How to spot a narcissist #5 (FINAL PART): Couples Therapy (Annie & Mau)
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 31 ม.ค. 2024
- The final part (part 5) of my analysis on Annie and Mau's couples therapy sessions, where I determine if one, both, or neither of them are narcissists.
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I know your analyses are very precise and well-researched, so that's why I can just go ahead and say it: this guy is THE WORST
Ewww he’s smiling when his wife talks about her SA trauma.
I just saw that. He's absolutely disgusting 🤮🤮🤮🤮. Annie when someone shows you who they are, believe them. I truly hope she found her self esteem and ran from him!
Yes, and he purposefully recreates it by also pushing her sexual boundaries with coercive sex, "swinging," "threesomes" etc.
I wondered if I saw a smile where there was none, like that is just how his mouth looks. But now that I see the comments here, I think he really was smiling. And that's kind of awful.
One of the biggest mistakes of my life was believing that therapy would help my ex-fiancé (probably with borderline and/narcissistic personality disorder). His promise to go was just future faking and kept me thinking he could change. He did go a little but just learned strategies to improve the gaslighting and blame me for everything.
Yes, therapy only makes narcissists more dangerous.
Annie, run, don’t look back…this man is damaged, by staying in this relationship you damage yourself…and also stand in the way of Mau ever possibly getting in touch with reality. He probably still wont develop empathy and will simply fill the void your absence creates in some other way. Despite what Mau has said, The grass is greener. Run!
I love your assessments. They’re well balanced and logical.
amazing analysis, thank you! one thing I`d like to change about couples' therapists is to have them trained in recognizing narcissistic abuse and to screen for that in their sessions. While it might take a few sessions to figure it out, the therapist should end the counseling once fairly certain it is abuse and let the victim know and give them resources moving forward. Unfortunately, most couple`s therapists are unaware of the damage they can do to the victim with continuing couple's therapy with a narc and their victim. The trauma multiples as the victim is being gaslit not only by the partner, but the therapist as well. Hope they get the training they need.
Absolutely so happy you make these. There’s another season of this couple
what do you mean?
It is very telling how he dismisses his partner's feelings. It's as if he thinks "I didn't punch you, you just felt like I punched you." He cannot understand the emotional pain he causes because he lacks empathy. He believes that how his actions and words affect her are not his responsibility at all.
It's so heartbreaking when Orna says she decides to "sacrifice Annie" in order to stay tuned in to Mau. Only in narcissistic abuse. If he had punched his wife in the face and she made the same decision to abandon the victim in order to try and keep the husband on side, the internet would ignite.
Thank you so much for taking the game to make these videos. They are SO helpful and enlightening. 👏🏼
When my husband and I first watched Mau and Annie back when “Couples Therapy” debuted, we could easily see that he was a narcissist. But to have it broken down like this by you is truly awesome. You’re very gifted in your perception and application of HG Tudor’s system of understanding. THANK YOU!! 🤗
Mau is a fcking disaster. I'm glad you're covering this. Absolutely awful.
Up to date on all your videos! Cant wait to see what you do next.
If he is a narcissist? If? are you kidding? lol
This man is definitely a narcissist. He has considerable hostility. He curses and says "F you!" a few times -- quite intimidating. Even when treated nicely, he doesn't appreciate it. If I were her, after 20+ years, she might consider leaving him.
Thank you for this video. I learn alot from them.
We want more love is blind analysis please!!!!!
❤❤ excellent analysis
Orna needs to take some continuing ed with Dr. Ramani and learn about narcissism in partners. You NEVER give a narcissist the benefit of the doubt. All that does is retraumatize the other client.
I interpreted Orna technique as giving Mau Just enough rope to hang himself, like she recognizes that he’s a narcissist, and the only option is for Annie to leave him, so she’s giving him opportunity after opportunity after opportunity to not show her any respect or empathy, because until Annie can see this for herself. She’s just gonna stay in this crazy relationship.
Your videos are so thorough and riveting! Can you do one covering Stephen Bear? Would love to see his deranged tactics being broken down. 🃏
Love your videos and would love to see you do a video on Teressa Guidice from the real housewives of New Jersey
Do you analyze video recorded interactions in a private setting with 2 party consent?
He is being very upfront
He has said, and is honest
So she should leave or accept
If I were the counsellor this is
where my focus would turn
It's clear he doesn't care, so unsure of why counsellor is going there with the why it's important to not dismiss
This is all too familiar. Quite scary
2.19...very few people woukd stay with someone who was constantly abusing them....err what now? Thay sounds like a wildly inaccurate and sweeping statement. My perception of DV and emotional abuse is that some people never leave.
Okay just finished and thought I like comment and subscribe, yet, giving you the benefit of the doubt there appears to be some rather large holes in your theorizing, even accepting for the limited data set. Supposing that you are in fact trying to offer a genuine interpretation to benefit others from your expertise, then presumably you’d be somewhat interested or curious about the out of register conclusions. I am not calling you a charlatan as with the Honda guy, but it’s a little hard to square the clearly competent thinker with the specious bias, one of them has to give if the diagnosis is to remain unqualified. I am certain of few things, though confident that this is unlikely to motivate either introspection or temperance, fully anticipating how the mere lack of acceptance is as you put it “a red flag”. While well produced and mostly evenly paced, it’s reflective of a particular brand of conclusions making. Go to a endocrine if you want to find out your issues are hormone related, an osteopath if you chi is out of alignment or a narcissist whisperer to discover, that there is gambling in this establishment. In any event, your accent is nice.
Mau is that you bro??
@@kamirahcarter6433 what gave it away
you cannot be this obnoxious to him, he didn't marry you
@@ihavethots1261 I was unaware I was being obnoxious. I just thought I was fairly criticizing his analysis.
@@taoofmau7316 One of the hallmarks of narcissism is the lack of self-awareness you're exhibiting here -- just based on your own quotes. "I was unaware I was being obnoxious." You're so obnoxious you set people's teeth on edge.