I accepted someone like this story, For me she was "Better than Perfect." In 4 years of relationship She used to forgot my birthdays, but I never complained. And what I get in return, "Break up," I would rather say it "Brutality". Shit happens, and this shit has taught me a lesson, "Focus on Yourself." End of the day you have to take care of yourself, so just go with the flow and improve yourself for yourself.
You are right! When Swamiji tells us about acceptance then he only considered set of people who are cultured at least up to some base level. That is if these people are made to understand then they are capable of thinking over it. And then there are other sets of people too! Some are not capable of understanding and some deliberately do not understand or pretend of not understanding. Those who deliberately do not understand, have different motivational values. And in that case Swamiji's advice will have no effect. World is complex and made further complicated by people who are incapacitated to understand for one reason or other.
Yes this is true in last we only left with ourselves so it is best to improve us rather than focusing on anyone . But these things are so damm easy to wrote , hard to apply in reality.
I would like to add one more thing, i.e "time," it is also required for acceptance. Accept what you have today. Shrimad Bhagwat Gita teaches us, "Nothing is permanent in this world, Everything is temporary" and it keeps changing.
Soumita - To counter this effectively some of the corrective measures must be taken on a war footing basis: 1. Drastic aversion from western patterns of lifestyle on all aspects except electronic gadgets i.e. iphones. 2. Deliberate inclination towards eternal (sanatan dharma) vedic philosophy n religiosity. 3.stop associating with people with western or so called modern mindset as much as practical. 4.cut off with all contemporary garbage like bollywood, Hollywood, tollywood, Web series, Netflix. 5. Take shelter of bhagwat Gita, srimad bhagavatam. Get connected with iskcon. Practice spirituality. 6. Avoid Allopathy as much as possible an embrace ages old n proven Ayurvedic medication. In a month or so u will see transformational DAWN in life
@@jaysrinarshinghadev4650 yes I agree with you. But at end if the person is not realize what to take from out side world or not then nothing can be changed. It's totally depend on their mindset. If they think no I'll not follow Western culture then no one can't stop him/ her. It dosen't depened on how many webseries, netflix she or he watch. Totally depends on the acceptability.
Everyone is not bad. Our society is balanced with both good and bad. It's your decision and luck whom you will get. Overall, acceptance and understanding of the person on the other end matters.
Correct, being a man I to suffered the same. During the entire relationship, she could not find a single flaw in me, out of my genuine love, faith, care and respect. One fine day, she informed me of the decision to part away, that too I accepted. She could not give a single reason for it, I accepted for her happiness. Later realised it of some other relationship, as I was staying in other state. Year later she tried to reach me, I did not responded, then saw her getting married, the getting divorced of domestic violance and what not. I still may love her, but will never communicate or accept.
@@mahenderverma1419 if you can't accept then ask your partner to change few things and if you still can't accept then your story with that partner won't end with a good note
Yeah but what if a Person has some really bad things in them and still not accept it, not wanting to change it, feeels like they are always the right one and then still wants others to accept them🙄😒
Respect to the women, because despite of so many reasons she continued to love him. He was just madly in love with her. It is very hard to love or be in relationship with someone you don't like.
Want to know the other side of story?? Girl tried to communicate and sort out things. But what boy did? He just used sweet lines to melt her. He manipulated her and made her feel guilty. On the other hand, wife felt guilty and dropped the important conversation in the middle. We need to identify red flags in relationship. Don't get manipulated by partner.
The reality is we don't put efforts but hoping for a gud result. Without putting efforts how can u expect tht things will magically turn into a beautifully well garnished relationship.
I feel there shouldn’t be anyone guiding us that what we should look in our partner. We all have different life and perceptions. But a good guiding mentor can surely help us to retain our relationship forever 🤗
@@NehaVerma-jw7fm R u married if not then u will experience after marriage because i saw my near ones always crying that his wife today do that tomorrow different things and so on....
@@snehabansode7078All men are not bad. Our society is combination of good and bad. Moreover, acceptance and understanding matters. Try to find perfection in the imperfections rather than complaining. You may be happy. 😊
Excepting someone just as they are is the key. When we get disappointed in the flaws of someone stop and tell yourself their perfect just the way they are. Because when they are no there anymore those flaws are the ones you love the most.
Whenever I feel confused about the decisions I make in life...I watch guruji's videos...somehow or other I always find something fruitful out of it. And sometimes also reading all your comments helps me a lot. Always remember whatever you can think is real.
Sooo beautiful , lotss of people in my life want me to change who am I ,I was starting change for them but after this I recognize actually there is no need to change , ur genuine love change people for good u don't need to force them to convert themselves into other person
How could a man have so much of a knowledge on every single aspects of life & all the odds which everyone facing...ty once again guruji for bringing such a wonderful lesson for us🙏
My partner accepts me the way I am.. and when I think about how I wish he should have done things we have already done... That makes me sad how I was unable to accept him as he is... But I have certainly learnt how I need to appreciate him the way he is.. ❤️
Wow.. wt a true words sir.... I really got impressed by ur words.. We find no one literally no one who accepts us by looking at the way we r.. most of the people try to change us the way they want us to be.. a sad reality.. It's really hard to find the people with same mentally as ours..
A love relationship between husband wives whether in legal binding or civil cohabiting , has to be of mutual love , respect, kindness and most importantly TRUST. Expression of love must be evident and keeping the romance alive although sex is usually the ultimate. God bless everyone who yearns for lasting true love and respect.
❤️❤️❤️ The same story happened in my life too.. I loveing her, as she is.. And she listed out my flaws.. Still i want to love her.. Because.. i want to live with her, rest of my life ❤️
If a person finds flaws in you always, that person never actually loved you in real on soul level...imperfections and flaws are Fine things changes with so do we people.
thank you for this video it cleared a part in my mind but I think still I need to watch more positive videos to keep my inner peace alive...but this video also helped me I should be thankful for that and that's why I'm posting this comment
None of us perfect for anything, we just make ourselves perfect, it's only what we see, the way we look into something with our eyes, try to see with our pure heart, everything is perfect. I just dropped my own thoughts even though I'm single. Thank you ji! Hare Ram! Radhe Radhe Jaya Krishna!!!🙏❤
Beautiful..very true..neither partner is perfect..when two people are courting they try to be their be there best to each other as it is a short time.. But it's a completely different that same two persons start living under one roof..the one another may see flaws of another but compromising with each other is the best medicine for a healthy marriage.. Trying to change the partner towards the way the other wants is the beginning of the disaster..changing someone's life pattern to best suit to your way will be only temporary as the real you will surely come out someday.. If both can accept and respect the two individualism is the healthy relationship as good friends..
Listening to u is so soulful....wish these soulful thoughts cud reach to the depths of 1 billion of us and we find peace and harmony with what we have than what we desire to have
Love the way you talk guruji.......I hear each and every word that you say with full concentration,,,,,. The more I hear you the more my soul gets brighter😍😍
Relationship has no word like perfect but love and being there for eachother is all that makes a relationship, I love my husband he is the best friend and life partner I want him to be with me until I die that's all.
I accepted someone like this story, For me she was "Better than Perfect." In 4 years of relationship She used to forgot my birthdays, but I never complained. And what I get in return, "Break up," I would rather say it "Brutality". Shit happens, and this shit has taught me a lesson, "Focus on Yourself." End of the day you have to take care of yourself, so just go with the flow and improve yourself for yourself.
You are right!
When Swamiji tells us about acceptance then he only considered set of people who are cultured at least up to some base level. That is if these people are made to understand then they are capable of thinking over it. And then there are other sets of people too! Some are not capable of understanding and some deliberately do not understand or pretend of not understanding. Those who deliberately do not understand, have different motivational values. And in that case Swamiji's advice will have no effect. World is complex and made further complicated by people who are incapacitated to understand for one reason or other.
Yes this is true in last we only left with ourselves so it is best to improve us rather than focusing on anyone . But these things are so damm easy to wrote , hard to apply in reality.
@@kritikasharma7998 Experience teaches everything.
I would like to add one more thing, i.e "time," it is also required for acceptance. Accept what you have today. Shrimad Bhagwat Gita teaches us, "Nothing is permanent in this world, Everything is temporary" and it keeps changing.
@@arora.ishank Time is everything! Rest is illusion!
In this "use & throw" society finding true love is just like finding water in a desert.
Soumita - To counter this effectively some of the corrective measures must be taken on a war footing basis:
1. Drastic aversion from western patterns of lifestyle on all aspects except electronic gadgets i.e. iphones.
2. Deliberate inclination towards eternal (sanatan dharma) vedic philosophy n religiosity.
3.stop associating with people with western or so called modern mindset as much as practical.
4.cut off with all contemporary garbage like bollywood, Hollywood, tollywood, Web series, Netflix.
5. Take shelter of bhagwat Gita, srimad bhagavatam. Get connected with iskcon. Practice spirituality.
6. Avoid Allopathy as much as possible an embrace ages old n proven Ayurvedic medication.
In a month or so u will see transformational DAWN in life
@@jaysrinarshinghadev4650 yes I agree with you. But at end if the person is not realize what to take from out side world or not then nothing can be changed.
It's totally depend on their mindset.
If they think no I'll not follow Western culture then no one can't stop him/ her. It dosen't depened on how many webseries, netflix she or he watch. Totally depends on the acceptability.
Everyone is not bad. Our society is balanced with both good and bad. It's your decision and luck whom you will get. Overall, acceptance and understanding of the person on the other end matters.
@@jitendrarout5486 yes I know everyone is not bad. That is why I mentioned "finding water in desert".
Correct, being a man I to suffered the same. During the entire relationship, she could not find a single flaw in me, out of my genuine love, faith, care and respect.
One fine day, she informed me of the decision to part away, that too I accepted. She could not give a single reason for it, I accepted for her happiness.
Later realised it of some other relationship, as I was staying in other state.
Year later she tried to reach me, I did not responded, then saw her getting married, the getting divorced of domestic violance and what not.
I still may love her, but will never communicate or accept.
Acceptance is the most important thing for every relationship.
upto which extent ??
accept with all your heart can bear.
sadly in this century mostly people are doing window shopping
@@mahenderverma1419 if you can't accept then ask your partner to change few things and if you still can't accept then your story with that partner won't end with a good note
@@Nikkhil492 i think we must apply this depending on others mentality, otherwise most of the people just use us
“Whenever you see a successful person you only see the public glories, never the private sacrifices to reach them.”
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Cuz evryone wants to be successful like them but they would never agree to the sacrifices made for those glorious achievements..
@@nikitasagar5132 yes
Because world glorify the Victor not the fight!!
In practical life we need to change ourselves many times to make them stay in our lives
Yes, acceptance and understanding matters.
It is true 100%
This is the ULTIMATE advice anyone on earth can get on replationships Gaur Gopal Das Prabhu ji. PAMHO. Hare Krishna.
No one is completely perfect... accept as they are.. great message.
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S no one is perfect because the detol even says that it kills 99.9%germs so no one is perfect..
Yeah but what if a Person has some really bad things in them and still not accept it, not wanting to change it, feeels like they are always the right one and then still wants others to accept them🙄😒
1) complete accepttence of each other
2) finding the flows in others,even to help.
Hare krishna hare krishna krishna krishna hare hare hare rama hare rama rama rama hare hare...Jai shree krishna 🙏
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@@smanikalakshmi4895 hahaha
Great Example. Really liked it
Respect to the women, because despite of so many reasons she continued to love him. He was just madly in love with her.
It is very hard to love or be in relationship with someone you don't like.
Good point
Want to know the other side of story??
Girl tried to communicate and sort out things. But what boy did? He just used sweet lines to melt her. He manipulated her and made her feel guilty.
On the other hand, wife felt guilty and dropped the important conversation in the middle.
We need to identify red flags in relationship. Don't get manipulated by partner.
@@namrataladha8798 yee this is the answer I was searching for so long.... 😊
Adjustment and sacrifice and inner satisfaction with them r the 3 main mantra of any good relationship
Man can't be perfect but relationship should be perfect.
Perfect ! Acceptance as it is makes the change .
The reality is we don't put efforts but hoping for a gud result. Without putting efforts how can u expect tht things will magically turn into a beautifully well garnished relationship.
Agreed with what Prabhuji said. I always holding "love your imperfection partner with the perfect way" 🙏🏻
I feel there shouldn’t be anyone guiding us that what we should look in our partner. We all have different life and perceptions. But a good guiding mentor can surely help us to retain our relationship forever 🤗
That’s completely true. You can take advice of a person and it will work, but only if it’s the person you wanna work your relationship with
After watching This video i feel no one is perfact. so accept your love ones with their imperfections 🤗.
Girl always want qualities in her husband so the thing you mentioned is just a text not a reality
@@prashantshirke5075 I experienced these things so i express this through my words.
@@NehaVerma-jw7fm R u married if not then u will experience after marriage because i saw my near ones always crying that his wife today do that tomorrow different things and so on....
@@prashantshirke5075 I am not agree with your opinion. Bt i also don't want to argue with u.
Right
This video is beyond any praise. To write anything in appreciation of this video here would be an insult of this video.
Yeah exactly
Yes men do that. They never do what has been told them to do....
They always tend to complaint at the wrong time and wrong place
@@snehabansode7078All men are not bad. Our society is combination of good and bad. Moreover, acceptance and understanding matters. Try to find perfection in the imperfections rather than complaining. You may be happy. 😊
Excepting someone just as they are is the key. When we get disappointed in the flaws of someone stop and tell yourself their perfect just the way they are. Because when they are no there anymore those flaws are the ones you love the most.
At the right time, I found this when I actually needed help for myself. Thank you😊
Seek genuine love not perfection 💗
Whenever I feel confused about the decisions I make in life...I watch guruji's videos...somehow or other I always find something fruitful out of it. And sometimes also reading all your comments helps me a lot. Always remember whatever you can think is real.
Sooo beautiful , lotss of people in my life want me to change who am I ,I was starting change for them but after this I recognize actually there is no need to change , ur genuine love change people for good u don't need to force them to convert themselves into other person
Absolutely
How could a man have so much of a knowledge on every single aspects of life & all the odds which everyone facing...ty once again guruji for bringing such a wonderful lesson for us🙏
Thank u Prabhu Ji ....Very Touching Indeed !! 🙏🙏✌️✌️
Such a good morning❤️
What good about morning
Gaur gopal das is perfect in his thinking and conveying us the genuine message
My partner accepts me the way I am.. and when I think about how I wish he should have done things we have already done... That makes me sad how I was unable to accept him as he is... But I have certainly learnt how I need to appreciate him the way he is.. ❤️
Wow.. wt a true words sir.... I really got impressed by ur words..
We find no one literally no one who accepts us by looking at the way we r.. most of the people try to change us the way they want us to be.. a sad reality..
It's really hard to find the people with same mentally as ours..
It's not just about the acceptance, it's about growing altogether.
Accepting the others knowing who they are .....keeping your happiness aside for them shows how much you love and care for them..👍👍
Sir, you are amazing...such hearty life lessons...would certainly bring about a drastic change in anyone listening to you.
U said exactly right 🙋♂️
Accepting everyone as they are makes the world a better place to live.
Tqs Swamiji.
Exactly this was actually the reason for the break-up 🙏🙏🙏 acceptance for who you are is very important
''don't EXPECT just ACCEPT''
We can't accept anything sometimes things are not acceptable and if we accept the we suffer
@@priyankarathore5638 Accept wisely... that's all ... but you may be wrong in choosing partner....
Easy to say,
Blind acceptance is hypocrisy
That makes ur life hell... Nothing else
Hare Krishna...Jai Srila Prabhupada... Dandobat pranam Provu ❤️ Gouranga ❤️
How sweet of you thank you love you 💕💕
A love relationship between husband wives whether in legal binding or civil cohabiting , has to be of mutual love , respect, kindness and most importantly TRUST. Expression of love must be evident and keeping the romance alive although sex is usually the ultimate. God bless everyone who yearns for lasting true love and respect.
Hare Krishna🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
True love will change the negative thoughts of neighbours .who always happy when see anyone in pain .
Sir ur teachings are so simple and practical
Relationship is the power of humanity...
Excellent Prabhuji.
Hare Krishna Prabhuji 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
Great and wonderful message 🙏hats of prabhuji
Guruji wonderfully presented the truth in most intricate manner.......
Its true we need to learn empathy which is wrongly interpreted.
❤️❤️❤️
The same story happened in my life too..
I loveing her, as she is..
And she listed out my flaws..
Still i want to love her..
Because.. i want to live with her, rest of my life
❤️
If a person finds flaws in you always, that person never actually loved you in real on soul level...imperfections and flaws are Fine things changes with so do we people.
Aww!
@@aloksharma4912 👍
Bhai that's like red flag to u.
Time hote hi chhod de usse
Bahut.bahut.Gratitude.abhar.such.a.wonderfulstanding.Gopal.bhai.thanks
thank you for this video it cleared a part in my mind but I think still I need to watch more positive videos to keep my inner peace alive...but this video also helped me I should be thankful for that and that's why I'm posting this comment
None of us perfect for anything, we just make ourselves perfect, it's only what we see, the way we look into something with our eyes, try to see with our pure heart, everything is perfect. I just dropped my own thoughts even though I'm single. Thank you ji! Hare Ram! Radhe Radhe Jaya Krishna!!!🙏❤
Feeling happy to see again and again this wedding ❤
After watching this .....I realised I am blessed ❤️❤️
Beautiful..very true..neither partner is perfect..when two people are courting they try to be their be there best to each other as it is a short time..
But it's a completely different that same two persons start living under one roof..the one another may see flaws of another but compromising with each other is the best medicine for a healthy marriage..
Trying to change the partner towards the way the other wants is the beginning of the disaster..changing someone's life pattern to best suit to your way will be only temporary as the real you will surely come out someday..
If both can accept and respect the two individualism is the healthy relationship as good friends..
Human beings are the only perfect example for imperfection on this planet
💯
Radhey Radhey.....Jai Shree Krishna ❤❤❤💛💛💛💛
Superb . Wish it was true for everyone.
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Am looking forward for the man of my dream, who is loving, caring and focus.
Listening to u is so soulful....wish these soulful thoughts cud reach to the depths of 1 billion of us and we find peace and harmony with what we have than what we desire to have
Very Beautifully Said Prabhuji 🙇 🙏
You are just awesome guruji🙏🙏
Seek genuine love than perfection! ❤️
And yes if you see the flaws you must appreciate the good too. 🙂
Sadly, We can't expect "genuine love" from modern Indian women.
🙏💯 सत्य है.thank you 🙏🇮🇳
There is nothing wrong in my life .. but i always learn something or the other from him .. thanks for wonderful teaching
Super sir . Very good message for the present generation.
GOD bless you, You are really helping us
Accept how the ppl love u ,wow great line,😍😊
Sir i read your book it gives different aspect to live my life i am very blessed
Thank you so much !!
😌🙏🏻🙂.Wao...
What's the name of his book?
Superb...very heart touching nd useful...
Nobody is perfect.. eventually we learn to love each other with our imperfections as well which is just amazing about this relationship
Less Expectation more Love
This is the only guru who is not a hypocrite 👍Thanks
"The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or even heard, but must be felt with the heart."👇
#Positiveseed
Wonderful Swami g.....
My inspiration ❤️❤️
What u give comes back to u with interest 😊beautiful video 👍👍👍
Love the way you talk guruji.......I hear each and every word that you say with full concentration,,,,,. The more I hear you the more my soul gets brighter😍😍
U seriously change our mind. U are an amazing person.
Thanks god thanks angels thanks universe for Love ❤️❤️
This class may hold good for any 2 souls
Eg Father and Daughter also 🪔🤗💯 We can learn to appreciate others for their good+++
Very Inspiring....I started reading Bhagvadgita after your inspiration from one of your videos....would like to meet you.
No one is perfect in this world but there works will make them from imperfect to perfect.
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Tq pee Jay for an motivational video tq so much. 😊 but only our consciousness is most important part of the concentration.
After hearing your words in this video it looks like the same way i treated my soulmate , lovely words sir
U r words are magical
Hi Guru ji, Superb message 👍👍
“Understanding & Accepting each other is the key to any relationship”.😊😊
A perfect analysts so far I have listened to. Thanks a lot guruji. 👌👌👏👏🙏
GURU JI you are awesome thank for sharing such a wonderful lesson
No one can explain...the way GURUJI did positivity positivity and calmness...RESPECT...NAMASKAR 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🌹🌹🌹🌹
Eloquent monk with great mind and magnetic personality , big fan sir ❤️❤️
Thank you...👏
Just overwhelmed by the simple of explaining
By the way you make things clear and easy to understand with the story is amazing and mind blowing
Beautifully said !❤️
Great sir,it is very nice to hear you & implement .Thanks & GOD BLESS.
I required this so badly, thanks for sharing your wisdom with me❤️
Thanks guruji
We must find positivity in the bleakest situation and live by the principal of gratitude 👍🏼
Perfect.... I thought of sharing it... But why should I. loves makes things perfect....
Relationship has no word like perfect but love and being there for eachother is all that makes a relationship, I love my husband he is the best friend and life partner I want him to be with me until I die that's all.
Thank you so much.