Selena Gomez pushes back on body shaming attacks | Nightline

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  • The singer and actress shared her personal struggle with social platforms in a recent interview and how she is standing up for herself.
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  • @spinningpeach01
    @spinningpeach01 ปีที่แล้ว +5301

    weight fluctuation is NATURAL and NORMAL. Selena has always been so beautiful. I can't believe people have actually been body shaming her lately. She's stunning.

    • @melparkerr
      @melparkerr ปีที่แล้ว +60

      thank you for the first sentence. i've fluctuated my whole life and i get mad at myself

    • @MrMannyhw
      @MrMannyhw ปีที่แล้ว

      Selena is such a nice person. The other ladies are a bunch of mean girls and bring people down to make themselves feel better.

    • @kateroonie8324
      @kateroonie8324 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      She has always been so gorgeous no matter what part of her life she's in!!!

    • @serenadevon
      @serenadevon ปีที่แล้ว +49

      That's right!! If people care less of how people look & more of who they are, the world would be a better place!

    • @katjay3125
      @katjay3125 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      No its not

  • @brittanyneiswinger3561
    @brittanyneiswinger3561 ปีที่แล้ว +1442

    She's not even fat! She's a healthy weight. She looks fine. She has Lupus. Her body is constantly fighting against itself. She looks great honestly. I know that she has a lot of struggles physically but she's doing a good job and she looks great.

    • @Cocolivesy6
      @Cocolivesy6 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Brittany The thing is selena doesn't care about her body anymore,she is Jung food lover & put all the blame to lupus ! Going Online playing victim card, hating hailey with selenator fandom doesn't make her mental health properous.!!

    • @sherryd.3425
      @sherryd.3425 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      She is beautiful! Only truly envious and misguided and self-shaming women would fault her.

    • @aishabea7118
      @aishabea7118 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      You said it 👏 👏👏

    • @RetroNBA42
      @RetroNBA42 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wow, must be so hard for her!

    • @sugarplum2467
      @sugarplum2467 ปีที่แล้ว

      She has a very large stomach which is the number one risk for heart disease. You may think she looks fine and look preferences vary from person to person but from a medical standpoint she is obese.

  • @krissy0628
    @krissy0628 ปีที่แล้ว +474

    Ive never wanted someone to succeed more than Selena. So graceful and humble for real

    • @baltimoreravens4eva560
      @baltimoreravens4eva560 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yep. So humble and down to earth, considering she probably can't event get off the ground

    • @lifeislife489
      @lifeislife489 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She is a working progress. This is why she is so relatable because we are as well.

    • @SelenaGomezIlluminati
      @SelenaGomezIlluminati ปีที่แล้ว

      Selena is a deceiver & a hypocrite. She craves FAME & WEALTH & wants to be in the SPOTLIGHT ALWAYS. Sold her SOUL long time AGO & FOOLED the world for YEARS. TIME THE TRUTH GOT EXPOSED. Profile pic is number 666 (AntiChrist) same Illuminati symbolism that Lady Gaga, Justin, Dua Lipa & so on used.
      Selena Gomez admitted to having a "pizza" party on Ellen with Jennifer Anniston & we all know why they always talk about pizza parties. SELENA & 99% OF THE OTHER CELEBS ARE PART OF THE ILLUMINATI 🔺
      Pizza is CODE in Hollyweird. Even Obama/Hilary Clinton also used that term aka Pizzagate which means adrenochrome which means they torture/kill children to harvest the chemical adrenochrome from their blood.
      ONLY 1% WALK WITH GOD.
      Illuminati/elite runs the show. Universal, Feds, Prison systems, NBA, NFL. Kpop, Disney & Hollywood 🔺
      Entertainment industry heavily controlled by SATAN (LUCIFER)
      Companies work for the ELITES. WAKE UP CALL & PEOPLE NEED TO OPEN THEIR EYES.

    • @sexywetlook8160
      @sexywetlook8160 ปีที่แล้ว

      I love Selena’s shiny and sleek ponytail here. Looks very neat why is no one talking about it?

    • @87suzini
      @87suzini 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      💞from bottom my heart 🌼🌿🌷
      괜찮아 어느 형태든.. 사랑합니다
      = I love her No matter how she looks ⚘ beautiful brave lady

  • @katherinekubeldzis7902
    @katherinekubeldzis7902 ปีที่แล้ว +3410

    Lizzo was so right. Society has normalized cruelty. People think they can say and do whatever they want. At someone else's expense. The shaming and disrespect hurts. Kindness is better than inflicting pain on someone.

    • @jooson2826
      @jooson2826 ปีที่แล้ว +126

      Society has normalized weakness

    • @becbell1623
      @becbell1623 ปีที่แล้ว +120

      We're naturally social creatures. But there's nothing natural or social about online trolling. It's allowing people the ability to say hateful things without any repercussions

    • @dajajones3840
      @dajajones3840 ปีที่แล้ว +107

      @@jooson2826 Kindness isn’t weakness! Please be nice

    • @reyesquits
      @reyesquits ปีที่แล้ว +29

      WHY PEOPLE ARE BEING BODY SHAMER to other people when their own MOTHER or FATHER has been FAT too? Shame on them. 🤷‍♂️🤷‍♀️🤷

    • @jooson2826
      @jooson2826 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@dajajones3840 Never implied that. Work on your reading comprehension.

  • @kateroonie8324
    @kateroonie8324 ปีที่แล้ว +1182

    She got popular as a teen and I think people have zero understanding of how people's bodies accept and process food as you grow up into an adult. I grew up with Selena and see how my body has changed and I think I just realize people don't accept any sort of deviation from your teenage body. It's sadness and I hope we can move forward to accepting changing bodies

    • @reyesquits
      @reyesquits ปีที่แล้ว +10

      SELENA always helps other PEOPLE, even in Africa ❤️ she donates here earnings on cooking SHOW for CHARITY. And never to forget to THANK her FANS.
      WE LOVE HER 🥰 🥰🥰

    • @suzan-x3i
      @suzan-x3i ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Girl she's literally sick and this is the medication's side effect, she's been an adult over 25 since 2019 so being adult is not the reason in her case, didnt watch the video?

    • @lixm_is.thebest5196
      @lixm_is.thebest5196 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      @@suzan-x3i yeah but that also plays a part your body isn't gonna be the same as if you were a teen and the fact that she has medication that make's her gain weight also play's a big part

    • @AS-kf1ol
      @AS-kf1ol ปีที่แล้ว +40

      @@suzan-x3i you just proved the original commentors point, she doesn't need an excuse even WITHOUT medication her body was going to change. It literally happens to everyone.

    • @madnitv9855
      @madnitv9855 ปีที่แล้ว

      bit.ly/3JeRpVU

  • @trisharafisura6140
    @trisharafisura6140 ปีที่แล้ว +110

    She is a living proof how wonderful life is, how happy to be still alive in this world even how hard her condition is. She's very strong despite how burden the world can give her, She's one of a kind. Spreading the positivity to the world even she's already suffering from her condition. She stand up to speak herself for body shaming because of her condition, She bravely want others to reflect herself today. Thank you for inspiring us Miss Selena Gomez 🥰 Stay kind hearted and Brave🙏

    • @SelenaGomezIlluminati
      @SelenaGomezIlluminati ปีที่แล้ว

      Selena is a deceiver & a hypocrite. She craves FAME & WEALTH & wants to be in the SPOTLIGHT ALWAYS. Sold her SOUL long time AGO & FOOLED the world for YEARS. TIME THE TRUTH GOT EXPOSED. Profile pic is number 666 (AntiChrist) same Illuminati symbolism that Lady Gaga, Justin, Dua Lipa & so on used.
      Selena Gomez admitted to having a "pizza" party on Ellen with Jennifer Anniston & we all know why they always talk about pizza parties. SELENA & 99% OF THE OTHER CELEBS ARE PART OF THE ILLUMINATI 🔺
      Pizza is CODE in Hollyweird. Even Obama/Hilary Clinton also used that term aka Pizzagate which means adrenochrome which means they torture/kill children to harvest the chemical adrenochrome from their blood.
      ONLY 1% WALK WITH GOD
      Illuminati/elite runs the show. Universal, Feds, Prison systems, NBA, NFL. Kpop, Disney & Hollywood 🔺
      Entertainment industry heavily controlled by SATAN (LUCIFER)
      Companies work for the ELITES. WAKE UP CALL & PEOPLE NEED TO OPEN THEIR EYES.

  • @sierrayoung1467
    @sierrayoung1467 ปีที่แล้ว +741

    I met Selena in the early 2000's on the set of Wizards of Waverly Place and I told her she was my favorite, to which she replied "Oh, I don't deserve that". I've looked up to her grace and humility ever since, and she keeps surprising me with her strength in being so real and vulnerable. She is an example of maturity and kindness that we need in this society, I love her!

    • @yaretzicontreras99
      @yaretzicontreras99 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      It came out in 2007 lol you're making me feel old 😅 I used to love watching it after school

    • @carlycasper7884
      @carlycasper7884 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@yaretzicontreras99 I feel like most of WOWP fans were born in the early 2000’s or at least late 90’s.

    • @yaretzicontreras99
      @yaretzicontreras99 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@carlycasper7884 i was born in '99 so I was like 8 when it came out it's just crazy how time flies

    • @Saifull1991
      @Saifull1991 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Any evidence of your statement?

    • @raiter8495
      @raiter8495 ปีที่แล้ว

      🤦‍♂️

  • @SapphireLyric
    @SapphireLyric ปีที่แล้ว +831

    I have lupus and it's a struggle to even be able to walk and function some days. Selena is a 30 year old woman not a 13 year old girl. Grown women have curves (especially us women of color). I'm so proud of her for not giving into malicious ignorant fools and trying to starve herself to fit unrealistic beauty standards. Kudos Selena 💜

    • @Lapinettepetitbébé
      @Lapinettepetitbébé ปีที่แล้ว +9

      You don't need to starve yourself to be fit.just eating healthy and exercise more...

    • @k.p.9990
      @k.p.9990 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      I have RA, during a flare up I was put on prednisone which caused a 'plate face orangutangue' look. At one point I had a allergic reaction to a medication, I was severely anemic and due to my RA affecting my jaws I wasnt able to eat much for 12 wks plus I didnt have a appetite. Sooo round puffy face skin n bones, extremely pale with large raised purplish hives all over my body. I felt like a leper😢

    • @TheMeghanleigh
      @TheMeghanleigh ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@k.p.9990 💜

    • @nate2759
      @nate2759 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@k.p.9990 Sorry that you had to go through that. Beauty comes from within ❤

    • @ivyc.6936
      @ivyc.6936 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      I also have Lupus and other autoimmune disorders and it is very rough and on top dealing with all the pain, symptoms mental and physical and on top of all that the rude comments from people. It’s not easy. 😢

  • @helenarichard
    @helenarichard ปีที่แล้ว +345

    I don't think many realize just how important her influence is. Because she is so beautiful, smart, kind, etc. she shows that bad things can happen to literally anyone, no matter what you do. She also shines a light on lupus, a mysterious illness that is often misdiagnosed as CFS. I suffered from weight gain due to anti depressants and I went through many chronic illnesses like adrenal fatigue, Tietze, leaky gut and iron deficiency. My dad has lupus and my brother only has one kidney so she gave me the idea to get tested for lupus myself! Thank you Selena.

    • @opinionsandfaxc
      @opinionsandfaxc ปีที่แล้ว +6

      she isn't that smart or kind.

    • @nathancosta36
      @nathancosta36 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@opinionsandfaxc If you can't be kind, be quiet.

    • @_mnl_
      @_mnl_ ปีที่แล้ว

      go on a diet

    • @mish375
      @mish375 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      ​@@nathancosta36 He or she is prob referring to Selena treating the friend who gave her a kidney badly. But that doesn't have anything to do with the video.

    • @brontasaurus2560
      @brontasaurus2560 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@opinionsandfaxc and you're ugly inside and out.

  • @ashleyecoffey8738
    @ashleyecoffey8738 ปีที่แล้ว +709

    This girl has gone through so much. My heart goes out to her.

    • @oskien0714
      @oskien0714 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Gone through so much? Do tell.

    • @pas_du_tout
      @pas_du_tout ปีที่แล้ว +22

      ​@Oskien0 She could've died due to Lupus. Autoimmune diseases aren't a walk in the park. She's been working since childhood to support her family. Big responsibility for a child. What did you do with your life? Being a troll on the Internet?

    • @oskien0714
      @oskien0714 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      @@pas_du_tout what I did with my life was live in reality not worship celebrities try and grow up if you can smh

    • @cartergomez5390
      @cartergomez5390 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I always tell people that she's my cousin ❤

    • @rumiayika2527
      @rumiayika2527 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Selena is doing great, compared to the problem she is going through, her body is ok, at her age she looks very good and beautiful. Please, guys, give her a break.

  • @Sticky-Situation
    @Sticky-Situation ปีที่แล้ว +471

    I am so proud of Selena. She's been our lives for years, from Barney, to Wizards, to her music, acting, to activism... It's been great to see her evolving. ❤

    • @yeranep9443
      @yeranep9443 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Selena is a beautiful round uncle chips face😅

    • @jonthelowww8394
      @jonthelowww8394 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Very well said!!!Our family just loves this girl,sweetheart, role model,beautiful woman❤She is a gem in my eyes to future woman.Truly beautiful inside and out.💗

    • @Назар-э4у4е
      @Назар-э4у4е ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Im proud of all burgers and nutella she put in her big belly

    • @Jack-tk1is
      @Jack-tk1is ปีที่แล้ว

      This all is just Marketing to promote her Beauty brand to Ugly girls

    • @gritdog
      @gritdog ปีที่แล้ว

      She got fat

  • @denarendall
    @denarendall ปีที่แล้ว +115

    The amount of criticism this poor girl has been bombarded with for years is heartbreaking. She is an ANGEL, it’s so undeserved! When will people wake up to the fact that celebrities are humans with feelings?

    • @thettproject4534
      @thettproject4534 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      She’s not an ANGEL, she comments on tiktok videos of girls saying horrible things about people! She commented “Love you” on a video of girl calling Kylie Jenner a closeted lesbian..

    • @candidobertetti27
      @candidobertetti27 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@thettproject4534 Jeez.. get a life, she's a person with all the complexity that this brings to the table. But what about you? Are you any better than her? Does stalking celebrities and defaming them on the web make you a good person?

    • @victorialee1323
      @victorialee1323 ปีที่แล้ว

      You are right that celebrities are humans with feelings, but lot of people just don't care.

  • @Winter-aka-Winnie
    @Winter-aka-Winnie ปีที่แล้ว +281

    Bullying is always a reflection of the bullies. Jealousy self hate etc. Selena is love and light and wants to save people from hurt and be a strong advocate for others.. love her❤

    • @daleskac4483
      @daleskac4483 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Who bullied her? Bc her fandom is like way too many people and her haters barely exist

    • @Winter-aka-Winnie
      @Winter-aka-Winnie ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@daleskac4483 😑

    • @Winter-aka-Winnie
      @Winter-aka-Winnie ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@daleskac4483 Idk just all the body shamers that the video references. Did you watch the video?

    • @spookybeans
      @spookybeans ปีที่แล้ว

      @@daleskac4483 have you ever been on twitter

    • @daleskac4483
      @daleskac4483 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@Winter-aka-Winnie plenty of celebs struggle with the same but theyare not talked as much as selena

  • @V.E.R.O.
    @V.E.R.O. ปีที่แล้ว +352

    I don't understand people who criticize someone else's weight as if it had anything to do with themselves. People already know they're overweight, there's no need to tell them about it!

    • @SickandTired95
      @SickandTired95 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Exxxxactly.

    • @LifeOfAStan101
      @LifeOfAStan101 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      It's bc they're insecure themselves and they would rather pick apart someone else's life than fix their own

    • @reyesquits
      @reyesquits ปีที่แล้ว +6

      WHY PEOPLE ARE BEING BODY SHAMER to other people when their own MOTHER or FATHER has been FAT too? Shame on them. 🤷‍♂️🤷‍♀️🤷

    • @meowbahhyt
      @meowbahhyt ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Truth is Selena let herself go lol meow 😺 Why do you watch tea because you can

    • @yasminflower5140
      @yasminflower5140 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      ​@@meowbahhytyour opinion 🚮

  • @celeste9473
    @celeste9473 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Selena has been through so much and is such an inspiration, I’m glad there is someone like her that is so vulnerable and candid. Nobody realises how much health issues affect the body until they go through it. It’s so cruel how people have attacked this woman during all her health struggles and she has still continued to stay strong.

  • @pebblestappa2825
    @pebblestappa2825 ปีที่แล้ว +325

    I admire her strength and us ordinary people have no idea the pressure she's under...Be Kind❤️

    • @Dustinwhy8
      @Dustinwhy8 ปีที่แล้ว

      You’re an idiot

    • @MoMo-rx4zr
      @MoMo-rx4zr ปีที่แล้ว +10

      us ordinary people don’t have the money to treat these conditions the way she does with the best doctors 🙄

    • @neozephyrus
      @neozephyrus ปีที่แล้ว +6

      we all struggle in different ways

    • @littlekermit5025
      @littlekermit5025 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yep, it might be suck living under pressure of the number on her bank account 😢

    • @reyesquits
      @reyesquits ปีที่แล้ว

      ​​​@@VetementsEth Why PEOPLE ARE BEING BODY SHAMER to other people when their own MOTHER or FATHER is fat too? Are they shaming their own parents?? 🤷🤷‍♀️🤷‍♂️

  • @blu_ranger71
    @blu_ranger71 ปีที่แล้ว +139

    I typically don't pay attention to celebs but I met Selena when she was on tour like 10 years ago. She was so nice and made everyone feel welcome. I always hope she's doing well.

    • @opinionsandfaxc
      @opinionsandfaxc ปีที่แล้ว +3

      she's changed for the worse since then

  • @PiDsPagePrototypes
    @PiDsPagePrototypes ปีที่แล้ว +54

    True beauty comes from deep inside, and Selena has more then enough. For the body side, she's gone from being the cute girl who grew up in the public eye, to a stunning woman who holds herself with grace and poise. From the red blooded male perspective, dang, she fine with curves, one powerful figure of a woman.

  • @nikiw4510
    @nikiw4510 ปีที่แล้ว +332

    Selena is a different kind of celebrity. She’s so real and humble I love her. One of the only female celebrities I genuinely respect. It’s sad because she’s not even “fat”. God bless

    • @Anon0nline
      @Anon0nline ปีที่แล้ว +12

      She snubbed the woman that donated a kidney to her.

    • @opinionsandfaxc
      @opinionsandfaxc ปีที่แล้ว +1

      she's not humble and she is overweight

    • @barkamber554
      @barkamber554 ปีที่แล้ว

      Selena has thanked her countless of times even bought the lady and her mother new homes the friend wanted Selena to lick her ass 24/7 and that's not gonna happen

    • @katherinemcdonnell6333
      @katherinemcdonnell6333 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes, you've mentioned that about 5 times now. And it's spelled SNUBBED, not "subbed".

    • @Anon0nline
      @Anon0nline ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@katherinemcdonnell6333 A simple typo, which you seem fixated on. I mentioned it in different replies. Can't have too many people making a saint out of such a selfish person.

  • @Kermit938
    @Kermit938 ปีที่แล้ว +203

    She’s so inspiring and I love how she doesn’t just speak for her self, but for others who can’t

    • @mrbigbankuchiface_3352
      @mrbigbankuchiface_3352 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Transgender

    • @ilovemintt
      @ilovemintt ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I think that's why I look up to her as role model. She's so amazing , talented .

  • @shadyabrown-hall5955
    @shadyabrown-hall5955 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    It's nice to see a young star like her be raw and honest about her struggles and make body acceptance a great thing.
    Everyone's weight changes. Go Salena.

  • @moodyqueenqueenmoodyqueenq7187
    @moodyqueenqueenmoodyqueenq7187 ปีที่แล้ว +171

    She is a beautiful human being. I hope she is healthy and happy after all these lessons she had to learn.

    • @raraka828
      @raraka828 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      it's called rebranding, finding another way to stay relevant when her best bod years are behind her

    • @britneyshropshire7984
      @britneyshropshire7984 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@raraka828 I mean she’s still relevant because she’s talented. It was never about her body. Where are you behind all this? Still behind your little screen yes.

    • @traclpackage5075
      @traclpackage5075 ปีที่แล้ว

      Press x to doubt

    • @raraka828
      @raraka828 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@britneyshropshire7984 look at her now, she ain't as Hot as she used to be. wake up and smell the coffee Miss snowflake

  • @Morris774
    @Morris774 ปีที่แล้ว +112

    Selena we love you, you are beautiful inside and out. I have CKD 4, 1 kidney functions at 40 percent on bypass. The weight I gain from the water weight. All the surgery, the pain. Born with it. But it’s my super power because I’m alive and 9 generations of my family didn’t make it to my age. So I’m grateful to you Selena for speaking on illness, body shaming and your amazing spirit and honesty. I thank you for sharing. I pray you stay healthy and happy. Keep living your best life. ❤️❤️

    • @Nimmi_bro
      @Nimmi_bro ปีที่แล้ว +4

      You will my dear, you look strong💪 keep going and rest and sleep well.

    • @Kat-zi2tb
      @Kat-zi2tb ปีที่แล้ว

      9 generations? I do think it's selfish your family have had kids if knew gonna suffer with it though.

    • @jeanetteh.9240
      @jeanetteh.9240 ปีที่แล้ว

      Please remember that not everyone understands your abbreviation.

    • @karoldoyo4551
      @karoldoyo4551 ปีที่แล้ว

      ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

  • @yiandrea84
    @yiandrea84 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Selena Gomez is an amazing human being. She is incredibly talented as well. Thank you for making a difference by sharing your struggles. It probably doesn’t come easily, but I know she’s sharing so that she can help others as well. Thank you.

  • @mariemar4552
    @mariemar4552 ปีที่แล้ว +136

    Selena has the most beautiful soul I can feel it every time I see her speak. How people can be so cruel to her is crazy to me. She’s a literal angel❤

    • @Anon0nline
      @Anon0nline ปีที่แล้ว +4

      She subbed the woman that donated a kidney to her.

  • @adelina7970
    @adelina7970 ปีที่แล้ว +226

    Other people shame us but we also shame ourselves. I wish she would talk about that more also. Our insecurities don’t just come from other people they come from us.

    • @aliciaaltom6652
      @aliciaaltom6652 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      So true! I feel this

    • @reyesquits
      @reyesquits ปีที่แล้ว

      WHY PEOPLE ARE BEING BODY SHAMER to other people when their own MOTHER or FATHER has been FAT too? Shame on them. 🤷‍♂️🤷‍♀️🤷

    • @Berighteousone
      @Berighteousone ปีที่แล้ว +2

      She's a hero LOLOLOL

    • @Berighteousone
      @Berighteousone ปีที่แล้ว

      @SERVANT OF GOD Selena is a satanic sellout and you claim to know God?

    • @nate2759
      @nate2759 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I’m not overweight but, I have Irritable Bowel Syndrome “IBS”, and due to that I am always bloated. I’m constantly asked if I’m pregnant particularly after having a meal. The first hundred times I didn’t get a offended because I understood why people asked but, after a thousand times of people asking it hurts.

  • @alexismarie3195
    @alexismarie3195 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    She's done amazing things given her transplant/rejection meds/lupus. Just phenomenal. It's honestly none of our business about her meds/weight changes. Grateful she's alive. Grateful she's a great role model.

  • @monny21
    @monny21 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    It is NEVER ok to comment on someone else's appearance, whether it is weight gain, weight loss, some wrinkles or grey hair. You never know how your comment can affect the person you are talking to or about.
    I experienced this first hand when I was suffering from anorexia, I clearly remember how every comment about how thin I had become was like a stab in my heart and made me want to be invisible. When I was recovering I gained a couple of kilos - and it showed apparently, cause everyone kept on asking me if I was pregnant. Not only this slowed down my recovery A LOT, but at the same time I was also suffering cause I was told that I couldn't have children.
    It is true that if you have nothing nice to say, you better not say anything at all.

  • @angelspinola8597
    @angelspinola8597 ปีที่แล้ว +659

    Love Selena, autoimmune disease is no walk in the park. The meds can be very bizarre in changing your body. No shame. She steps forward and is helping so many of us through her positivity and care for others. Amazing human being.

    • @lofimilkymil
      @lofimilkymil ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Hashimoto's disease here. It's horrible. Sometimes I get to be so skinny, and other times fat. It's horrible and I can't control it. I get comments like "ohh skinny you look better", "ohh you look better with more weight on", "are you anorexic on recovery?". People can be cruel and most of them don't even have a clue that I have faced seasons where I'm hospitalized and I've been near death.

    • @helenarichard
      @helenarichard ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yes I took cortisol for adrenal fatigue and it is mean. Misdiagnosis is another yummy one.

    • @taradical
      @taradical ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@lofimilkymil i also have hashimotos & im 87 pounds. i’ve gone to doctor after doctor to figure out the root cause of why i can’t put on weight & nobody can give me answers. it’s EXHAUSTING. my heart is with you.

    • @mcentepede
      @mcentepede ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I will take your word for it. She did say she has a disease which accelerated her weight gain and caused physical changes for sure. But like I said before she is a celebrity so her fans and haters will pick on her. Comes with the territory

    • @Anon0nline
      @Anon0nline ปีที่แล้ว +2

      She subbed the woman that donated a kidney to her.

  • @Potato33370
    @Potato33370 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    She is amazing. Many of us struggle with feeling accepted and the mental health challenges that accompany that. I love and respect her so much for showcasing this happens to people like her that we all tend to believe don’t go through these struggles, but here she is to show they do too. It’s beautiful and creates a sense of solidarity amongst her fans, followers, or anyone that hears her story. ❤

  • @zammitv8637
    @zammitv8637 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    Selena Gomez is such a beautiful person inside and out. I really love her.❤

    • @melarie205
      @melarie205 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @Damdumps face reveal? bet you look like shrek’s second cousin

    • @jooson2826
      @jooson2826 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ​@Damdumps Very true. Not talented either.

    • @reyesquits
      @reyesquits ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ​@@damdumps3566WHY PEOPLE ARE BEING BODY SHAMER to other people when their own MOTHER or FATHER has been FAT too? Shame on them. 🤷‍♂️🤷‍♀️🤷

    • @reyesquits
      @reyesquits ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@jooson2826Your MOM HAS BEEN FAT when she carried you in her tummies 🤷‍♂️

  • @emilygray89
    @emilygray89 ปีที่แล้ว +119

    Nothing but love for this authentic and inspirational women!! ❤ she’s saying what needs to be heard! Love Selena!

  • @CallHerDayli
    @CallHerDayli ปีที่แล้ว +2

    She is so beautiful & that body is BANGING! I hope she knows! Sending her love!

  • @serenadevon
    @serenadevon ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I lost 2 aunt's to lupus.😢 It's better to be alive & loving life than being criticized with how a person looks!🙏

  • @blondi681
    @blondi681 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    Selena is a class act. I’ve always loved her. She is so beautiful and vulnerable. This is what a true human being is ♥️

    • @opinionsandfaxc
      @opinionsandfaxc ปีที่แล้ว +2

      a class act who incited hate by going on TikTok and stirring up drama by liking and commenting nice things on hateful posts

    • @sarah45856
      @sarah45856 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@opinionsandfaxc hailey and the jenners started it

  • @joeyjo7553
    @joeyjo7553 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Even though she’s a super mega pop star/actress I’ve always seen her as a normal girl( of course she’s a normal human just like you and me) but she’s the most normal celebrity I’ve ever seen. Love her authenticity and kind heart ❤️

  • @raytang76
    @raytang76 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I too suffer from weight gain and loss up and down and it's frustrating! Do to my meds. I take it has side effect of often bloating! I can't stand it sometime! As for Selena I can relate, so I support you! Stay strong girl...your'e beautiful inside and out!

  • @debbiecreter2005
    @debbiecreter2005 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    People who are mean and hateful are just reflecting how miserable they are with themselves. People who love and care about themselves lift up other people with kindness and love and greatly contribute to the goodness this world needs!

  • @courtneybell3492
    @courtneybell3492 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I've gained over 40 lbs after getting clean and sober this year and I'm sooo insecure about it. My man loves me the way I am which means everything. I'm slowing making changes. I needed this. Thank u Selena❤

  • @meranda9804
    @meranda9804 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    I love this. I struggle with body image. I always compare myself to others. My goal is to love myself no matter what ❤

    • @DemureDarlings
      @DemureDarlings ปีที่แล้ว +3

      It’s so weird how different cultures view weight😫BEING THICK IS A MUST IN THE BLACK COMMUNITY ❤THANK GOD WE CAN CARRY A LITTLE WEIGHT AND I MEAN A LITTLEEEEEEEEE AND NOT BE JUDGED, BUT BEING SKINNY GETS SO RIDICULED 😢

    • @nate2759
      @nate2759 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Please don’t compare yourself, you are beautifully and wonderfully made.

    • @debunkingfaddiets
      @debunkingfaddiets ปีที่แล้ว

      @@DemureDarlings Yeah, all your community does is sit on the likes of twitter penis size shaming men to mental illness for what they can't even help about their bodies, all day.
      Good thing you's have normalized obesity though in women, thats healthy lol

  • @crystalalvarez3790
    @crystalalvarez3790 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    She’s so beautiful. It’s a shame women are judged more harshly on looks than men. Let’s be honest, men don’t get as much grief about this subject. I hope Selena finds peace and know she’s more than enough ❤

    • @simerdeepsingh3379
      @simerdeepsingh3379 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      thats coz men know very well looks height skin tone fashion sense all of this can be average in men but money needs to be never ending ......the same way men are judged more than women based on their earnings ......every second modern women on this planet wants rich dude and goes on to judge men based on the same

    • @shannalilliston8996
      @shannalilliston8996 ปีที่แล้ว

      Men do too. Look at Justin Bieber. Poor guy can't even have pimples or be skinny without people saying he's on crack

    • @alexraj9436
      @alexraj9436 ปีที่แล้ว

      Men get judge less harshly? A fat chick can join tinder and still get rawdogged the same night. I’m 5 foot 11 and still get rejected for being short. Imagine the men who are under 5 foot 5 and balding. Men have it way worse in the dating market but always women are the victim

    • @candidobertetti27
      @candidobertetti27 ปีที่แล้ว

      No, you are not being honest. Men do get judged very harshly for so many reasons. We get discriminated because of our height, the size of our genitalia, our hair (the struggle of the bald men to get accepted is as old as the human species), our earnings, and so on. You should blame haters, but making up a race between genders just makes you one.

  • @annamosqueda3313
    @annamosqueda3313 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I think the more we learn to accept all our flaws, the more we learn to love ourselves and nothing, or no one can make us feel less. 😊 With respect and admiration 🙏 for Selena Gomez, her beautiful heart is beyond measure. No amount of money can buy that kind of beauty ❤

  • @nevadawest
    @nevadawest ปีที่แล้ว +12

    The amount of people that follow her every move is so suffocating I’m extremely proud that she is staying alive during these attacks

  • @cassi94
    @cassi94 ปีที่แล้ว +146

    If social media has done anything, it’s really made it clear just how many people are living with evil in their hearts. It’s scary honestly. Sociopathic lifeless vessels who get dopamine rushes by hurting someone and putting them through pain. It’s disgusting.

    • @MH_6160
      @MH_6160 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      very true…

    • @Cest_Moi
      @Cest_Moi ปีที่แล้ว +6

      If you know that is what awaits your post, why post? If you know sharks are in the water, why dive in? You don't need social media to be happy. Just live your life and enjoy it. Literally no need to post about it.

    • @vojithananayakkara1399
      @vojithananayakkara1399 ปีที่แล้ว

      Bruh, imagine using social media as a metric to gauge out how many people are evil..

    • @debunkingfaddiets
      @debunkingfaddiets ปีที่แล้ว

      This is what happens when we encourage and validate women to bully and body shame others lol
      Toxic feminism.

    • @EfeFlet
      @EfeFlet ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ​@@Cest_Moi I think the problem is every kind of post get this reaction. You can't say or do anything without getting attacked. I understand not wanting to use social media, but not using social media because evil people will hurt you is not the way. Don't use social media because you don't want it or don't need it, not because rude people lash out at you unprovoked. That's their problem to manage, not yours

  • @peacenlove8146
    @peacenlove8146 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Your beautiful. The haters should be ashamed and embarrassed by their words. Be real. Be you. Your real fans will always love you. I am a fellow Texan.

  • @BrianJones-wk8cx
    @BrianJones-wk8cx ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Such a beautiful human. While it’s easy to dismiss pop stars as superficial celebrities, Ms. Gomez reminds us that substance, empathy, and consideration can be as fashionable as airbrushed music videos.

  • @selenag473
    @selenag473 ปีที่แล้ว +132

    The world is changing to be more accepting, thanks to people like Selena. 👑

    • @reyesquits
      @reyesquits ปีที่แล้ว +3

      WHY PEOPLE ARE BEING BODY SHAMER to other people when their own MOTHER or FATHER has been FAT too? Shame on them.

    • @reyesquits
      @reyesquits ปีที่แล้ว +1

      SELENA always helps other PEOPLE, even in Africa ❤️ she donates here earnings on cooking SHOW for CHARITY. And never to forget to THANK her FANS.
      WE LOVE HER 🥰 🥰🥰

    • @reyesquits
      @reyesquits ปีที่แล้ว +1

      SELENA always helps other PEOPLE, even in Africa ❤️ she donates here earnings on cooking SHOW for CHARITY. And never to forget to THANK her FANS.
      WE LOVE HER 🥰 🥰🥰

    • @Berighteousone
      @Berighteousone ปีที่แล้ว +9

      She's such a victim.

    • @jewbego5323
      @jewbego5323 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Selena died in 1995. We're not sure who this imposter is.

  • @gracekingara6601
    @gracekingara6601 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wow, this girl Selena is so young yet so wise. Wish you the best Selena, a good example.

    • @Broadtolove
      @Broadtolove ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi Grace! I'm not sure if this is the right place to talk about this, but I came across your channel and I would love to get to know you better. I'm guessing that you must be an honest person, because I always find your comments to be so positive and respectful. If it's okay with you, I'd love to be friends-but if it sounds weird or embarrassing in any way please don't embarrass me by replying. Have a wonderful day, and keep sharing!

  • @sherrryann
    @sherrryann ปีที่แล้ว +63

    selena's literally one of the most kind hearted, down to earth, & picture perfect people in existence, despite having severe & alarming health conditions that would knock most people out & down permanently just waiting for death. she could be 250 lbs & still be a flawless role model to girls & women everywhere, globally.

    • @aspenrobinson8797
      @aspenrobinson8797 ปีที่แล้ว

      I don't think the lady that gave her a kidney to save her life agrees with you. Selena used Francia dirty and really hurt her, but you all don't care about that , you only believe Selena is perfect and can do no wrong .
      rlrna dropped her a year later and even lidted Taylor as her only best fritnd who dupporfz her throuğh it all . She has used Francia dorty and statred not receivkng her calls a year after the trsnsplant . Selena is not as sweet and innocent as yoj sll think .

    • @opinionsandfaxc
      @opinionsandfaxc ปีที่แล้ว +1

      she over exaggerates her conditions lmaoo..she can't handle being called fat and makes this much of a fuss about it?? and she isn't kind either

  • @ruthmelicharles5062
    @ruthmelicharles5062 ปีที่แล้ว +75

    I love Selena, absolutely. She's doing a good deed by opening up.
    Sometimes we forget that celebrities are human too. Yes, they have money, influence, and fame, but they also feel.
    Only 5 days ago, I found so many reasons why I didn't want to live anymore. I was finally at that place, and it was scary.
    I didn't hide that feeling. I shared it with my friends and followers on Facebook. I wanted them to know that though I am viewed as a strong person, I, too, get vulnerable.
    Social media has positives, but online bullying strips you down to nothing, and that hurts.

    • @elroropuerosvergasos7464
      @elroropuerosvergasos7464 ปีที่แล้ว

      Good deed you say???? Watch Sloan's channel....then come back to the comments if you still feel the same about her.

  • @thehealinggarden7850
    @thehealinggarden7850 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I've always loved Selena from the first time I saw her on Disney she always seemed so magical to me.Much love and respect for her speaking up about this

  • @brittanylight2629
    @brittanylight2629 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    People have no idea what auto immune disorders do to a body. It's catastrophic. But because we appear so "normal" to other people, a lot of assumptions are made about how people do or do not suffer with auto immune diseases.

    • @SickandTired95
      @SickandTired95 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Absolutely! It’s the struggle of having an “invisible” illness.

    • @black-db2my
      @black-db2my ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Well said, I have lupus ,when I tell people they don't understand/ believe it ,as u said we appear so normal ,I got to the point I'm tired to explain to them

    • @reyesquits
      @reyesquits ปีที่แล้ว

      WHY PEOPLE ARE BEING BODY SHAMER to other people when their own MOTHER or FATHER has been FAT too? ARE THEY SHAMING THEIR OWN PARENTS?? 🤷‍♂️🤷‍♀️🤷

    • @reyesquits
      @reyesquits ปีที่แล้ว +2

      SELENA always helps other PEOPLE, even in Africa ❤️ she donates here earnings on cooking SHOW for CHARITY. And never to forget to THANK her FANS.
      WE LOVE HER 🥰 🥰🥰

    • @savanahmurray4099
      @savanahmurray4099 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yep. I don’t have lupus but type one diabetes some days are okay others feel likes it’s killing me

  • @mikeweir3680
    @mikeweir3680 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I find her to be an extremely bright light, and one of the most couragous young ladies that the planet has to offer...And I hope she gets all the strength she needs to deal with the issues of her health...Everybody has to stop this worlds influx of crap, eliminate our egos, and just get on with our lives...Cheerz Selena!!

  • @basiceconomicsfinancial9882
    @basiceconomicsfinancial9882 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Selena, Miley Cyrus , Taylor Swift, Avril, Rihanna, Lady Gaga, Katy Perry , Shakira, Beyonce, Adelle, Becky G , are the real artist that we grew up with their songs❤ from 2006 till now

  • @rayneebranch9690
    @rayneebranch9690 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    She is GORGEOUS regardless of her size. Her heart is beautiful, her smile is contagious and her mission is spot on!

  • @PookieDoll
    @PookieDoll ปีที่แล้ว +23

    I love this woman so much she so freaking strong I wish her happiness, love and joy in abundance.🥺💞😍😩💗

  • @angelinaangeles3639
    @angelinaangeles3639 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    This brings tears to my eyes 😢 she definitely deserve happiness and peace ☮️

  • @krystaldaniels7940
    @krystaldaniels7940 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    I 100% feel her pain! Ive been on prednisone to keep my Lupus in check for years. I was always the skinny girl, 103 was my normal weight. In my early to mid 30s i gained up to 145lbs!!! My face is round, i dont even recognize my face in the mirror.

    • @diyac9554
      @diyac9554 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I’m back on it tonight. My flare hit a new pain level high, and I’ve been stuck in bed for 4 days. It sucks. I can’t imagine how Selena does all the things she does even with an entourage. There’s so much the body just won’t do. #lupussucks 💜🥄🥄🥄🥄

  • @acat3652
    @acat3652 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    Selena has inspired many of us. When I was diagnosed with a condition and I felt like I lost everything I'm not gonna live a normal life again, then I saw salena and some other celebrities with similar conditions who shared their stories. It gave me hope at that time.and now I'm doing so much better.

    • @Rain_Reign
      @Rain_Reign ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I’m so glad you’re doing better love 🥰 I have a chronic illness too and I’ve also found so much inspiration in Selena. She’s amazing, we’re amazing!! Sending you love today ♥️

    • @acat3652
      @acat3652 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Rain_Reign thank you 💕

  • @Firewalkwithme44
    @Firewalkwithme44 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    she's amazing it's so sick how people can be hateful towards her appearance. absolute insanity. dealing with an illness, as well as past eating disorders, people's appearance fluctuates, why can't other women just support women in being the healthiest they can and not fucking shaming. sick. she's incredible how she can stay strong through that.

  • @jude5909
    @jude5909 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    The biggest thing I noticed about Selena Gomez is her heart. An amazing human who has gone through hell and back in the public eye.

  • @pamelamugo9627
    @pamelamugo9627 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Being a depression patient, I feel really bad for what this beautiful, hardworking, lovely, mentor, perfect, strong ...... girl is going through 😢. Loads of love ❤️ from Africa 🌍 kenya 🇰🇪 darling selina ❤.
    God's grace is always sufficient 🙏

  • @rodrigomosquedajr.2306
    @rodrigomosquedajr.2306 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Selena Gomez is my favorite singer I love her movies and her show a lot I always care about her a lot I went y'all met her one of these days

  • @rgrateful
    @rgrateful ปีที่แล้ว +119

    I have worked as a wardrobe stylist off and on throughout my life with Celebrities. There is not one perfect human being. Everyone is unique and beautiful. I have also worked as a nurse. People's health changes over a course in a life time. The human body is constantly changing. Bullying others for weight loss or weight gain is pure evil. We as women should lift each other up. Everyone is going through a journey. I admire Selena for speaking out about body shaming. In this time in our World, we could all spread love and positive vibes to one another. Love sent to every soul that reads this❤❤❤Please carry this on❤.

    • @Rain_Reign
      @Rain_Reign ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yesss 👏🏻👏🏻♥️

    • @Tutiwashername
      @Tutiwashername ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Don’t forget men shaming us as well

    • @cara7356
      @cara7356 ปีที่แล้ว

      There is no perfect human... except for that bee-otch Romee Strijd! And a lot of girls get depressed looking at her social.

    • @ALinn-vr3nl
      @ALinn-vr3nl ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Tutiwashername Yes, that's where it starts. Men policiing women's bodies, and then women doing it to themselves and other women, because that's the message we've received.

    • @bvegannow1936
      @bvegannow1936 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Legalize public nudity. People should not shame the nude body in public . Thick looks better anyway

  • @raytang76
    @raytang76 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    Social media can be real cruel and mean! Especially to those of fame and power! I hope Selena nothing, but well and may she continue to thrive in life! God bless her soul!

    • @jewbego5323
      @jewbego5323 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      This isn't Selena. She passed away.

    • @katjay3125
      @katjay3125 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yup....the replacement

    • @reyesquits
      @reyesquits ปีที่แล้ว

      WHY PEOPLE ARE BEING BODY SHAMER to other people when their own MOTHER or FATHER has been FAT too? Shame on them. 🤷‍♂️🤷‍♀️🤷

    • @Black____
      @Black____ ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jewbego5323
      Huh?

  • @libraz83
    @libraz83 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    ✨Selena Is On Her Way To Becoming The Much Needed Inspiration The World Needs✨
    🤘🥰✨✌🏼💪

  • @brandontaylor4924
    @brandontaylor4924 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    It’s great to see Selena taking her struggles and turning them into relatable positive situations for all. she’s really doing things to change the stigma on mental health and lupus. Genuine people go a long way. Beautiful inside and out. Love her. ❤

  • @RochelleRosenbledt
    @RochelleRosenbledt ปีที่แล้ว +22

    It’s terrible that there’s so much focus on her image from everyone. People can be so cruel and ridiculous. ❤ to Selena!

    • @debunkingfaddiets
      @debunkingfaddiets ปีที่แล้ว

      The majority of these women in the comments have no problem body shaming, penis size shaming and publically humiliating men for things they can never help about their bodies ironically
      Different story when its fat shaming to a woman though right. Then its cruel and ridiculous, but when these women are penis size shaming and humiliating some poor guy for what he can't help just to devalue, degrade, dehumanize these men to mental illness its funny and socially acceptable behavior in women.

  • @israel172251
    @israel172251 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    SELENA IS SO UNIQUE , BEAUTIFUL, AND SMART, TALENTED ❤ HATERS WISH TO BE LIKE HER!!!

  • @tinachristine7966
    @tinachristine7966 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    Such a humble and beautiful hearted queen.!!! We love you, Selena !! ❤

  • @deborahtorres276
    @deborahtorres276 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Selena’s a natural beauty and seems so down to earth💜😌

  • @elletruh9082
    @elletruh9082 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    She's really a sweetheart... Team Selena Gomez 🇵🇭❤️

  • @pumaamore
    @pumaamore ปีที่แล้ว +6

    how come when selena makes cryptic post about jb (whenever he gets in a new relationship), no body thought it was bullying. when jb posted that he was engaged, she posted something about him. now the wife retaliates, she's a bully?!! seriously.

  • @Jen-e-sis
    @Jen-e-sis ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I’m not really someone into the whole celebrity thing but I have to admit of all the celebrities she’s the most admirable soul I’ve seen so I do pay attention to her stuff, she inspires me

  • @wendymcconnaughy1584
    @wendymcconnaughy1584 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    She's just unbelievable amazing we love you Queen Selena your perfect just the way you are you have a heart of gold you inspire so many woman God Bless you sweetie

  • @ZenZenPai
    @ZenZenPai ปีที่แล้ว +27

    The thing is that they have nothing more to say than bodyshaming her, she is a good person, talented with an incredible heart and above all she is true to herself and that's hard to find in a person who is in everyone's eyes 24/7 . If someone like Hailey and Kiley talk and act like they're 15 years old on the internet, I mean, what can you expect from those people?

  • @stateofsurvival8457
    @stateofsurvival8457 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    agree...social media is toxic.

  • @LiveByDesign
    @LiveByDesign ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Selena is beautiful and in multiple ways is leaving a beautiful impact on the world through her talent, openness and philanthropy! She should always feel proud of herself!

  • @Frogette555
    @Frogette555 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    So many won't accept that weight gain can come from so many medications. It's sad. I wish the creators of meds that do this will wake up and fix it

  • @NN-hl6nt
    @NN-hl6nt ปีที่แล้ว +32

    I really relate with Selena here. I have Autoimmune Hepatitis and at the age of 21 I was put on high dose of steroids which changed my appearance over night. Due to water retention I put on so much weight, started getting so much acne and breakouts that ruined my skin. In school everyone noticed the change and I was called ugly and fat, even some of my friends started to distance themselves from me. These things causes depression and anxiety even if you are not a bipolar. Now I am dealing with those things much better than I did at that time when I was only 21 at the prime of my adult life when I was supposed to feel pretty. Life is so unfair but it is what it is

    • @liudmilagyu
      @liudmilagyu ปีที่แล้ว

      Oh dear I hope it will be fine. The world can be so cruel. To be honest I still can't understand how people still judge eachother qualities meaning just appearance which standards change every year.

    • @yaritzamiranda921
      @yaritzamiranda921 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I can relate as well. I have Dermatomyositis and I have to take Prednisone for life, the moon face is the worst. I also had to take an antidepressant 10 years ago that messed up my weight severely. The irony is that doctor's tell you to exercise and eat more healthy but at the same time they pump you up with medication that affect your appetite and make you gain weight no matter what
      But as I always say better fat than dead ✌️.

    • @NN-hl6nt
      @NN-hl6nt ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@yaritzamiranda921 So true, I hate this pill and I would't wish this upon my worse enemy

  • @cjceeez9897
    @cjceeez9897 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    my wife went through chemo therapy. lost about 40 pounds. 4 chemo therapy treatments later, and she looks healthy now, but we are still very careful.
    i have coworkers who made nasty comments and spread rumours during this time. toxic people are just unhappy with their own existence.
    We have a new CIO, lets call him Eminem. His latest statement to us, was covid is over. Disregarding everyone in the meeting that has pre existing health conditions.
    the topper. we are in healthcare. our cio fails to understand that immuno-compromised individuals are still addressing covid.
    Some people are just ignorant to everyone elses needs.

    • @ctgctg1
      @ctgctg1 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      So sorry.

    • @cjceeez9897
      @cjceeez9897 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Ctg Ctg thank you, kind human.

  • @originalgoldengoddess
    @originalgoldengoddess ปีที่แล้ว +5

    She's so beautiful inside and outside!!! And very very inspiring 👏🏽 🙌🏽 when it comes to mental illness she is not alone ❤🕯

  • @elitephantom9690
    @elitephantom9690 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    I can’t believe the plastics been bullying her. Selena is kind and beautiful in and out.

    • @shanelgarcia
      @shanelgarcia ปีที่แล้ว

      That’s not true just fans taking things out of context to create their own narratives, those models have been suffering from bullying way more than Selena Gomez has

    • @elitephantom9690
      @elitephantom9690 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@shanelgarcia if not true, then why celebrities are unfollowed these bullies too? Please wake up and stop supporting the bullies!

    • @shanelgarcia
      @shanelgarcia ปีที่แล้ว

      @@elitephantom9690 maybe you need to wake up, I’m not a sheep to follow and support people just because they have the public’s sympathy when I saw that woman go. On a comment spreed that caused massive bullying for others just out of the blue before they posted or commented anything

    • @elitephantom9690
      @elitephantom9690 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@shanelgarcia Hailey brought all this situation upon herself. She bullies and shades others far too many times and people need to see that her behaviour is not acceptable. Hence why other celebrities unfollowed her because she’s not a nice person.

    • @shanelgarcia
      @shanelgarcia ปีที่แล้ว

      @@elitephantom9690 she literally has done nothing if the eyebrows thing was intentional it was Kylie not her you all are looking for excuses to bully women

  • @lynnie6120
    @lynnie6120 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    As a person who also has lupus, medications that help us deal with the symptoms of lupus cause weight gain. Lupus also causes skin issues & more. It’s a constant battle & it’s not easy.
    I’m disgusted by people like Hailey Bieber, Kylie & Kendal Jenner who have body shamed Selena!
    I’d love to see how they’d deal with a life threatening illness that causes so many different issues.
    I love Selena & her openness about so many things. We need more Selena’s & less Hailey Biber’s & Kendal & Kylie Jenner.

  • @julsc2106
    @julsc2106 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I'm shocked that she's not happy with herself. She's gorgeous ❤

  • @giogirl7836
    @giogirl7836 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Selena we love you ❤… eres una mujer grandiosa . Gracias por ser tu y no pretender algo que no eres. Such a beautiful woman ❤

  • @BlackCat-aka-Jewels
    @BlackCat-aka-Jewels ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Why oh why are people picking on Selena? Stop being jerks and bullys. Period.

  • @greylizard1040
    @greylizard1040 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    There needs to be more value placed on personality and positive behavior than appearance. In all media. It's good to see stories like this, although it is sad that she and so many other young people have gone through so much shaming in their careers.

  • @keeprising8668
    @keeprising8668 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Why not give the real singers the credit instead of trying to trick people into clicking on this video with a fraud title?

  • @MrJitendra007
    @MrJitendra007 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I always liked her and i will. She has a great heart and a great personality... ❤

  • @LeeK--W
    @LeeK--W ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Im getting tired of miss Victim everywhere...

  • @omilei
    @omilei ปีที่แล้ว +15

    #selenagomez is gorgeous! She has accomplished so much in her 30 years on this earth! God bless her, and all those beautiful women and men who are struggling with body shaming. Shaming someone's body is not okay. Being cruel is NOT okay in any situation.

  • @elianasheri2019
    @elianasheri2019 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    So inspiring! So proud of Selena Gomez.

  • @Ghostgurl90
    @Ghostgurl90 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Honestly, I am glad that they are covering online bullying. Especially hearing that celebrities go through this. I think people need to realize that these are people too. They are not just their for your entertainment. And I don't think any person should be judging someone my their appearance.

    • @reyesquits
      @reyesquits ปีที่แล้ว

      WHY PEOPLE ARE BEING BODY SHAMER to other people when their own MOTHER or FATHER has been FAT too? ARE THEY SHAMING THEIR OWN PARENTS?? 🤷‍♂️🤷‍♀️🤷

    • @incogspectator3042
      @incogspectator3042 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@reyesquitsLmao! 😂 if you need to be in a gym take your ass to the gym and stfu complaining. Otherwise make your page private and post where only friends ACTUAL FRIENDS can see. If many of you didn't just let anyone be your friends so they can see your silly posts you wouldn't have this issue but thus women and their need for daily attention like a pet dog. You're attached to social media for attention and yet can't handle whatever blows your way smh....pathetic.

    • @debunkingfaddiets
      @debunkingfaddiets ปีที่แล้ว

      All modern women do is judge and grade your entire value based on superficial shallow body attributes from your penis size to your height to your looks.
      If you don't conform to most of these womens toxic maschismo massively endowed girth "standards", then of course you are a worthless loser of no value who exists for the purpose to be bullied and body shamed by women all day for what you can't help or even change about your body.
      Whilst they moan about how unfair Hollywoods unrealistic beauty standards are lol

    • @user-nz8gr7em6o
      @user-nz8gr7em6o ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I just wish these could also be applied to her fans bullying other people back in order to defend selena. Don't get me wrong, her points ARE definitely valid. But it's kinda contradictory on how her fans behave towards others. If she wants to advocate for spreading love, why not also advocate it towards her fans? They're shaming how other people look like just to bring her up. It's really hypocritical.

  • @rosecoloredtimes
    @rosecoloredtimes ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Selena is so beautiful, and it’s so inspiring how she goes over the top again and again to set a beautiful and wonderful example. God bless her.
    Lizzo is amazing too.

  • @jaymitaylor9937
    @jaymitaylor9937 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love Selena Gomez so much i recently just found out that i tested positive for lupus and I’m very nervous about it but seeing how Selena speaks positivity into everything it just makes me feel a sense of comfort and she is such a beautiful woman inside and out ❤

  • @johnnysope8690
    @johnnysope8690 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Selena died in 1995. This isn't Selena.

  • @Jennifer-hv2bc
    @Jennifer-hv2bc ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Selina's always been a positive role model for so many young girl's and grown women a like. So many of us have trauma, medical and mental issues that are already hard enough to deal with much less having others make us feel like we're the broken one's. Maybe one day the meds we need won't make some of us lose weight and some of us gain weight. Until then we need to help each other remember that we're not alone and do our best not to listen to our hater's. 💙🙏💙🙏💙

  • @teresarosier6453
    @teresarosier6453 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You r a beautiful person well done for speaking out x

  • @yvette1097
    @yvette1097 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    May she be blessed and continue to feel better. She is beautiful and so much stronger than the rich spoiled brats that are trying to bring her down. Karma is around spoiled brats. 🙏🤗