To me, the first step in helping a friend going through tough times is by paying attention because most person's do not like or feel comfortable sharing their problems with others even a friend so I pay attention to their moods, attitudes and others and if there is a change I dont always go in trying to proffer solutions because sometimes they have solutions already, I dont go in as a counselor or psychologist but rather as a friend bring support and comfort and i always make it clear to them that i am always available either verbally or by my actions.
During my teen years, I made friends in the football field only, we might not talk much after football but during the game we can become friends... Most of the friends I made was during football. Also, the first close friends I made I don't actually remember approaching them as I am not a person to do the approaching and from my recollection, all the people I know today made the first move in approaching me. I practically don't approach people until i am approached sha. Also, I try not to force things with my friends... Never quarreled with any before and even they do not want my comapny, I recede immediately without even notifying them. I am loved at home sha😂 to be stressed by people.
To me, the first step in helping a friend going through tough times is by paying attention because most person's do not like or feel comfortable sharing their problems with others even a friend so I pay attention to their moods, attitudes and others and if there is a change I dont always go in trying to proffer solutions because sometimes they have solutions already, I dont go in as a counselor or psychologist but rather as a friend bring support and comfort and i always make it clear to them that i am always available either verbally or by my actions.
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During my teen years, I made friends in the football field only, we might not talk much after football but during the game we can become friends... Most of the friends I made was during football.
Also, the first close friends I made I don't actually remember approaching them as I am not a person to do the approaching and from my recollection, all the people I know today made the first move in approaching me.
I practically don't approach people until i am approached sha.
Also, I try not to force things with my friends... Never quarreled with any before and even they do not want my comapny, I recede immediately without even notifying them.
I am loved at home sha😂 to be stressed by people.
Awwwn😂
Thanks for the write up Anozie ❤
Thats my gurl❤❤❤...... Love you❤. Keep pushing
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Please do a podcast to talk about why most women can't be great friends😅❤❤ that matter is very long...
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Omo but you are not a woman na
My sister and I have had several discussions about it😂, please talk about it soon please 😂😂@@amarachi_iheobi
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Keep it up ❤
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nice one girlfriend from igwe blessing with love ❤❤❤
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Great Podcast Debbie
❤thank you