Olivia Dean - Be My Own Boyfriend (Unofficial Video)

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  • @동빈언
    @동빈언 3 ปีที่แล้ว +393

    "I was processing and feeling the feelings and then lockdown happened and I had to spend a lot of time by myself and look within, as we all did I feel, and I realised that I’m actually my own boyfriend. I don’t need someone else to complete me, I don’t need an other half, I’m whole, so I really wanted to write a song capturing that essence.
    It’s a very societal thing that you’re always looking for your Prince Charming or that when you meet this person that you’ll be ‘whole’ or ‘successful’, like that’s the end goal. But I think the end goal is being happy by yourself, and if you do meet someone then it’s a really cute accessory - a cute addition to my life, but it’s not completing my life. It’s not the whole look, he’s just the bag!"
    -Olivia Dean

    • @agnesvarga305
      @agnesvarga305 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Dear Olivia, you reached this wisdom at such an early age..... lucky you! I came to this conclusion after 2 divorces above 45 but now I feel so complete and happy! :D Your songs are great and lovely just as you are!

    • @alexxarcadia
      @alexxarcadia 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Just found this masterpiece, and currently my fav song because I truly feel you... the song, the video, the lirycs...
      so refreshing.
      Self love is the best love bebé.
      I'm my own wife. I have the rings and everything hahaha

    • @ELANORE-fi9rs
      @ELANORE-fi9rs 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      🥰

    • @TheRegularjoe1365
      @TheRegularjoe1365 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I just found this via the YT algorhythm and have been listening to it every day for like a month now. Absolutely adore this playfully feisty gem of a song.

    • @toenar18
      @toenar18 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you! Me too. I can be happy, fully by myself

  • @morganwalston8369
    @morganwalston8369 3 ปีที่แล้ว +140

    really hard to describe just how perfect this song is. it just hits such a specific nerve in my mind, it feels so good to listen to

  • @alsojazzy3571
    @alsojazzy3571 3 ปีที่แล้ว +76

    I saw this song on a satisfying story on snap, and now I’m here :)

    • @halcyonaudi0s718
      @halcyonaudi0s718 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      ME TOO! I was searching up sm stuff to find it 😭 but I finally did and this song is really good 😮‍💨

    • @regdsilva
      @regdsilva 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same

    • @chickenlittle5455
      @chickenlittle5455 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sameee

    • @toribanks8635
      @toribanks8635 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Tripppy 😊

  • @Haileyroz
    @Haileyroz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    This touched my heart softly.
    I’m bringing my power back.

  • @Ohaechesi
    @Ohaechesi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    This song randomly popped up as an ad on my TH-cam and I'm hooked.

  • @custardradish
    @custardradish 3 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    Saw her sing this last night at Live At Leeds. It was sublime, and she's such a classy, charismatic presence on stage. I really hope she gets the success she deserves

  • @queenpan21
    @queenpan21 3 ปีที่แล้ว +108

    Honestly, everything she does feels so fresh and new, it reminds me of when Amy Winehouse came to change the music, all the love!

  • @francesclare
    @francesclare 2 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    This is entirely my national anthem for my own inner space. Grateful for this song✨🎶💕

  • @christinedean4236
    @christinedean4236 3 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    I love it, strength, and power in knowing your own self-worth.

  • @siphesihlendabankulu5683
    @siphesihlendabankulu5683 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    One of my favourite songs, I love it so much, great message, beautiful vocals, definitely counts as my pick me up song ❤.
    Favourite part 2:46 -

  • @alyssanaing
    @alyssanaing ปีที่แล้ว +3

    this scratches my brain in the most perfect way

  • @michelemay2694
    @michelemay2694 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Olivia you are an old soul. You just get it at a very early age. I saw you on CBS Sat. Mornings and had to get all your albums. Your music is perfect for long road trips, cocktail parties and cleaning house. I will see you in concert one day. Thank you for sharing your talent. ❤🤗

  • @KnittingKitten
    @KnittingKitten 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    That's just my anthem for life. I'm so happy I finally came to this stage of self-love. Thank so much for this song!

  • @Elle_Bloom
    @Elle_Bloom 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    This track is literally what made me love myself and realize my worth thank you Olivia Dean

  • @mrroberttrujillo
    @mrroberttrujillo ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Although I am happily married, I really resonate with the message of this song, the lyrics, and the musicality! Bravo Olivia!

  • @jayszczepanski3427
    @jayszczepanski3427 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Been single for so long I just gave up trying but this has uplifted me so much thank you Olivia! Great to hear such talent from a local londoner

  • @Notexpected222
    @Notexpected222 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    What a powerful message, me and my self-esteem feel amplified listening to this song on repeat. It’s unbelievable how talented she is.

  • @sarahcellblockh1562
    @sarahcellblockh1562 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Theres shade of the old 70's solo artists to this, I love it, anything with an choir or an orchestra and I'm sold, beautiful harmaomius smooth voice, she sings it so effortlessly.

  • @anacaldas4334
    @anacaldas4334 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    This reminds me of "hardest part". The grown-up woman vibe. Idk, I love it. That was just I needed to hear kkkkk thank you, Olivia❤️

  • @pedroadame4454
    @pedroadame4454 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I already now it's going to be amazing

  • @cinal2266
    @cinal2266 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The most important relationship in the entire world you can have, is your relationship with yourself, (and I am personally Christian so and God for me). so sooooo on point nailed it in this song love it and it highlighted everything I love the most about being single sometimes I feel i wouldn't trade my freedom and my complete ability to live fully in the moment for the world ❤️

  • @RichardDandy-do8qh
    @RichardDandy-do8qh 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Sooooo Good , REAL music!!!!!

  • @helpplease26
    @helpplease26 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Jesus godamn lord, what a sound, what a voice, what a song, im getting stuck with this song rn

  • @Klyein
    @Klyein 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    such a warm hug to self. 🫂

  • @tiongenyirenda668
    @tiongenyirenda668 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    So many people are missing out on this

  • @LauraBethLuikens
    @LauraBethLuikens ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This goddes has pulled me through some very traumatic times, love her whole heartedly ❤

  • @elhamaxelane
    @elhamaxelane 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    this song has supported me so much through the journey back to myself. so crazy when youre finally in a place where you’re totally happy and fulfilled in your own energy. comfort in solitude is so empowering and nourishing

  • @mikergo03
    @mikergo03 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That's what I mean the true music! It really touches

  • @Ravensnowmyst
    @Ravensnowmyst ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I'm older, and this song has me all crazy and in love with myself. It almost makes me want to cry, laugh, scream, and run down the street like I have been delivered into a new religion. The way she says she looks so damn good and she gives herself her own compliments. And ohhhh, the instrumental section. This song is the epitome of what every woman needs to experience, especially as a healing e exercise, and I say it with my chest.....lo😮l I love her for this song. I feel sooooo good and liberated

  • @DS-lr8kj
    @DS-lr8kj 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I just discovered this song and it’s honestly so refreshing and perfect. I’m obSESSED

  • @michelleoh44
    @michelleoh44 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I saw someone playing this on the background of their ig story and shazamed it so fast cos the vibe and feel of the song was so good

  • @Mintyygal
    @Mintyygal 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    what a healing song

  • @sophiaaaaHhhh
    @sophiaaaaHhhh 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    this song is so dreamy and heavenly!! Olivia Dean has done it again lads

  • @notnad1995
    @notnad1995 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    olivia dean, vc é perfeita.

  • @sfmmmo7599
    @sfmmmo7599 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Such a good feeling!! ✨️🫶

  • @CJ-dg3bm
    @CJ-dg3bm 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am obsessed with this song😍

  • @tibebesolomon2950
    @tibebesolomon2950 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    i wished u had thousands of songs and keep listenning it all de all night

  • @aaliyahzitawi9968
    @aaliyahzitawi9968 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    yaaaaaaaay

  • @IZABELAqqqqq
    @IZABELAqqqqq 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Ive never seen a music video like this, this is really good olivia!!

  • @jengee5092
    @jengee5092 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yes ma'am!!!! 🔥🔥 damn right "YOU" are always enough!!. Us women need to remember to tell ourselves that!!.

  • @millymoo1999
    @millymoo1999 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Amazing! Just what we need at this time around the world

  • @jasherrellscott4278
    @jasherrellscott4278 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    FOUND THIS SONG ON MY SNAP AND WHAT THE ACTUAL HECK! ITS SO GOOOOOODDDD!!!

  • @marides1479
    @marides1479 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Great artist, great song I love you. I am single now for 27 years and I am still my best own girlfriend. I know that without self love you never can love another.❤

  • @davidwebster4871
    @davidwebster4871 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    This popped up on some advert and had to search this instantly, her cheeky little smile is almost to much

  • @younot6921
    @younot6921 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    i just found this song on snapchat and i needed this so much, this song is amazing. i really think this was a sign for me, because i just asked for one and i feel a lot better. thank you, Olivia 💗💜

    • @winniemakena
      @winniemakena 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Was it the relaxify videos coz same

    • @younot6921
      @younot6921 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@winniemakena i don’t even remember but i’m pretty sure it was. it might have also been trippy 🤔

  • @playlistpersondotcom9719
    @playlistpersondotcom9719 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I saw this song on Snapchat and honestly it’s just what I needed

  • @DarranJHankey66
    @DarranJHankey66 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    ILOVE that track,,,, what an array of songs OD has now , it seems a lifetime ago i saw Password Change .... Can't wait for THe] JAZZ CAFE GIG xx

  • @katelouise7051
    @katelouise7051 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Geez I am SOBBING. What a gorgeous, empowering song.

  • @dlk2188
    @dlk2188 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    PERIOD!!!

  • @Ainae
    @Ainae 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So amazing!!!!!

  • @josir5180
    @josir5180 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is such a beautiful piece of absolute art wow thank you Snapchat for blessing me with this song more people need to hear this

  • @TraceyMeli
    @TraceyMeli 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great sounding track 🙂

  • @slabofmeat3634
    @slabofmeat3634 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Shes criminally underrated

  • @chloekambira3900
    @chloekambira3900 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I knew this was gonna be a bop before I heard it... you need to be bigger and you will be bigger xxx❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @oliviastyles6886
    @oliviastyles6886 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am completely obsessed with your music

  • @Temoccruz
    @Temoccruz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    *L y r i c s* ~ ~ Oh, I can't do this anymore
    I don't wanna get involved, no
    With all these men I'm so much better than
    Maybe it's a little cold
    But I think I could play the role 'cause
    No one can love me the way I can
    Catch me out in Paris on my ones
    Stay up dancing 'til the dance is done
    I got me, I don't need anyone
    Hold me close
    Love myself, the most
    Lately, I've been just what I need
    Stole my heart and I'm gonna be my own boyfriend
    Be my own boyfriend
    Lately, I've been just what I need
    Be my baby, yeah
    Gonna be my own boyfriend
    Oh, I could save myself the stress
    Wear the trousers and the dress, Yeah
    Girl, you look so goddamn good tonight
    And I say that with my chest
    You and me could be the best
    I can do whatever, whenever the fuck I want
    Hold me close
    Love myself, the most
    Lately, I've been just what I need
    Stole my heart and I'm gonna be my own boyfriend
    Be my own boyfriend
    Lately, I've been just what I need
    Be my baby, yeah
    Gonna be my own boyfriend
    Be my own boyfriend
    Be my own boyfriend
    Be my own boyfriend
    Ha-ah, ha-ah
    Ha-ha-ha, ah, ah-ah
    I'm gonna be my own boyfriend
    Be my own boyfriend (be my own boyfriend)
    Lately, I've been just what I need
    Be my baby, yeah
    Gonna be my own boyfriend

  • @john-iy3tr
    @john-iy3tr 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very good reminds me of the sole I used to listen to in school in the 90ts happy days even if I didn't know it then they where the best days .. no worries

  • @BiggieZee
    @BiggieZee 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Such a track!! Would be epic to hear this live at like Ronnie Scott’s or someplace

  • @NebAnkhRa
    @NebAnkhRa 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This song is absolutely beautiful!! A timeless work of art!! Bravo!!!

  • @queenpan21
    @queenpan21 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Independent woman 💪🏽🔥

  • @marymalone2262
    @marymalone2262 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Love her seen her at glasto ❤

  • @danilofigueiredo3487
    @danilofigueiredo3487 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Incrível esse talento!

  • @chooseyou00
    @chooseyou00 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I spent over four years being single after having years of back to back codependent and toxic relationships. I spent so much time on my own and got to know myself better. And the more you spend time & effort to know someone, the easier it is to love that person. I'm still getting there, but I'm the happiest I've ever been in my life.
    This song is like a cute accessory to my journey to being the love of my life, it brings so much joy and main character energy whenever I listen to it.
    Thanks Olivia : )

  • @WorldIntelligenceSculpture
    @WorldIntelligenceSculpture 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Im always put out my energy for other and I dont know why thats I can not keep it to myself

  • @DarranJHankey66
    @DarranJHankey66 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Can't wait

  • @aseelalfageer8827
    @aseelalfageer8827 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is amazing❤️Master pièce

  • @selfmadegabe2451
    @selfmadegabe2451 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Forever

  • @feel2194
    @feel2194 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love you love you that song realy make me love

  • @emanguftar2761
    @emanguftar2761 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love vibing to this song 🎵 🎶

  • @MotionInTheIronSea
    @MotionInTheIronSea 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    QUEEN!! Can't wait to see you live 💚

  • @marycani5636
    @marycani5636 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love love love love love!!!!!!!!

  • @aldemirhumberto532
    @aldemirhumberto532 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You are awesome!

  • @gabrielmendoza8273
    @gabrielmendoza8273 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Smooth!!

  • @nalukuinaleliliswaniso674
    @nalukuinaleliliswaniso674 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I been listening to theis track all weekend 😍. Everything about it is amazing

  • @miaspurling7171
    @miaspurling7171 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    i love this girl uhhhhhhhhh

  • @seopunky76
    @seopunky76 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Spotify brought me here... Yes Gurl💞

  • @gabriellemonica1994
    @gabriellemonica1994 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    My Favourite song right now.

  • @yasminribeiro6532
    @yasminribeiro6532 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    OH MY GOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOD

  • @bernadettnagy5570
    @bernadettnagy5570 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    When I listened at the first time this song, I felt in love with it! I was waiting for it long time! I was so excited to listen again! Thank you! I love it ❤️❤️❤️

  • @jaykats6903
    @jaykats6903 ปีที่แล้ว

    Olivia, I just found you and I love you already. You have touched my soul, my weakness and my strength

  • @shaeniciataylor6975
    @shaeniciataylor6975 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    She gives corinne bailey rae vibes , You just got your self a forever fan💕

  • @joelmendez643
    @joelmendez643 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Te amo Olivia, eres la mejor🥳

  • @sofiarebeca18
    @sofiarebeca18 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    the actual anthem !!!! 🌟❤️🌟❤️🌟

  • @margicates553
    @margicates553 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes!
    ✨This is the vibe for summer ✨

  • @justindean5118
    @justindean5118 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Love this song, beautifully arranged.

  • @msjlee561973
    @msjlee561973 ปีที่แล้ว

    Stumbled across Olivia Dean doing a secret set in a little bar in Glasto this year..and found her to be amazing! Hadn't heard of her before but now a big fan..what a talent ❤

  • @over-50-and-fabulous
    @over-50-and-fabulous 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Beautiful 🥰 thanks 🙏

  • @Emmanuellei
    @Emmanuellei 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    LOVE THIS

  • @alvincameron2139
    @alvincameron2139 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sooooooooo beautiful amazing song❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @yansalomao7
    @yansalomao7 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I looove so much ❤

  • @bobbuildin01
    @bobbuildin01 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    So so yumm

  • @denizc6971
    @denizc6971 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love this song and this sensitive voice

  • @EROLaliasKIZILMASKE
    @EROLaliasKIZILMASKE ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wonderful! like always When will this be on CD?

  • @tusia7403
    @tusia7403 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That's basically my inner monologue for years now.... The one I never believe, still find comfort in it.... Oh, well. For now✌️

  • @rutiletwins7237
    @rutiletwins7237 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Such a beautiful song!! Love the message behind it❤

  • @flexaeterna
    @flexaeterna 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is literally how I feel! This is my jam. Love it 😍

  • @reginacool2175
    @reginacool2175 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    this song made me smile love it

  • @guymievents1123
    @guymievents1123 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love it!! YEAHHHHH👍🏼👏👏👏👌👌💯💯💯

  • @seongjoonJi
    @seongjoonJi 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Beautiful harmony

  • @วัชพลบุตรโชติ
    @วัชพลบุตรโชติ 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    plsss Come to Thailand Olivia