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When I experienced my first heartbreak, it was really painful! I remember crying myself to sleep and feeling so horrible but it was God who gave me strength and wisdom ❤
Isang araw gigising nalang akong masaya para sa sarili ko, Hinde lang dahil sa naka move on na ako, Kundi pati na rin sa mga achievements ko sa buhay. Babangon ako sa heartbreak na to, Pangako ko yan sa sarili ko. I will comeback stronger and wiser 👌
Ilang besis kona naransan ang heart break pero this time back to zero nanaman ako hindi kona alam gagawin sa sobra sakit dipress trauma again bintawan ako sa ere
@@VanessaOrtiz863 subrang sakit na pagdating mo sa bahay galing work wala na ang mag ina mo sa bahay. Two weeks na ako iniwan ng babaeng mahal ko grabe subra magdamag ako walang tulog at kain nung time na yun pero pumasok parin ako sa work na walang tulog at kain dahil sa nangyari. Di man tayo perfektong tao pwede naman dapat pag usapan kung may mali ako nagawa, siguro may third party nangyari na to kasi minsan ko na sya nahuli may kareslasyon na iba pero humimgi sya ng tawad sakin dahil mahal ko siya wala ako magawa kundi patawarin sya sa pagkakamali nya after two months ito ang nangyari bigla na lang ako iniwan.
I'm in a difficult situation right now, broken, betrayed, hurt and mad... but I have faith that one day, God will make a way for me.... to end all my pain....
Kahit sobrang sakit ang nangyare hindi ko hinayahan na kainin ako ng emotion ko.. nagiging matatag ako para sa sarili ko.. magiging okay din ako. At sana Pag ready na kong Magmahal ulet, ibigay ni lord ang para tlga saaken.. amen
It's been 1 1/2 year of moving on , thankfully I'm healed. Just accept the fact that your chapter with them had already ended. Life isn't just about being in a relationship. Find your value in this world love those person who loves you. Grow, improve and achieve your full potential. Pain is inevitable yet it teaches you a lot. Learn to forgive and love yourself more. For those person whose in pain right now someday somehow you will wake up that you're already healed. Find the wisdom hidden in what you're experiencing right now God bless.
I was badly hurt with someone whom I truly loved. I chose to walk away and heal silently. I felt I was betrayed, used, taken for granted and not loved..RESPECT is no longer served. I need to gain my self worth and love as a daughter of our Heavenly Creator . I surrender everything to Him .He exactly knows what good for both of us. Kuya darbs it's TIMELY and thank you so much for giving me insights. Your advises awaken me from the deepest phase of my life. God bless you and your family always.
Experiencing this right now. There is no more painful than s broken heart. A physical pain is much more easier to heal than emotional ones. I will be praying one day i will recover from the pain im suffering now. When one door closes another one opens.
Going through the same right now.. I know I will recover. With God's help. The process of going through grief is just too much though. But I'll rise again. 😢
thank you for this kuya darbs. i needed this. just recently went through a break up last september. first few weeks was really the hardest but now i can say im back to my old self and im happy again. and sa totoo lang, kung babalik man siya o hindi, ayoko na. pagod na pagod nako. i just wish him the best and the happiness he deserves.
remembering my struggles before then oneday I woke up loving myself. I totally agree with this, that we need to be firm with ourdecision of letting go. When you remember days that you were crying, you'll start to laugh about how madly, deeply, crazy you were in love. Its true. There is no short cut in moving on. Endure the pain, cry, but always keep your sanity. When you sink down to the bottom, wave will push you up and when it happens keep on swimming. Look up!
"Hayaan mo na lang Ang puso mo Ang sirain nya wag na pati Ang buhay mo" pero Ang buhay ko ngayon ay sya na papano ko yan magagawa kung Yung buhay ko tuluyan ng nawala
7 years of relationship then 1 day sinabi nya na ayoko na and hindi na tayo tulad ng dati..di na ako babalik sayo..grabe sakit..2 weeks palang nangyari kaya ako napadpad dito..and I really need this to move forward..lahat ng sinabi ni kuya darbs are true..until today di pa din ako makapaniwala..sakit..
I feel u kuya subrang hirap mag move on 7 years relationship biniyayaan Ng isang anak 2years old Ang anak nmin maghiwalay na Kami pero hanggang ngaun Mahal KO pa sya na alam KO Di na pwde Kasi may Ka live in partner na sya😢
I am a victim of this crime called " heartbreak " ang sakit sakit tagos hangang likod, pagkatao ko prang naapakan, ang unfair naman, naiiyak ako dahil sobrang awa ko s srili ko, sinisisi ko din sarili ko bat ako pumasok sa ganito, nakakadala ng magmahal, na tsempo ako s maling tao, naging bulag at tanga pang 5th day n pero ngayn medyo gumagaan n lumapit lang ako kay god.
salamat lord napanuod ko ang vlog video nato. ngayon alam ko na anjan ka lord na nag iisa nagmamahal pa skin😭 na realize ko na hnd ko deserve masaktan ng isang taong pinaglalaruan lng ang damdamin ko. salamat dhl sa video na ito nagising ako sa katutuhanan na mas mahalin ko ang sarili ko kesa mamahalin ko ang taong puro sakit lng ang idinulot skin💔💔 thank you lord ito na yong Sign na hinihintay ko😭
Thanks for sharing this. I am still trying to move on. Mahal na mahal ko cya It’s damn difficult 😣 Two weeks without him and I hope na once I find myself na super okay na ako makabalik ako dto at mgupdate ng comments na finally I moved on ❤🙌🏻🙏🏻
I was the one who decided and force to break up.. And i realise.. It was my bisggest mistake.. Time past in a year and i realise.. I still love the person.. And when i started to contact again it was too late.. She has someone that makes her happy.. And it sadden me.. So much to the point the pain is in the other level.. I have think to myself i deserve this since i was the one at fault.. All aspects in my life was affected.. Kinda sucks.. Kuya Darbs.. Thank you for this advise.. I will try to cut and be committed on not to communicate to her.. Wish me best..
This is exactly what I did. I almost cried everyday. Depressed, anxiety, bumagsak katawan ko talaga nun. For almost 7 or 8 months din akong puro iyak at wala sa sarili. What I did is pinagba block ko sila lahat. Mahal ko ang sarili ko. and marami namang nagmamahal sakin. Ngayon masaya nako. At the same time. Nagpatawad na din ako. Pero wag sya mag expect na kakausapin ko pa sya. At never ko na syang papansinin or ie entertain pa. Big lesson learned sa buhay ko yon. Thank you kuya darbs. ✨
2 weeks na rin po akong brokenhearted gaya mo iyak ng iyak.. thankful ako sa mga ganitong motivation sa youtibe natutunan kong mahalin sarili ko..naisip ko hindi ako nawalan kundi yong taong minahal ko..inaalagaan ..at di iniwan sa kabila ng mga pagkukulang nya sa akin..masakit isipin pinagpalit ako sa barkada at bisyo ..at fi ko kinaya yong nkpag flirt sya sa iba habang nagbakasyon ako pra sana ma refresh at maayos yong problema namin that part need ko ng lumayo ..di na ako maniwala pa sa sinabi nyang mahal nya ako..cguro kailangan lng nya ko to take care of him..yon lng yon..I love my self now .true Love sa Panginoon lng matatagpuan..its bettet to live..single nlang wlang partner di kpa papangit sa konsomisyon.
We're same sis naranasan ko din stress depressed anxiety... lahat ng pinaramdam nyang sakit Ng damdamin masaklap pa pinagpalit habang kau pa at happy na sila habang ikaw bumabangon muli.... Let go of people who doesn't see Ur worth and value.... Time heal the pain Let God do his best way and always pray 🙏🙏🙏
7:45 Sobrang totoo po lahat ng sinasabi niyo. There is really power po kay God na hindi basta bastang mapapaliwanag. Para bang kapag humingi ka sa kaniya ng tulong , tutulungan ka Niya eh bubuksan Niya pag iisip mo mga bagay na hirap kang makita sa partner mo dahil parang mas inaidolize mo na siya to the point na ikaw na yung nauubos. Not trying to say na pag naniniwala na kay God is masyado ka ng nagpapakabanal pero iba parin kapag ang isang tao may malalim na connection sa Panginoon. I have been through a lot po sa past relationship ko , for all of the lies and struggles ko sa kaniya na halos ako na nagtuturo sa kaniya dun ko narealize na hindi na tama. Mahirap pero kailangan mong gawin. ❤️
❤❤❤❤ Thanks sa advice kapag hindi na tayo mahal kailangan na nating bumitaw bahala na ang puso masaktan wag Lang ang buhay at pangarap maapektuhan dahil lng sapag ibig na hindi na man deserve ❤
My partner broke up with me yesterday from a 12yrs relationship.. Its been hell.. im not gonna say im alright now.. but there something happend.. i cant explain.. really feel the presence of God right now.. im not a religious person.. pero something came up to me.. and also thank to you darbs.. ill be back in no time..😊
Same here . Isang linggo plang nakakalipas simula ng sumama sa iba partner ko . 10years kame may dalawang anak 3years old at 6 . Nasakin yung 6 ngayon. San malagpasan namen to.
I'm still counting days to pass by since that day he told me he likes someone else better and I'm the reason why he is not okay. I'm always here sa channel mo everytime I feel like crying because I cannot make him back. Always reminding me one year nlng makamove on na din ako. Maalala ko sya pero d Nako iiyak Kasi memory nlng Ang matitira. Hardest part is the way I become so happy it felt like a dream. And now I'd woke up. Feeling ko namatayan ako ng mahal and d ko na pwede ibalik Ang mga dati.
Realization hit me 😭😭 Yung halos araw - araw akong nagsisimba kasi hinihingi ko sa kanya na tulungan akong pumasa sa Board Exam ko last October 6-7, 2022 but then the result release last October 12 and found out na hindi na naman ako pumasa for the second time, I really really disappointed on me, not God. Peru promise yung sakit sobra. 1month before the exam, I diagnose with menorrhagia at the same time I am fighting my depression, but still lumalaban sana for passing the Board Exam.. Nawalan na ako ng ganang magsimba after kong makita yung result ng board exam. Thank you for this kuya Darbs. Alam kong may rason si God kung bakit di niya pa binigay ang hinihingi ko 🙏🙏
"What you don't know won't hurt you." Thanks for that po Kuya Darbs. For the longest time I have honestly been stalking his socials. Checking if he has someone new na. It was inevitable for me to find out kasi nga I kept on checking and he does na, and that felt like a ton of bricks on my chest, but it was also a wake up call na there is no hope. Watching your videos makes me feel better! Keep making them po
@@julsss6174 Hi Juls! Yes po nakamove on. Hindi naging madali haha, but I can really say that time will heal. Wala na akong pake sa guy, pero I still carry the traumas na nabigay nya sakin dahil sa ginawa nya.
@@julsss6174 Nung May ko ata na comment to haha, nakipagbalikan pa ako and lasted until July. I can say naka move on ako mga in 4 months. Tapos may isang relapse na naganap mga 2 months later. So all in all 6 months siguro :)
Thank you so much….I’ve been hurting for the past 3 mos. I feel that God used you so I can find him and start my healing. God, I love my person soooo much, but I really have to let him go. 😢 I want to move on and be back to my usual self.
Ahmmm, yong taong I use to chat every day blocked me na kahapon,😔 pero seguro nga para din sa ikakabuti naming dalawa yong ginawa nya..and kuya Darbs, u are right si God lang talaga Ang Hindi nag iiwan sa atin no matter what.
Thanks for this advice, I am recently went through a break up last July, it is so hard, co`z I really love this person and very special to me. Pero kahit gaano ko man xa kamahal hindi ko ipagpipilitan yong sarili ko, mahirap lang tlaga makalimot lagi napasok sa isip ko, kahit ayoko man xa isipin talaga, may mga araw or week/s na hindi ko na xa iniisip at happy na ako, tapos bigla na lang din may araw na xa lagi laman ng isip ko.. Haiiii! kay hirap magmahal lalo na kung hindi na tlaga pwedi... 😔 Pinagdarasal ko na lang na maging masaya xa lagi, at pareho kami maging masaya sa kanya kanya naming buhay..
Thank you for the great content. I’ve been broken up with 2 years ago and the things that I’ve learned is to go through the process. You can’t just flick a switch and say you’ve moved on. It’s healthier if you sit with the pain, reflect on your life with that person and be thankful for that experience. Find someome you trust and talk about it; by talking about it, you are also reflecting and releasing some pressure. If you don’t go through the process of healing, you can’t really move forward. And yes, let go and let God!
Thanks, Kuya. Having experience this now. Mine becomes a cycle and I wish mapanindigan ko n this time.Im choosing myself and prayed to God to give me the strength to move on.God bless Us.
Relate! I am on a 🔥Twin Flame🔥 journey…i can’t wait to get out of here for good dahil nkikita ko p siya somehow…i want to move on and forget like nothing happened..To all those heartbroken, God bless you…❤
kaya ba tayo iniiwan ng babaeng mahal na mahal natin dahil may dadating na mas mag mamahal sa akin higit pa sa pagmamahal na kaya kung ibigay..lord kabayan nyo po ako alisin nyo po ang galit at sakit na nararamdaman ko ngayon bigyan nyo po ako ng lakas ng loob na harapin ang paskong nararanasan ko now
I am praying to God, hoping n wishing that my wife will chance upon this, she deserves a better life n a better partner in life. Someone that will make all her dreams come thru, that will bring her into a calm place of peace, serenity n light. I know that our God will be with her thru the rest of her life. I'll keep loving u no matter what n I'm very sorry.
1:00 am listening to this wonderful video. Basag na Basag po ako ngayon kuya Darbs , di ko alam kung paano at saan magsisimula ulit. Pero salamat sa video na to, you opened my eyes and guided me how to step forward again
Kuya darbs thank you so much for doing this kind of content it was really helpful for us to think carefully what is the best for ourselves. Ive learned a lot from your advice, hope i feel better soon. KAYA NAMAN GUYS KAYA NATIN TO!
Mas mahalin mo tlga si Lord higit pa sa jowa mo kase mabibigo klang tlga, thank u Papa God ur always here for me even im fool and blind to my boang dutch bf
Salamat sir,really first of all I love to God, I love myself, from broken hearted, I tried my very best to going on to accepted all the pain yesterday then,I think carefully before I do something, God bless to all of us,,Again may I saluted for you Real Talk Darbs,Sir
Sobrang sakit bitawan yung taong minahal mo ng sobra😭. Na dumating na ako sa punto na nagmamakaawa na ako mag stay sya🥹. Which is alam kong mali😢. May mga tao talaga na kapag nagsawa na iiwan kana lang basta na parang walang nangyare😭.
huhuhuhu same feelings kahit my iba na sxa at mgkaka anak na cla, sobrang sakit ng iniwan sa ere na basta² nlng na wla kang alam na meron na pla sxang iba, ang sakiiittt 😭😭😭😭💔💔💔💔
Ang hirap jusko😢 bakit may ganto pang feeling sana wala na Lang,, yong kelangan mo siyang mawala sa Buhay mo kahit sobrang love mo kase nakakasira na siya sa Buhay mo Lalo na sa Sarili mo , selfish Ang love niya😢 ayoko ng Ganon
Hindi ko alam kung pano mag move on kaya naghahanap ako ng pwede ko marinig na mga advices!!! Ang hirap ang sakit2x ng nararamdaman ko... Akala ko okey ako hindi pala. Pero kailangan ei.
Nakipaghiwalay ako dahil sobra na, sobra na pala ako nawawala na ako sa path ko. Masakit kasi wala namang 3rd party na nangyari sa amin napagod lang ako.
Same sis . Ako na ang bumitaw at lumayo. Kasi ako nalang din ang umaasa at lumalaban para sa relasyon namin. Masakit tanggapin at marinig mismo sa mahal mo na di kana nya mahal at nakikisama nalang sya dahil sa ina ka ng mga anak nya. Nagmakaawa ap ako ng ilang beses pero habang lumalaban ako sya naman tong lumalayo kaya nilet go ko na. Pero sobrang hirap 😢
grabe parang para sa akin.lahat yan .exactly what happening sa life ko paulit ulit ko pinanood tong content nato...kakauwi ko lang from Singapore pero isang buwan palang aku sa Davao pero hindi ko parin mahanap yong hapoines ko sa tamang pagkakataon kaya i decided to comeback nalang sa singapore kasi atleast dito mabusy aku sa work..salamat po i wvwn sent this sa messenger ko para ulit ulitin ko na pakinggan para maturuan ko self ko.❤🙏
@@runivekotan7579 kasama ko paden sya pero d ko n sya mahal.. nag sawa nlng ako sa kanya.. cguro answered prayer , sya nmn ngayon yung laging lutang kakaisip bakit d ko n sya mahal
After ko mapanood to and mabasa mga videos, nalaman ko na hindi ako nag iisa. Sobrang gumaan yung pakiramdam ko. Babalikan ko to pag okay na ko ulit. Salamat sa video na to.
Thankyou po, mag isang buwan since nung nag hiwalay kami, ang sakit parin sa dibdib, And nagchat sya and say another goodbye again. Diko na lang pinansin, para narin sa ikakatahimik ng loob ko. Binigay kuna lahat lahat sa kanya , tapus biglang mag ko cold, sasabhin gusto nya ng peace of mind, Nakaka p*tang*na tlaga, pano nya masasabi yan kung masaya naman kami, bigla nlng magsasabi ng ganun. Sana talaga maka move on naku at maging masaya na ulit ako. 😔
Kuya Darbs, ikaw ang naging key para makalimutan ko ang ex ko 7 years ago.. I hope matulungan mo din akong maka limutan ngayon yung taong minahal ko ng sobra sobra pero na fell out of love saakin dahil sa ugali ko 💔🥺
i understand sort of your message to make move on forward in a single day that her make me take to cheer up the pain and after 5 years related upon our personal goals im get affected as a man control the damage taking seek of sort of advice specially in yourself the emphaty is the most important slamat tlga boss
God knows we both tried to move on. It has been decades but the feelings remain the same. I believe in Him but i don’t understand why He won’t remove him out of my life. It is very frustrating. They say everything happens for a reason but until why it takes long for me to find the answer. :( it is so hard but I trust in Him that he will lead us to the right path. 😢😢
I needed this. My GF and I broke up recently and we've been together for 3 years. Ang hirap kasi halos kami lang magkasama sa 3 years na 'yun. Same circle of friends pa kami kaya ang hirap talaga. May bago na siya agad at kaibigan niya pa. I don't know where to start. I feel empty.
Hey. Parehas tayo ng situation. My bf broke up with me a few weeks ago. We were also together for three years pero ngayon he's going on dates with other people na. Hang in there. Malalampasan din natin to.
@@tigersugar1995 Sana nga. Nagusap kami kanina at grabe puro lang mura natanggap ko at kung ano ano at sana raw mamatay na ako. May anger issues kasi siya eh pero tiniis ko lahat. Hayan ko na lang siya maging masaya sila ng bago niya. Blinock ko na rin sila. Tinatry ko best ko na kalimutan siya kasi sobrang mahal ko talaga yung babae na yun haha.
this is timely. he just told me yesterday na kasal na pala sila ng gf nya. I was there when he reached his dreams. Pero sa background lang ako. he can't even thank me for the hard work grooming him to be the best. becoming a fraud. hope one day I can recover
Dto ko nasabi na Kaya ko to kung ano man Yung nangyayare sakin ngayon alam ko na Hindi namn ako nag iisa andyan si God para mawala Yung sakit na nararamdam ko😭
Salamat sa message mas nabuhayan ako, na mas piliin ko namn ang sarili ko. At magiging ok din ang lahat basta wag mulang walain na may nag mamahal din sayo unasa lahat si GOD ngayon may lakas nakong labanan lahat ng sakit na nararanasan ko.
Yung ilang years mo niligawan , since highschool.8 years of knowing her, She promised na sasagutin ka nya after graduate, She promised na papakilala sa magulang , She said na sakin nya nakikita future nya,Then oneday sasabihin nya nalang na may boyfriend na sya😄 Kahit sobrang bigat inaacept nlng kse di mo nmn makokontrol yung sitwasyon.. Pero dumadating nko sa point na gusto ko nlng mamatay kase halo halo na yung nararamdaman this is the first time ever i feel this kind of pain.. di ko alam na mafefeel ko toh galing saknya kase she's so perfect for me.. Nasakanya na lahat ng gugustuhin mo sa future wife mo.. pero sa isang iglap bumaliktad mundo ko
Thanks kuya Darbs i really need this now 22yrs of love and marriage LDR .i was shock my husband confess me he have another woman almost 5yrs he lied and cheated me 💔😭so painfull and suffered alots.i almost lost my self.he promise he will not do it again and he still love me and he beg me not to leave him.im soo confused kuya Darbs i still love him.
Sobrang hirap mag let go, Lalo na kung may anak kayo. Like saakin na bagong panganak Ako. Gustong gusto ko umalis sa Poder niya pero di ko magawa dahil sa Hindi pa kaya Ng katawan ko. May Bata pa, nasasaktan Ako dahil pagdating Ng panahon magtatanong yung Bata bakit di buo ung pamilya Namin. Bilang Isang Ina napakasakit...
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When I experienced my first heartbreak, it was really painful! I remember crying myself to sleep and feeling so horrible but it was God who gave me strength and wisdom ❤
Isang araw gigising nalang akong masaya para sa sarili ko, Hinde lang dahil sa naka move on na ako, Kundi pati na rin sa mga achievements ko sa buhay. Babangon ako sa heartbreak na to, Pangako ko yan sa sarili ko. I will comeback stronger and wiser 👌
You will. Trust me. We are in the same page at we will breakthrough sa pain. Please trust process 😊
Ilang besis kona naransan ang heart break pero this time back to zero nanaman ako hindi kona alam gagawin sa sobra sakit dipress trauma again bintawan ako sa ere
@@VanessaOrtiz863Same tayo
@@gencutegaming laban lang
@@VanessaOrtiz863 subrang sakit na pagdating mo sa bahay galing work wala na ang mag ina mo sa bahay. Two weeks na ako iniwan ng babaeng mahal ko grabe subra magdamag ako walang tulog at kain nung time na yun pero pumasok parin ako sa work na walang tulog at kain dahil sa nangyari. Di man tayo perfektong tao pwede naman dapat pag usapan kung may mali ako nagawa, siguro may third party nangyari na to kasi minsan ko na sya nahuli may kareslasyon na iba pero humimgi sya ng tawad sakin dahil mahal ko siya wala ako magawa kundi patawarin sya sa pagkakamali nya after two months ito ang nangyari bigla na lang ako iniwan.
Sino ang mga mapadpad dito kasi nahihirapan magbmove on? Ako po,super hirap 🥺
I'm in a difficult situation right now, broken, betrayed, hurt and mad...
but I have faith that one day, God will make a way for me.... to end all my pain....
Kumusta kna po
Kahit sobrang sakit ang nangyare hindi ko hinayahan na kainin ako ng emotion ko.. nagiging matatag ako para sa sarili ko.. magiging okay din ako. At sana Pag ready na kong Magmahal ulet, ibigay ni lord ang para tlga saaken.. amen
Ako na yun
Its so hard to forget someone who gives you so much to remember😔
I really feel that
😭😭😭💔💔💔
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I feel you but stay strong
@@gileneo6999 🥰🥰
It's been 1 1/2 year of moving on , thankfully I'm healed. Just accept the fact that your chapter with them had already ended. Life isn't just about being in a relationship. Find your value in this world love those person who loves you. Grow, improve and achieve your full potential. Pain is inevitable yet it teaches you a lot. Learn to forgive and love yourself more. For those person whose in pain right now someday somehow you will wake up that you're already healed. Find the wisdom hidden in what you're experiencing right now God bless.
I was badly hurt with someone whom I truly loved. I chose to walk away and heal silently. I felt I was betrayed, used, taken for granted and not loved..RESPECT is no longer served. I need to gain my self worth and love as a daughter of our Heavenly Creator . I surrender everything to Him .He exactly knows what good for both of us.
Kuya darbs it's TIMELY and thank you so much for giving me insights. Your advises awaken me from the deepest phase of my life.
God bless you and your family always.
Omg im hearing myself on your comment...Godbless us
Ive experienced the same sitution as yours..i was betrayed..and i felt so much pain right now...
Experiencing this right now. There is no more painful than s broken heart. A physical pain is much more easier to heal than emotional ones. I will be praying one day i will recover from the pain im suffering now. When one door closes another one opens.
Going through the same right now.. I know I will recover. With God's help. The process of going through grief is just too much though. But I'll rise again. 😢
thank you for this kuya darbs. i needed this. just recently went through a break up last september. first few weeks was really the hardest but now i can say im back to my old self and im happy again. and sa totoo lang, kung babalik man siya o hindi, ayoko na. pagod na pagod nako. i just wish him the best and the happiness he deserves.
♥️♥️♥️
Same feeling 😔
Same here..💔💔💔😥😥😥
proud of u ❤
Sana dumating na din ako sa ganitong point
remembering my struggles before then oneday I woke up loving myself. I totally agree with this, that we need to be firm with ourdecision of letting go. When you remember days that you were crying, you'll start to laugh about how madly, deeply, crazy you were in love. Its true. There is no short cut in moving on. Endure the pain, cry, but always keep your sanity. When you sink down to the bottom, wave will push you up and when it happens keep on swimming. Look up!
"Hayaan mo na lang Ang puso mo Ang sirain nya wag na pati Ang buhay mo" pero Ang buhay ko ngayon ay sya na papano ko yan magagawa kung Yung buhay ko tuluyan ng nawala
7 years of relationship then 1 day sinabi nya na ayoko na and hindi na tayo tulad ng dati..di na ako babalik sayo..grabe sakit..2 weeks palang nangyari kaya ako napadpad dito..and I really need this to move forward..lahat ng sinabi ni kuya darbs are true..until today di pa din ako makapaniwala..sakit..
Pareho tayo pre ... pero gabi gabi ko pa rin syang hinahanap hanap😢😢😢
I feel you bro kami kaka break lang ng partner ko now... Sakit tol
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I feel u kuya subrang hirap mag move on 7 years relationship biniyayaan Ng isang anak 2years old Ang anak nmin maghiwalay na Kami pero hanggang ngaun Mahal KO pa sya na alam KO Di na pwde Kasi may Ka live in partner na sya😢
Sobrang sakit 13yrs relationship 2yrs pa lang kaming kasal..my anak kami isa.. Kasama sila ng kabit nya ngayon 😭😭😭💔💔
it's been months. and still find myself at the same spot. didn't moved even a single inch. But still believing that i can move forward someday.
Same 😐
As the time pass it gets worsen worsen
Same, it's almost 2 months.
You don't have to search for love you don't have to look for love being love is simply as loving yourself alone
I am a victim of this crime called " heartbreak " ang sakit sakit tagos hangang likod, pagkatao ko prang naapakan, ang unfair naman, naiiyak ako dahil sobrang awa ko s srili ko, sinisisi ko din sarili ko bat ako pumasok sa ganito, nakakadala ng magmahal, na tsempo ako s maling tao, naging bulag at tanga pang 5th day n pero ngayn medyo gumagaan n lumapit lang ako kay god.
salamat lord napanuod ko ang vlog video nato. ngayon alam ko na anjan ka lord na nag iisa nagmamahal pa skin😭 na realize ko na hnd ko deserve masaktan ng isang taong pinaglalaruan lng ang damdamin ko. salamat dhl sa video na ito nagising ako sa katutuhanan na mas mahalin ko ang sarili ko kesa mamahalin ko ang taong puro sakit lng ang idinulot skin💔💔 thank you lord ito na yong Sign na hinihintay ko😭
Acceptance and move forward is the key. Self love 🥰🥰🥰 GOD will do the rest have faith on him and everything will be okay😘😘😘
I hope someday I will recover for the pain that I fell right now in god's will and thankyou for all advises that I realized tonight!!💗☺️
Thanks for sharing this. I am still trying to move on. Mahal na mahal ko cya It’s damn difficult 😣 Two weeks without him and I hope na once I find myself na super okay na ako makabalik ako dto at mgupdate ng comments na finally I moved on ❤🙌🏻🙏🏻
same here, 2 weeks with out him😢
Buti kpa bilis mo mka move on
Same
You are not alone. Laban lang tayo!
I was the one who decided and force to break up.. And i realise.. It was my bisggest mistake.. Time past in a year and i realise.. I still love the person.. And when i started to contact again it was too late.. She has someone that makes her happy.. And it sadden me.. So much to the point the pain is in the other level.. I have think to myself i deserve this since i was the one at fault.. All aspects in my life was affected.. Kinda sucks.. Kuya Darbs.. Thank you for this advise.. I will try to cut and be committed on not to communicate to her.. Wish me best..
same situation :((((((
Thanks for this video! It's about time to let go and give love for myself. Yes it will be difficult but the time will come, God will make a way.
This is exactly what I did. I almost cried everyday. Depressed, anxiety, bumagsak katawan ko talaga nun. For almost 7 or 8 months din akong puro iyak at wala sa sarili. What I did is pinagba block ko sila lahat. Mahal ko ang sarili ko. and marami namang nagmamahal sakin. Ngayon masaya nako. At the same time. Nagpatawad na din ako. Pero wag sya mag expect na kakausapin ko pa sya. At never ko na syang papansinin or ie entertain pa. Big lesson learned sa buhay ko yon. Thank you kuya darbs. ✨
2 weeks na rin po akong brokenhearted gaya mo iyak ng iyak.. thankful ako sa mga ganitong motivation sa youtibe natutunan kong mahalin sarili ko..naisip ko hindi ako nawalan kundi yong taong minahal ko..inaalagaan ..at di iniwan sa kabila ng mga pagkukulang nya sa akin..masakit isipin pinagpalit ako sa barkada at bisyo ..at fi ko kinaya yong nkpag flirt sya sa iba habang nagbakasyon ako pra sana ma refresh at maayos yong problema namin that part need ko ng lumayo ..di na ako maniwala pa sa sinabi nyang mahal nya ako..cguro kailangan lng nya ko to take care of him..yon lng yon..I love my self now .true Love sa Panginoon lng matatagpuan..its bettet to live..single nlang wlang partner di kpa papangit sa konsomisyon.
We're same sis naranasan ko din stress depressed anxiety... lahat ng pinaramdam nyang sakit Ng damdamin masaklap pa pinagpalit habang kau pa at happy na sila habang ikaw bumabangon muli....
Let go of people who doesn't see Ur worth and value....
Time heal the pain
Let God do his best way and always pray 🙏🙏🙏
7:45 Sobrang totoo po lahat ng sinasabi niyo. There is really power po kay God na hindi basta bastang mapapaliwanag.
Para bang kapag humingi ka sa kaniya ng tulong , tutulungan ka Niya eh bubuksan Niya pag iisip mo mga bagay na hirap kang makita sa partner mo dahil parang mas inaidolize mo na siya to the point na ikaw na yung nauubos. Not trying to say na pag naniniwala na kay God is masyado ka ng nagpapakabanal pero iba parin kapag ang isang tao may malalim na connection sa Panginoon. I have been through a lot po sa past relationship ko , for all of the lies and struggles ko sa kaniya na halos ako na nagtuturo sa kaniya dun ko narealize na hindi na tama.
Mahirap pero kailangan mong gawin. ❤️
❤❤❤❤ Thanks sa advice kapag hindi na tayo mahal kailangan na nating bumitaw bahala na ang puso masaktan wag Lang ang buhay at pangarap maapektuhan dahil lng sapag ibig na hindi na man deserve ❤
😢tama kapo,,as of now watching this,my tears burst,at sa diyos lang ako kumokuha ng lakas when I felt tis world against me
Bat ngayon ko lang napanood to😢 ang Ganda po ng mga sinabi nyo salamat
My partner broke up with me yesterday from a 12yrs relationship..
Its been hell.. im not gonna say im alright now.. but there something happend.. i cant explain.. really feel the presence of God right now.. im not a religious person.. pero something came up to me.. and also thank to you darbs.. ill be back in no time..😊
Same here . Isang linggo plang nakakalipas simula ng sumama sa iba partner ko . 10years kame may dalawang anak 3years old at 6 . Nasakin yung 6 ngayon. San malagpasan namen to.
agree! Seek the kingdom of God and you will find strength. kayang kayang basta may Panginoon.
I'm still counting days to pass by since that day he told me he likes someone else better and I'm the reason why he is not okay. I'm always here sa channel mo everytime I feel like crying because I cannot make him back. Always reminding me one year nlng makamove on na din ako. Maalala ko sya pero d Nako iiyak Kasi memory nlng Ang matitira. Hardest part is the way I become so happy it felt like a dream. And now I'd woke up. Feeling ko namatayan ako ng mahal and d ko na pwede ibalik Ang mga dati.
Grabe ang sakit naman po🥺
ang sakit talaga
Yes control the damaged... hayaan mong mawasak ang puso...wag mong hayaan mawasak ang buhay mo... and that is me♥️
Realization hit me 😭😭 Yung halos araw - araw akong nagsisimba kasi hinihingi ko sa kanya na tulungan akong pumasa sa Board Exam ko last October 6-7, 2022 but then the result release last October 12 and found out na hindi na naman ako pumasa for the second time, I really really disappointed on me, not God. Peru promise yung sakit sobra. 1month before the exam, I diagnose with menorrhagia at the same time I am fighting my depression, but still lumalaban sana for passing the Board Exam.. Nawalan na ako ng ganang magsimba after kong makita yung result ng board exam. Thank you for this kuya Darbs. Alam kong may rason si God kung bakit di niya pa binigay ang hinihingi ko 🙏🙏
bro laban lang, alam kung mahirap pero ganyan din dinadaanan ko ngayon
Ano pong board exam yan? Baka mkatulong…
"What you don't know won't hurt you." Thanks for that po Kuya Darbs. For the longest time I have honestly been stalking his socials. Checking if he has someone new na. It was inevitable for me to find out kasi nga I kept on checking and he does na, and that felt like a ton of bricks on my chest, but it was also a wake up call na there is no hope. Watching your videos makes me feel better! Keep making them po
How are you po? nakamove on ka na po ba? Same feels din po kasi kakabreak lang din namin kahapon :(
@@julsss6174 Hi Juls! Yes po nakamove on. Hindi naging madali haha, but I can really say that time will heal. Wala na akong pake sa guy, pero I still carry the traumas na nabigay nya sakin dahil sa ginawa nya.
@@jasmineclaire2428 mga gaano katagal din po kayo before naka-move on? Hehe. And mabuti po naka-move on na kayo :)
@@julsss6174 Nung May ko ata na comment to haha, nakipagbalikan pa ako and lasted until July. I can say naka move on ako mga in 4 months. Tapos may isang relapse na naganap mga 2 months later. So all in all 6 months siguro :)
@@jasmineclaire2428 wahh Oki poo. Oki lang po yan atleast naka-move on hehe. Bali ano po mga ginawa niyo nun para fully naka-move on po kayo?
Thank you so much….I’ve been hurting for the past 3 mos. I feel that God used you so I can find him and start my healing. God, I love my person soooo much, but I really have to let him go. 😢 I want to move on and be back to my usual self.
hinanap talaga kita kuya darbs. i know matatauhan ako at maraming matututunan kapag nakinig ako sa’yo. napabayaan ko na pag aaral ko at sarili ko.
Ahmmm, yong taong I use to chat every day blocked me na kahapon,😔 pero seguro nga para din sa ikakabuti naming dalawa yong ginawa nya..and kuya Darbs, u are right si God lang talaga Ang Hindi nag iiwan sa atin no matter what.
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" GOD WILL NEVER LEAVE YOU YOU'RE JUST LOOKING AT THE WRONG PLACE FOR LOVE
FIND LOVE IN HIM " ❤
Thanks for this advice, I am recently went through a break up last July, it is so hard, co`z I really love this person and very special to me. Pero kahit gaano ko man xa kamahal hindi ko ipagpipilitan yong sarili ko, mahirap lang tlaga makalimot lagi napasok sa isip ko, kahit ayoko man xa isipin talaga, may mga araw or week/s na hindi ko na xa iniisip at happy na ako, tapos bigla na lang din may araw na xa lagi laman ng isip ko.. Haiiii! kay hirap magmahal lalo na kung hindi na tlaga pwedi... 😔 Pinagdarasal ko na lang na maging masaya xa lagi, at pareho kami maging masaya sa kanya kanya naming buhay..
It was so painful for me but im trying to move forward and love myself❣️❣️
Thank you for the great content.
I’ve been broken up with 2 years ago and the things that I’ve learned is to go through the process. You can’t just flick a switch and say you’ve moved on. It’s healthier if you sit with the pain, reflect on your life with that person and be thankful for that experience. Find someome you trust and talk about it; by talking about it, you are also reflecting and releasing some pressure.
If you don’t go through the process of healing, you can’t really move forward. And yes, let go and let God!
Thanks, Kuya. Having experience this now. Mine becomes a cycle and I wish mapanindigan ko n this time.Im choosing myself and prayed to God to give me the strength to move on.God bless Us.
Relate! I am on a 🔥Twin Flame🔥 journey…i can’t wait to get out of here for good dahil nkikita ko p siya somehow…i want to move on and forget like nothing happened..To all those heartbroken, God bless you…❤
Let go and let God
kaya ba tayo iniiwan ng babaeng mahal na mahal natin dahil may dadating na mas mag mamahal sa akin higit pa sa pagmamahal na kaya kung ibigay..lord kabayan nyo po ako alisin nyo po ang galit at sakit na nararamdaman ko ngayon bigyan nyo po ako ng lakas ng loob na harapin ang paskong nararanasan ko now
Maraming salamat po kuya 😢😢😢 kahit papano nakatulong po kayu.
Thank you. Praying for healing and the courage to move forward.
Amen po. Thanks po for sharing this sir. ❤ Dami ko pong napulot na aral na pwedeng makatulong din po saken sa pinagdaanan ko ngayon.
Thank you Soo much . For enlightened my mind . I knows someday mawawala din Ang sakit . At mauunawan ko bakit Niya ako iniwan .
When we have a heartbreak, we drawn closer to God.
I am praying to God, hoping n wishing that my wife will chance upon this, she deserves a better life n a better partner in life. Someone that will make all her dreams come thru, that will bring her into a calm place of peace, serenity n light. I know that our God will be with her thru the rest of her life. I'll keep loving u no matter what n I'm very sorry.
Ang lalim Ng message
Nabuhayan ulit ako🙏
Salamat kuya darbs!
Kakagaling lang sa breakup, napanood ko mga vids mo kuya darbs laking tulong hehe
I’m so heartbroken now I think I need this.
1:00 am listening to this wonderful video.
Basag na Basag po ako ngayon kuya Darbs , di ko alam kung paano at saan magsisimula ulit.
Pero salamat sa video na to, you opened my eyes and guided me how to step forward again
Need ko din kausap now
Thanks for your wonderful advance relate much . Watching from Hokkaido japan 🇯🇵
Kuya darbs thank you so much for doing this kind of content it was really helpful for us to think carefully what is the best for ourselves. Ive learned a lot from your advice, hope i feel better soon. KAYA NAMAN GUYS KAYA NATIN TO!
Grabe pinatulo mo talaga ang luha ko. Thanks for the advice.
Thank you for this vedio subrang thank ko kasi nakita ko tung vlog nyo i rialize that i have GOD🥰🥰
Sending hugs sa lahat magiging ok din ang lahat
Amen ❤ God is the ultimate source of LOVE ❤ PURE LOVE ❤
Thank you darbs for a very nice content, it’s helps us on how to deal with this kind of pain. Watching this make me feel better🙏.
Mas mahalin mo tlga si Lord higit pa sa jowa mo kase mabibigo klang tlga, thank u Papa God ur always here for me even im fool and blind to my boang dutch bf
balang araw magiging ok din ako at makakalimutan na kita😊
Salamat sir,really first of all I love to God, I love myself, from broken hearted, I tried my very best to going on to accepted all the pain yesterday then,I think carefully before I do something, God bless to all of us,,Again may I saluted for you Real Talk Darbs,Sir
Thank you Kuya Darbs, sobrang refreshing mapakinggan yung mga sinabi mo. Eventually, all of the pain will go away.
Sobrang sakit bitawan yung taong minahal mo ng sobra😭. Na dumating na ako sa punto na nagmamakaawa na ako mag stay sya🥹. Which is alam kong mali😢. May mga tao talaga na kapag nagsawa na iiwan kana lang basta na parang walang nangyare😭.
Hinahanap hanap ko pa rin sya😢😢😢
huhuhuhu same feelings kahit my iba na sxa at mgkaka anak na cla, sobrang sakit ng iniwan sa ere na basta² nlng na wla kang alam na meron na pla sxang iba, ang sakiiittt 😭😭😭😭💔💔💔💔
Nasa sitwasyon ako ngayon na ganito :(( sobrang bigat at hirap.. nagbeg ako ng nagbeg.. But I know, god has a plan..
Sobrang hirap 😭🥺💔💔
It's been 7 months now but the break up still very fresh. Hoping and wishing to have the power to let go
Ang hirap jusko😢 bakit may ganto pang feeling sana wala na Lang,, yong kelangan mo siyang mawala sa Buhay mo kahit sobrang love mo kase nakakasira na siya sa Buhay mo Lalo na sa Sarili mo , selfish Ang love niya😢 ayoko ng Ganon
Hindi ko alam kung pano mag move on kaya naghahanap ako ng pwede ko marinig na mga advices!!! Ang hirap ang sakit2x ng nararamdaman ko... Akala ko okey ako hindi pala. Pero kailangan ei.
salamat po sa advice napagaan po kalooban ko ngayon...sobrang sakit po ksi nangyari sakin di ko alam kung paano ako magmomoveon..
Tnx gumaan pkrmdm ko. I decided to let go n her. Mhrp sobra kc mhl ko pero kkkyanin ko nmn with God guidance. Slmt
Nakipaghiwalay ako dahil sobra na, sobra na pala ako nawawala na ako sa path ko. Masakit kasi wala namang 3rd party na nangyari sa amin napagod lang ako.
Same sis . Ako na ang bumitaw at lumayo. Kasi ako nalang din ang umaasa at lumalaban para sa relasyon namin. Masakit tanggapin at marinig mismo sa mahal mo na di kana nya mahal at nakikisama nalang sya dahil sa ina ka ng mga anak nya. Nagmakaawa ap ako ng ilang beses pero habang lumalaban ako sya naman tong lumalayo kaya nilet go ko na. Pero sobrang hirap 😢
@@rowenaesguerra8154pede pa advice po
grabe parang para sa akin.lahat yan
.exactly what happening sa life ko paulit ulit ko pinanood tong content nato...kakauwi ko lang from Singapore pero isang buwan palang aku sa Davao pero hindi ko parin mahanap yong hapoines ko sa tamang pagkakataon kaya i decided to comeback nalang sa singapore kasi atleast dito mabusy aku sa work..salamat po i wvwn sent this sa messenger ko para ulit ulitin ko na pakinggan para maturuan ko self ko.❤🙏
Kailangan ko to.. kasama ko p sya pero nagmomove on na ko.. d ko p kaya mawala sya tuluyan pero on process na ko.. promise😢
Musta n po kau?
@@runivekotan7579 kasama ko paden sya pero d ko n sya mahal.. nag sawa nlng ako sa kanya.. cguro answered prayer , sya nmn ngayon yung laging lutang kakaisip bakit d ko n sya mahal
My situation now😢
Thanks for this kuya darbs
Makaka move on din ako😢🙏
relate 🙏🙏
Salute kuya darbs solid ka talagang mag advice palagi the best ;)
After ko mapanood to and mabasa mga videos, nalaman ko na hindi ako nag iisa. Sobrang gumaan yung pakiramdam ko. Babalikan ko to pag okay na ko ulit. Salamat sa video na to.
ok knba?
Yes po god is always there. And learn how to forgive and forget. And then marealize mo na love mo na ang self mo ♥️♥️♥️♥️
Thankyou po, mag isang buwan since nung nag hiwalay kami, ang sakit parin sa dibdib,
And nagchat sya and say another goodbye again. Diko na lang pinansin, para narin sa ikakatahimik ng loob ko.
Binigay kuna lahat lahat sa kanya , tapus biglang mag ko cold, sasabhin gusto nya ng peace of mind,
Nakaka p*tang*na tlaga, pano nya masasabi yan kung masaya naman kami, bigla nlng magsasabi ng ganun. Sana talaga maka move on naku at maging masaya na ulit ako. 😔
God please help us 😢
Kuya Darbs, ikaw ang naging key para makalimutan ko ang ex ko 7 years ago..
I hope matulungan mo din akong maka limutan ngayon yung taong minahal ko ng sobra sobra pero na fell out of love saakin dahil sa ugali ko 💔🥺
Find love with god…❤❤❤thank you kuya darbs
i understand sort of your message to make move on forward in a single day that her make me take to cheer up the pain and after 5 years related upon our personal goals im get affected as a man control the damage taking seek of sort of advice specially in yourself the emphaty is the most important slamat tlga boss
God knows we both tried to move on. It has been decades but the feelings remain the same. I believe in Him but i don’t understand why He won’t remove him out of my life. It is very frustrating. They say everything happens for a reason but until why it takes long for me to find the answer. :( it is so hard but I trust in Him that he will lead us to the right path. 😢😢
madalang kayo makakita ng lalaki na nandito kasi mas gusto namin samin lang lahat ng problema🖤
I needed this. My GF and I broke up recently and we've been together for 3 years. Ang hirap kasi halos kami lang magkasama sa 3 years na 'yun. Same circle of friends pa kami kaya ang hirap talaga. May bago na siya agad at kaibigan niya pa. I don't know where to start. I feel empty.
Hey. Parehas tayo ng situation. My bf broke up with me a few weeks ago. We were also together for three years pero ngayon he's going on dates with other people na. Hang in there. Malalampasan din natin to.
@@tigersugar1995 Sana nga. Nagusap kami kanina at grabe puro lang mura natanggap ko at kung ano ano at sana raw mamatay na ako. May anger issues kasi siya eh pero tiniis ko lahat. Hayan ko na lang siya maging masaya sila ng bago niya. Blinock ko na rin sila. Tinatry ko best ko na kalimutan siya kasi sobrang mahal ko talaga yung babae na yun haha.
Verry well said thank you 🙏
this is timely. he just told me yesterday na kasal na pala sila ng gf nya. I was there when he reached his dreams. Pero sa background lang ako. he can't even thank me for the hard work grooming him to be the best. becoming a fraud. hope one day I can recover
Ang sakit naman nanyari sa iyo pero mag dasal ka lang po..
Dto ko nasabi na Kaya ko to kung ano man Yung nangyayare sakin ngayon alam ko na Hindi namn ako nag iisa andyan si God para mawala Yung sakit na nararamdam ko😭
Treat yourself like someone you 💖
Thank God salamat po brother apaka gandang encouraged ☝🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻❤️God blessed us all
Thank you for this vedio..I've been broke up now with my 7 years relationship..
Kuya Dards thank you for sharing inspirational thoughts love watching your vlogs more power
Wow salamat po kuya darbs, tagos na tagos😅
Salamat sa message mas nabuhayan ako, na mas piliin ko namn ang sarili ko. At magiging ok din ang lahat basta wag mulang walain na may nag mamahal din sayo unasa lahat si GOD ngayon may lakas nakong labanan lahat ng sakit na nararanasan ko.
Yung ilang years mo niligawan , since highschool.8 years of knowing her,
She promised na sasagutin ka nya after graduate, She promised na papakilala sa magulang , She said na sakin nya nakikita future nya,Then oneday sasabihin nya nalang na may boyfriend na sya😄
Kahit sobrang bigat inaacept nlng kse di mo nmn makokontrol yung sitwasyon..
Pero dumadating nko sa point na gusto ko nlng mamatay kase halo halo na yung nararamdaman this is the first time ever i feel this kind of pain.. di ko alam na mafefeel ko toh galing saknya kase she's so perfect for me.. Nasakanya na lahat ng gugustuhin mo sa future wife mo.. pero sa isang iglap bumaliktad mundo ko
Thanks kuya Darbs i really need this now 22yrs of love and marriage LDR .i was shock my husband confess me he have another woman almost 5yrs he lied and cheated me 💔😭so painfull and suffered alots.i almost lost my self.he promise he will not do it again and he still love me and he beg me not to leave him.im soo confused kuya Darbs i still love him.
More videos kuya darbs!!!!! Sarap mo pakinggan ❤❤❤❤
Sobrang hirap mag let go, Lalo na kung may anak kayo. Like saakin na bagong panganak Ako. Gustong gusto ko umalis sa Poder niya pero di ko magawa dahil sa Hindi pa kaya Ng katawan ko. May Bata pa, nasasaktan Ako dahil pagdating Ng panahon magtatanong yung Bata bakit di buo ung pamilya Namin. Bilang Isang Ina napakasakit...
Ang ganda ng advice kaht mahirap pero dpt tlg pangatwanan