What is an Energy Vampire??

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  • If you feel drained after every encounter with a particular person, you may be dealing with an energy vampire.
    While there are several types of energy vampires, the one thing they have in common is the exhausting and disheartening effect they have on others. If you feel a relationship is continually siphoning off your emotional reserves and leaving you empty, there are ways to break this cycle
    Everyone deserves to experience the benefits of improved mental health and emotional wellness. If you're ready to take the next step in your journey, here are some helpful resources from Choosing Therapy.
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    Written by: Suzanne Degges-White PhD, LCPC, LPC, LMHC, NCC
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    Medically Reviewed by: Heidi Moawad MD
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    Published: 12/19/2022
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  • @mpangmeibodu6599
    @mpangmeibodu6599 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Right now im sitting next to Narcissist energy vampire and watching this because i want to know how to win him in a healthy way.Not lying,he’s creating drama EVERY SINGLE DAY.

    • @choosingtherapy
      @choosingtherapy  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you for sharing! Consider reading an article we published on energy vampires here: www.choosingtherapy.com/energy-vampires/

    • @jin_cotl
      @jin_cotl 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      You can’t change that person but you can choose whether or not to distance yourself from them

    • @diamondmonique7974
      @diamondmonique7974 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Trust he will drain you dry and leave you first if you don’t leave now. Only God can help them kinds of people. Pray. Run. Pray. Run

    • @briana177
      @briana177 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Leave as soon as you can.

  • @mike-m123
    @mike-m123 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    It's so funny that I'm getting this short after a series of What We Do in the Shadows ones 🤣

    • @choosingtherapy
      @choosingtherapy  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      The algorithm is on point with vampires but very off at the same time. Thanks for stopping by ❤️

    • @brettknoss486
      @brettknoss486 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@choosingtherapy Collin Robinson is a literal energy vampire. He feeds off of the energy of people, he hunts them in a cubicle farm.

  • @lmjones.9060
    @lmjones.9060 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Thank you. I'm setting boundaries with my vampire. Its sad Because she was nice when we 1st met and in the past 18 months she's turned into a total creep who it's all about her nothing is ever. Her fault and I could go on but i'm not going to.

  • @ian_atkins
    @ian_atkins ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I always thought an energy vampire was just someone who was kinda boring (like What We Do in the Shadows) but this was helpful to hearing that it could be someone who is creating drama, etc. too.

    • @choosingtherapy
      @choosingtherapy  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      We’re glad you found this helpful ❤

    • @TonyisKing343
      @TonyisKing343 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Whatbwe do in the shadows does showcase several types of emotional vampires tho

  • @dragondust5023
    @dragondust5023 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I have a friend that thinks he found am energy vampire by the name of 'Colin Robinson'

    • @choosingtherapy
      @choosingtherapy  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks fro sharing. You can read more about Energy Vampires here: www.choosingtherapy.com/energy-vampires/

  • @siicario405
    @siicario405 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    "Actually that's not how Energy Vampires work, read a book and educate yourself".

  • @clintonburpo944
    @clintonburpo944 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I want to know how to "distroy" an energy vampire

  • @kartoontats3177
    @kartoontats3177 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    So how do you repel these ppl? My stepdad was a abusive and manipulative person and to this day he still know how to trip me up and get in my head, and I feel like I only attract ppl like him. My ex wife was just like him and they’d get jealous and play me against each other

    • @choosingtherapy
      @choosingtherapy  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hi there! Sorry to hear that....here's an article we published that goes over how to deal with energy vampires: www.choosingtherapy.com/energy-vampires/
      Hope this helps!

    • @depurasangre86
      @depurasangre86 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same here! I'm 37 and always had this problem. The same kind of people keep showing up.
      It got to the point I started to become quiet and introverted. Avoiding nearly everybody. I'm tired.
      Especially I'll walk around avoiding eye contact. If I do look up and someone seems to look at me with some kind of interest....I get scared and believe it is another person trying to take my energy.
      I hope you discover a tactic. The only thing I found that works so far....is wearing headphones and avoiding. But idk if this is healthy in the long run. Probably not. Good luck.

    • @jin_cotl
      @jin_cotl 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@choosingtherapylink doesn’t work for TH-cam shorts

  • @itsdarklikehell
    @itsdarklikehell 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    As a vampire myself, I can say you are wrong on a huge scale..
    who says we only take, yes if one is unaware (unawakened), and due to the lack of many learned elders lately there are a lot of unawakend ones out there.
    but trained and well versed ones should be able to not drain, or even only take leftover residue or take away any unnessacairy negative energies. a true and honest donor should be greatly appriciated. we call them black swans. its a verry high and honourous title to bare.
    also an awakend one, could be trained in reiki and or qi gong. in fact, I think most of us are in fact energy workers or work in hospitals or with the elderly and such.
    so i guess most of my donors would disagree with you, having me around is a lot of benefit for them.

  • @LuvMe-z2w
    @LuvMe-z2w 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    That's what every last one of my enemies is trust me when I tell you that's what they are

  • @grim_reaper_luckydeath1416
    @grim_reaper_luckydeath1416 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    What do you call a energy vampire that sucks the toxic energy out of bad people?

  • @luxitos2867
    @luxitos2867 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Colin Robinson approves of this.

    • @choosingtherapy
      @choosingtherapy  ปีที่แล้ว

      Definitely!

    • @brettknoss486
      @brettknoss486 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      That's not how psychology works. Read a book.

    • @markrobertson6664
      @markrobertson6664 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      when they call you a "dumbass", you know you've got them.
      ...they called me a "dumbass"

    • @luxitos2867
      @luxitos2867 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@brettknoss486 Which one of my psych textbooks would you like to borrow?

  • @jamiewilliams8107
    @jamiewilliams8107 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Debt collectors are energy vampires!

    • @choosingtherapy
      @choosingtherapy  ปีที่แล้ว

      Maybe debt collectors fit into our types of energy vampires list. Give it a read here: www.choosingtherapy.com/energy-vampires/

  • @solarqueen2555
    @solarqueen2555 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Where is the article?

    • @choosingtherapy
      @choosingtherapy  10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Here you go: www.choosingtherapy.com/energy-vampires/

  • @monalisainperson7141
    @monalisainperson7141 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    They use technology, lot of them in media pr busniess

  • @Idkaboutyou444
    @Idkaboutyou444 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I’m so empty

  • @fbkkhfjlnbh
    @fbkkhfjlnbh 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I think i am one

    • @Ary-vr1pu
      @Ary-vr1pu 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It is okay, just stop being one ❤

  • @opulentElephant11
    @opulentElephant11 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You didn’t say how to deal with them

    • @choosingtherapy
      @choosingtherapy  ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi there! Here are some tips from our article:www.choosingtherapy.com/energy-vampires/
      How to deal with an energy vampire:
      • Don't internalize their criticisms
      • Set clear boundaries
      • Don't expect them to be something they are not
      • Prioritize self-care
      • Be upfront and direct
      • Don't feed them by overreacting
      • Don't feel guilty for shutting them out

  • @nicholasphilip7733
    @nicholasphilip7733 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Narcissism tied into this somehow, yea my sister, i feel so drained around her. I gotta remember tl block out that negative energy

  • @randyorton241
    @randyorton241 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am a physic Vampire 🧛‍♂️

  • @eunbitpark5251
    @eunbitpark5251 ปีที่แล้ว

    Oh my god!! I know one!!!! 😱😱😱

    • @choosingtherapy
      @choosingtherapy  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks for sharing! Energy vampire's can be tough to navigate.

    • @lucacora1060
      @lucacora1060 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      me too

  • @BluelightGaming1
    @BluelightGaming1 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are using this incorrectly

  • @mlpiper11
    @mlpiper11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I have two of these vampires at work. Come into the office feeling alright and left completely depleted of energy. Too much drama!