hey howdy because of the more recent replies just wanted to say im a few months from moving out, things definetly arent going well, but its much closer to being okay
I came out as non binary and pansexual to my dad a few days ago and he told me he used to go to gay bars and a few of his friends are drag queens! I can say it was a big surprise lol
I CrAvE KiBbLe aw im so sorry about that but I can relate my mom is homophobic and transphobic so I get it. U are loved child have a good day my child!
Mint is more supportive than all of my friends, family,and classmates combined I've been out for a year this is 99% shorter than that and that sucks and I'm actually crying its so cute Edit: okay so its been a few months and its been so much better now my school changed my name in the system my friends and even some of my family uses my name and I'm really happy now my mother on the other hand is still not supportive and I haven't told my dad yet but I'll telling him in the next couple weeks I might update with is reaction idk
I volunteer to be your new fatherly parent figure. Have some cookies and bedtime is whenever you feel you can go to bed while still being able to function tomorrow.
This made me cry, my dad wasn't the best when he had found out I didn't want to be a girl anymore and basically put me down by telling me I didn't look like a boy and No matter what I did I could never be a real one. My Dysphoria has been horrible for the past week and I didn't realize how much I needed something like this Thank you.
Is it bad that I started crying 🥺♥️ thank you so much for this, dysphoria has been rough lately especially with quarantine forcing me to be surrounded by my non accepting family. I’m genderfluid and I ended up being outed to my parents when my mom found out about my instagram. Long story short it did not end well. Hearing this today really really helped, more than you know. And I’m sure it’s helped hundreds of others too
I've got to come out to my parents before end of June, otherwise it's likely to be my toxic housemates who spill the beans. I'm petrified, so thanks for quelling my nerves with this, even if I'm sure my coming out will be way less calm 💜
I came out as Pan to my parents about one year ago , they where both really accepting . Now I've learned more things about myself , and I'm not sure how they'll react when I tell them . My mom is really open minded , I'm not scared of what she might think cause I know she will accept me , my dad is what scares me . He understands and respects everyones sexuality but he doesn't understand gender identity , he doesn't whish them any bad , but he doesn't understand. I'm gender fluid , I a mess when it comes to gender identity , that's why I'm scared . To everyone who is still closeted , and or feels like they can't come out . Hang in there , it will get better , there are a lot of people that love you and you do matter
I'm sorry to hear about the difficulty! It's certainly not easy to sort of educate parents especially when they think they know more about topics that they never learned about. I think education is the important thing. The most important part which I think helps get that ball rolling is teaching that sex is not the same as gender. Day 1 of my genetics class we were told: "Sex is a term from the field of biology related to genes, genitals, and bodily features; gender is sociology and psychology which has to do with arbitrary roles that change from region to region."
Thank you 🥺 I’m terrified to come out as trans because my mother is deeply homophobic and transphobic and my dad is very open minded but I don’t know how they would react. I came out as pan not to long ago and my mother is still trying to except it. She even one time told me that because someone called me a faggot and I was deeply offended that that’s why she knows I don’t like girls. And I felt like I couldn’t fight back, so thank you for this.
I'm in le closet still kinda but when I told my dad mom 2 sisters granny and like someone is I'm bisexual they accepted but my mom and sister said I was just going through a phase and I think I'm non-binary but I'm scared to come outtttt
My mum thought it was a phase around 9 months ago but now she knows its serious and my mum calls me by my preferred pronouns when were alone but my dad is who im scared of telling because he made transphobic jokes and my brother accepts people who are trans but wont talk to them so ill probs only have 1-2 of my family in the end- TwT so outta my family ill have 1-2/10 of my family if they dont want to accept me ;-;
As a person who uses She/They pronouns and who has an ABSENT dad and unsupportive mom.... THE ✨MOMMY✨ AND ✨DADDY✨ ISSUES ARE SHOWING 😭😭😭😭 I CRIED SO HARD I HAD MY MAKE-UP RUNNING DOWN MY FACE AND STAINED MY HOMEWORK 😭😭😭 THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR THIS! I NEEDED THIS SO MUCH 😭😭
The fact that I specially searched for an audio like this and teared up when I found this one really got me thinking about how I feel about myself and my family.... And I just want to say thank you❤️
Literally crying rn. Didn't realize how toxic my dad was until I shed a tear when he called me "kiddo". Feel like I've got a boss I've gotta work for, not a dad.. I need a father figure lol
As a non-bianary person who uses they/her pronouns I love this I recently came out to my friends and there supportive and my parents think that there’s 2 genders. But since I still use my birth name and pro-nouns it doesn’t hurt too too much. But still thank u
This was exactly what I needed. My mom just figured out my cutting and that I feel transgender and its making me highly uncomfortable being forced to talk about things Im not ready to talk about :/ And I turn 13 May 20th and Im really young to be a self harmer.
Happy early birthday! I would definitely suggest looking at some resources to help with the issues you are currently facing and possibly counselling. Best of luck!
happy belated birthday! i’m in the same boat, although i’m 15 instead of 13. i know things can be tough, but if you ever need someone to talk to, i’m here.
be strong, okay? i know that’s probably what you’ve heard a lot, but it really is okay if all that you do is survive. i was having gender struggles around the same time, and still survived my way to adulthood. one day you’ll wake up and know for sure that noone can make you do anything anymore. it’s closer than you think.
Omg thank you this was so needed because I’m having major anxiety coming out as trans to my parents because they’re super old school and this almost had me in tears. You are an amazing person who deserves all good things that happen to you. Have an amazing day and keep being your amazing self. And again thank you so much for this. Being a trans male is hard and a never ending spiral of anxiety but this video helped a bit and I truly thank you for that. 🥺🙏
“I- I found this” Me: .0. *oH nO MY sECrET yAoI CoLlEctIOn* !!!!! >.> Also me: wait if it fell out of my back pack....... why am I- never mind I ain’t questioning myself Rn •v•
Buying yaoi from behind the school again? What have I told you? Browse your prices online first so you get the best deal before you risk getting conned!
awhile ago I came out to my mom as tran and gay my mom reaction was 'you should rethink that' and my heart broke and I really don't feel happy anymore my mom may say 'l love you' but I dont feel like she doesn't and it hurts my heart because when I was little my mom said she'll love me always but how she reacted made me feel like she didn't love me. rn im actually crying while typing this. my friends support me my cousins to so that makes me feel a little happy but my mom still makes me feel sad and my pronouns are he him/they them and im proud to be me😊😁 also i love your vids Especially the M4M ones they make me really happy 😊
I'm so sorry to hear about that... I couldn't imagine... I am happy you have the support of others who accept you around to help you through things. UwU
I am 15 and a trans guy. My dad isn't around. This made me cry. I'm glad people on the internet are making these videos. These help more than people know. Thank you for doing this
My old man when I told him I’m non-binary: “I’m not using that pronoun bullshit. You’re a girl and will always be a girl” Me; who uses THEY/she pronouns: I- ok great talk 🥲👌🏾 Thanks for this video hun it’s really comforting ♥️
recently told my mom I prefer they/them and she screamed at me"YOU'RE A GIRL" , "YOU CAN'T BE THEY/THEM YOU GIRL AND YOU WILL ALWAYS BE ONE" and now I'm crying over this TvT 👍*she blamed the internet for this and canceled my b-day party and all the things that we had planned ☺️*
This made me cry, literally, living in a transphobic household it’s been hard..and this really helped, I’ve been subbed for a while and all I wanted to say is thanks mint ^^
Me: **sad that my dad probably isn't going to accept me** (I'm not too sure yet and I'm not going to say for sure I am because I don't wanna make anyone upset, but I think I'm genderfluid. And I'm pan) (I'm scared that if I come out then my enter family will hate me, so I'm probably gonna be in this closet that is starting to get cramped forever)
Took me a while to come out as a bi enby to my mum, she was very accepting but she struggles to remember to call me by my new name and pronouns sometime, feel so much better now that I got it off my chest
This really made me happy and feel accepted , mostly because my dad passed away a long time ago and my mom isn t really the most accepting person and i don t intend into coming out to her.... But i really wish i could tell my dad.. Thank you so much.
I personally believe that life is just strange enough that there could very well be some form of afterlife or reincarnation. I'm sure wherever he is, he knows and is proud of you. UwU
As a person who’s struggling on figuring out how to come out as non-binary to people who don’t exactly “understand”/they “think it’s just a trend”, I appreciate this audio a *lot.*
Thank you so so much for this, my "father" didnt accept me at all when i came out to him. This makes me so happy, thank you for making my day 100% better.
i know this video was a while ago, but this comment section is literally so sweet! :D ive never seen a creator treat the watchers so equally, wholesomely , and respectfully 🥺
This made me so happy because I am adopted too and my father has some hard times remembering my new name (I am non-binary) and I am sorry for my bad English😅
You did fine! I'm glad it made you happy! It's certainly not easy to unlearn names, especially if he's been calling you your deadname for years. If he forgets but is putting in the effort, I'm sure it's not coming from a bad place, but you should still kindly tell him if it ever does make you feel bad.
I don’t usually leave comments on videos so I’m really nervous but to some it up, Thank you. You don’t understand how happy this made me. You made my day so much better.
If any of you is going through anything like this, please know you are who you choose to be and no one can tell you differently. Thank you for the video dear. :)
this just reminded me that when I came out about being pan the only thing that calmed my parents was saying I was still "part straight" so how the first does one tell them that they are a genderless being? they don't
Love how when he found something with the preferred name (I'm assuming) he assured the listener that he loved them and when my grandma found something with my preferred name she yelled and me and kept repeating that I wasn't a boy and now won't stop lmao
You know, I didn't realize how much I needed this until I started crying during the video. I haven't come out to my dad, and I don't know if he'll support me or even know what non-binary means, and I'm honestly terrified that he'll be unsupportive. He's frightening when he's mad, and I have no idea how he'd respond. This video actually meant a lot to me, so thank you for making it.
I came across this video thanks to one of my little cubs who had commented on a video i did touching on the same subject but im the mom (their first words where "can you and mint maplewood please collab? super cute). This video is absolutely amazing and you covered this topic like a natural. You have an amazing voice, so warm and kind. You definitely have my support
This had me absolutely sobbing. My Dad passed in September before I could come out to him and I never really got to know if he was safe or not. This, obviously wasn't the same, but it really helped. Thank you so much.
i- i’m not crying, you’re crying! shut up! /hj this is the most wholesome and amazing thing i’ve ever seen, even the little bit at the beginning- i’m never allowed to pick what to eat and my dad sometimes specifically avoids or yells at me for the foods that I want. i love this so much - thank you.
I'm not trans nor a teenager but I would love having Mint as a father. Yall know that even if scripted that's how truly Mint is. You're the best bro, if you ever desire to become a parent you would be ace at it
Thank you! I will say that the real me could never be a parent. Too many negative traits picked up from interactions with my parents. Trying to work those demons out of my system. Even once those are gone, I've spent too much time living for others. I just want a husband and to enjoy my life with him and maybe some pets.
Thank you for this my minty boy! I've been really questioning if I'm trans or not since I haven't been checked for gender dysphoria yet, but it still feels obvious to me that I am, so this just really helped to make me feel better and know what I am. ❤❤❤❤
Aww! I'm so happy for you! If you're on the fence, there's definitely things I've heard you can try out first like testing pronouns on Discord servers or like names at Starbucks (not sponsored) or things like that! Best wishes! :3
Thank you so much for making this. This actually made me cry. I came out to my father as trans ftm in 2018 and I was chucked out in 2019 when I was sixteen after I started taking testosterone shots. But this makes me feel happier. Thank you.
I know this was 6 months ago but I just wanna say, Thank You! My father doesn’t actually surrport me and so this brought back memories that could of happened but didn’t.. But thank you so much this really made my day!! 💕😭✨
stop please i feel too loved to exist right now,, i’m nonbinary and i haven’t come out to anyone irl but this made me feel so safe and happy and valid, thanks so much for this, you’re doing god’s work :’)
This made me feel like crying. My father died when I was younger and before I realized I was trans, and I like to think that if he was still alive that he would support me about being trans hdhdhshdh-
{Posibble triggering content??} I keep coming back to rewatch this and every time I do the idea of our dear old adoptive father finding our sh scars gets more and more solidified in my brain
Mint Maplewood Well me and my dad are getting therapy so that’s good! But with this whole fiasco going on we can’t really go to one right now. And I haven’t had a therapist in a while so it’s kinda gonna be weird. But, when people say “It’ll get better!” I really hope it does. (╥_╥)
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Dad: why is your voice getting deeper?
me, afab: thats the T, cis
OAO
DID YOU JUS-
@@MintMaplewood
OVO
YES
YES I DID
UNO REVERSE CARD MR _FLAT TIDDY LUMBERJACK MAN_
AT LEAST I'M NOT ILLITERATE!!!
@@MintMaplewood ahaha ok _boomer_
I CHOKED ON MY TEA-
"I'm opening the door on 3..1...2..3"
*GET OUT DAD IM PLAYING JUST DANCE*
"That just confirms you're LGBT+!"
@@MintMaplewood I hate that this is so true, though.
@@MintMaplewood its so true omg
@@MintMaplewood STOPPP KJSADHNTFBEWUIQBHJDEJKA IM CRYING OMG KFNWEFRNEKJASN I MEAN WHERE IS THE LIE THO
@@MintMaplewood No, it just means ill have an ✨asthma attack✨
As a non binary person who’s “father” doesn’t accept them this is really heart warming 😭 thanks
I'm sorry to hear about that. You can always be yourself here. UwU
Light Yagami yo yagami light is a trans ally😳😳
We accept you 💝💝💝
Be yourself! The only person that knows that I'm trans is my brother and he is actually a girl!:D we will all support you!
Sameee
I'm adopted and non-binary and deeply unaccepted. I found this after a fight with my "mom" and I just, thanks.
Awww, I'm so sorry about the situation you're in. Things do get better. Keep fighting!
u are my child now 👁👄👁
@@dgtooth our child 🙂💁♂️ 🤣 i want to keep this precious bean too 🥺👉👈🤍
I am sorry that this is what you are going through! It will be okay! I just know it! Stay strong, buddy! We'll be with you as long as you wish!!
hey howdy because of the more recent replies just wanted to say im a few months from moving out, things definetly arent going well, but its much closer to being okay
Alot of trans and enby kids look for the type of dad your being in this video. This is a great video, keep up the good work mint.
Thank you! I hope more people can find that real dad. ;v;
@@MintMaplewood Thank you so much..^^'
As a trans person I can agree with this comment (I'm female to male)
@@yamazakura3330 you're valid and loved in the trans community. 🏳️⚧️🤝🏳️⚧️
I came out as non binary and pansexual to my dad a few days ago and he told me he used to go to gay bars and a few of his friends are drag queens! I can say it was a big surprise lol
Ooooou, interesting! But good for you! :3
Dude can y'all like adopt me WTF I WANT A DAD LIKE THAT?!
@@bakugoukatsuki4438 oh ma gosh ME TOO
I'm jealous, I wish that could be me with my parent, but I'm happy they had a positive reaction congrats
101 why we love Mint
*he inclusive for everyone*
;w;
And he's the best!!
We stan an amazing ally
Me too! 😊
@@MintMaplewood I love you ❤
When he said "Oh Sh!t" I got scared
It was more directed at himself than at you. XD
@@MintMaplewood I know 😘🤣🤣🤣🤣
same tho
"I'm in a certain food mood"
*yep, this is my dad.*
I was not prepared to cry but AAAAAA imma cryyy
Nuuuuu, don't cry, Eli! Food is comiiiiiiing! D:
@@MintMaplewood pfff-
*flat tiddie role-*
GOB DAMBIT!
I'm gonna cry😭😭😭
Last thing I remember of my dad is that he was homophobic...THANK YOU!💕😭
I CrAvE KiBbLe aw im so sorry about that but I can relate my mom is homophobic and transphobic so I get it. U are loved child have a good day my child!
"Good job Mint - you handled that about as smoothly as a laxative" - 3:25. I died.
Same 🤣
*when you’re adopted, ignored (thanks to new younger siblings), and don’t even have a dad* welp-
Oh nu! I shall be dad! 0u0
Dad: Are you giving me the silent treatment again?
Me, as a person who's mute in my head: [Aren't I always giving the silent treatment-]
Damn, I wish my dad did this. He just disowned me instead.
Also that smooth as laxatives bit was fantastic. Had me rolling.
Fuck. I'm sorry to hear. I do hope things are far better for you know!
Mint Maplewood Oh yeah much better. I don’t live with him, and it’s not like he’s gonna drive 10 hours to yell at me. So I’m doing waaay better.
@@MintMaplewood DAD!! LANGUAGE
I’m non- binary and this, this low key made me cry. Thank u.
Awww, don't cry! I love you!
Mint Maplewood ❤️
same
Im questioning if im trans or not but this made me feel so safe and respected
I'm happy you feel that way here! ^v^
THIS WAS MADE FOR MEEEEEEEEEE OMG
*gasp* My long lost child?! :O
Mint Maplewood its me kyle 😅 hey minty
-ps your long lost child loves you
Me to
:O I love you both! OMG! What a coincidence!
me toooo :3
I love this my dad won't accepted me for being non-binary so this makes me happy! I'm crying
I'm really sorry to hear about that, but I'm happy I could help! OuO
I'm a closeted non-binary child yet my parents are fine with the fact I'm bi. GREAT LIFE HERE.
btw this made me super happy
I'm happy it did! :3X
Same here- although I’m technically out, it’s just ignored
I was actually really happy to here this, since this definitely isn't how my family reacted...
Awww I'm so sorry to hear, but I will say you are valid and loved! :3
Mint is more supportive than all of my friends, family,and classmates combined I've been out for a year this is 99% shorter than that and that sucks and I'm actually crying its so cute
Edit: okay so its been a few months and its been so much better now my school changed my name in the system my friends and even some of my family uses my name and I'm really happy now my mother on the other hand is still not supportive and I haven't told my dad yet but I'll telling him in the next couple weeks I might update with is reaction idk
I hope you find that support around you soon!
@@MintMaplewood thank you 😊
@@ilikebread818 I'll be your friend! Granted, i'm probably younger then you. But oh well!
@@oliverthegreatest1039 oh well that depends age wise I mean I'm only 13 lol but cool I love to be friends :)
@@ilikebread818 :O IM 13 TOO!!
Welp, I'm crying.
I'm never gonna hear anything like this from my own father.
Then we shall find you a new fatherly role model! >:3
I volunteer to be your new fatherly parent figure. Have some cookies and bedtime is whenever you feel you can go to bed while still being able to function tomorrow.
This made me cry, my dad wasn't the best when he had found out I didn't want to be a girl anymore and basically put me down by telling me I didn't look like a boy and No matter what I did I could never be a real one. My Dysphoria has been horrible for the past week and I didn't realize how much I needed something like this Thank you.
I'm glad that it helped. I do hope you find support around you!
my dad actually passed away this year before i had the guts to come out so thank you i really needed this audio ❤️✨ shh i tried not to cry ok
I'm sorry to hear. I hope you find the solace you need.
Is it bad that I started crying 🥺♥️ thank you so much for this, dysphoria has been rough lately especially with quarantine forcing me to be surrounded by my non accepting family. I’m genderfluid and I ended up being outed to my parents when my mom found out about my instagram. Long story short it did not end well. Hearing this today really really helped, more than you know. And I’m sure it’s helped hundreds of others too
I'm glad to hear that it helped! I'm sorry to hear about your situation. I'm sure that things will be far better some day! :3
I've got to come out to my parents before end of June, otherwise it's likely to be my toxic housemates who spill the beans. I'm petrified, so thanks for quelling my nerves with this, even if I'm sure my coming out will be way less calm 💜
It certainly is never easy, but there is plenty of support to be found for help with things! UwU
I came out as Pan to my parents about one year ago , they where both really accepting . Now I've learned more things about myself , and I'm not sure how they'll react when I tell them .
My mom is really open minded , I'm not scared of what she might think cause I know she will accept me , my dad is what scares me . He understands and respects everyones sexuality but he doesn't understand gender identity , he doesn't whish them any bad , but he doesn't understand. I'm gender fluid , I a mess when it comes to gender identity , that's why I'm scared .
To everyone who is still closeted , and or feels like they can't come out . Hang in there , it will get better , there are a lot of people that love you and you do matter
I'm sorry to hear about the difficulty! It's certainly not easy to sort of educate parents especially when they think they know more about topics that they never learned about. I think education is the important thing. The most important part which I think helps get that ball rolling is teaching that sex is not the same as gender. Day 1 of my genetics class we were told: "Sex is a term from the field of biology related to genes, genitals, and bodily features; gender is sociology and psychology which has to do with arbitrary roles that change from region to region."
Thank you 🥺 I’m terrified to come out as trans because my mother is deeply homophobic and transphobic and my dad is very open minded but I don’t know how they would react. I came out as pan not to long ago and my mother is still trying to except it. She even one time told me that because someone called me a faggot and I was deeply offended that that’s why she knows I don’t like girls. And I felt like I couldn’t fight back, so thank you for this.
I'm in le closet still kinda but when I told my dad mom 2 sisters granny and like someone is I'm bisexual they accepted but my mom and sister said I was just going through a phase and I think I'm non-binary but I'm scared to come outtttt
My mum thought it was a phase around 9 months ago but now she knows its serious and my mum calls me by my preferred pronouns when were alone but my dad is who im scared of telling because he made transphobic jokes and my brother accepts people who are trans but wont talk to them so ill probs only have 1-2 of my family in the end- TwT so outta my family ill have 1-2/10 of my family if they dont want to accept me ;-;
As a person who uses She/They pronouns and who has an ABSENT dad and unsupportive mom.... THE ✨MOMMY✨ AND ✨DADDY✨ ISSUES ARE SHOWING 😭😭😭😭 I CRIED SO HARD I HAD MY MAKE-UP RUNNING DOWN MY FACE AND STAINED MY HOMEWORK 😭😭😭
THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR THIS! I NEEDED THIS SO MUCH 😭😭
Dad: Hey you left something behind
Me: fu-
Dad: do you go by one set of pronouns or mutiple
Me: mutiple (he/him or they/them)
Good to know! :3
SAMEEE HERE🥰
SAME :o
I go by they/them since it feels right (also I think but do not know if I’m non-binary)
The fact that I specially searched for an audio like this and teared up when I found this one really got me thinking about how I feel about myself and my family.... And I just want to say thank you❤️
No problem! How you find what you need!
Ahhhhh- This is amazing- Deadass got tears when this mans said "Hey kiddo!" Like- I- Ahhhhhhhh-
Literally crying rn. Didn't realize how toxic my dad was until I shed a tear when he called me "kiddo". Feel like I've got a boss I've gotta work for, not a dad.. I need a father figure lol
As a non-bianary person who uses they/her pronouns I love this
I recently came out to my friends and there supportive and my parents think that there’s 2 genders. But since I still use my birth name and pro-nouns it doesn’t hurt too too much. But still thank u
I'm happy to be able to help! :)
I needed this 🥺and it’s even on my birthday 💖
HAPPY BIRTHDAY! (\OuO/)
Mint Maplewood thx! ( ◠‿◠ )
*Transgender FTM*
My dad isn't even in my life, you're my adopted dad now Mint-
:O
This was exactly what I needed. My mom just figured out my cutting and that I feel transgender and its making me highly uncomfortable being forced to talk about things Im not ready to talk about :/
And I turn 13 May 20th and Im really young to be a self harmer.
Lucifer The suicidal 2 year old HAPPY BIRTHDAY FOR TOMORROW! I LOVE YOUUUUUUUU 💕
Happy early birthday! I would definitely suggest looking at some resources to help with the issues you are currently facing and possibly counselling. Best of luck!
HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!! I know I’m just a stranger on the internet but if you ever need a fellow trans teen to vent to, know that I’m always here xx
happy belated birthday! i’m in the same boat, although i’m 15 instead of 13. i know things can be tough, but if you ever need someone to talk to, i’m here.
be strong, okay? i know that’s probably what you’ve heard a lot, but it really is okay if all that you do is survive. i was having gender struggles around the same time, and still survived my way to adulthood. one day you’ll wake up and know for sure that noone can make you do anything anymore. it’s closer than you think.
I swear I’m actually going to cry. I hope it goes this well with my parents
You've got this! Stay safe! :3
Bruh, i started trembling and tears welled up in my eyes at 1:39, that shit scared me
I'm sorry! I gib kith better! :*
Omg thank you this was so needed because I’m having major anxiety coming out as trans to my parents because they’re super old school and this almost had me in tears. You are an amazing person who deserves all good things that happen to you. Have an amazing day and keep being your amazing self. And again thank you so much for this. Being a trans male is hard and a never ending spiral of anxiety but this video helped a bit and I truly thank you for that. 🥺🙏
Thank you! You got this! Stay strong!
I have never met my dad so this gives my little enby heart the fatherly affection I need
The dad jokes! The care! The gentle awkwardness!
Tbh I started having a panic attack at "oh sh!t". This is what I need but didn't get.
Thank you.
“I- I found this”
Me: .0. *oH nO MY sECrET yAoI CoLlEctIOn* !!!!!
>.>
Also me: wait if it fell out of my back pack....... why am I- never mind I ain’t questioning myself Rn •v•
Buying yaoi from behind the school again? What have I told you? Browse your prices online first so you get the best deal before you risk getting conned!
Mint Maplewood oop- sorry daaaaadd >v>
Mint Maplewood don’t be angry at them the truth is I told them to put it in their backpack I sorry 🥺🥺🥺🥺👉🏾👈🏾
@Mint Maplewood Wait so can I still buy the Yaoi or?
@@MintMaplewood MY CAMERA ROLL DEFINITELY DOESNT HAVE YAOi IN IT 😃
Dude you got me crying, i havent had enough coffee today for that
Whoops. My bad! Have some bean juice! ( > O mO)>C[]
Mint Maplewood :0 Your reply has just made quarantine more bearable I’m so happy, bean juice has been acquired and shall be chugged
awhile ago I came out to my mom as tran and gay my mom reaction was 'you should rethink that' and my heart broke and I really don't feel happy anymore my mom may say 'l love you' but I dont feel like she doesn't and it hurts my heart because when I was little my mom said she'll love me always but how she reacted made me feel like she didn't love me. rn im actually crying while typing this. my friends support me my cousins to so that makes me feel a little happy but my mom still makes me feel sad and my pronouns are he him/they them and im proud to be me😊😁 also i love your vids Especially the M4M ones they make me really happy 😊
I'm so sorry to hear about that... I couldn't imagine... I am happy you have the support of others who accept you around to help you through things. UwU
I am 15 and a trans guy. My dad isn't around. This made me cry. I'm glad people on the internet are making these videos. These help more than people know. Thank you for doing this
I feel
Great now-
It’s even my birthday!!!
*gasp* HAPPY BIRTHDAY! ( > O uO)>
HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!
Wish I had a supportive dad!
By the way thanks!!! (⌒▽⌒)
Happy birthday!!! 🎂❤
My old man when I told him I’m non-binary: “I’m not using that pronoun bullshit. You’re a girl and will always be a girl”
Me; who uses THEY/she pronouns: I- ok great talk 🥲👌🏾
Thanks for this video hun it’s really comforting ♥️
same but with my mom
recently told my mom I prefer they/them and she screamed at me"YOU'RE A GIRL" , "YOU CAN'T BE THEY/THEM YOU GIRL AND YOU WILL ALWAYS BE ONE" and now I'm crying over this TvT 👍*she blamed the internet for this and canceled my b-day party and all the things that we had planned ☺️*
Welp. This is the conversation I wished would happen with my parents. I almost started crying. I didn't realize how hard it was gonna hit me
This made me cry, literally, living in a transphobic household it’s been hard..and this really helped, I’ve been subbed for a while and all I wanted to say is thanks mint ^^
I do hope you find better support around you and that you can get out of that situation!
i also cried
Me: **sad that my dad probably isn't going to accept me**
(I'm not too sure yet and I'm not going to say for sure I am because I don't wanna make anyone upset, but I think I'm genderfluid. And I'm pan)
(I'm scared that if I come out then my enter family will hate me, so I'm probably gonna be in this closet that is starting to get cramped forever)
Make sure you're safe before you decide to come out!
Took me a while to come out as a bi enby to my mum, she was very accepting but she struggles to remember to call me by my new name and pronouns sometime, feel so much better now that I got it off my chest
This really made me happy and feel accepted , mostly because my dad passed away a long time ago and my mom isn t really the most accepting person and i don t intend into coming out to her.... But i really wish i could tell my dad.. Thank you so much.
I personally believe that life is just strange enough that there could very well be some form of afterlife or reincarnation. I'm sure wherever he is, he knows and is proud of you. UwU
I’m a trans teen and my family don’t use the right pronouns and says it’s a phase this made me feel validated and happy 🥰 thank u
Why do you sound like the super cool dad, who would legit never be mad at you-
Because it's scripted. I'm super bad with kids and have no patience... ;_;
As a person who’s struggling on figuring out how to come out as non-binary to people who don’t exactly “understand”/they “think it’s just a trend”, I appreciate this audio a *lot.*
When mint is a better dad than I could I ever have
this video made me laugh at first and then i cried at the "i'm proud of you" part. thank you, this was really needed
Thank you so so much for this, my "father" didnt accept me at all when i came out to him. This makes me so happy, thank you for making my day 100% better.
i know this video was a while ago, but this comment section is literally so sweet! :D ive never seen a creator treat the watchers so equally, wholesomely , and respectfully 🥺
Aww, thanks! I try to, but sometimes TH-cam doesn't show me every comment which is the big sad. UnU
as a non-binary person with unaccepting parents this gave me so much comfort. t h a n k y o u
This made me so happy because I am adopted too and my father has some hard times remembering my new name (I am non-binary) and I am sorry for my bad English😅
You did fine! I'm glad it made you happy! It's certainly not easy to unlearn names, especially if he's been calling you your deadname for years. If he forgets but is putting in the effort, I'm sure it's not coming from a bad place, but you should still kindly tell him if it ever does make you feel bad.
I don’t usually leave comments on videos so I’m really nervous but to some it up,
Thank you. You don’t understand how happy this made me. You made my day so much better.
I'm happy to hear it helped! :3
If any of you is going through anything like this, please know you are who you choose to be and no one can tell you differently. Thank you for the video dear. :)
Thank you, Rain! :3
this audio made me cry cause it gives the support my parents dont give me, thank you so much for making this heart warming gift
i am not kidding, this video made me cry.
i replayed scenes so many damn times.
thank you so much.
So this is what it feels like to be accepted ✨
And you too shall find this soon!
Asmrs usually don't make me cry but
mint, you made me cry
As a ftm closeted kid you made me feel loved
this just reminded me that when I came out about being pan the only thing that calmed my parents was saying I was still "part straight" so how the first does one tell them that they are a genderless being?
they don't
I'm sorry to hear... I do hope your parents learn to be more accepting! UmU
Love how when he found something with the preferred name (I'm assuming) he assured the listener that he loved them and when my grandma found something with my preferred name she yelled and me and kept repeating that I wasn't a boy and now won't stop lmao
Two types of people
“This fell out of your bag”
SHIT NOT THE DANCING ROBOT 😞😞😞
That one dislike is from dysphoria
You know, I didn't realize how much I needed this until I started crying during the video. I haven't come out to my dad, and I don't know if he'll support me or even know what non-binary means, and I'm honestly terrified that he'll be unsupportive. He's frightening when he's mad, and I have no idea how he'd respond. This video actually meant a lot to me, so thank you for making it.
Omg thank you so much for making this! I really needed something like this for a while
No problem! I'm happy I could provide! :3
listen i started holding back tears when they said "kiddo"
“Oh what’s this?”
*folded sock on the floor*
I higkey sobbed to this, tysm for it
I came across this video thanks to one of my little cubs who had commented on a video i did touching on the same subject but im the mom (their first words where "can you and mint maplewood please collab? super cute). This video is absolutely amazing and you covered this topic like a natural. You have an amazing voice, so warm and kind. You definitely have my support
Awww, that's so sweet! ;w; Thank you so much! QAQ
This had me absolutely sobbing. My Dad passed in September before I could come out to him and I never really got to know if he was safe or not. This, obviously wasn't the same, but it really helped. Thank you so much.
I wish you the best in this rough time.
I really needed this- I came out as Non-Binary to my boyfriend today and still don’t know how to come out to my parents 🥺
Once I get approval from my parents ya peeps getting Vitamin T 😌💅🏻
Good luck! You've got this!
I've needed this audio for... 6-8 months now? Thank you. Knowing there's at least one "coming out to dad" audio out there now really helps.
Happy to hear! Sorry it took that 6-8 months.
I was not prepared to cry... like fuck man I really needed this rn 🥺
I am incredibly happy I found this. my parents don't know yet but i know they won't be okay with it. Thank you for making this.
Stay safe! I hope you find support around you!
I needed this more than I thought. I’m crying I didn’t think I would start crying 😭
This is adorable ☺️😊
Thank you so much, Brianna! :3
This had me in tears.
Your an amazing person mint ❤
No u
i- i’m not crying, you’re crying! shut up! /hj
this is the most wholesome and amazing thing i’ve ever seen, even the little bit at the beginning- i’m never allowed to pick what to eat and my dad sometimes specifically avoids or yells at me for the foods that I want. i love this so much - thank you.
I'm not trans nor a teenager but I would love having Mint as a father. Yall know that even if scripted that's how truly Mint is. You're the best bro, if you ever desire to become a parent you would be ace at it
Thank you! I will say that the real me could never be a parent. Too many negative traits picked up from interactions with my parents. Trying to work those demons out of my system. Even once those are gone, I've spent too much time living for others. I just want a husband and to enjoy my life with him and maybe some pets.
Thank you for this my minty boy!
I've been really questioning if I'm trans or not since I haven't been checked for gender dysphoria yet, but it still feels obvious to me that I am, so this just really helped to make me feel better and know what I am. ❤❤❤❤
Aww! I'm so happy for you! If you're on the fence, there's definitely things I've heard you can try out first like testing pronouns on Discord servers or like names at Starbucks (not sponsored) or things like that! Best wishes! :3
I can't stop crying and hyperventilating and this is the only thing I have, I love you (platonically) for making this
Things will get better. Stay strong and try to ground yourself.
I know I’m not the person who made the video, but I just want to say you are perfectly valid and I hope you have an amazing day :)
Thank you so much for making this. This actually made me cry. I came out to my father as trans ftm in 2018 and I was chucked out in 2019 when I was sixteen after I started taking testosterone shots. But this makes me feel happier. Thank you.
Ok but like this totally nails the dad vibe from beginning to end. Did enjoy greatly
Thank you! UwU
You are more supporting than literally anyone else I know personally and this made me really happy🥰
I know this was 6 months ago but I just wanna say,
Thank You!
My father doesn’t actually surrport me and so this brought back memories that could of happened but didn’t..
But thank you so much this really made my day!! 💕😭✨
I'm glad! I hope you get that support around you!
Beautiful! If only all dads were like this the world would be such a happier place.
For sure! UwU
stop please i feel too loved to exist right now,, i’m nonbinary and i haven’t come out to anyone irl but this made me feel so safe and happy and valid, thanks so much for this, you’re doing god’s work :’)
This made me feel like crying. My father died when I was younger and before I realized I was trans, and I like to think that if he was still alive that he would support me about being trans hdhdhshdh-
My condolences. I'm sure he's proud of you wherever he is.
{Posibble triggering content??} I keep coming back to rewatch this and every time I do the idea of our dear old adoptive father finding our sh scars gets more and more solidified in my brain
Omg I'm literally crying thank you for making this video this makes me feel so much better
*sniff sniff* ╥﹏╥ IM GONNA CRY!!! I’m......CRYING!!!! 🤧
Nuuuuuuu! It's okiiiii! QAQ
Mint Maplewood
Nah, it not okay...😔 This hits too close to home for me, I did actually do harm to myself and it was when I was way to young.
@@zixz.s4nity Ouch, I'm so sorry to hear. I do hope you're good and safe now!
Mint Maplewood
Well me and my dad are getting therapy so that’s good! But with this whole fiasco going on we can’t really go to one right now. And I haven’t had a therapist in a while so it’s kinda gonna be weird. But, when people say “It’ll get better!” I really hope it does. (╥_╥)
i was almost crying as well
I just wanna say the music in this is wonderful.
Literally made me tear up not gonna lie, I wish I had a dad like that..😅
I hope you find that dad for you!