I had several strokes, ulcerative Colitis and Covid 2019/2020. I was in a coma, in the ICU and had tubes coming out of every part of my body. I was on a ventilator, feeding tube and couldn't eat, speak or write. I couldn't even sit up on my own. Spent two years in a nursing home and have been in Assisted Living facility for a little over a year. Now I can brush my teeth, wash, shower, bathe and dress myself. I can feed myself and write. I've learned to do everything from a wheelchair. I only need 4 to 8 hours of care instead of 24 hour care. I get my health care at the Brooklyn VA hospital and participate in the Art Therapy group. I'm ready to move forward into my own wheelchair accessible apartment. Please pray that God will bless me with wheelchair accessible housing before summer. Thanks.
I needed this today my relationship is hurting bad I am holding on a rope with knots on it god please help my marriage and my life with someone whom doesn't love me anymore pray for us please 😮😪😅
I am praying for you. Please know that you can not control anyone to do anything. Focus on yourself and allow God to change you. Pray for your spouse, but focus on yourself and give it fully over to God.
God's love will restore your heart. Stop needing the love of someone who no longer loves you. Paradoxically, when they see you happy despite them, they get interested in YOU again....
Normally I don't put comments but this is sooo good I help so many people my age since 10 now 18 and I've always tell them when you change there's only 3 things a person can do when you change which is Change to your change Example smoking they smoked with you and they see how positive it is without it they are willing on changing with you Adapt to your change meaning they still smoke but they respect that your not anymore and they might not do it around you anymore or everytime they see you wanting to they keep you from doing it finally Leave to your change they see either the difference and they don't want to change with you or they just see how good you have it now and it hurts them Now I have a new way to explain it from your own perspective When you change they do those things but when you change you can retrain, repurpose, retire. Thank you Pastor
YASSSSS MY GRAND DAUGHTER CAME TO VISIT ME AND SEEING MY HOLD LIFE CHANGE I WAS SO EXCITED HER MOM AND AUNTIE WAS SHARING HOW DIFFICULT SHE CAN BE I TOLD THEM I DON'T CARE I WANT A ALL THE SMOKE I DIDN'T GET BE AROUND HER IT BROKE MY HEART I SAID YOU HAD YOUR CHANCE IT'S MY TIME NOW SHE CAME OVER A COUPLE TIMES. IT WAS WONDERFUL SOMETIMES THO SHE WOULD GONE DAYS. WHEN SHE CAME OVER I TOLD I REALLY MISS HER AND ASK HER TO COME STAY WITH ME HER AND HER BABY I WAS SO HAPPY I KNOW SHE'S YOUNG AND SHE AND HER BEST FRIEND WOULD HANG OUT SO WHEN SHE WOULD STAY AROUND I WOULD TALK HER ABOUT LIFE WHAT EVER SHE WOULD GO BACK TO HER MAYBE I GAVE HER TOO MANY LECTURES SO WE TALK IT OUT. SHE CAME TO LIVE WITH ME AND MET HER BABY DADDY. WOW LOOK WHAT GOD HAS DONE. I WENT TO THE STORE AND GOT SOME NOTE BOOKS I SAID I DIDN'T EXPECT THEM TO CATCH ON RIGHT AWAY. THAT I WOULD HELP THEM THEY WERE SO HAPPY. HOW TO BUDGET THERE MONEY PAY BILLS AND WHAT ARE PRIORITIES. BUT I NOTICE SOMETHING THEY WERE ARGUING ALL THE TIME AND THEY CUSS. SO I TOLD THEM NO CUSSING. DISAGREEMENTS DON'T HAVE TO LEAD TO ARGUMENTS THEY WOULD CHILL FOR TWO HOURS AND STARTED ARGUING AGAIN. WOULDN'T STOP SO I ASKED MY GRANDDAUGHTER. IF SHE LOVE HIM NO ANSWER I ASKED HIM HE SAID YES I ASKED HER DO YOU WANT TO FALL IN LOVE IT'S A DECISION I ASKED HER IF SHE EVER BEEN IN A GOOD RELATIONSHIP NO ANSWER I TOLD HER SHE NEED TO THINK ABOUT WHAT THERE RELATIONSHIP MEANS TO HER. I KNOW YOU GUYS HAVE TWO LITTLE BABIES TOGETHER. HAVING CHILDREN TOGETHER DOES NOT MAKE A RELATIONSHIP HER BOYFRIEND CONTINUE TELLING HER HE LOVES HER BUT HER FRIEND IS DISRESPECTFUL TO HIM AND THAT'S WHAT IS CAUSING THE PROBLEM. HE WANTS HER LEAVE HER FRIEND OR IT'S OVER. I TOLD HER IF YOU DON'T WANT TO BE WITH HIM LET HIM GO. IT'S NOT FAIR TO HIM I SAID BOTH OF YOU ARE REALLY YOUNG. THIS IS A TIME FOR YOU TO FALL IN LOVE WITH YOUR SELF IF YOU DON'T LOVE SELF HOW CAN YOU FALL IN LOVE WITH SOME ONE. I SHARED SOMETHING'S I WAS DOING WHEN I WAS THERE AGE. I GUESS I'LL LISTEN TO YOU FOR A LITTLE BIT.
I had several strokes, ulcerative Colitis and Covid 2019/2020. I was in a coma, in the ICU and had tubes coming out of every part of my body. I was on a ventilator, feeding tube and couldn't eat, speak or write.
I couldn't even sit up on my own.
Spent two years in a nursing home and have been in Assisted Living facility for a little over a year.
Now I can brush my teeth, wash, shower, bathe and dress myself. I can feed myself and write. I've learned to do everything from a wheelchair.
I only need 4 to 8 hours of care instead of 24 hour care.
I get my health care at the Brooklyn VA hospital and participate in the Art Therapy group.
I'm ready to move forward into my own wheelchair accessible apartment. Please pray that God will bless me with wheelchair accessible housing before summer. Thanks.
CONTINUE AND NEVER STOP TO THINK ON THE LEVEL OF YOUR ANOINTING PASTOR A. R BERNARD ! I'M WITH YOU !
Be Blessed
preach pastor you have been a blessing for many years and you always expand grow and teach!
Amazing teaching, God bless you always
What I love about Dr Benard more than I what I recieve from his word, is the enjoyment he gets from sharing the Word of God to the people!
"IN FEAR OF GOD THERE'S SMART REASONING !"... KEEP STRONG PASTOR A. R BERNARD !
I needed this today my relationship is hurting bad I am holding on a rope with knots on it god please help my marriage and my life with someone whom doesn't love me anymore pray for us please 😮😪😅
Thank you for this
I am praying for you. Please know that you can not control anyone to do anything. Focus on yourself and allow God to change you. Pray for your spouse, but focus on yourself and give it fully over to God.
God's love will restore your heart. Stop needing the love of someone who no longer loves you. Paradoxically, when they see you happy despite them, they get interested in YOU again....
Normally I don't put comments but this is sooo good I help so many people my age since 10 now 18 and I've always tell them when you change there's only 3 things a person can do when you change which is Change to your change
Example smoking they smoked with you and they see how positive it is without it they are willing on changing with you
Adapt to your change meaning they still smoke but they respect that your not anymore and they might not do it around you anymore or everytime they see you wanting to they keep you from doing it finally
Leave to your change they see either the difference and they don't want to change with you or they just see how good you have it now and it hurts them
Now I have a new way to explain it from your own perspective
When you change they do those things but when you change you can retrain, repurpose, retire. Thank you Pastor
🙌🏾 My My My have had to re-evaluate in many cycles of my life. Going through it again right now. ARB Wisdom on how to do it. 👣
We will be praying with you all there from our household here. Thank you for "working together"!
Timely sermon☺️
All I can do is SMILE and smile BIG when God’s perfect timing shows itself🎉💙
I need a miracle!!!
We will be Praying for Divine Order For All AMEN
Cracking up....I totally get it and understand. The funny part is that I had to look up...."What is red bottom shoes?" I had no idea.
God has reawakened something inside of me. I can feel him pushing me closer and closer to globs love.
Y'all coming to Florida. I reside in Jacksonville, Florida. Orlando 2 hours away.
Pastor, can you talk about boredom?
I KNOW YOU PRAYED THAT I WATCH. I DON'T KNOW I'VE NEVER BEEN MARRIED. CAN I APPLY TO YOUNG ADULTS ?
Sad tj Holmes learned nothing from this man great sermon
the in every faith part is what is ... hmm.
😳 OOO WEE
Why doesn’t God just show himself? Jeez
He does, you just gotta see Him
YASSSSS MY GRAND DAUGHTER CAME TO VISIT ME AND SEEING MY HOLD LIFE CHANGE I WAS SO EXCITED HER MOM AND AUNTIE WAS SHARING HOW DIFFICULT SHE CAN BE I TOLD THEM I DON'T CARE I WANT A ALL THE SMOKE I DIDN'T GET BE AROUND HER IT BROKE MY HEART I SAID YOU HAD YOUR CHANCE IT'S MY TIME NOW SHE CAME OVER A COUPLE TIMES. IT WAS WONDERFUL SOMETIMES THO SHE WOULD GONE DAYS. WHEN SHE CAME OVER I TOLD I REALLY MISS HER AND ASK HER TO COME STAY WITH ME HER AND HER BABY I WAS SO HAPPY I KNOW SHE'S YOUNG AND SHE AND HER BEST FRIEND WOULD HANG OUT SO WHEN SHE WOULD STAY AROUND I WOULD TALK HER ABOUT LIFE WHAT EVER SHE WOULD GO BACK TO HER MAYBE I GAVE HER TOO MANY LECTURES SO WE TALK IT OUT. SHE CAME TO LIVE WITH ME AND MET HER BABY DADDY. WOW LOOK WHAT GOD HAS DONE. I WENT TO THE STORE AND GOT SOME NOTE BOOKS I SAID I DIDN'T EXPECT THEM TO CATCH ON RIGHT AWAY. THAT I WOULD HELP THEM THEY WERE SO HAPPY. HOW TO BUDGET THERE MONEY PAY BILLS AND WHAT ARE PRIORITIES. BUT I NOTICE SOMETHING THEY WERE ARGUING ALL THE TIME AND THEY CUSS. SO I TOLD THEM NO CUSSING. DISAGREEMENTS DON'T HAVE TO LEAD TO ARGUMENTS THEY WOULD CHILL FOR TWO HOURS AND STARTED ARGUING AGAIN. WOULDN'T STOP SO I ASKED MY GRANDDAUGHTER. IF SHE LOVE HIM NO ANSWER I ASKED HIM HE SAID YES I ASKED HER DO YOU WANT TO FALL IN LOVE IT'S A DECISION I ASKED HER IF SHE EVER BEEN IN A GOOD RELATIONSHIP NO ANSWER I TOLD HER SHE NEED TO THINK ABOUT WHAT THERE RELATIONSHIP MEANS TO HER. I KNOW YOU GUYS HAVE TWO LITTLE BABIES TOGETHER. HAVING CHILDREN TOGETHER DOES NOT MAKE A RELATIONSHIP HER BOYFRIEND CONTINUE TELLING HER HE LOVES HER BUT HER FRIEND IS DISRESPECTFUL TO HIM AND THAT'S WHAT IS CAUSING THE PROBLEM. HE WANTS HER LEAVE HER FRIEND OR IT'S OVER. I TOLD HER IF YOU DON'T WANT TO BE WITH HIM LET HIM GO. IT'S NOT FAIR TO HIM I SAID BOTH OF YOU ARE REALLY YOUNG. THIS IS A TIME FOR YOU TO FALL IN LOVE WITH YOUR SELF IF YOU DON'T LOVE SELF HOW CAN YOU FALL IN LOVE WITH SOME ONE. I SHARED SOMETHING'S I WAS DOING WHEN I WAS THERE AGE. I GUESS I'LL LISTEN TO YOU FOR A LITTLE BIT.