I had the privilege of staying at Andrew and Melissa's home while visiting Seattle last summer. I didn't know about their famous wedding video until months later. I was so impressed with how they treat each other. Their love for each other and the Lord is real. They are expecting baby #1 this month.
Tammi Schmorleitz that's so so beautiful to hear! I read some comments on the wedding vid about how they re now divorced.I think it was just from the bitter jealous trolls! Smh Satan's a lie
2:47 It takes such a truthful person to admit that they are so sexual that they wouldn't date for fear of getting messed up. It takes a man, a real good man to show the respectful restraint that his future wife needed. Instead of pushing & pushing her to have unmarried sex, like many do, he showed love, he showed respect for her.
I’ll admit it But it’s who you admit it to , people take that and they think it’s a joke and it means they get a free experience. It’s such a serious thing
This is how I felt! When I was 16, I used to think that my future sweetheart wife was most likely some where out there under the same beautiful stars as I was, and I would pray to God that he would look after her and take care of her until I could find her.
Thank u sooo much for adding to your video clip. Your funny wedding laugh and your husbands smile and the obvious love between you made me SMILE over and over & honestly I haven't for months due to a horrible depression I have..... To see and hear you two I see hope. I did my life choices all wrong, but wish so much more kids these days lived and believed like u. It's true, u and I, totally different, are proof of it. Thank u so much for the smile today, I've been so scared I'd forgotten how. You're wonderful.
Hi Tammy you sound pretty busted, but I’m glad this video made you happy. Life gets boring for me sometimes and the only things that make me genuinely smile are things that give me adrenaline, nature, and new things. It can be as simple as talking to that really nice person you’ve been wanting to talk to for while. I don’t judge you for your life choices because we are all influenced when we were little kids and are just human. I am sure if you knew what was best, you would have done it. You are a gem 💎, keep having hope because I believe in you, and there are strangers in the world who if the had the chance to meet you would love you and help you. Just because they aren’t there or don’t even know you exist doesn’t mean that you don’t deserve the encouragement. You got this girl, I will pray for you. Have sweet dreams!!
Loved the story behind the marriage. I too married my dearly depart wife of almost 11 years now. It did make things more special between us and God. We always made a way to not go to bed angry with each other and we prayed before going to bed in the first place and we put it in God's hands and we would cry about it and forgive as we were forgiven. I want that type of love in my life again and one day I will be like this couple and share many laughs with her till the day we part. Andrew and Melissa if you read this I believe in the same God you do and may your marriage be fill with happiness and laughter all your lives. Tim Frazier
Thanks so much Tim! I read it to her today, God bless you!! Love you, and so look forward to the day we get to witness you being reunited with your beloved!
Best line- "I have the surety that I am yours and you are mine forever.." 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 It really reflects their ethics and morality.. They should be a role model for all couples. Just wonderful how God brought these two good people together and connected them...
I really am totally impressed by this couple. It cannot get any stronger than this relation ship. I wish you both all the best in everything... A winning bet is that you are in for a long prosperous beautiful relationship and I hope you can transmit your way of thinking to your children.
@@paulinarios3665 thanks for asking =). I'm a marriage therapist, so that's something I could spend about 146 hours on. But I think you could summarize it in this: with God as your help and witness, seek to become the best mate your spouse can find.
Every love story should be filled with laughters. Having been in a toxic marriage of reproach and no demonstrations of affection I really envy you and the smiles that seem never to leave your faces.A few years ago I decided to be happy whatever life brought to me.
So happy I got to see the video. Tears were streaming down my face with laughter :-) In this time of covid and lockdowns it is sooooo relieving. The whole heartedly laugh. God bless you and your family and thank you for lifting us up.
When I saw your wedding ceremony first time, I couldn't stop laughing like 20 mins, really! I watched it again and again, cause it rose my mood so much, still does! haha I'm having my wedding next month and I'm same way funny :D but who knows? Thank you guys for amazing story and ceremony! :)
Such an infectious laughter! Two beautiful souls coming together, becoming One with Christ as their role model... watch this over n over n over to end my day on a high! 🙏🏻🙏🏻
Beautiful. It is abundantly clear that you, Andrew and Melissa, are best friends. My sincerest congratulations to you both for finding each other and sticking to your morals. (and I am a liberal, but that doesn't make me mean enough to diss you for your morals. It's none of my business.) I hope you have a happy and long life together. Keep that sense of humor, it'll help. ;)
This purity is what my Generation is hungry for and devoid of. Purity is the water of life to every marriage! Their Testimony just made my heart cry in Joy. Wooooow, What Beauty and Awe of The Glory of A Pure Marriage, God in their Midst!, What a Blessedness!!!!
This is so genuine love! Which is hardly ever seen these days, these days people are all into relationships for stupid reasons or fulfilling sexual needs. I really felt when she said, consummation of 2 virgins coming together, true. , you should keep yourself for someone special. Glad I did so! I do write, journals for my future husband too, i have a book for that! ;) Hope i will meet him someday soon and then hope i will be able to come back and edit this comment !
You are right... so many middle schoolers and high schoolers dating and when I think of them dating I’m like you are SO not gonna marry Your break up is inevitable.There are some good stories out there where people marry young and stay together but I ain’t even seen nothin like that in common life. These kids don’t know them and their partner are supposed to build a LIFE together, not just have a couple of fun nights.
@@paulinarios3665 exactly, you explained it so well. But tbh yes dating and spending few fun nights with them, then breaking up when they find someone new/finding the relationship inadequate is creepy and immoral. But without dating how can we even find this is "the one" *(i mean not physical thing) the soul compatibility. The chances of coming across a compatible person accidentally is very low. The world is big wide place, what if life doesn't offer you the chance to meet the most compatible person, i don't believe in fate or random pairing up of souls anymore, don't know about fairytales made in heaven too.. Its not always sure that we will come across that person, only just some people are lucky, but most of us would end up with the wrong person in the hope that this is the one.
It's very inspiring! They are soooo jovial, beautiful together, beaming with love. They freely testified to the beauty and worthy trials of waiting for consummating the gift of love on their wedding night. You can't have a better testimonial to sexual purity than this! Spread the word!
He writes in a journal??? Thats nice, I read about that when a husband was dying and starting writing in a journal which brought them closer or something like that. Thats sweet.
We loved you guys' video! It is a blessing to see the humor in even the most serious of circumstances! May you be FOREVER as happy as you were in your wedding video! Thank you for sharing this with us....and for being an inspiration... :)
...this took more than 3 years to find its way to me (actually the Waffle-y Wedded Video which led me here to your back-story). The original video is so funny and so cute, and this one is so sweet and touchingly honest, it makes me happy and filled with joy to watch. Belated Congratulations and Best Wishes! And Happy 3 and 20/73rds Anniversary!! This is a love that will never ever end...everyone should be so lucky.
@@gloriamutoni5137 you are a Disney princess who had hope and finally had her dreams come true. As a 16 year old girl reading this you give me hope. Have a happy marriage!
Even these video already long time still. Whoever watch will be laugh or smilling. How lovely this couple and theres history about thier wedding before. Happy for them and thier kids. Godbless.
What a blessing to hear your story - ty for sharing it ♥ I pray for many blessings on you both! Say, since you were married a while ago, I hope you keep us updated. Start a blog; )
U both are a joy to those of us that watched and heard your story.🙂🙂. The actual wedding video was hilarious 😆😆😆😄😄😄. What a tension reliever!!! Oh ya.It's lawfully,not wafully!! L.M.A.O.!!!🙂🙂🙂😄😄😄. Best wishes to both of you for a wonderful,happy life. From me in 🇨🇦Canada.
Becoming "one" through a marriage is something the church might have to get better at in preparing couples by talking with them long enough before the wedding-day for each individual to understsnd thoroughly enough what that "oneness" means and which advantages it bears aswell as its mutual duties. All together a wonderful and very delightful young couple ! God bless you both and keep you forever !
Good for them! They “got it”, aka, understood the seriousness, purity and gift of waiting until being man and wife. I fully understand because I waited too and my hubby and I have been married over 42 years.
Just saw video for first time. Melissa had me laughing right along with her, was hilarious. So glad to see them still together, and pray that the good LORD everyday bless their union. God bless you two.
The truth is that she has a super cute laugh
Are you guys still married this made me laugh so hard
@@carlos87699 yes they are.
@@carlos87699 I'm 16 and my parents are married for life. What you talkin' about?
This couple is such a blessing and example for our youth.
Emil Schnabel - yeah test the product before you buy!
Emil schnabel , That's true! Don't know, this generation is all messed up.
I wonder where are they now.. today
I hope they are still married
Totally Emil. This is what my generation is dying to have. It is the foundation of strong marriages( Purity)
I had the privilege of staying at Andrew and Melissa's home while visiting Seattle last summer. I didn't know about their famous wedding video until months later. I was so impressed with how they treat each other. Their love for each other and the Lord is real. They are expecting baby #1 this month.
Tammi Schmorleitz that's so so beautiful to hear! I read some comments on the wedding vid about how they re now divorced.I think it was just from the bitter jealous trolls! Smh Satan's a lie
@@MegaCadette55 nope. Couldn't find those comments or anything else about their 'divorce' ^^
@@randomvideos-qt2ug Does anyone really know if they are still together or not?
@@cupcakee22 great news... I'll have to look them up when I go to Seattle in August.
That’s amazing! That’s wonderful to know that you got to experience such lovely company.
She is so pretty!
Golu Dev that’s literally natural psychology for people to treat other similar to themselves better.
@Golu Dev HUH??
@Golu Dev you have lost your damn mind.
@Golu Dev what are you talking about?
@Golu Dev no she is not!!!
4:08 the way he looks at her is everything..💖
Yeah!
0:57 the way she looks at him.
Yeah, the gift of Virginity! The Glory of God makes You glow so much that no one wants their eye off you!
It's 2020 and I'm still in awe of them. May God keep their marriage and family safe
Ameen
it's hard to find two people still pure until their wedding night. God Bless you both. Take good care of her Andrew, she's a treasure.
They are both a treasure
Pure? So sex taints you? Please 🙄
Every teenager should learn from this beautiful couple
I am learning 😊❤️
Laughter's the best medicine of them all they say.
It’s true for me 😊❤️
Been married for 27 years. Never seen my husband burst out laughing😕
I wish i could found someone like her. And experience this kind of relationship. This is way more inspiring than I thought it would be
I am not a religious person but this touched my heart and really helps me ponder and appreciate life a lot more. Thank you
2:47 It takes such a truthful person to admit that they are so sexual that they wouldn't date for fear of getting messed up. It takes a man, a real good man to show the respectful restraint that his future wife needed. Instead of pushing & pushing her to have unmarried sex, like many do, he showed love, he showed respect for her.
I’ll admit it
But it’s who you admit it to , people take that and they think it’s a joke and it means they get a free experience. It’s such a serious thing
This is how I felt! When I was 16, I used to think that my future sweetheart wife was most likely some where out there under the same beautiful stars as I was, and I would pray to God that he would look after her and take care of her until I could find her.
Did you end up finding her?
When you can laugh together... Its true love!
You two are the best examples for many people. Virtue is divine. God bless your marriage 🙏
What a wonderful and very powerful story for the youth of today! May God Bless your marriage always.
Thank u sooo much for adding to your video clip. Your funny wedding laugh and your husbands smile and the obvious love between you made me SMILE over and over & honestly I haven't for months due to a horrible depression I have..... To see and hear you two I see hope. I did my life choices all wrong, but wish so much more kids these days lived and believed like u. It's true, u and I, totally different, are proof of it. Thank u so much for the smile today, I've been so scared I'd forgotten how. You're wonderful.
Oh wow Tammy, God bless you. That made us both cry!! We love you, and pray that 4 years later things are different and better - even FILLED with hope!
Hi Tammy you sound pretty busted, but I’m glad this video made you happy. Life gets boring for me sometimes and the only things that make me genuinely smile are things that give me adrenaline, nature, and new things. It can be as simple as talking to that really nice person you’ve been wanting to talk to for while. I don’t judge you for your life choices because we are all influenced when we were little kids and are just human. I am sure if you knew what was best, you would have done it. You are a gem 💎, keep having hope because I believe in you, and there are strangers in the world who if the had the chance to meet you would love you and help you. Just because they aren’t there or don’t even know you exist doesn’t mean that you don’t deserve the encouragement. You got this girl, I will pray for you. Have sweet dreams!!
How rare and precious and beautiful is this union??? Definitely made in heaven.
Well that was a lot more inspiring than I thought I'd be
haha yeah me too
They are the main characters and we are just living in their world. What a blessing to have the relationship they had.
Loved the story behind the marriage. I too married my dearly depart wife of almost 11 years now. It did make things more special between us and God. We always made a way to not go to bed angry with each other and we prayed before going to bed in the first place and we put it in God's hands and we would cry about it and forgive as we were forgiven. I want that type of love in my life again and one day I will be like this couple and share many laughs with her till the day we part.
Andrew and Melissa if you read this I believe in the same God you do and may your marriage be fill with happiness and laughter all your lives.
Tim Frazier
Thanks so much Tim! I read it to her today, God bless you!! Love you, and so look forward to the day we get to witness you being reunited with your beloved!
Amen!!
U wrote this 7 years ago, I pray you found someone else to love under God's grace and are living out the rest of your days a happy man Mr. Frazier. ❤
I love these two still, in 2022!
Andrew she's a beautiful Lady with a great laugh, Your a lucky guy
I like that they can have serious conversations, and laugh hysterically at their wedding and speak openly about their experiences
True love waits :)
This video is more inspiring than I thought it would be !
True love respects each other's choices, be that waiting or not waiting. Evidently, this couple is a perfect fit and has true love for each other. :)
That's a proper incel thing to say! :D
Best line- "I have the surety that I am yours and you are mine forever.." 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 It really reflects their ethics and morality.. They should be a role model for all couples. Just wonderful how God brought these two good people together and connected them...
She is amazing. Her laught, the genunity of it, her happiness, she even tap a little, that is just amazing! she is amazing!
What a beautiful couple!! In my opinion laughter is equally as important as romance in a marriage! God bless you both!
God is SOOOOO GOOD. I know he had me watch this. Holding out for my hubby and praying God convicts his heart to wait also.
You mean google had you watch this ;)
Ky - Kyuntenesss what the hell you're talking about... It's clear as hell that she's been tested before, you know what I mean?
Sorry, God is busy slaying innocent women and children in Syria and Lebanon.
Gregory Ashton lmao that ain’t god hun
@@34stzoo no, I don't believe she's been "tested" as you call it before
Congratulations to them living their values.
You could tell from the clip of their wedding that they are so deeply in love and true soulmates.
beautiful story , beautiful couple , beautiful GOD...
I really am totally impressed by this couple. It cannot get any stronger than this relation ship. I wish you both all the best in everything... A winning bet is that you are in for a long prosperous beautiful relationship and I hope you can transmit your way of thinking to your children.
At least i found their interview, i love this couple. I really love their wedding video. I always laugh everytime i've watched that video.
That is beautiful. Thank you for sharing your testimony on what a gift purity is!
Loved the video and now the explanation
What a really beautiful story. Thank you for sharing your love with us. :)
Aw, you're welcome! =)
@@andrewengstrom1516 Andrew give me some tips D:
@@paulinarios3665 thanks for asking =). I'm a marriage therapist, so that's something I could spend about 146 hours on. But I think you could summarize it in this: with God as your help and witness, seek to become the best mate your spouse can find.
Every love story should be filled with laughters. Having been in a toxic marriage of reproach and no demonstrations of affection I really envy you and the smiles that seem never to leave your faces.A few years ago I decided to be happy whatever life brought to me.
So happy I got to see the video. Tears were streaming down my face with laughter :-)
In this time of covid and lockdowns it is sooooo relieving. The whole heartedly laugh. God bless you and your family and thank you for lifting us up.
Love story's like this, to bad there's not more like it!!
It doesn't matter how many times I watch the wedding video, I DIE EVERYTIME!! Her laugh is everything, ahhahaha.
me too!!!
When I saw your wedding ceremony first time, I couldn't stop laughing like 20 mins, really! I watched it again and again, cause it rose my mood so much, still does! haha I'm having my wedding next month and I'm same way funny :D but who knows?
Thank you guys for amazing story and ceremony! :)
I know right! :)
Don't force it LOL
life is awesome haha
how did your big day go?
It was amazing, bright and also funny. We had some fun and etc :)
It was so light hearted,I watched it many times,I wish your family a happy holidays seasons
Your story is beautiful, and true and such a great example of how it really should be for young people.
God bless you 🙏
Yours video gives me boost whenever I am in depression. God bless you couple and stay Blessed throughout your life.
What an inspiring example. They are an amazing couple. True love is worth the wait. God bless them.
This video always cheers me up, never fails! It is so refreshing to see something so candid - love it! Thank you for sharing.
What a wonderful testimony! They are an inspiration. God bless 'em!
Such an infectious laughter! Two beautiful souls coming together, becoming One with Christ as their role model... watch this over n over n over to end my day on a high! 🙏🏻🙏🏻
Beautiful. It is abundantly clear that you, Andrew and Melissa, are best friends. My sincerest congratulations to you both for finding each other and sticking to your morals. (and I am a liberal, but that doesn't make me mean enough to diss you for your morals. It's none of my business.) I hope you have a happy and long life together. Keep that sense of humor, it'll help. ;)
This purity is what my Generation is hungry for and devoid of. Purity is the water of life to every marriage!
Their Testimony just made my heart cry in Joy. Wooooow, What Beauty and Awe of The Glory of A Pure Marriage, God in their Midst!, What a Blessedness!!!!
This is such a beautiful testimony! Very encouraging!
This is so genuine love! Which is hardly ever seen these days, these days people are all into relationships for stupid reasons or fulfilling sexual needs. I really felt when she said, consummation of 2 virgins coming together, true. , you should keep yourself for someone special. Glad I did so!
I do write, journals for my future husband too, i have a book for that! ;)
Hope i will meet him someday soon and then hope i will be able to come back and edit this comment !
Any updates dear?
You are right... so many middle schoolers and high schoolers dating and when I think of them dating I’m like you are SO not gonna marry
Your break up is inevitable.There are some good stories out there where people marry young and stay together but I ain’t even seen nothin like that in common life. These kids don’t know them and their partner are supposed to build a LIFE together, not just have a couple of fun nights.
@@paulinarios3665 exactly, you explained it so well. But tbh yes dating and spending few fun nights with them, then breaking up when they find someone new/finding the relationship inadequate is creepy and immoral. But without dating how can we even find this is "the one" *(i mean not physical thing) the soul compatibility.
The chances of coming across a compatible person accidentally is very low. The world is big wide place, what if life doesn't offer you the chance to meet the most compatible person, i don't believe in fate or random pairing up of souls anymore, don't know about fairytales made in heaven too..
Its not always sure that we will come across that person, only just some people are lucky, but most of us would end up with the wrong person in the hope that this is the one.
This turned out to be such a beautiful story. And an inspiration to me, Thank you!
I wish you an endless happiness. I watch this video when i am stressfull and it works. I love you.
Greetings from Germany.
I still watching it today, 5-3rd-18, they are very funny and adorable! GOD bless them! 😃😂😂😁😀😁
Beautiful. Thanks for sharing Andrew and Melissa. God is so good.
It's very inspiring! They are soooo jovial, beautiful together, beaming with love. They freely testified to the beauty and worthy trials of waiting for consummating the gift of love on their wedding night. You can't have a better testimonial to sexual purity than this! Spread the word!
He writes in a journal??? Thats nice, I read about that when a husband was dying and starting writing in a journal which brought them closer or something like that. Thats sweet.
Absolutely beautiful - and so rare. Thank you!
Beautiful! God bless their marriage :)
one of the greatest weddings ever
That is so precious! It's the greatest gift you can give to your spouse!!! Once, and only once!!! Amen!!!
I love this video and really admire Mr. and Mrs. Engstrom’s genuine love for each other. What a beautiful story 🙏🏽
I can relate to this in my heart. I am the same.
We loved you guys' video!
It is a blessing to see the humor in even the most serious of circumstances!
May you be FOREVER as happy as you were in your wedding video!
Thank you for sharing this with us....and for being an inspiration... :)
Wow this is deeply beautiful. I wish the rest of the world understood this concept.
...this took more than 3 years to find its way to me (actually the Waffle-y Wedded Video which led me here to your back-story). The original video is so funny and so cute, and this one is so sweet and touchingly honest, it makes me happy and filled with joy to watch. Belated Congratulations and Best Wishes! And Happy 3 and 20/73rds Anniversary!! This is a love that will never ever end...everyone should be so lucky.
This has encouraged me to keep waiting for God to bring my man.. before that I abstain..to honor my God
Have you met your man yet? 👁️👄👁️
That's indeed a good decision 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 God bless you!!
@@sh1n0k4i I actually got married 4 days ago
To the man of my dreams 🥰
Omg congratulations to you! May God bless ur marriage ❤️
@@gloriamutoni5137 you are a Disney princess who had hope and finally had her dreams come true. As a 16 year old girl reading this you give me hope. Have a happy marriage!
Awe I am so happy for them! I feel inspired to keep waiting till marriage! :D God bless you!
Even these video already long time still. Whoever watch will be laugh or smilling. How lovely this couple and theres history about thier wedding before. Happy for them and thier kids. Godbless.
I can only hope and pray that my own marriage will be as joyful. God bless :)
What a great feel good story. I hope your both happy and safe now. She’s cute and he’s handsome. All the very best for a happy future together.
What a blessing to hear your story - ty for sharing it ♥ I pray for many blessings on you both! Say, since you were married a while ago, I hope you keep us updated. Start a blog; )
Huh - that's a pretty good idea Jennifer! We've thought about that in different ways, but good idea! Update - we're doing great =)
Seen the wedding video on fb. Congrats! It was hilarious.
U both are a joy to those of us that watched and heard your story.🙂🙂. The actual wedding video was hilarious 😆😆😆😄😄😄. What a tension reliever!!! Oh ya.It's lawfully,not wafully!! L.M.A.O.!!!🙂🙂🙂😄😄😄.
Best wishes to both of you for a wonderful,happy life.
From me in 🇨🇦Canada.
awww God bless this adorable couple with many beautiful years to come :)
this how it should be
Beautiful girl with a great laugh !!
Becoming "one" through a marriage
is something the church might have to get better at in preparing couples
by talking with them long enough before the wedding-day
for each individual to understsnd thoroughly enough what that "oneness" means
and which advantages it bears aswell as its mutual duties.
All together a wonderful and very delightful young couple !
God bless you both and keep you forever !
Oh this is awesome, and yes, the way it should have been. I'm surprised that it only took me nearly ten years to see this video...
She is so gorgeous my God.
So beautiful that both of them waiting. They are truly blessed.
I weirdly admire how comfortable they are talking about their sexuality
Good for them! They “got it”, aka, understood the seriousness, purity and gift of waiting until being man and wife. I fully understand because I waited too and my hubby and I have been married over 42 years.
What a blessing to us all. Thank you
what an unforgettable wedding ceremony.
The Officiator said Waffely first, all Andrew did is repeat what he said.
Sally no he definitely said lawfully. lol.
@@Itsjimmay He meant to say 'lawfully', but it really sounded like 'wawfully'/'waffle-ly'. xD
And pancakeyy
Yes! Didn't he? The officiator is the one who said it wrong.
@@heavenlymilano Only if you listen at low volume, if you turn it up he 100% said lawfully.
Preach it Ma'am!!
I've kept my vow till date! Lord, give me the strength to hold on until I find the one 🤞🏻
What a beautiful love story❤❤
I trust you are having a wonderful life together ❤ ❤
She doesn’t hold back at all laughing. Pure joy
Their story is absolutely beautiful.
God bless you both. I can't think of anything more profound to say than that. I would suggest that you share this story with young people.
Omg she is so sweet ,i love her
This is the beauty of the wife. Smile and laughter are the true beauty of women
I just saw the wedding video on facebook but never knew it was this old
im very happy to know that they are still together up to this day with 3 kids 😊🙂😊
Can I ask you how do you know that?
@@anicaschutte8417 somebody from another copy of this video whom they suppose to know commented this there.
Tell me that God didn’t tickle her at the right moment... he is the masterful fun loving Father
Just saw video for first time. Melissa had me laughing right along with her, was hilarious. So glad to see them still together, and pray that the good LORD everyday bless their union. God bless you two.
I think for any marriage to work they need something bigger than themselves they both believe in and share with each other. This couple has it.
Beautiful!! Pure and beautiful!!