i have no idea what i’m doing, and that’s okay - starting over at 30 (ft. walkingpad c2)

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  • @WesleyAnna
    @WesleyAnna  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Get 30% off your own foldable walkingpad!! 🏃 www.walkingpad.com/itswesleyanna

  • @sfshawty
    @sfshawty 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    this video felt like a warm hug! ❤ going through a similar transition in life- moved out at 18 and now i'm back home at 29. feels very "back to square one" but the move has allowed me to reconnect with family, friends, and ultimately, myself. so happy i stumbled across your video and truly looking forward to seeing what this next chapter has in store for you! 🥲

    • @WesleyAnna
      @WesleyAnna  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@sfshawty I’m so happy the move back has been a positive experience for you 🤝🏼🙂‍↕️it’s a tough choice to make but can bring so much good!

  • @chriis.tine02
    @chriis.tine02 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I recently came across your TH-cam channel and it feels like getting advice from a big sister. As a 22 year old who has 0 clue what she is doing, I have to say that your videos are extremely comforting to watch. Can't wait for future videos. Warm hugs from Norway!:)

  • @annemirasol7657
    @annemirasol7657 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    love this vlog. 💛 and the suprise at the end, melts my heart!!! you are growing. thank you for letting us in, being vunerable and honest and sharing these parts of your life.

    • @WesleyAnna
      @WesleyAnna  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      appreciate you for being here 🤝🏼

  • @jd5175
    @jd5175 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I found this crazy relatable for so many reasons. Also, Tomorrow, and Tomorrow, and Tomorrow hit me really hard. Congrats on Momo!

    • @WesleyAnna
      @WesleyAnna  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      It’s so good I want to reread it already and it’s only been a few months 😭

  • @hanekds6119
    @hanekds6119 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    No matter what you do, where you are heading to, we are here for you! Love taging along your journey :)

    • @WesleyAnna
      @WesleyAnna  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you 🥺

  • @arlyjuarez
    @arlyjuarez 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I have been following your journey for a while and I am so excited for this new chapter in your life. Congrats on your new puppy! 💗

  • @thetahjsimmons
    @thetahjsimmons หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    your def not alone , i feel less crazy knowing that im not alone going through it tookeep being awesome

  • @Lswat717Ent
    @Lswat717Ent 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hey really enjoying this video and the energy that was put in and I love how the TH-cam community shows love on people chasing their dreams

  • @haikino
    @haikino 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    thank you for sharing all your thoughts about how you have been feeling lately and thoughts you have been having, I think a lot of us can relate to many of the things you say

  • @jeany7107
    @jeany7107 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    I live in nyc, and it has changed. The city isn’t as opulent as it used to be a decade ago. It’s the current state of the economy. It’s astounding that even two hardworking young people go through situations like this. Fortunately you have supportive parents ❤.

    • @WesleyAnna
      @WesleyAnna  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Times have certainly changed 🙂‍↕️ but definitely grateful for a support system

  • @ameliaroselle
    @ameliaroselle 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you for always sharing your life and thoughts with us, even the messy uncertain parts. Your honesty and reflections are what make your content shine and i often feel like you're voicing many of my own thoughts. I very much relate to getting older and your life vision not holding the same appeal it used to and grappling with maybe the life you used to dream about is not really the life you want anymore. To me, the plans/visions are bench marks -- there is no "end goal" -- and that the visions/plans change over time as we change too. Its still hard tho haha. Which is to say we are all in this boat together!!! Also your puppy is too precious 🥺🥺🥺

    • @WesleyAnna
      @WesleyAnna  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes trying to remind myself that it’s just an ongoing process 🥲🤍

  • @zainabh46
    @zainabh46 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    always love a good ✨car chat✨ somehow you always put into words the exact feelings I have, love you and your content❤

  • @ZoeZhang2019
    @ZoeZhang2019 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hello Anna, this is the third video I watched on your channel (the first one is about Notion, then laolao). I am also about to turn 31, and I am super anxious for having no specific goal or idea about what I am going to do with my life after being one year unemployed. As you said, slow down in order to go fast. Thanks for sharing your ideas, I found there are so many common characters in us... yes, we are together! And I'm from China, feeling very grateful to encounter you💙

    • @WesleyAnna
      @WesleyAnna  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@ZoeZhang2019 glad we found each other!! 🥹

  • @WhaChuUpTo
    @WhaChuUpTo 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Every time you have one of these sit down monologues is when I relate to you the most. It's like you are literally saying out loud, the words that are in a jumble in my head.
    As someone who was laid off this year from her tech job and trying content for the first time, I can completely feel you on the sentiment of "starting over".
    Also, I'm not even planning a wedding but my days just seem to fly by faster than I can process. I just moved too which also amplifies the destabilising feeling that I'm starting anew (building up a new home).
    It is a lot and yet I constantly feel like I'm not doing anything of purpose and achievement.
    Our barometer for ourselves is always the highest so I just want to tell you as an outsider human that you are doing so much and are so impressive and we are proud of you even if you sometimes are not proud of yourself. 🥲

    • @WesleyAnna
      @WesleyAnna  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you 🥲 looks like we’re never as alone in these messes as we think!!

  • @GyasiBarber
    @GyasiBarber 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Girl you keep living. That's a great plan.

  • @jalengu8830
    @jalengu8830 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks for letting us be witnesses of your journey (in the context of listening and understanding)! Meaning and identity always ebb and flow (you mentioned this in the moving out video), hope it arrives soon and gently.

  • @brandigardner8365
    @brandigardner8365 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I feel the EXACT same about being my own tiger parent holy moly. I teared up when you were talking about that because every time I complete something I feel like "I should have" not "yay i got something done" so i'm constaqntly putting pressure on myself to do more. Love this content and your content on tools to use! Can't wait for more.

    • @WesleyAnna
      @WesleyAnna  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It's a never ending cycle of self-bullying 🥲

  • @dashafilms
    @dashafilms 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    thank you for sharing your thoughts and emotions and being so vulnerable and open

  • @reneesu9772
    @reneesu9772 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hi Wesley! I’m 25, grew up in SoCal and am contemplating a move to NYC right now. I’m apartment hunting in Brooklyn as I type this comment. There’s a lot of uncertainty and existential dread running through me right now (I’m also a fellow anxious over thinker) and I just wanted to say that this video actually really comforted me.
    I’m scared of moving to NYC and leaving behind my home in California and that it’ll all be different if/when I decide to move back. I think it’s comforting to see that you did the big city girl thing but were able to come back to your California home as a time for reset and rejuvenation and that you were still able to take pleasure in the small things (like a sunset with your toes in the Pacific ocean). It shows me that you can grow and still hold onto the parts of you that you cherish. Thank you ❤

    • @WesleyAnna
      @WesleyAnna  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@reneesu9772 leaving home will only make you cherish it more. if you want to go, do it! You can always come back :)

  • @sunshinemindset8497
    @sunshinemindset8497 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I’m in my late forties and still sorting my shit out lol 😊 love your content. Very relatable x and Momo is ADORABLE 🥰

  • @makenawinter2222
    @makenawinter2222 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    thank you for sharing your current situation. i feel less alone. i'm entering my late twenties and I'm having a hard time accepting that I'm not where I thought I would be. I thought i'd be living in a house on my own and married, but I still live at home with parents in an apartment. This economy is the absolute worst.

    • @WesleyAnna
      @WesleyAnna  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      We're all on our own paths, I'm sure what's meant for you will come

  • @cgr8tness412
    @cgr8tness412 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you for sharing and communicating your thoughts, emotions, simply being honest. We in this together new subscriber appreciate your vulnerability !

  • @tamanna.sarkar
    @tamanna.sarkar 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I can totally relate to the frustration of selecting a wedding dress. I'm getting so tense even thinking about it as my wedding is in a couple months. Any advice will be helpful and also best of luck . Hope you get your dream wedding dress.❤☺

  • @JosieMichelleDavis
    @JosieMichelleDavis 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    100% relate to how you feel about how you think you should be "more productive" because you don't have a traditional job. I'm in the same boat and everyday I feel this way. shouldn't I be getting more done? and my partner says the same things😅.Just know that it's helpful for those of us in the same boat to hear you verbalize these feelings❤

    • @WesleyAnna
      @WesleyAnna  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      The classic trade in of 9 to 5 for a 24-7 😅

  • @nergenerd10
    @nergenerd10 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    🥹🥹🥹 love a car chat so much~ ily you got this

    • @WesleyAnna
      @WesleyAnna  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ❤️

  • @Oli_BonBon
    @Oli_BonBon 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Awww I didn’t catch what kind of puppy he was? Sooo cute!! Just a ball of fur hahaha. Enjoy!!

    • @WesleyAnna
      @WesleyAnna  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      He’s a chow! So will remain a ball of fur well into adulthood 🫡

  • @TheKoffeeVerse
    @TheKoffeeVerse 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    So cute!! Congrats on your new roommate!!

  • @JenniferVlogs-Youtube
    @JenniferVlogs-Youtube 10 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    How do you make it work in a relationship? I struggle personally

  • @DinaLu
    @DinaLu 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Yes I love the kind of videos where you just talk! 😊 Whenever I visit California, I always get Philz mint mojito coffee, it's the best 🥹 CUTE TEDDY BEAR

    • @WesleyAnna
      @WesleyAnna  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Aww ty Dina! And yes Philz is the best hehe

  • @brosnowfine
    @brosnowfine 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    AHHHH PLSSSS MORE WEDDING CONTENT

    • @WesleyAnna
      @WesleyAnna  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      hehehe

  • @maydimaculangan5297
    @maydimaculangan5297 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I MISS YOUR VIDEOS! Hope you're ok.... Please upload again soon.

  • @JenniferVlogs-Youtube
    @JenniferVlogs-Youtube 10 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Wow you sound a lot like me as far as my thoughts I’m 31 and I also have some attachment issues maybe that’s not what it’s called lol but when things go wrong I quickly cut ties and off to the next adventure that part really resonated with me

  • @Viperroblox...
    @Viperroblox... หลายเดือนก่อน

    Do you live in arizona mesa

  • @raghadalqahtani2036
    @raghadalqahtani2036 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Yes I’m on of the early birds💖💖

  • @sherriedavis9754
    @sherriedavis9754 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    ❤ He is so so beautiful ❤ I have found in my life (at 72 years young never growing up) with ADD we are thinkers & dreamers with that something cuddling up with some thing fuzz and cute, outside of your significant other is always so comforting and good for us🥰💖💋💄So keep thinking 💭 & Dreaming 💖❤️💜

  • @adaml6125
    @adaml6125 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

    didn't know indoor costco food courts existed in california lol

  • @susanaye
    @susanaye 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Same but on top of that, tiger mother 😅

  • @anonymous9589
    @anonymous9589 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    NYC isn't safe anymore and the crime is getting worst. I hope you can move somewhere safe? I live in California and even here isn't safe. 7-11 convenience stores getting robbed on a daily basis.

  • @Shallow-o1o
    @Shallow-o1o 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    FREE PALESTINE 🇵🇸

  • @Zflayre
    @Zflayre 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    if you pause at 3:29 and look to her left -- you can see Girlie's 3 monitor setup that she gave her hubby shit for xD

    • @WesleyAnna
      @WesleyAnna  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That's his set-up 😅 I gave him a desk area in my room at my family's house heh

    • @Zflayre
      @Zflayre 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@WesleyAnna touche 😅 LOL

  • @TheVinDiagram
    @TheVinDiagram 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I am also 31, moved back to my hometown - and reconfiguring my own life.

    • @WesleyAnna
      @WesleyAnna  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      We go this!! 🤝🏼

  • @JenniferVlogs-Youtube
    @JenniferVlogs-Youtube 10 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Wow you sound a lot like me as far as my thoughts I’m 31 and I also have some attachment issues maybe that’s not what it’s called lol but when things go wrong I quickly cut ties and off to the next adventure that part really resonated with me