The Toxic Pick Me Girl Anthem ✋

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    Today we take a look at a TikTok trend that is just so low. This is the supposed ugly vs pretty tik tok trend where girls compare themselves to bad pictures of the girls their exes moved on to and yup its pick me and toxic.
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  • @RebalD
    @RebalD  2 ปีที่แล้ว +11420

    *Bestie idk if we're talking to each other, or if I'm just speaking at you*
    i hope its a two way convo lolol Also- ever met a pick me?

    • @jeylabocharova6438
      @jeylabocharova6438 2 ปีที่แล้ว +141

      BESTIEEE ILYSM

    • @bobby-anndouglas8742
      @bobby-anndouglas8742 2 ปีที่แล้ว +98

      Yes bestie 🤗

    • @ysqrrl
      @ysqrrl 2 ปีที่แล้ว +82

      I'm talking 😻‼️

    • @snowyVixXue
      @snowyVixXue 2 ปีที่แล้ว +178

      Yes definitely. It was this one gurl that could not mind her own business and tried to date the most guys in school

    • @that1purplegirl
      @that1purplegirl 2 ปีที่แล้ว +152

      Bestie I was the pick me shh don’t say a word 😀
      Edit: not in the video’s context like Uwu 🥺🥺👉👈 the girl who does things for attention from everyone not just guys 💀😭

  • @mooma10
    @mooma10 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27911

    Imagine being so insecure you have to call another girl ugly to feel prettier with yourself

    • @XD4697.
      @XD4697. 2 ปีที่แล้ว +423

      English tip:) You don't have to add "with yourself" at the end but yeaaa, imagine...

    • @913_Niyala
      @913_Niyala 2 ปีที่แล้ว +366

      and social media only makes it worse...

    • @mooma10
      @mooma10 2 ปีที่แล้ว +268

      @@XD4697. Thank you♥️

    • @finnrogue9435
      @finnrogue9435 2 ปีที่แล้ว +223

      you just described most bullies

    • @rosaduva
      @rosaduva 2 ปีที่แล้ว +605

      Also imagine doing it while having a full face of makeup on plus a filter, then comparing it to a random unedited photo of the other girl. The insecurity cannot get any more obvious💀

  • @evangeline8193
    @evangeline8193 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10935

    "Internalized misogyny will never be a flex" YESSS

    • @slytherinoutsoldalltheothe9271
      @slytherinoutsoldalltheothe9271 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      1.4 k likes but no comments!!!!!! I changed that lol 😏😏😏

    • @chloerosee_
      @chloerosee_ ปีที่แล้ว +11

      FRRRRRRR your a vibe

    • @chloerosee_
      @chloerosee_ ปีที่แล้ว +18

      also if thats you on your profile picture i love your hair!

    • @chloerosee_
      @chloerosee_ ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @@evangeline8193 yeah i have hair similar to that but yours is so clean and perfect i swearrr it looks amazing!

    • @sammysmith6437
      @sammysmith6437 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      *Piper McClean has left the chat*

  • @katherinehughes8664
    @katherinehughes8664 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7007

    I like how the “pretty ones” were smothered with filters, and how the “ugly” ones had no filters and were comfortable with their natural beauty

    • @ARG23supreme
      @ARG23supreme ปีที่แล้ว

      Most of those girls weren't even cheated on, they just find a radom girl who they find less attractive so they could say "look how hot I am".

    • @davioncarvalho6890
      @davioncarvalho6890 ปีที่แล้ว +397

      That's why from a young age, I forced myself into to the mindset of "natural beauty" is beautiful and now look at me,A decent human being

    • @sevenhostagetomatoesinbasement
      @sevenhostagetomatoesinbasement ปีที่แล้ว +197

      @@davioncarvalho6890 Hello, decent human being. Pleasure meeting you.

    • @davioncarvalho6890
      @davioncarvalho6890 ปีที่แล้ว +111

      @@sevenhostagetomatoesinbasement Hello,nice to meet you

    • @cherilynsarts8845
      @cherilynsarts8845 ปีที่แล้ว +77

      @@davioncarvalho6890 Although you did turn out "decent". pick me people comes in all shapes and sizes so that means they can still drag people who just wears make up down and it's equally bad.

  • @squidyb3981
    @squidyb3981 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +793

    I love how Rebal sounds like Mickey Mouse in his girl voice, it’s beautiful 😭🤣

    • @TheBuddiz
      @TheBuddiz 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

      I was looking for this comment 😂😂😂

    • @rachelisrael8987
      @rachelisrael8987 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Right! He has a future at Disney if he ever gets tired of TH-cam lol 😂😂😂

    • @shinnaclawthorne
      @shinnaclawthorne 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Rebal's side job confirmed😂

    • @carolmaikel
      @carolmaikel 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I literally replayed the moments he read comments in his girl voice to hear it as Mickey's voice.. And it's hella accurate loll😂

  • @rae7782
    @rae7782 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11543

    the "pretty girls" are typically wearing full face makeup, false lashes, extensions etc and then they're using pictures of the other girls in their natural state 🙄 😑 like so childish

    • @queenofhearts7503
      @queenofhearts7503 2 ปีที่แล้ว +367

      Facts

    • @everleigh5327
      @everleigh5327 2 ปีที่แล้ว +326

      This RIGHT HEREEEE

    • @shaniacool8661
      @shaniacool8661 2 ปีที่แล้ว +161

      Exactly

    • @Hella505popolsku
      @Hella505popolsku 2 ปีที่แล้ว +141

      That's what I was thinking! THANK YOU

    • @alinamaria3085
      @alinamaria3085 2 ปีที่แล้ว +284

      Full makeup or not doesn't matter, it just comes down to being kind. 😌

  • @Vardhina
    @Vardhina 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22038

    she's like "my music is for the baddie" gurl a "Baddie" is a high level woman who don't need to bring other women down to feel better... she in fact LIFT OTHER WOMAN UP!
    edit: didn't expect to get this many likes. there's discourse about what a "baddie" means and seems like it's different for some people im sure originally it means different thing like a literal baddie or "badass" or like a hot girl on instagram and as times changed so is the definition but this definition or traits is what i believe/understand at least in this time period.
    also i didn't mean to say "high level" like "high value" like every woman have some level like hierarchy that's not what i meant. i didn't know the definition for this kind of woman who is aware enough of the effects of patriarchy and or someone who is so sure and secure of herself that she doesn't need to bring others down. yes i am bilingual so it's hard sometimes to find the right words and form a compact sentence that's easy to understand. thank you thank you peace and luv

  • @thejohoe96
    @thejohoe96 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +315

    If my dude left me, then he left. Ain't no way I'm finna make my entire identity bashing him and his new girl. Insecurity at its finest.

  • @BLU3B3LL
    @BLU3B3LL ปีที่แล้ว +395

    In my opinion the greatest revenge on being cheated on is moving on with grace and be happy on your own. This girl is awful. Women who tear down other women....just pathetic. Being so obsessed with your exs new girl is extremely embarrassing. How is she not embarrassed??
    Yes i know she wasn't cheated on. Just speaking generally

    • @hudalovestodraw3249
      @hudalovestodraw3249 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      Ikr? She should be ashamed of herself

    • @Just_Natts
      @Just_Natts วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@hudalovestodraw3249 frfr

  • @sakurafan000
    @sakurafan000 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19784

    It´s really funny how girls in this trend only use really flattering pictures of themselves, all styled up, full glam make up,, filters etc. and compare that to the most unflattering pictures of the other girls. Screams insecure to me. And the funniest thing is that some of the ´downgrade´ girls looked stunning even in those rather unflattering photos. Just take the L and move on.
    Edit: Bestie I'm famous T.T

    • @mariahmaestas9573
      @mariahmaestas9573 2 ปีที่แล้ว +756

      Deadass what i was think

    • @GrimReaper-gl9ed
      @GrimReaper-gl9ed 2 ปีที่แล้ว +731

      fr thats just so messed up maybe its the reason they got cheated on in the first place maybe the other girl has a better personality he can relate too

    • @blaNkEuLa
      @blaNkEuLa 2 ปีที่แล้ว +560

      @@GrimReaper-gl9ed xD Could be but that doesnt make cheating okay lol

    • @euphorsia
      @euphorsia 2 ปีที่แล้ว +98

      Someone had to say it‼️

    • @smolincubusbf4901
      @smolincubusbf4901 2 ปีที่แล้ว +167

      Yeah they have to be extremely insecure to be such a pick me girl

  • @gloxx02
    @gloxx02 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7010

    *It's the fact that she put her private life out there and when people have opinions suddenly it's not our business*

    • @deaddumplings5565
      @deaddumplings5565 2 ปีที่แล้ว +83

      Yesss😂

    • @gari727
      @gari727 2 ปีที่แล้ว +174

      Every celebrity ever

    • @DreyNova
      @DreyNova ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@gari727 not true

    • @DreyNova
      @DreyNova ปีที่แล้ว +7

      fr

    • @KBeautyyy
      @KBeautyyy ปีที่แล้ว +45

      @@DreyNova kinda is tho

  • @lyndsay._.x
    @lyndsay._.x 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +94

    My big sister always told me that being mean was ugly and these people are proving that. You can be the most beautiful woman in the world but when you bully or harass someone it brings you lower and makes the way others view you tank. Suddenly that pretty face is associated with mean behavior and you personality is associated with the toxic words that come from your mouth.

    • @birthofvenus_
      @birthofvenus_ หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Your sister is clearly a very smart lady- this is just the truth

  • @catherined.3677
    @catherined.3677 ปีที่แล้ว +157

    Them showing pretty selfie with makeup + filters , then showing the other girl in a bad angle, no makeup no filter, just shows how insecure they are x)

  • @nasal_
    @nasal_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16958

    As someone who has gotten cheated on, I don’t understand why people blame the other girl/guy only? Like even if the third person instigated, it’s your partner who decided to cheat. Be mad at them, not just the other person- yikes on trikes

    • @youtubemoyblya7718
      @youtubemoyblya7718 2 ปีที่แล้ว +970

      yeah even if the person knew, then they're just evil let it go, your partner is responsible first off because they did it when offered

    • @terranceorwhatever60
      @terranceorwhatever60 2 ปีที่แล้ว +588

      Especially if the third person was lied to by ur s/o about not dating anybody

    • @vintagegangsteryn381
      @vintagegangsteryn381 2 ปีที่แล้ว +60

      So true

    • @totallygre
      @totallygre 2 ปีที่แล้ว +464

      i got cheated on, but since he cheated on me with my best friend, it hit different lol. i felt more betrayed by my friend because we knew each other for years while that guy and i only dated for like, 3 months?? idk, she was more important to me than my ex. but still, i blame them both equally djsfkjs

    • @nasal_
      @nasal_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +352

      @@totallygre Oh dude, I’m sorry to hear that. Yeah that’s definitely a different situation since you were close to the other person- I hope things are better now ;;

  • @rHamUK
    @rHamUK 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9448

    I called a customer "bestie" today and no joke he turned to me and said "Rebal?" And we stood talking about your videos for almost 30 minutes. Besties are everywhere 😌 love from Northern Ireland aka the UK 💕

    • @monito3575
      @monito3575 2 ปีที่แล้ว +462

      Imagine he sees the comment now too😯

    • @rowletghrass4858
      @rowletghrass4858 2 ปีที่แล้ว +337

      im sorry i read "customer" as counsellor, i was zamn fr😳

    • @rHamUK
      @rHamUK 2 ปีที่แล้ว +247

      @@monito3575 Honestly he probably will! he said he has notifs on too so that'd be funny if he saw

    • @rHamUK
      @rHamUK 2 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      @@rowletghrass4858 I- 😲

    • @blueroses4373
      @blueroses4373 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      This is so amazing sjsjsjajnskzjc 😭

  • @scarlo4901
    @scarlo4901 ปีที่แล้ว +89

    14:50 "Ya'L DounT kNoUr WhAyt i Went ThrouGhhu"

  • @Chrisbeanie
    @Chrisbeanie ปีที่แล้ว +79

    3:25 get someone to look at you like how rebal looks at his mic 🙏

    • @Idk-idc233
      @Idk-idc233 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      I THOUGHT NO ONE WOULD SAY THAT 😭 I WAS CRINGING 💀

  • @CarmenRey8
    @CarmenRey8 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7436

    Petition for Rebal to bring back the "what a fox" sound

  • @jinanhasan7
    @jinanhasan7 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13968

    Her boyfriend "cheating" on her is now her whole personality and fame like LITERALLY.
    EDIT: THE FACT THAT HE DIDN'T EVEN CHEAT TOOK EVERYTHING TO A WHOLE DIFFERENT LEVEL OF EMBARRASSMENT

    • @justanotherclipschannel
      @justanotherclipschannel 2 ปีที่แล้ว +841

      and the worst part is he didn't even cheat😭

    • @jinanhasan7
      @jinanhasan7 2 ปีที่แล้ว +353

      @@justanotherclipschannel
      I commented while watching the video before knowing that he didn't even cheat 💀💔😩🤢

    • @roserain7034
      @roserain7034 2 ปีที่แล้ว +626

      Girl, even if he cheated, is the girl he cheating with aware? Sometimes, some of these girls don't know but if they do know, I guess they are trash but the guy is even trasher. Why the girls getting the heat while the guy literally gets away with the crime. Notice how her lyrics only talk bad about the girl but not the guy? Lyrics like that make her seem desperate for his attention back. She doesn't feel disrespected that he cheated on her but rather that he cheated on her on a girl she THINKs is ugly.

    • @jinanhasan7
      @jinanhasan7 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @@roserain7034
      Yeah I talked about this in another comment
      The fact that what grilled her and pissed her off is that the girl he "cheated" on her with is "ugly" ..and the fact that he didn't even cheat but she is still talking and posting about it .. tells how ignorant and shallow she is .

    • @Firelupe4ever
      @Firelupe4ever 2 ปีที่แล้ว +174

      @@roserain7034 You're absolutely right about cases where both girls don't even know about it. I was once in a situation where a guy was messing around with both me and a friend of mine. We were both suspicious, but didn't want to believe it. I cut things off with him, and they officially started dating. They broke up after 2 years, and I opened up to her about the possible overlap. We are both now very close, and hate his guts together.

  • @kajeejegan201
    @kajeejegan201 ปีที่แล้ว +154

    I’m so confused now. I’m called a pick me at an all girls school for having a weird personality and THIS is what a pick me really is? Now I’m mad for not standing up for myself.

    • @ladycobrana852
      @ladycobrana852 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Pick mes can be in opposite sides of the spectrum. They can either demonize femininity and pretend to be “one of the boys” and make fun of girls that like normal things women might like or be hyper feminine and believe if they are more pretty and submissive they will get the man, usually they will spill the same misogynistic shit some men believe. Obviously, being either more masculine or feminine is not wrong, plus hobbies aren’t divided by gender but these girl just don’t see that and will tear themselves apart for that sweet, sweet male validation. You sound like you don’t, you live how you want to live.

    • @CarolinaHernandez-bv1nh
      @CarolinaHernandez-bv1nh 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      People get called pick mes when they’re not all the time. Married women are called pick mes. People with bfs even single people. It started out because a few women or feminists were upset at the word “simp” even though simp was gender neutral and started using the word pick me to refer to women who simply put other women down (supposedly) but it can also be referred to people who “try” to act differently from women in general.

    • @colinejayne
      @colinejayne 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      There isn’t just one definition of a pick me imo.

    • @KirstinthePainter-jz8iq
      @KirstinthePainter-jz8iq 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Same, but I'm at a co ed school.

    • @Maya_hee
      @Maya_hee 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@CarolinaHernandez-bv1nh pick me didn't start because of the word "simp" and pick me cannot be used for women who are simply different. Where you getting your weird info takes from?

  • @g_frog11
    @g_frog11 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    The way the “pretty girls” use a picture of them with a full face of makeup, many times also a filter, then use a picture of another girl just being silly like hello 😭

    • @s3ren1tyy
      @s3ren1tyy 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      FRRR

  • @camilaaltonmartelet7202
    @camilaaltonmartelet7202 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4789

    Literally as women we need to protect each other and hype each other not bring each other down.

    • @Sarakozul2912
      @Sarakozul2912 2 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      Agree

    • @---ur1nf
      @---ur1nf 2 ปีที่แล้ว +97

      I'm not going to protect a girl who destroyed my relationship intentionally, just because she is a "woman"

    • @mika-lo9hr
      @mika-lo9hr 2 ปีที่แล้ว +121

      @@---ur1nf i agree..it’s different if he’s moved onto the girl..but if it’s a female who purposely decided to wreck my relationship .. 😟

    • @lolaWWEWWFpunk
      @lolaWWEWWFpunk 2 ปีที่แล้ว +94

      @@---ur1nf Don't protect her, just ignore her! It is the guy who cheated, not the girl. The girl didn't promise to be in a relationship with you, the guy did. It's crazy to displace anger on a woman who wasn't in a relationship with you.
      But then honesty, it depends on the relationship. Your anger should be placed on the person you love the most! If your sister/best friend destroyed your relationship, then of course it's natural to be pissed more at your sister/best friend due to the high commitment as well as the years y'all have been through.
      Either way, I hope you happiness sis

    • @zuckersaft9748
      @zuckersaft9748 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      literally dont get those pick me girls, if they would be only on tiktok, i wouldnt care - but they are everywhere destroying everything

  • @user-hx1ts9ci3w
    @user-hx1ts9ci3w 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7127

    "Y'all don't even know the full story 🙄"
    Sounds like something "that one girl" in middle school would say to pretend like she had some real depth and spice in both her life and personality.

    • @taija_m2686
      @taija_m2686 2 ปีที่แล้ว +69

      I love this comment, so true tho😂

    • @biennabito2833
      @biennabito2833 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      ikr

    • @roserain7034
      @roserain7034 2 ปีที่แล้ว +257

      When someone says "You don't know the full story" and NEVER tells the full story, it means there is no story.

    • @allyourteeth
      @allyourteeth 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      LMFAO

    • @laur-unstagenameactuallyca1587
      @laur-unstagenameactuallyca1587 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      fr and then they never tell the full story lmfao 😂😂😂

  • @elonmusktoes
    @elonmusktoes ปีที่แล้ว +21

    ''look at me'' *posts a picture with a face full of makeup*
    ''now look at her'' *posts a bad pic of them*

  • @xoxo_dd886
    @xoxo_dd886 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +36

    This is disgusting and ridiculous, how insecure and bad can someone be to show a picture of another "ugly" girl just to prove their "better" or whatever

  • @trashpanda3544
    @trashpanda3544 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1403

    "My ex got with someone uglier than me", well maybe being with you taught him that looks don't mean anything if your personality is shit.

    • @queenofhearts7503
      @queenofhearts7503 2 ปีที่แล้ว +51

      OMLLL HELLA✨😭🤣

    • @justmili713
      @justmili713 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      YASSSSS

    • @kiararenea2985
      @kiararenea2985 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      HAHA

    • @gojosatorusgirl9297
      @gojosatorusgirl9297 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Dayum 🤣

    • @avastylinson
      @avastylinson ปีที่แล้ว +33

      All these girls were less pretty then the "ugly" girls bc their personality ruined it and bc they picked the prettiest, filtered photos of them with makeup and editing done to it and for the "ugly" girl's photos they picked the bad pictures 😭😭 if the "pretty" girls showed their bad pictures too, they know dang well we ain't gonna find them prettier 💀 they're so insecure it's embarrassing

  • @simp7514
    @simp7514 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1904

    The fact that the "pick me" have photos of their ex's girfriends like how they getting their pictures 🤔💀....that just embarrassing like stop ma'm 🤚😭

    • @katiep3027
      @katiep3027 ปีที่แล้ว +80

      Great point 🤣 if they're really wanting to be pathetic like normal people they could at least just know the new girls name and look her up on social media.. but then to save the photos and post them?! So cringe!

    • @v1Iee
      @v1Iee ปีที่แล้ว +66

      fr that's how you know their trying way too hard because they have some type of insecurity😭

    • @parkchimmin7913
      @parkchimmin7913 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      They definitely stalk their ex’s social media in their free time

    • @Last.Stand.1111
      @Last.Stand.1111 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      creepy, demonic ngl

    • @highcord
      @highcord 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I don't know why you need to use quotation marks, they are diffinitely pick mes for bringing down other women and to imply that they are "BeTteR!1!"
      They are examples of pick mes without being "Not like other girls", aka the purest form of pick me.
      The pick mes that are often portayed in media are pick me + NLOG hybrid

  • @Smiley_Fruitcake
    @Smiley_Fruitcake ปีที่แล้ว +27

    literally dragging ppl on tiktok that your exes are with is so trashy no matter what happened. Just move on and let yourself heal if they're in the wrong, don't start shit

  • @ewwhatsthat
    @ewwhatsthat ปีที่แล้ว +46

    I may just be crazy..but at the 16:19 mark, that video- the girl who was "less attractive " I thought she was pretty cute. Better then the first girl in my opinion.

  • @mimoogreat9510
    @mimoogreat9510 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6419

    The only way we could get through this is that rebal is calming the situation by roasting us lmao

  • @jinanhasan7
    @jinanhasan7 2 ปีที่แล้ว +965

    "For the baddies"
    THE CRINGE THE IGNORANCE

    • @ryleeosborne1758
      @ryleeosborne1758 2 ปีที่แล้ว +125

      A real "baddie" would move on with their life and not stoop low lmao

    • @jinanhasan7
      @jinanhasan7 2 ปีที่แล้ว +55

      @@ryleeosborne1758 literally .. immature people really be out there ruining real meanings of words thinking it's "cool" 🤦

    • @ryleeosborne1758
      @ryleeosborne1758 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      @@jinanhasan7 exactly what i was thinking

    • @namjesus3789
      @namjesus3789 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Fr

    • @worstusernameintheworld9871
      @worstusernameintheworld9871 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      it's so ironic because a "baddie" is someone who's confident and independent enough to not seek validation from others (bringing down other women to uplift yourself is a good example), this girl literally just admitted to not knowing what a baddie is + is not a real "baddie"

  • @kimaneyblair550
    @kimaneyblair550 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Isn't it worse if he cheated on you with someone you deem "unattractive"☠️☠️😭

  • @suiii907
    @suiii907 2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Why does no one understand that the one who betrayed you is not worth your time? A sane person appreciates and respects himself, and the biggest mistake is on the lover, just respect yourself because it is more important than anyone.

  • @Jill_P
    @Jill_P 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3563

    If he cheated, they both did you a favor, and they will both get exactly what they deserve. But if you are comparing a pic or video where you are dressed up, made up, photoshopped, and ultra-filtered to a photo where she is purposely casual and candid, you're not reminding him what he lost. You're reminding him why he left.

    • @Candycloud_19
      @Candycloud_19 2 ปีที่แล้ว +351

      Exactly. I hate those type of girls who bring other girls down to bring themselves up 🤦‍♀️

    • @mar1nn998
      @mar1nn998 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      @@Candycloud_19 true

    • @newaccount6414
      @newaccount6414 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Based

    • @burningflower1
      @burningflower1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      THIS!!! 👏👏👏

    • @hidden-behind-wisteria2701
      @hidden-behind-wisteria2701 2 ปีที่แล้ว +162

      "you're not reminding him what he lost. You're reminding him why he left." That line sums it up absolutely perfectly

  • @areyoubewhy4457
    @areyoubewhy4457 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1752

    this may be harsh to say, but if they were petty and insecure enough to take part in this trend, then that's probably why he left 💀

    • @Trapcousindestroyer
      @Trapcousindestroyer 2 ปีที่แล้ว +73

      Maybe the person that they got with have a really fun personality

    • @thissuckslmao
      @thissuckslmao 2 ปีที่แล้ว +149

      @@Trapcousindestroyer wouldn't blame him honestly, no guy wants a partner who bashes other people for their own confidence.

    • @khamere2751
      @khamere2751 2 ปีที่แล้ว +60

      No one can blame the guy for leaving Bc who would tolerate with that personality honestly

    • @mintallylost222
      @mintallylost222 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Although I do agree with everyone in the replies, your partner being a shitty person still doesn't justify you cheating. Like bro, at least break up with them first.

    • @astra5091
      @astra5091 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Leaving is fine but cheating is never okay lol

  • @shelbyhelm5226
    @shelbyhelm5226 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    Love how Rebal goes from flirting with us to insulting our love life lmfao

  • @sh0eh0rn4
    @sh0eh0rn4 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2110

    even the most “beautiful” women in the world get cheated on. I need these girls to figure out who is REALLY at fault, and why.

    • @Uuzie
      @Uuzie ปีที่แล้ว

      If Beyonce can be cheated on then it can happen to anyone

    • @dearcomrqde
      @dearcomrqde ปีที่แล้ว +28

      exactly

    • @kxylen
      @kxylen ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Love your pfp ❗❗❗✨

    • @SeeMeRowan
      @SeeMeRowan ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Beyoncé got cheated on, I don’t think she’s the one at fault.

    • @atiyarahman3089
      @atiyarahman3089 ปีที่แล้ว +65

      @@SeeMeRowan Seriously read the comment properly. She said even prettier girl like beyonce is cheated on so the problem is not that they are not pretty. Problem is they are toxic or manipulative or the guy just wanna play around being a playboy. So it's nothing to do with being pretty. It all about the person you are with. So understand properly then comment!

  • @jules7706
    @jules7706 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1212

    this trend is extremely embarrassing 😭😭 this is why i deleted tiktok, so many toxic trends. I SIMPLY CANNOT

    • @Candycloud_19
      @Candycloud_19 2 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      I agree but there are so many amazing and talented people on TikTok. It’s the people that create these toxic trends make TikTok look like a bad and toxic app.

    • @mar1nn998
      @mar1nn998 2 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      I never downloaded it

    • @niyahcraney2098
      @niyahcraney2098 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Agreed tik tok is toxic I only watch positive things on there tho

    • @hanjizoe6266
      @hanjizoe6266 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      thats why im on anime tiktok less toxic trends unless its the mha fandom or just creeps

    • @everleigh5327
      @everleigh5327 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@hanjizoe6266 same! i only watch the genshin, filipino, and anime tiktok lol

  • @URody
    @URody ปีที่แล้ว +28

    15:06 not just a whole song but a whole personality to the cheating that never happened and made a song about her ex after 6-9 months of there break up and dissing his gf? Like there is something wrong with her

  • @stef5853
    @stef5853 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Some people fall in love with the personality rather than the person. And with that in mind I can see why some of pick-me girls were being broken up with

  • @aurora-hd9sw
    @aurora-hd9sw 2 ปีที่แล้ว +298

    “Middle school girl with internalized misogyny core” ASDFGHJKL HELP 💀

  • @AnixBunni
    @AnixBunni 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2228

    I'd like to see girls do a positive twist on this trend, like showing photos of them both being gorgeous baddies and then the song changes so that it's bashing the guy who did them both wrong, instead of bashing on each other.

    • @niyahcraney2098
      @niyahcraney2098 2 ปีที่แล้ว +59

      Hmm.. idk if I got cheated on I would just stop talking to them both maybe punch the guy in the face and the girl yea wait actually no that is kinda harsh

    • @khamere2751
      @khamere2751 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I think not tbh bashing on ur friend already hurts their feelings imagine bashing another person with the two of u together, that doesn’t rlly make anything better or a positive twist actually

    • @AnixBunni
      @AnixBunni 2 ปีที่แล้ว +57

      @@khamere2751 im not talking about bashing friends. im talking about bashing the guy who was cheating and the two women who were victim empowering each other and shaming the person who cheated on them.

    • @kaihiroku8495
      @kaihiroku8495 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I don't see the point in bashing publicly either way. As Rebal said, take your shit out privately with your ex partner. Bashing someone publicly will NEVER be a positive trend, even if the person is a cheating ass. Be the better person of the two, and move on without being toxic. Your guy/girl cheated? Good riddance man, you deserve better than a cheater, we all do. Why being salty about it online? It screams I am hurt and I need to hurt you back to feel better. You have the right to be hurt, but that gives you no right to become an ass as well. It's that kind of lame shit people pull off before calling themselves baddies I swear...

    • @AnixBunni
      @AnixBunni 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@kaihiroku8495 Okay, i'm convinced.

  • @harvikaratha1421
    @harvikaratha1421 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    5:00 Honestly, Rebal speaks facts. Your partner is responsible for not cheating because they are under an expectation to be loyal and prioritize you. However, whoever they cheated on you with does not have that same obligation to you

  • @broccoli2493
    @broccoli2493 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    The voice-overs are top tier

  • @alliumspark
    @alliumspark 2 ปีที่แล้ว +344

    “let me explain” /proceeds to choke to death

    • @infiresman4975
      @infiresman4975 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Omo you got a heart from him 😍💜

  • @Hello61Jello
    @Hello61Jello 2 ปีที่แล้ว +816

    I love how the pictures they post of themselves are pictures where their face is beat with makeup and ready to go out and then they use an unnecessarily bad photo of the other girl chillin clearly not ready and mid blink lol gurl please it really is giving insecure

    • @mlady5664
      @mlady5664 2 ปีที่แล้ว +111

      i was literally thinking that, like babe take off your make off and compare yourselves then

    • @venithy5749
      @venithy5749 2 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      @@mlady5664 more like take the makeup off, take pictures and pick the worst one you got and then compare xDD

    • @Hello61Jello
      @Hello61Jello 2 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      @@venithy5749 literally, cause honestly nothing wrong with wearing makeup since with or without women are beautiful even if they look different, but literally in those pictures the other girls were making faces and were clearly candid photos lol

    • @newaccount6414
      @newaccount6414 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      If they really wanna do this, they should've a level ground. Play fair glam on glam or no makeup and no makeup.

    • @errortryagainlater4240
      @errortryagainlater4240 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Some of the girls posting look like chavs ngl 😂💀

  • @AneesaH.
    @AneesaH. ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Sister, maybe her personality is everything he’s always wanted, and he values that much more over looks.

  • @kendrasweetandsour
    @kendrasweetandsour 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    girls need to start supporting each other like this gen is tweaking!

  • @imthethevillainofyourstory2670
    @imthethevillainofyourstory2670 2 ปีที่แล้ว +437

    I'll never talk crap about another woman over a man. simply move on

    • @breezeh1127
      @breezeh1127 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      To each their own way..

    • @Apples765
      @Apples765 2 ปีที่แล้ว +60

      @@breezeh1127 found the pick me

    • @Apples765
      @Apples765 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same

    • @breezeh1127
      @breezeh1127 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@Apples765 No man or women is gonna "pick me" for this comment. 🙄🙄 It is neutral comment about people being able to do their own thing, or whatever makes them able to get through. Handling things how THEY feel.. You need to go read the definition of "pick me girl" again. This time read Slllloooowwwllly and let it sink in. 👍🏼

    • @keishaj4143
      @keishaj4143 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Yo Breeze your comment was pretty unrelated and shady. If you prefer, we can call you Breezy the bozo, it’s pretty catchy.

  • @luanabastos4937
    @luanabastos4937 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1491

    What I love about Rebal is the fact that he WILL bash de fuck out of the trend and the people who participate in it, but then he proceeds to give perfectly healthy life advice. Like at 9:24 ("you don't have to be with a dude to be happy") and 17:33 ("if you've got scores to settle, do it off the internet").
    You're a good friend, bestie.

    • @yogurLAPIZ
      @yogurLAPIZ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      Also always humbling ourselves with those intros and keeping the update of how we still single. XD

    • @edenontheorbit9778
      @edenontheorbit9778 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Tbh yes. A good friend exactly 💯

    • @kecym.4808
      @kecym.4808 ปีที่แล้ว

      very true Patricia

  • @SQUID0NKEY
    @SQUID0NKEY ปีที่แล้ว +32

    My exgirlfriend was pretty similar... I always tried to assure her, that she's pretty and good enough... It was pretty challenging to always do that and spend all my energy on an other drama of hers. It changed my view on pick mes, because they really are in a bad place...
    but guess what? She cheated and got together with a dude, who dumped her for being a pick me girl... funny isnt it?😂

  • @Yo.Its.Nyaysha
    @Yo.Its.Nyaysha ปีที่แล้ว +11

    You know this girl is internally embarrassed by her tomfoolery💀

  • @StageNameSnowLeopard
    @StageNameSnowLeopard 2 ปีที่แล้ว +723

    “We can’t both be your type- look at me, now look at her”:
    *Shows two very different but pretty girls*

    • @lindsayrandall426
      @lindsayrandall426 2 ปีที่แล้ว +71

      Exactlyyyy, it's so stupid. Like all those girl were gorgeous. It sucks that partners who cheat have to put a drift between us girls and put us against one another

    • @alanancy
      @alanancy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @@lindsayrandall426 if you sleep with someone already KNOWING he have a girlfriend/boyfriend , then you are also to be blamed

    • @lindsayrandall426
      @lindsayrandall426 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      @@alanancy In a way, yes. Like it's both responsibility, but more or so the person who decided to cheat in the first place

    • @ll1vingdollyyy
      @ll1vingdollyyy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@alanancy it's mostly ur partner's fault for cheating in the first place, they could simply say no but no, they took the offer 💀 u never cheat on someone u love no matter what.

    • @alanancy
      @alanancy 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ll1vingdollyyy idgaf.. I gonna beat her up if she sleep with my bf by knowing the fact he already have a partner 💀

  • @shikuthetempest
    @shikuthetempest 2 ปีที่แล้ว +494

    "y'all don't even know the full story" girl, the full story makes you look WORSE.

  • @stankylaughs188
    @stankylaughs188 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Notice how half of these girl have a whole bunch of makeup on which idc about girls who wear makeup but when they start bullying other about how they look then it’s a problem. Notice how the bf now has a girl who doesn’t wear so much makeup and there pretty 🙁 it’s just pure jealousy 😀

  • @makimawho
    @makimawho ปีที่แล้ว +7

    21:49
    Thank u that took me back to my childhood memories

  • @abigailb2478
    @abigailb2478 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1205

    finally someone saying it!!! I hate it when girls who got cheated on blame it on the girl that they don't even know instead of on their cheating partner I mean he owes you loyalty a random girl doesn't!! I mean of course it's not a nice thing to do (if she knew) but it's still his fault!! thanks rebal for having common sense.

    • @Kaastengels
      @Kaastengels 2 ปีที่แล้ว +68

      A random girl doesn't owe y'all loyalty but it's just a basic decency not to get with someone in relationship lol (this is only applies when the girls are aware before yall @ me)

    • @abc-eb4zh
      @abc-eb4zh 2 ปีที่แล้ว +99

      @@Kaastengels yeah but they’re saying your boyfriend should have way more loyalty to you than a stranger

    • @lindsayrandall426
      @lindsayrandall426 2 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      It just really puts us against each other as women and it sucks, bc you shouldn't blame the other girl, idc if she knew or not knew. The partner is the one who decided to cheat, not the person they cheated with. We can't keep letting men or people in general put us against each other. We're all beautiful in our own unique ways, both personality wise and look wise

    • @aliciax5854
      @aliciax5854 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Kaastengels Exactly

    • @alanancy
      @alanancy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@lindsayrandall426 What-

  • @hm.5003
    @hm.5003 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Girlie this reminds me of how I and this one popular girl loved the same guy, apparently she started noticing me looking at the dude (the popular girl and the boy were best friends so-) and she tried to embarrass me and bring me down and everyone f’cking believed her embarrassing lies about me and started hating me for no reason- and always focusing on me and every movement I make... like it’s all because of one boy like bruh I don’t even like him no more I’m just creeped out at this point 😭😭
    *please send help it’s still happening-*

    • @a.o.5695
      @a.o.5695 ปีที่แล้ว

      Are you okay now?

  • @softmist3694
    @softmist3694 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Rebal is literally therapy✋

  • @ojs5988
    @ojs5988 2 ปีที่แล้ว +713

    Met up with this guy like 3 times earlier this year only to find out he was married yet I'm the "homewrecker". People would really rather put blame on the other person instead of their cheating, lying partner and it's definitely insecurity.

    • @beckylineham1484
      @beckylineham1484 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      Cause half the time the women do no and don’t care that’s prob why she called u that but she should be more angry at the husband

    • @elistari1050
      @elistari1050 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +51

      There's some truth. Anyone who willingly hooks up with someone who they KNOW is in a prior commitment, is a terrible, selfish person. But, if they had no idea and were also being lied to, then they are equally a victim in the situation and are not a "Homewrecker".

    • @ytuser392
      @ytuser392 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      What about someone not telling you he's in a relationship, talking to you every day and then all of a sudden freezing you with "I haveva girl I really care about" get yourself out if that sh*t if you're not too cooked that you already wanted to marry him!! (Of course you can say no, just saying it's not going to be easy)

  • @ChimplaGoober
    @ChimplaGoober 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2079

    My life literally lost meaning over the years but now I’m starting to find it thank you for the laughs you give. You make me feel normal again lol

    • @happy_days2824
      @happy_days2824 2 ปีที่แล้ว +65

      stay strong bestie

    • @sertereth
      @sertereth 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      U are good u know... Just continue and keep looking for things u find good

    • @the.ultimate.potato
      @the.ultimate.potato 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I was looking for memes in the coments not for this :(
      (Sorry for my english btw)

    • @kaeri8652
      @kaeri8652 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      💅🏻Keep it up bestie!

    • @XFAIRY-rc4ns
      @XFAIRY-rc4ns 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Congratulations!!

  • @thebilliexojean
    @thebilliexojean หลายเดือนก่อน

    STEP UP BADDIES, I’m crying 😭 I only recently found your account, and I’m loving it.

  • @agapesalatielu5358
    @agapesalatielu5358 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    nahh i don't mean to be rude of anything but the girl in 17:55 literally looks like the girl she was bashing 💀

  • @tireddesii3031
    @tireddesii3031 2 ปีที่แล้ว +575

    She wasn’t cheated on and wrote a song about being cheated on. Weird, ok. I know a dude who wrote a song about losing his mother. She isn’t dead, he just needed something emotional 😭

    • @errortryagainlater4240
      @errortryagainlater4240 2 ปีที่แล้ว +131

      I'd say that it's one thing to write a song telling a story, even one you've never experienced, bc plenty of musicians have done that.
      It's another thing to act as if you're telling the truth and LARPing as a victim because you want to live with a ~dramatic~ narrative 😭💀

    • @bananammon8471
      @bananammon8471 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      prolly felt jealous bcuz the other girl was friendly towards her bf and turned it into a cheating affair to ruin her or sum

  • @jinanhasan7
    @jinanhasan7 2 ปีที่แล้ว +553

    Imagine thinking that cheating happens because of prettiness and looks and literally ignoring the real issues it has with real love or loyalty..and above all of that.. making A FUCKING SONG ABOUT IT SMH

    • @cursed-cat9126
      @cursed-cat9126 2 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      Pick-me's are the female equivalent of guys obsessed with jokers

    • @h3llena._
      @h3llena._ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      AND Make a whole tiktok account about it.

    • @random_meta
      @random_meta 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Justin Timberlake who.... Or Taylor Swift who.. There's nothing wrong with writing songs about cheating.

    • @azula4786
      @azula4786 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@random_meta yes but she didn't get cheated on?! If she did she should've explain her side of the story instead of playing this baddie facade that's honestly just pethetic.
      she MADE this shit public so why is she refusing to explain it now?!

    • @random_meta
      @random_meta 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @𝒩𝒶𝓃𝒶𝓈𝒽𝒾 There are 2 sides in this story. The other girl says otherwise. Maybe the first girl felt cheated on regardless? Delusional people exist.

  • @aishafadime4786
    @aishafadime4786 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    And the fact that the picture they post of themselves in this trend is filtered and edited and then the other girl's "the one they're trynna call homewrecker" is such a random pic where their mouth is open nd all😆🗿

  • @user-gm4xv7lq2k
    @user-gm4xv7lq2k 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    😭✋🏻 babe. This is the first video of yours I’ve seen, and I’m hooked because of your amazing voice acting at. 11:42

  • @biancahill4955
    @biancahill4955 2 ปีที่แล้ว +513

    Imagine body shaming someone and thinking you’re “proving you were the better girl all along!”

  • @DanieB322
    @DanieB322 2 ปีที่แล้ว +107

    The pink hair girl who was supposed to be the lesser version without makeup was actually super pretty

    • @aliciax5854
      @aliciax5854 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Yeah, she was!

  • @LightandDarkSavior
    @LightandDarkSavior ปีที่แล้ว +3

    It really went from Joline to this.

  • @tataraarbab7278
    @tataraarbab7278 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    UGH I CAN'T FOCUS!!! Your dimples are so cute 😭

  • @milo2376
    @milo2376 2 ปีที่แล้ว +607

    i'm only 26 and i feel so alienated from this tik tok generation, it gives me second hand embarassment

    • @readthatname9281
      @readthatname9281 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Y'all are the pick me girls 😂😂😂😂

    • @Yosoydom
      @Yosoydom 2 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      @@readthatname9281 you love TikTok, we get it.

    • @valentinafk6536
      @valentinafk6536 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      It’s because a lot of the stuff is intended for younger people / a lot of young kids use it so of course it’ll be cringe to people older than them.

    • @milo2376
      @milo2376 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      @@valentinafk6536 yeah and also we were not used to share so much personal information as they are now, it just feels weird sometimes to watch

    • @comoselq6890
      @comoselq6890 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@readthatname9281 lol?

  • @xsarahx7418
    @xsarahx7418 2 ปีที่แล้ว +68

    Once I got cheated on and I didn’t even find out through him but instead she found out my number from his phone and told me about it. We now both dumped his ass and it was literally the best thing ever.

    • @thissuckslmao
      @thissuckslmao 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Honestly, moving on is alot better then hanging on. Btw, glad you got out of that relationship!!

    • @errortryagainlater4240
      @errortryagainlater4240 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      That's awesome! Good for you guys. If I found out I was fooling around with a taken guy, I wouldn't even hesitate to DM his girl 💀

  • @gianninabriceno9354
    @gianninabriceno9354 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love your content! You put these mean girls on blast! Thank you for being my voice!❤

  • @_fender_899
    @_fender_899 ปีที่แล้ว

    Bestie Ily I agree with literally everything you said even the part about my love life that is indeed easy to remember and thank you for existing

  • @chelseasmith1426
    @chelseasmith1426 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1598

    I literally just discovered this channel this morning and it is single handedly saving my mental health rn. I moved out of my apartment yesterday with an abusive partner and I've been feeling completely dissociated and like a mess, but I cracked my first smile and genuine laugh from watching these videos and seeing someone so happy to be single let a little bit hope creep* back into my body. Thanks for being so funny and thoughtful and making me laugh until I can see a therapist this week! lol hope everyone is doing ok out there 💜💜

    • @areyoubewhy4457
      @areyoubewhy4457 2 ปีที่แล้ว +69

      wishing the best for you love 💕

    • @doravozila
      @doravozila 2 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      welcome bestie ! 🙋‍♀️

    • @saenia7991
      @saenia7991 2 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      Stay strong, and please take care of yourself ❤️

    • @laur-unstagenameactuallyca1587
      @laur-unstagenameactuallyca1587 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      i hope you are doing okay love 💓

    • @Vee9908
      @Vee9908 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      You're so brave Im proud of you!!🥰❤❤❤

  • @variantvstva1494
    @variantvstva1494 2 ปีที่แล้ว +404

    Be honest: Rebal has lifted your standards for men

    • @vish6806
      @vish6806 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Pleaseee don't expose me like this

    • @savesoil3133
      @savesoil3133 ปีที่แล้ว

      Guys. Since we are discussing standards, have you heard of the #SaveSoil #ConsciousPlanet movement before? 🌱

  • @marisol3088
    @marisol3088 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love your videos😭. The way you narrated this was giving Joe Goldberg vibesss🤣🤣. Love it!

  • @candyblitzy
    @candyblitzy 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    21:39 we vibe bestie!!! Im always here for you❤ and thanks for the laughs really needed it😊

  • @whoisstace2485
    @whoisstace2485 2 ปีที่แล้ว +157

    Funniest thing is, that they all search for the ugliest picture they could find to post to that trend, just so they could get a confidence boost- and then they will be like "girls support girls🤩"

    • @cherylmingo8683
      @cherylmingo8683 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Absolutely but I believe we should all just support one another as human beings but NO we all tear eachothet down

    • @whoisstace2485
      @whoisstace2485 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@cherylmingo8683 exactly

    • @errortryagainlater4240
      @errortryagainlater4240 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Ugh, ikr! It makes my skin crawl. They're like those fake friends who call you "bestie" but talk shit about you behind your back 🙃

  • @shanetfb6416
    @shanetfb6416 2 ปีที่แล้ว +129

    nothing enrages me more than this song and the girls using it to bully girls... it's giving internalised misogyny.

    • @errortryagainlater4240
      @errortryagainlater4240 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      And the worst part is you'll never convince them it's bullying because people think it's impossible for victims to ever do anything wrong 😐 it's awful that they got cheated on but this is NOT the right way to deal with it.

    • @shanetfb6416
      @shanetfb6416 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@errortryagainlater4240 its making me so mad that they dont bash the cheating men instead

  • @thebilliexojean
    @thebilliexojean หลายเดือนก่อน

    We vibe, bestie - this was on point

  • @maryamshaaban74
    @maryamshaaban74 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2561

    I believe every girl had a pick me phase. I definitely did. We were told that women were only makeup/shopaholics, non sporty, like pink and clothes. We looked at ourselves and saw so much more but it wasn't considered feminine, so we tried to push ourselves as far away as possible from the stereotype, because all the fun, interesting qualities were considered masculine.
    Sincerely, a recovering pick me 💗
    Edit: not the pick mes being triggered and commenting "I dIdN't hAvE tHaT pHaSe, nEvEr"
    I initially meant for this comment to be a safe place for all the girls who've experienced the same level of insecurity as mine and who've grown smarter, more mature and more confident to share their past without any judgement. And hopefully for those currently going through that phase to realize that they're special without putting others down even if they don't intend to. A lot of people don't think it's harmful to others, "I'm just being myself and I'm not apologetic about it, it's not my fault you're boring and got offended by me just being my special, different self".
    If you disagree, you can surprisingly do that in a respectful manner, it's very unnecessary of you to write a whole essay on how you've never been through that cuz you've always been mature. Extremely rude to tell me to say that I was the only one who'd been a pick me or a not like other girls and to fuck off or go away. I started my comment with "I believe" which in the world of people who understand the language means "that's my opinion " you've never had to change who you are to feel good about yourself because you couldn't otherwise? Congratulations. You can simply ignore the comment, and for those saying "iT's jUsT yOu" I believe over 500 people would disagree with you. I'm not saying I'm right, I'm just saying some people found my experience relatable, and it's not your place to come and brag about how smarter/more mature you are just because you can't relate .

    • @TheDutchDutchess373
      @TheDutchDutchess373 2 ปีที่แล้ว +98

      I didn't 😂

    • @alyssamarbury8690
      @alyssamarbury8690 2 ปีที่แล้ว +186

      I was one IN MIDDLE SCHOOL lol that’s way more understandable than what these girls are doing all over TikTok

    • @yogurLAPIZ
      @yogurLAPIZ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +172

      Not all of us. There is some of us that just decided to fade in the back ground and see all the drama in HS. I did it. I don't have many embarrassing moments from high school because of that, and I appreciate my past self. XD

    • @eelenrt03
      @eelenrt03 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      not me tho lol

    • @acepennington4075
      @acepennington4075 2 ปีที่แล้ว +51

      I went through a phase like that in 2nd grade lol- 💀

  • @chloehutchinson1170
    @chloehutchinson1170 2 ปีที่แล้ว +435

    “I wrote this song for the baddies” baddie’s arent bitches sweetie

  • @raylensantiago6245
    @raylensantiago6245 ปีที่แล้ว

    This dude is funny 🤣 I really like the attitude and everything wish to see this person in films. Giving support from Philippines!💕

  • @COCO_00739
    @COCO_00739 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Every girl is beautiful and deserves to hear that all the time ! ❤

  • @gingsaidadiosimgon3930
    @gingsaidadiosimgon3930 2 ปีที่แล้ว +219

    Y'all it's illegal to not remember that the "D" in Rebal D stands for "Drama" 😔🤚

    • @linariahi566
      @linariahi566 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      ⚡ELECTRIC CHAIR⚡

    • @nikitamishra5075
      @nikitamishra5075 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      it’s actually darwish his last name, but u don’t even know him🙄 u girly girls don’t even try man like i’m literally not like others gurlz 💅🏼 im so ✨ quirky ✨ like OK Patricia 🙄🙄 u will never be accepted in my boys group sure🤗

    • @Kiki-H
      @Kiki-H 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I THOUGHT HE WAS GONA SAY DARR MANN💀

    • @sreyleakxavier8799
      @sreyleakxavier8799 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@nikitamishra5075 baby, she ain't even pretty

  • @Hello61Jello
    @Hello61Jello 2 ปีที่แล้ว +229

    Lol wait till they realize personality plays a role in relationships and who we chose to be with lol

  • @isobel8796
    @isobel8796 ปีที่แล้ว

    Rebal, you are honestly a KING 👑🙌🙌🙌💙💙💙

  • @kashahhhh
    @kashahhhh ปีที่แล้ว +2

    you to look so stunning oml-

  • @kirasgirl
    @kirasgirl 2 ปีที่แล้ว +581

    All the girls who did this, and the "look at her" girl was heavier/chubby in comparison just tells me that their ex realized the true value of beauty on the inside/personality...which is what they were obviously missing.

    • @annie6756
      @annie6756 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      *period*

    • @liamxhrest5184
      @liamxhrest5184 2 ปีที่แล้ว +57

      And also because he think they're pretty, being chubby doesn't mean not being attractive, He just change his tastes.

    • @Cecilia-ld4uu
      @Cecilia-ld4uu 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      nice way of saying chubby girls can't be pretty i guess

    • @wolliwobby4609
      @wolliwobby4609 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I found a lot of them more attractive I must say. They looked gorgeous inside and out.

    • @solarwings1132
      @solarwings1132 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@Cecilia-ld4uu They didn’t say that. They’re just saying that that’s what those girls in the video did, implying that chubbier girls couldn’t be pretty

  • @melissag.3812
    @melissag.3812 2 ปีที่แล้ว +128

    Erin: “y’all madddd hahaha”
    Also Erin: *makes 10+ tik toks about haters*

    • @Yuu12345
      @Yuu12345 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      *The table is tabling*

    • @xluvyss
      @xluvyss ปีที่แล้ว +4

      And made her whole account about her ex💀

  • @MadelineWendler-ff4po
    @MadelineWendler-ff4po 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    The fact that the “look at her” on all of them was SOOO much prettier

  • @danzhe6607
    @danzhe6607 ปีที่แล้ว

    I appreciate you Rebal
    Thank you

  • @Youarenothimbabes
    @Youarenothimbabes 2 ปีที่แล้ว +499

    I'm surprised tiktok didn't banned the song.
    This girl is clearly using a talent to hurt people, it will end in tears.
    Reminds me of my toxic friends honestly, Lord bless her soul

  • @dorarandom7870
    @dorarandom7870 2 ปีที่แล้ว +164

    I can't with pick me girls. I was always the quiet good kid and there was this pick me girl in my class. She always bullied me but I didn't really care, I just thought it was funny. She came up to me once and asked me "if I need some help picking out my clothes" to mock me and I straight up laughed in her face and said "From you?? You've been wearing the same jacket the whole week and it stinks of your breath. I do not need your help cuz I don't wanna look like a clown." Then I left. One of my greatest moments.

    • @xmadamemajin2488
      @xmadamemajin2488 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      aye you're amazing for sticking up for yourself 💯

    • @dorarandom7870
      @dorarandom7870 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      @@xmadamemajin2488 I don't think it was necessarily standing up for myself. The girl had a pretty bad self image and she was competing with me because she recognized her insecurities in me but unlike her, I had good friends that cared about me. Just the fact that she was competing with me gave me confidence. I do remember feeling bad for her because if she was accepted in like I was, I genuinely believe she wouldn't be so bad. And I told her that. I hope all of my bullies are doing ok now, I hope they got some better friends honestly.

    • @xmadamemajin2488
      @xmadamemajin2488 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @@dorarandom7870 yeah , a lot of bullies aren't the most confident and that proves it

    • @avastylinson
      @avastylinson ปีที่แล้ว +3

      THAT IS HONESTLY THE MOST SLAY COMEBACK IVE EVER HEARD OMG

    • @vish6806
      @vish6806 ปีที่แล้ว

      Idk ik it's my problem and this isn't the right place to vent but i can relate to u. Been in this situation with few girls before and i literally ignored them and never said anything back cuz ik I'm not who they think and their opinion doesn't matter to me. But there were times when i literally chewed on my inner cheek so i don't end up saying something like ' who are you to tell me what to do and what not to do.' ig this isn't a pick me personality but i personally feel so badddddd that i was going to say something mean to other person 💀

  • @sdiksha2869
    @sdiksha2869 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    his laugh is just everything🎀💝

  • @junicahinge5879
    @junicahinge5879 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Rebal is literally the cutest 🤧🙈

  • @NephelkaIndica
    @NephelkaIndica 2 ปีที่แล้ว +281

    So satisfying to read the comments and see how other females are also disgusted by woman bringing woman down. Let’s keep that percentile of petty girls down, they sure don’t represent us let’s never give them that power 💙🦋

    • @goodmorning2386
      @goodmorning2386 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Absolutely! We need to lift each other up

    • @R-rr1
      @R-rr1 ปีที่แล้ว

      You’re not animal , call yourself a female instead of a woman

  • @DeFiDebbie
    @DeFiDebbie 2 ปีที่แล้ว +142

    It’s the audacity of these girls for me. How can you be so overconfident in your potato baked face and then bully someone who doesn’t use their face as
    canvas for Christ’s sake? 😩

    • @gargikadam1199
      @gargikadam1199 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      And now who is bringing down girls who like and wear makeup

    • @Chuuiiee
      @Chuuiiee ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ur comment doesnt make sense

    • @angelli7950
      @angelli7950 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@gargikadam1199 it’s not bringing down girls who wear makeup, these girls in particular are wearing a shit ton of makeup, extensions, filters, ect while the girl they’re comparing the picture to doesn’t happen to be wearing any makeup there, and it’s a bad angle, so obviously the other girl is gonna look better. Normally I’m all for makeup and girls supporting girls, but these girls deserve to be called out for it because they’re being toxic as hell

    • @chidiogoikeh4550
      @chidiogoikeh4550 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@gargikadam1199 nah they are baked in makeup comparing themselves to girls with their natural faces. The comment was honest