LIVING WITH IN LAWS || MAMA VLOG!
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Its very very clear that ur mom was much much ahead of her times. She displayed her greatness in every way. Allah unki magfirat kare. Even if u went thru much emotionally in ur inlaws house but ur personality is so versatile that u r such a good human inspite of it all. Allah bless u
Ameen Ameen thank you so much sweetheart 😘
@Zahra so true. May Allah bless her with jannath al fardaws ameen ajmaeen
@Zahra ahead of times meant being open minded having flexibility in her approach. Even after coming from a traditional pathan family. Of course Qoran teaches us way of life
Auntie I can't believe it that you been through this, you are a strong lady mashallah. Look at your life now alhumdulilah you have beautiful children and even more beautiful grandchildren and not forgetting us, your well wishers your fans. You're a one in a million.
Salam, u are a great woman ,and God has gvn u in abundance for Yr patience ,at that age ,and in those situations and circumstances, there was no other way for u to behave,no one could hv done anything btter then u did ,and Yr human so Yr feeling will show obviously, if only Yr mother inlaw understood Yr feeling and showed love and respect, well I hope she gts what she deserves aswell, God is all watching and the best master if all 🤲🤲
Wallahi Mam you are so strong. My eyes keep tearing, my heart aches for you. Because my mothers life is so worse and I can relate so much things. Je sab batein mere dimaak mein ghoom rahi hai and dil dukh raha. Love you so much. Peace&Salam lovely from Holland
mental torture is worse than physical abuse/torture.. May Allah swt always keep you happy x
I love the way mama has explained both situations of different women's styles of mothering. Kept me intrigued too listen too full video Masha'Allah. I'm not a mother in law yet but learnt a lot from yourself. May Allah reward you in abundance Ameen.
And please don’t worry about long vlogs, when I listen to you feels like it was only 20 min 🤪
MashaAllah may Allah swt grant good adapted women which know how to build peace, whether its daughter or mother, sister, inlaws etc....
Ameen 😘
Your Mother was a Amazing woman May Allah swt grant her Janat ul firdous Ameen. You are Amazing like her too Allah huma barik ❤ very good advice May Allah swt bless you and reward you Ameen ❤
You are an amazing woman, Allah has rewarded you in this world for your patience and you will be blessed in the hereafter Aameen
You truly are a wise and intelligent women. I wish my mother in law had half the mentally as you do
After listening to you I thought of one thing…she didn’t become a negative person! That’s probably what I like the most about you. I respect people who grow from hardship instead of becoming negative and evil. You are the result of a good mother who taught you well, may Allah talah bless her with the highest rank, Ameen! And also may allah talah bless you with endless happiness and joy, ameen! Can’t wait for part 2 ❤️🤗
I agree. I know someone who has become so negative and bitter because of her bad experiences and she hasn’t been able to make the change for the next generation
I am so sorry that you went through so much. You are such a nice person, may Allah keep you safe and blessed.
You are a very wise woman, mama. Alhamdulillah, my mother in law was very nice and we had good relations. Yes, she had leaning towards her daughters but that is understandable. But generally, she was a good woman and very pious. I learned a lot from her. May Allah raise her darjat and give jannatul Firdous to her, Ameen.
This happens a lot, girls who are kept as princesses in their parent's homes, have a bad time in their susraals.
Bilkol sahee 100%
Because unn ko princess tou bana kar rakhha lakin dosre ghar ja kar kese rahna hae, kia bardasht karna hae iski tarbiyat nahi di, tou phir wo mushkil waqt tou dekhen gi
You did right thing by comparing your mom and mother in law Becoz I look at it as
U looked at ur mother in law like your own mom which is very good thinking
So I think it was very nice thought
Wallah when I come to uk I thought my mother in law will be my mother because my mother advoice me if you respectful to her she will love you more then her daughter but may be her love was not in my naseeb lol
mashaAllah love your personality & you are very sensible this is why your family system is so strong & close may Allah keep you all blessed always
Can’t wait to hear part 2!
It’s will be big drama lol
@@mamakamasala can’t wait ❤️
Can you aslo speak English please?
MashaaAllah look at u now.....such a strong business all-rounder lady ...... Life teaches u sooo much ...u regret few things.... nobody is perfect....v learn by our mistakes........All's well that ends well...... Alhumdulillah ala kulle haal
Mama sad to know about ur inlaws story .Kindly guide us then how you managed after that till you got independent?
In sha Allah in my part 2
Priceless advice by Mama Jaan 😘❤ May Allah bless you and grant your mum Jannah Ameen xxx
Ameen
Ameen Ameen ya rubalallameen 😘
Mama ji your vlog was so interesting and a eye opening to take on board.
I like your mind set and the way you explained it.
I always learn alot in your talking vlogs.
May Allah reward you in this Duniyah.
This was such an amazing vlog, really loved your wisdom words. And as you have said in the end please MIL also make sure you compliment your DIL as they do feel it as they are not the maid who has come into the house. My story is very similar to your of my MIL.
I know Jani a little compliment can make daughter in law happy so why not 😘
@@mamakamasala so true 😘
Mama Jaan this vlog made me cry, what a beautiful woman you are may Allah always bless you with so much happiness xx
Bless u mama u made me cry . Your mum was exactly like my mum
Great video. I hardly comment on videos but loved hearing ur views and stories! Such a sweet and caring person u are 💞💞💞
Jazakallah ma jan 😘
Mamma giving some very valuable advice! Thanks 🙏🏼
Thanx for sharing lovely, learned alot from your life story, May Allah maghfirat your parents, Ellahi ameen
Beautifully explained how to make a healthy relationship with MIL & DIL
MashaAllah 💖
All days never same.... Every girl should understand... Things change... Times change....... .. Bada banna Hai tho bahut bada dil rakhna chaahiye...
.....extended family... Don't go into each others room...that is alone space..TV room is meeting room
Mama I listen to you always I also listened to your vlog about being in hospital you been through so much your life is v inspiring allah blessed you with amazing children and wealth and blessings and hereaftr you will get even bigger reward may allah protect you and your fam😘❤️
Jazakallah ma jan May Allah make all your dua qabool Ameen Ameen ya rubalallameen 😘
Salam , Sabia sis u really are an inspiration. I hv 1 daughter inlaw,I try my very best to be like a mother and a friend to her,but I hv to say I'm struggling 🤲
Wowww.... I think no body in this whole world could have explained so well.... Wowwwe every word mama told was true... So true.. So true...... Every girl n mother.. Mother inlaw... Daughter inlaw.. Father inlaws.. Father.. Sisters... Nanad.. Bhabi.. .. Should listen this vedio. ..... Thank you so much..... I cried as I listened.... Whole vedio... ... . May Allah bless you always always...
Jazakallah sweetheart may Allah bless you ameen
Asalaam alaikum, Alhamdulilah I watched your volg it was very good… I took note for myself for the future in shah Allah.
But however when you said to sit your mother in law down and communicate with them, I can not speak for others, but what I experience or realised was that if something upset me or caused problems or it hurt 😢 me she would do it more Vigorously… so for me communication didn’t work… all the best looking forward to part 2
Jazakallah khair
Mashallah thank you so much for being open about your life
I love you vlogs always Allah apko khush rakhe hamari duaa apke saath hai.
Straight forward baat achi hoti hai
Amazing.
Love listening to u so soothing and best advise for us as a bahu thankyou
Mashallha wonderful words ap ne boht she bat ke hy boht acha samjhya hy
Please share your educational journey as well.. you are such an inspiration 😊
I wait for ur vlogs im going to put my baby to sleep then relax in bed and watch love love love this family ❤❤❤❤ esp mama
Love you more and more ma jan 😘
Great messages at the end ... Mashallah...u are a great lady...
Your mum was a gem ❤
Many things you said I can totally relate to
Very very accurate video I have experienced the bad and the good most things u said is like my story
I think most of us has the same story May Allah bless us ameen 😘
@@mamakamasala Ameen sumameen love u mama jan
Mama I feel for you. You had a tough time and although it was long ago the pain is always stays with you .Inlaws don't understand the impact there interference can have on someone's marriage.Honey moon period is supposed to be the best time but that time never comes back and that hurt never goes. When it's there own daughter it's another story.
Agreed the pain stays forever…..scars😳
So so accurate totally agree with you
Karma gets evry1 no matter wt
Very informative video for those who haven’t experienced this yet.
You are very brave for not just talking good of yourself
You are honest
Thank you and can’t wait for more topics
Love you and stay blessed Mama ❤️
Good mama 💖
My story is very similar to yours sister. You are very strong Mashallah
I love listening to you and fam. I don't speak the language you do but I enjoy hearing it. 💗 Thank you
Hi
Can you give me what hup no
Also some people will never change a bad mother inlaw cannot b a mother..
U mashallah are a great mother inlaw.
U are 100% right dont keep ur sons with you they need there own space.
So many marriages fall apart because of input of inlaws
MashAllah ! your mother was a very sensible & intelligent woman ( May Allah grant her jannah) you have definitely very well described the difference between a confident strong & understanding woman & a deep rooted over confident woman stay humble stay true stay blessed
Nice vlog mama. Can you talk about your sister please the kind of relation you had between you as you never spoken about her, I thought you had no sister until this vlog.
درگزر اور برداشت اور صبر ہی کی پوسٹ ہے
I’m a pahtoon woman I can relate ….but after 22years of marriage I’m on same possessions !ill still say to there wrong Stuff or it’s right 😄😄
So much love for you ❤❤❤ you've been through so many hardships and Allah has blessed you in return with beautiful, loving, supportive children Alhamdullilah. May we all be blessed with the same Insha'Allah 🙏❤
zabardast topic
MashAllah beautiful vlog❤
Super duper 👏
If only all the mother inlaws were like your mum and you there wouldnt be so many divorces and kids wouldnt get ruined sometimes no matter what a duaghter inlaw does shes not excepted just because shes not white or as good looking and they make her life hell until they fill their sons head up to the point he divorces the girl and then that man goes onto marry another women whilst the girl is left with the kids and left to cope with the taboo of divorce. I just wonder how these people sleep at night after causing so much damage they show pride their sons divorced someones daughter and disowned his kids how is that fair do they not think they will have to pay a price for it in the here after
Bilkul sahi kaha aap na. Aik dafa bahoo ka dil ma nafrat aajai tou door nahi ho skti. Aisa hi hta ha. Mera sath bhi aisa huwa.
Beautuful person and beautiful advice . Har chez sabar sa kaam lena chaya
The kids are sitting in the car so patiently....
Allahumdolilah the r good kids but sometimes shitan hit them badly lol
Wow you have said what is in my heart ❤
I feel you sis, in same situation
U r great lady great experience 🌹🌹🌹
Literally your each word is 100% mama g
MASHALLAH MASHALLAH MASHALLAH Aunty.....i listened to ur whole vlog and u have given me so many tips and wisdom bless u Aunty😘😘😘 Aunty u always make me feel better and grateful for the life i have😍 MAY ALLAH GIVE U THE GREATEST HEALTH AND HAPPINESS IN THE WHOLE ENTIRE UNIVERSE THAT U FORGET ALL UR SORROWS INSHALLAH ELAHI AMEEN 🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲❤❤❤🥰🥰😘😘
My heart breaks for u ur such a strong woman mashAllah I never comment but I felt I should may Allah bless u with his mercy and may he give us all strength and humility like u mama ❤ I love ur vlogs I feel I learn so much from u
Awww 🥰 thank you so much for your beautiful comment love you 😘
@@mamakamasala love u too!!!!
Subhanallah.apke ame janate hi inshallah..🤲Or apko Allah pak buhad khoshe dy ameen.
Aameen
Ameen Ameen Allah app ko khosh rakay ameen
yo hal dy .g zamung hum da hal wo.kho Allah pak shta.
انسان کی نیچر کا دا حل ہے میں اب تک شاکار ہوں شکر ہے الہ کا
Very interesting & informative vlog.
Mashallah
its true ki apni saas se commumnication kare par agar saas ko koi baat hi na samjh aye toh kya kare agar saas apne baat pe stubborn ho toh kya kare
Love this video ❤️
It’s always the juicy stories that are not in English. Would have loved to know the story
Beautiful vlog 💕
....be kind..life is easy then
True
beautiful words of wisdom mama...May Allah grant your parents highest status in jannah.Ameen...can't wait for the next part..
Allha apko sehat zandgi Dy khoshien dy kamebian Dy ameen sum ameen apki batten sunkr bhot Rona aeia
Very interesting. Jazzak Allah for sharing
Hat time ba e mangta naseehat kol. Bless u mama
very very true wat all u said.....😊
Excellent sabeeha good job
Jub main ne ap ka vlog suna to mjh bht Rona Aya ayse hi Hota h aj kl
Very inspiring video
omG mama i wish this was in English! Does someone mind giving me a summary? JazakAllah Kheir & Jummua Mubarak to you and yours.
Allah I feel so guilty when some of you don’t understand honestly really feel bad but I ask Nafia the same vlog we will make in English but little short 😘
Yes mashaallha thanks mama lovely
same my story. m bhi isi tarah or isi tension say. desperation. m. chali gai thi abhi tak.
U r such a strong woman u r inspiration
I wish you do those videos in English as I am one of your English speaking fans 🥺
Mama thankyou for sharing you're experience and advice. You really are an inspirational woman and a lovely humble soul. Love you mama ❤️❤️❤️
Love you more meree jan
@@mamakamasala ❤️❤️❤️
MashaAllah bht pyri hn ap apka andaaz
Lovely to know ur thoughts& feelings Mama Sabiha. MILs& DILs can be equally good or vicious. Sometimes both can be jealous& envious of each other. The main point is where& when to draw the line of fair ness in each relationship. Also to know how far one can give in to a relationship. Each one has her own experiences; some learn& become wiser. Some do not.
True jan 100%
Salam sister ap ny sai baaty khi liken yeh sab hamry familys may asa he hoty hy ap ka velogs buit achy hoty hy ap buit himmat waly lady hy may ap k velg deaty ho i from birmingham
Ma sha Allah
I can feel your pain in your eyes. You were right they should not have treaded you as they treated you.
Mama agr saas ko maa smjhney k baad bhi wo maa na bney to phr kia kre
You have been through alot. It's difficult when you dont get support from all end.
Well done 👏very well explained mama relations between maaika and susraal.
Sad...most people just want unpaid maid ...most houses
Your mum and you are beautiful people, I feel women like your mum and you are ladies of Jannat, ❤️❤️❤️❤️ you are 💯 right everything you said I agree totally and I understand.ALLAH SWT bless my dear you are very beautiful person ❤️❤️
You have very nice soul 🥰
Ameen sum Ameen
Mama jaan first of all I like to say I luv you so much I couldn't help but to be tearful secondly you kept saying your mother inlaw never hit you or swear at you but you were definitely mentally and emotionally abused which is far worse and you get scarred for the rest of your life this mother inlaw daughter inlaw relationship works equally both ways and also the son has a part to fulfil both ways which they are not capable of sadly 😔 that's the biggest problem any relationship is about equal give and take stay blessed mama jaan you are one of a kind any room for another daughter I would luv to be your 4th daughter 😍
Allah taala apki ami ko jannat ma alaw muqaam dain. Agar unho na bahoo ka sath acha kia ab wo unka lia sadqa jariya ban gya. Jo nahi ker rha unka peicha koi dua kerna wala bhi nahi higa