Jimin seems a Lil bit chill about it. V and JK give me possessive vibes loooolll.. Tae gives me very very mild yandere vibes (loololol). He needs to stop watching Kdramas.
@@krnl1304 those two (V&JK) needs some one who is like JM or some one who understand what the situation is but level headed enough to atleast not over react or jump to conclusions! Those 2 have seen too much Kdrama!😀😀
@@Marguerite-wu3nw it's obviously a love story. jk literally made up a scenario of starting with helping someone with splitting a perilla leaf, then suddenly holding hands, falling in love and getting married. if that's not a next level love story imagination because of watching many k-dramas, then idk what it is.
I think V was just being funny for entertainment purposes. Even Jimin hinted to it when he said he was being funny for the segment. JK on the other hand needs to not lay off the Kdrama for a little bit. 😂😂😂😂
@@angiesplaylist23 It's about trust. For Western culture, it would be like your guy holding the door open for another woman or pulling her chair. I would find it endearing that he's being kind and considerate. The rest of the guys agreed that the partner helping out the friend is insignificant and innocent, so it's not even a cultural thing either. It's a personal insecurity of Jungkook's. That's where jealousy stems from: insecurity. As Yoongi said, it's not as if his significant other and friend were flirting. It's a simple act of kindness.
@@AdriGoddess no you completely missed the context. Jk is extremely considerate and helpful so no its nothing like holding a door open. That's why he said he doesnt mind scooping noodles or things like that. The perilla leaf is considered an intimate act to some. For example if your boyfriend is helping your female friend to zip her jacket because she was having a hard time. It can be considered intimate to get that close and cross boundaries but the boundary is different for every couple. Tae also said he doesnt really like if the chopsticks touch. So again everyone has different boundaries. You are judging harshly in many of your comments when you misunderstood the context
Ohoooo don't argue about it .we have our own reason and opinion...we don't need to argue we all army are FAMILY AND FRIEND one of us has a opinion or point of view WE MUST respect each other opinion ..👍
For me...if both lovers are BOUND for each or they are really for each other ,all trials ups and down or Manny circumstances happened in there relationship if GOD choose them to be for each other they will be together and be a happy couple...even if THERE ARE PERILLA LEAFS OR CHOPSTICKS OR SHRIMP 😄😄😄 they will both walk together strong for there love for each other.😄
I can’t with them! Their conversation about perilla leaf starts with flirting and ending with getting married?! They look so cute and their points are somehow valid tho 🤣
Then there's TXT saying that they wouldn't mind and then , Beomgyu:Yeonjun hyung , what about if that friend of yours is wooyoung? Yeonjun: I wouldn't mind that too Beomgyu: what about if that friend is me? Yeonjun: Then I'll seriously be angry.
Jimin does not care about Perilla leave with his lover, he must be think: “if you cross the line, just remember I am the biggest flirter, be ready to cry, I am Jimin” , 😂😂😂😂😂😂.
The ones who answered with "don't care" says a lot about their self-security and level of relationship maturity with their partner. And honestly, a guy gets 100x hotter when he has confidence/self-esteem. 🥵🥵🥵🥵🥵🥵🥵
It works both way for me. I'm happy that he's very secure in himself n our relationship but I must say I'll be a strutting peacock if he's a little jealous!! A little spice makes the hearts bind closer in the beginning of relationship.
@@jayanthijaiaraman9324 Exactly!! How can there be a relationship without a liiitle bit of jealousy? Mostly the problem with jealousy is that it can be too much and too often.. but if it is only a little I think it's fine.
Jk and Tae watch way too many kdramas 🤦🏽♀️ 😂. I’m team Hobi though. Trust is the most important thing, in my opinion, in any relationship. Whether it be platonic, romantic, sexual or whatever else. I mean boundaries are good and all, but at the end of the day, if you don’t trust your partner, it doesn’t matter how many boundaries you set, there’ll always be that “what if they’re this, what if they’re doing that, or what if this ends up happening”. And if you set too many boundaries, it might end up feeling more like a prison than a partnership. Then again that’s just me so… to each their own ig 🤷🏽♀️
Suga and jhope had a matured perspective, this is just my opinion and it varies from person to person so peace to everyone. trust is vital in a relationship, why would a person get jealous over something like helping or assisting a friend in a small thing, i would be irritated if my boyfriend is a jealous freak, i would feel uncomfortable. good thing is he's an open minded person (but he is conservative still) he would remind me, "we are grown up, and hey we are both Psychologist" 😀
TRUST AND RESPECT ARE THE KEYS TO A GOOD RELATIONSHIP 🤗 DONT BE SO NARROW MINDED ,THINK BEFORE YOU GIVE YOUR OPINION OR ANSWERS THAT’S WERE THEY BASE YOUR MENTALLY 💜🤗🇺🇸
Suga: *responds with a look of confusion and regret whenever someone reads a “Yoongi marry me” comment* Also Suga: 0:34 😂 (Joking, joking, the two are different 😇)
JHope at the end tossing every other answer out the window with his killer answer XD man i havent laughed like this in daysssss that's why BTS is BTS hahah
Jung Kookie and V r really possessive 😅 . Must be hard for them .. sometims ... .Hobie ..cool ..having trust ..to his friend and his other half... Rather..not keep people around us ...whom..we can't trust ...😅
Suga reinactment of flirting is so precious 😄!..V how light is a light flight?!😁😁😁 Their all having an argument!😁😁😁I do get jk sentiment but your jumping ahead of yourself kid!😀😀I'm JM I would be focus on eating!😁😁 But I will get annoyed if my friend insist on It i love how he put it's in perspective ,RM and Jin self assured response , In the end jhope sum it up it ! It's all about trust!
@@nikitayadav1480 they need an even kill/chill,level headed person to be with someone who can balance that possesiveness.someone who is reasonable, 2 jealous lovers is not good for a relationship It's a chaotic relationship ,if they end up with someone as jealous as they are they would always end up in a fight argument it will become toxic! it will not make you grow as person .
@@testruelove2530 I think to put on a partner to change JK is unreasonable. JK, just like everyone else, should change himself and not have to rely on someone doing it for him. His growth lies on him, no one else. I think V was just being funny. JK I think is still on the younger side when it comes to relationships. He has said in the past that he was very selfish and he slowly grew out of that habit. I think this possessiveness is a lingering negative trait he still has. For the sake of his any serious relationship he is in or will be in, I hope he kicks it sooner rather than later. It doesn't make him a horrible partner. We all have traits we can work on to improve ourselves.
@@AdriGoddessyes I agree on not putting on the partner the responsibility to change you, but that's what happens in a relationship you learn and grew from each other ,and that's what time and experience do ,he'll eventually loose it or at least mellow down ,when you're a bit younger you see this as romantic but as you grow older it gets over bearring ,I think this kid wear his heart on his sleeves you can read him like a ,book that's one of his traits that's beautiful about him that his passionate ,but I hope that green eyes monster if not totally loose it or at least fades down I hope he eventually gets to point he can be chill coz too much of it kills .
I think people took this out of context. It's more about the act of intimacy and boundaries. He said scooping and giving noodles with chopsticks was fine so this is a specific cultural context with the leaf.
It's the age difference. Jk has grown up but he is still that possessive 17 years old kookie. I think him being this possessive is extremely cute. Kdrama material. V too. No wonder we love Taekook sharing Same brain cell. Jins's comment at the end was so funny but anything can happen in BTS universe. Love them so much.
But a little jealousy is ok tho? How can jealousy equal childish nowadays? Like don't your partner have the right to feel anymore? Plus, this is also considered intimate bcs you're willing to use your used chopstick with your saliva in it to take apart someone's food that someone other than you or your partner going to eat. But I agree with JK the worst is shrimp... JK's girlfriend has to help JK's friend who is a grown ass man to peel a friggin' shrimp!? No, JK's friend doesn't deserve to eat shrimp, I agree with Suga on this one.
@@Dora-mp1 these are actually little things which escalate into bigger issues. The thing is let her decided what she will do. Whether she will help or not. As Hobi said. But JK is stating his annoyance which is fine. I have been in one of those relationship which was very suffocating. But Jungkook is a sweetheart and we all know that. His pouty face and cute antics along with his annoyance are absolutely harmless. His gf will be busy staring at his doe eyes only.
@@Victoria-bi8ee to each their own. Not necessarily everyone will have the same mindset. People learn through their experiences. He will learn too. Also Hobi is 28
Jin’s logic is beyond anyone.. if 3 person get together to eat shrimp, only one person peel the shrimp doesnt matter who it is.. only let one person suffer.. 😆 i never thought of it but i kind of like the idea now..
I agree with J-hope but I am Jungkook in this. but I still don't agree that people can get married because of this 😂🤣. Like if it was possible all armys would go to the fan sign taking the perilla leaf 😆🤣 🤣
Great idea, after this I swear if I would ever get a chance to meet them I'll definitely take some with me nd ask them to peel that with me 😉😄 but the fact is I'll never even going to see them in real life😭😭 oh my sad tragic life 😑😥😥
Shows you how possessive our boys are with their (non existent!) significant other.... But J-Hope n Suga got their priority straight. Note, 😉🤣🤣 our Tae is so possessive that even his significant other's chop stick should only be in his mouth - gives me the chills, ah! To be in love.....!!
No I mean the saliva tho... it's a bit intimate right? If like cutting the steak for others using the other person's knife and fork I don't think there's a problem... so I guess if they take the other person's chopstick to peel the perilla leaves I guess I'll be fine with it
Ngl, I was clueless about why there would be such a strong reaction from JK and had to look up what a perilla leaf even is and considering the examples provided of American dish equivalents, I’d be uncomfortable with my significant other helping someone else because it is an act of intimacy, but like Hobi said I would trust that they know where the line is and that they won’t cross it. If they cross the line then it shows clearer than words what their feelings are but also reveal what their principles are and I wouldn’t want them in my life after that. 🤷🏼♀️
I wasn't able to find any American equivalencies can you gimme some examples cause I can't grasp the full story and can't make up my mind whether I'd be jealous or not lmao
@@lizknives I couldn’t find the article again that I read but it had S’mores over a campfire and the help was getting the marshmallow off of the stick in 1 piece, slices of pizza that hadn’t been cut all the way through the dough and kabobs where the meat was stuck to the wooden stick and wouldn’t slide down it easily were on it. You don’t normally share foods that stick where you would need help with an instrument that someone else was eating off of like a fork or spoon, which was where the intimacy part came from, though. If it was their sibling then it wouldn’t bother me but just friends made me uncomfortable at the thought of. 🤷🏼♀️
Jk kept it as simple as it could get. "They can't help" THE END 🤣🤣 "Couldn't they help your friend?" "No" 🤣🤣 Tae having a light fight over a leaf though 🤣🤣
its a side dish koreans eat i have no idea how this controversy started😂 Edit: I just saw a comment someone saying it's basically like cutting steak. Would you let your boyfriend/girlfriend cut your friends steak if you were out w eachother?. Let's say you're a female, you have a boyfriend and your female friend comes w her own boyfriened too, if your man cut your friends steak would you be okay w it? Im guessing this is what the perilla leaf thingy means in Korea but it's up to everyones own perspective..personally I didn't even think of it like this until I saw that specific comment explaining it this way😂 And then I was like ah then that makes a bit more sense if I think of it in that way too yk?
@@h.alm0896 Thank you so much! All doubts (on this subject, I still have a lot of doubts......the meaning of life, why am I here if I can't marry Namjoonie.....you know, normal) have been cleared. Thanks again chingu!😁💜
Suga, jk and v made my day... 😉☺😂😂😂🤣🤣 I agree with jk in this conversation... 😉 But in real life.... I'm 100% agreed with what jhope said... 😌because I also think like that... 😏
M like Tae & JK.... Trust & possessiveness r different things. If u r possessive for someone it doesn't means u don't trust them. It's all about sharing.... I don't want to share what is mine... I trust my partner but that doesn't mean I m okay if he takes care of someone other thn me...
please don't sugarcoat it. it's bad and that's it. it restricts people and being in a relationship will be more or less like being in a prison. love should help grow people not suffocating, it must be nourishing not destructive. and its a sign of insecurity
@@sabnamku3140 m not sugarcoating nor forcing my point of view on you or anyone... We r different so our thought process will be different. It doesn't mean that u r wrong or i m wrong... Don't take it personally.
I think he is leaning towards the maknae line, but with lower intensity reaction. He isn't in the 'I won't care' boat. He would either be too busy eating to notice, or would like the same action replicated to him to neutralize, but also to make a point that he is ever so slighty jealous.
@@testruelove2530 I agree to that. Asking the staff when the fights gonna end, mentioning how army's must be going crazy hearing all the talk. He really cares about balance.
@@ribitt9783 Hey I loved your simple cute opinion....it's is the best way to actually show that he is the hyung of the maknaes...... balanced and also careful not to hurt anyone's feelings but still giving his on point opinion
I just don't get it - isn't it a good thing to help other people? I would help a married woman or man and if my husband was nearer he would do the same thing. If I couldn't be myself or him hiself because of pointless jeleousy .... well I don't think we would be together because it would be too exhausting trying not to make each other jeleous..... did that make any sense? 😂💜
No one likes a jealous man Jungkook. It shows your insecurities and controlling nature. Since this conversation is for fun and he came to the conclusion that someone would end up getting married I don't think he was very serious. However if he will be that jealous/insecure in real life I feel sorry for Jungkook's future partner.
@@dingdong-jg1ys why would Jimin be mad? Jimin didn't even say much, just that he wouldn't notice because he would be eating or that he would ask his partner to do the same for him. Jimin laughed so hard his chair broke when JK came to the absurd conclusion that someone would get married because of this. He wasn't angry at anyone.
@@TheLaurinha2012yeah maybe, I just went with future because there is nothing offical. Let's be honest, the guys aren't innocent virgins and anyone can make the time to date if it is a priority to them. The fans who think otherwise are just delusional. I'm just curious how they are able to keep it silent. They have very few dating scandals as well. I always get the feeling HYBE has some type of deal with dispatch or the press in general.
@@princely.jimin95 You're right, Hybe definitely has something with Dispatch + their korean fans are very protective so even if they see them with their partners, they won't say anything until it's confirmed. But with the recent dating scandal I believe this might not be the case anymore and relationships might get confirmed in the near future.
Im more of yg and jin but with the shrimp peeling...idk I would prolly be kinda feel uncomfy especially if my lover and that friend isn't that close to begin with but I still wouldn't throw hands or smthn' lol
As much as I was laughing, I think I might the only one thinking “don’t you have hands that work?!” Maybe it’s a Korean thing, I don’t know but I have to say if you trust each other, there’s nothing to worry about. Anywho this was hilarious 😂
i felt as if jimin was trying to explain and get support. was he guilty? loved all their responses.... but JK oh dear, that possessiveness and jealousy will not make for long stanging relationship. i feel for his significant other... now who peeled the perilla leaf for who??? upsetting kookie???
Hmmm I think I agree with JK, although not necessarily because I believe that helping your friend with perilla leaves would lead to an affair etc. Helping someone with their food is a fairly intimate gesture that I'd personally reserve for a few - my partner, siblings, parents, and doing it with an acquaintance or a friend does seem inappropriate and awkward and it might give out the wrong impression. To me it's similar to helping a man with his tie, a woman with her dress zipper.. It's not about the act, but the context. It's different from, for example, driving a friend home at night, where doing otherwise could potentially put him/her in real danger - separating perilla leaves and peeling shrimp are much more easier to achieve without anyone's assistance than making it home safely at midnight.. no?
well the 2 youngest ones are not so mature yet..still d jealous type😅 hmm..maybe bcoz some girls they see r also flirty and they just want to prevent unwanted issues..
It's like a girlfriend asking her boyfriend friend to cut her steak. We do these things for our s/o not anyone else. ask your bf not his friend. Totally agree with jk.
But that wasn't the question. The question was do you think your significant other should help your friend, not the other way around. So lets say you are a girl who has a boyfriend and you're there with your friend and she can't cut her steak is it okay for your boyfriend to help her.
@@crystalsnow1138 I think it's fine. But I understand V tho, the problem here is the saliva... you used your used chopstick to pick a piece of food that someone else's going to eat? I think the culture in Korea is a bit different, but I won't want to eat something that has been touched by others' chopsticks. Jk is quite funny, maybe the culture in Korea is that like an unspoken rule, you only help peeling perilla leaves if you're close enough or comfortable enough with this other person u're going to help with... so JK said no, bcs JK knew the moment you decide to help that person means the moment you're getting so comfortable with that person (high chance it will be in a more romantic way) that's why in his mind it could lead to marriage. I think. But even so the worst is not being able to peel shrimp. If you don't know how to peel shrimp and have to ask another woman to peel them for you, just don't order shrimp... you don't deserve to eat it.
th-cam.com/video/NufdiWdrxcI/w-d-xo.html This particular question/segment starts at 20:57. They're discussing how they would react if their partner helped their friend peel a perilla leaf. I guess it's considered something some people believe only partners should do for each other.
I'm not Korean, but from now I gather ,the debate is how would you feel if your out with your significant other and your friend to eat and your friend served your significant other cooked a perilla leaf ?(it's sticky when it's cooked and you used to wrap cooked rice and meat to eat) maybe it's the equivalent of serving food or cutting steak for your partner right infront of you!
They were given a situation and were asked what would be their response in that situation. The situation is- "my significant other(your partner) helping my friend peel off a perilla leaf ( Korean food) when I am there - is it Okay vs not Okay"
Can't they just use two hands One hand holds them and the other hand separate it Why should even other person need to help when they can do it themselves
JK, TAE AND RM answered possessive and SUGA, JIMIN AND JIN answered freely and JHOPE answered most sensibly and I liked all their answers.
Flirtiatious Yoongi made my day! SOPE is the most relatable for me. They trust in their partner and don't make a big drama from it.
and jin
agreed sope sharing same opinion
That look on Suga’s face lol
It's interesting how the younger member gets annoyed and territorial while the older members a little non challant about it.
Jimin seems a Lil bit chill about it.
V and JK give me possessive vibes loooolll..
Tae gives me very very mild yandere vibes (loololol). He needs to stop watching Kdramas.
@@krnl1304 those two (V&JK) needs some one who is like JM or some one who understand what the situation is but level headed enough to atleast not over react or jump to conclusions! Those 2 have seen too much Kdrama!😀😀
fans don’t see a problem in that type of mindset, I don’t think being insecure or posesive is cool
V and jk, that's the effect of watching too much kdrama..you end up making a love story out of perilla leaves😂😂
JK+Army remember about perilla leaves jk jealous 🤣🤣🤣🤣
As funny as they were, there is no love story here ...just a bit of mistrust
@@Marguerite-wu3nw it's obviously a love story. jk literally made up a scenario of starting with helping someone with splitting a perilla leaf, then suddenly holding hands, falling in love and getting married. if that's not a next level love story imagination because of watching many k-dramas, then idk what it is.
I think V was just being funny for entertainment purposes. Even Jimin hinted to it when he said he was being funny for the segment. JK on the other hand needs to not lay off the Kdrama for a little bit. 😂😂😂😂
@@bulanayu9529 I agree, our hero is trying his hand on Kdrama storyboard. But shows how possessive he is too. Sends shivers down my spine... 🤣
0:35 omg I can't when yoongi acts like this
Yessss so cute💜💜💜💜💜😄
Ok
😆 Jin ask why they will end up married because of perrila leafs😆😆 BUT I ❤️ jhope opinion ..his right about TRUST for each other's.
It's not about trust, it's about intimacy and boundaries
@@angiesplaylist23 It's about trust. For Western culture, it would be like your guy holding the door open for another woman or pulling her chair. I would find it endearing that he's being kind and considerate. The rest of the guys agreed that the partner helping out the friend is insignificant and innocent, so it's not even a cultural thing either. It's a personal insecurity of Jungkook's. That's where jealousy stems from: insecurity.
As Yoongi said, it's not as if his significant other and friend were flirting. It's a simple act of kindness.
@@AdriGoddess no you completely missed the context. Jk is extremely considerate and helpful so no its nothing like holding a door open. That's why he said he doesnt mind scooping noodles or things like that. The perilla leaf is considered an intimate act to some. For example if your boyfriend is helping your female friend to zip her jacket because she was having a hard time. It can be considered intimate to get that close and cross boundaries but the boundary is different for every couple. Tae also said he doesnt really like if the chopsticks touch. So again everyone has different boundaries. You are judging harshly in many of your comments when you misunderstood the context
Ohoooo don't argue about it .we have our own reason and opinion...we don't need to argue we all army are FAMILY AND FRIEND one of us has a opinion or point of view WE MUST respect each other opinion ..👍
For me...if both lovers are BOUND for each or they are really for each other ,all trials ups and down or Manny circumstances happened in there relationship if GOD choose them to be for each other they will be together and be a happy couple...even if THERE ARE PERILLA LEAFS OR CHOPSTICKS OR SHRIMP 😄😄😄 they will both walk together strong for there love for each other.😄
I can’t with them! Their conversation about perilla leaf starts with flirting and ending with getting married?! They look so cute and their points are somehow valid tho 🤣
🤣🤣🤣💜...
Jk- straightforward "No" 😂.
Agreed with Jhope though 😊
Yoongi is changed so much now he talk lot with his gummy smile
When RM asked Jhope about his taught, he showed his great skills as a leader👍
But why I keep playing Suga part😂
Then there's TXT saying that they wouldn't mind and then ,
Beomgyu:Yeonjun hyung , what about if that friend of yours is wooyoung?
Yeonjun: I wouldn't mind that too
Beomgyu: what about if that friend is me?
Yeonjun: Then I'll seriously be angry.
😂😂😂😂
Whyyy? 😅 don’t know them, give me some context
@@eehyetti cause they are Tom and Jerry of TXT 😂
@@laibakausar8161 oh I see ☺️ they are cute as well
Jimin does not care about Perilla leave with his lover, he must be think: “if you cross the line, just remember I am the biggest flirter, be ready to cry, I am Jimin” , 😂😂😂😂😂😂.
The ones who answered with "don't care" says a lot about their self-security and level of relationship maturity with their partner. And honestly, a guy gets 100x hotter when he has confidence/self-esteem. 🥵🥵🥵🥵🥵🥵🥵
It works both way for me. I'm happy that he's very secure in himself n our relationship but I must say I'll be a strutting peacock if he's a little jealous!! A little spice makes the hearts bind closer in the beginning of relationship.
You get me ❤️
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@@jayanthijaiaraman9324 Exactly!! How can there be a relationship without a liiitle bit of jealousy? Mostly the problem with jealousy is that it can be too much and too often.. but if it is only a little I think it's fine.
Jhope is such a wise man....nd he will trust his partner till the last 💜
I can’t get over with suga and jhope laughing 😂
Jk and Tae watch way too many kdramas 🤦🏽♀️ 😂. I’m team Hobi though. Trust is the most important thing, in my opinion, in any relationship. Whether it be platonic, romantic, sexual or whatever else. I mean boundaries are good and all, but at the end of the day, if you don’t trust your partner, it doesn’t matter how many boundaries you set, there’ll always be that “what if they’re this, what if they’re doing that, or what if this ends up happening”. And if you set too many boundaries, it might end up feeling more like a prison than a partnership. Then again that’s just me so… to each their own ig 🤷🏽♀️
100% agree
Hoseok's answer was the most sensible one and this is exactly why he is my bias .
Suga and jhope had a matured perspective, this is just my opinion and it varies from person to person so peace to everyone. trust is vital in a relationship, why would a person get jealous over something like helping or assisting a friend in a small thing, i would be irritated if my boyfriend is a jealous freak, i would feel uncomfortable. good thing is he's an open minded person (but he is conservative still) he would remind me, "we are grown up, and hey we are both Psychologist" 😀
Free tips from Jungkook to get married😂
Don't peel shrimps
Peel Perilla-leaf, then you will get married😂
TRUST AND RESPECT ARE THE KEYS TO A GOOD RELATIONSHIP 🤗 DONT BE SO NARROW MINDED ,THINK BEFORE YOU GIVE YOUR OPINION OR ANSWERS THAT’S WERE THEY BASE YOUR MENTALLY 💜🤗🇺🇸
Hobi is the absolute sweetest 💜
I bet you that ARMY is going to try and hand them perilla leaves instead of flowers at concerts now…. 🤣
Jung Kook just fully pouting and sulking is absolutely killing me. 🤣☠️
Suga: *responds with a look of confusion and regret whenever someone reads a “Yoongi marry me” comment*
Also Suga: 0:34 😂
(Joking, joking, the two are different 😇)
JHope at the end tossing every other answer out the window with his killer answer XD man i havent laughed like this in daysssss that's why BTS is BTS hahah
Jhope summarized it so well, if there's trust between the two of them, there's no problem 😂😊
No one:
Taehyung: I'll have a Lil fight with them😂😂
I just love this discussion over a perrila leaf 🍃
Jung Kookie and V r really possessive 😅 . Must be hard for them .. sometims ...
.Hobie ..cool ..having trust ..to his friend and his other half...
Rather..not keep people around us ...whom..we can't trust ...😅
Yoongi's face and J-Hope laughing as well cause his face is so flirting! omg!!!!! ♥♥♥♥♥ so cuteeeee!!! ♥♥♥♥♥♥ make my day. love u gys!
It’s a leaf !!!! How hard is it to peel?
Let the friend peel for himself 😂😂
I’m with Suga in this one ✌️
That face of Suga... 🤣🤣🤣
Suga reinactment of flirting is so precious 😄!..V how light is a light flight?!😁😁😁 Their all having an argument!😁😁😁I do get jk sentiment but your jumping ahead of yourself kid!😀😀I'm JM I would be focus on eating!😁😁 But I will get annoyed if my friend insist on It i love how he put it's in perspective ,RM and Jin self assured response , In the end jhope sum it up it ! It's all about trust!
I think V and jk would be possessive lovers 😂😂😂 in their future 🤣🤣🤣
@@nikitayadav1480 they need an even kill/chill,level headed person to be with someone who can balance that possesiveness.someone who is reasonable, 2 jealous lovers is not good for a relationship It's a chaotic relationship ,if they end up with someone as jealous as they are they would always end up in a fight argument it will become toxic! it will not make you grow as person .
@@testruelove2530 I think to put on a partner to change JK is unreasonable. JK, just like everyone else, should change himself and not have to rely on someone doing it for him. His growth lies on him, no one else.
I think V was just being funny. JK I think is still on the younger side when it comes to relationships. He has said in the past that he was very selfish and he slowly grew out of that habit. I think this possessiveness is a lingering negative trait he still has. For the sake of his any serious relationship he is in or will be in, I hope he kicks it sooner rather than later. It doesn't make him a horrible partner. We all have traits we can work on to improve ourselves.
@@AdriGoddessyes I agree on not putting on the partner the responsibility to change you, but that's what happens in a relationship you learn and grew from each other ,and that's what time and experience do ,he'll eventually loose it or at least mellow down ,when you're a bit younger you see this as romantic but as you grow older it gets over bearring ,I think this kid wear his heart on his sleeves you can read him like a ,book that's one of his traits that's beautiful about him that his passionate ,but I hope that green eyes monster if not totally loose it or at least fades down I hope he eventually gets to point he can be chill coz too much of it kills .
I think people took this out of context. It's more about the act of intimacy and boundaries. He said scooping and giving noodles with chopsticks was fine so this is a specific cultural context with the leaf.
I like jhope ans and it's true what jimin said we will focus on our eating why we focus on others
"They peel off one perilla leaf, next thing you know, they're holding hands" LMAOOOOO why so possessive JK ??????
Awwwww hobi love you ❤️🥰🥰🥰🥰
Why it feels some members especially jk is protective and possessive type 😂
while er'one is fine with it, there's tae and jk disagreeing and developed a long story alr
😂😂😂😂Well, as JHope said, it is all about trust ....
@@Marguerite-wu3nw I don't think they don't trust their partner. It's that they don't want that kind of intimacy shared with someone else
When jimin say something and that baby laugh 😍🥺🧿😊🦋
It's the age difference. Jk has grown up but he is still that possessive 17 years old kookie. I think him being this possessive is extremely cute. Kdrama material. V too. No wonder we love Taekook sharing Same brain cell. Jins's comment at the end was so funny but anything can happen in BTS universe. Love them so much.
But a little jealousy is ok tho? How can jealousy equal childish nowadays? Like don't your partner have the right to feel anymore? Plus, this is also considered intimate bcs you're willing to use your used chopstick with your saliva in it to take apart someone's food that someone other than you or your partner going to eat. But I agree with JK the worst is shrimp... JK's girlfriend has to help JK's friend who is a grown ass man to peel a friggin' shrimp!? No, JK's friend doesn't deserve to eat shrimp, I agree with Suga on this one.
@@Dora-mp1 these are actually little things which escalate into bigger issues. The thing is let her decided what she will do. Whether she will help or not. As Hobi said. But JK is stating his annoyance which is fine. I have been in one of those relationship which was very suffocating. But Jungkook is a sweetheart and we all know that. His pouty face and cute antics along with his annoyance are absolutely harmless. His gf will be busy staring at his doe eyes only.
Age difference? He is 24 girl haha💀 he should be more secure and less possessive , hobie is 26 I think? Also kdramas are 0 realistic yeah
@@Victoria-bi8ee to each their own. Not necessarily everyone will have the same mindset. People learn through their experiences. He will learn too. Also Hobi is 28
Why is no one talking about Jimin, damn he is soooooo cutttteeeeeee 🥺😚😚😚😚😚😚😚
Jin’s logic is beyond anyone.. if 3 person get together to eat shrimp, only one person peel the shrimp doesnt matter who it is.. only let one person suffer.. 😆 i never thought of it but i kind of like the idea now..
😂😂😂😂😅
I agree with J-hope but I am Jungkook in this. but I still don't agree that people can get married because of this 😂🤣. Like if it was possible all armys would go to the fan sign taking the perilla leaf 😆🤣 🤣
Great idea, after this I swear if I would ever get a chance to meet them I'll definitely take some with me nd ask them to peel that with me 😉😄
but the fact is I'll never even going to see them in real life😭😭 oh my sad tragic life 😑😥😥
@@yettocome2534 aww it ok 👌 I am also in same situation😆
@@winterbear6443😢 sigh...😔
@@yettocome2534 don't feel in your dreams you can take perilla leafs to them, start the family 👪 fighting 🥰
This is really silly. I’m very entertained .
In near future scarcity of perilla leaves is for sure.😂😍
Shows you how possessive our boys are with their (non existent!) significant other.... But J-Hope n Suga got their priority straight.
Note, 😉🤣🤣 our Tae is so possessive that even his significant other's chop stick should only be in his mouth - gives me the chills, ah! To be in love.....!!
Ya the lowkey Yandere
No I mean the saliva tho... it's a bit intimate right? If like cutting the steak for others using the other person's knife and fork I don't think there's a problem... so I guess if they take the other person's chopstick to peel the perilla leaves I guess I'll be fine with it
@@Dora-mp1 😅😅😅😅😅😅🐯🐯💜💜💜💜
i agree with him though. like thats my bf's saliva thats going on the perilla leave that my friend is gonna eat. thats the the point he was making.
jk and v saying this as if they wouldn't be peeling perilla leaves for the other members right in front of their significant others in the future lmao
Those boys are adorable... Specially my Hyung, Suga 💜
Ngl, I was clueless about why there would be such a strong reaction from JK and had to look up what a perilla leaf even is and considering the examples provided of American dish equivalents, I’d be uncomfortable with my significant other helping someone else because it is an act of intimacy, but like Hobi said I would trust that they know where the line is and that they won’t cross it.
If they cross the line then it shows clearer than words what their feelings are but also reveal what their principles are and I wouldn’t want them in my life after that. 🤷🏼♀️
I wasn't able to find any American equivalencies can you gimme some examples cause I can't grasp the full story and can't make up my mind whether I'd be jealous or not lmao
@@lizknives I couldn’t find the article again that I read but it had S’mores over a campfire and the help was getting the marshmallow off of the stick in 1 piece, slices of pizza that hadn’t been cut all the way through the dough and kabobs where the meat was stuck to the wooden stick and wouldn’t slide down it easily were on it.
You don’t normally share foods that stick where you would need help with an instrument that someone else was eating off of like a fork or spoon, which was where the intimacy part came from, though. If it was their sibling then it wouldn’t bother me but just friends made me uncomfortable at the thought of. 🤷🏼♀️
Thank you JHOPE tho!!! It shouldn’t matter if you trust the person
I’m just here for yoongi’s visual definition of ‘flirting’ 😆🥰
RM was trying so hard to not come off possessive 💀
*"I agree, I agree, I strongly agree."*
0:35 & 1:43
I am in team hyung ! I don't care if we trust each other, and it is just a little thing
Jk kept it as simple as it could get. "They can't help" THE END 🤣🤣
"Couldn't they help your friend?" "No" 🤣🤣
Tae having a light fight over a leaf though 🤣🤣
Kookie and V hmmm effect of too many kdramas the others can't relate the way kookie was pouting like a sulky little boy awww he's so cute 😆
I'm Suga and Hobi in this situation lol
I said "i too don't care helping someone" but when V put his point i was like "wait a minute, his point makes sense"🤣
same i was like hold tf up...
Wtf is a perilla leaf and why did this controversy start?
its a side dish koreans eat i have no idea how this controversy started😂
Edit: I just saw a comment someone saying it's basically like cutting steak. Would you let your boyfriend/girlfriend cut your friends steak if you were out w eachother?. Let's say you're a female, you have a boyfriend and your female friend comes w her own boyfriened too, if your man cut your friends steak would you be okay w it? Im guessing this is what the perilla leaf thingy means in Korea but it's up to everyones own perspective..personally I didn't even think of it like this until I saw that specific comment explaining it this way😂 And then I was like ah then that makes a bit more sense if I think of it in that way too yk?
@@h.alm0896 Thank you so much! All doubts (on this subject, I still have a lot of doubts......the meaning of life, why am I here if I can't marry Namjoonie.....you know, normal) have been cleared. Thanks again chingu!😁💜
Watching this i am glad Jhope is my bias he is such a sweetheart 😍😍😍😍😍 don't worry baby my heart is only yours 💜💜
Suga, jk and v made my day... 😉☺😂😂😂🤣🤣
I agree with jk in this conversation... 😉
But in real life.... I'm 100% agreed with what jhope said... 😌because I also think like that... 😏
Very good j hope!
“How many times have you watched this?”
Me: yes
M like Tae & JK.... Trust & possessiveness r different things. If u r possessive for someone it doesn't means u don't trust them. It's all about sharing.... I don't want to share what is mine... I trust my partner but that doesn't mean I m okay if he takes care of someone other thn me...
please don't sugarcoat it. it's bad and that's it. it restricts people and being in a relationship will be more or less like being in a prison. love should help grow people not suffocating, it must be nourishing not destructive. and its a sign of insecurity
@@sabnamku3140 m not sugarcoating nor forcing my point of view on you or anyone... We r different so our thought process will be different. It doesn't mean that u r wrong or i m wrong... Don't take it personally.
You're not okay if your partner takes care of other people? Even if it's done without flirting?
Huh.
i've watched the whole thing and i noticed jimin's responds are quiet ambiguous. I'm really curious about his opinion.
I think he is leaning towards the maknae line, but with lower intensity reaction. He isn't in the 'I won't care' boat. He would either be too busy eating to notice, or would like the same action replicated to him to neutralize, but also to make a point that he is ever so slighty jealous.
@@ribitt9783 it's a very libra trait!.😀😀.diplomatic always wants to create equilibrium.
@@testruelove2530 I agree to that. Asking the staff when the fights gonna end, mentioning how army's must be going crazy hearing all the talk. He really cares about balance.
@@ribitt9783 Hey I loved your simple cute opinion....it's is the best way to actually show that he is the hyung of the maknaes......
balanced and also careful not to hurt anyone's feelings but still giving his on point opinion
@@monalisapal4280 🥰 I am a super new army and have fallen into the deep end
I think that this stuff of the perilla leave is more personal, I wouldn't help a married man with that, being his wife sitting there
I just don't get it - isn't it a good thing to help other people? I would help a married woman or man and if my husband was nearer he would do the same thing. If I couldn't be myself or him hiself because of pointless jeleousy .... well I don't think we would be together because it would be too exhausting trying not to make each other jeleous..... did that make any sense? 😂💜
Jungkook find it romantic.... and end up with marriage 🤣🤣
Haha Suga😂😂 Such a cutie
No one likes a jealous man Jungkook. It shows your insecurities and controlling nature. Since this conversation is for fun and he came to the conclusion that someone would end up getting married I don't think he was very serious. However if he will be that jealous/insecure in real life I feel sorry for Jungkook's future partner.
Feel bad for Jimin then, he literally spent the whole time looking at him angry
@@dingdong-jg1ys why would Jimin be mad? Jimin didn't even say much, just that he wouldn't notice because he would be eating or that he would ask his partner to do the same for him. Jimin laughed so hard his chair broke when JK came to the absurd conclusion that someone would get married because of this. He wasn't angry at anyone.
"Future partner"? 😭 he obviously got that annoyed because he was thinking of his partner. But yeah I agree with you lol.
@@TheLaurinha2012yeah maybe, I just went with future because there is nothing offical. Let's be honest, the guys aren't innocent virgins and anyone can make the time to date if it is a priority to them. The fans who think otherwise are just delusional. I'm just curious how they are able to keep it silent. They have very few dating scandals as well. I always get the feeling HYBE has some type of deal with dispatch or the press in general.
@@princely.jimin95 You're right, Hybe definitely has something with Dispatch + their korean fans are very protective so even if they see them with their partners, they won't say anything until it's confirmed. But with the recent dating scandal I believe this might not be the case anymore and relationships might get confirmed in the near future.
00:35 Suga
Im more of yg and jin but with the shrimp peeling...idk I would prolly be kinda feel uncomfy especially if my lover and that friend isn't that close to begin with but I still wouldn't throw hands or smthn' lol
When people ask me about this, my answer was literally Jhope answer 🤣
No matter how many times I watch this, it’s hilarious 😂😂😂😭
This will never not be funny 😂😂 JK is so adamant.
Why can't everyone just peel a layer of perilla leaf on their own... then no one needs to help them and flirt fall in love and get married 🤣🤣🤣🤣
As much as I was laughing, I think I might the only one thinking “don’t you have hands that work?!” Maybe it’s a Korean thing, I don’t know but I have to say if you trust each other, there’s nothing to worry about. Anywho this was hilarious 😂
I don't really know what's going on. Lol
Not fans finding it cute jk and v answer lol hyung line are confident men
Where I can watch this whole interview??? Can someone share the link...I want with English translation...
Here is the link
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@@seven4371 the translation is in korean...
I just lost a little faith in humanity 🤣😂🤣😂 same hobi same
Well it's funny that jk is possessive but Jhope said most practical and heart touching thing 🎉
Why Am I Watching This?
Can't understand "Perila Leaf Talk"
printah sruk kan angkat say
So,so,funny, so so human🙂🙃🙂🙃 it's ok ,it's ok haha 💜💜💜
1:13 seokjin fez uma cara de "ah pelo amor de deus meu filho"
Jungook is not having it 🤣🤣🤣
i felt as if jimin was trying to explain and get support. was he guilty? loved all their responses.... but JK oh dear, that possessiveness and jealousy will not make for long stanging relationship. i feel for his significant other... now who peeled the perilla leaf for who??? upsetting kookie???
Hmmm I think I agree with JK, although not necessarily because I believe that helping your friend with perilla leaves would lead to an affair etc. Helping someone with their food is a fairly intimate gesture that I'd personally reserve for a few - my partner, siblings, parents, and doing it with an acquaintance or a friend does seem inappropriate and awkward and it might give out the wrong impression. To me it's similar to helping a man with his tie, a woman with her dress zipper.. It's not about the act, but the context. It's different from, for example, driving a friend home at night, where doing otherwise could potentially put him/her in real danger - separating perilla leaves and peeling shrimp are much more easier to achieve without anyone's assistance than making it home safely at midnight.. no?
It's funny but I understand JK's being possesive, because he is young and often get's jealous even with his hyungs
I mean, I get why Kookie would say no. Have you seen his 97 line friends??? lol!!
which episode is this?
BTS MBTI lab 2
Drama is part n parcel of our daily life such a thing can happen too
Its not to good to entertain such stuffs i would be annoyed too😂😊
I can't handle suga face 😂😂😂
I'm tae 🙂
I feel in one year this will be new kdrama....
well the 2 youngest ones are not so mature yet..still d jealous type😅 hmm..maybe bcoz some girls they see r also flirty and they just want to prevent unwanted issues..
It's like a girlfriend asking her boyfriend friend to cut her steak. We do these things for our s/o not anyone else. ask your bf not his friend. Totally agree with jk.
But that wasn't the question. The question was do you think your significant other should help your friend, not the other way around. So lets say you are a girl who has a boyfriend and you're there with your friend and she can't cut her steak is it okay for your boyfriend to help her.
@@crystalsnow1138 I think it's fine. But I understand V tho, the problem here is the saliva... you used your used chopstick to pick a piece of food that someone else's going to eat? I think the culture in Korea is a bit different, but I won't want to eat something that has been touched by others' chopsticks.
Jk is quite funny, maybe the culture in Korea is that like an unspoken rule, you only help peeling perilla leaves if you're close enough or comfortable enough with this other person u're going to help with... so JK said no, bcs JK knew the moment you decide to help that person means the moment you're getting so comfortable with that person (high chance it will be in a more romantic way) that's why in his mind it could lead to marriage. I think.
But even so the worst is not being able to peel shrimp. If you don't know how to peel shrimp and have to ask another woman to peel them for you, just don't order shrimp... you don't deserve to eat it.
Umm can someone enlighten me what the context here is?
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This particular question/segment starts at 20:57. They're discussing how they would react if their partner helped their friend peel a perilla leaf. I guess it's considered something some people believe only partners should do for each other.
I'm not Korean, but from now I gather ,the debate is how would you feel if your out with your significant other and your friend to eat and your friend served your significant other cooked a perilla leaf ?(it's sticky when it's cooked and you used to wrap cooked rice and meat to eat) maybe it's the equivalent of serving food or cutting steak for your partner right infront of you!
They were given a situation and were asked what would be their response in that situation. The situation is- "my significant other(your partner) helping my friend peel off a perilla leaf ( Korean food) when I am there - is it Okay vs not Okay"
Lol.. I d be like Tae ( my bias)...hv a little fight...
@@mrsbenedictcumberbatch9565 oh no... but everyone here in the comment says it's childish...
What was Rm's answer?? I really didn't get it though!!!
Can't they just use two hands
One hand holds them and the other hand separate it
Why should even other person need to help when they can do it themselves
What even is a perilla leaf...🤔????