Before I meet my DM, TH-cam wouldn't stop recommending me twin flame videos, I had heard before because I've met a false one 7 years ago, so after clicking "don't recommend this content" and the videos would keep popping up at my recommendation, I gave in and went to watch a video, I got curious thinking if this could be real because there were "all this energetic things that sounded like magic to me as I watched the video" then I went to read the comments and there were only hurt/suffering people, so I LITERALLY commented "THANK GOD, THIS WILL NEVER HAPPEN TO ME, IT WOULD BE A LIVING HELL" 1,5 or 2 months goes by...BUM met my DM, when tarot readings would say he was a soulmate I was overjoyed, but then they started to talk about tf, that I might be on a journey, I entered a dark night of the soul instantly because I would see twin flame as the worst punishment/curse something someone could curse their worst enemy with, today I accepted but doubt he's my tf came as he acted in ways I hated and I couldn't believe I would do something like that to someone I'd love so much, then I blocked him monday after he tried to make me jealous and now I'm getting songs saying "where's my love, don't you know that we bleed the same, she hides away like a ghost, if you ran away come back home" one saying "I need you, please don't take the beautiful things that I got" other saying "I love you" repeatedly and everyone or something around me mentioning his name, the angel numbers I don't count much because I see them since before him...I simply start to laugh at this point 🤡
@@irina7news absolutely they are all blinded by the devil and the karmics but let go and let God trust the process focus on God right now love yourself more now and watch God move those mountains 🙏❤️🙏 God is good all the time and is always on time trust what's meant for you will be a love like no other ❤️🙏❤️God bless you don't focus on your twin focus on you cause the more you focus on him he will keep running clear your mind love
@@FoxLove-m8ja panthera of them. for I am Merging towards into energetic union, our reunion is this month as waiting for him to contact me… what on the timeline.
@@wisdomhappythere aren't time lines. There is just the now. Energetically you are already merged. That happened with the first encounter and with being a kundalini awakening. You don't align with him. He is going to aline with you. It's on him. You can dwell in your own energy and feel good with it.
Ladies if your having difficulty staying in your DF energy, take yourself back to times where women were COURTED. If you have to plan, reach out, set up the date etc...its a test. Fall back into your energy express yourself and leave it at that...if he is your true TF or DM, he will course correct and do what needs to be done. ✌🏾🙏🏾
@tmgraham20 no, it's best to block them. Not out of anger or resentment. But out of necessity to Heal. Sure, it's great when Union happens BUT the point of them to come into our lives is to Awaken us. Not get caught up m in the pink fluffy love stage. If they're our true twin flame, they would heal as well. Mirror soul. Once healing is underway it opens both up to the beautiful love. They're Not making Union Important. It's all about the healing.
@@Geminimom22 I've blocked my DM. If he wants to move on to another relationship all the best to him. I'm just turning inward, and standing in my power. I didn't let his words waver me. I said I'm in a good place and I'm happy and he replied by saying he is with someone else. I said all the best deleted his message and blocked him. I was feeling my emotions surfacing, but instead of letting it take over, I let it flow through me and released it. I work on my breathing and just went deep into my soul and focused on my inner union and harmony. I feel much better. And I have no desire to check up on him or react to what he told me.
@shireeknn2024 I applaud you. That's the best way to do it. Because it isn't about Them. It's about Us. We heal. They heal. We are The Leaders. Sending love and light to you.
@@constance8667 him coming in and out and ghosting me without opening up why..When I let my own blocks go I soften up towards him and lower my defences .I realised I am a powerful creator on how energy flows between us,it might not be how I want it ,but it opens doors for my own evolution in so many ways and if he is your twin his soul is bond to follow.
He came in to test yesterday. I was joyous and playful, genuinely happy because of Life... yet boundaries strong as never before. There are shifts within him, I can feel. I was no contact for a few months and I believe he went through a Soul Shock... But I feel he is still in his matrix and doesn't look he'll find the courage to step out of it soon... I am in a state of no return to the old paradigms of pleasing and being available just to keep the connection and feed my ego feeding his ego and spinning in the same old merry-go-round. New state of awareness of my own value and light came this april, like I've transcended to a new level of consciousness. Your guidance @Raghida is precious ❤
@@Lulu-ns4bt yes, I understand what you mean. In the past I was getting offended by his actions, thinking "How can you do that to me, to us?" It is now the sincere question of "Man... How can you do that to yourself?" And it feels nauseous when I see how he's being self-destructive just to get my reaction. 🤷♀️ Sometimes I feel like my heart doesn't even love him anymore. But my Soul does. And that is it.
I’ve recently experienced the testing twice. It triggered me a little, but I changed how I responded to it compared to the past. Held my boundaries and communicated that it was not acceptable. He listened and changed his behavior on those two issues. It took me a long time to understand how much I had to change within me before this could happen. I had to set boundaries in all areas of my life and let go of everything and everyone who was dragging my energy down and not respecting my boundaries. Thank you for sharing your insights and wisdom. 💕✨
Wow ! I can so relate. And I recently messaged him i am tired of fighting with him, I won't anymore (ie get triggered). I give up. Let's just be there for each other. Ofcourse he dint respond. My only focus is on myself , my health, my responsibilities, my life, staying centered, in a state of surrender. No more chasing.
Why fighting? What or against what are you fighting? You can get triggered everywhere. Being triggered is not even bad. It just tells you where you needs at. You can also be triggered mentally as being stimulated. This idea that just one person triggers, is an illusion. Same the idea that everyone needs to heal. A twin flame dynamic is all about becoming self-aware and becoming understanding for your life, self, others ans life in general. It's not about being tested or whatever idea people pubiish. There is no goal or anything to win.
The biggest thing the feminine side needs to worry about is sending back energy which isn't theirs, and the masculine, taking back what is theirs, however it works in reverse as well. Other than that, it's the most natural process in the world. Follow your heart. You'll be fine. There is no right or wrong, there is no sin, there is nothing to fear. There is no evil in the world, although, there is a... Well that's probably not your area. If it were, you likely wouldn't be on here. Anyway, I recommend spending time outside, and under the stars, and sun. It helps. Good day! May you all be blessed in your releasing of this pain you are expressing!!!!
This is exactly what is happening at the moment to me. No more triggers, very strong boundaries, love is overflowing is unconditional. He's trying to get my attention but I am not responding to silly stuff anymore as I used to do it. My DM was changing his profile pictures like crazy yesterday and funny enough all the updates were straight in my face as I was going on my Facebook page, but he got no response from me. Next day he texted me in the morning, asking why didn't send him likes on his pictures, asking if I don't like them. He's definitely puzzled because before I would have done it, but not now. Definitely seeking attention from me, that's what I used to do at the beginning of the journey. I knew it's a test for me as well,will I respond or not. Lesson learned ❤😊
As a man, with dm aspects, it only after leaving my job for 14 yeara is that i realize that yes, ai never respected, loved myself and never cared about my boundaries now, am starting to realize what I was missing and this is so important. So this was the missing key. My self love, respect and to value my boundaries.
This is exactly where we are at as he kept coming in and I wasn't holding strong healthy boundaries so divine stepped in and is helping the process for me to be able to do so such a beautiful process ❤❤❤
I absolutely relate to this. Mine calls from blocked numbers and private numbers. I told him calmly you can either call as yourself and step up or step aside for the man that will.
it’s the person not the zodiac, there’s patterns you are failing to. learn. that’s why they keep repeating, they’re trying to show you something that you need to learn. And if you’re attracting narcs, you need better boundaries and more self love!
@@havilah These men only show up whenever I start putting myself first instead of working long hours etc. All of them at one time or another start mirroring me. I don't feel I have low self love, I feel these narcs just love sucking the good energy from you. With all of them I ended it once I saw what was going on. I know lots of women that stay in these situations just so they won't be alone. I would rather be alone than be with someone that is making me unhappy.
I'm a virgo and so far from a narcissist 😂 At some point you need to take a step back and look at the common denominator- why are you picking these mfs? People who aren't broken can see those red flags a mile away! But a fear of abandonment- being alone- seeking a relationship to fill a hole in ur heart- will all blind you Maybe it's a sign you have work to do!
This was so beautifully sad! I had to give a follow! I’ve been on this path over 7 years now, & one of the things that I’ve constantly talked about specifically from the beginning, as part of my healing process, is how the universe has made it very clear to me about learning to have healthy boundaries & healing from being a people pleaser. You never know how deep the people pleasing habits run, until to start to say NO. In fact, the boundaries aspect was like prep work for all the shadow & ascension work that was going to follow, while my twin & I were out of contact. I’ve done so much healing work, ie childhood, generational, etc etc & I have let go /released so much. I’d have to say that my twin getting married was a major test for me & he is now preparing to get divorced. The last several days, I’ve been feeling strongly like he’s going to attempt communication as a test… a TEST Is EXACTLY the word that came to me too, to see how I would respond, how solid my boundaries are. I’m prepared though, more than I have ever been! I really just want him to get out of that mess & focus on being with himself & learning what he needed to from that experience with that person. As much as I love him, 10 years of being single & 6+ years of celibacy don’t have me jaded or weak… he needs to stand tall for himself, learn to be alone for awhile & during that time, friendship is the only thing he’ll get out of me. But I definitely DONT want to reestablish the connection, while he’s going through a divorce.
Great video. I've finally reached this stage. It's so weird cause it's like this version of me has always existed, but somehow not been able to come out until now after I've done all this work. But truly i'm now just being myself fully. Such a weird concept. I remember knowing intuively what the right thing to do was, but not being able to be that way. Now I am able. I don't think we have that much power over our growth. Seems like things happen when its meant to, and when we are ready.
This is very true. I have had to hold strong self love boundaries while staying balanced. Regardless of what I wanted the outcome to be which is true surrender to self, self love which is Gods love. One and the same. ❤
I’ve just discovered you and so grateful ❤ It’s been a while since I’ve felt I need assistance and reconnected to my knowingness of this journey. I’ve honestly allowed my 3D reality to take trump and now I know why, I was consolidating my healing and contracts. You have reignited my faith when I didn’t realise I needed that, thank you 🙏
I literally came across you in a moment when my DM said something publicly that was uncharacteristicly offensive to me. It wasn’t actually aimed at me but it made no sense he would say it when it’s the opposite of what he usually says. And my response was an immediate energetic hell no. Once upon a time I would have made excuses for him but this time I was more like “ grow up and stop being so petty”. It made no sense. Until I saw this. Especially when his energy was so positive lately.
Correct this just happened to me. I have been working on my soul purpose and union at the soul level. He told me he has met someone I didn't react as I usually would like being tit for tat. I told him all the best. Then I turned inward and calmed myself down and worked on just trusting my inner union. I am not reacting to him and just going on my soul journey
I just came across your video. A month ago I told him I was not going to continuing the way it was going in and out specially the bedroom things and when he is serious about are connection . I put him in friend zone but I told him I didn't leave him I left his actions. When he is serious to let me know but things will be different for now on. He was avoiding to be valuable.
Wow this is the first time you have popped up on my feed and I needed to hear this! My boundaries have been rock solid since 25th March and though he has tried breaking them 4 times since and I have only just tightened them up a few weeks ago when I did not come in correct cos I just know he is not coming in correct based on the first few words of the last two messages he sent me which I did not open to fully read (he is left unread twice now) as he is coming in with wishy washy energy I won’t have that. I’m gonna be able to know when he is in the correct energy and it has not happened yet. This is the absolute strongest I have ever been. It is so hard to do but I am incapable of doing anything to compromise myself and he knows it - but I know I absolutely need to hold the line and am so grateful I saw your video just now as confirmation!!!! Thank you! I’m fully focused on my purpose/passion and he sees that - he watches all my IG stories. ALL of them. And they are about my work mostly and inspiring people. Nothing designed to speak to him. He’ll need to come in face to face with me and he knows what he needs to do cos when I made my final stand and boundary I spelt it out to him that he needs to come in clean and correct and do whatever it takes and be in no doubt that he cannot imagine the rest of his life without me in it. ❤
@@katrinaemily6601 I agree I cannot do anything wise actually - I’m actually very grateful he put me on this decisive position. He has already brought me clarity by doing so. I think they push us til we make a stand. So stand is made. Either he comes in correct to me or he does not and that is not something I can control I just look after me. Pour all my energy on me.
M glad that I putted the strong statement in from of him like this only before our conversation turned fighting or before the seperation period started and before I was aware of This journey..how devine plans the journey m amazed. Thankyou for ur insights, Always ❤
Exactly. According to the video, I passed the test but DM got offended bc things didnt go on his terms and felt rejected 😂 maybe it's a test from the universe/ divine self not DM. Maybe we were testing if DM is ready.
I feel compassion and love for my TF, just so hurt from him with no apologies. I have a little more work to do within. I don’t know or think that this will be the reality where he and I unite finally. I will never compromise myself again for him. 😓
I feel called to just say: sorry is man made Higher love is not remorseful Love is all there is but on Earth we label and expect things that are very 3D including “sorry” You got this Don’t give up
I'm so glad I happened across your page and videos. I am almost there. Almost, and it feels so dang great because I'm doing it for me. I am Healing for Me. Stepping into my Empress for Me. And our son. He is the Bonus. Its been a crazy ride but I'm learning More these days, healing More these days since he circled around in Apr. Spoke of new beginnings before radio silence. But this time, I Know what I didn't know 4 yrs ago so its easier this go around. This is confirmation that I'm on the right path and doing it for the right reasons ❤
I knew what I was doing wrong before but it actually wasn’t wrong. It was clearly needed because my vibration wasn’t high enough to sit firmly in my truth. I wasn’t strong enough yet. This journey made me stronger & there is more strength to come that I will need. I understand this journey much more. All of it’s phases are necessary & I’m grateful for it all ❤
Don't poke at my energy and don't test me anymore. I have constant love for myself , self respect and yes I will not enable and accept bad behaviour, I am not here to please a man.
@thatdapperman darling how can a divine feminine fail when she isn't pleasing and appeasing, we are not here to accept being just baby makers. We are here to leave a stand and be seen, to change generational curses and this is about our own divi ity and inner union as we ascend higher yo God and not union with a man not willing to work on himself and become pure and divine!!! I think you have list when he is sleeping with everything and bri ging sti back to you and your unborn offspring!! What a winner you are!! Dog
@@thatdapperman only narcs like to be winners, that is not what this journey is about it is about self live, respect and mastery and not pornographic swinging !!!
@@thatdapperman stupid and pathetic comment if ever I heard it, you never know what the future brings and I'm focusing on my here and now, but I tell you one thing once I'm divorced I'm coming back on TH-cam and speaking my truth!!!
DM's omg so much drama , who allowed them to test us , DF's are as honored as they are , only divine can test both and decide who is ready and who is not , life is always beautiful with divine blessings and soul porpose starts with honoring oneself first 🪷
I’m currently in this state!! Yay!! He just did that test yesterday! And I feel so whole 😊 like I feel So grounded and in joy. I took it in a playful yet authentic way. But I can be even more in my boundaries… I just want offended by triggers because I’m like that’s not my tru
I totally stopped all communication, standing up to anything that is not good energy, and he’s emailing me msgs no apologies and being little rude, thinking if msg back! I’m standing my ground now…
I love your knowing and I receive this guidance … we have had 1 union that was so incredible .. sacred perfect but then distance from him. Thru you I have remained silent and now feel him returning and I am ready in my heart the Goddess /Queen strong yet gentle he is a blue ray star seed very sensitive I just learned this and I now understand him so much better 🙏💕💜🦋🌻👩🎨
I think DF should not hold boundaries until she burns them all first otherwise the boundaries she holds is actually ego masquerading as a boundary trying to coax him into someone else. Only thing she needs to learn is unconditional love of self and complete forgiveness of self and then the same extended for him and then for everyone and everything. She will not do anything unloving to herself from this place but she must go through understanding what a boundary is and whether she has transmuted her ego before she understands her own boundary otherwise she is just resisting him as he is and maintaining the ego behind this thing that we call a "healthy" boundary
My twin flame and I had bad 30 year marriages. We forgave our partners and Met..had two wonderful years..then separated again. He remarried.. I took care of my children and grandchildren. After 20 years I was put back with my first husband and had to learn to forgive all over again! I am doing it! 😊❤
To me his qualifications and thoughts are equal to 5th grade. The is the fact, I am NO longer emotionally connected with him and I said that I am NO longer in love with him. Therefore, before he loses me forever, he wants to hold the grip. Plus, there's NO more time at all.
It’s more like being neutral and being fully present. If I am in a Divine love state, my vibration gets too high and we repel each other - funnily, I only attract other men in that state, making my DM angry and jealous (so his vibration goes down even more). So, it’s all about energetic fine tuning and complete inner balance. Complete detachment. Like a Buddha. Very difficult! Because the more you care, the less likely it’s going to happen. What a paradox.
I blocked him 😂 he gave me some weak sorry last time talking about I feel bad cause I only come around when I want something” never offered a genuine I’m sorry soooo I’m not sorry you got blocked cause you came in with the same piss poor energy.”
Thank you 🙏 so much. I have been looking for this answer. I’m tired of my twin coming in and going out every time. I’ve been holding for a while now. Something I have not done yet. We’re coming up to 2 months of silence. (4th year in)👩🏻🤝👨🏼❤
My dm is avoidant and he runs away everytime I show up emotionally vulnerable, he blames that I’m too emotional and emotionally unstable..and he’s made it clear that the journey is over because he can’t give any commitment. I’ve moved out of his path and I’m not even manifesting it anymore, I don’t want him if he doesn’t want me. It burns my soul but I’ll live with it than lower myself anymore.
I keep healing within and moving forward until his ready to come in completely I only met him once and I felt so much calmness and I Felt safe and peaceful and content and I felt deep love for him and we only had eye contact for a few minutes and then I left But unfortunately his married so to me his off limits
I'm no longer triggered by him, and can happily go about my life without him in it - to the point where I do not wish for him to come back. I don't doubt the twin flame thing because of how this friendship triggered such a profound period of growth and that process of individuation within me - but is this normal to feel this way? To feel unbothered about whether or not he comes back into my life? I still dream of him - if anything, the dreams are more vivid than ever. But I let go when I awake and no longer live in my head. Loving this process, loving Me!
I was randomlyserved this video today minutes after my DM shared a photo of his karmic partner that normally would have been highly triggering to me. Could this be an example of the type of trigger before reunion? He has not communicated with me in months but I’ve felt his energy strongly lately. I actually felt he may communicate soon-but then he shared that photo. I was not triggered by it, which I’m super proud about and gave myself lots of self love and a pat on the back. 😊 I am so happy with my progress and wherever he is, with whomever, I send him unconditional love. ❤ I hope this message was meant for me and this is just one of the final triggers before union, but I’m not attached to any outcomes.
This message was definitely meant for you to see, and what you describe sounds like one of the biggest tests EVER! Will you see it nothing but a third party, that doesn’t exist, and they will soon be gone out of his life. Cause circumstances, time, and distance are all irrelevant🧲🧩
Mine messaged me and I said I'm doing good and on a happy place. He then said he has met someone, I said all the best and just left it at that. No more replies from me. And blocked him. Staying in my power and boundaries high up
My divine masculine how i wish you would finally show yourself to me ❤ how i wish you would come in reunion with me after 3 decades separation i hope our reunion is very soon in 3d i wake up everyday knowing every single thing i plan to invest in the long run will also come to an end i have so enough of temporary separation endings i yearn for permanency union beginnings 😢 i dont know where God is hiding 🔭🌑💔
It's such hell to be a twin flame 😩
Before I meet my DM, TH-cam wouldn't stop recommending me twin flame videos, I had heard before because I've met a false one 7 years ago, so after clicking "don't recommend this content" and the videos would keep popping up at my recommendation, I gave in and went to watch a video, I got curious thinking if this could be real because there were "all this energetic things that sounded like magic to me as I watched the video" then I went to read the comments and there were only hurt/suffering people, so I LITERALLY commented "THANK GOD, THIS WILL NEVER HAPPEN TO ME, IT WOULD BE A LIVING HELL" 1,5 or 2 months goes by...BUM met my DM, when tarot readings would say he was a soulmate I was overjoyed, but then they started to talk about tf, that I might be on a journey, I entered a dark night of the soul instantly because I would see twin flame as the worst punishment/curse something someone could curse their worst enemy with, today I accepted but doubt he's my tf came as he acted in ways I hated and I couldn't believe I would do something like that to someone I'd love so much, then I blocked him monday after he tried to make me jealous and now I'm getting songs saying "where's my love, don't you know that we bleed the same, she hides away like a ghost, if you ran away come back home" one saying "I need you, please don't take the beautiful things that I got" other saying "I love you" repeatedly and everyone or something around me mentioning his name, the angel numbers I don't count much because I see them since before him...I simply start to laugh at this point 🤡
@@irina7news absolutely they are all blinded by the devil and the karmics but let go and let God trust the process focus on God right now love yourself more now and watch God move those mountains 🙏❤️🙏 God is good all the time and is always on time trust what's meant for you will be a love like no other ❤️🙏❤️God bless you don't focus on your twin focus on you cause the more you focus on him he will keep running clear your mind love
@@FoxLove-m8ja panthera of them. for
I am Merging towards into energetic union, our reunion is this month as waiting for him to contact me… what on the timeline.
It's not. It's just sometimes intens. You can learn a lot about yourself and life. All will be fine.
@@wisdomhappythere aren't time lines. There is just the now. Energetically you are already merged. That happened with the first encounter and with being a kundalini awakening.
You don't align with him. He is going to aline with you. It's on him. You can dwell in your own energy and feel good with it.
Ladies if your having difficulty staying in your DF energy, take yourself back to times where women were COURTED. If you have to plan, reach out, set up the date etc...its a test. Fall back into your energy express yourself and leave it at that...if he is your true TF or DM, he will course correct and do what needs to be done. ✌🏾🙏🏾
So true about this. The court card always showed up when I asked about twin flame relationship.
@tmgraham20 no, it's best to block them. Not out of anger or resentment. But out of necessity to Heal. Sure, it's great when Union happens BUT the point of them to come into our lives is to Awaken us. Not get caught up m in the pink fluffy love stage. If they're our true twin flame, they would heal as well. Mirror soul. Once healing is underway it opens both up to the beautiful love. They're Not making Union Important. It's all about the healing.
@@Geminimom22 I've blocked my DM. If he wants to move on to another relationship all the best to him. I'm just turning inward, and standing in my power. I didn't let his words waver me. I said I'm in a good place and I'm happy and he replied by saying he is with someone else. I said all the best deleted his message and blocked him. I was feeling my emotions surfacing, but instead of letting it take over, I let it flow through me and released it. I work on my breathing and just went deep into my soul and focused on my inner union and harmony. I feel much better. And I have no desire to check up on him or react to what he told me.
@shireeknn2024 I applaud you. That's the best way to do it. Because it isn't about Them. It's about Us. We heal. They heal. We are The Leaders. Sending love and light to you.
@@tmgraham20 He sure will. I'm just seeing this.
I’ve made the call to walk away! It’s his birthday today but I’ve fully stepped back. Unless he comes in right. Boundaries are so strong! King - yes!!
Good for you!!!❤ Stay strong! 💪🏾
If he's "the one", he'll come correct... if not, he's out of the way now.
Great job!!!🎉
@@ScorpioKay1027 thank you xx
I’m in the same place… but some days I feel so low 😢
@@AwakenToLove444 so do I. Today is one of those days. I feel like I’m never going to speak to him again 😰
@@katrinaemily6601 dont worry
Correct ..this is exactky whats happening.Triggers are gone.Boundaries are strong.But love is there.
Can relate mate❤😢
@@constance8667 him coming in and out and ghosting me without opening up why..When I let my own blocks go I soften up towards him and lower my defences .I realised I am a powerful creator on how energy flows between us,it might not be how I want it ,but it opens doors for my own evolution in so many ways and if he is your twin his soul is bond to follow.
Beautiful ..THANK YOU AND MUCH LOVE.
He pushed me away and I've been working on me. I'm good without him unless he's right too🙏
I love failing dudes test. Liking and loving myself is so much fun
He came in to test yesterday. I was joyous and playful, genuinely happy because of Life... yet boundaries strong as never before. There are shifts within him, I can feel. I was no contact for a few months and I believe he went through a Soul Shock... But I feel he is still in his matrix and doesn't look he'll find the courage to step out of it soon...
I am in a state of no return to the old paradigms of pleasing and being available just to keep the connection and feed my ego feeding his ego and spinning in the same old merry-go-round. New state of awareness of my own value and light came this april, like I've transcended to a new level of consciousness.
Your guidance @Raghida is precious ❤
Same and he already chose the easy path and found a connection from the matrix. I'm not even jealous, I'm turned off.
@@Saturn57I think we become “icked” with our twin when they stop doing the work. I’ve picked up on this
@Lulu-ns4bt yep, I have been feeling sick to my stomach re: his karmic obligation ( 5yrs). Holding my boundaries 🙃 hopefully.
Beautiful ❤️
@@Lulu-ns4bt yes, I understand what you mean. In the past I was getting offended by his actions, thinking "How can you do that to me, to us?" It is now the sincere question of "Man... How can you do that to yourself?" And it feels nauseous when I see how he's being self-destructive just to get my reaction.
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Sometimes I feel like my heart doesn't even love him anymore. But my Soul does. And that is it.
JUST did this. Boundaries brightly marked. Queen energy in place. Carry on 😂
I’ve recently experienced the testing twice. It triggered me a little, but I changed how I responded to it compared to the past. Held my boundaries and communicated that it was not acceptable. He listened and changed his behavior on those two issues. It took me a long time to understand how much I had to change within me before this could happen. I had to set boundaries in all areas of my life and let go of everything and everyone who was dragging my energy down and not respecting my boundaries. Thank you for sharing your insights and wisdom. 💕✨
Wow ! I can so relate. And I recently messaged him i am tired of fighting with him, I won't anymore (ie get triggered). I give up. Let's just be there for each other. Ofcourse he dint respond. My only focus is on myself , my health, my responsibilities, my life, staying centered, in a state of surrender. No more chasing.
Why fighting? What or against what are you fighting? You can get triggered everywhere. Being triggered is not even bad. It just tells you where you needs at. You can also be triggered mentally as being stimulated.
This idea that just one person triggers, is an illusion. Same the idea that everyone needs to heal.
A twin flame dynamic is all about becoming self-aware and becoming understanding for your life, self, others ans life in general.
It's not about being tested or whatever idea people pubiish. There is no goal or anything to win.
The biggest thing the feminine side needs to worry about is sending back energy which isn't theirs, and the masculine, taking back what is theirs, however it works in reverse as well. Other than that, it's the most natural process in the world. Follow your heart. You'll be fine. There is no right or wrong, there is no sin, there is nothing to fear. There is no evil in the world, although, there is a... Well that's probably not your area. If it were, you likely wouldn't be on here. Anyway, I recommend spending time outside, and under the stars, and sun. It helps. Good day! May you all be blessed in your releasing of this pain you are expressing!!!!
This is exactly what is happening at the moment to me. No more triggers, very strong boundaries, love is overflowing is unconditional. He's trying to get my attention but I am not responding to silly stuff anymore as I used to do it. My DM was changing his profile pictures like crazy yesterday and funny enough all the updates were straight in my face as I was going on my Facebook page, but he got no response from me. Next day he texted me in the morning, asking why didn't send him likes on his pictures, asking if I don't like them. He's definitely puzzled because before I would have done it, but not now. Definitely seeking attention from me, that's what I used to do at the beginning of the journey. I knew it's a test for me as well,will I respond or not. Lesson learned ❤😊
As a man, with dm aspects, it only after leaving my job for 14 yeara is that i realize that yes, ai never respected, loved myself and never cared about my boundaries now, am starting to realize what I was missing and this is so important. So this was the missing key. My self love, respect and to value my boundaries.
This is exactly where we are at as he kept coming in and I wasn't holding strong healthy boundaries so divine stepped in and is helping the process for me to be able to do so such a beautiful process ❤❤❤
I absolutely relate to this. Mine calls from blocked numbers and private numbers. I told him calmly you can either call as yourself and step up or step aside for the man that will.
I been single for 8 years, dating is exhausting. I keep getting Virgos, which were all narcs.
it’s the person not the zodiac, there’s patterns you are failing to. learn. that’s why they keep repeating, they’re trying to show you something that you need to learn. And if you’re attracting narcs, you need better boundaries and more self love!
@@havilah These men only show up whenever I start putting myself first instead of working long hours etc. All of them at one time or another start mirroring me. I don't feel I have low self love, I feel these narcs just love sucking the good energy from you. With all of them I ended it once I saw what was going on. I know lots of women that stay in these situations just so they won't be alone. I would rather be alone than be with someone that is making me unhappy.
@ that’s true too! attracted to light and feminine life force! pray you attract a divine one 💕💕💕
@@havilah Thank you very much.
I'm a virgo and so far from a narcissist 😂
At some point you need to take a step back and look at the common denominator- why are you picking these mfs? People who aren't broken can see those red flags a mile away!
But a fear of abandonment- being alone- seeking a relationship to fill a hole in ur heart- will all blind you
Maybe it's a sign you have work to do!
Yes!! That's me 🥳 and he just re-entered my life.
This was so beautifully sad! I had to give a follow! I’ve been on this path over 7 years now, & one of the things that I’ve constantly talked about specifically from the beginning, as part of my healing process, is how the universe has made it very clear to me about learning to have healthy boundaries & healing from being a people pleaser. You never know how deep the people pleasing habits run, until to start to say NO. In fact, the boundaries aspect was like prep work for all the shadow & ascension work that was going to follow, while my twin & I were out of contact. I’ve done so much healing work, ie childhood, generational, etc etc & I have let go /released so much. I’d have to say that my twin getting married was a major test for me & he is now preparing to get divorced. The last several days, I’ve been feeling strongly like he’s going to attempt communication as a test… a TEST Is EXACTLY the word that came to me too, to see how I would respond, how solid my boundaries are. I’m prepared though, more than I have ever been! I really just want him to get out of that mess & focus on being with himself & learning what he needed to from that experience with that person. As much as I love him, 10 years of being single & 6+ years of celibacy don’t have me jaded or weak… he needs to stand tall for himself, learn to be alone for awhile & during that time, friendship is the only thing he’ll get out of me. But I definitely DONT want to reestablish the connection, while he’s going through a divorce.
12 months ago I would disagree, however at this stage of my journey I 110% agree with this
Right such a hell to b in twin flame..m finding my peace doing inner work
Great video. I've finally reached this stage. It's so weird cause it's like this version of me has always existed, but somehow not been able to come out until now after I've done all this work. But truly i'm now just being myself fully. Such a weird concept. I remember knowing intuively what the right thing to do was, but not being able to be that way. Now I am able. I don't think we have that much power over our growth. Seems like things happen when its meant to, and when we are ready.
I agree it is in the hands of divine snd our job is just slow and surrender it seems like it should be simple ha!!
This is very true. I have had to hold strong self love boundaries while staying balanced. Regardless of what I wanted the outcome to be which is true surrender to self, self love which is Gods love. One and the same. ❤
that's what i needed to hear. I have a feeling it's a test right now....❤🎉✨️🙏🏽❣️
This is such a wonderful confirmation. 🎊 Thank you for your no BS approach. Hold the line DFs ❤❤❤
I’ve just discovered you and so grateful ❤
It’s been a while since I’ve felt I need assistance and reconnected to my knowingness of this journey. I’ve honestly allowed my 3D reality to take trump and now I know why, I was consolidating my healing and contracts. You have reignited my faith when I didn’t realise I needed that, thank you 🙏
I literally came across you in a moment when my DM said something publicly that was uncharacteristicly offensive to me. It wasn’t actually aimed at me but it made no sense he would say it when it’s the opposite of what he usually says. And my response was an immediate energetic hell no. Once upon a time I would have made excuses for him but this time I was more like “ grow up and stop being so petty”. It made no sense. Until I saw this. Especially when his energy was so positive lately.
Correct this just happened to me. I have been working on my soul purpose and union at the soul level. He told me he has met someone I didn't react as I usually would like being tit for tat. I told him all the best. Then I turned inward and calmed myself down and worked on just trusting my inner union. I am not reacting to him and just going on my soul journey
Got enough gyaan, advice, and information.. It's overload now, Thank you for all gyaan🙏
Yes absolutely agree with this, boundaries are key.
It's called,'playing games,'...who needs it?
Then let go and walk away.
😂😂😂
Then why are you even viewing this content when you know it all?
@@Nah-ah I view 'WHAT I WANT,'...WHAT'S IT TO YOU-you're nobody.
Facts ..it's Games
I just came across your video. A month ago I told him I was not going to continuing the way it was going in and out specially the bedroom things and when he is serious about are connection . I put him in friend zone but I told him I didn't leave him I left his actions. When he is serious to let me know but things will be different for now on. He was avoiding to be valuable.
Wow this is the first time you have popped up on my feed and I needed to hear this!
My boundaries have been rock solid since 25th March and though he has tried breaking them 4 times since and I have only just tightened them up a few weeks ago when I did not come in correct cos I just know he is not coming in correct based on the first few words of the last two messages he sent me which I did not open to fully read (he is left unread twice now) as he is coming in with wishy washy energy I won’t have that. I’m gonna be able to know when he is in the correct energy and it has not happened yet. This is the absolute strongest I have ever been. It is so hard to do but I am incapable of doing anything to compromise myself and he knows it - but I know I absolutely need to hold the line and am so grateful I saw your video just now as confirmation!!!! Thank you! I’m fully focused on my purpose/passion and he sees that - he watches all my IG stories. ALL of them. And they are about my work mostly and inspiring people. Nothing designed to speak to him. He’ll need to come in face to face with me and he knows what he needs to do cos when I made my final stand and boundary I spelt it out to him that he needs to come in clean and correct and do whatever it takes and be in no doubt that he cannot imagine the rest of his life without me in it. ❤
Good stance. There is no other way.
@@katrinaemily6601 I agree I cannot do anything wise actually - I’m actually very grateful he put me on this decisive position. He has already brought me clarity by doing so. I think they push us til we make a stand. So stand is made. Either he comes in correct to me or he does not and that is not something I can control I just look after me. Pour all my energy on me.
We're almost there...
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M glad that I putted the strong statement in from of him like this only before our conversation turned fighting or before the seperation period started and before I was aware of This journey..how devine plans the journey m amazed. Thankyou for ur insights, Always ❤
It’s not testing it’s control and power play and playing games
Exactly. According to the video, I passed the test but DM got offended bc things didnt go on his terms and felt rejected 😂 maybe it's a test from the universe/ divine self not DM. Maybe we were testing if DM is ready.
Yh. That's not tf. Why r women doing this to themselves
I feel compassion and love for my TF, just so hurt from him with no apologies. I have a little more work to do within. I don’t know or think that this will be the reality where he and I unite finally. I will never compromise myself again for him. 😓
I feel called to just say: sorry is man made
Higher love is not remorseful
Love is all there is but on Earth we label and expect things that are very 3D including “sorry”
You got this
Don’t give up
I'm so glad I happened across your page and videos. I am almost there. Almost, and it feels so dang great because I'm doing it for me. I am Healing for Me. Stepping into my Empress for Me. And our son. He is the Bonus. Its been a crazy ride but I'm learning More these days, healing More these days since he circled around in Apr. Spoke of new beginnings before radio silence. But this time, I Know what I didn't know 4 yrs ago so its easier this go around.
This is confirmation that I'm on the right path and doing it for the right reasons ❤
I knew what I was doing wrong before but it actually wasn’t wrong. It was clearly needed because my vibration wasn’t high enough to sit firmly in my truth. I wasn’t strong enough yet. This journey made me stronger & there is more strength to come that I will need. I understand this journey much more. All of it’s phases are necessary & I’m grateful for it all ❤
Thank you. I will come into test this week, with a no pressure, sending love type of little letter with no expectations attached.
🌌☯️❤️🙏
Your are very much a powerful teacher ❤. Thank you. ❤❤
I think I need to watch this video daily.
Watched 3x today and once before that.
Love the style of your top in this 🩷🩷🩷
AmaZing Knowledge SecretS You Reavealed
My GOD this is AmAZinG ❤
Don't poke at my energy and don't test me anymore. I have constant love for myself , self respect and yes I will not enable and accept bad behaviour, I am not here to please a man.
That means you've already said failed
@@thatdapperman no I haven't, I won't be treated the way he treats his dirty karmic!!!!
@thatdapperman darling how can a divine feminine fail when she isn't pleasing and appeasing, we are not here to accept being just baby makers. We are here to leave a stand and be seen, to change generational curses and this is about our own divi ity and inner union as we ascend higher yo God and not union with a man not willing to work on himself and become pure and divine!!! I think you have list when he is sleeping with everything and bri ging sti back to you and your unborn offspring!! What a winner you are!! Dog
@@thatdapperman only narcs like to be winners, that is not what this journey is about it is about self live, respect and mastery and not pornographic swinging !!!
@@thatdapperman stupid and pathetic comment if ever I heard it, you never know what the future brings and I'm focusing on my here and now, but I tell you one thing once I'm divorced I'm coming back on TH-cam and speaking my truth!!!
Wow this really resonates! Happened on 14.4 after that/since then further near constant ascension energy. Off the chain!
Beautiful beautiful, Thankyou so much for this light ( when u ask devine answers r undeniable m glad) Thanks again
Ha I just did this and she was running away still. She's almost ready just not yet.
@@Mrs.TJ516 When you really think about it were not in control anyways. So it will come no matter what we do.
DM's omg so much drama , who allowed them to test us , DF's are as honored as they are , only divine can test both and decide who is ready and who is not , life is always beautiful with divine blessings and soul porpose starts with honoring oneself first 🪷
Best advice I’ve heard in a long time, explained well . Thank you
Such a brilliant metaphysical explanation.
Powerful most powerful this is what I am being ☯️🙏🏼🙏🏼 Bless you miss
Seeing at 22:22
I’m currently in this state!! Yay!! He just did that test yesterday! And I feel so whole 😊 like I feel
So grounded and in joy. I took it in a playful yet authentic way. But I can be even more in my boundaries… I just want offended by triggers because I’m like that’s not my tru
Wow, this is so powerful and true! Thank you for confirming my actual energy! ❤
This was wonderful and so reassuring. Very helpful. Thank you❤
Yes, we have to be stand out, be unlike any other.
This just poped up and m grateful it , Thankyou ❤
Beautiful video💜
Excellent video ❤❤❤
Thank you so much 🎯🎯🙏🙏🙏
WOW! I have never heard this level of detail before, regarding this topic. SUBSCRIBED! ❤
I totally stopped all communication, standing up to anything that is not good energy, and he’s emailing me msgs no apologies and being little rude, thinking if msg back! I’m standing my ground now…
Thank you for this guidance 🙏🏽😇🪽💙
I get it now! 😳
This makes so much sense. Thank you for this valuable guidance. ❤
Agree!
I needed to hear this
I am preparing 👰🏻♀️🤵♂️
I love your knowing and I receive this guidance … we have had 1 union that was so incredible .. sacred perfect but then distance from him. Thru you I have remained silent and now feel him returning and I am ready in my heart the Goddess /Queen strong yet gentle he is a blue ray star seed very sensitive I just learned this and I now understand him so much better 🙏💕💜🦋🌻👩🎨
I think DF should not hold boundaries until she burns them all first otherwise the boundaries she holds is actually ego masquerading as a boundary trying to coax him into someone else. Only thing she needs to learn is unconditional love of self and complete forgiveness of self and then the same extended for him and then for everyone and everything. She will not do anything unloving to herself from this place but she must go through understanding what a boundary is and whether she has transmuted her ego before she understands her own boundary otherwise she is just resisting him as he is and maintaining the ego behind this thing that we call a "healthy" boundary
My twin flame and I had bad 30 year marriages. We forgave our partners and Met..had two wonderful years..then separated again. He remarried.. I took care of my children and grandchildren. After 20 years I was put back with my first husband and had to learn to forgive all over again! I am doing it! 😊❤
Getting back with an ex is like shoving the morning turd back in your ass- good luck 😂
And i guess the testing thing comes subconsciously for them...
To me his qualifications and thoughts are equal to 5th grade. The is the fact, I am NO longer emotionally connected with him and I said that I am NO longer in love with him. Therefore, before he loses me forever, he wants to hold the grip. Plus, there's NO more time at all.
Boundaries and self love.
in that case it must be a karmic because the 'poking' and 'prodding' and 'problem-making' has completely obliterated me. the taunting is so damaging.
So on point, everything you said is happening to me now. ❤ thank you for your work
That sounds right!!
It’s more like being neutral and being fully present. If I am in a Divine love state, my vibration gets too high and we repel each other - funnily, I only attract other men in that state, making my DM angry and jealous (so his vibration goes down even more). So, it’s all about energetic fine tuning and complete inner balance. Complete detachment. Like a Buddha. Very difficult! Because the more you care, the less likely it’s going to happen. What a paradox.
Absolutely ❤
I blocked him 😂 he gave me some weak sorry last time talking about I feel bad cause I only come around when I want something” never offered a genuine I’m sorry soooo I’m not sorry you got blocked cause you came in with the same piss poor energy.”
111 comments...❤
Thnq so much....❤
Thank you 🙏 so much. I have been looking for this answer. I’m tired of my twin coming in and going out every time. I’ve been holding for a while now. Something I have not done yet. We’re coming up to 2 months of silence. (4th year in)👩🏻🤝👨🏼❤
Thank you so much for this! I listen to it when you posted, this little test happened to me this week...and overall I think i did well ❤️
This makes so much sense
That was so beautiful 👏👏♥️♥️
Gratitude Raghida🙏
It happened to me last month. It didnt go well😅😅😅
Thanks for this important information! ❤
My dm is avoidant and he runs away everytime I show up emotionally vulnerable, he blames that I’m too emotional and emotionally unstable..and he’s made it clear that the journey is over because he can’t give any commitment. I’ve moved out of his path and I’m not even manifesting it anymore, I don’t want him if he doesn’t want me. It burns my soul but I’ll live with it than lower myself anymore.
Thank you so much...
is there a video on how to set boundaries or what should boundaries be to contain her feminine energy?
Thank you Raghida. Much appreciated insights 🙏💛🌼
I keep healing within and moving forward until his ready to come in completely I only met him once and I felt so much calmness and I Felt safe and peaceful and content and I felt deep love for him and we only had eye contact for a few minutes and then I left
But unfortunately his married so to me his off limits
I'm no longer triggered by him, and can happily go about my life without him in it - to the point where I do not wish for him to come back. I don't doubt the twin flame thing because of how this friendship triggered such a profound period of growth and that process of individuation within me - but is this normal to feel this way? To feel unbothered about whether or not he comes back into my life? I still dream of him - if anything, the dreams are more vivid than ever. But I let go when I awake and no longer live in my head. Loving this process, loving Me!
That is very helpful information and guidance
I was randomlyserved this video today minutes after my DM shared a photo of his karmic partner that normally would have been highly triggering to me. Could this be an example of the type of trigger before reunion? He has not communicated with me in months but I’ve felt his energy strongly lately. I actually felt he may communicate soon-but then he shared that photo. I was not triggered by it, which I’m super proud about and gave myself lots of self love and a pat on the back. 😊 I am so happy with my progress and wherever he is, with whomever, I send him unconditional love. ❤ I hope this message was meant for me and this is just one of the final triggers before union, but I’m not attached to any outcomes.
This message was definitely meant for you to see, and what you describe sounds like one of the biggest tests EVER! Will you see it nothing but a third party, that doesn’t exist, and they will soon be gone out of his life. Cause circumstances, time, and distance are all irrelevant🧲🧩
Mine messaged me and I said I'm doing good and on a happy place. He then said he has met someone, I said all the best and just left it at that. No more replies from me. And blocked him. Staying in my power and boundaries high up
to everyone scrolling, do yourself a favor and read forbidden manifestation by zara blackthorn. thank me later.
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Don’t feel like reading a completely ai generated book (including the authors headshot and reviews) but thank you ❤
My divine masculine how i wish you would finally show yourself to me ❤ how i wish you would come in reunion with me after 3 decades separation i hope our reunion is very soon in 3d i wake up everyday knowing every single thing i plan to invest in the long run will also come to an end i have so enough of temporary separation endings i yearn for permanency union beginnings 😢 i dont know where God is hiding 🔭🌑💔
Totally makes sense🙏💓💓💓
Mama this is sooo amazing😢... it's happening! ... 🙌♥️ that's all I'm gonna say😂❤😊
As a woman, You should be the one testing his worthiness
Listening at 444 ❤️❤️🔥🔥🥰🥰
He is she ,she is he in jesus name