“DAD, WHATS HE DOING HERE?!”
“Son, say hi to your new brother.”
@@sharaytaylor3085 He’s talking about the 8 year old boy saying dad what’s he doing here.
We need TEACHERS with personality’s like his. This man is amazing.
Sadly teachers don't make enough to have these kinds of personalities.
@@beast-1545 he’s also not getting paid at all for this so what’s your point 🤨
Nobody is talking about how the mom agreed for him to talk with her son, I think that was a really great thing to do and I wonder if other parents would have done the same thing?
@@dogmeat2447 most parents of bullies, particularly white parents doesn't really care if their kid is bullies someone. Facts
@@yeeahyeah9246 A fact isn’t a fact when you’ve just sat and made it up dumb ass !
That's one of the oldest looking 11 year olds and youngest looking 8 year olds I've ever seen. That must've been scary getting picked on by SUCH a bigger guy
@@princessyarkor730 what didn’t make sense? Also he wasn’t bullying anyone. He just said they look older and younger for they’re ages
@@princessyarkor730 bruhhhhh, I’m done. He’s not bullying anybody
Imagine you come home and your bully is sitting at your table dripped out on new clothes your dad bought him
Exactly, i dont see how any of this helped his SON. The bully couldve went to school and rubbed it in if he choose to
Fatherhood: 100/10 Would recommend forever! 🤩🙏🏼🤩
Damn I wish this is how dads actually were instead of walking out on there kids
if my dad started being really nice to my school bully id be mad asf
Just understanding someone elses situation everybody could use somebody
Eh it’s one of those things as a kid you can’t fundamentally understand it so get mad lol cause thats about all a child can do. But once you grow up it becomes one of the reasons why you respect your father not as a dad but as a man.
Until you were made to get to know him and understand him, amd him you. Then youd become brothers.
Imagine your getting bullied, then you find him at your house. Your dad buys him new clothes and raises him $30,000
@@liama4199 wtf y’all negative I pray y’all stop being so naive like people especially kids can’t change
Damn good father and ima use that idea to talk to the bullys parents for when my son has any problems and like I said before damn good father
That's bc this father has a damn good Father- GOD the Father. God lead this father to show the hurting boy unconditional love and compassion instead of anger and criticism bc that's what God would do for us. Like FATHER like son👑
@@imsharpie1084 its correctly spelt in the situation he was using it in.
Unpopular opinion but how about helping your son gain the confidence and the strength to stand up for himself that’s coming from experience
The school wouldn’t have done nothing anyway so he took matters into his own hands
He is a good dad
My uncle invited my bully to live with him and my cousins. The guy was racist as all hell to me and they overlooked all that and showed him nothing but love. I hate him and my uncle now.
“Kids can be mean they’re ruthless sometimes and they don’t know how far there taking it sometimes”. You can say that again.
Kids can be mean they’re ruthless sometimes and they don’t know how far there taking it sometimes
Kids can be mean they're ruthless sometimes and they dont know far their taking it sometimes
"Let us just talk man to man" That's all that a lot of these kids need and desire. Just be straight up with them.
@@morro570 No doubt, but young men need strong male role models as well. It's hard to explain, especially to a girl, but it's a different type of connection. One that I found extremely beneficial as a kid. If I didn't have strong male role models around, I don't know where I'd be.
Now the dad and bully formed an alliance and made the kids life a living hell
We need more men like this one here
@@fokieinmybookie9621 i would let him do all that to me he is fitt 😍
That what world needs more father being father's .
@@decent6942 I do not see a thing wrong with my grammar , go ask your teacher for help
BLOODYMONKEY he means ad commas, that is what the world needs, more fathers being father’s.
@@gavinmoye8260 well thank God, that changes the whole makeup of the sentence. I mean did it matter? And in that case where was his period at end of his sentence?
You guys think he's nice? I would take my child's bully sky diving with no parachute.
I’ve been bullied before and if I came home to my bully sitting in my house with clothes my dad bought him I don’t think I could talk to my dad again tbh.
I feel that. The dad must've fought the son to look good for the camera which explains why they kept showimg the same 4 second clip over and over.
I don't think it all happened over night. The dad probably spoke to his son and explained what he was going to do and why. The dad stopped a bully from being self destructive and bullying his son and others giving them issues. And after this no one is going to mess with his knowing he gain a new big brother
Not even being mean, but I genuinely frels sorry for you. Living with hate in your heart only hurts YOU- its poison. The dad has healed the young man AND his son- through love.
I'll be mad af if my dad becomes friends w my bully I wouldn't trust either of them
This avoided another school shooting thank you Father and heavenly Father
This story never gets old. So proud of that father!
Definitely would have knocked my dad out 10 years later
You never know what heppened when the cameras turned off or when the father wasn't around you can never know if they were actually friends
He needed a male role model in his life and he got one of the best.
I’m glad they didn’t title him “black father”
Why would you even mention his skin color? No one cares if he's black or not jeez.
That’s the solution the parents of the kid being bullied have to befriend the bully find out what could be triggering this behavior and shower them with love and support
Man I am fighting tears. This is an amazing man and father. I tell my kids to never bully anyone because you never know what a person deals with at home. I'm glad that Tamarions mom allowed him to speak with her son. It's a beautiful thing to see when someone is uplifting to people instead of tearing them down. I wish there were more people like him in this world
I grew up in inner city Detroit. My parents were addicts.... We often went without electricity or a stove. We lived in a car for months at a time. I went to 13 schools. If anyone had reached out this way I would have loved them forever. This video made me cry. I may not look it, but I grew up rough.
Edit:THANK YOU
Our exteriors often hide our damage. I hope your rough up bringing hasn't broken you but strengthen you and help you see and empathize with someone like yourself.
This is the way people should solve problems… hats off to this father
He is a real father because he raises his children. God will continue to bless him.
The fact that this man cared enough about his son to fix the bully issue by turning the bully into his sons brother is a whole other level of wholesome. He helped two lives at once.
that bully did good... its good that he isn't gonna end up like the other bully on the news who got shot dead
Kinda messed up an 11-year-old messes with an 8-year-old.
Bc the 11 year old was jealous his family couldn't afford the things his classmates have
I could never imagine being nice to my kids bully...
Just because something bad happening in your life doesn’t mean you should be bad to other people
been there before its not that simple it feels good to vent out your anger on someone
joseph liao Then you definitely need help. I mean I was literally bullied from elementary to high school because I was fat at the time, and gay. I’m still not a malicious person who takes things out on others, it shouldn’t be an excuse.
I used to bully certain girls growing up. Of course it was the girls I thought were weaker. I was damaged and lost myself. One of the biggest regrets of my life. I've cried knowing I did ppl like that. It was selfish and I had no idea if they themselves were going through their own traumas. Today, I can't even be sarcastic or give attitude to women. I'll politely disengage, but something in me can't mistreat women. Men...😂😂 bullying them is my PLEJ- UH..😂 they love it.❤
I would have liked to hear how the actual son felt. This was great for the bully and the dad, but I would think it felt like a betrayal of the son by the father. What if the kid was only nice when father was around? The biggest problem I think is MAKING his son be FRIENDS with the bully. That seemed very selfish of the parent to me. Everything else is cool.
The bully needed help. That is undeniable. The father was a good man for that. Involving his son, though, is questionable.
Shut you could see the kid was happy they went to football games together he said they became best friends or did you just not watch that part
@@lucydean4028 the only reason to think the son wouldnt be friends with him, despite being told so by the people involved, is your own insecurity clouding your judgement. Let that little boy be happy
Wow how shallow and short sighted we've become. What he taught his son is how to turn the other cheek, (by the way Jesus taught that you know...if you care) What he taught his son is to look deeper than what the eyes can see. What he taught his son is that fights can be won without a punch at all. That young man does not look miserable, and looks to be about the proudest son of an awesome father. He shows no signs that he is lacking any of the love his father obviously has for him. Maybe your ears were clogged when he very pointedly said he tried to deal with this several times through the school but it didn't work. This man had the charisma, the character, the brains, the heart and the foresight to handle this in a way that everyone around the table has benefited. Its soooo easy to strike back. Its much harder to be a real man and do evil to know one. The fact that he even thought of the idea to get to the heart of the problem of what was the underlining issue to HIS SON'S suffering shows the intense forethought here. So what he taught his son is to love, discern, forgive, empathize, and in the midst of all that...gave his son a "brother" ... but I guess this went over most of your heads.
As someone who was bullied for quite awhile, I gotta say that this is such a big step to helping both bullied and bully. Honestly, sitting down to have a mature conversation and talking out differences may take a few minutes, but it can sure as heck make a big difference!
So what you're telling me is if I bully a little kid and tell his parents I'm going through a tough time I'll get good stuff????
That’s what is all about team work effort divided with stay alone together we be strong 💪🏼❤️🙏🏼👍🏼
“And he expanded his tribe to 4 members” no one heard that or what 😂😂
I know it sounds a bit racist but I think is just unfortunate context, cause I know plenty of white and mixed people that call their family a tribe. I think it also applies, because a tribe is one big family made of many families, so idk. 😂
You know kid is just a kid. They make mistakes but still a kid. Im glad that he being so nice and kid to him because if i be him.. I probably be mad.. But now i learnt from him to be a better person.
I learned so much
Bully children so that their father can buy you drip
If you don’t have Jordans bully some kid and have their farther buy them for you.
@@mannyfulton8490 father* farther means something completely different 😂
Now if that child is ever bullied again, do you think he will come to his dad for help? Because I would want my parent to stand up for me and not just reward the bully. Hope there was some sort of punishment involved for the young one’s sake.
this is what a MAN looks like. any male can be a father, only a true man like this can be a Daddy. blessings to you and your tribe brotha🤟🖤
Beautiful story and what a great man!!! Thank you for taking a positive route.😊😊😊
Yeah absolutely not🙃 bullying is not ok and shouldn’t be rewarded you shouldn’t force someone to befriend their bully
Yes but keep in mind that sometimes bullies *do* bully because they're in a tough spot and they're taking it out on everyone around them because they're unable to change anything about their normal life. Pain breeding pain, man. That's just how it is. Those kids deserve a chance for understanding.
In the case of people bullying just to bully and for no reason behind it? Yeah those brats need a whooping. But kids who have it rough don't need it to be rougher, they just need support. You ever been so upset or frustrated you've snapped at someone? Think of it like that, but ontop of that add the fact that if you're a kid you're pretty much helpless to whatever happens around you- you don't have the same control an adult would.
@@kayaydayslie1666 clearly you gave enough of one to go out of your way to respond with that perfectly thought out little response lmAO
@@ghostieyog6445 They're emotional and children themsleves most likely. They cannot understand problem solving. Not everything has to be violence or extreme scolding. If anything that rises tensions.
This is amazing. That father is a wonderful man :)
We need more people like this man. A great example of a selfless person and a golden heart. What a blessing to both families.❤️
Applause 👏 for this dad! This is a real man...he didn't bully the bully. He should him how to grow. Beautiful!
His father: I can bring him over an we can talk about it rationally
My Father: Beat’m up
Ima pass on this one. If my parents bought my bully anything, I’d be mad. Especially if I’m being bullied severely by this individual. Forget forgiving the bully but think about the mental state of the child for a second.
I feel u, I feel like it depends what they did. I would ask my child about it before anything
@@jem6578 exactly I’ll let my child have a say before I even think about doing anything bc at the end of they day my child have a say
I think u missed the point of this video man. The dad saw a lot of himself in his sons bully, and wanted to help the kid out. I don’t think his son was being severely bullied either... in the end the dad probably helped to change that kids entire outlook/direction in life. The video explains that the bully wasn’t a bad kid... the whole reason he was stealing stuff in the first place was bc he felt embarrassed by the lack of his own commodities. Respect to the father
@@anklescollected1368 no I understand the point I was just saying if I was in his shoes I’d talk to my child first bc he’s still a human being n have feelings just bc he’s a child doesn’t mean he shouldn’t have a say I understand completely I was just stating what I’d do
@@anklescollected1368 and u don’t know how severe the bullying was bc they didn’t show all of it they only showed what the family allowed but regardless I was just saying I’d let my child have a say in what I’m doing bc regardless he has emotions just like adults do
Great man ,Great Dad !
This story sounds like betrayal lmboooo
It’s like when your enemy was sus but your friend was impostor 😔 sad cringe amogus reddit moment 😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣😭😭😭😭😢😢😢😢🥺🥺🥺🥺
He’s just a really good, kind man. Great father and great role model. God job dad.
Ladies and gentlemen take a good long look at a real man
God bless that man and his family. we need more men like HIM!
"So.. I hear you bullied my son.. and you know what you're gonna get.. SOME NEW CLOTHES!!!!"
This man changed his life forever.
Great dude. And respect to the mom for letting him talk to her son. I know some parents would get defensive, and not do anything about their child’s behavior.
I'm sorry you bully my child ain't no way in hell I'm ever liking you, you know its wrong and idgaf if "you where raised wrong" you hear it your whole life...don't bully others, treat others the way you would want to be treated, wanna make someone else's life miserable expect someone else to do the same to you
Theres a such thing as mercy and compassion. Virtues many seemed to have forgotten exists.
you’re not wrong but u can’t expect everyone to listen; that’s not realistic and not the approach we need to take if we want to grow as society. We need to do better. Be better. Love the ones that hate you. fight hate with love. it’s the only way. god bless
So if you grew up in a loveless, abusive house and know nothing of kindness your supposed to treat others who have a better life than you kindly?
If my bully is sitting at my dining table when I get home one day.... I’m just gonna slowly close the door and live with my grandma for the rest of my life that’s my bullies dad and house now
What a blessing to have a parent to step up and intervene... hats off to the father and to see pain through a young man heart..and to see his family struggle! There’s so many situations we go through and all it takes is one person to step up to see if you need a helping hand! God bless everyone! Be safe and have a wonderful weekend!
You can't make someone be friends with a person that bullied them
The people that disliked this have no soul
Ummmm maybe because the bully still seemed like a hard ass and how cringy the father says the bully is handsome and doesn't say that to his son
@@mohayc8877 I get both sides. The boy does look hardened, but he may have endured years of trauma, neglect or instability at home. And this doesn't change overnight. And who's to say his parents can even manage that kind of money, so their problems may persist. If so, he doesn't get the chance to be a kid because he's always worried about home life.
On the other hand, it gives the bully access to this boy, (who seems genuinely caring and trustworthy) and the bully can create a deeper form of mental bullying and/or grooming.
I just hope the dad uses his intuition, and if he feels some things off with the boy, remove his access from his son, and get him professional help.
@@mohayc8877 what do you mean he still seems like a hard ass? The reason he said the bully was handsome was because he wanted to bring him up and make him feel better. Why would he need to tell his son that at this moment?
That’s how you handle something like a “man”! God Bless you Sir. We need more people like you.
This makes me cry so bad I commend the actions of parents I didn't get tht far my 15yr son was being bullied in school and he took his own life June 2017 🥺 it took my soul away and I encourage EVERYONE to please pay attention to what's going on with there children I send prayers and blessings to you and everyone's family's.
Thanku for love I'm trying my best to hold on to reality even 4yrs later but seems feels like yesterday.😔
Aww I’m gonna cry he’s talking about him like a proud father 🥲
Omg if that was me I would disown my dad you can have the bully as your new son bye..
This mindset is so self-destructive. "No i refuse to acknowledge the humanity of this 11 year odl who mistreated me. He is a heartless irredeemable monster and should be treated as such. How dare you try to stop my bully and give me a new friend dad?"
What in da hell?? I would be so mad if my dad did this. Matter of fact, if anyone in my family befriended my bully or someone I didn't like they'd have major problems with me. But props to this man for trying to change the bully.
Now that is an awesome dad!
So someone's bullying your kid and you buy them clothes? I remember when an ass whooping also fixed a bullies mentality.
sorry I'd feel so rejected if my Dad did this to someone who hurt me. I'd feel so lost emotionally. Not cool.
yea but imagine being homeless and being bullied yourself. you wouldn't feel happy and be upset so a little bit of love can go a long way
If I was getting bullied myself I wouldn't bully other people because I know how bad it hurts
@@tasneemahmed5821 I wouldn't either, but I also wouldn't want my Dad buying things for the person who hurt me.
@@ultra3806 being poor and sad isnt a excuse to bully people. Thats the mindset of people who wont be anything in life. Because they blame. Everything else but themselves
Thats a good dad much respect for everything he has done for this kid and his family much love
if i found out my child had a bully i'd take him/her bungee jumping without a bungee string
Moral of the story: If your life sucks, bully kids until one of their dads helps you 😃
How do u help ur son with the next bully? Will u take that 1 shopping too? U still have to show ur son how to deal with bullies, or hell be fighting that same battle forever
I could just tell the son didnt look very happy at that table, and that hes not ready for his next bully.
Guarantee he gives more affection to his child lol
You can't just love another kid like that and not have a strong relationship with your own.
How does his kid feel about this situation tho ? What did he do for his son to heal from his experience?
@@ky8303 yeah but they can also be smiling for real and be okay with something for real
Dad's make a difference. Well done providing a father figure for Tamarion.
God bless good men and all the dad's that love there children and would go above and beyond for someone else's child.thats a man big respect!
Imagine being a bully and being rewarded for it, not only by the family of the kid you bullied but, the entire city of Houston, too. This is so backwards lol.
He wasn’t rewarded for it. The dad found the problem, and fixed it.
You wanted the bully to keep living like that? Wtf... the bully became friends with the son, and stopped being a bully. If anything this helped
@@cullenavent6585 is him not learning his consequences going to permanently going to fix the problem?
@@Mr.Murasakino the dad, and others taught him what he was doing was wrong, and now to treat others like that..l so Im sure he knows the error in bullying, and won’t do it ever again... so yes
I refuse to believe that machine looking dude is 11
Wow! This story gave me chills!! Great job Dad!
Hey man, GOOD JOB your a good man!!!! EVERYBODY needed/needs this more than you know!
He's right and I totally agree with him because kids can become really cruel.I have a 7 year old and I told him if you ever get bullied or anything let me know and we will fix it the right way. Because I used to get bullied in school and my 8th grade year I became more popular because I was really good at basketball and then after that happened the people that bullied me became some of my best friends and it was because I stopped being afraid of them and letting them get to my head and showing them that I was no punk. and also I got to know them and understood why they were the way they were and did the things that they did.
Reward bullying by buying clothes lol
Hurt people hurt people.
Practice random acts of kindness
This man 👏🏾
What a great man amd father! Much respect! 💕💕💕
The bully probably didn’t have a father figure. This is so kind
sup kyle!!!
@@qzy9100 that’s not Kyle
Yeah he definitely probably didn’t have one
Your profile pic cute ngl
@@toxicgoat341 thank you