Her story is heartbreaking. This Trans community acts like a cult. I'm so glad she got good therapy and is on the road to healing. I want to give her a big hug and let her know she is a woman, and her life isnt ruined. I hope she can continue to share her story. She is a heroine.
From listening to her at the end of this I don't know how you can say she is on the road to healing. I'm fearful she is close to taking her life after watching this. These so called doctors and other professionals involved in this trans cult are causing so much harm. They clearly do not care about the long term health of these confused young people.
This woman's story is absolutely hilarious and ridiculous! Did we listen to the same story?! She said that she made the leap from borderline personality disorder and anorexia to self-diagnose herself as being transgender from internet articles! She essentially used a quick quiz from a Cosmopolitan article and realized she was transgender. She's trans all right: I don't know how somebody can be so transcendently stupid. 🤣
Wow! When she said “liposuction isn’t a cure for anorexia but somehow top surgery is for gender dysphoria” I think my head literally exploded! What an amazing comparison!
And then after I saw the pictures and heard what she was going through before trans... she was an anorexic 😢😢😢 poor baby! And when she said "there's many reasons a girl will hate her body" 💔
Her most chilling words are, “The trans community tells you to kill your old self” That’s exactly what they do, which is where this awful expression “deadnaming” comes from. This is what makes it not just cult-like, but an actual cult. Our past is an essential part of who we are; you can’t just pretend that you were born yesterday like a Phoenix springing from the ashes.
Absolutely correct it's a cult. They want to force their way in. They are dangerous. What the cult did is normalize their behavior when they used to be treated in mental health facilities. Why the Dr's couldn't fix them with treatments. Why because it's their system of belief it's what they have chosen for themselves as their reality. They stopped treating them because they could function in society as bankers etc...the problem is that they want to be recognized as normal as that means they have to have more of the same. They are after the children not just for mutilating them but to groom them because many of them pushing this forward are pedophiles...the actual agenda is to normalize pedophilia.
@@9395gb To "deadname" a trans-identified person means to use the person's former name; the implication being that that past pre-transition person is dead and/or never actually existed. It's considered to be one of the worst acts of "transphobia" to do this, tantamount to an act of violence.
@@truckerman9112 this is so rude. Can't you feel her pain and suffering. If you don't have anything nice to say then stay quite. She is not ruined. She will make it through.
The only way to stop this butchery is to have the victims sue all those who participated in their dilemma. Sue them for all they have, then lock them up.
"The only way to stop this butchery is to have the victims sue all those who participated in their dilemma. Sue them for all they have, then lock them up." Tell me how that would work in this situation. Prisha was an adult during her surgical transition. Despite Mental Health issues and Depression, Prisha was well enough to work a job. Prisha was well enough to save over $3K to pay for her surgery. Any 18yo who can do that would be considered highly responsible and well-grounded. Prisha had to jump through many hoops and sign many documents during her Transition. Doctors don't insist on these forms. Medical Malpractice Insurance companies require them. These companies are well versed in keeping doctors from being sued by patients who had successful surgeries, but want to sue the doctor later. This will be a slamdunk for the Doctor to win. Likewise, a lot of Trans individuals ARE happy with their surgeries. I know AMAB and AFAB individuals who have transitioned and are now living their best life. None of them went to TikTok for validation or medical advice. They are old folks comparably (late 40s/early 50s). I wish for Prisha her best life going forward and I am sincerely saddened to hear of her journey. This is not because she detransitioned, but because she has been on what would be a tough road for anyone.
Our children are being mutilated ! The pain in her is so evident ! “ having mental health issues doesn’t mean you change your body , you fix your brain “ true words !!! Blessings to you I wish you every happiness ❤️
But, this is starting in the school, and social media. Teachers unions are committed to destroy the young people. Go to the schools and volunteer and you will be horrified.
I’m so heartbroken for her. This medical insanity is just another form of misogyny in my mind. We need to support women like this, lift them up, and make them PROUD of being a woman ✊🏻
As a "cis-man" (normal guy) who grew up with sisters this hurt to watch. One of my sisters had an ovarian cyst and got it removed without complications (thankfully) however, knowing the risks involved and the chance, no matter how small, that she could become sterile shattered her for a time beforehand and seeing her cry and mourn over the chance of it happening, really put into perspective what being a woman is in my eyes. To me, a woman is to be many many things. You're a mother, sister, daughter, partner and nurturer just to name a few so to share that title with those who only claim to be based on a certain cultural trend or by something as simple as wearing makeup is an affront to everything we consider when using those words. However, to be lied to and taken advantage of as a vulnerable, troubled and naive youth only to have those titles stripped for "your own good/health" should never ever be for someone else to neither decide or help someone sway towards. You may not feel this way now but if you're reading this, the pain in your voice and emotion from your inner core impacted the same place in my heart that grieved the thought of my sister losing her gift of life to another. In my eyes, only a woman can feel for something they may not have lost so deeply yet they hope to still obtain. Please never give up on hope for the future and what may come. As a woman, you've proven to many others that resilience is still one of your strongest virtues. ❤
I agree and I hope a lawyer will take it on pro bono. I tried once to sue for malpractice inflicted on my veteran spouse and it was 700$ just for the interview. It puts it out of reach for ordinary people.
@@autofocus4556 I appreciate the perspective. Lets think about this, at 15 she started to think she was transgender and sought help. At 16 she was treated with cross-sex hormones and breasts removed at 17. I would like to see this tested in court. I tend to see this as medical malpractice across multiple levels but I understand the concept of personal responsibility. The difference is this is an adolescent. So for me this begins with ensuring there is proper consent and second ensuring someone has the capacity to give consent. This requires a proper assessment to arrive at a "professional opinion" that declares an individual capable of life altering decisions. In this situation we have a pile of comorbidities which seemed to be compounding her situation including anorexia, borderline personality disorder, obsessive-compulsive disorder, suicide ideations, and depression. There is a lot of mental health issues there to sort through before we simply jump to "affirmative transgender care" as the best medical intervention. At the end of the day medical professionals have a Hippocratic Oath to uphold as part of professional standards - this may not make them criminally liable but it might make them liable in civil court. It certainly calls into question their professional standards. Despite a history of mental health issues, a "gender specialist" and team of doctors recommended her for cross-sex hormones and irreversible surgery??
Prisha-Sending you very big hugs! I suffered from anorexia and bulimia for over 15 years. That was in the 70s and 80s and I wanted to change my body, but it was 1977 and we didn’t do that back then. I know the pain of body dysmorphia and it is so real, but you are right: the answer is not to change your body, but to change your thinking. Now I am almost 60 and am happy to say I have come to love being a woman. Just because you have had surgery and taken hormones, that does not change that you are a woman. You always have been and always will be and you too will grow to love being the woman that you are. God bless you. You are made for good things!
Extreme obesity was also rare before 1970 as well Also, I'm glad she got her voice back Some sound like men Even women who smoke, tend to lose their original voices I know identical twins with different voices because one was a smoker but quit
@@kathleenking47 Obesity was extremely rare. Now it is being celebrated. Who is getting us to celebrate it? The people who poisoned our food supply with hormones and GMOs. People did not work out and were thin as a rail.
You're like a broken vase glued back together with gold. Keep strong and spread your testimony: you now have a call on this earth and you'll be cherished by many. If you were my daughter, I would be proud of you and would love you dearly ❤
leader? The Cracked Pot There once lived a water carrier. Every morning, as soon as the sun rose, she walked from her home to collect water in two earthen pots that hung from a long pole that she carried across her shoulders. One pot was perfectly formed, the other, although the same shape and size as its counterpart, had a crack in its side. So, whenever they returned to the water carrier’s house it was only ever half full. For years, the water carrier repeated her journey to and from her house collecting water from the river. As the years passed by, the cracked pot created a story in its head about its level of worthiness and inability to properly perform the job for which it had been created. Eventually, the pain and shame that it felt about its own perceived imperfections, became too much for it to bear. So, one day as the water carrier knelt beside the river and began her usual task of filling the pots with water, the cracked pot found its voice and said; “I am so sorry. For years and years, I have watched you fill me with water and I can only imagine what a fruitless task it must be for you. As whenever we return to home, I am only ever half full. While in comparison, the other pot is perfect, rarely does it lose a drop of water on our long walk back to our home, but me, I am far from perfect. This crack in my side, not only does it cause me so much hurt and shame, but it must also cause you to want to get rid of me. Surely, I am only making this long, arduous job that you do each day, that much more difficult? I can understand if you are thinking of getting rid of me and replacing me with another perfectly formed pot.” The water carrier listened to these words with both care and compassion. The cracked pot’s story of unworthiness and shame was not one that she recognised. For this was not what she thought of the pot. She knew about the crack, but did not see it as an imperfection, or as something that made it less worthy than the other pot that hung from her shoulder. Gently she turned to the pot and said, “On our return walk home, I want you to look up and to the side of you. For too long, it would seem you have been looking down, comparing yourself to others and not noticing how you and the crack that you have in your side has brought untold beauty into my life” Puzzled, the Cracked pot wondered what on-earth her words meant. She seemed to be suggesting that its story of lack, unworthiness and shame, was in some way faulty. As to how this could be, it could not comprehend. However, the Cracked Pot trusted the water carrier. It occurred to it that in all the time that it had journeyed with her, she had never said a harsh word, never scorned or ridiculed it, but had always shown a sense of gratefulness and care when filling it with water. So, on the return journey it heeded the water carrier’s words. It looked up and it looked out. In its former depressed state, it had not noticed that along the path that they travelled there was a dazzling array of beauty, colour and life. The water carrier in her wisdom, knowing of the crack in the pot’s side, had sprinkled seeds along the path. These seeds were duly watered every day as a result of the crack in the pot’s side and the path that had once been barren and devoid of life was now resplendent with an array of beautiful wild flowers. Now, the cracked pot understood. Now the cracked pot began to see itself in a new light. Now it understood that indeed it had been telling itself a faulty story. If its experience of being a ‘cracked pot’ was going to change then it would have to change the story that it was telling itself. The water carrier said, "how could I have done this without you?"
This young woman is a victim of the many heartless, self-centered people who dominate others and treat them cruelly. I hope she will eventually have peace of mind, reunite with her family, and have a loving companion who genuinely cares for her.
We hear from detransitioners saying the same story, correct information was not given, abuse/trauma from the past are not explored. I hope that no one who believes in this will make the specious claim that Prisha knew exactly what she was doing and the practitioners must have told her. This narrative comes from the activists in gender ideology. It is difficult to speak out on mistakes you've made. I think you'll find your way to health and wellbeing. My former husband was physically abused by his father when young, and he did the surgeries 1996. Never seemed happy after.
This girl was obviously mentally ill - and she probably still is. She should Never have been approved for Any body-altering surgery or plastic surgery, b/c she isn't competent.
"There are so many mental health disorders that make you hate your body, and the solution isn't to change your body, it's to fix your brain". Thank you for spelling this out. You are very brave to expose your emotions and journey here on YT and the Internet, where there is so much dislike and even hatred for those who detransition. Instead of embracing their difficult path and lending support, certain people prefer to attack you. I am so sorry that all this has happened to you and that you were enticed into taking such drastic measures in the attempt to fix yourself. Mental disorders can be difficult to manage, especially when doctors attempt to force their preconceived notion of what they believe you should do...something that has nothing in common with the underlying psychological problem. I consider these doctors criminals at this point. We are supposed to trust them that they have our best interest at heart. Not the case anymore, after the whole LGBTQ subject had been hijacked by radical activist that themselves are only tools for a greater agenda. Please stay strong. You are a beautiful person and you will make it through this. It won't be easy. I cannot even imagine what you go through emotionally because of your past surgery and the ones you want in the future. Be strong and surround yourself with supportive people, who will stand by you no matter which direction you go. Those who turned on you the moment your changed your path, weren't friends to begin with. God bless you and give you the strength needed to become a happy woman with a bright future. ♥
"the solution isn't to change your body, it's to fix your brain" Yes, but now its called conversion therapy and is banned in so many places. Science, biology and research go out the window now because someone feels like something else. Very sad. I hope there are repercussions for this
At least she woke up...but she paid a high price to not be so naive. Bad parenting, manipulative media presence, and a manipulative, money-hungry doctors led her astray. She is so articulate; she can go places and develop her real self, for sure.
Many parents are fighting to protect their children but it is a set up to come against those who want to fight against this. We need prayers and to stand together and fight as one voice for each and every one of these children. :)
They hate you exactly BECAUSE you are exposing their lies. They know the ideology is completely flawed, so your seeking support, means what they offered is not true. You have to be strong. The DBT sounds like the very best thing that happened in this entire journey. You have begun to heal from one of the trickiest diagnoses there is. That is utterly huge. This is so necessary for you to speak out. This feels like it must have been so positive, in the end. BPD is that hard. Edit: you nailed this. What I meant above about it being positive, is the healing journey for BPD. I have some experience, I can truly relate. You did really well.
Hang in there Prisha, take solace in the fact that sharing your struggle may save someone else. It cant fix it but it can give meaning to your suffering. Nothing stays bad forever. ❤️❤️
When she spoke about her parents I cried. When she spoke about not being able to have kids I cried. When she said any other woman would be betterr I cried. This sweet lady. 💔 Thanks for sharing this.
I’m crying watching this. Each layer of her story added another time an adult betrayed her & let her down through her life. This breaks my heart! Parisha, never feel less than any other woman on this planet. You have a story that God is using to create beautiful things out of. You are a beautiful person! I pray you find yourself in this new role in your life. You have the ability to help so many others. Isn’t that a beautiful thing? I firmly believe when we go through suffering, God will use it to help others. You are beautiful inside & out!
Right! Also especially people with eating disorders. I hated my body, hated when I started developing as a woman. I wanted to cut off my own breasts. I had also been sexually abused and that made me extremely uncomfortable with my body and sexuality. Thank God, this wasn't an option for me at that stage of my life. One consultation and you get a script and go ahead for surgery? Jeez, a proper depression diagnosis takes months but being trans one consultation. Crazy.
@@mishimarshmallow7797 Ma'am, your being sexually abused by someone you were supposed to trust is in no related to this severely disturbed woman who also went through sexual trauma claiming to be transgender. Nothing at all. They are two different situations and you would be better served intellectually to treat as the separate events they are.
@@wryckingbaul8612 Hi, I was just trying to say that I relate to some of the things she went through. The eating disorder, the sexual abuse (which was not by someone I knew or trusted) and the extreme hatred of my body. Changing my gender was not an option but if it had been, and if it had been as common as it is today, I do think it might have been something I might have considered. I was very confused, I had no interest in boys (probably because I had no libido due to my eating disorder), people at school was calling me gay and I didn't know if I was or not. People go through similar experiences but however similar it is never the same and people's reactions are not the same. The similarities I share with this lady (mostly related to the eating disorder) made me wonder how I might have reacted had transition been an option. What I meant with the end of my comment is that being diagnosed with depression, anorexia or anxiety is a process. It might seem obvious that a person is depressed or has anorexia but a process of diagnosis still has to be followed and that diagnosis is not solely based on whether I think I have the problem or not. It is a process and treatment options are then presented. If I sounded stupid or uninformed, I am, I do not know the lady personally. Basically, I was just saying that there was a lot in her story that I could relate to and it made me think. I did not mean to give offense though.
@@mishimarshmallow7797 ignore the troll. It must be hungry. Your experiences are relevant, and you are expressing a similar history of childhood trauma. I trust that you will heal.
The more we hear the voices of the detransitioners, the fewer children will believe the lie that “gender” is changeable. the fewer of them we should see. Which will be nothing but beneficial for our children!
You’re missing the point, it’s not that this story is applicable to every trans person. But rather that screening and mental health care needs to be better fro people like her to not get the wrong treatment. It’s a tragedy to see someone suffering from one mental health problem to get treated for another (has body dysmorphia and eating problems but gets treated as being trans), however that’s the same as giving someone who is indeed trans adhd meds, it won’t fix it. Society needs to be better at diagnosing and screening and not trying to erase all trans people just because we messed it up for women like these by not getting them appropriate treatment and misdiagnosing them.
You cannot change your sex though. That is a scientific fact. Changing your "gender" or the way you are presenting yourself to the world literally involves taking serious drugs (hormones) and plastic surgery that come with serious side effects and complications. These are not surgeries or drugs to take lightly and especially if you know it will not change your chromosomes or sex.
Oh boy. This is powerful stuff. There are a lot of adults out there that should be ashamed of themselves. Prisha thank you for sharing. You are very brave and I think a lot of us seeing this are crying with you.
Heart breaking. I hope she found a way to forgive herself, she made a mistake, a massive one but she was pushed into it. She still looks pretty and deserves happiness. Admitting her mistake and sharing her stories and regrets to the world shows how strong she is. I am sure she will find peace in her soul and heart. That little girl is not dead, she was abandoned for a while but is still alive and ready to shine bright. Wish I could hug her😢
Thank you for sharing your story, Prisha. That took an enormous amount of courage. It will be people like you, telling your stories, that will change people’s minds about the current treatment model.
Exactly, the screening needs to be overworked to help everybody involved. Trans care is so important but it’s too easy for people like her to be misdiagnosed sadly.
this makes me so very sad.... especially bc I see so many beautiful young ladies falling for these lies from the enemy who is out to destroy them. I pray for these dear souls and I pray for more courage to speak out, it will be used for so much good... God uses what the enemy meant for evil for the bringing about of much more good. God bless you!
Amen-now schools are getting into the propaganda business of "educating" young children to question their gender identity, oftentimes going around the parents. This is so heartbreaking to see, because I have heard and read so many stories of those who feel the same as Prisha, being lied to , used and mutilated. My heart breaks for these people.
@@marylorvick5390 that’s why parents have to start making difficult decisions, which involve additional sacrifices that parents have to make. Do you send your children to school, or do you sacrifice your career and finances and home school them.
@@jaijai5250 I think there is also a missing piece in many of these stories-the lack of God in the home. He has been kicked out of almost every area of our culture. When that happens, absolutes of right and wrong get blurred and here we are now with kids who don't even know who God created them to be.
You are such a lovely person and someone will love you for who you are, not for what you did as a child. If you cannot bear children, please adopt as you will make a caring parent and we desperately need more of those today!
You look and sound like a perfectly nice and well spoken woman to me. I don’t know how long you have been on testosterone, but your voice sounds so feminine to be honest, I’m jealous. I know looks and sound don’t say much about someone being male or female. But I’m sorry you had to go through this, just like me. I’m glad more people are waking up to this trans cult, because I feel everyday more and more it’s become a cult. You’re not ruined, you’re definitely not. Stay strong and I hope you will get in a better mental health space soon 💪🏼🤍🫶🏻
@@bornwithoutconsentobviously I hope you find the RIGHT people to help..not Frankensteins who use people for VERY lucrative experiments... I've been down a rabbit hole with this lately, and it's just so sad.. prayers for you my dear..🙏♥️
Thank you so much, Prisha, for being such a strong, courageous, and beautiful young woman who is sharing your story. You are helping so many other young kids, you have no idea how much good you are doing. Love, Support, and Healing to you ❤️🌹🙏🏻 ~ Maura
What a terribly sad story. This should never have been allowed to happen. It’s not that long ago that it wasn’t allowed. What a lovely girl - I truly hope she finds help from a reputable psychologist. She deserves to have some happiness.
You're putting too much pressure on yourself too soon. You're at the beginning of a journey and it will take time to achieve your goals. Be patient with yourself and with your body. Take it slow, don't get too anxious. You are still so young and there is plenty of time to get your body in the condition you want it. There's plenty of time to meet someone, settle down and have a family. In the meantime concentrate on living a healthy life, eat well, exercise, meditate, make friendships, enjoy hobbies and just find the pleasure in the simple things in life. You're a pretty young woman, intelligent, articulate and obviously full of love, compassion and sensitivity and you will find the right person for you. You are loveable, worthy of love and you will find love but first you must learn to love yourself...find peace Prisha. 🙏🏼💕
Child: I want to be a girl/boy. Parent: Lop off the kid's body parts and administer dangerous drugs. Child: I want to be a fireman. Parent: Set the house on fire so the kid can put it out. Child: I can fly. Parent: Take the child to the Grand Canyon and push him off the cliff. Every one of these makes just as much sense as the other one. And yet, no parent would do all of these.
The tran craze has disordered many millennials in the mistaken belief they should be their kids " best friend" and not placing boundaries on them through discipline.
I feel sorry for her as a young person having no responsible adult around to genuinely guide her in her troubled state. Only those who were financially incentivized to push her toward surgery. I wonder how many other young kids out there are getting the same shaft right now. It's terrible! I hope they get a good lawyer and sue for millions.
In spite of the tears you shed as you spoke in your video, you come across as extremely strong and determined! Even though you were led down a very wrong path, with horrible consequences, I see you as someone who will take what you have learned to help others in a significant way. I know how it feels to think "No one will ever love me," (it is a common feeling) but you just keep hanging in there, living your best life, and I suspect you will find greater love and joy than you could ever imagine! You are beautiful inside and out, and I am rooting for you. Hugs, hugs, and more hugs!
Wow! So clearly explained. This woman's story breaks my heart. And I would like to say, Prisha, you are lovely, and sweet, and very lovable just like you are. You will find a good man and have a wonderful life together, whether you have your own children or teach, or adopt. You are not ruined. You are not junk. You are priceless and your value is more than the whole world. Jesus accepts you and wraps His arms around you. This message is for Prisha and for anyone else who feels ruined and unlovable. You have a lot to offer. You may be able to protect other innocents from making the same mistakes. Don't listen to the devil's lies. There is no condemnation in Christ Jesus.
You are an incredibly beautiful and special person. I'm an older retired Christian woman, former teacher, and I have lived a lot of challenges myself. I know from experience that a good nearby church can become a great source of support and caring for you. I hope you find such, but if you need any ideas about where to start, lmk. May God bless you with knowing how much He loves you and is proud of you for your courage. Blessings 💜
My heart goes out to Prisha, and I pray that she find the person who is meant to be her lifetime partner, and if she can't conceive her own children, I pray that she is able to adopt children who need a good Mom. I pray that her life turns out so incredibly happy that she will come to be thankful even for the bad things that she went through to bring her to her ultimate happy state. It's unfair that the medical and pharmaceutical industry are exploiting the insecurities of young people who don't have a full grasp on the gravity of their momentary choices at these critical junctures of life. If things work out as they should, the People and the Courts will hold these medical and pharmaceutical professionals responsible for their mutilation of innocent people.
Wow, this was so heartbreaking to watch. I wish Prisha the best of luck moving forward, that she finds happiness, peace and love. She is loved and appreciated, I hope she knows that. My heart goes out to her.
Listening to you say you thought atrophy was a good thing as far as you knew; great example of how MDs will use words but not complete explanations which gives an inaccurate impression of outcomes for patients. It's criminal. These young people are making decisions with inaccurate information. You are not ruined. You will be ok, and you will be loved for who you are. Look for love and acceptance of yourself through personal experiences & growth rather than who is attracted to you sexually. You will heal, and that will come.
Sweetie you are a BEAUTIFUL BEAUTIFUL WOMAN and you’re loved. It will get better. Stay strong…there are brighter days ahead for you. Just hang on and continue to fight!
I just want to hug her and tell her everything will be OK. She can turn this tragedy around. She’s worthy of love. And happiness. And all of the good things life has to offer.
I think that sexual trauma is a strong contributor for mistaken transgenderism (as well as with nonbinary folks). Women may subconsciously feel like they are empowered and no longer at risk of assault or harassment by becoming men- at least that's the case for myself. Sexual trauma aside, I also believe the lack of proper or positive female role models in one's personal life is an additional contributor- another reason for myself which I'd discovered after years of self-analysis. Girls don't want to be girls, not because they don't feel that they are girls, but, often because of the feeling of self-disgust brought on by external factors, and often because of the negative association with womanhood altogether (puberty and bodily changes could be another one). I think that those who are questioning, especially at a young age, should seek from within themselves for what it means to them to be a man, to feel like a man, and to be a woman and feel like a women. They need to be certain that transitioning isn't just for safety, or even for acceptance and popularity, or worse, for victimhood. There are people who are transgendered, certainly, but, for girls especially, it's difficult to know at such a young age, or even into adulthood. I feel terrible for this woman, believing it'd be hard to love her, or that she is undeserving. You are a human being. You are a living thing with emotions, and all living things deserve to be loved. ...Except for those who create victims.
I'm so sorry this happened to her. I always tried to hide my BPD from my daughter but at 15 I am already sure she has it too and she left to live with her dad because despite allowing a social transition I was 'transphobic' for saying she needs to hold off on anything permenant and to make some other friends or interests as this took over her whole life all of a sudden after a new friend group and accessing instagram/tiktok and she already admitted to faking anxiety and an ED because her new friends all had it too. All her friends are trans and have influenced her in all of this and now I am petrified she will end up like this poor woman or live a life in pain, incontinent and infertile etc. Parents are stuck between a rock and a hard place because you want to be supportive but also want to protect them from greater harm. Now I feel I have lost my precious child and everyone is so scared to speak up that I can't even talk about it. I am afraid people will think I am transphobic and hateful even though I supported her as much as possible.
If there is anyway that your daughter could be shown all these de-transition heartbreak/horror stories, it might put the brakes on her possibly jumping into taking more drastic measures... I wish your family well...
Maybe try to share this comment and this video with her somehow. Open up that you have BPD and that you're scared she has it too. And show her Prisha's story. Maybe she'll understand. Wishing you good luck!
It sounds to me like you're a sorry excuse for a mother. No disrespect intended. She's living with her dad and I guess that's something. As long as she's with anyone but you. But I can't imagine she'd be any better served by residing in his care because, after all, you picked him. So everything you say is suspect. And Borderline Personality Disorder is often a result of trauma, typically sexual. If you think she has it, maybe one the countless boyfriends you no doubt paraded through your home in a desperate, BPD-induced search for "fulfillment" molested her. Just a thought. I'm spitballing. Yes, I suppose being with her father would be best. Maybe she feels safer there. If she has gender dysphoria, it won't be because of social media.
@@eleanorsendeavors29 She watched one but thinks its very rare and not applicable to her. Any attempt at showing her them is taken as some sort of attempt at mild conversion therapy tbh. Definitely it's seen as an insult. We have been repairing our relationship more though so 🤞
As an old-school trans woman, I am very upset and saddened by such stories. If you are not mentally stable, you should never make such life-changing decisions. I can tell everyone who is trans or thinks they are, please take your time, get informed, talk to trans people of all ages. Today on TH-cam there are videos of all operations really all I was partly shocked that you can see this so publicly. Prisha; I wish you with all my heart only the best and may you experience your happiness and healing. Whether you can have children, your doctors will be able to tell you best. When you are better, you can still think about breast reconstruction, which is done very well nowadays. There is a video of a detransitioner who went through similar things as you and is now a mother of a child, maybe her videos are helpful.
Prisha, you are one strong young lady and I am inspired by your courage to speak so openly about such a deeply personal and painful thing. I know there are young girls who will decide not to transition because of this video. You are obviously very intelligent and you have an internal strength and a beautiful heart that truly shine through. You look very feminine and I didn't even notice any issue with your voice. Don't count yourself out so quickly. I believe with all my heart you will find a young man who will love you for both your inner and outer beauty.
Because a lot of society say that a girl who is a tomboy or a boy who might be into certain girlie things are brainwashed by society to want to be the opposite gender instead of letting the kids be.If a girl love dirt bikes and t shirts and jeans and hanging out with boys do not mean she wants to be a boy.Same for the boy who might want to wear make up and play with dolls.Stop pushing trans and LGBTQ adult stuff on young kids.Ket them find their own way naturally.
This is why therapy for years has to happen before anything goes ahead. By multiple real Doctors. Your mental state is the most important in this as it's too late afterwards. Some people that transition think it is going to make you a perfect life when in fact it won't and it is your state of mind. The regrets far out way what you think is going to happen. The Doctors that do this should be held accountable.
I cried listening to Prisha`s story. She is a beautiful person as she is helping others with her horror story. I hope she will find a beautiful man who will love this sweet girl.
Every person in the world who is thinking of transitioning (changing gender) should watch this video. This poor girl/young lady was failed by everyone who should have been looking out for her and advising her... Firstly, her parents - although it would appear that her mother has her own problems, and her father just went along with whatever Prisha thought was best for herself in terms of transitioning. As an adult and Prish's father, he should have been more thorough in trying to get help for her mental state. But she doesn't blame them, so nor should I. Then there's the medical 'professionals' i.e the mental health people and the doctors who carried out the surgery - they should all be struck off and prosecuted for gross negligence. I had anorexia throughout my 20's and 30's - I am 5 foot 5 inches tall and weighed only 7stone (approx 100 pounds) and I thought that I was fat... It's amazing how the devil can put lies into people's heads to make them hate themselves and want to end their lives. He is such a convincing liar ('the father of lies' as the Bible describes him in John Chapter 8 v 44). In my 40's I met someone who introduced me to Jesus, I invited Him into my life, and things started to change...the anorexia went away (these days I have to be careful not to over-eat!) I began to see things how they REALLY are are not in a distorted way. This improved the more I read the Bible because we renew our minds by the reading of God's Word. Now I can boldly quote 1Timothy chapter 1 v 7: 'For God has not given us the spirit of fear, but of power and of love and of a SOUND MIND'.
Prisha… you’re beautiful, strong, and wise beyond your years. Accept and love you as you are, and realize the choices you made that brought you to today, made you who you are. And that’s a good thing.
my cousin is going through the same thing but she hasn't regretted it yet she's still in the depths of her dysphoria but still struggles with EXTREME despression. Pray for her please
Thank you Prisha for sharing your story. My heart goes out to you, that no one was there as a voice of reason when you needed it most. The medical field and society at the moment are failing people.
You seem so so strong and sensible, you slipped up and everyone professional took advantage of you..... You were a child. But you are beautiful, you are so grown up for such a young lady and you are still such a very young woman. Your heart soul and personality with your body is beautiful.... Don't ever give up, you will find love, you will have children, you still have a long life where this will be a bad blip many years ago. Good luck stay strong x
Remember even though you miss your breasts you now have less of a chance of breast cancer later on in life, if anything try to stay positive about that, many young women with moms that have breast cancer choose to have mastectomies. Your voice sounds feminine to me compared to many detransitioners I've watched on here. I pray you keep getting the mental health you need. You will find love and deserve love. Hang in there. Xo.
Please, anyone thinking of getting ANY type of cosmetic surgery, DON’T DO IT! Once you do you can’t go back. I feel so bad, some of the people’s transitioning and then Detransitioning stories make me so sad. I was depressed when I was young and felt like I didn’t fit in. Everyone feels like that at some point just gotta tough it out and not make a drastic change to yourself.
Why are the doctors not getting informed consent? The running theme with these kids (apart from trauma and mental health issues) is that they had no idea what they were consenting too
Wow the medical community quick to change these kids but good luck if you want to reverse the damage. Blessings her heart, you will find a partner who is right for you. If you look you will see many who have found love even though they are broken is some way. My body has been broken due to a spinal cord injury and I am blessed to have a partner who has loved me through it all. You too can have love and a life, it's just a different route than planned. Doesn't mean it can't happen.
I am also a spinal cord patient with a wonderful, caring husband that has been by my side taking care of me for almost 15 years, now. I'm so grateful for him! Good for you that you found one, too! They're out there. Good ones, I mean.
Sweety, if you're reading this, a big hug to you. ❤ You ARE loved and worthy far more than you could ever imagine. Keep courage! You're a really strong person for telling your story.
Awww Prisha! My heart goes out to you. We all can see what an amazing young woman you are. Just remember whatever you look like on the outside, it’s the inside that counts. What we are, who we are doesn’t change. Keep on getting support for your mental health. We are all in awe of what you have been through and how strong you are! Take care ❤
You are a lovely caring person and you are beautiful. I wish you every success for the future. I am sure you will meet someone who loves you just as you are. Love and hugs. XX
"I literally feel like I killed a child and it was me." Oh, she got me there! Hope she's able to move on from this and live a full life, the way it was meant to be.
Thank you so much for being real, there are so many people who are in the same state of mind that you were and no one is seriously attempting to help them. Please know that you were always valuable and you are valuable now. I pray peace to your mind and blessings to your life.
In a few years there will be so many of cases like this. It so awfull to put people through this. Leave kids alone! And if you still feel like you are born in the wrong body when you are an adult, than do transition if you want to, but leave kids alone, please! This is getting so out of hand! I hope Prish will live a happy live and i wish her all the best. And respect for you for talking about this, this need to be out there!
So SAD!! I am so glad you are on the road to recovery. My granddaughter is taking testosterone. I have tried to talk with her but she just can't hear me. I am praying for her eyes to be open to what she is doing. 😢
Thank you for sharing your story. People take advantage of children and people looking for something to fill a void. God loves you and you are worthy of love. I'm sorry for what you went through. Continued prayers for you and others going through this.
I am sorry society let this happen to you Prisha 😢, I hope your future looks brighter and you find your true self and your happiness and fulfillment, it wasn't your fault, you were enabled my multiple "experts" at least factually "adults" and they enabled you to make mistakes which A should never be possible and B if they are possible shouldn't be decided upon by a young person even more so when suffering from unstable mental health, I hope the good that can come from people in your position, might be to help other young indoctrinated children and teens to stop and consider the consequences of jumping on the bandwagon to change gender.
My 💔 for this young women. I’m so happy this beautiful young lady has found a good therapist. I wish her all the best for her amazing future that is ahead for her ❤
I wish you the very best in your life, I am so sorry for all you've been exposed to. Trust there is always light at the end of every tunnel. YOU DESERVE LOVE AND YOU ARE LOVED!! ❤️
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Her story is heartbreaking. This Trans community acts like a cult. I'm so glad she got good therapy and is on the road to healing. I want to give her a big hug and let her know she is a woman, and her life isnt ruined. I hope she can continue to share her story. She is a heroine.
It is 100% a cult and our CHILDREN are the target.
Because it is a cult.
More like some world elite's sick game of Monopoly 😮
From listening to her at the end of this I don't know how you can say she is on the road to healing. I'm fearful she is close to taking her life after watching this. These so called doctors and other professionals involved in this trans cult are causing so much harm. They clearly do not care about the long term health of these confused young people.
This woman's story is absolutely hilarious and ridiculous! Did we listen to the same story?! She said that she made the leap from borderline personality disorder and anorexia to self-diagnose herself as being transgender from internet articles!
She essentially used a quick quiz from a Cosmopolitan article and realized she was transgender. She's trans all right: I don't know how somebody can be so transcendently stupid. 🤣
Wow! When she said “liposuction isn’t a cure for anorexia but somehow top surgery is for gender dysphoria” I think my head literally exploded! What an amazing comparison!
She had many profound truths in there.
I had the same reaction.
And then after I saw the pictures and heard what she was going through before trans... she was an anorexic 😢😢😢 poor baby!
And when she said "there's many reasons a girl will hate her body" 💔
"I think my head *literally* exploded!" You should get a doctor to look at that *immediately!!!*
💯💯💯💯💯
Her most chilling words are, “The trans community tells you to kill your old self” That’s exactly what they do, which is where this awful expression “deadnaming” comes from. This is what makes it not just cult-like, but an actual cult. Our past is an essential part of who we are; you can’t just pretend that you were born yesterday like a Phoenix springing from the ashes.
I agree 😢
Absolutely correct it's a cult. They want to force their way in. They are dangerous. What the cult did is normalize their behavior when they used to be treated in mental health facilities. Why the Dr's couldn't fix them with treatments. Why because it's their system of belief it's what they have chosen for themselves as their reality. They stopped treating them because they could function in society as bankers etc...the problem is that they want to be recognized as normal as that means they have to have more of the same. They are after the children not just for mutilating them but to groom them because many of them pushing this forward are pedophiles...the actual agenda is to normalize pedophilia.
I was not aware they called it dead naming. Yikes. That does sound a bit frightening.
@@9395gb To "deadname" a trans-identified person means to use the person's former name; the implication being that that past pre-transition person is dead and/or never actually existed. It's considered to be one of the worst acts of "transphobia" to do this, tantamount to an act of violence.
That is horrific
“I honestly feel like loving me is a lot to ask.” That really hit home. I hope she is doing well today and has the love she deserves.
Same girl! Same! Those words were so hard to hear! From anyone! Yet, somehow it rang true to the deepest, locked away part of my soul.
That was one of the realest things I ever heard. 😢😢😢
She is not ruined. She definitely looks feminine and has a kind soul.
It will get better
we are greatful she hadn't had the bottom surgery yet.
Nah, she's ruined.
@@truckerman9112 this is so rude. Can't you feel her pain and suffering.
If you don't have anything nice to say then stay quite.
She is not ruined. She will make it through.
@mlnm3161 she mutilated her body, she ruined her perfectly good body.
@mlnm3161 If I chopped my dick off and took hormones to grow fake boobs body will be ruined too
The only way to stop this butchery is to have the victims sue all those who participated in their dilemma. Sue them for all they have, then lock them up.
"The only way to stop this butchery is to have the victims sue all those who participated in their dilemma. Sue them for all they have, then lock them up."
Tell me how that would work in this situation.
Prisha was an adult during her surgical transition.
Despite Mental Health issues and Depression, Prisha was well enough to work a job. Prisha was well enough to save over $3K to pay for her surgery. Any 18yo who can do that would be considered highly responsible and well-grounded.
Prisha had to jump through many hoops and sign many documents during her Transition. Doctors don't insist on these forms. Medical Malpractice Insurance companies require them. These companies are well versed in keeping doctors from being sued by patients who had successful surgeries, but want to sue the doctor later. This will be a slamdunk for the Doctor to win.
Likewise, a lot of Trans individuals ARE happy with their surgeries. I know AMAB and AFAB individuals who have transitioned and are now living their best life. None of them went to TikTok for validation or medical advice. They are old folks comparably (late 40s/early 50s).
I wish for Prisha her best life going forward and I am sincerely saddened to hear of her journey. This is not because she detransitioned, but because she has been on what would be a tough road for anyone.
Correct!!!
No. "Butchery " happens when these people can own semi automatics. They are old enough for all of this.....Or not.
Their mind is still developing! Shouldn’t be allowed to self-mutilate.
My exact thoughts! Sue them and imprison them!
As a mom I just want to scoop her up in my arms and hug her so badly. My heart is shattered from her story and all the others out there.
Our children are being mutilated ! The pain in her is so evident ! “ having mental health issues doesn’t mean you change your body , you fix your brain “ true words !!!
Blessings to you I wish you every happiness ❤️
But, this is starting in the school, and social media. Teachers unions are committed to destroy the young people. Go to the schools and volunteer and you will be horrified.
Praying, Jesus let us fight together for every one of these young one’s. I cry my heart out for these children.
She was 18 when she had the surgery. Chickens come home to roost. She got punished for her stupidity.
@@lilyflower5895Take your hate elsewhere, please. Not wanted nor welcomed here.
"I literally feel like I killed a child... and it was me." so heart wrenching! Praying for you! 🙏
Amen!
Buzz off Amber
@#PrisonForJohnnyDepp Prison for dirty Amber.
Indeed. This is a social contagion 😢
Wow
The doctors who did this to her need to be sued & jailed
But they're forced to do it. You need to change policy through government.
@@laestrella9727 said who?
The doctors are not forced to do this. They could chose another specialty or area of expertise. They should be jailed.
@@Jenny-nz8fb because it's that simple. You are not a doctor, clearly.
@@jintyc9133 common sense.
I’m so heartbroken for her. This medical insanity is just another form of misogyny in my mind. We need to support women like this, lift them up, and make them PROUD of being a woman ✊🏻
As a "cis-man" (normal guy) who grew up with sisters this hurt to watch. One of my sisters had an ovarian cyst and got it removed without complications (thankfully) however, knowing the risks involved and the chance, no matter how small, that she could become sterile shattered her for a time beforehand and seeing her cry and mourn over the chance of it happening, really put into perspective what being a woman is in my eyes. To me, a woman is to be many many things. You're a mother, sister, daughter, partner and nurturer just to name a few so to share that title with those who only claim to be based on a certain cultural trend or by something as simple as wearing makeup is an affront to everything we consider when using those words. However, to be lied to and taken advantage of as a vulnerable, troubled and naive youth only to have those titles stripped for "your own good/health" should never ever be for someone else to neither decide or help someone sway towards. You may not feel this way now but if you're reading this, the pain in your voice and emotion from your inner core impacted the same place in my heart that grieved the thought of my sister losing her gift of life to another. In my eyes, only a woman can feel for something they may not have lost so deeply yet they hope to still obtain. Please never give up on hope for the future and what may come. As a woman, you've proven to many others that resilience is still one of your strongest virtues. ❤
You are not a cis man, you are a man. We need to stop using the language of the cult!
You are a man, please don’t use the language of the gender ideology cult.
This girl needs a lawyer.
My thoughts exactly. There was a lot of malpractice involved here.
I agree and I hope a lawyer will take it on pro bono. I tried once to sue for malpractice inflicted on my veteran spouse and it was 700$ just for the interview. It puts it out of reach for ordinary people.
Why? It’s her fault.
@@autofocus4556 you must be one of them or are you just looking for a reaction…I hope karma bites you
@@autofocus4556 I appreciate the perspective. Lets think about this, at 15 she started to think she was transgender and sought help. At 16 she was treated with cross-sex hormones and breasts removed at 17. I would like to see this tested in court. I tend to see this as medical malpractice across multiple levels but I understand the concept of personal responsibility. The difference is this is an adolescent. So for me this begins with ensuring there is proper consent and second ensuring someone has the capacity to give consent. This requires a proper assessment to arrive at a "professional opinion" that declares an individual capable of life altering decisions. In this situation we have a pile of comorbidities which seemed to be compounding her situation including anorexia, borderline personality disorder, obsessive-compulsive disorder, suicide ideations, and depression. There is a lot of mental health issues there to sort through before we simply jump to "affirmative transgender care" as the best medical intervention. At the end of the day medical professionals have a Hippocratic Oath to uphold as part of professional standards - this may not make them criminally liable but it might make them liable in civil court. It certainly calls into question their professional standards. Despite a history of mental health issues, a "gender specialist" and team of doctors recommended her for cross-sex hormones and irreversible surgery??
Prisha-Sending you very big hugs! I suffered from anorexia and bulimia for over 15 years. That was in the 70s and 80s and I wanted to change my body, but it was 1977 and we didn’t do that back then. I know the pain of body dysmorphia and it is so real, but you are right: the answer is not to change your body, but to change your thinking. Now I am almost 60 and am happy to say I have come to love being a woman. Just because you have had surgery and taken hormones, that does not change that you are a woman. You always have been and always will be and you too will grow to love being the woman that you are. God bless you. You are made for good things!
Extreme obesity was also rare before 1970 as well
Also, I'm glad she got her voice back
Some sound like men
Even women who smoke, tend to lose their original voices
I know identical twins with different voices because one was a smoker but quit
😊
@@kathleenking47 Obesity was extremely rare. Now it is being celebrated. Who is getting us to celebrate it? The people who poisoned our food supply with hormones and GMOs. People did not work out and were thin as a rail.
You're like a broken vase glued back together with gold. Keep strong and spread your testimony: you now have a call on this earth and you'll be cherished by many.
If you were my daughter, I would be proud of you and would love you dearly ❤
Your comment makes me cry. That was so beautiful
leader?
The Cracked Pot
There once lived a water carrier. Every morning, as soon as the sun rose, she walked from her home to collect water in two earthen pots that hung from a long pole that she carried across her shoulders. One pot was perfectly formed, the other, although the same shape and size as its counterpart, had a crack in its side. So, whenever they returned to the water carrier’s house it was only ever half full.
For years, the water carrier repeated her journey to and from her house collecting water from the river. As the years passed by, the cracked pot created a story in its head about its level of worthiness and inability to properly perform the job for which it had been created. Eventually, the pain and shame that it felt about its own perceived imperfections, became too much for it to bear. So, one day as the water carrier knelt beside the river and began her usual task of filling the pots with water, the cracked pot found its voice and said;
“I am so sorry. For years and years, I have watched you fill me with water and I can only imagine what a fruitless task it must be for you. As whenever we return to home, I am only ever half full. While in comparison, the other pot is perfect, rarely does it lose a drop of water on our long walk back to our home, but me, I am far from perfect. This crack in my side, not only does it cause me so much hurt and shame, but it must also cause you to want to get rid of me. Surely, I am only making this long, arduous job that you do each day, that much more difficult? I can understand if you are thinking of getting rid of me and replacing me with another perfectly formed pot.”
The water carrier listened to these words with both care and compassion. The cracked pot’s story of unworthiness and shame was not one that she recognised. For this was not what she thought of the pot. She knew about the crack, but did not see it as an imperfection, or as something that made it less worthy than the other pot that hung from her shoulder.
Gently she turned to the pot and said, “On our return walk home, I want you to look up and to the side of you. For too long, it would seem you have been looking down, comparing yourself to others and not noticing how you and the crack that you have in your side has brought untold beauty into my life”
Puzzled, the Cracked pot wondered what on-earth her words meant. She seemed to be suggesting that its story of lack, unworthiness and shame, was in some way faulty. As to how this could be, it could not comprehend.
However, the Cracked Pot trusted the water carrier. It occurred to it that in all the time that it had journeyed with her, she had never said a harsh word, never scorned or ridiculed it, but had always shown a sense of gratefulness and care when filling it with water.
So, on the return journey it heeded the water carrier’s words. It looked up and it looked out. In its former depressed state, it had not noticed that along the path that they travelled there was a dazzling array of beauty, colour and life. The water carrier in her wisdom, knowing of the crack in the pot’s side, had sprinkled seeds along the path. These seeds were duly watered every day as a result of the crack in the pot’s side and the path that had once been barren and devoid of life was now resplendent with an array of beautiful wild flowers.
Now, the cracked pot understood. Now the cracked pot began to see itself in a new light. Now it understood that indeed it had been telling itself a faulty story. If its experience of being a ‘cracked pot’ was going to change then it would have to change the story that it was telling itself.
The water carrier said, "how could I have done this without you?"
This young woman is a victim of the many heartless, self-centered people who dominate others and treat them cruelly. I hope she will eventually have peace of mind, reunite with her family, and have a loving companion who genuinely cares for her.
We hear from detransitioners saying the same story, correct information was not given, abuse/trauma from the past are not explored. I hope that no one who believes in this will make the specious claim that Prisha knew exactly what she was doing and the practitioners must have told her. This narrative comes from the activists in gender ideology. It is difficult to speak out on mistakes you've made. I think you'll find your way to health and wellbeing. My former husband was physically abused by his father when young, and he did the surgeries 1996. Never seemed happy after.
Your former husband went from female to male ? Is that what you mean ?
This girl was obviously mentally ill - and she probably still is. She should Never have been approved for Any body-altering surgery or plastic surgery, b/c she isn't competent.
@@dianet467 Where did you get that from? Or are your responding to the missing comment?
@@sortathesame8701 ftm male or mtf the are responding to the husband comment
"There are so many mental health disorders that make you hate your body, and the solution isn't to change your body, it's to fix your brain". Thank you for spelling this out. You are very brave to expose your emotions and journey here on YT and the Internet, where there is so much dislike and even hatred for those who detransition. Instead of embracing their difficult path and lending support, certain people prefer to attack you. I am so sorry that all this has happened to you and that you were enticed into taking such drastic measures in the attempt to fix yourself. Mental disorders can be difficult to manage, especially when doctors attempt to force their preconceived notion of what they believe you should do...something that has nothing in common with the underlying psychological problem. I consider these doctors criminals at this point. We are supposed to trust them that they have our best interest at heart. Not the case anymore, after the whole LGBTQ subject had been hijacked by radical activist that themselves are only tools for a greater agenda. Please stay strong. You are a beautiful person and you will make it through this. It won't be easy. I cannot even imagine what you go through emotionally because of your past surgery and the ones you want in the future. Be strong and surround yourself with supportive people, who will stand by you no matter which direction you go. Those who turned on you the moment your changed your path, weren't friends to begin with. God bless you and give you the strength needed to become a happy woman with a bright future. ♥
It is not a mental health disorder to go through puberty and not like your body. That's called NORMAL. We don't need to pathologize normal.
"the solution isn't to change your body, it's to fix your brain" Yes, but now its called conversion therapy and is banned in so many places. Science, biology and research go out the window now because someone feels like something else. Very sad. I hope there are repercussions for this
At least she woke up...but she paid a high price to not be so naive. Bad parenting, manipulative media presence, and a manipulative, money-hungry doctors led her astray. She is so articulate; she can go places and develop her real self, for sure.
Many parents are fighting to protect their children but it is a set up to come against those who want to fight against this. We need prayers and to stand together and fight as one voice for each and every one of these children. :)
They hate you exactly BECAUSE you are exposing their lies. They know the ideology is completely flawed, so your seeking support, means what they offered is not true. You have to be strong. The DBT sounds like the very best thing that happened in this entire journey. You have begun to heal from one of the trickiest diagnoses there is. That is utterly huge. This is so necessary for you to speak out. This feels like it must have been so positive, in the end. BPD is that hard.
Edit: you nailed this. What I meant above about it being positive, is the healing journey for BPD. I have some experience, I can truly relate. You did really well.
Hang in there Prisha, take solace in the fact that sharing your struggle may save someone else. It cant fix it but it can give meaning to your suffering. Nothing stays bad forever. ❤️❤️
She wasted.....Go Woke Get Broke
@@Swanlord05 I’m sorry you heart is full of hate. I hope one day you will find peace.
When she spoke about her parents I cried. When she spoke about not being able to have kids I cried. When she said any other woman would be betterr I cried. This sweet lady. 💔 Thanks for sharing this.
Yes, so very sad...
I’m crying watching this. Each layer of her story added another time an adult betrayed her & let her down through her life. This breaks my heart! Parisha, never feel less than any other woman on this planet. You have a story that God is using to create beautiful things out of. You are a beautiful person! I pray you find yourself in this new role in your life. You have the ability to help so many others. Isn’t that a beautiful thing? I firmly believe when we go through suffering, God will use it to help others. You are beautiful inside & out!
You are helping so many people with your honesty and courage. Sending you hugs and prayers.
"You hate your body, you don't feel comfortable with it, you want to be a different person" - wow, good thing most teenagers don't feel this way!
Right! Also especially people with eating disorders. I hated my body, hated when I started developing as a woman. I wanted to cut off my own breasts. I had also been sexually abused and that made me extremely uncomfortable with my body and sexuality. Thank God, this wasn't an option for me at that stage of my life. One consultation and you get a script and go ahead for surgery? Jeez, a proper depression diagnosis takes months but being trans one consultation. Crazy.
@@mishimarshmallow7797 I think it has a lot to do with sexual abuse as well
@@mishimarshmallow7797 Ma'am, your being sexually abused by someone you were supposed to trust is in no related to this severely disturbed woman who also went through sexual trauma claiming to be transgender. Nothing at all. They are two different situations and you would be better served intellectually to treat as the separate events they are.
@@wryckingbaul8612 Hi, I was just trying to say that I relate to some of the things she went through. The eating disorder, the sexual abuse (which was not by someone I knew or trusted) and the extreme hatred of my body. Changing my gender was not an option but if it had been, and if it had been as common as it is today, I do think it might have been something I might have considered. I was very confused, I had no interest in boys (probably because I had no libido due to my eating disorder), people at school was calling me gay and I didn't know if I was or not. People go through similar experiences but however similar it is never the same and people's reactions are not the same. The similarities I share with this lady (mostly related to the eating disorder) made me wonder how I might have reacted had transition been an option. What I meant with the end of my comment is that being diagnosed with depression, anorexia or anxiety is a process. It might seem obvious that a person is depressed or has anorexia but a process of diagnosis still has to be followed and that diagnosis is not solely based on whether I think I have the problem or not. It is a process and treatment options are then presented. If I sounded stupid or uninformed, I am, I do not know the lady personally. Basically, I was just saying that there was a lot in her story that I could relate to and it made me think. I did not mean to give offense though.
@@mishimarshmallow7797 ignore the troll. It must be hungry. Your experiences are relevant, and you are expressing a similar history of childhood trauma. I trust that you will heal.
The more we hear the voices of the detransitioners, the fewer children will believe the lie that “gender” is changeable. the fewer of them we should see. Which will be nothing but beneficial for our children!
You’re missing the point, it’s not that this story is applicable to every trans person. But rather that screening and mental health care needs to be better fro people like her to not get the wrong treatment. It’s a tragedy to see someone suffering from one mental health problem to get treated for another (has body dysmorphia and eating problems but gets treated as being trans), however that’s the same as giving someone who is indeed trans adhd meds, it won’t fix it. Society needs to be better at diagnosing and screening and not trying to erase all trans people just because we messed it up for women like these by not getting them appropriate treatment and misdiagnosing them.
You cannot change your sex though. That is a scientific fact. Changing your "gender" or the way you are presenting yourself to the world literally involves taking serious drugs (hormones) and plastic surgery that come with serious side effects and complications. These are not surgeries or drugs to take lightly and especially if you know it will not change your chromosomes or sex.
Oh boy. This is powerful stuff. There are a lot of adults out there that should be ashamed of themselves.
Prisha thank you for sharing. You are very brave and I think a lot of us seeing this are crying with you.
The internet has caused so many horrible issues.
You are a brave woman with a beautiful soul. Hang on to that.
My heart breaks … these poor vulnerable souls are just a money ticket for the “healthcare “ industry…
That is how I feel seeing her story. She is severely challenged, yet somehow has a beef with anyone that ever took her seriously.
@@wolfiesworld9361 You are not a nice person. Just saying.
Heart breaking. I hope she found a way to forgive herself, she made a mistake, a massive one but she was pushed into it. She still looks pretty and deserves happiness.
Admitting her mistake and sharing her stories and regrets to the world shows how strong she is. I am sure she will find peace in her soul and heart. That little girl is not dead, she was abandoned for a while but is still alive and ready to shine bright.
Wish I could hug her😢
There's always hope honey. Don't give up! You are special and there's someone special for you. Sharing your story is so brave, thanks for doing that.
Thank you for sharing your story, Prisha. That took an enormous amount of courage. It will be people like you, telling your stories, that will change people’s minds about the current treatment model.
You are right, help for trans people must be offered but the system must be worked on to improve it.
Exactly, the screening needs to be overworked to help everybody involved. Trans care is so important but it’s too easy for people like her to be misdiagnosed sadly.
this makes me so very sad.... especially bc I see so many beautiful young ladies falling for these lies from the enemy who is out to destroy them. I pray for these dear souls and I pray for more courage to speak out, it will be used for so much good... God uses what the enemy meant for evil for the bringing about of much more good. God bless you!
Amen-now schools are getting into the propaganda business of "educating" young children to question their gender identity, oftentimes going around the parents. This is so heartbreaking to see, because I have heard and read so many stories of those who feel the same as Prisha, being lied to , used and mutilated. My heart breaks for these people.
Well said.
@@marylorvick5390 that’s why parents have to start making difficult decisions, which involve additional sacrifices that parents have to make. Do you send your children to school, or do you sacrifice your career and finances and home school them.
@@jaijai5250 I think there is also a missing piece in many of these stories-the lack of God in the home. He has been kicked out of almost every area of our culture. When that happens, absolutes of right and wrong get blurred and here we are now with kids who don't even know who God created them to be.
@Mary Lorvick they want to talk about it in kindergarten, wtf?
You are such a lovely person and someone will love you for who you are, not for what you did as a child. If you cannot bear children, please adopt as you will make a caring parent and we desperately need more of those today!
She was such a cutie... the people who do such harm to children should be locked up. Glad she has got more clarity now and wishing her the best.
You look and sound like a perfectly nice and well spoken woman to me.
I don’t know how long you have been on testosterone, but your voice sounds so feminine to be honest, I’m jealous.
I know looks and sound don’t say much about someone being male or female.
But I’m sorry you had to go through this, just like me.
I’m glad more people are waking up to this trans cult, because I feel everyday more and more it’s become a cult.
You’re not ruined, you’re definitely not.
Stay strong and I hope you will get in a better mental health space soon 💪🏼🤍🫶🏻
Are you also a FtMtF de-transitioner?
@@moma-b yes
Sending you love and good vibes hun! ❤❤❤
@@bornwithoutconsentobviously I hope you find the RIGHT people to help..not Frankensteins who use people for VERY lucrative experiments... I've been down a rabbit hole with this lately, and it's just so sad.. prayers for you my dear..🙏♥️
Thank you so much, Prisha, for being such a strong, courageous, and beautiful young woman who is sharing your story. You are helping so many other young kids, you have no idea how much good you are doing. Love, Support, and Healing to you ❤️🌹🙏🏻 ~ Maura
What a terribly sad story. This should never have been allowed to happen. It’s not that long ago that it wasn’t allowed.
What a lovely girl - I truly hope she finds help from a reputable psychologist. She deserves to have some happiness.
Girl, I cried with you. I pray for your strength. You are beautiful as you, then and now. Go strong
You're putting too much pressure on yourself too soon. You're at the beginning of a journey and it will take time to achieve your goals. Be patient with yourself and with your body. Take it slow, don't get too anxious. You are still so young and there is plenty of time to get your body in the condition you want it. There's plenty of time to meet someone, settle down and have a family. In the meantime concentrate on living a healthy life, eat well, exercise, meditate, make friendships, enjoy hobbies and just find the pleasure in the simple things in life. You're a pretty young woman, intelligent, articulate and obviously full of love, compassion and sensitivity and you will find the right person for you. You are loveable, worthy of love and you will find love but first you must learn to love yourself...find peace Prisha. 🙏🏼💕
Beautiful encouraging words!
and if having children is a problem for you, lots of children stable loving homes; they don't have to be born to you before you can love them...
Those haters aren’t good people. You deserve better
Child: I want to be a girl/boy. Parent: Lop off the kid's body parts and administer dangerous drugs.
Child: I want to be a fireman. Parent: Set the house on fire so the kid can put it out.
Child: I can fly. Parent: Take the child to the Grand Canyon and push him off the cliff.
Every one of these makes just as much sense as the other one. And yet, no parent would do all of these.
The tran craze has disordered many millennials in the mistaken belief they should be their kids " best friend" and not placing boundaries on them through discipline.
I feel sorry for her as a young person having no responsible adult around to genuinely guide her in her troubled state. Only those who were financially incentivized to push her toward surgery. I wonder how many other young kids out there are getting the same shaft right now. It's terrible! I hope they get a good lawyer and sue for millions.
In spite of the tears you shed as you spoke in your video, you come across as extremely strong and determined! Even though you were led down a very wrong path, with horrible consequences, I see you as someone who will take what you have learned to help others in a significant way. I know how it feels to think "No one will ever love me," (it is a common feeling) but you just keep hanging in there, living your best life, and I suspect you will find greater love and joy than you could ever imagine! You are beautiful inside and out, and I am rooting for you. Hugs, hugs, and more hugs!
Wow! So clearly explained. This woman's story breaks my heart. And I would like to say, Prisha, you are lovely, and sweet, and very lovable just like you are. You will find a good man and have a wonderful life together, whether you have your own children or teach, or adopt. You are not ruined. You are not junk. You are priceless and your value is more than the whole world. Jesus accepts you and wraps His arms around you.
This message is for Prisha and for anyone else who feels ruined and unlovable. You have a lot to offer. You may be able to protect other innocents from making the same mistakes. Don't listen to the devil's lies. There is no condemnation in Christ Jesus.
Amen to that!
AMEN !
Amen!
You are an incredibly beautiful and special person. I'm an older retired Christian woman, former teacher, and I have lived a lot of challenges myself. I know from experience that a good nearby church can become a great source of support and caring for you. I hope you find such, but if you need any ideas about where to start, lmk. May God bless you with knowing how much He loves you and is proud of you for your courage. Blessings 💜
Amen! Jesus is the answer - He heals troubled minds that satan has tried to destroy.
What is IMK?
@@j1947m lmk. Let me know
My heart goes out to Prisha, and I pray that she find the person who is meant to be her lifetime partner, and if she can't conceive her own children, I pray that she is able to adopt children who need a good Mom. I pray that her life turns out so incredibly happy that she will come to be thankful even for the bad things that she went through to bring her to her ultimate happy state. It's unfair that the medical and pharmaceutical industry are exploiting the insecurities of young people who don't have a full grasp on the gravity of their momentary choices at these critical junctures of life. If things work out as they should, the People and the Courts will hold these medical and pharmaceutical professionals responsible for their mutilation of innocent people.
Wow, this was so heartbreaking to watch. I wish Prisha the best of luck moving forward, that she finds happiness, peace and love. She is loved and appreciated, I hope she knows that. My heart goes out to her.
Listening to you say you thought atrophy was a good thing as far as you knew; great example of how MDs will use words but not complete explanations which gives an inaccurate impression of outcomes for patients. It's criminal. These young people are making decisions with inaccurate information. You are not ruined. You will be ok, and you will be loved for who you are. Look for love and acceptance of yourself through personal experiences & growth rather than who is attracted to you sexually. You will heal, and that will come.
Sweetie you are a BEAUTIFUL BEAUTIFUL WOMAN and you’re loved. It will get better. Stay strong…there are brighter days ahead for you. Just hang on and continue to fight!
I just want to hug her and tell her everything will be OK. She can turn this tragedy around. She’s worthy of love. And happiness. And all of the good things life has to offer.
I think that sexual trauma is a strong contributor for mistaken transgenderism (as well as with nonbinary folks). Women may subconsciously feel like they are empowered and no longer at risk of assault or harassment by becoming men- at least that's the case for myself. Sexual trauma aside, I also believe the lack of proper or positive female role models in one's personal life is an additional contributor- another reason for myself which I'd discovered after years of self-analysis. Girls don't want to be girls, not because they don't feel that they are girls, but, often because of the feeling of self-disgust brought on by external factors, and often because of the negative association with womanhood altogether (puberty and bodily changes could be another one). I think that those who are questioning, especially at a young age, should seek from within themselves for what it means to them to be a man, to feel like a man, and to be a woman and feel like a women. They need to be certain that transitioning isn't just for safety, or even for acceptance and popularity, or worse, for victimhood. There are people who are transgendered, certainly, but, for girls especially, it's difficult to know at such a young age, or even into adulthood.
I feel terrible for this woman, believing it'd be hard to love her, or that she is undeserving. You are a human being. You are a living thing with emotions, and all living things deserve to be loved.
...Except for those who create victims.
I'm so sorry this happened to her. I always tried to hide my BPD from my daughter but at 15 I am already sure she has it too and she left to live with her dad because despite allowing a social transition I was 'transphobic' for saying she needs to hold off on anything permenant and to make some other friends or interests as this took over her whole life all of a sudden after a new friend group and accessing instagram/tiktok and she already admitted to faking anxiety and an ED because her new friends all had it too. All her friends are trans and have influenced her in all of this and now I am petrified she will end up like this poor woman or live a life in pain, incontinent and infertile etc. Parents are stuck between a rock and a hard place because you want to be supportive but also want to protect them from greater harm. Now I feel I have lost my precious child and everyone is so scared to speak up that I can't even talk about it. I am afraid people will think I am transphobic and hateful even though I supported her as much as possible.
If there is anyway that your daughter could be shown all these de-transition heartbreak/horror stories, it might put the brakes on her possibly jumping into taking more drastic measures... I wish your family well...
Maybe try to share this comment and this video with her somehow. Open up that you have BPD and that you're scared she has it too.
And show her Prisha's story. Maybe she'll understand. Wishing you good luck!
It sounds to me like you're a sorry excuse for a mother. No disrespect intended. She's living with her dad and I guess that's something. As long as she's with anyone but you. But I can't imagine she'd be any better served by residing in his care because, after all, you picked him. So everything you say is suspect.
And Borderline Personality Disorder is often a result of trauma, typically sexual. If you think she has it, maybe one the countless boyfriends you no doubt paraded through your home in a desperate, BPD-induced search for "fulfillment" molested her. Just a thought. I'm spitballing. Yes, I suppose being with her father would be best. Maybe she feels safer there.
If she has gender dysphoria, it won't be because of social media.
Mom , you were 100 % right to tell her to hold off .You gave her good sound advice .
@@eleanorsendeavors29 She watched one but thinks its very rare and not applicable to her. Any attempt at showing her them is taken as some sort of attempt at mild conversion therapy tbh. Definitely it's seen as an insult. We have been repairing our relationship more though so 🤞
As an old-school trans woman, I am very upset and saddened by such stories. If you are not mentally stable, you should never make such life-changing decisions. I can tell everyone who is trans or thinks they are, please take your time, get informed, talk to trans people of all ages. Today on TH-cam there are videos of all operations really all I was partly shocked that you can see this so publicly.
Prisha;
I wish you with all my heart only the best and may you experience your happiness and healing. Whether you can have children, your doctors will be able to tell you best. When you are better, you can still think about breast reconstruction, which is done very well nowadays.
There is a video of a detransitioner who went through similar things as you and is now a mother of a child, maybe her videos are helpful.
Prisha, you are one strong young lady and I am inspired by your courage to speak so openly about such a deeply personal and painful thing. I know there are young girls who will decide not to transition because of this video. You are obviously very intelligent and you have an internal strength and a beautiful heart that truly shine through. You look very feminine and I didn't even notice any issue with your voice. Don't count yourself out so quickly. I believe with all my heart you will find a young man who will love you for both your inner and outer beauty.
This is terrible 😢 I feel so bad for her. I hope she gets through this.
I wish her only love and peace and hope people start to question the real reason girls or boys want to change and not love and enjoy themselves
Because a lot of society say that a girl who is a tomboy or a boy who might be into certain girlie things are brainwashed by society to want to be the opposite gender instead of letting the kids be.If a girl love dirt bikes and t shirts and jeans and hanging out with boys do not mean she wants to be a boy.Same for the boy who might want to wear make up and play with dolls.Stop pushing trans and LGBTQ adult stuff on young kids.Ket them find their own way naturally.
These poor folks deserves better than hormone blockers & scalpels.
This is why therapy for years has to happen before anything goes ahead. By multiple real Doctors. Your mental state is the most important in this as it's too late afterwards. Some people that transition think it is going to make you a perfect life when in fact it won't and it is your state of mind. The regrets far out way what you think is going to happen. The Doctors that do this should be held accountable.
I cried listening to Prisha`s story. She is a beautiful person as she is helping others with her horror story. I hope she will find a beautiful man who will love this sweet girl.
Every person in the world who is thinking of transitioning (changing gender) should watch this video.
This poor girl/young lady was failed by everyone who should have been looking out for her and advising her...
Firstly, her parents - although it would appear that her mother has her own problems, and her father just went along with whatever Prisha thought was best for herself in terms of transitioning. As an adult and Prish's father, he should have been more thorough in trying to get help for her mental state. But she doesn't blame them, so nor should I.
Then there's the medical 'professionals' i.e the mental health people and the doctors who carried out the surgery - they should all be struck off and prosecuted for gross negligence.
I had anorexia throughout my 20's and 30's - I am 5 foot 5 inches tall and weighed only 7stone (approx 100 pounds) and I thought that I was fat... It's amazing how the devil can put lies into people's heads to make them hate themselves and want to end their lives. He is such a convincing liar ('the father of lies' as the Bible describes him in John Chapter 8 v 44).
In my 40's I met someone who introduced me to Jesus, I invited Him into my life, and things started to change...the anorexia went away (these days I have to be careful not to over-eat!) I began to see things how they REALLY are are not in a distorted way. This improved the more I read the Bible because we renew our minds by the reading of God's Word.
Now I can boldly quote 1Timothy chapter 1 v 7: 'For God has not given us the spirit of fear, but of power and of love and of a SOUND MIND'.
Prisha… you’re beautiful, strong, and wise beyond your years. Accept and love you as you are, and realize the choices you made that brought you to today, made you who you are. And that’s a good thing.
my cousin is going through the same thing but she hasn't regretted it yet she's still in the depths of her dysphoria but still struggles with EXTREME despression. Pray for her please
Any “medical professionals” who participate in this should be held criminally responsible.
Thank you Prisha for sharing your story. My heart goes out to you, that no one was there as a voice of reason when you needed it most. The medical field and society at the moment are failing people.
You seem so so strong and sensible, you slipped up and everyone professional took advantage of you..... You were a child. But you are beautiful, you are so grown up for such a young lady and you are still such a very young woman. Your heart soul and personality with your body is beautiful.... Don't ever give up, you will find love, you will have children, you still have a long life where this will be a bad blip many years ago. Good luck stay strong x
Remember even though you miss your breasts you now have less of a chance of breast cancer later on in life, if anything try to stay positive about that, many young women with moms that have breast cancer choose to have mastectomies. Your voice sounds feminine to me compared to many detransitioners I've watched on here. I pray you keep getting the mental health you need. You will find love and deserve love. Hang in there. Xo.
Heartbreaking. I hope she finds peace. She’s a beautiful soul ❤
You are an amazing young woman, Prisha. Despite everything you've been through I have absolute faith that things will work out for you. Stay strong. x
I want her to be happy too.
Please, anyone thinking of getting ANY type of cosmetic surgery, DON’T DO IT! Once you do you can’t go back. I feel so bad, some of the people’s transitioning and then Detransitioning stories make me so sad. I was depressed when I was young and felt like I didn’t fit in. Everyone feels like that at some point just gotta tough it out and not make a drastic change to yourself.
Why are the doctors not getting informed consent? The running theme with these kids (apart from trauma and mental health issues) is that they had no idea what they were consenting too
Prisha has been going around the country telling her story. Amazing woman 💯!
Wow the medical community quick to change these kids but good luck if you want to reverse the damage. Blessings her heart, you will find a partner who is right for you. If you look you will see many who have found love even though they are broken is some way. My body has been broken due to a spinal cord injury and I am blessed to have a partner who has loved me through it all. You too can have love and a life, it's just a different route than planned. Doesn't mean it can't happen.
I am also a spinal cord patient with a wonderful, caring husband that has been by my side taking care of me for almost 15 years, now. I'm so grateful for him! Good for you that you found one, too! They're out there. Good ones, I mean.
Thank you for your bravery. You deserve to be happy. Don't give up.
If only she could know how brave she is. I love you girl! Wish you all the best in your life.
Sweety, if you're reading this, a big hug to you. ❤ You ARE loved and worthy far more than you could ever imagine. Keep courage! You're a really strong person for telling your story.
Thank you for sharing your story. You are brave and amazing and beautiful.
Awww Prisha! My heart goes out to you. We all can see what an amazing young woman you are. Just remember whatever you look like on the outside, it’s the inside that counts. What we are, who we are doesn’t change. Keep on getting support for your mental health. We are all in awe of what you have been through and how strong you are! Take care ❤
You are a lovely caring person and you are beautiful. I wish you every success for the future. I am sure you will meet someone who loves you just as you are. Love and hugs. XX
This is so so devastating. That poor girl. This is criminal behaviour on the part of the medical establishment
I just want to hug her. What a sweet girl. I hope she finds peace and happiness.
So sad! What has happened to our culture that we don’t protect children!?
This so hard to watch 😭
You are courageous for coming forth with your story. Use your story to help others. Sending prayers, my dear. 😔
"I literally feel like I killed a child and it was me." Oh, she got me there! Hope she's able to move on from this and live a full life, the way it was meant to be.
This poor person needed emotional help, not the money hungry surgeons cutting on her body. So sad.
Affirmation does not make someone good. These people are so far into disillusion that they think it's a freeforall of changing and no consequence.
Her comparison to anorexia makes so much sense
Thank you for sharing your story.
Thank you so much for being real, there are so many people who are in the same state of mind that you were and no one is seriously attempting to help them. Please know that you were always valuable and you are valuable now. I pray peace to your mind and blessings to your life.
In a few years there will be so many of cases like this. It so awfull to put people through this. Leave kids alone! And if you still feel like you are born in the wrong body when you are an adult, than do transition if you want to, but leave kids alone, please! This is getting so out of hand! I hope Prish will live a happy live and i wish her all the best. And respect for you for talking about this, this need to be out there!
The people that do such surgery and doctors that refer the patients to surgeons rather then psychologist.. should be jailed for criminal act.
What a tragic story. Where did this happen?
Thank you for sharing. Your story will help others!
So SAD!! I am so glad you are on the road to recovery. My granddaughter is taking testosterone. I have tried to talk with her but she just can't hear me. I am praying for her eyes to be open to what she is doing. 😢
Thank you for sharing your story. People take advantage of children and people looking for something to fill a void. God loves you and you are worthy of love. I'm sorry for what you went through. Continued prayers for you and others going through this.
I am crying for u. You can heal people are here
I am sorry society let this happen to you Prisha 😢, I hope your future looks brighter and you find your true self and your happiness and fulfillment, it wasn't your fault, you were enabled my multiple "experts" at least factually "adults" and they enabled you to make mistakes which A should never be possible and B if they are possible shouldn't be decided upon by a young person even more so when suffering from unstable mental health, I hope the good that can come from people in your position, might be to help other young indoctrinated children and teens to stop and consider the consequences of jumping on the bandwagon to change gender.
Sorry for you. Thank you for sharing your story... stories like yours need to go viral to stop the madness!!! Save our children
My 💔 for this young women. I’m so happy this beautiful young lady has found a good therapist. I wish her all the best for her amazing future that is ahead for her ❤
I wish you the very best in your life, I am so sorry for all you've been exposed to. Trust there is always light at the end of every tunnel. YOU DESERVE LOVE AND YOU ARE LOVED!! ❤️