even if you don’t want me to, but you better not get mad at me if I do.”
Sounds like a narcissistic, bully mindset. 😠
My friend has 3 pit bull rescues, and had me dogsit the puppy while the 2 grownup dogs went to the vet. He was put in the office while the other dogs went in the car, but my friend left & I let him out. Even tho he knew me really well, he was scared, and we think he thought I took the whole family away. He was a puppy, but already a big boy (he looks to be a pit-rottie mix, he was literally thrown out as an infant, likely because he had a small birth defect). He started getting aggressive with me, and was snapping, but also pushing me to back up into the bathroom. He was such a good boy, he didn't know what to do, so instead of actually mauling me, he got me into the bathroom, let me lock myself in (I called my friend immediately!), and that way he could neutralize the threat without hurting me. Once everybody was calm, he and I spent a long time together and reconnected. We were all so proud of him for such good thinking, but I'm proud of me too, for realizing what he was doing & not panicking.
@@user-hx7mi7ml8u sounds very human to me lol.
I am amazed by the love you share with Amerigo. I always wanted a horse of my own .....God bless you both, and keep you safe always.
Such a beautiful story between man and animal. So sorry he lost his leg but never blamed her. She loves this man, it's so obvious. Thank you for sharing this wonderful story. She is absolutely beautiful.
Why would he blame the horse for the loss of his leg. As he clearly details, losing his leg was his own fault.
Yes he did blame her listen at 2:30. But his second sentence made him recover that. The fact he is able to understand his own fault makes life much better for him.
@@infinitywarrior1017 absolutely!
What an incredible human being. He's a better man than I'll ever be.
Incredible ?
@@luciferien5604 - Amazing, wonderful, remarkable...... Need anymore lessons in English?
We all have te ability to be as wonderful as this man, never stop trying to challenge and better yourself 💘
What a beautiful heart of forgiveness and love this man has
What an amazing story. I can't even find the words to describe the admiration I have for this man who lost his leg from his Rescue horse but blamed himself for the accident and still loves his horse unconditionally. A very emotionally intelligent guy. I love him!
He may be "emotionally intelligent" but otherwise, he was plainly stupid. As he clearly details in his telling of what happened, the horse didn't want anyone on its back at that time. But the guy got on anyway.
@@blackmore4 we all have our stupid moments and make stupid decisions. Don't we?
@@susanapol382 Sure but a horse owner should know much better. Most do.
@@blackmore4 which he admitted was his fault, it’s most likely his first time owning a horse and we all make mistakes and it looks like his horse is completely fine now and trusts him very well. You act as if he didn’t take any blame and just said it was an accident and nobody’s fault
My horse, Bruno, looked exactly like Amerigo. And he was just as sassy, especially by patting down our pockets for treats. I absolutely understand the need to forgive yourself, and not the animal for an accident. Bless you and Amerigo, and I pray for many years of companionship to come!
Beautiful animal
They're so good together. What a lovely couple.
Always listen to your horse. Mine wouldn’t let me on her when my health deteriorated ( i am chronicly ill). First I was mad that she just walked away. But then I understood what she was trying to tell me. We spent out times together in a different but maybe even nicer way than riding untill she died last year.
They know. So sorry about your mare... and about your illness. I can no longer ride & I miss it every single day. It somehow never gets easier for me.
@@mdee860 I’m sure it will get easier in time. Just be with them a lot and just be together. I found my joy in bonding on the ground. Take care!
@Si Ro thanks❤️
@@creativecheersoffashionlau7364 - I always did listen to horses, from an early age. Even when I had Instructors in middle & high school, I never embraced their harsh, many times cruel ways. My philosophy & goal was that I wanted the horse to like & respect me enough to WANT to give me their best. Anyone with a crop can beat a horse enough to make them do something but I NEVER wanted to 'win' by fear. It had to be mutual respect. Later in life, I spent 12 years with my OTTB & a herd of 8. Some of my best times were sitting in the back pasture with the herd on a sunny afternoon. The Arab gelding, whom I ❤, would lay down next to me & put his head & neck in my lap. He was so gentle & careful of me. I was taking jumping lessons at a barn a few miles away & she hit an air pocket in an arena w/ new footing, new instructor, etc., etc. She did a 360° rotational & I am very lucky to be alive & not paralyzed, but the damage is significant. Sadly, my riding days came to a crashing halt. It will never get better & my missing them hasn't lessened one iota - after all these years. I miss the sounds, their sweet smell and... everything. I'm glad you still get to be around yours. Hand grazing outside of their normal pastures is a very bonding experience. ❤🐴❤🐎
@@mdee860 i am so sorry to hear that. I understand that for you it won’t get better. I know that I am very lucky to still be able to be around my horses. It truly is a blessing. So sorry you cannot…. Stay strong🙏🏻
What a heartbreaking hopeful loving story. The definition of family.
Thank God for caring individuals that love and understand one of the greatest animals.
Awww I’m so glad you let her in your house,I wish everyone would love animals as I do,the world would be a much better place,the horse is beautiful🐶🐱🐻🦊🐯
Agree!
That can seriously damage the horse. there are so many things that can happen if that horse slips and falls on the hard wood floors. there's a reason that there isn't furniture in a horses stall...
So happy that her family loves her as much as she loves you, guys. Great humans for a great horse.
Takes a very calm head to not let emotions get to you when you are the victim of an accident. It's very heart warming that he doesn't blame the animal for the loss of his leg. It would be easy to get bitter, but he chooses the right, logical way instead.
Much respect!
This is such a beautiful story. Also, Amerigo makes the cutest noises when she wants to come inside.
I absolutely love this man and his dedication to this sweet horse. I almost lost my leg due to a riding accident, and people always said "why don't you hate your horse " I never blamed her, it was my choice and she is not r-e-s-p-o-n-s-I-b-l-e !
This man is so humble what he went through and he still loves his horse God-bless him
This is a story of unconditional love. It’s like they were always meant to be together through life’s journey. This is so beautiful in so many ways.
It's human nature to place blame, and for him to overcome that, I truly think that deserves praise.
Man props to the guy for being honest that human led accidents ultimately fall on the human themselves. That horse has a lot of love and a beautiful relationship I hope she lives a long and healthy life!
I've seen this story many times and each time I love them even more. Amerigo is a rescue and there's no telling the horrible life she had before being rescued. Maybe being ridden is a trigger for her. I love how her "dad" understood that and didn't blame her for losing his leg because of her fear on that day.
The love this man has for this precious horse and their friendship put a smile on my face and tears in my eyes. U can see how Amerigo truly loves his human friend too!
Glad to see this guy acknowledge and take responsibility for his accident, and not blame the horse. This video reminds me of a pony I used to have when I was a kid; we found him in my room on my bed a few times in my house, and we had to lead him outside.
OMG this story has me bawling 😭. Most people would’ve blame the horse for that horrific accident, but the kindness shown to her speaks volumes to the beautiful soul of her dad. I love these kind of people with huge hearts 💕 and respectful for other sentient being. Awesome story 🥺 ♥️🥰. Thank you!!!
Why would any one in their right minds blame the horse for refusing consent ?? The horse did not consent to him riding her but he forced her into riding .
Really awesome…even after the surgery you still care for her
You sir are an amazing man that has an amazing horse. One can’t help but wonder how she has changed your life for hundreds of good reasons.
I'm not sure he's a guy but yes, it takes a lot to recognise you're the one to blame and move on.
Hats off to you. You have a wise heart for not blaming her.
Aww this guy is such a kind person! Even when ridding her in the videos he was bareback and using a halter, not a bit. But it only takes one mistake to have lifelong consequences, and he even recognized he was the one at fault for the accident. Glad he's still living a happy life with the horsie.
My dad never used a bit on his horse. It was fine for the others, though, apparently..🤷
He's such a sweet guy & they're lucky to have each other.
Love this! It’s so refreshing to see someone who actually treats her as an individual. I’m sure she accidentally stepped down on your leg and I’m glad you understood it. Can you imagine having a backache and having someone jump on your back to ride you? We’d buck them off too. Glad you two are doing well.
Wow. This story of love, sorrow, trials & tribulations and then back to love and forgiveness is amazing. It is a rollercoaster ride of emotions packaged into 4 minutes.Thank you for sharing.
Oh my goodness.... really I didn't expect the twist of fate in this story at all...my jaw dropped, and I am astounded by this man's huge depth of heart, understanding and forgiveness. What a Buddha heart you both have and are growing together. Deep bow of venerable respect and love to you both! ♥️🦋🙏📿
He's very compassionate. What the hell would we do without animals? Would life even be worth living.
No.
We would be fruitful and multiple, as God intended, preoccupying ourselves with family.
@@raraszek...
No. I wouldn't be able to eat the meats and poultry I love so much.
No, much prefer animals to the human race.
What an incredible human and an incredible horse. Wish there were more souls like his
“I couldn’t be a better person without her”
Beautiful 💕
This horse it's exactly like my brother's horse :) They are so smart and they can get really attached to people! I love them, beautiful creatures! i have been to my brother's house this summer and I was shocked by how ''human'' horse can get! I never imagined that! xx
I love all animals
i pity the criminal who tries to break into that horse's house.
First off, robber will prolly have a heart attack.. then, Mr. Horse 🐴 prolly gonna kick mr. Robber straight thru the window..
@@daphne4983 yup.. me too.. ♡
Even humans.. 💗 🌤
*scuze me.. Ms. Horse 🐴 ♡
Michaela all animals are capable of this these qualities it's just most humans fail to perceive them. But understand this it's DANGEROUS to have a heavy animal in a confined space with so many obstacles. It's a death trap & he just doesn't know he's in one. Horses can get very attached to humans & vice versa as this one has but it takes one second for them to accidentally react & crush you in a small space.
This man is the epitomy of compassion..
what an incredible man and his horse too she s so intelligent and sweet
If I could, I’d give this a million stars.
I couldn't think of a better person to own Amerigo. She is definitely apart of the family 🥰🥰🤗🤗😇😇
I justlove how he fully acknoledges that the accident was his fault, and owns upto it
Perfect title - the Soulmates - Sir, you are an old soul because you have passed all the spiritual challenges with this beautiful horse. It's hard to type when you're crying. It's another Dodo happy tearjerker. I just love people like you.
This is incredible. So sorry that the guy lost his leg in the incident. Must have been such a harrowing journey. But so glad that Amerigo was there with you for the difficult times. Big kudos to you!
What a great man and what a great relationship. BIG HUG TO BOTH OF YOU
I truly have no words. This is a huge lesson in humility, love , compassion and forgiveness. This "story" will stay with me and I truly appreciate you sharing it with us all.
Really beautiful that Amerigo's hooman is compassionate and loving - all of which is returned by Amerigo.
I've always been scared of horses because of their size. This really shows me how much emotion they have inside.
I'm so sorry that you are afraid of horses.
I love horses and can't imagine being afraid of them.
Maybe this will help.
Horses tend to be like dogs.
Like you ever notice how the really big breeds like Saint Bernards are really gentle, and the tiny ones like Chihuahuas are more outwardly emotional?
Horses are pretty much the same.
The big ones are gentle giants.
Horses are incredibly emotional. Easily same as dogs and people.
Horses bonds to people and other animals are very strong. There are multiple videos on TH-cam of horses being reunited with former owners and horse friends after YEARS of separation and they joy in their eyes is incredibly touching to see.
I would highly recommend watching Black Beauty, War Horse, and Spirit (Dreamworks movie).
All are incredible films to watch, and might give you a different outlook on how emotional they really are.
When a horse bonds with you, it is a truly life changing experience.
Hope this help!
Watch the channel called “ Think Like a Horse “ . You will fall in love with his horses .
@@NewDay1000 I don't think you're going to reassure anyone after having just watched a video where the guy lost a foot over a horse accident LOL
umm this guy is an earth angel!!! He understands his own doings and leaves his ego at the door and keeps his heart open!
She is cute and humble!
This brought tears to my eyes. If only all humans could be so kind and loving to animals, this would be a better world. Thank you for treating her with so much love. You are truly an amazing human being. She is so special and anyone who says animals don't have feelings are so ignorant. Huge fan. Cape Town, South Africa
This was so hilarious for a while, and then sad, and then heartwarming. Neat story. That horse is so cool and she is not even really really spoiled at all!!!! :)
Unarguably this is the epitome of unconditional love, compassion and mutual respect between human being and animal. Kudos to you and Amerigo!
What a wonderful person you are and what a lovely loyal horse she is.
This is why i gave up riding 25 years ago. 1 bad stirrup set up and one bad buck and i was done .I wasnt waiting for a 3rd fall.amazing that you forgave her and are closer to her even more!
I'll never understand how people can blame a horse for bucking a human off its back. They're not robots, they have complex emotions and a person's failure to read the animal is 100% the human's fault if they ride the animal. There's nothing natural about having a human sitting on their back, they only learn to tolerate it.. but sometimes they get fed up and often don't understand how weak and fragile humans are compared to them, so what might seem like a simple shrugging gesture to dislodge the pesky human can be disastrous to us. Anyone who would blame the horse for it is a simpleton. I understand humans in the past needed horses as a means of travel and as beasts of burden.. but those days are behind us, there's no reason humans today should be using horses for riding. I can carry a 20 pound child on my back as easily as a horse could carry a 180lbs man... doesn't mean I want to or would like it though.. why would the horse? People should just care for the horse and let it enjoy life, be its friend.. but people shouldn't use it as a beast of amusement in the modern day.
That's absolute pure love on EARTH. Love you guys. 😍
That guy has a massive heart, brought tears to my eyes
I cried with their story... their love is the most beaultiful thing I've ever seen!
I love it: "I never planned on having a horse in my house."
LOL talks about a horse in the house like it's a furniture or something
He said that like it was such a mundane thing, it's so funny! 😂
You're a champ. Such a beautiful bond. Pure soulmates.
Beautiful story. Connections with our animal friends like this is a special gift to cherish. I've had horses follow me into the house, wild bluejays ride on my shoulder and even hummingbirds fly with me into the house. This was of course decades ago but the images are still fixed in my head and memory as if they happened yesterday.