I was just explaining this to my brothers! 😆 women know when something is wrong for them but they aren't taught how to believe in that instinct because they hear "you're just being emotional" so often growing up. So they second guess themselves and get caught in bad situations because they don't know how to trust themselves
That, I believe, is more the ones who have been emotionally abused and gaslighted. I don't think it is a "woman" thing. I believe it is more growing up in an invalidating environment.
Cue in "Because of You" by Kelly Clarkson. To me one of the saddest songs ever. The disempowerment of someone at a base level by someone they thought they could trust. It was going through my mind while the divorce was in progress.
Women with good reading skills have had more succes in surviving crazy men and reading their infants needs since for ever - men "just" needed to be able to kill each other, to have succes.. That's why things are, as they are - roughly explained.
"When other people hurt you, don't be ashamed. That's on them." ... Thank you so much for your words of encouragement! I love how you describe that you have dealt with abusive men and there was abuse in your childhood.
But what if you felt unsafe, but walked right into it anyway? Listen to your bluddy fears or gut feelings, like you would want your kids and friends to do.
@@FrejaVanThuyne No, it's on THEM. Yes, we need to learn to see the tell-tail signs of abusers. However, their abusiveness is on THEM. My mother (gaslighter extraordinaire) berated me and called me stupid for falling prey to my narcessistic ex. But my mother is a narcessist herself, which is why I felt drawn to my narc ex to begin with. Because narcessists felt like home to me. Eventually I FINALLY learned to tell the signs, to set boundaries... I'm STILL struggling to stand on my own. That's hard to do when you've been sabotaged and undermined your whole life. But self confidence and independence is a goal worth struggling towards. There was a time period when I couldn't trust ANYONE. Not even myself. It can take a long time to learn to trust yourself when you've been gaslit your entire life. Victim blaming and perpetual self-gaslighting will not help. They gaslit us. Let's not continue to gaslight ourselves for them. The abuse is NOT on us. It's on THEM.
Same. A lot of the old energies from the. Generations b4 that leaks down to the next. If you truly care(as a parent), you try to eliminate what YOU KNOW WAS WRONG AND ELIMINATE IT FOR YOU OR YOUR CHILDREN! You don’t keep the negative things, emotions, physical abuses, gaslighting, chemical dependency or something as eating healthier. I did it all and still got nailed down to the ground. Envy or defensive behavior is completely normal, they then feel attacked, ring around the Rosie….you get the backlash. It’s a cycle you need to just completely break if you can’t eliminate the situation in a civil manner. You’re NOT ALONE!!! ❤
My intuition is always right. Annoyingly so. Everytime I've gone against my intuition it goes badly. Because I'm a scientist I have unfortunately learned to discount my intuition. But, now I'm working hard to develop my intuition because it gives me such accurate information. Others often discount it as well, but now that I know I have this ability, I want to develop it to enhance my life. I have made so many mistakes quieting my intuition and ignoring that voice telling me I need to listen. I'm done discounting that inner voice. This lady is spot on. Congrats on over a million followers Lisa. I do watch Tom's videos, but I prefer yours. You have more female empowering guests and that is what I need and want to hear. Glad you are both well and happy.
I have Asperger’s syndrome and my facial expressions don’t match with what I say (or feel). People often act as if I’m lying when I don’t. I feel like she presented it a bit black & white 😢 Asperger’s is not so uncommon in our society and not everyone will match their body language to their feelings!!! It’s doesn’t automatically mean they are liars
Point taken and important to make….you are trying for understanding and that matters so very much. I know someone like that and he is of a generation that would never have diagnosed him and he has a lot of pride so he wouldn’t admit to a short coming (that likely more about a sort of Narcissim cause it is pretty extreme) but i feel he tries and mostly i like that he isn’t manipulative (part of not being socially sophisticated which i am not either for other reasons). Also he is an Aquarius! LOL. You are not alone in noticing the black and white aspects, many just won’t bother to comment and almost did not till i saw your comment …we humans and ambitious americans especially want quick fixes and in our rush can leap at fast over simplifications. Also people can be frightened to show emotion in a country and culture that says happy is all that is acceptable and violence too often; two extremes without much support for nuance and feelings like fear, grief and even anguish and also the need for community not just so called self-help. And she starts of about wealthy “high powered” people as if they are the most vulnerable when in fact people who are poor and other-abled are too often more vulnerable. Also sort of funny…spot a liar in two minutes but watch a two hour video in order to do so?
Yes I love how open she is as an interviewer. Because as women we are intuitive and aware of so many feelings as what. She cares as a person and opens amazing conversations with these beautiful insights and her ability to introduce her guests in the most profound ways.
So glad I found this, when I wasn’t even looking. I left a toxic marriage when I could read everything clear as mud on his face with my eyes but my heart trained my brain to not “see”. I’m now in a totally different relationship where there are no lies and very meaningful conversations quite the opposite. Oh how it feels so good knowing someone soul to soul.
Thank you Sis!!! You just saved me from falling for this.... The relationship is still really new, but there's already been signs that he wants to use me.... and that he might still be married. This was all the confirmation I need to write to him ,and break it off!
And the hard but advisable part is you don't need to explain yourself to someone who is blatantly disrespecting you. It might just give them a chance to brainwash you... Just a tip 😉 i know it's hard but you really don't owe them anything and on the ither hand you owe yourself peace and honnor ❤️
People frequently misinterpret my feelings or intentions because of my facial expressions. I've been asked several times why I'm upset when I'm not. Or when my employer was angry with me, she wondered how I could be so chill when everyone else was upset about what was happening at work. I explained to her that just because I don't freak out doesn't mean I don't care. My own family was shocked they didn't understand I was emotionally damaged because I smiled when I should have been bawling my eyes out. I don't know if this is because some folks can't interpret microexpressions or my expressions are muddled.
Ahhh this helped me so much especially coming out of a toxic workplace, toxic co workers, and fake narcotic relationships with co workers and a fake relationship. Thanks so much for this episode
Great talk, though it did make me a little sad as I am already so clued up on micro expressions due to constant trauma from a very young age right up till my 20's due ... all different kinds of abuse. I learnt these expressions as a way to keep me safe... I can feel and see the emotion as well as knowing what they are thinking. To this day my partner says "how did you know that, I was just thinking that same thing.' And it's for random things that people wouldn't even be right if they guessed. Again, great talk ladies. Much love to you both ❤️
Great show. Trust starts with you. If you learn how to read yourself and trusting yourself with that, trusting others becomes a mute point because you can feel safe to stay in the present moment and take it from there. We are thoroughly trained to get information from the outside. Reading yourself is often more reliable and much simpler once you get it down. How do you feel around controlling people or around your best trusted friend? Are you at ease or in your head... etc? Trust with other people needs to build over time by them coming through for you. It doesn't work when you just met someone. For that you need your discernment and know how to read yourself.
Unfortunately it does not start with you…sooooo individualistic. Human brains take the longest of any animal to mature and are subject to change throughout life more also. We are highly dependent upon the input of others…it starts with others and so when damage is done by others if significant enough and not counter balanced then it takes others for us to heal…not always possible but as a species we’ve barely acknowledged our vulnerability and thereby miss out on our power to influence. So so tired of the American myth machine.
Women need to have this kind of training and all kids need it too. To be taught to trust their instincts, and to read the facial cues is important. Appreciate your questions Lisa - every time I watch your videos I'm impressed by how relaxed yet alert you are, and you draw the information out I'm a precise but unintrusive way that your guests can feel relaxed with while thekr share important knowledge. Thanks ☺️ Great info
Love, love, LOVE her! She’s so genuine & sweet & brilliant…just a truly lovely woman overall. Got so much out of this interview, can’t wait to get her book!
Yes with "What did I do?" when someone walks away. It's not MEANT to be all about me. For me, it's from having been in a relationship where I NEVER knew what I was going to get in trouble for, when it was going to happen and why. It's TOTALLY a trauma reaction, at least for me with PTSD, and it comes across as making it all about me. I hate that's the way I've been after that. Insecurity and trustworthy problems are prominent. HOWEVER, this is something I really do need to hear. It's these things that I push relationships away ........ at arm's length ....... which isn't fait to the other BETTER person. YES, communication is KEY!
PTSD will cause people to avoid things that they would otherwise want to do or love. Avoidance behavior and self isolation are both symptoms of PTSD. It's tough to find self love when you have PTSD and it's tough to love someone else if you can't love yourself first. Not a narcissist kind of love but a genuine willingness to be good to yourself and take time out of every single day (preferably in the morning) to get in touch with yourself; meditate and just look inward; see what's there and take whatever steps you can to make whatever adjustments are necessary. The thing about PTSD is that it's not enough to just find equilibrium or "homeostasis" - you have to find your bliss and then stay there. You have to move inward before you can move onward. There's things I have to do every morning just to center myself; just so I don't choke the shit out of somebody later in the day. Figure out what makes you smile; what makes you laugh what helps you to find joy. I go out and feed squirrels every single morning before I fully start my day. I also do live theater and take acting classes because I've never felt more alive than when I'm on stage and it's not about the audience or getting attention. It's about living truthfully under the given imaginary circumstances and it's part of my venting process; part of my path to self discovery. Your biggest tragedy in life can be your greatest triumph on stage but if you have PTSD it would be a *really* bad idea to train as a method actor because they're expected to use real trauma from their own lives to bring life to the character. In the Meisner system we work from an imaginary circumstance with an element of truth and the beauty of that is that at the end of the day you get to walk away from it. Just because the circumstances are imaginary doesn't mean that the emotional venting is fake. When you're 100% focused on what you're doing your subconscious doesn't know the difference between reality and the imaginary circumstances but it's also important to find a safe space and supportive teachers because there are a LOT of toxic teachers out there that will do more harm than good to their students. I got lucky; found a great teacher at a great school and it has been a life changing experience. Acting literally saved my life but of course it's not for everyone. Each individual has to find their own path to greater self awareness and self discovery. Self isolation is the most dangerous aspect of PTSD but acting is the exact opposite of isolation.
In so many years I have tried to teach myself everything that is out there about body language, narcissism, red flags aso., but then again - the heart wants what it wants, and again I was attracted to someone who I knew right from the start, is not good for me! I really could cut the cords before bigger damage was done, but I felt powerless against the emotional pull. It was a real struggle to not get pulled into this. I saw all the red flags, listened to my intuition, looked carefully if his actions are equal his words, which they were not, and got myself out if the entanglement pretty fast - but emotionally I was hurt anyway - because I just didn t want to believe what my intuition was telling me. A part of me just wanted to be blind and fall for the illusion. So I ended up not only being sad, but also angry with myself for not being able to put on the emotional brakes earlier. I guess it really us a learnkng process to use all those tools.
Please do not beat yourself up too much about being betrayed while not cutting your losses sooner. A wise man once said: "the hardest confront there is, is the confront of evil".🤔
Ugh.... Pathological liars. After feeling like I lost my identity when I did lose my house, community, career, and faith in people, I returned to college and am now in law school. I've had to rebuild over the last decade and recently made myself vulnerable to trying to date. I told him the red flags are there and YOU NAILED IT! Only wants to text. Doesn't answer his phone. Has an excuse for everything. Said he really likes me but to "be patient" since he's a single dad of 2 teens. Denied having social media. I said he's probably a player and I'm not interested. Again, denied. Where are the funny, kind, & SINGLE men?!?!
This is happening to me right now and hurting so much .married to him for 21yrs just lies and betrayal. .he never can tell the truth and use manipulation. Iam going mad.
@mtomlinson614 I'm sorry but if a guy says those things.. it means he sees red flags in you. Where are the funny kind and single men? You denied them. Unwillingness to invest into a relationship, paranoia and wanting to possess over their social media (not everyone has social media, and quite a few intentionally avoid it these days). Meanwhile you will still get into relationships with actual players then blame them for you being played by them.
Thank you. I have been and still dealing with the terror of 4 narcissists. I have always been a positive, put-together person and never had any mental issues. This has been going on for 7 months since I became aware, but their planning has been 3 years. To include setting me up with a guy who is narcissistic. This is making me scared, hypervigilent, and alone as they have done things to make me look crazy to point no one believes me as to what they are doing. Gaslight several times, but never again. To the point they've pulled everyone away as now they think I'm crazy and can't see my 1st and only grandbaby. Losing the first year of her life. I'm breaking.
Alot of us arent lucky enuff to have ppl show up..its really kinda sad when u think bout it....thank you for this podcast I learned some things and am greatful❤😊
I think this can work however there are studies of facial expressions that show that emotions are not universal and mind reading is not possible. It’s still best to communicate with others rather than judge them based on facial expressions as though they are objective pieces of information.
Great point about mind reading not being possible. I never know what someone is thinking, but I can tell what they are feeling. Why someone is feeling a certain way is much harder to figure out and needs context and good communication. If anyone is interested in further research about facial expressions: Darwin, Ekman, Masumoto, Friesen are great resources. Museum of Science in Boston is a client of mine and I'm Facial Action Coding Certified so I've spent decades of my life doing this across continents. Thanks for the comment!
@anniesarnblad you are literally telling people they can be human lie detectors with your book. There will be people on juries making life or death decisions based on the junk science you're teaching. I can't get over how irresponsible this is.
Amen. I make tight lips when I'm concentrating. And when I'm bored I angle my eyebrows and half mast my eyelids. When I lift my chin I'm either looking for something far away, or I'm disbelieving something.There's more...but that's enough. This "science" is not an EXACT science.
The guest is so informative, I was so tuned in. I love how she touched on the effects of botox. Chinese medicine has known about the connection between facial expression lines and personality forever. You really can tell so much by looking at someone. Everyone leaves an external residue that indicates who they are on the inside❤❤
Whilst I really want to believe this. I have autism and struggle with SHOWING emotion, yet adept to reading them (mostly) and I've had many people say that I look angry when I'm trying to portray sadness, or an understanding facial expression. I now prefer not to be around people because I cannot stand people telling me they are wrong.
Choices with RADICAL ACCEPTANCE. We don't have to like it or agree with it but you get freedom from saying, "It is what it is" and do what you can but it's a waste of precious energy to fret or try to keep pushing against something you can't control or change. (This is something I have to do regularly), and sometimes we're not able to Radically Accept yet, and there are Distress Tolerance skills meant for the short-term until you CAN get to that point. I can relate to SO MUCH of what your second guest is talking about. It's HARD when you've been in that pattern for most of my life. Learning the hard way is pretty much how I've been learning A LOT of things! These podcasts are EXACTLY why I'm here and listening and interacting with what I'm hearing. Enabling and people pleasing in my opinion are completely tangled together from what I've experienced and still do. It's BETTER -- I still have A LOT of pounding it in my head but I hope this helps SOMEONE who reads any of the chats.
Fantastic interview. I dug deep into psychology going through a divorce. The first time I ever saw the face of duping delight was on my ex. It absolutely shook me. I have read into much of what was discussed here in an effort to teach myself how to detect lies, truth, and genuineness. I don’t think I would be very social at this point if I didn’t develop that in me, a because without doing so I’d be just blindly trusting again.
Audrina is very authentic. I am continuing to listen to this episode despite the first guest was so eye opening. A breath of fresh air, she should have been the headline!
Love the lie detector AND I ABSOLUTELY IDENTIFIED SOOO MUCH WITH THE NEXT GAL! I’m sorry I don’t know her but glanced at the phone as I was listening and was so drawn by how GORGEOUS she was! Lol I’m a grandmother and straight hahaha but I have lived her story with cheaters so often💔😢! I need to get her book. Love you lil ladies so much! Keep sharing your story and helping others; so many people can learn from your pain. God bless y’all ❤️🙏💯
I dont trust women that come at me physically. It says a lot about the guys they are into and what they think about me. The better looking you are the more it could happen I'd think. If you arent willing to get to know me and show me you, I cant take you seriously...Im a tough cookie
I love how Lisa having a soft face but badass accessories that makes her so uniquely extraordinary. I love the feminine and dark feminine sides of her. Lisa you definitely metamorphosis into something so bliss. Goddess
1:23:00 Oh, man, I definitely know what it's like to have given in when I should have stood my ground. I know what it's like to wish I had instead said "I said NO!" Even if you should have stood your ground (about something) and didn't, it's not all on you. If you said no, even once, that person should have _backed the heck off and respected that!_
Dear Lisa I'm an Iranian woman and really trying to be successful so watching your content is very inspiring for me. thank you and god bless your beautiful soul.
I love micro-expressions. I too am amazing at reading people in large group, every emotion that comes up. Every video I watch, or test I take, i spot the lier right away.
All the men that were interested in me never liked me genuinely then and my self esteem has took a hit now that I’m looking back I feel like they could never love me and I know I treat them way better with respect. My trust in myself and men have faded. I’m so ashamed and feel embarrassed I’m not sure why. I’m just sad now idk 🤷♀️
It appears that you have begun your path of enlightenment and awareness, which if continued can lead you out of the same kind of traps; many of us have encountered! You are enough by yourself and do not need anyone to complete you! 🤗
OMG!! Right? I know now what to avoid and just stay away from everyone…LOL? “Instincts” can be corrupted so early that we need help to really know better and an opportunity to practice; I’m old and hopefully younger people given internet etc will help each other more than my generation did.
Wow, she’s fascinating and adorable!! This was so fun! What a wonderful guest! Despite the fact that I’ve read several books on the subject of body language and watch TH-cam channels on it, I’m still learning so much. I watch The Behavioral Panel and they often quote Joe Navarro. I’ve bought his book but haven’t finished it. I need to do that. And Whooo!! That guy she described as having the red flags sounds scary actually! I’m so glad she cut him loose. I don’t know why but I just had the memory of that character in 9 1/2 Weeks played by Mickey Rourke, who was so creepy as well. Looking back he definitely had some kind of cluster B personality disorder. Scary!
So funny! I have a friend who sends me pictures of her dog's pupils when they are normal sized (before she asks if he wants a treat) and then huge (as soon as she says TREAT?!) I'm not an expert on canines but Darwin did write about their expressions.
This is funny because I had a jealous friend and I could tell her smile was fake. A girl at my job had the same smile and I knew ot was jealousy. I thought it was just me.
Where do you find these people who show up for you? No matter what. I've not ever had this without asking me to pay them for help...it's very isolating, feels very vulnerable, and I know there's more out there.
i'm very good at detecting when people are telling the truth. You can feel it in your feet, your eyes or even your ears as intuition. It's hard to explain but I'm empathic...
2nd guest, I have a quote I found about saying yes to things: "Stop saying yes to sh*t you hate." It's STILL a note-to-self but OMG it's amazing to have in my head at times for sure! (Unknown author of quote). "Easier said than done but not impossible" is another one. That's from Dr Daniel Fox. This convo sounds like there's a large need for external validation whether or not we get that, and we HAVE to self-validate to break free. AGAIN, I still struggle with that, and "Easier said than done but not impossible" as well as "Stop saying yes to sh*t you hate." Those are in my head CONSTANTLY whether or not I feel I can follow through with. Food for thought. Things to grasp onto.
Hey I'm swedish and I never sit like that with my arms, not even when I'm uncomfortable etc.😂🙂 This is very interesting to listen to. I'm very aware of what people are saying without them saying it with words these days. Having to deal with narcissistic / manipulative people so much have made me listen to my inner voice / my soul that I like to call it even more. Also I often feel it in my body when someone is not genuine / authentic with me. Thanks Lisa, I love your channel. Love and hugs from Stockholm Sweden 😀🥰
Love this video Ladies, thank you. Intuition is our superpower. Detecting the Micro- expressions as a Science, yes! It is more likely an ability for someone who is a HSP, highly sensitive person? This is one way I also read energy..
I started noticing that my ex would glare at me.He couldn't hide his lying eyes.He ended up stealing all my jewelry and I dumped him. He claimed he was glaring at me because his ankle hurt.
I have Asperger syndrome. My facial expressions are not the same as other people. Not even my voice. It took me decades to understand facial expressions. I could only see sadness if someone cries. If they laugh, i allways thought they where happy. But i know now, laughing can mean so many things. Also i know, that crying can have different meanings, not only sadness. Otherwise i do not see facial expressions. I study people, humanity for decades to understand why people do what they do. But 1 thing i could do was just listening to my gut and my instinct from baby age, toddler. I forgot to listen to my got, because i got 'socialised' and that was a 100% downfall for me and my saftyness.
While I believe those traits are not just specific to males, I have determined that 1 question asked can better and quickly identify the make up of a partner. For men, ask, "Will you sign a prenup?" And women, "Will youi still love me when I am old and fat?" If you don't get a response in 5 seconds, then it's time to move on.
OMG, my first ex-husband cheated in a threesome soon before our wedding. I didn't find out until AFTER we were divorced sometime. I called him and he admitted it. OMGGGGGGG, I'm VERY in-tune with this guest's life experiences! Whaaaaaaaaaat? OBVIOUSLY meant to hear these things to not feel alone with my own experiences!d We were so young when we got married ........ that was my very first serious relationship. I have a pattern as well of attracting and being attracted to (and doing the people-pleasing at my own expense) that followed me into my 40s. I'm freaked out about a new relationship so I push them all away. That's hard too. I don't enjoy thinking they're ALL going to be toxic relationshops after they all HAVE BEEN for so many years. WOOOOOOOOW, I can empathize with this.
6:00 my mother has smiled like that to me in private since I was a little girl. I knew that meant I was going to get hurt. She still does that smile, only to me now. I'm 38. Lol! I was told that I was horrible by my father because I wouldn't look at her. Talk about feeling alone!
Always ask a question you already know the answer to. On the first date with someone round their house for dinner a text came while he was in the toilet-i looked and told him he had a text when he got back-i asked who it was from-he said his friend-it was from his ex partner. First lie straight to my face on the first time i spent time with him-straight off the tongue-years of practise !
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I was just explaining this to my brothers! 😆 women know when something is wrong for them but they aren't taught how to believe in that instinct because they hear "you're just being emotional" so often growing up. So they second guess themselves and get caught in bad situations because they don't know how to trust themselves
ding ding ding 🎯🎯
Yes! The being invalidated/gaslit for expressing and having our concerns is the worst. It compounds the issue.
That, I believe, is more the ones who have been emotionally abused and gaslighted. I don't think it is a "woman" thing. I believe it is more growing up in an invalidating environment.
Cue in "Because of You" by Kelly Clarkson.
To me one of the saddest songs ever. The disempowerment of someone at a base level by someone they thought they could trust.
It was going through my mind while the divorce was in progress.
Women with good reading skills have had more succes in surviving crazy men and reading their infants needs since for ever - men "just" needed to be able to kill each other, to have succes.. That's why things are, as they are - roughly explained.
You’re so right about when we see red flags but ignore them due to loneliness
"When other people hurt you, don't be ashamed. That's on them." ... Thank you so much for your words of encouragement! I love how you describe that you have dealt with abusive men and there was abuse in your childhood.
But what if you felt unsafe, but walked right into it anyway? Listen to your bluddy fears or gut feelings, like you would want your kids and friends to do.
no its on us what do we need to learn about this kind of hurting learning to anticipate for example by putting the blame on others you will never grow
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No, it's on THEM.
Yes, we need to learn to see the tell-tail signs of abusers.
However, their abusiveness is on THEM.
My mother (gaslighter extraordinaire) berated me and called me stupid for falling prey to my narcessistic ex. But my mother is a narcessist herself, which is why I felt drawn to my narc ex to begin with. Because narcessists felt like home to me.
Eventually I FINALLY learned to tell the signs, to set boundaries... I'm STILL struggling to stand on my own. That's hard to do when you've been sabotaged and undermined your whole life. But self confidence and independence is a goal worth struggling towards.
There was a time period when I couldn't trust ANYONE. Not even myself.
It can take a long time to learn to trust yourself when you've been gaslit your entire life.
Victim blaming and perpetual self-gaslighting will not help.
They gaslit us. Let's not continue to gaslight ourselves for them.
The abuse is NOT on us. It's on THEM.
Not ironic at all...learning takes time...ans so does practice
Same. A lot of the old energies from the. Generations b4 that leaks down to the next. If you truly care(as a parent), you try to eliminate what YOU KNOW WAS WRONG AND ELIMINATE IT FOR YOU OR YOUR CHILDREN! You don’t keep the negative things, emotions, physical abuses, gaslighting, chemical dependency or something as eating healthier. I did it all and still got nailed down to the ground. Envy or defensive behavior is completely normal, they then feel attacked, ring around the Rosie….you get the backlash. It’s a cycle you need to just completely break if you can’t eliminate the situation in a civil manner. You’re NOT ALONE!!! ❤
My intuition is always right. Annoyingly so. Everytime I've gone against my intuition it goes badly. Because I'm a scientist I have unfortunately learned to discount my intuition. But, now I'm working hard to develop my intuition because it gives me such accurate information. Others often discount it as well, but now that I know I have this ability, I want to develop it to enhance my life. I have made so many mistakes quieting my intuition and ignoring that voice telling me I need to listen. I'm done discounting that inner voice. This lady is spot on. Congrats on over a million followers Lisa. I do watch Tom's videos, but I prefer yours. You have more female empowering guests and that is what I need and want to hear. Glad you are both well and happy.
She's so excited and so engaged with Lisa , she's almost off the couch ! What a lovely human
Yes, leaning forward, on edge of sofa. Hands open and moving, eyebrows elevated, smile on whole face.
She's a fake. This is an ad. Her so-called skills are so basic that no training is required. $$$
Yes, and Lisa is her usual exuberantly enthusiastic self! 😆
I have Asperger’s syndrome and my facial expressions don’t match with what I say (or feel). People often act as if I’m lying when I don’t. I feel like she presented it a bit black & white 😢 Asperger’s is not so uncommon in our society and not everyone will match their body language to their feelings!!! It’s doesn’t automatically mean they are liars
Point taken and important to make….you are trying for understanding and that matters so very much.
I know someone like that and he is of a generation that would never have diagnosed him and he has a lot of pride so he wouldn’t admit to a short coming (that likely more about a sort of Narcissim cause it is pretty extreme) but i feel he tries and mostly i like that he isn’t manipulative (part of not being socially sophisticated which i am not either for other reasons). Also he is an Aquarius! LOL.
You are not alone in noticing the black and white aspects, many just won’t bother to comment and almost did not till i saw your comment …we humans and ambitious americans especially want quick fixes and in our rush can leap at fast over simplifications.
Also people can be frightened to show emotion in a country and culture that says happy is all that is acceptable and violence too often; two extremes without much support for nuance and feelings like fear, grief and even anguish and also the need for community not just so called self-help.
And she starts of about wealthy “high powered” people as if they are the most vulnerable when in fact people who are poor and other-abled are too often more vulnerable. Also sort of funny…spot a liar in two minutes but watch a two hour video in order to do so?
My thoughts as well for people on the spectrum.
But if they are around you; we will know this as your habit, not falsehood. Sorry you have to cope with that.
One thousand percent
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Beautifully written
Celebrating 1M with Lisa. Just asks the best questions her viewers will need and on point. Thank you for all.
Ahhhh thanks homie! 🥰
Yes!!! I agree!!!
She asks excellent questions, AND she really listens to her guests with compassion and understanding.
Yes I love how open she is as an interviewer. Because as women we are intuitive and aware of so many feelings as what. She cares as a person and opens amazing conversations with these beautiful insights and her ability to introduce her guests in the most profound ways.
So glad I found this, when I wasn’t even looking. I left a toxic marriage when I could read everything clear as mud on his face with my eyes but my heart trained my brain to not “see”. I’m now in a totally different relationship where there are no lies and very meaningful conversations quite the opposite. Oh how it feels so good knowing someone soul to soul.
Thank you Sis!!! You just saved me from falling for this.... The relationship is still really new, but there's already been signs that he wants to use me.... and that he might still be married. This was all the confirmation I need to write to him ,and break it off!
And the hard but advisable part is you don't need to explain yourself to someone who is blatantly disrespecting you. It might just give them a chance to brainwash you... Just a tip 😉 i know it's hard but you really don't owe them anything and on the ither hand you owe yourself peace and honnor ❤️
This channel is so full of golden nuggets in every single video! Gold on gold on gold!!!! ❤
Ahhhh thanks and so glad it brings you value!!!
Dating my narc (person who have been seeing), had the ability to upset me so much that my stomach just fell out from under me. That’s a thing.
People frequently misinterpret my feelings or intentions because of my facial expressions. I've been asked several times why I'm upset when I'm not. Or when my employer was angry with me, she wondered how I could be so chill when everyone else was upset about what was happening at work. I explained to her that just because I don't freak out doesn't mean I don't care. My own family was shocked they didn't understand I was emotionally damaged because I smiled when I should have been bawling my eyes out. I don't know if this is because some folks can't interpret microexpressions or my expressions are muddled.
Ahhh this helped me so much especially coming out of a toxic workplace, toxic co workers, and fake narcotic relationships with co workers and a fake relationship. Thanks so much for this episode
So glad you liked it! I had so much fun with Annie!
Great talk, though it did make me a little sad as I am already so clued up on micro expressions due to constant trauma from a very young age right up till my 20's due ... all different kinds of abuse. I learnt these expressions as a way to keep me safe... I can feel and see the emotion as well as knowing what they are thinking. To this day my partner says "how did you know that, I was just thinking that same thing.' And it's for random things that people wouldn't even be right if they guessed. Again, great talk ladies. Much love to you both ❤️
This is a real blessing to those who manage to watch the video.
Great show. Trust starts with you. If you learn how to read yourself and trusting yourself with that, trusting others becomes a mute point because you can feel safe to stay in the present moment and take it from there. We are thoroughly trained to get information from the outside. Reading yourself is often more reliable and much simpler once you get it down. How do you feel around controlling people or around your best trusted friend? Are you at ease or in your head... etc? Trust with other people needs to build over time by them coming through for you. It doesn't work when you just met someone. For that you need your discernment and know how to read yourself.
Unfortunately it does not start with you…sooooo individualistic. Human brains take the longest of any animal to mature and are subject to change throughout life more also. We are highly dependent upon the input of others…it starts with others and so when damage is done by others if significant enough and not counter balanced then it takes others for us to heal…not always possible but as a species we’ve barely acknowledged our vulnerability and thereby miss out on our power to influence. So so tired of the American myth machine.
Very astute synopsis of this video!😊
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Spot on! Learn to listen to what you feel in your body. Your body will tell you. Thats what "gut feeling" means.
Women need to have this kind of training and all kids need it too. To be taught to trust their instincts, and to read the facial cues is important. Appreciate your questions Lisa - every time I watch your videos I'm impressed by how relaxed yet alert you are, and you draw the information out I'm a precise but unintrusive way that your guests can feel relaxed with while thekr share important knowledge. Thanks ☺️ Great info
"SPOT A LIAR IN 2 MIN" and IRONICALLY this will take you 2 hours to watch :(
Yep…true of so many of these videos. Transcripts can help. We are lucky to have access to so much and also who has all the time to deep dive?
Hahahahahahahaha, omg right, I tried but I’m out that’s too long right now 🤓
Yes, and after the two hours, how much is really retained? Personally, I feel the need to review the material, numerous times!🤔
What about sociopaths that know how to mimic empathy to get you to let your guard down?
Love, love, LOVE her! She’s so genuine & sweet & brilliant…just a truly lovely woman overall. Got so much out of this interview, can’t wait to get her book!
Yes with "What did I do?" when someone walks away. It's not MEANT to be all about me. For me, it's from having been in a relationship where I NEVER knew what I was going to get in trouble for, when it was going to happen and why. It's TOTALLY a trauma reaction, at least for me with PTSD, and it comes across as making it all about me. I hate that's the way I've been after that. Insecurity and trustworthy problems are prominent. HOWEVER, this is something I really do need to hear. It's these things that I push relationships away ........ at arm's length ....... which isn't fait to the other BETTER person. YES, communication is KEY!
PTSD will cause people to avoid things that they would otherwise want to do or love. Avoidance behavior and self isolation are both symptoms of PTSD. It's tough to find self love when you have PTSD and it's tough to love someone else if you can't love yourself first. Not a narcissist kind of love but a genuine willingness to be good to yourself and take time out of every single day (preferably in the morning) to get in touch with yourself; meditate and just look inward; see what's there and take whatever steps you can to make whatever adjustments are necessary. The thing about PTSD is that it's not enough to just find equilibrium or "homeostasis" - you have to find your bliss and then stay there. You have to move inward before you can move onward.
There's things I have to do every morning just to center myself; just so I don't choke the shit out of somebody later in the day. Figure out what makes you smile; what makes you laugh what helps you to find joy. I go out and feed squirrels every single morning before I fully start my day. I also do live theater and take acting classes because I've never felt more alive than when I'm on stage and it's not about the audience or getting attention. It's about living truthfully under the given imaginary circumstances and it's part of my venting process; part of my path to self discovery. Your biggest tragedy in life can be your greatest triumph on stage but if you have PTSD it would be a *really* bad idea to train as a method actor because they're expected to use real trauma from their own lives to bring life to the character. In the Meisner system we work from an imaginary circumstance with an element of truth and the beauty of that is that at the end of the day you get to walk away from it. Just because the circumstances are imaginary doesn't mean that the emotional venting is fake. When you're 100% focused on what you're doing your subconscious doesn't know the difference between reality and the imaginary circumstances but it's also important to find a safe space and supportive teachers because there are a LOT of toxic teachers out there that will do more harm than good to their students. I got lucky; found a great teacher at a great school and it has been a life changing experience. Acting literally saved my life but of course it's not for everyone. Each individual has to find their own path to greater self awareness and self discovery.
Self isolation is the most dangerous aspect of PTSD but acting is the exact opposite of isolation.
Annie was a wonderful guest. A very inspirational lady, with lots of knowledge, but also so much warmth.
I really loved this, Lisa! Thank you 😊
In so many years I have tried to teach myself everything that is out there about body language, narcissism, red flags aso., but then again - the heart wants what it wants, and again I was attracted to someone who I knew right from the start, is not good for me! I really could cut the cords before bigger damage was done, but I felt powerless against the emotional pull. It was a real struggle to not get pulled into this. I saw all the red flags, listened to my intuition, looked carefully if his actions are equal his words, which they were not, and got myself out if the entanglement pretty fast - but emotionally I was hurt anyway - because I just didn t want to believe what my intuition was telling me. A part of me just wanted to be blind and fall for the illusion. So I ended up not only being sad, but also angry with myself for not being able to put on the emotional brakes earlier. I guess it really us a learnkng process to use all those tools.
Please do not beat yourself up too much about being betrayed while not cutting your losses sooner. A wise man once said: "the hardest confront there is, is the confront of evil".🤔
The pink boots! This is her color! 🤩💕
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Not only have I learned about facial expression. I've also learned Ms. Sarnblad is a beautiful person.
I just loved listening in on this 🥰 thank you to the both of you strong women for being vulnerable and effecting change and growth and healing 🙌🫶💪
Ugh.... Pathological liars. After feeling like I lost my identity when I did lose my house, community, career, and faith in people, I returned to college and am now in law school. I've had to rebuild over the last decade and recently made myself vulnerable to trying to date. I told him the red flags are there and YOU NAILED IT! Only wants to text. Doesn't answer his phone. Has an excuse for everything. Said he really likes me but to "be patient" since he's a single dad of 2 teens. Denied having social media. I said he's probably a player and I'm not interested. Again, denied. Where are the funny, kind, & SINGLE men?!?!
This is happening to me right now and hurting so much .married to him for 21yrs just lies and betrayal. .he never can tell the truth and use manipulation. Iam going mad.
Femmine equals receptivity. One cannot be receptive to bull shit! Pay attention to what you are being receptive to/letting in.
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I'm sorry but if a guy says those things.. it means he sees red flags in you. Where are the funny kind and single men? You denied them. Unwillingness to invest into a relationship, paranoia and wanting to possess over their social media (not everyone has social media, and quite a few intentionally avoid it these days). Meanwhile you will still get into relationships with actual players then blame them for you being played by them.
That is exactly what I want to know! 🤔
Knowing when someone is not telling the truth. I have been too trusting. Love the subject. Thanks. I want to read the book
It’s fascinating to listen to Annie Sarnblad. Please invite her again to talk more about her experiences. 🥰
Thank you. I have been and still dealing with the terror of 4 narcissists. I have always been a positive, put-together person and never had any mental issues. This has been going on for 7 months since I became aware, but their planning has been 3 years. To include setting me up with a guy who is narcissistic. This is making me scared, hypervigilent, and alone as they have done things to make me look crazy to point no one believes me as to what they are doing. Gaslight several times, but never again. To the point they've pulled everyone away as now they think I'm crazy and can't see my 1st and only grandbaby. Losing the first year of her life. I'm breaking.
shoooo Michelle, I so relate to this, glad you have become aware of their poison. Keep away from them
Alot of us arent lucky enuff to have ppl show up..its really kinda sad when u think bout it....thank you for this podcast I learned some things and am greatful❤😊
I think this can work however there are studies of facial expressions that show that emotions are not universal and mind reading is not possible.
It’s still best to communicate with others rather than judge them based on facial expressions as though they are objective pieces of information.
Yeh yours and her point about it being signs to then dig deeper is super valid! It’s just a sign but not a final determining factor.
Great point about mind reading not being possible. I never know what someone is thinking, but I can tell what they are feeling. Why someone is feeling a certain way is much harder to figure out and needs context and good communication. If anyone is interested in further research about facial expressions: Darwin, Ekman, Masumoto, Friesen are great resources. Museum of Science in Boston is a client of mine and I'm Facial Action Coding Certified so I've spent decades of my life doing this across continents. Thanks for the comment!
@anniesarnblad you are literally telling people they can be human lie detectors with your book. There will be people on juries making life or death decisions based on the junk science you're teaching. I can't get over how irresponsible this is.
Amen. I make tight lips when I'm concentrating. And when I'm bored I angle my eyebrows and half mast my eyelids. When I lift my chin I'm either looking for something far away, or I'm disbelieving something.There's more...but that's enough. This "science" is not an EXACT science.
this woman is soooo down to earth and real!!!! love this approach!
The guest is so informative, I was so tuned in. I love how she touched on the effects of botox. Chinese medicine has known about the connection between facial expression lines and personality forever. You really can tell so much by looking at someone. Everyone leaves an external residue that indicates who they are on the inside❤❤
Its so difficult to understand that ppl want to harm anyone.
Whilst I really want to believe this. I have autism and struggle with SHOWING emotion, yet adept to reading them (mostly) and I've had many people say that I look angry when I'm trying to portray sadness, or an understanding facial expression. I now prefer not to be around people because I cannot stand people telling me they are wrong.
Choices with RADICAL ACCEPTANCE. We don't have to like it or agree with it but you get freedom from saying, "It is what it is" and do what you can but it's a waste of precious energy to fret or try to keep pushing against something you can't control or change. (This is something I have to do regularly), and sometimes we're not able to Radically Accept yet, and there are Distress Tolerance skills meant for the short-term until you CAN get to that point.
I can relate to SO MUCH of what your second guest is talking about. It's HARD when you've been in that pattern for most of my life. Learning the hard way is pretty much how I've been learning A LOT of things! These podcasts are EXACTLY why I'm here and listening and interacting with what I'm hearing.
Enabling and people pleasing in my opinion are completely tangled together from what I've experienced and still do. It's BETTER -- I still have A LOT of pounding it in my head but I hope this helps SOMEONE who reads any of the chats.
Fantastic interview. I dug deep into psychology going through a divorce. The first time I ever saw the face of duping delight was on my ex. It absolutely shook me. I have read into much of what was discussed here in an effort to teach myself how to detect lies, truth, and genuineness. I don’t think I would be very social at this point if I didn’t develop that in me, a because without doing so I’d be just blindly trusting again.
one of my favorite talks, thanks for bringing light to many out there who need to hear this.
That’s such an eye opening episode. Thanks Lisa and Annie.❤
Don't underestimate that you are gaining strength too stand up for yourself. Know your boundaries. Boundaries are you teaching other how to treat you.
"Im a great guy" even wo the "mostly"is my deal-breaker. Takes awhile but not too long before they run. Love your onterviews and guests ❤
Audrina is very authentic. I am continuing to listen to this episode despite the first guest was so eye opening. A breath of fresh air, she should have been the headline!
Love the lie detector AND I ABSOLUTELY IDENTIFIED SOOO MUCH WITH THE NEXT GAL! I’m sorry I don’t know her but glanced at the phone as I was listening and was so drawn by how GORGEOUS she was! Lol I’m a grandmother and straight hahaha but I have lived her story with cheaters so often💔😢! I need to get her book. Love you lil ladies so much! Keep sharing your story and helping others; so many people can learn from your pain. God bless y’all ❤️🙏💯
I've experienced both rejection and admiration. I respond the same to both; I don't trust either extremes.
I dont trust women that come at me physically. It says a lot about the guys they are into and what they think about me.
The better looking you are the more it could happen I'd think.
If you arent willing to get to know me and show me you, I cant take you seriously...Im a tough cookie
I love both Lisa and her husband's podcasts. Thank you Annie for all your dedication
The most important relationship you will ever have is with yourself ❤
I love how Lisa having a soft face but badass accessories that makes her so uniquely extraordinary. I love the feminine and dark feminine sides of her. Lisa you definitely metamorphosis into something so bliss. Goddess
1:23:00 Oh, man, I definitely know what it's like to have given in when I should have stood my ground. I know what it's like to wish I had instead said "I said NO!"
Even if you should have stood your ground (about something) and didn't, it's not all on you. If you said no, even once, that person should have _backed the heck off and respected that!_
Love this lady! I am so much like her!!!!!!!!!
Trusting people too quickly!
Dear Lisa I'm an Iranian woman and really trying to be successful so watching your content is very inspiring for me. thank you and god bless your beautiful soul.
I love micro-expressions. I too am amazing at reading people in large group, every emotion that comes up. Every video I watch, or test I take, i spot the lier right away.
All the men that were interested in me never liked me genuinely then and my self esteem has took a hit now that I’m looking back I feel like they could never love me and I know I treat them way better with respect. My trust in myself and men have faded. I’m so ashamed and feel embarrassed I’m not sure why. I’m just sad now idk 🤷♀️
It appears that you have begun your path of enlightenment and awareness, which if continued can lead you out of the same kind of traps; many of us have encountered! You are enough by yourself and do not need anyone to complete you! 🤗
Yo...i liked this video within 10 seconds of listening cause i can already tell it's about to be 🔥. Thanks for your valuable content, mama. Blessings.
I tend too trust too easily! Need better boundaries there for sure! Thank you for these great tips and advice!
What a great discussion! Really hit home and helped me a lot in clarifying some conflict in my mind! Thank you ladies ❤
How can you find friends who really care and are healthy
I have same question
OMG!! Right? I know now what to avoid and just stay away from everyone…LOL? “Instincts” can be corrupted so early that we need help to really know better and an opportunity to practice; I’m old and hopefully younger people given internet etc will help each other more than my generation did.
Wow, she’s fascinating and adorable!! This was so fun! What a wonderful guest! Despite the fact that I’ve read several books on the subject of body language and watch TH-cam channels on it, I’m still learning so much. I watch The Behavioral Panel and they often quote Joe Navarro. I’ve bought his book but haven’t finished it. I need to do that.
And Whooo!! That guy she described as having the red flags sounds scary actually! I’m so glad she cut him loose. I don’t know why but I just had the memory of that character in 9 1/2 Weeks played by Mickey Rourke, who was so creepy as well. Looking back he definitely had some kind of cluster B personality disorder. Scary!
My dog is in contempt all the time! 😂😂
So funny! I have a friend who sends me pictures of her dog's pupils when they are normal sized (before she asks if he wants a treat) and then huge (as soon as she says TREAT?!) I'm not an expert on canines but Darwin did write about their expressions.
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They LOOOOOVE TRYING TO LEAVE “NO WAY OUT!” Trapped trapped trapped like a deer stuck behind a fence stuck on a cliff. 😟
I'm so sorry.. the hurt is so bad. It's so strong how they talk about it.
Fascinating❤ and its so lovely to listen to such a compassionate person.
Congrats on reaching the big 1M !! Wow !! You got it, girl ❣
Thank you so much!! 😍
This is funny because I had a jealous friend and I could tell her smile was fake. A girl at my job had the same smile and I knew ot was jealousy. I thought it was just me.
Where do you find these people who show up for you? No matter what. I've not ever had this without asking me to pay them for help...it's very isolating, feels very vulnerable, and I know there's more out there.
i'm very good at detecting when people are telling the truth. You can feel it in your feet, your eyes or even your ears as intuition. It's hard to explain but I'm empathic...
I love listening to you both I’ve leant so much and I love listening to Miss Faye’s world too she’s amazing.
Great questions Lisa!!!
Thanks Lisa for this beautiful topic ❤
2nd guest, I have a quote I found about saying yes to things: "Stop saying yes to sh*t you hate."
It's STILL a note-to-self but OMG it's amazing to have in my head at times for sure! (Unknown author of quote). "Easier said than done but not impossible" is another one. That's from Dr Daniel Fox.
This convo sounds like there's a large need for external validation whether or not we get that, and we HAVE to self-validate to break free. AGAIN, I still struggle with that, and "Easier said than done but not impossible" as well as "Stop saying yes to sh*t you hate." Those are in my head CONSTANTLY whether or not I feel I can follow through with. Food for thought. Things to grasp onto.
This is amazing. Having said that it would be great to cover the material in 2 minutes.
This is one of the best interviews I didn't watch in a long time!
Love the convo on smiling and how it affects the face.
Hey I'm swedish and I never sit like that with my arms, not even when I'm uncomfortable etc.😂🙂 This is very interesting to listen to. I'm very aware of what people are saying without them saying it with words these days. Having to deal with narcissistic / manipulative people so much have made me listen to my inner voice / my soul that I like to call it even more. Also I often feel it in my body when someone is not genuine / authentic with me. Thanks Lisa, I love your channel. Love and hugs from Stockholm Sweden 😀🥰
If a man tells me he’s a “mostly good guy,” I take that as at least a sliver of honesty.
Love this video Ladies, thank you. Intuition is our superpower. Detecting the Micro- expressions as a Science, yes!
It is more likely an ability for someone who is a HSP, highly sensitive person? This is one way I also read energy..
So called smile bags under the eyes also appear in individuals under various forms of toxic stress, i.e. mold exposure.
9:23 I'm a mostly good guy😅
This conversation is a real eye-opener thank you!
What a wonderful woman !!!
Intelligent and so équilibrée…!!!
Bravo for that guess!
This is so incredibly valuable ! Thank you so much Lisa and Annie 🙏🏼🥰
I started noticing that my ex would glare at me.He couldn't hide his lying eyes.He ended up stealing all my jewelry and I dumped him. He claimed he was glaring at me because his ankle hurt.
My God, that glare!! You can Feel the utter contempt n they play it off like 'oops, my bad' End of discussion!!
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I have Asperger syndrome.
My facial expressions are not the same as other people. Not even my voice.
It took me decades to understand facial expressions. I could only see sadness if someone cries. If they laugh, i allways thought they where happy. But i know now, laughing can mean so many things. Also i know, that crying can have different meanings, not only sadness. Otherwise i do not see facial expressions. I study people, humanity for decades to understand why people do what they do.
But 1 thing i could do was just listening to my gut and my instinct from baby age, toddler. I forgot to listen to my got, because i got 'socialised' and that was a 100% downfall for me and my saftyness.
While I believe those traits are not just specific to males, I have determined that 1 question asked can better and quickly identify the make up of a partner. For men, ask, "Will you sign a prenup?" And women, "Will youi still love me when I am old and fat?" If you don't get a response in 5 seconds, then it's time to move on.
The title to catch a liar in 2 min had caught my eye. But the talk is 2+ hrs looooong!!!!😱
You guys are right those boots are awesome.
I like the subject matter also.
OMG, my first ex-husband cheated in a threesome soon before our wedding. I didn't find out until AFTER we were divorced sometime. I called him and he admitted it. OMGGGGGGG, I'm VERY in-tune with this guest's life experiences! Whaaaaaaaaaat? OBVIOUSLY meant to hear these things to not feel alone with my own experiences!d We were so young when we got married ........ that was my very first serious relationship. I have a pattern as well of attracting and being attracted to (and doing the people-pleasing at my own expense) that followed me into my 40s. I'm freaked out about a new relationship so I push them all away. That's hard too. I don't enjoy thinking they're ALL going to be toxic relationshops after they all HAVE BEEN for so many years. WOOOOOOOOW, I can empathize with this.
No, what makes me feel loved is when people are honest and don’t sin.
This was AWESOME.
Thnx ladies!
I learned a lot!!!
Very good listening and interviewing. You are maturing Lisa Bravo.
would love to see her come back to teach us how to teach children the signs of deceitfulness.
I don't want her teaching my kids (or future grandkids) any of this nonsense. This is junk science and it's incredibly dangerous.
I bet she is a GREAT friend !
6:00 my mother has smiled like that to me in private since I was a little girl. I knew that meant I was going to get hurt. She still does that smile, only to me now. I'm 38. Lol! I was told that I was horrible by my father because I wouldn't look at her. Talk about feeling alone!
Thank you so much for this show. It's changing my life.
Yes i did a face reading course for this reason to educate myself so i wasnt abused.
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Lisa, you crack me up “I am not an expert”
Yes you are my sistar
She seems very nice and can see through people so she has a hard time romantically because she doesn’t ignore anything.
Love this queen
Always ask a question you already know the answer to. On the first date with someone round their house for dinner a text came while he was in the toilet-i looked and told him he had a text when he got back-i asked who it was from-he said his friend-it was from his ex partner. First lie straight to my face on the first time i spent time with him-straight off the tongue-years of practise !