I loved this video and you are a Gem !!💎 👑 … 🙏🏽 . I do have a question if you will please… I’m dating a guy who is asking to use my Zelle account for his business transactions here in US. I have said no but he is pressing me to help him grow because Zelle or cashapp is not available in Nigeria. Please tell me your thoughts?
@ShowingLove please don't do anything connected to money with him, it's not advisable plus scamming starts like that. 2... You don't want to mess up your relationship because of money.
@@MimiliciousMimi I am going for my visa interview any tips? Also I want to take gifts to his family from america what would be good gifts for an American to bring to Nigerians
I just dated a nigerian man briefly and it was a lot of games. He's all like, don't play I like everything honest, and he was the biggest player ever. Thanks so much for the information, it helped me a lot!
Oh my, what's up with the bad experiences everyone having with my fellow brothers. Y'all be digging in the wrong places and looking for Idris Elba type of dude frfr.
@@justicejoycetv I wasn't referring to the country when I mentioned Idris, rather I was talking about women picking on a guy who might be married yet he claimed single and women get caught up in that mess.
Finally a video who makes a difference between scammers and real men! Unfortunately lots of good Nigerian men have to face this bad reputation because of the scammers. Great video! Also your daughter is a sweety, best wishes for both of you!
This happens so much. I married a scammer from Nigeria. Worst years of my life. His entire family was in on the scam! After I posted my I married a scammer video on my TH-cam channel I began to receive all kinds of threats as they tried to bully me into silence. And if scamming me wasn’t enough he tried to ruin my relationships, reputation, and finances.
Wow! Just stumbled on this. I am a Nigerian man! I can tell you only 10% of Nigerian men are as wicked as you described. We hustle so hard to take care of our women and family, and hence have no time for us to play shenanigans. It's so unfortunate that it's the very few negative ones that gets talked about often.
@valentineachum1020 I need advice please just recently started with a Nigerian man which is my first experience I have been to his house met his son and everything was wonderful for the whole visit but now I've been back home for a day and suddenly he's not answering my calls and has become cold towards me for no reason at all, I feel that I have been played and used am I right?
Although the players might be a minority, I think you hear about the bad apples so often because love scams are so cruel and leave the victims scarred for life.
@@marediththaele1076 Although, I'm not a relationship expert, but you deserve a man who wouldn't just switch up on you whether he's Nigerian or not. Self worth is very important in any relationship, be it business, love, etc. If your self worth is being taken off the shelf, then you don't deserve to be in such relationship. I know Nigerian men are damn good in taking care of their women. I say this because I'm a thorough bred and buttered Nigerian man myself. However, nobody says you must remain with a Nigerian man if he's not treating you well. Find your worth before you find your man. Love from a Nigerian man ❤️🌹🍷🙏
@karmekia Wilson oh! Thanks a lot for watching, am glad you found love in the arms of a Nigerian man, am happy for you. Please don't forget to like, share and subscribe to my channel for more jist.
This video was very informative. I have run into alot who just want to scam. I met a nice Nigerian guy who explained scams to me too! Now I mostly date Nigerian men because I know the culture better
@ Starr Johnson Wow! thanks for watching and learning, am really trying to teach my Nigerian culture and traditions to non Nigerians. To also keep the few bad Nigerian guys away from tarnishing my people's image . Happy dating 😁
dont post BS while hiding and pretending to be from kenya. you have invaded east africa and decieving naive girls there. google a girl called rita waeni.@@jemk6098
I dated a Nigerian men and lawd..so tired of him...i literally stay away from him because hes too abrasive and harsh sometimes..almost rude..asking me to help him with his homework and cheap..so i dont go around him simple...he just tends to annoy me..so I stay away..and that bothers him🙄😄...i remember he asked me if I wanted to talk to his mom before going to the next step...I said no..because i didnt care for his behavior🤷🏾♀️
I love your honesty & genuinuity. I believe that wherever this man is from he will not dare ask a woman to send him her money. If he's genuine, he will not let you lift a finger, he will take care of her. American or not, we'll know real love & respect.
@@lesimalek3153 it depends on where you are ,if they're around you just be sure to are hard working, dedicated to their job study their behavior make friends then you can know better
I learned to love the game. When he played I'd play more and laugh and he hated when I laughed because he really wanted me to be played. He called me immature but he was immature and sloppy because he really though he was doing something and I am embarrassed for him.
@Beloved By Jah Not really, I would say some not most, and when they are lying it's plain to see, but women just don't look deeper than their lying tongues.
My Nigerian Husband has not received his Visa yet to come to the U.S. since the pandemic he has been hinting he needs money....like clock work I have found myself giving it. He knows how it makes me feel. He claims he never asks, so its not his fault, but he has no issues telling me each month about all his issues. When I visit him and his family I feel like a queen, but returning home alone and giving him money and after I told him and myself I wouldnt makes me feel like crap. I honestly was not raised to ever take care of a man. I no longer get the text messages sent consistently that I like and I hate he uses the money unwisely to go to restaurants each night and weddings and funerals. Those events you are expected to give money. What the heck did he do before he met me. I just dont know if I should bring him here to the US and continue the marriage.
@121782cs Wow! This is unacceptable, sad to say... But he is indeed using you and also very irresponsible about the way he spends the money you give him, what does he do? Why depend solely on you. Please you need to define the purpose of your relationship dear, he seems all about money.
Too much red flags here, don't bring him to America, that will be the worse thing you can do, and you will end up regretting it, he's using you for money, walk away and change your number.
Same but not married!!! Please stop!!! He is using you!!! When he gets here the fights will be insane and divorce will follow!!! That is certain because what he wants is ur status NOT YOU!!! Oh and there is a new game they play to get out of the marriage quickly so it won’t be long hunny!! I feel like crap now but u ar gonna feel like a skid mark on the devils draws if u break ur back
Am dating Nigerian from Ibadan. He introduced me to his parents and brothers. We meet online and see each other here in UAE . So far his good . I invite him to my religion. And he like it.. so far we good.
I'm married to an Igbo man from Anambra. I know someday I have to follow him to his country and I'm all in. But I'm glad that I found him .. I will choose him over and over again. Fun fact.. I'm an Indian
@Fidelin Yap Wow! That's awesome..I have always know that Nigerian men will marry anyone they love 💍❤️ you are proof. How are you coping with the cultural differences sis, can you share some with us please. Thanks so much for watching and contributing, I really do appreciate you.
I`ve been married to a Nigerian man for 9 years(but I`ve never been to Nigeria)if for a reason things do not work in the future, I`ll be very thankful for the wonderful years I had.
@Rika Yangu You should know that our men are actually very amazing and has family values sis. Am happy you can testify to this. This video was made for the few bad eggs... The scammers precisely...
@@MimiliciousMimi You know,sometimes I feel like I need to pinch myself.I do say to myself, this is the person I was looking for all mylife.Remember I`ve been there, done that before I met him,so it`s not a teeny love and not a brand new marriage, we`ve been married 9 years as already said and together 11 years.
@@rikayangu3833That fatalistic tone I sense from you about your marriage won't help. When we marry, we expect it to last forever. Whatever fears you might have about how long the marriage might last due to your past experiences or culture around you, I would advice that you don't express them in words. He would find it strange and it would affect his commitment. We don't get divorced because we are bored or run out of love.
Thanks for this ❤️ I’m currently dating a Nigerian. Very handsome, charming and also quite narcissistic. On the one hand I talked to his real mother and siblings on cam and he keeps telling me he needs a baby but yet he keeps asking me for money too which I’m not giving him on demand because I feel he’s trying to use me whenever he’s asking me for money. As you said a man should not depend on his women. It’s such a turn off. By the way he has no documents over here but he has a job and earns good money himself so whenever he claims I’m responsible for him I get hurt and feel used. I’m sure he kind of likes me and finds me attractive but I’m afraid he needs a child just to get documents. I don’t know, there’s a lot of question marks in my head but my gut feeling is I should just leave before it’s too hard to leave
I met a Nigerian man we dated for about a month then all of sudden he stopped calling and texting I found that weird because I know a Nigerian is very attentive. He told me that he was working alot and he has some things going on now I'm not stupid by any means so of course I did my research found out he was engaged to get married to another woman and when I confronted him he claim she was a friend but I knew the real deal you can marry whoever you want for whatever reason but don't put me in your lies! He wanted to see me and talk and when I called to say I talk to him he hung up in my face 🤣 don't play with me !
@sharon That was a real player, thank God you were smarter than he thought. Some of these online guys are just something else, bet we should all be careful. Thanks for contributing.
He trying to weigh his options tho lol. But on a serious note, that's not supposed to come up, y'all could end up being friends if he was honest about his relationship and marriage bells. But I see he tryna stick you around for a back up lol
@@gbolahanakinwanle8158 I have enough friends! I know what I bring to the table as a woman and he had a agenda and he knew that he couldn't play me because I was too observant I don't care what you do and how you do it leave me out of it. If he had said hey I met both of you at the same time and I wanna make it work with her yea my ego would have been crushed a little but at least I knew where I stood! Not that lying shit frfr
@@sharonfowlkes4864 I wouldn't believe he met both of you within a month and then he's already engaged to the other, but well so good you did your research and then he trying to cover up his bs. He's just an individual who should take responsibility of his actions, and most women should stop attributing an individual to the populace.
@@gbolahanakinwanle8158 I'm pretty sure he didn't Meer us around the same time I'm pretty sure he was dating her when he met me. I'm pretty sure he knew what he was doing all along! I'm certain that he wanted his cake and eat it too! I'm not upset at the situation I'm upset because you tried to play me like I'm stupid! Like I said when I met him I was very direct about what I wanted and how Nigerians have a bad reputation I was apprehensive about dealing with him from day one but I said I would give him a chance.
We women have to be careful esp for marriage bec he wants papers to bring his family using you as a woman let's open our eyes it's so sad to marry but sleeping in different rooms in one house pretending ,let's wake up
A stereotypes mindset it's like a river and oceans mindering aimlessly , flowing from coastal regions to dessert land without any visions , dreams , missions to settled and accomprised divine purposes. of life than engaging in a sorrowful ,terrible. ,relationships that brought you , sadness / joy , hopelessness , miserable lifestyle . Millions of Nigerian men are not naturally worthless and very mischievous . Women of substance , virtual , values , characters , sophisticated with wisdoms , knowledge and. Complete understanding are always praying to seeks God face for husbands /marriage ..It's not necessarily mean that everyone should marry Mr right but it just depends on good characters and behaviors . By the virtual of reasoning , I strongly believed that every individuals ladies and men in Nigeria are absolutely very good people .Peace
Oh I needed to hear this. Thank you for supporting all women. I would do the same. We need to stick together but it's not like that in America. You are beautiful inside and out. May God Bless you and your family.
@@MimiliciousMimi the women are so fast to conclude that all Nigerian men are bad, so when the good ones come its a turn off because they are treated as the same like they are bad too, with what i have seen, most women are not family oriented, most Nigeria good guys are family oriented that want to have a family build together with the woman they love and take good care of her, but what we see are women that always believe in the Nigeria guys spend on women so we should now spend our money that we no longer think of having extra investment and build for the future and children to be born its important to take good care of a woman because to know a mans wealth, you look at his wife most women now what they know is spend spend spend, don't ask how the money is gotten from and most sometimes are not business oriented or smarts that's why Nigeria guys still go back and marry Nigerian women, that's another reason
@Ekene Bethel wow brother that's a lot, I really do understand your views and exactly what you mean, it is for this purpose that we should all communicate and maybe my ladies will know exactly what's happening and change their attitudes when it come to picking a man of their choice, I appreciate your insights. Thanks for contributing, I appreciate you.
I met a Nigerian man he’s 18 yrs older than me he was previously married to a American woman but got divorced he lived alone and everything seemed legit and he’s successful but he’s not what I’m used to he came on so strong so fast automatically wanting to help me out and things like that it scared me a little and I hesitated, he’s been on my mind constantly lately, I’ve recently started regretting not taking that chance with him and currently trying to get him bck guess we’ll see lol 🤞🏽
@Ashley Renee Hi sis, do not be scared a successful Nigerian man who likes or loves a girl can do anything for her, it's a Nigerian man thing... He kind of feels that you are his responsibility. So, fear not sis. 😊
@@MimiliciousMimi Thank you for your prompt response..I'd like to ask you if you have you noticed this please don't get me wrong but I've noticed these guys hv nercissist behaviors... Nigerian man especially Igbos my God they hv huge Ego and self intitlement tendencies.
@@jacksonelijah693 you are actually right about the Ego and entitlement behavior thing. Their Ego is bigger than other tribes. Hoping to make a video about the Igbo men and their behaviors soon.
Theres a bunch of them here in Canada not my cup of tea 😂 but i know a few girlies who have been tricked. But like i said before these naija men need to date naija women , stay amongst eachother and leave us alone respectfully
@Saida Dabel 😂😂😂 Sis there's just something about naija men that women can't really resist 😉😉😉. But we naija women are not complaining oooo... They are enough to go around 😊😊😊
Desperate women can't resist because where I live Nigerian men are the easiest men to get. They will drop their current girlfriend right then and there.
The double standards of almost all men is insane. Very very sad case recently of a beautiful young Nigerian lady being shot and killed in Italy by her Italian husband who was decades older than her. Allegedly her so called friend had told the Italian man that she intended to divorce him, as soon as her permanent residency was granted. The husband waited, and sure enough she soon said she was filing for divorce. He killed her outside of her work place, leaving children in Nigeria without a Mother. So so so many Nigerian men were commenting on the article to say that 'Italian men no play,' that she should not have deceived the man for residency. If an elderly Italian woman shot and killed a young Nigerian man who did the same, let's see if they would have had the same energy.
So sad I was in a scam we have children together he recently had a baby to African wife when my daughter also a baby I didn’t know his intentions now I feel very sad for my children and what he’s done
He is 67, was 65 when I met him. 2 kids here in the US. Two grown kids in Nigeria with their Mom. Who he says he is divorced from. We have dated 2 yrs. He has never introduced me to his son or daughter. Does not let me come to his house accept once when his pipes froze during a freeze. He always comes to mine. He calls often I call him anytime and he talks. What you have said about family is true. His Mom is dead. I talked to his sister once who was rather dry on the phone. I spoke to his brother once. I have found that he is a very private very Traditional Yoruba Man. We recently broke up over me getting angry because I realize just what you are saying that the relationship will go no further than where it is. Even though I love this man very much. I had to leave him alone we are too old for this type of game.
Sound like he’s still married. Wife just lives in Nigeria. It’s actually very common. He doesn’t introduce the kids to you because they’ll be furious their dad is dating while still married to their mum.
My situation is a bit different… but I must remember your statement being treated right… and that they want to take care and give us the best… thanks 🙏🏻 God bless you 😍
@Ms Birdafter40 Am so sorry Sis, but once they come, you will know them sis... Just walk away from them as not good comes from them. Thanks for watching
Thank you so much for revealing the romance scammers. Everything you are saying is true. I had to take a stand and ground with scammers and the script that he used, and identity thief was involved. They are liars, about everything. I finally took my stand, and I ended the relationship. I have so much peace.
I'm in a long distance relationship with the guy from Nigeria and you absolutely right he thinks he's telling me what I want to hear but I know it's all lies and I think it's kind of sad because they give other people a bad name like he's mean sometimes he's always angry and he's always wants something always
@Mary Matthews Sis, most online Nigerian men are scammers and they go by various names and personalities to scam unsuspecting women and what you have just discribed, is the attitude of a scammer. Always wanting something cus that's all he cares about... Mean and angry if he doesn't succeed. He feels like you are giving him a hard time in his game. Please be careful or block him.
@@MimiliciousMimi I think you absolutely right but we've been talking for 2 years we FaceTime all the time I don't know I'll probably get fooled he is a sweet talker please I need some advice
@Mary Matthews Sure sis, let's connect on Instagram there we can private chat... or If you need a one on one call, you can avail it by subscribing to my membership perk here on youtube ( helping mimi's goal) the package.
@@MimiliciousMimi you mean this is Mary I told you before I've been really long distance relationship he was the scammer when I first met him two years ago but somehow we got feeling for each other and just yesterday because I've been calling him out on all this stuff he introduced me to his whole family it's his family like you said the pictures they look like they're very very beautiful people very sweet and I want to go out there to visit but I'm so afraid I found out some things about him that he didn't tell me like I thought he was in his 30s he's only 25 so you always tell me age is just a number on the 55-year-old American I live in United States Boston Massachusetts can you please help me he's very needy he always want something and if I don't give it to him he's always nasty always mean to me and I'm using smarter than this and I'm so embarrassed cuz I try to help them and nothing I do is good enough I just lost my husband for 27 years and I met him on dating site he hit me up on Facebook well I met one with Nigerian guy who said he's got deployed it and then I swear to God I had military tattooed on my forehead don't ask me how I'm like so confused alone I don't think I'm beautiful I don't even think I'm cute but I have so much love to share with somebody and have a good heart the personality good sense of humor and he always makes me sad what do I do do I just forget about him and delete them I do love them don't ask me why I'm so embarrassed I feel like an idiot but I love you channel and I will be describing it when I get my check cuz I just love you keep up the good work
@@MimiliciousMimi Monday I wanted you know the pizza or whatever donate cuz I really would like to talk to you I'm here I'm having a real problem I'm so embarrassed so Monday I'll put whatever 2550 I'm really not good with Instagram and stuff but I need some help cuz I watch it channel and I love it
Thank you for your advisements, Oh, I'm Spanish dating a Nigerian man and I'm afraid to fall in love with somebody who cheats or degrading me. So hard, but I'm aware...
Not just Nigerian, be very careful for men's overseas, as stated themselves as military stations overseas, they'll asked money for for them to visits their families, on leaves, to my knowledge, I believe,the military supposed to pay for their fair to visits their families
I'm very WATCHFUL with some of them, I I experience a lot, I learned a lot, I won't be a fools any more, thanks God for his guidance, every details I observed, no matter what they said, I will catch them on the first attempts
I met a Nigerian man in the apartment complex where I lived. He never ask me for anything. He was working at the time I met him. He went home he called me I heard children in the background and I went shopping with him to get some suits for work the credit card had a ladies name on it. He ask if I would go to Nigeria and if I wanted to go to school and what kind of business would I like to open. He would mostly come at bedtime. I cooked dinner once for him. He ask me to make him a cake we had with the dinner and to decorate the walls in his apartment. We invited him to my daughter's wedding he didn't attend the reception he kept calling to see if I was home yet. I started seeing other men. I think I owe him a apology. Dallas Texas he ask for a picture of us that we had taken at the wedding Lorraine
Thanks dear... Who wouldn't tse2.mm.bing.net/th?id=OGC.6cf7018cb53965255d8a3da5134d504e&pid=Api&rurl=https%3a%2f%2fmedia.giphy.com%2fmedia%2f3ofT5ISstLshYolhSg%2fgiphy.gif&ehk=%2fTlzD2cOqsQAzr1d%2bHTwqV2fsgtfjqEEnSUgEiZDSHE%3d
I love the emphasis on FAMILY INTEGRATION. Honestly, that is our strongest and weakest point. The extended family is an integral part of our marriage life either home or abroad. Apart from desperados, it is even easy to detect a genuine and fake Naija guys. It is good to do research about whoever you want to get into a relationship journey with. Generally, all societies have ugly elements, unfortunately, many elements are trying to just shame us. #Wemove
What if his mom passed away? I’m seeing a Nigerian man. He don’t ask me for anything. But I can tell he is a cheater. And he lies. Just found out he was married still in Nigeria. Even said Nigeria men prefer white women . Said less stressful
@Ms dee Hello dear, so sorry to hear that, I guess things like this happens all the time, but you will find a better person that is deserving. So, talking about this guy... I believe he is not a real guy looking for love... Do check this video out to learn more about about online dating tricks and lies th-cam.com/video/4u-jm8V0_w8/w-d-xo.html recently made it.
Omg I've heard that before too. When they say dating white women is less stressful that's because he wants someone that won't question him and just use them in peace. But noo way that's a red flag.
@@kudzaingandu1786 You right in a way, they know that white women and other African Nationalities e. g South Africans, Kenyans, Ugandans, Ethiopians etc don't know them like we do, we already know all their tactics and games and it's hard to mess with a fellow Nigerian. So, my advice is just be very smart, when dating a Nigerian man.
I actually just started dating a igbo man. Hes so sweet! I have so many questions, I have started to do alot of research about his culture and try to do things that are tradition for him. Its barely been 3 months, so I'm just being waiting patiently! Just want to make sure I'm not wasting my time!
Hello jan It's great you are dating an Igbo man, I hope everything turns out great for you two. Don't feel that way, just give your relationship time, plus learn some nice ways to keep your Nigerian man. It works
@@MimiliciousMimi thank you for responding. I will do just that. Some things on your other video, he hasn't done yet, like meeting his mom or family but he tells me about her and his siblings.
@debra some men online are like this... This is why women should be careful. This is also practiced by different nationalities sis, not just Nigerians.
thank you i got 5 friendships in one day its the same guy im sure ,trying to scam me ,,i like to play with them and here them beg ,thanks for the advice all true
I just started dating a African man and he doesn’t include me in anything other then the African club we met at . But outside of that he doesn’t answer the phone when I call “he’s always working “ and he told me he doesn’t spend the night at women’s house but I’m confused because he has a baby smh at this point it’s obvious that he’s married and Lives with his child’s mom or girlfriend smh
Yea he's married and playing you. And he wont leave her unless she boots him out and even then the wife will still have a major hold. African men are serious about their family even if they are cheating and that's with all west african men I know, not just Nigerians.
I just got played by a Nigerian man he admitted to me he is living with his wife and kids whole time he has been taking me out cooking for me and my children I’m disgusted
@Marce' Walker So sorry that happened to you sis, but am also surprised at how that happened with you right there all the while and you didn't notice a thing. Really we women sometimes don't see beyond what's in front of us. It could have been any man from any Nationality sis, we the women have our part to play in putting an end to such games by being more critical about many things in a relationship. Anyway sis, don't worry you deserve better than him.
@@MimiliciousMimi yep I’m suprised as well but i will remain vigilant moving forward and always trusting my first mind thank you for you advice and God bless you
Nice one. This is a balance talk. All what you said is 💯% correct. Thanks for educating other women. Bad ones has spoilt the good ones. You just earned a new subscriber in me. Love your sincere and frank talk.
I mate this guy on dating site he started to introducing me to his family the whole big family within a week and start calling people that are going pay bride price am scared.
You are telling nothing but the truth since it is so many of them scamming and hurting and breaking these ladies heart and knowing they have a whole wife family and kids out in the country some of them I tell you it's a crying shame for a man to do that to another human being Moosomin trying to talk at most of women out in America
I’m dating a divorced Nigerian man with five children(from 2 different women). It’s been over 3 months. Tbh, he is caring and kind but no empathy at all. He rarely says “I love you.” He is too rational. Whatever he is doing is right but whatever I am doing is mental problem according to him. He keeps changed his words. At this moment, I feel scared and threatened.
I almost become a fool for a Yoruba man I love him dearly but I invested my time thank god I avoided giving him money he was out to use me for sure it was another Igbo man that made me aware of his tactics and this man is such a darling to me . We are still building our friendship but he saved me from a ton of pain eventually I broke up with my Yoruba man and listened to the knowledge and all the truth came spilling out .
I would like to know if they have a child in Nigeria that’s with the mother but they are here in the US and have been in the US for 5 yrs , how does that situation normally go especially when the Nigerian Man tells the American lady he wants a long term relationship with her. And that he is not married or have a girlfriend and claims to love this American woman? Please help !!!! ???
First make sure he is really not married in Nigeria, then if he is single then I think all is well. The child though, ask him how it happened. Because we don't have too many baby mamas in Nigeria, but it's possible.
@@MimiliciousMimi thank you so much he seems very sincere and I don’t wanna bug him , but when I asked him he told me that his parents let him go to the states . But I know family is everything to them and I don’t believe that it would be allowed to have a child with someone and not marry them . In the back of my mind I feel like his family will be coming over at an appointed time and at the same time I could be wrong and I don’t wanna seem like I’m accusing him. When I asked him he answered and left it like that. Now he has talked to his brother and actually put me on the phone with him and introduced me as his Baby, we have known each other for 4 days and on the first day he said he loved me , so I’m just confused and just wanna be sure of his seriousness with me .
@@khylabrady493 OK dear, my advice is to take it slow, with time you will get to know and understand what's going on, give the relationship some time as it's a bit early to decide.
@@MimiliciousMimi Thank you , you are so awesome I’m glad I came across your channel . What I love most is that you take the time to respond right away 🙏😊👍🙌
Yes we talked all the time his family n i on video call and sometimes he get mad that I don’t wanna talk to his family sometimes. Am so confused, and his family love my twins they always wanna talk with my kids
@lulu UK You are most welcome sis, thanks for watching. Stay blessed. Please do follow my new Facebook page, there you can ask questions and get them answered by honest Nigerian men and women. facebook.com/Mimiliciousmirian
All true!! I was scammed!!! No job! Always an excuse for why he needed something, he was sick, no data so we couldn’t talk etc. he was so poor but had multiple phones and a laptop!! Over the course of 8 months I gave him about $2000. 50 here $100 there then $200 and so on. That’s a lot for a guy that can never even touch u !! but that wasn’t what hurt!! It was the fact that I fell for so many lies and let him into my heart and my life! It was truly the heart ache that killed me! I was the perfect victim!!! A grieving widow! As a write this I still can’t believe what happened!! Thank u so much for spreading awareness!!! This has to Stopp!!! I’m sure there are good Nigerians out there but for me I can never risk it again!! That pain is unlivable and it’s nearly impossible to escape the inner shame. I’ve never told any family or friends what happened to me but I thank God for plat forms like urs where ppl can learn and express their truth.
@Damon Wren Oh no! That's terrible.. So sorry this happened to you, but he was a real full time scammer. He is poor but has different phones and a laptop. Don't worry he will get what deserves for his wickedness.
@Damon wren You mention he had phones & laptops? Your answer is right there. He was an internet scammer. “ Yahoo boys” is what they are known as defrauding people of money on the internet… including LOVE SCAMS which is what he did with you.
Ive been online dating a nigerian for 2 years and believe hes scamming me. Ive met him in nigeria been to his family house he has all social media he has pics of me on his fb to show he wants me. I he been sending him 100 a month thought to help him out ive recently argued with him he feeling heartbroken. He says why would i let you go to my familys house. I said i would help him go uk but makes up reasons why he can't go yet.
He rarely speaks of the uk and he claims his brother has money but can't borrow money of him to go uk n pay him back. I've been speaking to another nigeria that I met at the time in nigeria this uber guy just been talking as friends hasn't ever asked me for money he says he would go to the uk.
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I loved this video and you are a Gem !!💎 👑 … 🙏🏽 . I do have a question if you will please… I’m dating a guy who is asking to use my Zelle account for his business transactions here in US. I have said no but he is pressing me to help him grow because Zelle or cashapp is not available in Nigeria. Please tell me your thoughts?
@ShowingLove please don't do anything connected to money with him, it's not advisable plus scamming starts like that. 2... You don't want to mess up your relationship because of money.
I love women who look out for each other!!
Mimi i am posting something on my youtubr please come look please!!!
Yes. We have to look out for one another. Doesn't matter what part of the world we live.
@Renee Denise Austin Truth sis.
@Kenneth Ebere Am good, thanks to God.
@@MimiliciousMimi I am going for my visa interview any tips? Also I want to take gifts to his family from america what would be good gifts for an American to bring to Nigerians
I just dated a nigerian man briefly and it was a lot of games. He's all like, don't play I like everything honest, and he was the biggest player ever. Thanks so much for the information, it helped me a lot!
You actually met a player, sorry about your experience.
Oh my, what's up with the bad experiences everyone having with my fellow brothers. Y'all be digging in the wrong places and looking for Idris Elba type of dude frfr.
@@gbolahanakinwanle8158 I doubt as Idris father was from Freetown. Not Nigerian. The Nigerian men chase hard. Stateside and abroad.
@@justicejoycetv I wasn't referring to the country when I mentioned Idris, rather I was talking about women picking on a guy who might be married yet he claimed single and women get caught up in that mess.
@@gbolahanakinwanle8158 ohhh Ok.
Finally a video who makes a difference between scammers and real men! Unfortunately lots of good Nigerian men have to face this bad reputation because of the scammers. Great video! Also your daughter is a sweety, best wishes for both of you!
iEden Aww thanks for watching and commenting, I really do appreciate you.
@@MimiliciousMimi thanks, is a pleasure! 💚
This happens so much. I married a scammer from Nigeria. Worst years of my life. His entire family was in on the scam! After I posted my I married a scammer video on my TH-cam channel I began to receive all kinds of threats as they tried to bully me into silence. And if scamming me wasn’t enough he tried to ruin my relationships, reputation, and finances.
@Ify Constance OH no! So sorry this happened to you, it's indeed a terrible thing to do to anyone!
@Ify Yep….they are the worst!
@Ash L Don't you think you are generalization when you say that...
@@ashl8804 Look in the mirror
This happened to me babe he’s still denying it to this day we have children together and was 9 year relationship
Wow! Just stumbled on this. I am a Nigerian man! I can tell you only 10% of Nigerian men are as wicked as you described. We hustle so hard to take care of our women and family, and hence have no time for us to play shenanigans. It's so unfortunate that it's the very few negative ones that gets talked about often.
@valentineachum1020 I agree with you on that.
@valentineachum1020 I need advice please just recently started with a Nigerian man which is my first experience I have been to his house met his son and everything was wonderful for the whole visit but now I've been back home for a day and suddenly he's not answering my calls and has become cold towards me for no reason at all, I feel that I have been played and used am I right?
Although the players might be a minority, I think you hear about the bad apples so often because love scams are so cruel and leave the victims scarred for life.
@@marediththaele1076
Although, I'm not a relationship expert, but you deserve a man who wouldn't just switch up on you whether he's Nigerian or not. Self worth is very important in any relationship, be it business, love, etc. If your self worth is being taken off the shelf, then you don't deserve to be in such relationship. I know Nigerian men are damn good in taking care of their women. I say this because I'm a thorough bred and buttered Nigerian man myself. However, nobody says you must remain with a Nigerian man if he's not treating you well. Find your worth before you find your man. Love from a Nigerian man ❤️🌹🍷🙏
10% is too low
My Igbo Nigerian man treats me like a queen
@shelia Anderson That's great to hear. Thanks for sharing.
Thanking you
I love my Nigerian boyfriend I’m American and that man treats me sooo good. A lot of
What you said is so true thank u
@karmekia Wilson oh! Thanks a lot for watching, am glad you found love in the arms of a Nigerian man, am happy for you. Please don't forget to like, share and subscribe to my channel for more jist.
They only used black American women for citizenship
@@MrDonya2392 Well if that’s true, so what..He bought my house, car all cash.. & I haven’t paid any bills for 6 years…Most African men spoil us
@Pretty Ladies83 Don't listen to him, he is absolutely wrong.
Did take along time for your Niger man’s to come American
I’m Haitian and dated a Nigerian man, he was not a good person at all. He deceived me and I don’t think I will ever date one again lol
@Rmon You dated a bad guy sis, not because of his Nationality, he was just a bad guy and you find this in every Nationality.
What happened
How you didn't pee sis. Haitians and Nigerians are blood siblings.
Just show me one good Nigeria man, just one. The greed and wickedness is never ending!!
@Michelle Jones Mind your language Mr. Don't you think you are generalizing and it's wrong?
,so true I met one named Eghieye very wealthy but a total jackass
Because you all go for the wrong ones sis.
@@MimiliciousMimi All Nigerian men with main motive to come to the U.S are the wrong ones.
Come to Kenya we have good men
This video was very informative. I have run into alot who just want to scam. I met a nice Nigerian guy who explained scams to me too! Now I mostly date Nigerian men because I know the culture better
@ Starr Johnson Wow! thanks for watching and learning, am really trying to teach my Nigerian culture and traditions to non Nigerians. To also keep the few bad Nigerian guys away from tarnishing my people's image . Happy dating 😁
Thank you!
I like dating Nigerian men.I want to learn about the culture to keep him from mistreating me .
Watch some of my other videos, I talk a lot about Nigerian men.
You're smart. You avoiding being played. Most are players
Learning the culture doesn't stop a Nigerian man from mistreating you! If he is fake or an abuser learning his culture won't help.
@@bibibello2181 Yep….! It all comes down to the ‘heart’ and what his moral compass his. Most women choose to stay deluded to keep a man.
@@ashl8804 like seriously
So true!!! I've dated a Nigerian guy for little over a year. What you are saying my sister is so true.
@shannon Thanks for that validation girl.. I really appreciate your contribution.
Not all of us dear,u just met the wrong guy
@Victor Anthony That's right.
I'm a Kenyan lady but I'm dating a Nigeria man and I have communication with his family he treat me very well I love him and he loves me soo much
Can I ask how long you guys been together and how long it took for him to introduce you to his family? Thanks
I think they different from our kenyan men who are fake
@Jem K Yes they are different.
dont post BS while hiding and pretending to be from kenya. you have invaded east africa and decieving naive girls there. google a girl called rita waeni.@@jemk6098
Probably cause your still from Africa you have more understanding
I dated a Nigerian men and lawd..so tired of him...i literally stay away from him because hes too abrasive and harsh sometimes..almost rude..asking me to help him with his homework and cheap..so i dont go around him simple...he just tends to annoy me..so I stay away..and that bothers him🙄😄...i remember he asked me if I wanted to talk to his mom before going to the next step...I said no..because i didnt care for his behavior🤷🏾♀️
@A Copeland It's unfortunate that you met such a Nigerian man, anyways men that him exist every where, but our choices matters a lot.
I love your honesty & genuinuity. I believe that wherever this man is from he will not dare ask a woman to send him her money. If he's genuine, he will not let you lift a finger, he will take care of her. American or not, we'll know real love & respect.
@Princess Thanks sis, and that's right.
I'm a nigerian my sister you're saying the truth ,please expose those bad ones among us they are tarnishing the image of the good people we are
@Taofik Akinyemi Thanks a lot for standing up to the truth, I appreciate you watching and contributing.
Am really in need of a Nigerian man but am scared
@@lesimalek3153 it depends on where you are ,if they're around you just be sure to are hard working, dedicated to their job study their behavior make friends then you can know better
@@taofikakinyemi7417 am in Zambia nd am divorce 28 years nd he is 26 years I told him I cant date you but he cant leave me alone
@@lesimalek3153 I can't speak people's mind but it seems may he likes you but ultimately you are the one to decide what you want for yourself
I learned to love the game. When he played I'd play more and laugh and he hated when I laughed because he really wanted me to be played. He called me immature but he was immature and sloppy because he really though he was doing something and I am embarrassed for him.
I would never date one again most are liars!!!!!
@Beloved By Jah Not really, I would say some not most, and when they are lying it's plain to see, but women just don't look deeper than their lying tongues.
They don't need you either
@@akinwaleolayinka3849
They probably don’t want you likewise. 🤷🏽♀️
@@akinwaleolayinka3849 most of you are liars.big scammers.
@@queenylovice6085 Find your liars and stammers go front! I'm not among.
I make my money in a legit way thanks.
My Nigerian Husband has not received his Visa yet to come to the U.S. since the pandemic he has been hinting he needs money....like clock work I have found myself giving it. He knows how it makes me feel. He claims he never asks, so its not his fault, but he has no issues telling me each month about all his issues. When I visit him and his family I feel like a queen, but returning home alone and giving him money and after I told him and myself I wouldnt makes me feel like crap. I honestly was not raised to ever take care of a man. I no longer get the text messages sent consistently that I like and I hate he uses the money unwisely to go to restaurants each night and weddings and funerals. Those events you are expected to give money. What the heck did he do before he met me. I just dont know if I should bring him here to the US and continue the marriage.
@121782cs Wow! This is unacceptable, sad to say... But he is indeed using you and also very irresponsible about the way he spends the money you give him, what does he do? Why depend solely on you. Please you need to define the purpose of your relationship dear, he seems all about money.
I think you already know the answer
Don’t bring his ass to US. You gone be takin care of a man child
Too much red flags here, don't bring him to America, that will be the worse thing you can do, and you will end up regretting it, he's using you for money, walk away and change your number.
Same but not married!!! Please stop!!! He is using you!!! When he gets here the fights will be insane and divorce will follow!!! That is certain because what he wants is ur status NOT YOU!!! Oh and there is a new game they play to get out of the marriage quickly so it won’t be long hunny!! I feel like crap now but u ar gonna feel like a skid mark on the devils draws if u break ur back
OMG Facts!! Thank you for your transparency! Got the T-shirt on all of these scenarios and won't be going back, thanks! xxx
@The Jones' 😁😁😁 You are most welcome. I really do appreciate you.
Am dating Nigerian from Ibadan. He introduced me to his parents and brothers. We meet online and see each other here in UAE . So far his good . I invite him to my religion. And he like it.. so far we good.
Is his name Saheed
Girl it’s a scam.
I'm married to an Igbo man from Anambra. I know someday I have to follow him to his country and I'm all in. But I'm glad that I found him .. I will choose him over and over again.
Fun fact.. I'm an Indian
@Fidelin Yap Wow! That's awesome..I have always know that Nigerian men will marry anyone they love 💍❤️ you are proof. How are you coping with the cultural differences sis, can you share some with us please. Thanks so much for watching and contributing, I really do appreciate you.
I`ve been married to a Nigerian man for 9 years(but I`ve never been to Nigeria)if for a reason things do not work in the future, I`ll be very thankful for the wonderful years I had.
@Rika Yangu You should know that our men are actually very amazing and has family values sis. Am happy you can testify to this. This video was made for the few bad eggs... The scammers precisely...
@@MimiliciousMimi You know,sometimes I feel like I need to pinch myself.I do say to myself, this is the person I was looking for all mylife.Remember I`ve been there, done that before I met him,so it`s not a teeny love and not a brand new marriage, we`ve been married 9 years as already said and together 11 years.
@@rikayangu3833That fatalistic tone I sense from you about your marriage won't help.
When we marry, we expect it to last forever. Whatever fears you might have about how long the marriage might last due to your past experiences or culture around you, I would advice that you don't express them in words. He would find it strange and it would affect his commitment. We don't get divorced because we are bored or run out of love.
@Rika Yangu Let's be friends on my personal Facebook page (Mimi's corner) I hold a ladies night every Wednesday night.
Thanks for this ❤️
I’m currently dating a Nigerian. Very handsome, charming and also quite narcissistic. On the one hand I talked to his real mother and siblings on cam and he keeps telling me he needs a baby but yet he keeps asking me for money too which I’m not giving him on demand because I feel he’s trying to use me whenever he’s asking me for money. As you said a man should not depend on his women. It’s such a turn off. By the way he has no documents over here but he has a job and earns good money himself so whenever he claims I’m responsible for him I get hurt and feel used. I’m sure he kind of likes me and finds me attractive but I’m afraid he needs a child just to get documents. I don’t know, there’s a lot of question marks in my head but my gut feeling is I should just leave before it’s too hard to leave
@Mecht Hild You are most welcome sis, my advice is... Your heart will never deceive you, so please follow your heart.
Thats what they all do here in uk. They look for white women to date and tell them to have child together just to get uk citizenship.
@@MimiliciousMimi The human heart is ‘deceitful and wicked’ above all things BUT for the mercy of God.
@Mech H ‘Guard’ your heart. It’s pretty clear he’s using you. They usually all always have an agenda, a self-serving one. Value yourself.
@@ashl8804 Truth and the heart will deceive you but your intuition won't. It sounds like Sis already knows the answer.
I wish i could of seen your videos before dating.
However because i go church. The holy spirit spoke to me and i started seeing things.
@anonymous Hallelujah!! 🙌🙌🙌🔥🔥🔥
I met a Nigerian man we dated for about a month then all of sudden he stopped calling and texting I found that weird because I know a Nigerian is very attentive. He told me that he was working alot and he has some things going on now I'm not stupid by any means so of course I did my research found out he was engaged to get married to another woman and when I confronted him he claim she was a friend but I knew the real deal you can marry whoever you want for whatever reason but don't put me in your lies! He wanted to see me and talk and when I called to say I talk to him he hung up in my face 🤣 don't play with me !
@sharon That was a real player, thank God you were smarter than he thought. Some of these online guys are just something else, bet we should all be careful. Thanks for contributing.
He trying to weigh his options tho lol. But on a serious note, that's not supposed to come up, y'all could end up being friends if he was honest about his relationship and marriage bells. But I see he tryna stick you around for a back up lol
@@gbolahanakinwanle8158 I have enough friends! I know what I bring to the table as a woman and he had a agenda and he knew that he couldn't play me because I was too observant I don't care what you do and how you do it leave me out of it. If he had said hey I met both of you at the same time and I wanna make it work with her yea my ego would have been crushed a little but at least I knew where I stood! Not that lying shit frfr
@@sharonfowlkes4864 I wouldn't believe he met both of you within a month and then he's already engaged to the other, but well so good you did your research and then he trying to cover up his bs. He's just an individual who should take responsibility of his actions, and most women should stop attributing an individual to the populace.
@@gbolahanakinwanle8158 I'm pretty sure he didn't Meer us around the same time I'm pretty sure he was dating her when he met me. I'm pretty sure he knew what he was doing all along! I'm certain that he wanted his cake and eat it too! I'm not upset at the situation I'm upset because you tried to play me like I'm stupid! Like I said when I met him I was very direct about what I wanted and how Nigerians have a bad reputation I was apprehensive about dealing with him from day one but I said I would give him a chance.
We women have to be careful esp for marriage bec he wants papers to bring his family using you as a woman let's open our eyes it's so sad to marry but sleeping in different rooms in one house pretending ,let's wake up
I date a Nigerian man now for nearly 3 years..I met all his family so far...so we going to meet this year.
I'm a Malaysian lady dating a Nigerian man. Thank you for your honesty. God bless you.
@Tanya Biggs You are most welcome sis, Bless you too.
Apa kabar syng🤣
A stereotypes mindset it's like a river and oceans mindering aimlessly , flowing from coastal regions to dessert land without any visions , dreams , missions to settled and accomprised divine purposes. of life than engaging in a sorrowful ,terrible. ,relationships that brought you , sadness / joy , hopelessness , miserable lifestyle . Millions of Nigerian men are not naturally worthless and very mischievous . Women of substance , virtual , values , characters , sophisticated with wisdoms , knowledge and. Complete understanding are always praying to seeks God face for husbands /marriage ..It's not necessarily mean that everyone should marry Mr right but it just depends on good characters and behaviors . By the virtual of reasoning , I strongly believed that every individuals ladies and men in Nigeria are absolutely very good people .Peace
Wow.. thank you so much for truth.. and helping us recognizing the good and the bad❤
Oh I needed to hear this. Thank you for supporting all women. I would do the same. We need to stick together but it's not like that in America. You are beautiful inside and out. May God Bless you and your family.
@Evelyne Pulice Peele You are most welcome sis, thanks for watching, I really do appreciate you.
Thank you 🙏🏼 for sharing this information with all of us.
Can still be fake even if they let u meet their friends n family
@Mel-fl5fs True for every relationship, so we have to be smart and follow our intuitions.
most of the time when the good Nigeria guys come, the ladies push them away
@Ekene Bethel Really? Can you share your reason with with us, so my ladies know.
@@MimiliciousMimi the women are so fast to conclude that all Nigerian men are bad, so when the good ones come its a turn off because they are treated as the same like they are bad too,
with what i have seen, most women are not family oriented, most Nigeria good guys are family oriented that want to have a family build together with the woman they love and take good care of her, but what we see are women that always believe in the Nigeria guys spend on women so we should now spend our money that we no longer think of having extra investment and build for the future and children to be born its important to take good care of a woman because to know a mans wealth, you look at his wife
most women now what they know is spend spend spend, don't ask how the money is gotten from and most sometimes are not business oriented or smarts that's why Nigeria guys still go back and marry Nigerian women, that's another reason
@Ekene Bethel wow brother that's a lot, I really do understand your views and exactly what you mean, it is for this purpose that we should all communicate and maybe my ladies will know exactly what's happening and change their attitudes when it come to picking a man of their choice, I appreciate your insights. Thanks for contributing, I appreciate you.
I met a Nigerian man he’s 18 yrs older than me he was previously married to a American woman but got divorced he lived alone and everything seemed legit and he’s successful but he’s not what I’m used to he came on so strong so fast automatically wanting to help me out and things like that it scared me a little and I hesitated, he’s been on my mind constantly lately, I’ve recently started regretting not taking that chance with him and currently trying to get him bck guess we’ll see lol 🤞🏽
@Ashley Renee Hi sis, do not be scared a successful Nigerian man who likes or loves a girl can do anything for her, it's a Nigerian man thing... He kind of feels that you are his responsibility. So, fear not sis. 😊
wow. i'm married to one BUT i'm half nigerian as well. the thing about doing away with them ITS VERY TRUE. "we know how to bust them"! lol
@Abim wessey LOL... right? Trust naija babe na. Thanks for watching and contributing sis. I really appreciate you.
I like your video, you care about women who meet Nigerian man.
Yes I do, just my little way of passing information to all my beautiful ladies out there.
@@MimiliciousMimi Thank you sis you're correct love your honesty
@Jackson Elijah Thank you, I really do appreciate you.
@@MimiliciousMimi Thank you for your prompt response..I'd like to ask you if you have you noticed this please don't get me wrong but I've noticed these guys hv nercissist behaviors... Nigerian man especially Igbos my God they hv huge Ego and self intitlement tendencies.
@@jacksonelijah693 you are actually right about the Ego and entitlement behavior thing. Their Ego is bigger than other tribes. Hoping to make a video about the Igbo men and their behaviors soon.
Theres a bunch of them here in Canada not my cup of tea 😂 but i know a few girlies who have been tricked. But like i said before these naija men need to date naija women , stay amongst eachother and leave us alone respectfully
@Saida Dabel 😂😂😂 Sis there's just something about naija men that women can't really resist 😉😉😉. But we naija women are not complaining oooo... They are enough to go around 😊😊😊
@Saida D Yep….!
Desperate women can't resist because where I live Nigerian men are the easiest men to get. They will drop their current girlfriend right then and there.
The double standards of almost all men is insane. Very very sad case recently of a beautiful young Nigerian lady being shot and killed in Italy by her Italian husband who was decades older than her. Allegedly her so called friend had told the Italian man that she intended to divorce him, as soon as her permanent residency was granted. The husband waited, and sure enough she soon said she was filing for divorce. He killed her outside of her work place, leaving children in Nigeria without a Mother. So so so many Nigerian men were commenting on the article to say that 'Italian men no play,' that she should not have deceived the man for residency. If an elderly Italian woman shot and killed a young Nigerian man who did the same, let's see if they would have had the same energy.
@flowersintherain So sad, and people keep doing that just for papers. It's not worth it.
So sad I was in a scam we have children together he recently had a baby to African wife when my daughter also a baby I didn’t know his intentions now I feel very sad for my children and what he’s done
He is 67, was 65 when I met him. 2 kids here in the US. Two grown kids in Nigeria with their Mom. Who he says he is divorced from. We have dated 2 yrs. He has never introduced me to his son or daughter. Does not let me come to his house accept once when his pipes froze during a freeze. He always comes to mine. He calls often I call him anytime and he talks. What you have said about family is true. His Mom is dead. I talked to his sister once who was rather dry on the phone. I spoke to his brother once. I have found that he is a very private very Traditional Yoruba Man. We recently broke up over me getting angry because I realize just what you are saying that the relationship will go no further than where it is. Even though I love this man very much. I had to leave him alone we are too old for this type of game.
@Carol Jamieson That's the best decision sis, he can't be separated from his wife and still hiding you from his kids.
Sound like he’s still married. Wife just lives in Nigeria. It’s actually very common. He doesn’t introduce the kids to you because they’ll be furious their dad is dating while still married to their mum.
@@livelystones7773some wives are in on it
My situation is a bit different… but I must remember your statement being treated right… and that they want to take care and give us the best… thanks 🙏🏻 God bless you 😍
@Xin 2 Yu You are most welcome. Thanks for watching and commenting.
I am so tired of dealing with men like this.
@Ms Birdafter40 Am so sorry Sis, but once they come, you will know them sis... Just walk away from them as not good comes from them. Thanks for watching
Thank you sister, ladies need to protect each other. Love to see this.
@Ren X You are most welcome sis, thanks for watching
Thank you so much for revealing the romance scammers. Everything you are saying is true. I had to take a stand and ground with scammers and the script that he used, and identity thief was involved. They are liars, about everything. I finally took my stand, and I ended the relationship. I have so much peace.
I'm in a long distance relationship with the guy from Nigeria and you absolutely right he thinks he's telling me what I want to hear but I know it's all lies and I think it's kind of sad because they give other people a bad name like he's mean sometimes he's always angry and he's always wants something always
@Mary Matthews Sis, most online Nigerian men are scammers and they go by various names and personalities to scam unsuspecting women and what you have just discribed, is the attitude of a scammer. Always wanting something cus that's all he cares about... Mean and angry if he doesn't succeed. He feels like you are giving him a hard time in his game. Please be careful or block him.
@@MimiliciousMimi I think you absolutely right but we've been talking for 2 years we FaceTime all the time I don't know I'll probably get fooled he is a sweet talker please I need some advice
@Mary Matthews Sure sis, let's connect on Instagram there we can private chat... or If you need a one on one call, you can avail it by subscribing to my membership perk here on youtube ( helping mimi's goal) the package.
@@MimiliciousMimi you mean this is Mary I told you before I've been really long distance relationship he was the scammer when I first met him two years ago but somehow we got feeling for each other and just yesterday because I've been calling him out on all this stuff he introduced me to his whole family it's his family like you said the pictures they look like they're very very beautiful people very sweet and I want to go out there to visit but I'm so afraid I found out some things about him that he didn't tell me like I thought he was in his 30s he's only 25 so you always tell me age is just a number on the 55-year-old American I live in United States Boston Massachusetts can you please help me he's very needy he always want something and if I don't give it to him he's always nasty always mean to me and I'm using smarter than this and I'm so embarrassed cuz I try to help them and nothing I do is good enough I just lost my husband for 27 years and I met him on dating site he hit me up on Facebook well I met one with Nigerian guy who said he's got deployed it and then I swear to God I had military tattooed on my forehead don't ask me how I'm like so confused alone I don't think I'm beautiful I don't even think I'm cute but I have so much love to share with somebody and have a good heart the personality good sense of humor and he always makes me sad what do I do do I just forget about him and delete them I do love them don't ask me why I'm so embarrassed I feel like an idiot but I love you channel and I will be describing it when I get my check cuz I just love you keep up the good work
@@MimiliciousMimi Monday I wanted you know the pizza or whatever donate cuz I really would like to talk to you I'm here I'm having a real problem I'm so embarrassed so Monday I'll put whatever 2550 I'm really not good with Instagram and stuff but I need some help cuz I watch it channel and I love it
Baby girl is too cute, luv the education, blessings beautiful ❤
blocking this Nigerian guy that keeps flirting with me even though I tell him I am married. Thank you sis.
As a Nigerian man if he ask you money just know he's not real..i don't mean soft change but hard money...RED FLAG
Thank you for your advisements, Oh, I'm Spanish dating a Nigerian man and I'm afraid to fall in love with somebody who cheats or degrading me. So hard, but I'm aware...
@Daisy Bits You are so welcome, thanks for watching and contributing, don't forget to check out my other videos and have a lovely day
Hi @daisybits1650 i see this comment is from 2 years ago. I’m in the same situation but right now. May I ask how did it go?
@@cinthiafernandez5908 so bad
Not just Nigerian, be very careful for men's overseas, as stated themselves as military stations overseas, they'll asked money for for them to visits their families, on leaves, to my knowledge, I believe,the military supposed to pay for their fair to visits their families
Hi thanks for sharing this. I'm actually dating a Nigerian man. I'm from Trinidad and Tobago. I really like but I don't understand him
@Starlene Rodriguez That's great, what don't you understand about him? We can private chat if you want.
@@MimiliciousMimi hi thank you for responding! I would love to chat with you more thanks
OK on Instagram same name
@@MimiliciousMimi thanks I'm starangelia on Instagram
Girl I'm in the same boat I'm from Guyana n hes living here too
i advise anyone to write everything down dates and names ,they often make mistakes
shirlaine Williams You are absolutely right, liars often make mistakes.
Yes, because they lie so much they forget they lies they have told.
I'm very WATCHFUL with some of them, I I experience a lot, I learned a lot, I won't be a fools any more, thanks God for his guidance, every details I observed, no matter what they said, I will catch them on the first attempts
@Dorothea Santiago Great!
I met a Nigerian man in the apartment complex where I lived. He never ask me for anything. He was working at the time I met him. He went home he called me I heard children in the background and I went shopping with him to get some suits for work the credit card had a ladies name on it. He ask if I would go to Nigeria and if I wanted to go to school and what kind of business would I like to open. He would mostly come at bedtime. I cooked dinner once for him. He ask me to make him a cake we had with the dinner and to decorate the walls in his apartment. We invited him to my daughter's wedding he didn't attend the reception he kept calling to see if I was home yet. I started seeing other men. I think I owe him a apology. Dallas Texas he ask for a picture of us that we had taken at the wedding Lorraine
Thank you! I’m dating my Obi’M in Nigeria. These are good things to remember. 💕
@Dee_Tracy You are most welcome sis, thanks for watching.
❤ sister, you are blessed ❤ thanks 4 sharing! 😊
@Chantelleparkinson2494 You are most welcome sis🙏
Girl you speak nothing but the truth. I love Naija men.
Thanks dear... Who wouldn't tse2.mm.bing.net/th?id=OGC.6cf7018cb53965255d8a3da5134d504e&pid=Api&rurl=https%3a%2f%2fmedia.giphy.com%2fmedia%2f3ofT5ISstLshYolhSg%2fgiphy.gif&ehk=%2fTlzD2cOqsQAzr1d%2bHTwqV2fsgtfjqEEnSUgEiZDSHE%3d
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Thank You Sis. Women need this!
I love the emphasis on FAMILY INTEGRATION. Honestly, that is our strongest and weakest point. The extended family is an integral part of our marriage life either home or abroad.
Apart from desperados, it is even easy to detect a genuine and fake Naija guys. It is good to do research about whoever you want to get into a relationship journey with.
Generally, all societies have ugly elements, unfortunately, many elements are trying to just shame us.
#Wemove
@gr8ofnetwork we moveeeee.
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Aaaaaah thank you lady. Even men from Ivory coast are players averagely. Barely honest.
What if his mom passed away? I’m seeing a Nigerian man. He don’t ask me for anything. But I can tell he is a cheater. And he lies. Just found out he was married still in Nigeria. Even said Nigeria men prefer white women . Said less stressful
@Ms dee Hello dear, so sorry to hear that, I guess things like this happens all the time, but you will find a better person that is deserving. So, talking about this guy... I believe he is not a real guy looking for love... Do check this video out to learn more about about online dating tricks and lies
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Ohhhh hellz no you leave that man
Omg I've heard that before too. When they say dating white women is less stressful that's because he wants someone that won't question him and just use them in peace. But noo way that's a red flag.
@@kudzaingandu1786 You right in a way, they know that white women and other African Nationalities e. g South Africans, Kenyans, Ugandans, Ethiopians etc don't know them like we do, we already know all their tactics and games and it's hard to mess with a fellow Nigerian. So, my advice is just be very smart, when dating a Nigerian man.
@Reign Rain I know Nigerian man follow their hearts not the skin colour.
I experienced, I got out safe God is good. 🙌🏿
@ishaw9894 Thanks to God 🙏
I actually just started dating a igbo man. Hes so sweet! I have so many questions, I have started to do alot of research about his culture and try to do things that are tradition for him. Its barely been 3 months, so I'm just being waiting patiently! Just want to make sure I'm not wasting my time!
Hello jan
It's great you are dating an Igbo man, I hope everything turns out great for you two. Don't feel that way, just give your relationship time, plus learn some nice ways to keep your Nigerian man. It works
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@@MimiliciousMimi I watched it already and subscribed to your channel!!
@@MimiliciousMimi thank you for responding. I will do just that. Some things on your other video, he hasn't done yet, like meeting his mom or family but he tells me about her and his siblings.
Thanks for subscribing, have fun watching.
😳😳😳 omg scary… this made me so sick to my stomach and now I’m more confused than when you started
@Loc'd Nlovely what's confusing you, share with us.
Thousands if £1.000..in depts by telling me lots of lies ...this was an online relationship ...be ware ladies ....
Jamaican men love and care for their ladies too.
I have Nigeria friends for 3 years they beg for iphones and money and gift cards I never send most them scammers
@debra some men online are like this... This is why women should be careful. This is also practiced by different nationalities sis, not just Nigerians.
That is good that you know that they are scammers, at least that way you wont get scammed
Bravo sis! You are coirGious! Thank you 🙏♥️
This is really helpful as our mentality is really different.
Thank you ❤
@S R You are most welcome sis
😂😂😂 9ja boys , make una come ooo
This woman don blow ur cover 😅😅
@benconson My brother, E don tey when their cover blow. 🌬️
thank you i got 5 friendships in one day its the same guy im sure ,trying to scam me ,,i like to play with them and here them beg ,thanks for the advice all true
Real talk, I've been in a relationship with a Nigerian men(igbo)he is a wicked man I've ever met, he is cursed and his family for the rest of my life
@Zheia Pit Oh my! 😳😳😳 What did he do sis...
I just started dating a African man and he doesn’t include me in anything other then the African club we met at . But outside of that he doesn’t answer the phone when I call “he’s always working “ and he told me he doesn’t spend the night at women’s house but I’m confused because he has a baby smh at this point it’s obvious that he’s married and
Lives with his child’s mom or girlfriend smh
@Tiffany Terry I don't trust that man, he may be married. Investigate!
Yea he's married and playing you. And he wont leave her unless she boots him out and even then the wife will still have a major hold. African men are serious about their family even if they are cheating and that's with all west african men I know, not just Nigerians.
@Angela Marie You have accurately described a married Nigerian man who decides to cheat briefly. Ladies please be careful.
The red flags is very clear to see, get rid of him
@@MsMetalmonkey23 , Exactly, I've dated someone from Ghana and Nigeria and they both were exactly the same, never again!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Someone told me I act like a Nigerian girl. Don’t know what he meant. I guess he meant he can’t play me?😂
This video is real shit. Ladies be awake and really listen as what this lady says are FACTS
Like seriously
I just got played by a Nigerian man he admitted to me he is living with his wife and kids whole time he has been taking me out cooking for me and my children I’m disgusted
@Marce' Walker So sorry that happened to you sis, but am also surprised at how that happened with you right there all the while and you didn't notice a thing. Really we women sometimes don't see beyond what's in front of us. It could have been any man from any Nationality sis, we the women have our part to play in putting an end to such games by being more critical about many things in a relationship. Anyway sis, don't worry you deserve better than him.
@@MimiliciousMimi yep I’m suprised as well but i will remain vigilant moving forward and always trusting my first mind thank you for you advice and God bless you
@Marce'Walker You are most welcome sis, stay blessed.
Nice one. This is a balance talk. All what you said is 💯% correct. Thanks for educating other women. Bad ones has spoilt the good ones. You just earned a new subscriber in me. Love your sincere and frank talk.
@Olumuyiwa Ojo Thanks bro, you are welcome to our family.
Yiu are so educational helping us women that are non knowledgeable big this
You're describing Dominican men too
Jamaicans too 😂
Even if he shows you his own mama he is still
Lying. Ladies these men are for rinsing them, take all the cash and runnnnnn
@Zamzam Ali This is a fallacy of hasty generalization and conclusion, don't you think?
Thanks sis for that wonderful and beautiful tip
@mary You are most welcome
I mate this guy on dating site he started to introducing me to his family the whole big family within a week and start calling people that are going pay bride price am scared.
@foshini ikes That's ridiculous! He is indeed a scammer!
You are telling nothing but the truth since it is so many of them scamming and hurting and breaking these ladies heart and knowing they have a whole wife family and kids out in the country some of them I tell you it's a crying shame for a man to do that to another human being Moosomin trying to talk at most of women out in America
yes its true
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thank you for the heads up & your very beautiful God bless you & your daughter :)
Amen sis, Bless you too.
I’m dating a divorced Nigerian man with five children(from 2 different women). It’s been over 3 months. Tbh, he is caring and kind but no empathy at all. He rarely says “I love you.” He is too rational. Whatever he is doing is right but whatever I am doing is mental problem according to him. He keeps changed his words. At this moment, I feel scared and threatened.
Sounds like a narcissist!
Nice content sis❤️❤️
I’m also in the UAE, precisely Dubai 😊
I almost become a fool for a Yoruba man I love him dearly but I invested my time thank god I avoided giving him money he was out to use me for sure it was another Igbo man that made me aware of his tactics and this man is such a darling to me . We are still building our friendship but he saved me from a ton of pain eventually I broke up with my Yoruba man and listened to the knowledge and all the truth came spilling out .
Thanks to God sis 🙏🙏
I would like to know if they have a child in Nigeria that’s with the mother but they are here in the US and have been in the US for 5 yrs , how does that situation normally go especially when the Nigerian Man tells the American lady he wants a long term relationship with her. And that he is not married or have a girlfriend and claims to love this American woman? Please help !!!! ???
First make sure he is really not married in Nigeria, then if he is single then I think all is well. The child though, ask him how it happened. Because we don't have too many baby mamas in Nigeria, but it's possible.
@@MimiliciousMimi thank you so much he seems very sincere and I don’t wanna bug him , but when I asked him he told me that his parents let him go to the states . But I know family is everything to them and I don’t believe that it would be allowed to have a child with someone and not marry them . In the back of my mind I feel like his family will be coming over at an appointed time and at the same time I could be wrong and I don’t wanna seem like I’m accusing him. When I asked him he answered and left it like that. Now he has talked to his brother and actually put me on the phone with him and introduced me as his Baby, we have known each other for 4 days and on the first day he said he loved me , so I’m just confused and just wanna be sure of his seriousness with me .
@@khylabrady493 OK dear, my advice is to take it slow, with time you will get to know and understand what's going on, give the relationship some time as it's a bit early to decide.
@@MimiliciousMimi Thank you , you are so awesome I’m glad I came across your channel . What I love most is that you take the time to respond right away 🙏😊👍🙌
You are welcome, I will keep trying my best too respond. I appreciate you and all my subscribers.
I believe he is the truth
Yes we talked all the time his family n i on video call and sometimes he get mad that I don’t wanna talk to his family sometimes. Am so confused, and his family love my twins they always wanna talk with my kids
@ Lydia weay Am happy for you
Thanks for sharing... it's very helpful for me
@lulu UK You are most welcome sis, thanks for watching. Stay blessed. Please do follow my new Facebook page, there you can ask questions and get them answered by honest Nigerian men and women. facebook.com/Mimiliciousmirian
Thanks a lot for this video... I'm really happy I'm not deceiving myself
@Melany Kateliny You are so welcome, thanks for watching and commenting I really do appreciate you.
All true!! I was scammed!!! No job! Always an excuse for why he needed something, he was sick, no data so we couldn’t talk etc. he was so poor but had multiple phones and a laptop!! Over the course of 8 months I gave him about $2000. 50 here $100 there then $200 and so on. That’s a lot for a guy that can never even touch u !! but that wasn’t what hurt!! It was the fact that I fell for so many lies and let him into my heart and my life! It was truly the heart ache that killed me! I was the perfect victim!!! A grieving widow! As a write this I still can’t believe what happened!! Thank u so much for spreading awareness!!! This has to Stopp!!! I’m sure there are good Nigerians out there but for me I can never risk it again!! That pain is unlivable and it’s nearly impossible to escape the inner shame. I’ve never told any family or friends what happened to me but I thank God for plat forms like urs where ppl can learn and express their truth.
@Damon Wren Oh no! That's terrible.. So sorry this happened to you, but he was a real full time scammer. He is poor but has different phones and a laptop. Don't worry he will get what deserves for his wickedness.
Same here I feel very bad. How could I fall so down knowing everything since the beginning. I cannot forgive myself for my low self esteem
@Anhan Anhan so sorry this happened to you, there's really no justification for any man to treat any woman that way. He will be paid in his coin.
@Damon wren
You mention he had phones & laptops?
Your answer is right there.
He was an internet scammer. “
Yahoo boys” is what they are known as defrauding people of money on the internet… including LOVE SCAMS which is what he did with you.
@Oliver May That's right sis.
I'm a Nigerian, so sad! pray for us we need help 🇳🇬
@Emmy Chimay How?
Ahhhhh shotop yall women like games !!!!lol
Thank you for the info..really appreciate you...
@Lisa Phillips You are so welcome, I really do appreciate you for watching.
A lot of scammers in Nigeria due to bad governance.
True! But that isn't a good reason to become one. 🤔🤔🤔
Ive been online dating a nigerian for 2 years and believe hes scamming me. Ive met him in nigeria been to his family house he has all social media he has pics of me on his fb to show he wants me. I he been sending him 100 a month thought to help him out ive recently argued with him he feeling heartbroken. He says why would i let you go to my familys house. I said i would help him go uk but makes up reasons why he can't go yet.
He rarely speaks of the uk and he claims his brother has money but can't borrow money of him to go uk n pay him back. I've been speaking to another nigeria that I met at the time in nigeria this uber guy just been talking as friends hasn't ever asked me for money he says he would go to the uk.