Had no contact for 3 months, started learning about self concept and doing law of assumption. He reached out and we are meeting for a coffee. This stuff really works. Men respond to no contact, not chasing and needy behaviour.
Hi..I wrote a letter to my SP and he didn't respond . I'm wandering if I can do this law of assumption and living in the and enjoying life and attract him back?
@@jeyanthiretnam1216yes What Natalie speaks about is live for you and understand you are the prize Be comfortable that you are all you need and everything will work out as you want or even better Stop chasing and a lot of that includes doing anything regarding manifesting
Nathalie you are a piece of gold . I listen of all your videos and they help me so much. At one time i was in a state of neediness, lack and my SP went away from me , i was in a desesperate state. So i took a deep breath and let it go and gave up chasing and she gradually came back to me. For now as she came back, i have focused on myself i do not contact her through social medias and let her contact me first. I made mistakes by chasing her too much. I can feel the lack of her in my 3D reality and so i focus upon something else. Easy to say but not so easy to cop with
Had no contact for on and off, I’ve been focusing on me and now he is asking me out for dinner, yes it works, I just imagine what I want and I feel it too, now he is chasing me Ben broken up one year and 6 months
Been in no contact for 2.5 months now. I am focusing on me and being happy with myself. I have let him go tho. If he comes, well and good otherwise I will be getting new love for sure💖 Don't/can't be stuck on the same person.
That part about checking social media - I felt it 😂😂😂 Btw you know what I realized? My Sp and I had a bad breakup and took me a year of NC to finally feel better about the idea of being with smb again (the fact I left a job that was messing me up helped too with my mental state back then) Then soon after, I got a message from him being super sorry and showing up in ways I had not expected (but always said if we were to be together again I would only accept him if he'd changed- so I guess he reflected that then). Now we are back to the start in a way, I initiated the breakup because of his lack of commitment and such, and looking back, it's like I saw it coming. I had my own limiting beliefs regarding him, and as my own therapist said, his noncommittal attitude reflected a part of me that was scared of commitments in every aspect of my life 🤯 so yeah Im working on myself now and regaining myself and standing by my standards and choices and I do hope he puts in the work he needs to become a better person too, because I do think we are made for each other. But tl;dr it's true, what we think and feel catches up to us and our 3d in one way or another. If we can see the negative manifestations, why should we not believe in the possibility of positive manifestations, and of changing ourselves for the better.
Yes, exactly I felt I was chasing her in my mind and wondering why she isn’t with me and why I’m still looking at the 3d and my old story and knowing that I’m the cause and my world is the effect and know that she finally realized that I’m the only one that she wants to be and is already with instead of going back to the old version of her and I anymore or seeing things that are unwanted to my desire in my reality!
The only way it could have worked was if I took away the alternative supply to what I provided. She was constantly attached to her phone, and her mom wanted to break things up between us. Remove the moms access and the odds of success go up. Still trying to recover and be more positive in my thinking. She was always going to be looking to those who pretended to care, distance could have kept the haters at Bay. Wish things could have gone the way I designed.
I needed this so bad! I did really good for like a week and I fell for that Insta trap again. I didn’t see anything special, but her jammin with some friends and that „one“ guy… I was like „holy cow“ for about 15 mins but then cooled myself down and told myself that my manifestation will come to me and some things just take time. I saw it as a sign that I still have to work on my issues and the time is just not right yet. Thanks Natalie for getting right on point again and grounding me once more haha
I am more relaxed now and worked on my anxiety. I just struggle to have faith that he will come back to me and leave the 3rd party for good this time. Do you really think its possible if there is a 3rd party? Its been 4 months since he went back to her
I am in the same situation girl, i feel like he went back to the evil ex again, don’t give up!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! We are better than the evil ex and we need to assume that he will wake up and realize that we are better for him and the evil ex will finally disappear for good and never come back
I really like someone I had a physical/emotional connection with. He moved so we became friends. I still want more. But should I just take that as he doesn’t want more and it wasn’t meant to be?
Hi Natalie.I am in love with my bf and he said he needs time to think as he does not feel the same way about me ( he doesnt feel the spark but thinks am an amazing person) and while i want to manifest a dream life with him including marriage I wonder if i am infringing on his free will by energetically affirming and manifesting my desire or not giving way to another person in my life who could be my actual soulmate . Manifestation has been generally very easy for me in all aspects of life but when it comes to a person esp my future husband am always confused and eventually end up being needy which ends up in dissolution of the relationship 😢
In my case I’m the one who cheated. He told me to get help and stop acting like I can’t fix this. It’s been 5 months and he just blocked me on instagram. It feels hopeless. I’ve been in so much therapy and realized who I never want to be again, and don’t know if there’s any hope to show him I’m different…
Lovely video!!! Question: If we are manifesting an SP and when we think of them we are either affirming or thinking good thoughts(most of the time) is that still “chasing” energetically? I get confused on whether I need to stop thinking about my SP completely because I’m afraid maybe it’s repelling them away? Thank you for such a wonderful reminder! ❤
Not chasing unless your needy and anxious and obsessive for it! For them! You wanna feel like lightly Juicily joyfully… about it! Anything less than that I would pop them to the side and focus on loving you! Xx
Thanks for your helpful updates I have a question for you ! When we split I was needy for 2 years !!!! She started messaging regularly after that always going on about meeting up and we did once - however this year I’ve been getting contact from her every 2 months still going on about meeting up then disappears and I don’t message chasing etc ! Yes she’s doing this to see if I’m still around then when she knows I am she’s off for another 2 months ! What do I do I’ve been on dates with others
Dear Natalie! Your advices are great! I stopped chasing and looking for explanation... Wrote him goodbye note and let it GO... The same day he text me, saying he is suffering because I suffer. He told me he wants to talk but also saying he wants to leave. Why he wants to talk to me if he wants to leave? Isnt talking including finding solution to stay together? He told me decision isnt finala but he wants to leave and wants to talk just to have relief... I dont get this?! How should I act?
How can I do that? Today he didnt text me at all. I wrote good night je wrote it back same. Nothing else... It seems like he doesnt care and saying those stuff just to feel better himself... He said we will talk but he is not in hurry to do it rast. Also, he said he will fight forus, but I dont see he is doing anything for us... I start to feel awful... What can I do?
How to stope feeling like that ?,I am energiticly chasing him and it challnging because the 3d is showing me alot of pairs while the sp is not therw yet.I am doing meditations ,affirmations but still feeling exhousted.😞
I enjoyed this video so much because it is very insightful and encouraging. I love being alone because i can just do me and not worry about anything. Ive been in no contact for 8 months and its been the best feeling ever, i do affirmations, meditating, i do everything i can to make my inner part of myself happy and joyfulness. I do things that bring me peace and happiness, like i have mentioned in a different video of yours that i believe that a employee at the FedEx job site where i do security for secretly is attracted to me. It shows more as time goes by and it makes me happy. Like yesterday when i was going to go fill up my water jug of water i was saying my affirmations and she looks up and with a big smile she looks at me and says hello, of course i said hello back. At the end of her shift she walks by and im still doing my affirmations and she smiles at me again then when she drives off she smiles and waves at me. My affirmations are as follows 1) im confident 2) im brilliant 3) im unique 4) im attractive 5) i will not chase 6) i will not be needy I do that for the most part of my shift every day
@@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop thank you for the support and encouragement it's very appreciated. My desire for my ex is insanely high and it drives me to keep doing what I'm doing. However, it's the desire, not the need, or want that drives me, it's my desire. My need and want is for me to tell myself that I need to continue to workout, better my life, and continue to follow God.
What if i just totally blew up … texted him 8 times cause he pulled away just when things were great snd he was pursuing me and saying he wanted to invest in me ? Back story… we’ve known each other for almost 3 years long-distance. We have never actually met in person he’s been dating someone for the past year but seem like she really got him invested financially I randomly just said hi to him one day after over a year and we started chatting, and he completely went from friendship into wanting more and I wasn’t even looking for it. He told me he was breaking up with his girlfriend but it was complicated and it was gonna take some time he’s away fighting the fires in BC right now and we were talking for a good month and a half and everything was amazing. He was talking about the future and meeting up and how much she wanted to invest in me and us then when I put some boundaries up and told him that I wanted to keep it just friends for now until he figure out everything with his stuff things started to go wrong. He started backing away slowly, and then just today I just I told him you can’t turn friendship on and off like a light switch and I told him exactly how I felt. I was honest and I was kind and I got nothing back even though he was reading the messages. How do I get them back from all that?
Had no contact for 3 months, started learning about self concept and doing law of assumption. He reached out and we are meeting for a coffee. This stuff really works. Men respond to no contact, not chasing and needy behaviour.
I love it!!!!!!! I am so proud of you and thank you for sharing too! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
I claim this for me as well❤
Hi..I wrote a letter to my SP and he didn't respond . I'm wandering if I can do this law of assumption and living in the and enjoying life and attract him back?
@@jeyanthiretnam1216yes
What Natalie speaks about is live for you and understand you are the prize
Be comfortable that you are all you need and everything will work out as you want or even better
Stop chasing and a lot of that includes doing anything regarding manifesting
Nathalie you are a piece of gold . I listen of all your videos and they help me so much. At one time i was in a state of neediness, lack and my SP went away from me , i was in a desesperate state. So i took a deep breath and let it go and gave up chasing and she gradually came back to me. For now as she came back, i have focused on myself i do not contact her through social medias and let her contact me first. I made mistakes by chasing her too much. I can feel the lack of her in my 3D reality and so i focus upon something else. Easy to say but not so easy to cop with
Had no contact for on and off, I’ve been focusing on me and now he is asking me out for dinner, yes it works, I just imagine what I want and I feel it too, now he is chasing me Ben broken up one year and 6 months
Took him one year and six months to come back ? So long
“I am going to be the one chosen and prioritized by my person now.” Amen! Thank you Natalie! 👏🏻
❤️🙌🙌🙌🙌
Been in no contact for 2.5 months now. I am focusing on me and being happy with myself. I have let him go tho. If he comes, well and good otherwise I will be getting new love for sure💖 Don't/can't be stuck on the same person.
Circumstances do not matter . I matter I am chosen everything is always working out for me ❤
That part about checking social media - I felt it 😂😂😂
Btw you know what I realized? My Sp and I had a bad breakup and took me a year of NC to finally feel better about the idea of being with smb again (the fact I left a job that was messing me up helped too with my mental state back then)
Then soon after, I got a message from him being super sorry and showing up in ways I had not expected (but always said if we were to be together again I would only accept him if he'd changed- so I guess he reflected that then). Now we are back to the start in a way, I initiated the breakup because of his lack of commitment and such, and looking back, it's like I saw it coming. I had my own limiting beliefs regarding him, and as my own therapist said, his noncommittal attitude reflected a part of me that was scared of commitments in every aspect of my life 🤯 so yeah Im working on myself now and regaining myself and standing by my standards and choices and I do hope he puts in the work he needs to become a better person too, because I do think we are made for each other.
But tl;dr it's true, what we think and feel catches up to us and our 3d in one way or another. If we can see the negative manifestations, why should we not believe in the possibility of positive manifestations, and of changing ourselves for the better.
Yes, exactly I felt I was chasing her in my mind and wondering why she isn’t with me and why I’m still looking at the 3d and my old story and knowing that I’m the cause and my world is the effect and know that she finally realized that I’m the only one that she wants to be and is already with instead of going back to the old version of her and I anymore or seeing things that are unwanted to my desire in my reality!
Update?
My SP broke up with me today. Praying this works
I do this too much. Keep thinking of her and outcomes even though she is seeing someone.
Thanks! Things are always working out for me. What I want wants me. 😊
❤️
I started laughing at the checking time stamps.
I'm not, I thank you, keep spreading love 😍
Does anyone else struggle, at times, to let go of the “mistakes” you made in the previous relationship with SP? If so, any tips on how to let it go?
Yes! It’s a part of healing and forgiving yourself and them that will help you and having a self love practice xxxx
If the person means anything in that time apart you'll forgive each other.
@@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDropthank you!!
The only way it could have worked was if I took away the alternative supply to what I provided. She was constantly attached to her phone, and her mom wanted to break things up between us. Remove the moms access and the odds of success go up. Still trying to recover and be more positive in my thinking. She was always going to be looking to those who pretended to care, distance could have kept the haters at Bay. Wish things could have gone the way I designed.
I needed this so bad! I did really good for like a week and I fell for that Insta trap again. I didn’t see anything special, but her jammin with some friends and that „one“ guy… I was like „holy cow“ for about 15 mins but then cooled myself down and told myself that my manifestation will come to me and some things just take time. I saw it as a sign that I still have to work on my issues and the time is just not right yet.
Thanks Natalie for getting right on point again and grounding me once more haha
Bless you! You got this xxxxx
Omg time stamps on whatapp 😢 totally 😊
Thankyou so much ❤
Much love ❤️
Thank you so much for your information... Really appreciate and very Greatful for the video..
Thank you so much xxx
you are looking well Natalie 😉
Thank you
Ive never chased my SP. He's always the one calling me. And he tells me he loves talking to me on the phone.
I am more relaxed now and worked on my anxiety. I just struggle to have faith that he will come back to me and leave the 3rd party for good this time. Do you really think its possible if there is a 3rd party? Its been 4 months since he went back to her
Yes 🙌
I am in the same situation girl, i feel like he went back to the evil ex again, don’t give up!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! We are better than the evil ex and we need to assume that he will wake up and realize that we are better for him and the evil ex will finally disappear for good and never come back
I really like someone I had a physical/emotional connection with. He moved so we became friends. I still want more. But should I just take that as he doesn’t want more and it wasn’t meant to be?
Hi Natalie.I am in love with my bf and he said he needs time to think as he does not feel the same way about me ( he doesnt feel the spark but thinks am an amazing person) and while i want to manifest a dream life with him including marriage I wonder if i am infringing on his free will by energetically affirming and manifesting my desire or not giving way to another person in my life who could be my actual soulmate . Manifestation has been generally very easy for me in all aspects of life but when it comes to a person esp my future husband am always confused and eventually end up being needy which ends up in dissolution of the relationship 😢
Self love go all in on you
In my case I’m the one who cheated. He told me to get help and stop acting like I can’t fix this. It’s been 5 months and he just blocked me on instagram. It feels hopeless. I’ve been in so much therapy and realized who I never want to be again, and don’t know if there’s any hope to show him I’m different…
Lovely video!!! Question: If we are manifesting an SP and when we think of them we are either affirming or thinking good thoughts(most of the time) is that still “chasing” energetically? I get confused on whether I need to stop thinking about my SP completely because I’m afraid maybe it’s repelling them away?
Thank you for such a wonderful reminder! ❤
Not chasing unless your needy and anxious and obsessive for it! For them! You wanna feel like lightly Juicily joyfully… about it! Anything less than that I would pop them to the side and focus on loving you! Xx
Thank you so much for clarifying!!
I've send him plenty of messages and chased him. Now he won't speak to me I just feel so bad I hope he will be back at all 😢
Self love is what you need lovely xxx
Thanks for your helpful updates I have a question for you !
When we split I was needy for 2 years !!!! She started messaging regularly after that always going on about meeting up and we did once - however this year I’ve been getting contact from her every 2 months still going on about meeting up then disappears and I don’t message chasing etc ! Yes she’s doing this to see if I’m still around then when she knows I am she’s off for another 2 months ! What do I do I’ve been on dates with others
Be faithful to the story you want!
Everyone is you pushed out xxx
Dear Natalie! Your advices are great! I stopped chasing and looking for explanation... Wrote him goodbye note and let it GO... The same day he text me, saying he is suffering because I suffer. He told me he wants to talk but also saying he wants to leave. Why he wants to talk to me if he wants to leave? Isnt talking including finding solution to stay together? He told me decision isnt finala but he wants to leave and wants to talk just to have relief... I dont get this?! How should I act?
Focus on what you want! I’ve been there before! Turn your mind and focus to only what you want! Change what he said around to what you want xx
How can I do that? Today he didnt text me at all. I wrote good night je wrote it back same. Nothing else... It seems like he doesnt care and saying those stuff just to feel better himself... He said we will talk but he is not in hurry to do it rast. Also, he said he will fight forus, but I dont see he is doing anything for us... I start to feel awful... What can I do?
How to stope feeling like that ?,I am energiticly chasing him and it challnging because the 3d is showing me alot of pairs while the sp is not therw yet.I am doing meditations ,affirmations but still feeling exhousted.😞
Put the energy into you first and get centred
@@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop
Thank you💖
Sorry Natalie, but for some countries the membership cost of the channel is quite big. Maybe you will take this into consideration.
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I enjoyed this video so much because it is very insightful and encouraging.
I love being alone because i can just do me and not worry about anything. Ive been in no contact for 8 months and its been the best feeling ever, i do affirmations, meditating, i do everything i can to make my inner part of myself happy and joyfulness.
I do things that bring me peace and happiness, like i have mentioned in a different video of yours that i believe that a employee at the FedEx job site where i do security for secretly is attracted to me. It shows more as time goes by and it makes me happy.
Like yesterday when i was going to go fill up my water jug of water i was saying my affirmations and she looks up and with a big smile she looks at me and says hello, of course i said hello back.
At the end of her shift she walks by and im still doing my affirmations and she smiles at me again then when she drives off she smiles and waves at me.
My affirmations are as follows
1) im confident
2) im brilliant
3) im unique
4) im attractive
5) i will not chase
6) i will not be needy
I do that for the most part of my shift every day
Amazing!!!!! Keep doing it xxx
@@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop thank you for the support and encouragement it's very appreciated. My desire for my ex is insanely high and it drives me to keep doing what I'm doing. However, it's the desire, not the need, or want that drives me, it's my desire. My need and want is for me to tell myself that I need to continue to workout, better my life, and continue to follow God.
What if i just totally blew up … texted him 8 times cause he pulled away just when things were great snd he was pursuing me and saying he wanted to invest in me ?
Back story… we’ve known each other for almost 3 years long-distance. We have never actually met in person he’s been dating someone for the past year but seem like she really got him invested financially I randomly just said hi to him one day after over a year and we started chatting, and he completely went from friendship into wanting more and I wasn’t even looking for it. He told me he was breaking up with his girlfriend but it was complicated and it was gonna take some time he’s away fighting the fires in BC right now and we were talking for a good month and a half and everything was amazing. He was talking about the future and meeting up and how much she wanted to invest in me and us then when I put some boundaries up and told him that I wanted to keep it just friends for now until he figure out everything with his stuff things started to go wrong. He started backing away slowly, and then just today I just I told him you can’t turn friendship on and off like a light switch and I told him exactly how I felt. I was honest and I was kind and I got nothing back even though he was reading the messages.
How do I get them back from all that?
Change the story and get a self love practice
All links to my coaching options are below lovely xxxx